Daf Yomi Shevuos Daf 26 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning boys. We have some wonderful guests here. What's your name? And you shim from London? Shamim. Who else do we have? I saw a few. Oh, I know. Rabbi Benedict been here already. He been at Tushi this week. What? Right. No, this is Welcome back. We're not going to dig. We're not going to We're not going to You know what? For you maybe here Aik Kamansski's picture, four zebras, black and white. This I showed but I didn't show you. This is what we call a leopard. This is the fa I mean the eyes. Ah. Looks a little fake actually. The This is um vultures. Each one of these is a massive bird. They look small over here, but they're massive. They eat carcasses. That's what they do for a living. This is we have a yami from next door. He's like, "What kind of shar is this? What is going on over here?" Okay, so um I love this. This is right up. This is from you where you you're from. Deari, I just saw exactly what happens to people who skip your dapir. Hashem literally pulls them over so they can see the sign. A cop pulled him over so they could see the sign. He got a ticket cuz he wasn't wearing a seat belt. But where did he get pulled over? Right by the MDY sign of Kabala Sat. It says climb to Kabala Satra with the shear. That's why he got a stickle z uh with admiration, laughter kabala to never miss a shar. If you happen to read this at the sh please give a big shout out to Rabi Dovy Schwartzmer who introduced me to your shar many years ago. You know this. Okay. This is um when we spoke about he says you could try but you forgot in the same it says [Music] that you could test Hashem to see a tariff and that's what we saw. No ter we saw the the kill the kill in the safari because they gave $12,000. My 12-year-old son Mosha got into the hotel room with a large flat screen TV and immediately turned on the DAFF. Out of anything he could have done, he went straight to the DA. Thank you for your impact. Arnon Brownstein. It says Arnon, I guess. Aron, I don't know. Uh, also for Stanford Hill, Mameish, everything today has to do with London. You see that? We need your help to revive MDY Stanford Hill with we have over 200 members, many from Stanford Hill, West Cliff, Cami Island. We're learning to have a most keep it private. You had conversations with quite a few members. Keep discovering this one's member, this one's a member, but people are keeping it quiet. We previously sent out survey, nobody responded. We very much want to make a seam at the want to get a feel of who joined. We're also trying to set up a WhatsApp group says start with the WhatsApp group, get accountability going and your announcement will make a huge difference in getting our community here. In this email, you could see there's a something over here to join my cousin. He's your cousin. while we were to to bump into Kramer several times over our trip this past week. We're unfortunately not to see you. I don't know why didn't they come to or something but I see my son is still going strong while he has the jet leg and is not feeling well has fever. He has been doing MDY marathon today from one year to the next wishing. Alex Gilden by the way this picture on the left he's saying that he did a marathon. I believe him but this picture on the left was taken in in America not in Israel. How do I know? From the position of the sun. I can see coming through the window. No. If you look at the bottom of the window, the moldings, they don't have this in right over there. You see that? That's America. Mimi grows in the birth of So while I was videotaping something in the Serengeti, all of a sudden I hear fish go mazletov. It's a golden dove. Mazletov Mazdov the grandparents and great grandmothers. It seems that going out as far as is for granddaughters school for granddaughters he said. So I'm going to show them the uh official worked very hard spent some nice money on making the golden dove videos. I'm going to show it to you. He always talks about the golden dove. So I'm going to show it's all the way from Brahas Raboi. Last night I spoke to Raosha handler. He's a big part of the Shir as I mentioned terrible tragedy 16 and 12year-old Bkar was nif he told me that he was very into doing and to learning soy I spoke to him for a while until somehow somebody came into the room over there if you speak even if you don't speak this is the who's saying that when the rebb was sick he used to watch the sh with MDY. It's unbelievable. Fine. Actualize in honor of David Duvie Merkin of Eastern Union. All Silver Springers. Oh, you guys on Zoom. Huh? What about the ambassadors? Oh, I didn't I didn't write down the the list. We need Rabai. We need about We have over a thousand people that joined the retention program, the accountability retention, but we're still looking for ambassadors in the following cities. In Toronto, Toronto, come on. Toronto, Pennsylvania that I can understand. Australia boys in Australia. We would like to make a trip to Australia is invited. But yeah, in a year from now, whenever it's nice over there. whenever it's nice over there. Maybe in a few. Hello. Join the trip that's already happening. No, no. We're doing the MDY trip. Make it. You could come on our trip. You could sit next to me and do your thing. Then I'll come on your trip. Okay. We just went on a trip. We're not going two months later in November. In November? No, we have to wait a whole Anyway, South Africa, Georgia. We need a We need a guy in Georgia. Texas. Long Island. Not the five towns. Long Island. of the country. Not the five times of farway. Boston. Boston. The Boston. We have a nice cover there. West Hemstead. California. 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Burl of right and fam and there's another bak in critical condition still daily span one boy walked away just with a surgery on his hand just but uh and a lot of trauma with the entire gross family a lot of people have anonymous remind me please somewhere in the middle show the show the golden dove mdy kids monthly riftk mran Ask the art of the month said take a look right now while I'm reading this. Take a look at it. If you look at it, you'll see it's basically a to the whole thing. And it definitely has the shape of an aged for and the whole staff to continue to make join so many in Kleinazi for all the work they do. Give it happens to be a pretty easy daff. There's one and two lines of a in there, but listen, the shape is a that's what counts today. And then and then no jokes. No jokes. I don't want to be the the the boy that that cried wolf. Aizar the first three four daff is pure agaza. First time ever. Huh? You're like putting on a giraffe on a safari when you haven't seen anything. Oh, here's the video of Molandi changing. No, it's a picture. Oh, it's a picture. See, these guys, they do this for a living. Their tires go out all the time. So Molandi took over. He became a few other guys jumped in there. Give Okay. Who? Jack. Oh, first of all to you. What's your name? Isaac. Isaac. Safi from Flavisham. Where's Jack? Right here. Right next to him. Oh. Oh. What are you hiding like that? Get over here. Have you get over Come on, Jack. Get over here. Wow. the man who started the monthly we should once he's here listen it's you you do the the schlaw and here come come come come come come come come come come come real real quickly I didn't have you here shama how you doing sadik I haven't seen you I thought you going to come on the trip with us next time new whatever you come there I didn't think I was an animal guy but then I saw those videos they looked everybody didn't think that people those cheetahs it's it's dangerous even when you're not animal guy some people just wanted to stay there they didn't want to come home we had to force them back on the plane. It was a whole what's going on sadik barash. Tell us about your monthly thing in in uh where is it? Not in deal in Flappers in New York. In Flappage. Yeah. They have a monthly thing that if there's a wedding like 1,500 people's credit cards get swiped. How much? And uh it was I mean the intention was to raise 26,000 every for every 15,000 people on this group. There's a lot of people that are coming in. So you know 78,000. We should get 15,000 people on the group. Every time we have a new that we need a new gamari, we swipe the credit card. I I was going to say every safari trip, you swipe everybody's credit. That's why it didn't come. You're scared. Your kids are for starting the the monthly for us. And it's a reminder for everybody. Whoever's not on the monthly should get why why should they do it? Grow this year. And how much should they give every month? I I think we're around $1,000 a month. That should be fair. Sky, Jack. Wow. Keep it up. I just said the story about deal when I got to aliyah and this guy said is it common that people say $18,000 $22,000 $52,000 in that in that in that show never you have to train the back I did I did I ded in the back they found me trust me that guy looks like he could do better $10 all right let's go we're holding in middle of the suga it's by the wide lines We had when you make a when you swear does it have to be something that could also be in the future. There's certain things that you cannot swear about the future. Things that are not in your control you can't swear about you can't make it says if it's not possible to happen in the future then you cannot swear about it in the past. And therefore like three lines from where it becomes wide something that's not possible to happen in the future cannot happen. You can't make a about the past. We discussed it at the end of yesterday's year is a you say I somebody comes to you says listen I saw I know that you I saw that you witnessed my accident I need you to testify for me it happens all the time that guy ran a red light whatever and the guy is not interested in testifying so he says I swear I didn't see it now if there wasn't a special p in the about What kind of would that be? That's called but the T goes out of its way and makes a special P talking about now since cannot be possible. You can't say I won't testify for you in the future because you're not allowed to do that and it you don't know about uh testimony in the future. So according to this wouldn't be a good so be no such thing you wouldn't be on something like that because it's not possible in the future. So it makes sense that the speaks about it on its own according to that you don't need something in the future. Then why does the make a special type of so the told we think that the is you're right the doesn't need to tell it to us but the wants you to wants to ding you twice one time because you said a false the other one is because you said check this out. I think it's very clear here and it says if you won't say your testimony you get what that talking about talks about sounds like what does say I could only get you on one of these two. So it says I can't get you on two. So how tells the it's impossible what you're saying? How could it mean that two when the Torah says you only get one of these two? Okay, very good. So it's not such a to to knock somebody else's. But now you have to come up with I'm going to ask you again why is it that the Tyra specifies and talks specifically about the doesn't talk about somebody that that that swearing that he's not going to sleep and somebody swears that he threw a stone into the ocean. And so why da I don't know testimony for you. So what's the look at this? Because there's something very special about in all these different things that we learned about whether it's a guy walks in not knowing that he's in the mdash not knowing that he's different all these it says the word he forgot which is a huge here we have a situation only when a person deliberately says he knows what he's doing. He knows that he witnessed a car accident. He's just not interested in now spending a few days in court. So, he lies and he says, "I don't know. I I haven't been there. I don't know what you're talking about." A guy like that has to bring a carbon of y when he did it deliberately. A carbon every carbon that we know about is a carbon that somebody does when he made a mistake. It was shab by mistake. He went into the by mistake. He was Tommy by mistake. Now when he does it deliberately here's a massive. It makes a lot of sense why why this is a special by who told you. Maybe that's not what the is coming for. Maybe the coming for something else. Maybe you should be too for the which we're going to see. I I'm going to say it now so that we remember it. What's the is that the could be that you didn't know you knew that what you're doing is wrong. You're 100% amazed. The is you didn't know you have to bring an animal for that. You didn't know it's going to cost you $500. That's a You ever heard of such a thing? That's what the Gar says. All the way in the corner in the back. Hello. What's your name? Abizar. Aizar from welcome. So that's that's the if you forgot if no I just explained that to you can't get the guy for two you've amazed me there's no carbon we just explained that there there's a massive when a person is on purpose doesn't testify then he brings a carbon but he cannot bring a second carbon on the part the of is only on not on so if a guy does this deliberately he wouldn't have to bring two carbonas only one explains was part of all the there's a lot ofw Why is this so special? Says Rabba because it has a in it. What's the Where do you testify? Only in Bezon. Who testifies? Only somebody that's that's to testify. Somebody that's somebody that is puzzle avia a gambler. He cannot testify. So it was it's a special in other words it's on its own by itself by itself and not what own category its own category and has nothing to do with don't try to put on top of is it own little category own that it only applies when you testify in bezen for somebody that could testify and don't try to add she was beaten to it. So comes out very simple yesterday I didn't have this very simple chart but I think it helps a lot. saw people mame like spinning their heads on the left side it comes out ra is basically saying like say this all by itself one thing says no when somebody swears the top category he swears he doesn't know then he has two problems going for him he's going to have to bring two garbanas or two problems not two garbanas first of all second of all it's Yeah. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I did it on purpose because that's the question now. It's a contradiction. I'm just saying, yeah, what I just said, it should have said ra. But no, don't change it. Leave it as is. The says is basically saying what says that it's by itself. As it says, you see these words three lines from the bottom. It's if Ra says what Abai says on the right side that means Abai is saying what he says on the left side he argues on he argues on the right he says something different that what is also but the problem is yesterday we already established is the one that says this that agrees when he swears I know and then we find out he doesn't know the potter Why? Because Rav is of the opinion you need to have a you need to have a positive and a negative. When a person swears, I know a for you and then we find out he doesn't. He should be completely positive because you can't do it in the negative. You can't say it's also for you to say I don't know. So it's not in the negative. That's what we said yesterday. What the removes the we said it stands all by itself. That's what we said yesterday. say this by itself like on the right there's only one thing going on here when a person swears it can't be why can't it be cuz you don't have a so we're left all by ourselves with so we have a contradiction on the one hand yesterday we said that holds that when a person says I don't know he's only on one thing and now we're saying that he's over on two things so in order to get out of it we have to do one of two things first of all we say What we said yesterday on the right side retracted later on in life he decided that two things so it's not a contradiction one of these two you pick I don't know which one we don't have a contradiction either said that it's one thing it's only one or said it's two now why in the world do we pick rap papa yeah I had a question until I saw this little tiny typhus Maybe maybe I don't know who why says the he was the right there in place and he was the the following he was the next we don't know they got confused they said oh must have said it no it wasn't Abay it was a puppet himself okay now we have uh this is not a gad but literally word for word the next 14 15 lines is literally what we said yesterday word for word. So we're going to do a quickar here says that um a that's in the future not that has to do with the past. Why? It says in the you swore for the bad, for the good. Perhaps it's something that's bad and good. What about something that's neither? I want to swear about something uh I'm going to go to sleep in an hour. It's not good. It's not bad. Okay. So this only means in the future. How do I know the past? Says anything that a person says out with his mouth works even from the past. No, it says in the future means in the future. If you're going to be a stickler to the words and you're gonna take the word to the only means of the future and to exclude the past. So let's be a stickler. Let's use those two words that you're being very tough about and say it says bad and good. So only about bad and good. I'm going to smoke. I'm going to do something bad. Not something not something that's so that was the setup that did. He knew he's going to go there. So tells him, "No, no, no. There's a P that says, right? We had that a second ago. Everything, oh, I knew you're going to say that means even then could also mean the past says, okay, so now that we did these 14 freebie lines, no, it's great. He says a good title. It's not the same. There's a second. What? What do you mean? It says the says, "You're right. You're asking that there's a reboot for the end. There's also the beginning." Yesterday we said it from there. Interesting. I had a little uh told me that somebody I know very well. So maybe he might be sitting in this room now. So I don't I'm not going to I have no idea who he is. Batman said I don't know who he is. He said he came over to me after he says can you explain to me more what reeboy is cloud clout. So I said I remember men coming over to me after she saying specifically there was it was very easy and I told him you know I bet you that a 10-year-old kid in my could repeat it. So I asked I asked yesterday and there was a 13 14y old bakar. He said it over and this is months ago. That that that was a month after we learned it. How about you? You remember you know the difference between rebu and rebu? No. Make me feel good over here. Show go say you don't have to know exactly. What is it? What? What is it speaking or just mix something bigger with something that's let's say um it says this word so it's telling you that also in this case going to be let's say and you it says extra word so you could say that it's only that only over there is very good and what's do you know the difference between a cloud or cloud they're very similar it's the same words after he says then after he says only this day and then he says oh this like or or wow so what so what so which one is more stuff or one one is a cloud says you could do everything then you it goes down to but we have to take away some stuff also takes away some stuff. So, which one takes away more stuff? The the prat takes away more stuff. Excellent. See that? Nas from the but I I have nas I told I I literally told him in in when I was learning with him sitting right over I said 10-year-old could say it over. I was probably thinking about him. He's a regular 10. He's one of our weakest 10-year-olds we have here today. I picked on the weakest Juan. What are you talking about? Half the movie. Okay. So, anyways, Lisa, it's very simple. If you didn't understand what he said, I could show you a video. This is G's fine. Actually, checked it out. This is what's the difference between cla and re mute. Here we go. I'm sorry. We are out of shama. But my dad asked me to. What did he say exactly? Get me something to eat. Um, schwama. Aha. You see, your father said, "Get me something," and then narrowed it to shuama. He only meant to exclude falafel and salad, which aren't like shwama at all. But a baguette is an option. That's the ree method. But according to the clown pratt method, Shuama comes to explain. Get me something and then we're stuck. Wait, did your father say anything else? Rabbelli, could you explain to me what he wants from my life? Then it continues. Hold on. I don't know why they didn't. Wait, did your father say anything else? I have a recording here. Get me something to eat. Uh, or whatever. Yes, since your father added whatever, it adds another step. According to the clout method, it adds the schnitle. And according to the rebu mute method, which already includes the schnitle, it comes to add everything. And the mute excludes one thing, the letter salad, because let's be honest, that's rabbit food. And all this because he also said whatever. Got it. Whatever. Okay. So, the point is this was to confuse Dam a little bit. I think he explained it a lot easier, but when you do a ribboy, you include everything, but you have to exclude one thing cuz this is a meal. This is an exclusion. So, you exclude one item only. It doesn't have it's the one that's the furthest away from what you're dealing with. You're dealing with shwarma. So, what's the furthest thing away? Salad. rabbit food. When you do a pratl, then you exclude anything that's similar to the prat. So you're excluding more items. Not what? Not similar. Not similar to the Yeah. So not similar. Exactly. So here we go. It's not so It's not so We're not It's not a big sug. makes a lot of sense. He was he was the of he learned by him. And we said that anybody that learns learns it in all of the anybody that learns which is basically using the same exact words just a different style slightly he learns like that in the whole. So it makes sense. So in our he'll also use clatamu he was the okay so first of all stop to talk about a minute for he used to say that's why his name is gamu what would say something similar What's the difference? One is one is no close said right now I don't know and I don't care right now it's good said eventually I'll find out of it eventually it's a little bit of a lesson I'll give you an example on the safari we drove for two and a half hours this This is a kdush that I asked the guys on the safari. They they didn't know. So I'm going to ask uh no I'm fix now cuz he didn't hear me say this. Why did we drive for two and a half hours and we didn't see a thing until we got to the cheetah. Every day we saw stuff that what had we stopped for a second to look at a lion we would have missed the cheetah. We had to go two and a half hours without seeing anything. Ems% 100%. We stop. Anytime you see something interesting, you see a herd of elephants, you stop. You look at the baby elephant and this, you see a couple lines walking, you stop another five minutes. We would have missed the whole thing. I remember driving away from the cheetah kill. Mish just a few minutes. We watched him eat it and then move it and then jeeps came. Said, "Wow, such losers. Mish missed it by two minutes." That would have been us. Have we? Yeah. Okay. So, this know on the spot. Huh? all okay that I already said all the needs have been deployed and it was the last thing had we seen it in the beginning of our trip the whole trip would have been downhill from there you see it at the end you're waiting waiting for that boom close the trip go home was from the city of Gimu also that's why he was called yeah this different things don't ruin it this is good yeah sounds much better much better okay so don't let the facts get in the way exactly So, so we have does mute mute and does what's okay. So, let's go over here. Very we have you hear this? Oops. Sorry. It's not on it. They see it. They see it. Oh, they do see it. Okay. We have all the schwars. Nobody look behind you. That's for me. Something's messed up over there. Okay, that's the boy. Every in the world. And then we have a mut says only for bad and good. Then we have another boy. We put everything back. But so what were we? We're going to be one little thing and that is one thing that is the furthest away from everything. If somebody says I don't want to do a little of that is not a good now what happens when you do the cla it's the same exact thing just we're going to remove another item one more item it's more it removes more items like this what's his name again what's your name is said everything what's the cloud same thing it's the same words, but the outcome is different. You have mitzvah and says, "I need to take something else out." The past. Okay. We have an inclusion, exclusion, and you take you you put everything back. Then what do you take out? We only take out one thing. It's the same thing. We're using the same words. We're using different words. Instead of we call it a instead of a a meal, we call it a pratt has to be similar. Oh, the difference is it has to be similar to the which means in the future and so it helps us to say even things that don't have here let me just show you even things that if it's the future it doesn't have to have be bad and good it could be part of also and what does the even things that fit into the ra but they're in the past. Past is no good. Ask the we always do an check this out. How do you do an over here? Who told you what the cla maybe it's the opposite? The cl will be of the past. The proud will be here. Let's do this. You see like it used to be like this. Maybe it should be like that. Just flip the things around. Who told you what the cl is and what the proud is? Maybe it's when there's no in the future. You have to have to in the future. Maybe is serious says the clown has to be similar to something that you're over by breaking something. If it happened in the past, you're not breaking it. You're just lying. So, it has to be something that you could break that you you say you're going to do something and you don't do it. That's breaking. Benny, I want to show you this before you run. I'll let me just explain it. I want you to see this because it's very um it's really for no I'm fix and a few other people but whatever. So the is just saying that the comes before the act not the act happened yesterday. I ate and I didn't ate. So the act happened already and then you make aw it. That's no good. You need to make awah about an act that's going to happen. Check this out. What to learn and how to learn is another item. So the gold standard we learned in yeshiva's. So let me share with you just a few words about the yeshiva system. It is clear to any we are supposed to learn is to learn because when we use the post the phrase it is not is also avoid but means how to come closer to aeshu how to have feelings for a kesh how to live with a kesh buon is not the right thing the yeshiva system is geared to teach us how to learn but if all life we will be trying to figure out how to learn when will you finally learn and learning means knowing knowing knowing so I think it's a huge mistake for married people working people to spend most of their time on most of the time needs to be dedicated to learn to learn mus and why is it so important to learn gamorra because gamor is the basis for Everything mus comes from Gorra. Comes from Gamora. Hal comes from Gor. When we talk about essentially we mean everything else is included but Shabalpe is a milestone. It was a very significant transformation and that is why this huge industry of daffoi is important because gamor is the fundament it's the basis but I think it's very important for working balabatum to learn hal to learn ether and this is just to rekindle your spirit and bring you closer to aes but what is extremely important is kavas Very pleasure. All right. What? I knew you're going to like it. Okay. A lot of people ask me, "But why Gumar? I learn every day. What's wrong?" No, cuz Gumra has it all. It has the muser. It has the It has the the the everything like you said. It has Allah. It It's the basis. Okay. Slush, slush, slush. Yeah. Five minutes. minutes. Have to start. No. The ends at 8:10, so it's 15 minutes. No, no, no. That's another one. I don't know. Okay, we'll have to do it when we turn the D. What does it say in the It has a bunch of words. I didn't highlight all the words cuz it was too many to highlight, but it's like it gives you an idea. Bishu vanilla mu right a person who by mistake made awesome you do it on purpose we saw there's one case of that you make which is what not talking about that now you forgot the it's not that you forgot the item you forgot the is going to explain everything for forgetting the if you forget the Now we're going to go into it. What does it mean a person forgot? This is here it is right here. What does it mean you forgot? the famous they would sit and listen to the ra my first day in very America should be he great yeshiva first day a guy comes over to me a random guy says he says look around here in the room tell me who the worst bakar yeshiva is h I just came back from Panovich. I love this kind of stuff. It was Gavaldic. I said, um, I looked around. There was only one guy that had brown pants in the whole building. Everybody wore black, blue, you know, brown pants. And one guy, that same guy had longer hair. That guy, worst guy in yeshiva. He says, "You sha that's the best guy in the yeshiva. Start over." He just wanted me to pick him. He knew I was going to choose him. And that was wolf. Wolf. What's his name? Wolf. I forgot his name. Wow. He's today in line. He was the he would space out. You look at the ceiling and and then he would repeat the whole word for word from this is a huge so imagine you have two famous and they're arguing about what is what what happened in the so heated that one of them said I swear this is what Raf said and the other one said I swear this is what Raf said obviously one of them is lying one of them is making over They went, "No, no, what did you say?" I said, "Exactly like you." So the other guy looks wow, we don't know who terribly embarrassed. He asks, "So what?" No, no, no. Your heart fooled you. That's not You thought that that's what you heard. That's annoyingness. You hear that? That's annoying. Let me ask you a question. If if you thought that this is chocolate, it's milk and you swore it's but it happens to be parus or notus. It's so then why do you have to tell me this story over here with anything that you thought is a and it turns out to be binus. Huh? It's also what his name is. Oh, so maybe the explains this gimmar he says because over here you have a rafana standing against you and he's saying I heard saying like this what are you swearing for at least he might be right if you're on your own and you're making this is okay fine but you have a standing in front of you at least take into consideration what he's saying by you making I would think or something like you said carve maybe I don't no that's also vanilla let's keep on going perhaps it's talking about that you forgot about the item not it's similar to what we had in the beginning forgetting that the forgetting similar when you forget that you made the not that you forgot about the item made fun of this and I can understand if a person forget you're going to he said I'm not going to eat bread wheat bread and then he thought that he meant that he that he is going to eat. He said I'm not going to eat and he thought he said I am going to eat. Okay. So he forgot the he forgot the and he did remember the the the item the bread. What does it mean he forgot the item? He thought that he meant regular wheat and he meant barley. He remember the he forgot the item. No. In essence, he forgot the not the item. You forgot that you made a on this. You didn't forget an item. It's impossible to forget an item. The whole point is that you forgot the on that item. You're right. You forgot. You forgot an item. Is all the same thing. Nope. I have a way out of this. I could find a way. He swore he's not going to eat wheat bread. Like the famous. There's a really famous. It's a good one. I thought everybody knew it, but there was at least 10% of the people that didn't know. I'm going to say it. There's a guy sitting waiting for a plane in the airport. You saw this one. I don't know what you guys see or don't see. And uh he took out his uh bag of cookies. He was he was in a terminal in the airport. That's how my story goes. Your story is different. In my book, it says he was in a terminal waiting for a plane and he opened up his bag of cookies and he started eating his cookies and he sees this guy next to him. Stuck his hand into his bag of cookies and took a cookie. And he didn't know what to do. He said, "You know, he's going to work on himself. was going to be invy's probably hungry. You're cooking. He takes a cookie. This guy takes a cookie. But gets her before he knows it. The the bag is almost finished. There's one cookie left. The guy takes out the final cookie, cracks it in half, and gives him one half. Says, "Mom, she's burning mad." This guy taking my cookies. And not only that, he gives me a half. I'm just sugar. And he doesn't say anything. Eventually, he like when they start calling people to get on the plane, he starts taking stuff together. And he realizes that in his bag, he has a fresh bag of cookies. He was taking from that guy. That guy wasn't taking from him. That's what happened over here. He stuck his hand into a place he shouldn't be sticking his hand into. He thought he's grabbing his stuff. He took out because he thought he's eating barley. He remembers. It's almost like a like we said. He thought it's attached, not attached. Doesn't make sense what you're saying. He tells his he thought that he didn't make a on this. That's why he he he ate the cookie. It's not about taking the wrong cookie. It's about not knowing that there's a on this cookie on this on this bread. That's back to square one. You forgot that there's a another way to say. Why is he bringing a carbon? Not because he ate a cookie. Because he made a not to eat the cookie. He forgot the shoo on this cookie. Why would he stop? Because if somebody would tell him, "Hey, hey, that's wheat." He would stop. Not if somebody told him, "Hey, that's aw, you made a on that." What what information was he missing? He was missing that it's wheat and not barley. So So that's a case of forgetting that it's wheat. im had this exact question word for word in the whole word for word basically and if a person forgot that he's in the mid or a person forgot that he's and the says what if he forgot both of them what do you mean he forgot that there's a so therefore he's no but he forgot the item that he swore about and that is that is even though I have to show the of official. I'm going to show it tomorrow cuz we ran out of time. Um, two bak in a in a dormatory. This happens all the time. Happens with couples a lot. One bakar was freezing cold. He he wanted to close the window. The other baker was boiling hot. He wanted the window open. So, one of the bak he waited for his friend to basically fall asleep. And as soon as he was about to fall asleep, he knew he's not going to get out of bed for this. He went ahead and he closed the window. Closed the window. So, the baka was he couldn't get out of bed. He was tired. took a shoe and threw it with all his might at the window and broke the window. So now he won. The wind was coming in. He was he felt good the whole night. Everything is good. In the morning he wakes up, he sees that he broke the mirror, not the window. And when I was a caterer, and I told you this a few times, every single wedding, women would come over to me, women come over to me and say, "It's way too cold in here. Make it hotter." So the first time I I said, "Take your iron. You're missing. You have an iron deficiency. It's 70s." I got a smack in the face and I never did it again. Not mish. So what I did, I I developed a trick. There was a a thermostat on the wall, but it was covered with the plastic. I had a key, open it up. I went like this. I left it the same exact spot and I just moved it because it's 70°. 70 is good. During the without fail, people would come over to these same women. Thank you for being such a mench. Mamish. It's beautiful now. It feels so good. It's mish. It's hot. It's good. It's perfect. So, what's the I have no idea. Oh, so says these are the words that we have before. You just check out to see what happened here. Why did this guy stop? Is it because you mentioned the word or is it because you mentioned the word that means what we check it out if you say the word and he says oh okay I'm not going to do it then that means that he forgot that's why if you remind him he said hey it's wheat and that's why he stops the same words nobody stops eating a cookie unless Unless he made nobody makes they're both they depend on each other. Doesn't matter what you reminded him. This is a very good question. How could a person make a mistake about something in the past? If he did it on purpose, he swore about the past and he was lying. He did it deliberately. If he had no idea that we already established his he shouldn't have to bring a card. And here comes the bomb to be remembered. This is a riddle of all riddles. He knows that what he's doing is he knows he's not allowed to eat bread. When he says, "I'm not going to eat bread." And he does eat bread. He knows 100%. He swore and he knows it's but he didn't go to the I had no idea it's going to cost me $500. I thought I'm just doing a little here. Oh, had you told me that I had to bring a carbon to the B mikd only $500 but travel from four days on a donkey all the way to the base of I wouldn't have done it. That's considered if you forget about a car you don't know about that's considered says let's just go until at least oh sponsor turning of the vast in honor of our son for learning global still experts in international financial services anonymous in honor of the whose name we cannot say who shows us what it means to be a giver two more lines You can leave if you want, but we have to finish. No, this could go [Music] like why the argument say if you don't know that it's a carbon, it's it's not considered a gig. Why is it not regular? If a guy didn't know, you have to bring a carbon if you forget whatever it is. That's not over here. There's a massive carbon. Over here, there's no chorus. Shabas is so if you do, you have to bring a carbon. over here it's just a swearing is a so it's a you have to bring a carbon on a where else in the that if you do you have to on or whatever you have to bring a carbon because we learn from has to be something that's if you do it deliberately it's by mistake you bring a carbon but in our case it's only alive you have to bring a carbon I would say that would also agree that that's considered shing why would think that in this case you know the whole you know a lot you you learned a lot you never thought in a second for a second that you would have to bring a carbon on a lab and that's considered a shy even according to have a wonderful day merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world sponsor a shir today mdysponsor.com or sponsor mdy.com