Daf Yomi Shevuos Daf 32 by R’ Eli Stefansky

D [Music] Nah. [Laughter] [Music] N I go. [Music] Did he die? [Music] Oh [Music] [Laughter] yeah. It should be the learn that we're doing now for all the that are in some sort of situation right now going on. I heard there was a not such a good situation. So they should be able to rescue those who need to be rescued. Those who need should have those who need ali should have ali and we should hear surv. I hope you all had an amazing yontiff. This is going to be the fifth time I'm giving this daf. I don't know if I ever gave a daf five times. The third time that I gave it or I should say the second time I gave it was on they asked me to give it at least you know without so I said okay I'll do I'll do it without all the emails and the jokes and the stories and whatever there is all the extras just just and I think a few thousand people watched it so that was very interesting I didn't think that so many people get to it I know in Torah anytime there's like at least uh close to 700 views as of when this when this year started just on to anytime that's without YouTube and all the other platforms and he said on this bot how many came off the bot and something just on the on a on a WhatsApp bot but anyway um and I got I received Yantiff maybe over 30 emails thanking me for that cheer so I guess people they they get nervous because the twoday yontiff they want to at least something. So it was I heard a I'll just tell you real quickly why asks why is it that the tells us when PES is when sukus is but doesn't tell us he says because it starts like this he says all others and sukus were commemorating something that happened in the past when that it happened. It happened in this and this date. We're not comparing the past. We're celebrating the the today. Right now, the yo the yi right now we're accepting the and if you don't accept today, you can accept the tomorrow also. There's no day. It's not it's not based on that day. There is it's a it's a nice v. I thought it has a lot to do with us and our y. I just want to show you the um the ambassador in Staten Island gave out a cheesecake. He with his own money went ahead and me overlander bought cheesecakes for all the guys in his group that clicked in and said you know I did the d. So I encourage everybody to click in so you get a free cheesecake from me next year. But if you're in another group, it's Kadai. And these are the little things that that make the difference. And there's some we just had here uh Sherman from Telstone. He's a a superstar in terms of his group. He has 20 guys that come live in in Telstone. Plus he runs a group of Telstone. It's people that don't even come. They never came even once, but they live right there in Dao. So there are a lot of superstars. I'll get to know them all. But uh it's very kaday to be part of these groups. It's to run one run of these groups. You're running a group oh. How many guys you have in your group? 20s. Give out and then check the clicking in every day. You didn't give a cheesecake though. It's a good idea. You have a raffle. One minute. But you have a live also. Yeah. So, how many people come to the live? It fluctuates between what and what? Sometimes 10:15, sometimes 10:15. Sometimes less. Okay. But it's the same guys that are in the group or it's different. Yes. Same thing like very nice is good. It's a tremendous thing if you have these groups and they actually stick with it. We're going to get to thousand people on these groups. Just a very nice. Yeah. have a raffle for anybody who does the home without missing too many times. Wrapped them up a nice amount of money. Yeah. So for now we had a raffle for anyone who's up to date and been checking out. And who won the raffle? Yeah. Valdic. Wow. So where do you get this money from? What did he say? A free trip to the live sh. Free trip from to the live share. Beautiful. You said you said you said cost 500 shekel. It's not bad. Not bad. All right. So, the reason why the room is kind of uh emptier than usual is because most people heard this year at least once. The guys that are the regulars or maybe even two times or three times. You never know. That's why you don't see Ashi. Oshi was here. Not Ashi. Oshi was here on the He was the only one here on the half hour share. So, okay. Um, what do we have here? Oh, Mazto who's our one of our English editors and he had a baby girl over an Russ maybe I'll call ah I know he really wanted a son cuz his father was our graphic artist and his father in his 40s was Nifter during co and he wanted a son to call him after his okay what is This this guy wants to know cuz we were talking about if you have uh shattered clothing, you have uh and the other guy has a nice suit. He wants to know if a guy comes with a frack, does he have to take his frack off? It's if it's intimidating or take give the other guy a frack. Comes up. You're right. Some That's what I said. I said that it could be it's some definitely. Okay. Especially if it's a 25-year-old with a frack. He started laughing. He says he's hilarious. Okay. Um. Oh, what? What's the matter? They just they just talk too much. I don't get to hear. Wow. That's a compliment. Dave. Dave. I take it as a compliment. I don't talk too much. What happened? He took it out for the Israelis. Oh sponsored by anonymous monthly sponsors XY in honor of David Merkin of Eastern Union all spring liquid central Jersey MDY family dear friend and fellow Lakewood MD Burl anonymous in honor of Marshazzi. I wanted to but this is the first link I see for the Hebrew. You're not going to believe this. Over 950 Gimmarus were donated for the Hebrew Shia. All they're missing for their for the goal is another 50 Garus or soar will do the same for the English. We have to get at least a thousand for the English. by her grandchildren her should have an aliyah alter alter in honor of the over 20y firefighters doing the dice it's up to 20 and they're still going strong wow I was wondering I haven't heard from them in a while guys monthly of the for the whole staff to continue to make many in honor of for all the work they do. Here we go. We're holding by the Mishna. I think I skipped the Mishna on that short here. Made it shorter and they're going to have to come back now to hear the Mishna. So we're dealing with and that means if somebody sees something that he could he could testify and he doesn't testify it's applies only for monetary things not if you witness that somebody's a cen if somebody's a uh something that has to do with money. Now sometimes if somebody dies and this and that has to it's directly related to money because there's auba involved or whatever but say this is for money how does it work I want you to come testify for me and they say let me ask you a question what if nobody asked you anything what if you let's say You're you're watching somebody's thing. You're watching his goldfish. And he comes to the door. He doesn't say a word. And you say, "I swear I don't have your goldfish. That's a that's work." Yes. Is it? Let's take it to our case. I'm aid. I witness a car accident. I don't feel like going to be. I see the guy in the other car. We just started a minute ago. You just missed the emails. That's it. All the way from Yeah. Yeah. New Dave. Where's the camera? What's going Huh? He's still tired from So, here's the question. I saw a car accident. I see the guy in the car. He gets in the car. He runs after me. He He honks his horn. Roll out your window. I know what he wants. He wants me to testify for him. So before he has even a chance to say anything, I I stick my head out the window. I swear I didn't see anything. What's that? Is that is that awes? No. Why not? He has to say he has to. So that's what the mission is telling us here. As we're going to see in the there needs to be a give and a take. There needs to be a request for from who? Only one person. That's it. I want you to testify for me. And then they say we don't know anything. That's another cases. They then started off saying, "Oh, by the way, we didn't see the car accident." So he says, "Yeah, right. I swear to me that you didn't see it." And they said, "Amen." That's also as if he asked them he requested for Yeshua and they said [Music] amend this is a big the guy is very persistent he comes on Sunday could you could you testify for me we swear we don't know anything it's all outside of he comes on Monday swear we swear we didn't see it he comes on Tuesday five times in a row but in Now they're scared. They don't want to lie in bed. They say, you know, we do know testimony. Why? Because in they never denied it. They admit it. But what happens if they denied the whole thing in Oh, tremendous. Yeah. They swore five times out of Bezon. All they did is one thing. They we deny it. They didn't even swear in Bezon. All they said is we deny this those five shores. We deny. We don't we don't know anything and we find that they do five times if inside bezdon they swore five times knew what he t you can't answer it if you because you know the answer but all of you could five times in bezen how many times was only once was because it's a concept called Very good. Don't tell me you heard all the already. Good. Can't say the jokes anymore. I couldn't say the jokes. I couldn't say stories. I had to like cut stuff out. I see the same guys. You're here three times. You're better. Go home. Get a life. He's here. I'm not joking. The two guys came for the English and the Hebrew. What am I going to do? I'm stuck. I don't have different material. What am I making? Make stuff up on the go. Says the you hear this. They swore five times in they don't know. Once it's perfect. Why? testimony. So they they can't they can't say we do no testimony and they can't say we don't know testimony. They can't say anything. It's done. What is it called in English? Double jeopardy. I don't even know if there must be a better way. Once you testify in court in Bezen, you cannot come and add and take off and say I I take it back. Zero. So they said we don't know. We don't know testimony. So that's your testimony that you don't know. Okay. Now that's locked in. Could you say you do know testimony? No. Could you say it again? I don't know testimony. No, because you already said it. Finished just once. Next you have two that come and they say simultaneously. We don't know. Question. How can you say something simultaneously? It's impossible. But so that it's not together. Then it was okay. That's one of the So we make them both. But if there's a break between the two, there's only two people that witnessed this case and one of them said he doesn't know testimony. So he's now the second one comes along. He's a nobody. Why is he a nobody? Cuz he's just what could do? Huh? But that's not mist. We said the only time this is if you could if you could cause a monetary loss who says monetary loss. If the person doesn't want to be if he doesn't want to but he will and if he doesn't that's a gramma's going to talk about that and that's a if that's considered monetary loss it's called that's exactly the says this is one denies it and one says I don't deny it I know so the one that denies the one that doesn't denies there's four total two and two say we don't know any testimony they are Right. What about the second cat? The second ones also cuz now the second ones could come and testify and they they're causing a monetary loss but not let me ask you a question. Why should the first ones behave? They didn't cause a monetary loss. There's still two left. Let the two left go ahead and testify. Anybody have a terrorists? They could have no they could have. They they had enough strength themselves to monetary loss. But it's not a monetary loss. There's a thousand people. All thousand people are going to get say this. Go to the last guys. As the question, what there's not always a second cut. No, no, not always. In a case in this case, in this case, there's four. Why is the first two that deny knowing? They didn't cause a monetary loss. Go to the next two and they'll testify and there won't be a monetary loss. Deals with it. Because the could be with both of them, all four. He witnessed a car accident and then all of a sudden he sees a car running after him. Beep beep beep. The guy's going crazy, blinking the the headlights. What? He Oh, that's the guy from the accident. Okay, I know what he wants. I don't know what you're talking about. I swear I didn't see anything. You want me to testify for you? We swear we don't know any this is the case that we discussed. Why? There needs to be somebody that that that demands and then you say I don't know. In Russia, the two bakim says, one had papers. There's allowed to be there and one didn't have papers. You get caught by the KGBO. All of a sudden, they see a KGB guy coming towards them. So the bucker with the paper said, "I have an idea. I'm going to run." So I run, I look a little suspicious. He's going to run after me. Soon as he runs after me, then you you take off the other way. He runs. So the KV starts chasing chasing and he runs into the bathroom. comes out of the bathroom. He says, "What are you doing?" "You didn't see." He said, "I had a stomach ache. I run to the bathroom." He says, "But you saw me running after." He says, "I thought you also had a stomach ache." Anyway, that's what he says. There's a there's a wealthy guy. Dave, how many times did you hear this story? Listen to something else. Listen to some music or something. Whatever. So there's a wealthy guy. He comes to he knocks on the beimma. He says, "I have a lot of money and I want to share my money with a new whoever could answer this question gets to marry my daughter." He has a cash. This guy says this, "No, no, nobody knows." Okay. So he picks his stuff up and he leaves. He gets into his wagon goes. So one of the bak chases him down says, "Excuse me, sir. Sir, yeah." He says, "But what's the answer to your question?" He says that's not important. What's important is that you're going to marry my daughter. You ran after me. That means you care. Great. So I I just saw this. I'll share with you in case you didn't see it. Huh? No. You're saying it's a true story. So what what he said the story on like he was there he was his guest on the sh and he was there so he he think the same story that you're saying right now that I'm saying now so listen listen to the story it's story it's so he says that uh a guy comes into the yeshiva and he tells Rasha Roshiva give me best bakar here. I'm I'm going to support this guy. I'm going to give him I have a mansion $2 million not in every year for the rest of his life. He can be learn give me the best guy the he says the guy right over there take him. So he goes to the guy tells him the whole deal. The guy says sure I'll be your son-in-law. So he takes the guy he takes him to the to the city and immediately starts showing him off to everybody. Says this is my son-in-law. He's the el of the yeshiva mish yeshiva. He takes him to shaw and he does the rounds and he introduce him to the ro the whole thing. Six months later, the bah looks at the guy. He says, "Okay, no, enough of this." But where's your daughter? Let's I have to get married. He says, "Ah, the daughter. I don't have a daughter. I don't have a daughter." You don't have a daughter. What are you doing? He says, "What do you mean? What am I doing? All my friends have a son-in-law and they don't even have half the money that I have." But I don't deserve a son-in-law. I need a son-in-law. says, "You go ahead and you buy the best cheesecake sh and you get all the roses and the flowers and all the stuff. Where's the where's the where's the gum? Where's the that you have? You need the you have everything and what do you do on garnished?" It's a lot of people I was thinking and then I a lot of people I I'm looking at people here in this room that 365 days of this year they learned every single day of every day right Chapsi every day not a single day went by because of you not because of me because of you cuz you took it upon yourself to to to be and everybody a lot a lot of people in this room came out of everybody every single day to learn not a lot of people in class could say that so should be proud and then we k a little more next year. Whatever it is, a little bit more. Not not too much. A little bit more. Okay, that's really Yeah. So, what a guy chased you and you didn't say a word and you swore. That's nothing. We learned if you you sent it with your slave. This is not. So, this is a story. story. It's not the greatest story and a lot of why you guys are not going to like this, but it was in my previous lives. I'm going to share with you not some of you know the story already. We had a guy my I had a partner. I only had one partner basically like a day-to-day partner. I don't like partners personally ever since then. I've traveled for partners. I don't recommend partners. Some people get along with partners. Great. So, this partner insisted that we hire Willie. Willie, who's Willie? Ex-convict. He just came out of We got to got to give him a chance in life. He's a convict. So what? I'm taking full full responsibility on Willie. Gets her. I I interview him a little. He's mom. She just came out of jail. Can't put a sentence together. Whatever. Fine. You want Willie? Willie. So Willie starts doing maintenance in one of the properties. Actually, I only had one property then. So he's in the property. still have that property till today. And uh two weeks later, phone call, Willie got arrested. He's selling drugs on the property. Look at my partner. I'm just I told you fire him right away. Kids are fired. What happens in America when you fire a guy and you don't do the proper things, you get sued. So will he sues me? Now I have a No, no, no. He wasn't in jail. He just arrested. Now his time was he didn't convict me. I just got arrested and we just hired you and the So he sues me. I'm not happy. I don't want them to sue me. Sure enough, I get a letter in the mail. It says, "We find in favor of the plaintiff." Now, I went to Panovich and I wasn't sure what plaintiff means. So, I go on Google. I say and I see, oh, plaintiff means that Willie won. So, wait a minute. if I wasn't sure. What are the chances Willie knows what it means? So, I call Willie into my office. I'm nice and shy. I call Willie up. I said, "Willie, I got bad news for you." He says, "What? What? Boss man, what happened?" I said, "Come to the office." Guess he comes. I said, "Listen, look at this letter. It says we find in favor of the plaintiff. You're out of luck, my friend. You're out of luck. But I'll tell you what. If you sign over here and the dad of the lie that you won't sue me, I'll give you 100 bucks. He said, "Give me what? A free hundred bucks. Your mama's a nice guy." He tells me, "Give him 100 bucks. He signed off. Show me." A lot of people were not going to be happy with the story, but I don't know if I would do it today after I learned so much and this and that. But that is a story. I would do it for you. I would do it for you. He He sued me for no reason. You know, these are terrible. Terrible. Anyway, new widow if he punish I just hope he didn't do he's not a G or something watching something this is Willie come back and get me I would do it for you. Okay, thank you. I got you. They watch us here afterwards. He said it's Yandi for those who didn't hear him. Okay, Dave, you're on the ball tonight. I like it a lot better than when other people are up there. Okay, we're not going to go there. Okay, so get this straight. Is not is the defendant. What's the defendant getting involved there? The only one that can invoke aw is the litigant, the willy, the plaintiff. It's not the nitba has not no business asking somebody to swear. He's a Mr. Nice guy. You know, I was texting. I'm not sure if it was my fault the accident. So, you know what? If you saw it, could you testify what happened there? Get out of here. Nobody asked you. It's not your car that got damaged. It's the other guy's car. Let him ask for it. That's how it works. So, already says swear what over this bride says. So it's cash. What's the big It says over here that you need the you need the litigant to to demand the say here. Why? Because look, he he took action. He's chasing him down with a car. He's honking his horn. He's waving his hands. We know what he wants. He wants you to he wants you to to to testify. What's the difference if he said it with his mouth or not? As if he said it. No. Yeah. You got to demand it. Says this is also something we learned. It says he said with his mouth. You see you need a mouth. You need to say it with your mouth. And you have to say it. It just says, you know, that's the normal way of doing it. actually actually gonna answer at the end. It's not a it's not something that you need. You don't need to hear it from his mouth. And I'll prove it to you because that's so I'm not going to show you the video now, but we have a video of of a guy asking somebody to to watch the goldfish. And then he says he says he tells him you need to say it already establish it's only the says she just denies it that's enough to invoke. So just like it's not necessary for for him to demand. So in our case maybe it's not necessary but something doesn't make sense here in our it's important for the guy to say it and that's why in which it's not important it says it nevertheless so the Mishnas could mimic each other rebi wants to have a certain style between the mission so the kids and all the adults that read these mishnit and learn about pet they should remember them and when they have the same language it's easy to remember so you're right in In our mission, it's important to say to to to demand in that mission, it's not important. But if both of them, you don't have to say with your mouth. So what's the point of Rebi sticking into the take the word of Omar out of here? It'll be the same thing. There's no, it's not necessary. You know what it was? This is normal for people to demand the not that it's necessary. This is how it usually works. says, "I have a person sees somebody coming after him. Why you Why are you following me? I I swear I don't know anything. This is like he has to be asked to say and if he he offers it on his own, it's not story." Why? If somebody made somebody swear five times outside of bez and inside of bez you admitted that you do know you completely. inside. You deny five times. How do you know that denial has to be inside the means? If I won't testify, if he doesn't testify, he'll have a sin. It's only inside a place such as a money. Everything has to take place inside the bezdon. Ask the question if that's true then the also has to take place inside of bez. Not only the denial the itself. And what did we say? We said the fivew where were those five outside of maybe the has to be inside of that's impossible. H just want to make sure right the famous and now we learn from there. Now where exactly did it happen? Think about it for a second. We learned in the Mishna that once you testify once in Bezdon, you're locked out. You can't testify anymore. So how is it possible for somebody to use this and have five inside only one that's the max so must have happened outside of so we have a that is outside of but we also have that it happened inside of so which one is it the answer is denial happens inside of happens outside of you can't be inside more than one time but Because we learned the our he swore five times. How come it was inside? So it must be that this is coming to tell us that you could be but that's only possible outside of and the part that happens inside [Music] of I'm telling you that now it flows tomorrow also easy a lot of easy how can two testify for one thing and both this is a this is a claw in shot. Well, it's actually Mus. Can this happen? Check this out. Mayor, you'd love this. I played a lot of ball with Mayor. Mayor Dumy's a good ball player and a and a nice guy in the courts. It says something here. Check this out. Oops. What am I [Music] doing now? Did they go in simultaneously? Says according to Omar, it's impossible. It wasn't simultaneous. One hit the the hoop a millionth of a second before the other one. In fact, if you slow it down, you'll see. What's a classic example? When a a cow, a sheep gives birth to two males simultaneously, same exact second. Are they both or not? So, if you hold, it's impossible physically for something to happen simultaneously. It's always going to be a million of a second before the other then only one of them. Now which one that's your problem to figure it out and the tells you what to do but if you hold so they're both give both of them to the problem. So says how could two say testimony simultaneously if you slow down their voices with one of those this it's impossible to be exact. Huh? Oh, that's possible. Whatever the over there is, it's impossible. The says it's impossible. You can't even hear it together. So, it says um because you want to hear it. Says only if you don't like it, but if you like it. Yeah. No, but that's something else. It says that it's impossible to say. Yeah. saying that's what I'm saying. Yeah. There's two separate people here. No, because the I think is on both. You could say he's talking about that's something else. Yeah, that's what we're talking about here. Two separate people. Two separate them talking. We're not talking about the we're talking about the We talking about how do they testify? They're saying something together. They can't. Two separate people are talking at the same time, but they can't be simultaneous. One is going to finish before the other. One is going to start. One is going to start before the other. So that's on the deeper part. Not only are you hearing I'm not worried about the best hearing it because the issue is that if it's one after another then the second one is not only the first guy is the second guy is all by himself. Can't do anything. That was our little argument. Is it the but he's by himself? They're together, but they're not together. So, they want to answer the obvious thing. That's one of the That's what you answered. So, not a problem. We'll go according to that says it's possible for two to say something the same exact second. Even if you hold you can't do it together. There was there's a certain amount of time that they they're able to to talk is going to explain. Oh here the whole not the whole had an idea and I wanted to tell Yoshi to do it. Didn't happen. Didn't happen. I don't know if I'll be able to do it even if he hears now. I wanted him to to do like I had this in my mind after I heard this verd after I said it a bunch of times it became more crystal clear. Imagine what the hears when you damage say whatever you're thinking about in the middle of so imagine you say wow I wish I would have bought that apartment when it was cheap two years ago I would have been a millionaire today I'm going to smack that kid so hard after that and then So it goes like this. I wish I would have bought that apartment. That's what it is. It's not like here's until that ver I always thought okay this is then there's my silly in middle I'm spacing out. I'm flying to the safari coming back the whatever. No it's in between the words and he also hears all these that coming through your brain. It's a new It's a new It's a new gather. It's very interesting. It's scary stuff. I wanted to put in there like I was going to tell Yoshi. Stop spacing out about keep on going. Keep on dabbing. Keep on control that add man. Like it's all in there. It's all t's typed up. It goes in there. You got a transcript. Huh? Transcript. Exactly. That's what I wanted to show a guy what's going on. Like this is what Hashem hears like a whole like that that whole line in the bottom of the TV screen going through you know you can do some really cool stuff anyway say that yeah the don't believe in that stuff yeah it's okay you wanted to maybe don't think during answer you don't I don't know. I don't know if everybody can handle twice in a week. I know. The matab is the from start coming every day. No, it's too early in the morning is not my dream. Happy night in Hebrew. You want to go for that? You want to learn Hebrew? Okay, we've got to get a little learning done here. We got all night. Yeah, that was last night. No, but he's not he does he does two days. He does two days. No, I don't. He does two days. The learning part the learning part of the learning every day. Yeah. No, the whole nighter. You do all night like Okay, fine. We'll talk about it. Okay. If you say within a few words, then it's considered like you did it together. What is the when tells his three words, four words? But the problem is or less words because the Reb is talking to the how many words is this is one is two this total of six. How do you stick in six words in the time that it only takes to say four words? It's impossible. Oh. [Music] It's more it's six words is more than four. All you have to do is start it. So when the guy finishes his adus, which by the way is probably an issue that you just what you said before, it's probably an issue. Two Adam can't testify together. They can't both say it's not good for the bez. But anyway, so one says it and immediately within two seconds the second one says it. We had a today we had a situation by dabing I know I my entire life I stayed up the whole is a big thing but because I I give shir room and everything I can't sleep and besides I got up early you know so I just couldn't stay up like 3:00 I was so I d in the 8:30 minion I got to tell you was the largest minion the schul had the entire year I'm not exaggerating I'm not even exaggerating there's a lot of people there good guys a lot of people what they do is they actually go to sleep at about 3:00 and they get up for this minion. It's not like people that go to sleep at 8:00 at night and whatever. People a lot of a lot of people they don't they want to den I would recommend for people just to go all the way to Shak which is was 409 and sleep from 409 either to the second or to the cuz the night is over at 409. You don't have to go all the way to netsly technically. Okay. Anyway, but they started the minion a little bit later than usual. Usually started at 8:20. started 8:30 and and I didn't realize but but the was Meni he didn't real was 9:06 now to 9:03 his you know so I went over to him no you only have 3 minutes to 9006 a lot of people don't realize you have to finish at 96 you don't start this is starting just remember here I don't know if everybody knows that when Krishma says 96 you have be done with really that was in the mirror. I don't think we passing that. Anyway, I think this first maybe there's a that says it and I saw straight out people you know the ones that going long in they went past that thing. So over here all you have to do is start. You have two. The first guy says I swear I don't know he's the second guy is potter. Why is the second guy potter? Because he's worthless. He can't do anything. Says the one aid is worthless. So he's not. He says you are why perhaps here's he's not coming for money. The say this is a monetary thing and not for not for just to be a that says, "Oh, I should have shown you. I was holding these charts up here and like in the olden days I had to print it all out and big A3 paper thick like in the good old days before we had the screens before you vom." So this is saying that cannot he's going to learn this can't charge somebody for malus he can't be but money he could so this is I recommend getting a start in it 176 aid So it goes like this. It's a bunch of words here and the is going to explain all of them. Everybody admits with one everybody with two. In other words, everybody admits by one that we're going to explain everything. But anyways you see from here holds that one for why does it mean? So the explains we have to we have to say that everybody admits that when when aid comes and testifies he's is not money. So then what's I don't know if I did that as a probably not. Oh, I did. Here it is. If I cause it's a causation. It's not a direct. I didn't take money away from you. I didn't I'm not testifying about somebody stealing from you money. I'm testifying that you have to swear. And if you don't swear and a lot of people don't like to swear even if it's true because he's saying Hashem's name you only say it's very very so they rather give $100 into to to say Hashem's name and this and that. So I'm causing you to lose money. Oh okay. No that's not is that yes according to one. Yes. No. That's exactly. So now let's just explain what we just read here. Oh, now we're going back. The two lines from the bottom. Everybody admits with one aid by So, let me just show you real quickly. What's a is a woman who whose husband is concerned that she's she's having relations with another man. They come and they tell her that he tells her That's she finds but they witnessed that the husband said don't seclude yourself with that guy. That's called kin. The next step is they witnessed that she went and she was mad with him. They didn't see what happened. They saw the two of them go into a room. That's called ster. But there's one more thing here. This is this is what he did for steer. Basically, he said like he he's showing that she doesn't care. She stuck her tongue out that she fights the you know the nose. That's not okay. So, let's put it all together. Oh, thank you. Somebody put a one, two, three there. That's you. Very nice. You heard this here long enough. I wish I put a one, two, three. Step one is a warning. Step two is seclusion. there sometimes you have the third one that he literally witnessed one aid witnessed a nisser happening okay so now now that we know this everybody admits that one aid is why we're talking about say this what is what does money have to do with all this because if you could prove that she was that she was she loses her we might not kill because there's no two witnesses, but she loses her exuba. So, it's a monetary loss for the husband. If you don't want to testify, who's losing money here? The husband. Cuz when he divorces her, he has to payuba. He This guy could have saved him. It's thousands of dollars. How about what? He witnessed the belie I have a case you have two in the case of and they do not cause a monetary loss. What's the case? Step one step one is so far removed from losing a kuba because you still need to get to step two and then then she could still drink the water and and prove herself not guilty. The kids are it's two steps removed next bay. Let's do the turning of the daff especially that he came all the way from betar come every day from betar I know but uh at nightation LC 12:00 at night now it's literally 12 a.m. for learning a dark globe making answering great again questions great again anonymous said how' it get so late I don't know what's the step two over there they're only causing a monetary loss causing is not monetary loss. It is a monetary that's two cases. So it goes like this. If lent money to mayor and you want mayor to swear, the problem is mayor has a bad history. He swore a few times, not in real life. Okay, this is all pretend. He has a bad reputation when it comes to swearing. Now he's not going to be able to swear. We're not going to allow him to swear. So who swears? He can't swear and you want the money. What do you do? You have to swear. We take the give it to you. Now what's interesting is what happens if you can't swear either. You both have you both have bad reputations. Deadlock. So it's not deadlock. You give him the swear. He can't give it back to you cuz you can't swear. So he's responsible and he can't swear. He has to pay. It's a little tricky. Like you can make a trick like you find a guy that that has a bad reputation. You have a bad reputation. You just accuse him of you giving him $1,000. Now he can't swear. Well, he has to be to some of it. So, it doesn't really work. Okay. So, let's see inside. [Laughter] He's a great guy. You should buy apartments from him. You moving? Yeah. Okay. He has a lot of apartments to sell. man. He lives in America like most of the time or how how many half the year? He has a place over there cuz he's busy selling Americans apartments there. He does like whole projects here. His brother is the dami that sits right over here next to me. That's his brother. I like everybody. It's all good. Yeah. Everybody admits if the guy sitting across from you has a bad reputation with the who? If the borrower mayor is the borrower, he we we have we we we're concerned with the way he has a bad reputation when it comes to so now you say if you Ellie could testify on my behalf you would have sworn you would have taken the money from him by me not not testifying I'm doing you wrong I'm making you lose money so therefore I should be but I could Not everybody likes to swear. I know many people that don't swear. Even when even if I would testify, you wouldn't swear. So I didn't make you lose money. You wouldn't have sworn anyway. Both of you have a bad reputation. In that case, it goes to him. It bounces back from him to you. And you who have better days, it goes right back to him. Now he has to deal with the Since mayor can't swear because he has a bad reputation he has pay another case this is a famous case that the know from there was a a certain individual that that took a a bar of silver right out of his friend's hand walked over to him grabbed it also So they went to the to and happened to be there. The guy that it was taken from, he proved he has a one witness that saw it happen. Now what would have happened if two Adam saw you grabbing the bar of silver out of mayor's hand? You'd have to give it right back. Why? Because we can't have a society where people grab things from people in front of other people and then then you'll say, "Oh, I grabbed my own thing." Well, too bad. There's two of them. Give it back. Now, if there's no Adam at all, not even one, we we would believe you. Why? Because even though you admit that you stole it, you took it out of his hand. But you could have said, "I didn't I don't know the guy. I never saw him. It's mine." So, the fact that you admitted to it, that's called amigoi. We trust you 100%. The problem here, what I'm saying, the problem here is that there's one witness that saw it. So, a lot of the stuff falls away. It's not two. It's not zero. It's one. What do you do now? What's your question? When you went into the girl's dorm to take your daughter's thing back. Yeah. It was yours and you took it back. So, that's that's of everybody should go and ask the R. I don't I don't recommend it. It was before before I gave Shir in your previous life. Um, would I do the same thing today? No. I would do it for you. You would do it for me. You should have said Willie it. Um, no. Not because I don't believe in it. Just I don't want to get a bad rep, you know? I got to give my shear. I'll do it for you. Besides, I got caught on video. It's fine. I'll take it. Really? Really? The head of the seminary called me up. He wasn't happy with me. I'll talk to you. But we played ball in the blind center for years. He's a Schllock rock fan. And you know, everybody is. Okay. I'm not going to tell you what I think about Slack, right? No, I'm just kidding. He rocks. Okay, says so. Sorry. I don't know what to do here. I'm stuck. Deadlock to make the guy give back the bar of silver. I can't like a trace. We don't have two witnesses. Lift the rate to let him off the hook completely. But we have one witness that he took it and so there's no there's no mig swear that it says given once he admits that he went to the girls dormatory and took all his daughter's clothes back with the label say he looks like a like a thief a thief can't can't make a famous so he the guy grabbing it he has to give He can't. Oh, terrible story. Guy witnessed a husband dying. They were in Europe together. He saw him on a trip. He died. He fell off the the cruise ship. He saw with his own eyes. He can go and tell the wife, "Hey, I I w I saw your husband die and therefore she'll get auba. It all has to tie back to money." We said, "This is all money. It's all about money." So by him not testifying, he's making her lose the $20,000 Sububa, whatever. Somebody that was divorced, he came to Shir, he said he only had to give his wife $4,000 today. Whatever it is, $5, $10,000. Okay. He's making her lose money. But how come madeup? What's the case? How come? So here's the way. It's a Mishna over there. Huh? That's because of Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We're talking about the special over there. That a woman is believed. Listen to this. If you heard from another witness that somebody else owes money, you can't go and testify on behalf of anybody. Who are you? You heard it from it's hearsay. It's aid. One aid from another aid doesn't work. But in this case, if you read this, I don't know if you could. It says you can marry off a woman. We're very very when it comes to letting another woman because also there's the over whatever the is with David, you just say this. Dave, say the mis from up there. The mice is that I started saying all this know the story. He was going into a surgery, a very complicated surgery. And he said, "Stop. I I need to take care of business." He went to the side and he wrote up a chuva and then he said, "Okay, I'm ready." It took him a few hours. So, what's this? He said there's a woman who's in auna and I want to be m to her and he's concerned that if he goes into surgery he might not come out of surgery alive and then she'll be stuck. So it's very important to him to get rid of this to to to get it over with. Okay fine. So what's the case? The case is interesting. It's it's a one I don't know if there's any other time in sh like this that the aid tells the woman in private not in front of anybody not he tells her I saw your husband fall off the cruise ship I saw with my own eyes she could take that information and get married with that information there is a paid this hearsay when it comes to her so by him telling her he's off the hook you can't tell me oh how come you didn't testify I did I told the woman let her take care of business. So you can't he doesn't have to bring a carbon. But what if he kept information to himself now and he says I don't know any testimony now he would have to bring a carbon. That's the next case. But first let's finish this one this if a woman just says I know for a fact that my husband died she get married based on her own testimony or valley my husband died. She could she could marry her brother-in-law. Now what's the other case? How come he made me everybody admits when it comes to one one witness that he is what? We didn't he kept the information himself. So now she can't get married based on it. So that's why so now every is guaranteed by what? By property. So you see that even though it's real estate by you not saying testimony about something that's connected to real estate you still have to bring a carbon that's not a deal with maybe it's a case where this has a guarantee based on movable object why could she grab the guy's computer and his bike whatever she did there's no there's no guarantee for with with real estate it's only in a case this particular case was a case where she grabbed stuff Where are we trying to get to? To to end this. Okay, so let's do it quick. I like that Greenspan guy. I don't know if you know him, but he says, "I'll knock that kifer out." He has a whole thing. You don't know about Greenspan. You guys know the guy that has these uh these WhatsApp things. He's a funny guy. I think he actually doesn't share. So if he does, send us one of those. And one of his like he always says, "I'll knock that kifer out." That's his thing, his line. So you don't know, you don't know. Those who don't know Jewish defense like no he talks about all thing one admitted one denied that he he knows any testimony and the other admitted that he does know so the one that admitted that he the one that denied has to bring a carbon the other one not says I don't understand we said if both deny even if they both deny only one of them has to bring a carbon the other one doesn't have to So if one denies and the other one admits, of course only one of them brings a what happened was they both denied and the other one admitted and the is that it's considered it's a big that usually is great but over here he's reversing from black to white. He said, "I don't know." And now he says, "I do know." His mom is saying he did a 180 in his still works. Says, "We have a nice chart for this one over here." Real quickly, remember we had a case of the two. What do we ask on that? How could two say witness together? What do we say? Or was there according to now what are we saying in this case it's talking about so works out beautifully according to one is one but in the case of what was the other over there we said so now so saying the same what's going on Why didn't any repeat myself two purples? A green and a purples give but two purples no good. Okay. I would say when you have one after another there's no maybe when a guy admits and and reverses everything that he said before. Maybe that's not a good turkey durai. Have a good a great night. We'll see you tomorrow. Wow. 12:13. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor Ashir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor atmop.com.