Daf Yomi Shevuos Daf 28 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning boys. Oh, maybe I'm in the wrong thing. No, I'm in the right thing. voice. Just the wrong chart here. Do not say this, Rabbi. Don't say this one. So, I promise to show this. We'll be instead of emails or we'll do both. We have 15 minutes for both. Um, this is it started in Brahas. I said something in sheer which touched the nerve with official gross from Baltimore and it's be it became his thing his saying the golden dove golden dove so every time he has a grandchild or something he says the golden dove the golden dove and um he's been with us since brahas and he's been a tremendous supporter and here he went without took his own money and made and put this together raisai here you go raisai you have to remember says, "A fascinating story with an amazing life lesson says the Gmorra was on a in a convoy in a caravan. He was he's on the way. He was on the bus. He ate bread and he forgot and he didn't bench and he said, "What should I do? If I tell them the truth, I tell them I forgot to bench. So, they're going to tell me, the bus driver is going to say, "I'm not stopping." Bench was everywhere. Don't you believe that? Bench right here. I might as well just make up a story. Tell them I lost. I left in the rest stop. I left my golden dove. Very valuable dove. I got to go back. You got to stop the bus. So he told them, "You have to wait for me." Stop immediately. I left my golden [Music] dove. Says the stopped. He got off. He benched. And sure enough, he found the golden dove. So I want to ask you, has it ever happened to you? You find out that your neighbor is not doing so well. So, you take an envelope, you fill it with cash, you go at night, you put it by the door, ring the bell, and run. And as you're running, you trip over a golden dove. Or better yet, you get into bed late at night, you're exhausted, you're under the blanket, and all of a sudden, I forgot to dra forgot to do the da. And there's two options here. You could either mumble it under your pillow and pretend you're saying keshma. Your wife, what are you doing over there? I'm saying kisheshma. Or you get out of bed, you get dressed, you get in your car, and go to sh. And as you're going to sh you trip over a golden dove. Has it ever happened to anybody? It's happened to me. And I want to tell you at Boyisai, it's happened to every single one of us because, you know, we're we're we're raising money for our neighbor that lives literally 10 ft away from here. He hasn't had children for over 20 years. We're building a mikvah for his the when we have a child or in my case a grandchild. That's our golden dove. When we do a good business deal, we flip a house, make some money, it's our no that's our golden dove. Your daughter gets engaged. Golden dove. Raan was on his course. He saw the golden dove right there. And then we just have to open up our eyes. The golden dove is right here. We just have to open up our eyes. It's good. What? Stark. The golden dove. That's why it's such a big part of this year. Everybody, we have good news. Harry Belly, when you're in the US, consider this your invitation to fly in the MDY jet. I guess he has a jet. Golden dove. The flying dove. The flying golden dove. I don't I don't I think I said this in the Hebrew, but we were talking about Col. I remembered my my mutin came to uh Mala's father came to visit a few days ago and I remembered that by the I got a naly and I said matana but I never gave the sham mata so I said do me a favor take this because if you you know you promise you promise so he sent me the receipt here I wasn't sure if he pocketed it or one last one we'll do Good morning. Very good. You know that from today until the seashas is exactly two years. Two years to the seash. We've been here for five and a half years in this room. Five and a half years ago we moved in here. Anonymous. The monthly actualized in honor of David Mkin of Eastern Union and all the Silver Springers weekly sponsor anonymous for his father Lakewood Central Jersey MDY family handler son of our dear friend and fellow liquid MD wire. And first of all, I have to say tremendous tourist from Chicago a very very he gave me something that you can't really give to another person, but he gave it to me. First of all, he gave me like a 20-y old battle that he's holding in his house. And when you have a battle for so long, so he gave it, but much more important than that. There's very few of them. And for a labure, it's the to the highest thing. He gave me a dollar that he received from the Reb. So, why do you think she so much? And he's I have a rough time when I'm in Chicago. the you know you know my my struggles in Chicago and he comes and he's the he's the face of the shar so um I saw we have some guy what's your names over there mentor this is my son what's your last name mentor you're from Florida no he's from Florida who's from Florida I heard I don't know I don't know you but I heard that you're very active on the retention groups over there I was told to I was told to to make a whole matzah no just shop them out you know I'll give a Okay we Got a shout out for Florida retention. How's it going? How many guys you have? You have a minion? Yeah. Yeah. I don't quote me, but I think around 50 5. Wow, that's very nice. Floors is great. Okay. For what you do and you're the father. Where do you live? Mati. I I work with the yeshiva there. We met once. Oh. Um I'm the substance abuse counselor. Oh, that's right. Yeah. I had an issue so I came to you. So what? You came to my you came you came to my house that time? You were in my house. Very nice. It's okay. Now I remember. Who else we have? Any other guests? Any guests here? Oh, that's a guest Manchester. Danski from Manchester for coming. Wow. Manchester representing. Okay. Art of the month. That's where we're holding MDY kids. of the month for and the whole MDY staff to continue to make joy for so many in honor of all the work they do. I got to tell you I wasn't sure if I should say or not say but I'm going to take out some details and I can tell you this for me it's a brought this yesterday I in the morning I was supposed to have a certain meeting and uh the guy showed up late. We're doing construction in our house. He showed up late and ate up half of my morning sader. So I didn't get to do B when I learned I like to learn before and then I learn with so I didn't get to do B. show up here and he starts saying uh what bread has a and but if you have the so goes on the second one the second was a but the first one is amaz therefore okay fine so I'll learn it later I had another meeting I never had so many meetings ever I don't know what I did I forgot about all these meetings this guy shows up late again and it goes so I said okay I have to copyright in a little uh snap so I go to sleep 45 minutes later my wife wakes me up. She says, "No, I'm fixed." And some other guy are here. You have a meeting with them. So, fine. So, I get out and they sit in my house for quite a bit of time and it's already much later than I usually start. So, I start learning and then I get a text message from a certain individual saying that they're here in Bamesh and they'd like me to come meet them. And this was a Indian of Shalom Shalom, a real true people that haven't spoken in many years. And I'm looking at myself. I said, I didn't prepare yet. I just didn't prepare, but I got to do this. It's a one time, once in a lifetime opportunity. So I I spoke to I said, I I don't know what's flying here. I don't know. I didn't look at that bay yet. I it seemed a little bit confusing. I'm sure I could uh you know wing it, but I got to go to this thing. You're going to have to give shar today. Fine. That was my thing. And I go to this place. And at the place, my brother-in-law is there. He's a big uh rabbi leader. Learned by him for a bunch of years. He's a big bish. And he says, "Did you see today's daf?" I said, "Yeah, yeah, yes." He said, "It's very confusing. on his face. No. Like, what are you talking about? He says, "What? You didn't see yet?" He says, "You have to give Shir in like an hour." I was like, "But I got to be here." And he starts telling me, "No, it's not a big deal. It's just this, this, that, and that." And so, I'm I'm like the whole time. And then I I apologize to everybody over there. I said, "Listen, it's been nice. I got to go." And I left my wife there and I run home and I'm like, just the pressure. Anyway, to make a long story short, after she can't make this stuff up, Benny was here. After she this this kid, Iron Cover, comes over to me. He says, "That was probably the best shear I ever heard. It was so it was so easy. It was so Two people came over me to say that." And I'm thinking to myself, this is this is going to be the worst she ever. The worst. It was like a And I I I came I said, "I have to get shar." And I was the first time I was considering pushing off the shear by an hour. I had to do what I had to do. Like he gave Yoshi some ideas and I was just going by the bay in it months as to what you worried about. No, today we're going to finish. We're going to finish the everything. Ahmed Baze everything. We're going to get catch up. This is it right here. All right. So, let me ask you some questions. We learned in the Misha. Let's just start the M. I'm going to ask you a bunch of riddles here. The first line in the Mishna. We're not going to do the whole Mishna. A person makes three on one loaf of bread that he's not going to eat it. He's only one. Why? Cuz once he makes one, then I'm not going to eat this loaf of bread. Then you cannot make another on it. It's already so you adding another shu. It's already you can't add another isser. Here goes the riddles. You ready? What if I make a schwah that I didn't eat bread? Not that I'm not going to eat bread. I make aw. And two minutes later I say and I'm going to make awah that I didn't eat bread. And then I make another that I didn't eat bread. How many are you? One or three. What? Anybody? Anybody want to take a guess? And if I say I make I'm not going to eat bread. And then I say I'm not going to eat bread. And I say I'm not going to eat bread. It's nothing. You only you can't add. And what if I say I didn't eat bread. I didn't eat bread. I didn't eat bread. How many? Who says three? Who says one? Any ones? We have any ones? One. What? It's probably three. But it feels like a one. Feels like a one. Okay. So the answer is it's three. It's three cuz every single time that you say you're lying again and again and again. The first case is different that you didn't add anything. The second case when you say I didn't eat it's done. Okay. Next case. A person swears he's not going to eat nine apples and then he swears that he's not going to eat 10 apples and he goes ahead and he eats 10 apples. Is he anything additional because he made a second? say the answer is no. He's not anything because by the time you get to 10 you're already nine. He already said I'm not going to eat nine. So 10 is is is definitely also answer. So when he said 10 it's nothing. So let me ask you what if he made it that he's not going to eat 10 apples and then he made a he's not going to eat nine apples. Is he is he more or it's the same thing? So you're wrong again over here. He said 10. So you only when you get to 10 and when you get and when he makes another that he won't eat nine. So now he's even before. So he added the second added. That's we just did that much of B 10 lines of B. And exactly how you got confused. That's how one brother Apha confused his other brother Aimi. He was confused. He kept on saying no, no, yes, no. So we just did a whole. So now we don't even have to do so much. It's half of says the in the Mishna. It says, "Why does it say in the Mishna?" Two different types of words. There's different wording. No, I didn't. I just said the Mishna. Now we said, didn't we say the Mishna yesterday? Oh, we didn't learn the Mishna. Okay. I thought we learned it yesterday. He swore three times in the same loaf of bread. So now we could look at the but you the uses different and then the Mishna switches it should say three times that's question or should say why does it mix it up which means the same thing basically we think but a different wording says the only one why very simple cuz once you made I'm not going to eat this bread this bread is user to you now you cannot not add any more to that. This is what we call something similar to this and everything else that we learned up until now. If you do it on purpose, very important to remember this for today. Sometimes means if you do it on purpose sometimes means you're if you do it by accident there's something else called here the famous in the oh it's not It's for only if you do it on purpose says why is it a different language says like this check this out. Oh means I won't eat any of it even even one means I'm not going to devour the entire thing. Yeah. Again is the whole thing is so makes a huge difference it's because he said I'm not going to eat a kaz first. So he's over immediately once he starts eating this piece of bread and he ate a kaz he's over. The fact that he added, "I'm not going to eat the entire bread," didn't add a thing. But if the opposite is true, if he said, "I'm not going to eat a whole bread." He's only when he eats two pounds of bread and not if he eats one pound of bread. So now that he added the second that I won't even eat a small amount, the second does have a place to take effect. He would be too because the first only makes him eats the entire thing. The second makes him even when it's a small piece. So the second would be twice the entire thing because he's already the first does the entire job. So he didn't add anything with the second that's why he's one if he starts off the reverse that he's not gonna eat the entire thing then he says I won't eat a small part then he would be like says when you use the it means as soon as you get to the you're right away if a person says I won't eat the entire thing then he's only needs the entire thing says the ask the why do I need three I get the idea the idea is if you say two it's like one so if you say 25 it's like one 27 is like one so why does the Mishna keep on repeating itself uh three what do I gain by that I want to tell you if I would have just said two cases. So you understand that the second one doesn't apply once there's a first shu. I want to tell you more than that. I want to tell you in fact all the that you say apply themselves somewhat. They lay dormant. They sit there waiting. They don't apply themselves to you right now. You're right. You don't have to bring a carbon for three only for one. But they didn't go to waste. What happens if you get the first one anulled? The first one goes fifen. Then the second one pops up and says here I'm here. You made another you got to go to the rabbi again. And let's say I get two of them in old. So the third one pops up. They lay dormant. That's the that they lay dormant. Okay. That's a nice fancy. It wakes up literally lays there doing nothing and then when it's needed it comes. It's not it's not in vain. It's not stop. It's there. If it finds a little space to to to appear and show its um you know self then it'll come it'll be and what's the like says if a person goes to the rabbi and he says I didn't really mean to do asking different questions and he says you know what I'm enllulling retroactively but he only said that on the first one he forgot that he made three also then the second one could rear its ugly face and get you. Oh, I have a but a lot of times, well, many times or all times, the lema means maybe I have a riot for you. So that means it's not a riot. Maybe it's a riot. What's the riot? A person says, "I'm going to abstain from all grape products. I'm not going to drink wine, even if it's 20-year-old bottle. I'm not gonna I'm not gonna take a haircut. I'm not gonna go to any funerals. So, how long a person doesn't say how many days he wants to be a nazer? He could be like in this picture over here then these for life. But if he says he's a regular nuzer that lasts only for 30 days. So a guy accepted upon himself tuner tuner. He said I want to be a nuzer twice. So how long is he going to be in for? 60 days. Now at the end of each term, let's say a person is in for 30 days. At the end of the term, he has to go to Bdash. And there's a whole long process. I'll show it to you soon. To bring aim and this and and then he has to shave his head. We'll see it all. And burn his hair under the pot of the and then bring up down guy. A guy who has two terms of neros. How many times does he have to bring carbonas? Does he bring it all the way at the end of 60 or at the end of 30 and and at the end of 60? What do you guys say? Every 30. Every 30 you say. Anybody argue with him? Anybody argue with that? Hill didn't say it's not. You You got to ask him. He's right. It's not. He's right. It's one of those new. So at the end of 60 he's finished in his after 60. Let him bring No. every 30 days he has to bring carbonas. So a guy he counted the 30 days and then he brought his carbonas he didn't bring it to the bas he put it on the side he said hey I'm bringing carbanas and then he goes to and he gets a out of it out of the first one listen to this also the second hisus lays dormant so so to speak here it's Right? If you get rid of the first one, then the second one jumps in and takes over and all the carbonas you brought for the first one actually go for the second one. You don't have to do anything. Now you don't have to be in Nazar anymore. You were in Nazar for 30 days. So that will apply itself to the second. The first and zer you got a head from the rabbi to get out of it. So you don't need to do first and zeros. So here you have the same thing. You have two shas. You got rid of the first shwa. Second sha steps in over here. You got rid of one of zeros. So the second is zero steps in only after the 30 days meaning even if whenever whenever let's say let's say you got a head there in middle of the 30 days. So whatever you did it goes for the second school was only that I'll start a second after 30 days. I'm wondering if it cuts in at day 15 when you initialize shown up or if you have I don't I don't I don't see why you have to wait says you're going to do two years now the first one is this. So this instead of it's instead of what do you mean here you see that day one counted for day one of the second is yours. What's the difference when you start? Says not a good no matter what. The second nazirus is going to it's not dormant. It's not similar to literally lays dormant, doesn't do anything. This second is going to happen whether you like it or not. He's going to have to do the second ner. Let's say he didn't go to the he did 30 days. He has to start doing the second one. So the second one is not laying dormant. The second one is very very alive in a well. If you didn't go there, you have to do the second one. So the second one is is there and alive. So we don't see this idea of something laying dormant. But over here when you made a first, the second has zero. Doesn't apply to all. If you made us, you swore you're not going to eat this donut. You're on a diet. I swear I'm not going to eat this donut. And you ate it. But if you left over one small amount of a of olive worth for that amount, you could even go to the rabbi and say, "Listen, I didn't really mean to swear on a donut. I didn't realize how good they are." Blah blah blah. And he'll say, "Okay, you're out of it. If you finish the entire donut, why you're ready? How can you get out of it?" You can't do an a and then go to the and say, "Hey, take me out of the you already finished the whole you already. What in the world happened there?" Huh? Yeah. Yeah. Oh. Oh. Oh, that's exactly what happened there. We need to understand. If he said, "I'm not going to eat a small amount of," right? What is the difference between? Remember this picture over here means I won't eat a small amount means I won't eat the entire thing. So we have to understand what happened there I won't eat a small amount. Wait a minute. How can you go there? As soon as he ate a small boom if he said I won't eat the entire piece of bread the entire donut the entire bread. So then so what if you even without leaving a kazayun even if you left one crumb on the floor it's not it's not a you could go why do you need a kaz why do you have need it said I'll eat the entire thing I'll give you a famous story a true story where an Arab told his wife he's really upset he said if I finish this cookie and you don't prepare my cup of coffee you're divorced Now by Arabs saying it divorces you don't need to write again you just say it tala tala tala whatever the house get out of my house get out of my house okay he said it three times whatever the story is and of course she didn't prepare the coffee quick enough and he finished the cookie and then he had kar like what do I do now so he runs to the muti and the mi says I don't know what to tell you you're done she's divorced now to bring her back now you have to do seven cows and sheep and goats and the He does what? He said, "You know what? Go to the rabbi." His name was something like that in Syria. A real story. It's a true story. So he goes to the RV and the says, "Let me let me ask you, what kind of cookie was it?" What kind of cookie? This is a cookie. It was like this. He says, "Okay, listen. I'm sure if you ate that cookie, some crumb fell on the floor. So, you didn't eat the whole cookie. You said I'm going to eat the whole cookie. You have to go to back to the house and look for those crumbs. until you finish those crumbs. She's not divorced because you didn't finish the whole cookie. Meanwhile, tell her to make you a cup of uh coffee and she'll make you a cup of coffee. We have a seat over here. And and this Arab was so excited that nine months later became a g. And uh no, that's not part of the story. and he opened up says now so we had a question did he did he did he swear he's not going to eat the entire thing is did he swear that he's only going to eat he's not going to eat some of it either way what's this kaz doing here so you know what I could answer you any way you want it's not such a good I could answer you both both cases he said I'm not going to even eat smoke his or I'll tell you an answer. He said, "I'm not going to eat the entire thing." He said, "I'm not going to eat." Yet, he could still go to the ask. Think about it. When a person makes a he says, "I'm not going to eat a small amount." Every small amount that he eats, he's every small amount. So, even the last last kaz that's that's left over, it's also for him to eat. So he could go to the Ra and say listen this last Kazay I didn't mean to eat I didn't mean to make a shu on it and the RV forget what he ate the Rav could look at this kazay and say okay this kazay is mut for you to eat the r could anull it oh once he enols that last kaz then retroactively the whole thing becomes an you can't just say this kazay is al is mut then the whole thing became poof that's why you need a kazhat No, no. He said he's not going to eat the entire bread. But if he only left over a small crumb, you can't go to the r on a small crumb. It doesn't work on a small crumb. Hey, could you could you my nether I did on a it's microscopic crumb. No, you need something. You need something like it's not the reason why you're right. You didn't you weren't until you eat the entire thing, but you can't get it anulled completely until so exactly what it means here. But okay, let's go. Does it mean that it that he'sing or that he can't go to? Fine. And we just learned it today. A person said he's going to be a he's not going to drink wine, but he didn't explain how how long. But he said two two terms. So two terms means 60 days 30 plus 30 he did 30 days he didn't take a haircut for 30 days and like like uh told me he says you always ask what what happens if you find out you're a guy what you do he says I would shave during some people it really bothers them 30 go 30 days without shaving and he said I don't want to I didn't want to do the nazir is the first one also Oh, so what do you see over here? Zero. You hear say zero was left over from the first term. He did 30 days. It's like literally like like finishing the whole thing like there's nothing left over. And it says, "Even though the the first term is completely out of this world, I could go to the rabbi and enul what I already did and it's gone and and have the second one be instead of it says since the guy didn't bring his mdash, he's not done with the first term. It's as if the first term is still there. of a tiny keeper. It's a nice tribe, but it says mu for the bright. He did bring his curb on us. Oh, okay. You know what? Bish gil. Let me just show you real quickly. So, this is some of the process just to this is in the olden days. So, you know, technology got a little bit better since then. You you sh the schlamim and you put it in the schlamim pot and then the the nuzzer shaves his head with a a razor blade. And you take the here. I'm scared to click it. He takes the here and he puts it under the pot. That's what he does. Then he goes and he shs the kas. Then he then he has to cook the katas. Then he has to be. So there's three carbonas. Then he does. Okay, that's not important. Fine. This all it's a whole thing. Yeah, says Gomorra. He missed one of the steps. He didn't shave his head. So, he didn't shave his head. He didn't shave. Then he's still part of the nazir. The nazir is still here. It's not It's like like he left a kaz left out of the bread. It's still there. It goes like that says that if you don't shave your head, you are still you were kind in. So he's still there says whoa nice try again there's another right say that he did shave raashi he ask me a question from if you don't go there so why what what happened the first one took place not the second one so now that you know the first one you vain it's not here anymore So basically what he's saying is that the second one was there. It's working. It's very different than bread not being there at all. The second one is always in the background says no talking about he ate the entire bread but there's something else missing here. carbon either he did it by mistake and the person who swears and breaks aw mistake has to bring a carbon so he's still part of it so what if the bread is not here it's like ner still didn't cut his hair so something's missing and if he did it on purpose he has to get malus and therefore it's as if it's still here but once you tie this guy on a beam that's it it's all over why because here is a guy tied to the beam Take a look at this. If they're giving him, they bend him over and and he runs away potter. Why is he potter? Anybody remember last night? One guy remembered. Why is he potter? Wow. The Americans are doing better. You got the bushes. He said the venic. It says in the p that you hit him to give him bushes to embarrass him. You don't have a It's tremendous bushes when you're tied to a beam, especially when you have to run down a flight of stairs and and they're running after you and and trying to get you. What? So nice. If they if they if they whatever, you know, imagine a rashiva the long beard and this whole frog and he's running like a baby. It's a It's a busha. What? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. We said if he goes to if he goes to the bathroom and he had an accident. Exactly. Say no. You missed one step is not enough. Tying is bases but not enough. You got to run. The running is the big part of the bush also says the gimm. So let's let's uh just a little over here. The whole suga is basically two cases and there's there's a couple of very simple rules. First rule is here. I'll show you the rules. Rule number one is that when you're making the you need to know you're making a what if you don't know you're making the by mistake you made the you didn't know what you're doing that's not aw it's gone. So if there is a shig on the first part of Yeshua, throw it out the window. Toss it. Nothing happened. Why? It says in the famous P that we spoke about a lot good bad you have to be a human being. A guy that doesn't know it's flying. He's sleeping. He's he's drunk. He's not aware. That's not means you have awareness. Okay. So rule number one is that you have to know. So if if there's a any case that starts with the ra toss. Now if we are talking about two loaves of bread one is the one that I'm saying this is what I'm what we're going to talk about is a case as follows. One bread I say I'm not allowed to eat this bread if I eat this donut. If I eat the second bread the second bread is not the isser. The first bread is the isser. The second bread is a condition. There's a condition and there's a iser. There's a and there's a iser. Yeah, two breads. Let's think about it for a second. I have two breads. Bread A is what's user. If I eat the donut, if I eat the second one, what happens when I eat the first one right now? Did I do a iser? Zero is not even a daban. Not even um maybe you shouldn't cuz you might do the zero is you're all right. zero is. So, and what do I get punished on? What do I get punished for? I only get punished for eating the isser. I don't get punished for eating a condition. There's nothing wrong with eating condition after does the is the is retroactive? Oh, that's what we're going to be talking about right now. That's the whole if I do eat, could I do I get punished for the for the first guy retroactive? That's that's what we're talking about basically. But I could take these two cases and make 25 eight cases out of it. Okay. Now, when when does the clock start ticking? When does the clock start ticking? When I articulate it, when I say this is also and this is my condition or when I eat one of the breads. When I eat one of the breads, that's when the clock starts ticking. Now, that's when the we'll see I just just hold it in your head for a second. So, here we go. Rabbi is we have one bread that's a tai one bread is the tai is the condition. There's no isser on that bread. But if I eat that bread, then I cannot eat the is bread. So, what happens if in step one the guy eats the conditioned bread by mistake? That's the the key word, by mistake. He he wasn't paying attention that this has anything to do with a with something that he swore about. So what do we say? Shy automatically tosses it out and then he ate the is on purpose. It doesn't matter. There is no so he's potter. What if it's the reverse? He ate the on purpose. So now he lights up the is now if he eats the is in big trouble. But then he ate the he ate the is by mistake. Now mistake does apply because this the is in effect already when you start the off you can't be but once this the applies itself cuz he did it. He ate. He said, "Okay, now it starts." Now he's not allowed to eat the is. He went ahead and he ate the isser. What happens to him is he's what is what is No, but he Oh. Oh. Oh. But very good. He did it by mistake. So what is Nob? He did by mistake. Had he done it on purpose, then he would get Malcus. The second one. Look at his shirt. It says on it. The second one when he ate the iser what's awesome for him to eat. He did by mistake. So he did by mistake. He's what a carbon. That's when you bring a carb by mistake. Let's say he did the second one on purpose. Let's see inside. We're going to here. Here's the first case here. Here's the first cake. He he started with a and then went to same case. He ate the tai first, ate the iser second. There's no mal is there because he started off. There's no at all. Zero in this case. Let's see inside. Huh? More often. Yeah, the does a better job than me. But thousand%. No, I can't explain it. It's too hard to explain the pressure. When you were sitting in my house and I'm like I told the guy I'm going to meet him, so I got to meet him. six o'clock at 6 o'clock. I'm way way ahead of this. No. And then then I go and I and I I was this close of saying I'm not going to do it. I can't. She comes first, which is true, but it was a once in a lifetime opportunity. It was one time they they said they reached out. They were here in Bamesh. Let's do it. Huh? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Both of them. What? Let's say let's say it was a for for a few seconds by either of them. Okay. It's a great It's a great question. We have so much confusion here. Don't add one draft of confusion. You hear the the just the lion is kind of interesting. I won't eat this bread if I eat this bread. There's one bread that's the iser and the one bread is a condition. And he ate the he ate the condition first. Over here you see it. The one on the right is the condition. He ate the condition first. He didn't know. So once we say the word in the beginning, toss it. I don't care what he did afterwards. He could eat the second bread on purpose. Zero. What about the reverse? The same case but reverse show the condition. So once he does amazing what happens the whole starts it's a beautiful he on purpose he knew if I eat this bread this is condition this is boom goes but then once he got to the sec to the he forgot about it now he's great story this is a no-brainer we said if the first is the then there's no so both of them are no He ate the condition on purpose. So now what happens? He activates this or this or becomes this. But then he went ahead and he ate the second one. What is if he ate the condition first and then afterwards he he ate the other one that's a perfect but he did it on purpose so now he doesn't bring a carbon because it's on purpose he gets malus what happens no not this oh yeah this one he ate First the iser, you see the bread switched positions. Now the isur bread is on the right and he ate that first on purpose. Now that's what you asked before. Can you retroactively be when he eats the condition? And the answer is this has everything to do with suffic. Think about it. It's unbelievable. When I I see somebody about to kill someone, I tell him if you kill him. So there's no doubt if he kills him, he did something bad. He killed somebody. He killed a human being. Over here, if I tell the guy, if you eat that bread on the right, that's the is bread. You will get malus. Is that true? No. All you here in this room told me that he's allowed to eat that bread. He's allowed to eat it. And I asked you is there any is there abundant maybe he shouldn't eat because he might come to eat the condition. You all told me no when I asked you that question he did zero is just if he eats the condition which he might not and he might yes and I don't know what day then retroactively he did something wrong. That's called a suraf. I warned him and I I told him he's going to get malcus if if what if I have to know specifically when he eats that bread is he gonna get malcus yes or no tell me I don't know it's only if he eats the condition if I shoot that guy am I going to get the death penalty yes there's no question you shoot him you kill him you get a death over here you eat this entire bread are you going to get malus depends well depends is if I could give a guy that's between says I could give a guy depending Oh, it's possible. Yes, it possible will not. It's possible that in 6 months from now, you'll eat the conditioned bread. You take it out of the freezer, defrost it, and then it's possible you'll never take it out of the freezer according to that. It's not a good. Oh, here. This is what my brother was talking about. Now, check out what happens here. Not this this. Now all we're doing is we're we're we're just adding all the components together. Each bread is user. I won't eat this bread and it's also the condition for the second one. The second bread is user for me to eat this but it's also if I eat it then the first one becomes okay just to confuse. That's what he's telling me. This is the case that he's like what you didn't do this case. It's not that bad. It's not that bad. Especially with Yoshi with the I will not eat the second bread if I eat the first bread. Each one is a condition to the second one. But each one by itself is awesome. Check this out. He ate the first bread on purpose knowing that this is a is bread. But on the condition part he didn't know. Yeah. The iser part he knew and he did it on purpose. The tonight part he didn't know. The part he knew. He didn't realize that it's a condition for his friend. Potter. Why is he potter on both? Because the second one he completely forgot. When he ate the first one, he forgot that it's a condition for the second one. So forgetting for the second one, then it's not there's not a at all. But on the first one, you can't you can't give him he's not a because he ate it on purpose. Look at the top the top right corner, the top thing. What does it say? He did it on purpose. So you can't he doesn't bring a carb in for doing on purpose. And it was he was allowed to eat it then anyway. So were you going to give him a so he's partner in that too? Hold on. No sponsors the middle of the No no no no the first one is not a the second one is not a the No, it was a both. No, I don't think so. Why is it? Because the second one also sh I understand but I believe that's not true. There's a shi and there's a you don't you don't use the twice here only once. says, "Uh, where am I?" Oh, now the the cases are just reversed. Let's just make it fun. If What did he do here? Okay. Yeah, but they're both part if the the isser part of the bread he did by mistake and the part he did on purpose on both breads and then we're done. This is the last case for the the iser of eating this bread. He forgot but he realized that it's a condition for the other one. [Music] because it's impossible. We start off look is he did by mistake. As soon as you start off by mistake then it's not. So the word means over here on the second one. Why? Because he ate the first one on purpose. So the the goes into effect what? It activated it. Oh it activated it here. I don't know if there's a you know there's electric here and I don't know what he did here exactly but and then he ate it by mistake. Oh, that's a perfect That's a carbon. That's a typical case that we're talking about that when he made the he was he was aware. So it's he was aware and activated and then he but if he did both of them sorry where am I? Is that where I'm holding? Yes. Then he's for the second one. And then we go back to the other thing on the first one. Whether or not there's I might have skipped some words there. No. Okay. I have a great riot for you. I don't know if we're I forgot to look at the side over here, but let's just There's a nice parenthesis. I don't know why there's four. A person makes an edit to make himself go quicker to do it to do something. What we care about is this word. Another by accident. You did it by accident. I'm making this item right over here. Like a carbon if I ate and if I drink. And he didn't know. Afterwards, he realized what? Why did I do that? I did eat. I p it. Some people don't remember the famous story with he wasn't sure if he ate the cookie. I don't know exactly how it goes. The Gabba used to give him a cookie, but the Gabba had a tyas. The Gabba ate the cookie, a piece of cake. So they asked him, "Did you?" He said something to the effect. I don't remember who asked who, but he said, "Listen, I don't remember if I ate the cake, but I do remember that I did not bench. That's for sure." Like the benching part, some people remember if they ate or not. Afterwards, he remembered or I won't eat, I won't drink in the future. He forgot over here is a concept of this idea that we're talking about that once you start off the by mistake there's no he had no awareness that he already ate then is doesn't apply itself at all the is so we try to do this little piece here sure why not so it says more like this so if you recall We have the Monopoly game from Sanhedrin. We're just going to fly here. But who were AA and Aimi? Here we go. Aimi. We did who? Oh. Oh, I forgot to show it there. Aa and Aimi were the two the two sharp ones of Padisa. So now I guess one brother's trying to like, you know, oh, you're so smart. You're so sharp. They called you and said the sharp one. Let's see how sharp you are. So was was saying overwh I I I thought about the story. I'll tell you real quickly. My father is a is a pretty big elo. No, you know the whole thing and he sometimes he acts like you know he has elo moments in his life. So he asks his brother uh today he's called big. He says are you going to this wedding? And he says no. His brother's more my father's more of the the quiet one, the learner. He's more of a he learns the whole day, this guy, but he's more of the you know, like sticky. So my father comes to the wedding and he sees his brother there. He's like, "Ah, you runs over to him and he bumps into a mirror. He saw himself in the mirror. He's he thought it's his brother." Anyway, I said it over and Benny said happened to his father also. Okay. So they don't say the story about me and you. You know what I'm saying? Says oh Marlay you could all by the way once I'm mentioning my father he gives a shir in seven daff a day. Two shir one in Hebrew one in Yiddish. Pretty soon we'll do English too. Each one is three hours. Anybody want to watch three seven daff in a row? It's on YouTube. Says if a person says so we did this whole already. If a person says, "I did I did not eat." He's lying. And he swears again, "I did not eat." So his brother says, "What's we learned in the Mishna that if you swear on the future twice, three times, it's only one." So So in the past, you got confused. Once you said one, that's a lie. So that's it. So the second one is also a lie. Um, so let's stop over here. Why not? We'll stop over here. Have a wonderful day. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a shir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdy.com.