Daf Yomi Shevuos Daf 21 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Oh, this is great. Hold on. Let me take a picture. Good morning, Live from the Serenetti. [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] Oh god. [Music] [Applause] Raise and I were here early morning in the Serengeti, but we can't start off the day without a little Tyra and this beautiful, beautiful scenery. So, I'm going to learn a little bit just for a few minutes and then we'll take it from there. We'll I was a little hungry. Thank you. Here we go. Okay, let's see what happens. We're hoping a few birds from the Serengeti will come land here. If not, it'll be a little dirty during the year. So, we're just going to do a little bit, four or five minutes worth, and then we'll continue later on tonight. But like this we have a day that started with Tyra and uh we'll continue with Tyra. First of all I want to say a big shout out to Josh Stroo and his son Uri of Dallas because of you I'm able to give shar because they take care of my partner Beny Freeman and his son. So kids are gracious to Josh who does the sh with us every single day. And uh we have a gishmaka good morning from the staff here in the hotels just a few minutes ago. Here we go. Everybody but loud. Good morning. [Applause] [Music] [Applause] It's monthly bus's birthday. And of course, I got to uh You have some You have volume here. They do. Here we go. You know what I'm going to say here? Really? Yeah. Okay, here's another one. A boy. Some elephants. Baby elephants. Oh, look at the mother, the the brother and the sister. Ah, Marik. What else do we have here today? I'll show you some other stuff later. Let me just do the uh sponsors. The good news is that we are halfway down the we did uh the first 10 minutes of this year with the Serengeti scen scenery at like uh 8 9:30 this morning or whatever and we're going to patch it in. So all of you besides our two guests we have two guests. What's your guys names? Yo from Hell Beach, Florida. What's that? What beach? Hound beach. 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MDY kids monthly art of the month for the whole MDY staff to continue to make s and in honor of Klein and the guy who's sitting across from him and Marcoazi for all the work they do and Rabo here we go. So yesterday we're in the middle of an it says the word in the two in the two and also says regarding the one time it says one time it says them within the same same time. He said two words in the same time and the tells us is that both of them and you both. So now 20 says like this why does it say shove and sheer if it's what does it mean they're one it's one that it's not about the malus but it's about the carbon both of them get malus even though shove of and are two different types of one is the future, one is the past. You both have to bring a carbon says that there's no difference between the future and the past. The talks about the future. The Mishna says it also applies to the past. But that also a big that something that's in the Tyra like a carbon we could make up even though the didn't talk about it. We'll say no this carbon applies also to the past. says the now. Let me see. Oh, I still have it here. So, I don't have the chart with me. I made a chart for Yoshi this morning before we left somewhere in around the 5 5 in the morning area and I sent it to him. So, Barashem I have that. I wasn't planning on giving the shar here. So, I have a little bit of a chart. I don't know if you could see. Are you able to see? No. nothing zero a little bit lavish in it that's okay I'm going to just read off it because it's it's very very simple basically what it says here is there's two categories the sheer and sh and we have two mand yesterday we had raimi that says she is the future and that you learn from the shàu and sh is the past and that you learn from comes says Well, she is the past and shave is the future. The exact reverse. Now the sukim though are slightly different. He says she is the past but you learned that from and he comes up with the new which yesterday we learned for I don't know if anybody remembers. Okay. So let's see inside. Omar, how's the You don't have to think of me. Take of the scenery. Gishmag. Nobody wants to look at me. They want to see the scenery. And don't tell the island, but a lion just had a kill over here. And we had to cover the uh the wilderbeast with that uh whatever. We're not going to go there. It's not so nice for the for the she. So, we decided to cover it. Or maybe that didn't happen. That's a was a wannabe. That that's that's what we call a sheke. No. What is that? Which one is it? Thank you. Means it's impossible. Okay. If somebody makes a about the past at I did not eat and it's a lie. That's and that I showed you in the chart. You'll see it on the screen. Now if somebody swears for the future that the same used yesterday he uses what does it mean? Uh how did he say yesterday? Where's our guest that guy? In vain. In vain in vain. In vain. So you do a lot. Take it out. You do a lot you say this stone is gold everybodys that you're lying that's in vain that's stop now I'm just trying to do a few minutes here so that tonight after dinner when everybody's drunk and tired drunk but it won't be a full 50 minutes. How long was the show yesterday? It'll be even less. Two more minutes. He he was he never heard this directly from he what in the name of if that we had already read a few times in order to get malus it has to be something that's an action you took action if there's no action ain't like in love you don't get malus There's three exceptions. Nishba, that's our sugar. Everybody knows what is especially if you did the shear and if not here is the video of a person has a beautiful carbon and you decide you know what that's not proper to bring to the base. I have something even nicer. So you try to do something good but the says you're not allowed to do you're not allowed to switch. You say this should be instead of this and that's awesome. That's called iso. Now what did he do? He only did with his mouth and what this week's parai kiss from another thing that you didn't take action. So these are the three things that you don't take action without action on them and cursing your friend. We learned also cursing your friend. How do you curse your friend? You don't say a curse word like in English. You use Hashem's the full [Laughter] No, he's learning more and more and more ideas things that the average Joe doesn't know. Talk to him should we stop here or should we keep on going a minute or two? Keep going. How do you knowus on something that doesn't have action? When you just make a and the bird like when you don't want them to come when you don't want them to come, they're all over you. [Laughter] Whatever. Now it's stick. How do you know? How do you know the sw that there's no mice uh was checking it out. Checking it out. It was it was a driveby. It was his initial approach. says in the name of it says in the we had a little bit of a little bit of a preview of this at the end of yesterday's not going to get rid of this sin the bez will take care of it and that's how you see that if a person swears you get mal So says maybe the meant something else. Who says we no zero not this? You're never going to get a way out of this. Says if the could stop over there, you're right. It's a good sticking the word doesn't take care of business over here. They could take care of it and be his sin. We're going to continue later on somewhere else. So the Gmorra says like this. So again, is when if somebody says, "This table is gold. The this man is a woman." Which reminds me, there's a there's a guy at a wedding and he looks at the person next to him and he says, "Listen, uh, you know, the is such an ugly person. I can't believe that that that Kala married him." So the person next to him says, "Uh, excuse me." First of all, it's not a it's a kala. Happens to be my daughter. She's like, "Oh, I apologize. I didn't realize you're you're you're the the K's father. Sorry, I went to I'm not the father. I'm the mother. So that's a shove. That's a bunch of baloney. That's not a madeup story. And you say that this table, this table is gold, says Rashi. You say on a man that's a woman. So for something like that, you get malus. How do you know that when somebody swears she that they're going to do something they did something how do you know that you get also himself [Music] says it says twice. So we're going to take the that extrav and use it for something else for the if we can't use it for this that what somebody swears falsely gets malus the question give me the example if he's swearing about the future that's a typical Lo say that you took action. What happened? You said, "I'm not going to eat." And then you ate. By eating, you're taking food and putting it in your mouth. That's action. If you swear that you are going to eat and you don't eat, that's something that you didn't take action. You didn't put anything in your mouth. But over here, you're putting something in your mouth. So you need you don't need a puzzle for that. Why do you need a puzzle for that? Every that's that has a you get malus for. So it must be that you swore that you you're going to eat and you didn't eat and that's something that doesn't have action. But why would you get malus on this? And this we had a number of times already. There's two reasons why you shouldn't get malus. I don't know if I I have patience to show this now and I don't think you have patience to see it. Monty, not again. Every time you're hungry, you put the whole fridge in one sandwich, and in the end, you barely eat a quarter of it. This time, I'm really hungry, and you know what? I swear I'll eat it all by the end of the day today. You know, you'll get 39 malcus if you don't eat it by the end of the day. I don't want to be rude, but I think I'll be putter for one of two reasons. Does anyone know what the two reasons are? Now, only those who don't know the answer should answer. Yes. Only those who don't know what. You know what you want to see? I'll tell you what you want to see. Here. Here. This is what you want to see. I'll tell you this. Being that we're we're we're doing so well tonight, we might as well just do this. Boy side. As you know, my favorite animal in the safari, the leopard. Oh, now we're talking. Oh, that's a good chair. Or that's the same picture. The same guy just uh enhanced. Now, now that you see this, now I'm going to show you the picture that I took years ago and years ago. And you're going to appreciate why I always show it in cheer. I'm going to show it. Here it goes. Now why this is a picture now? Now now there was chasing the leopard and we don't see it and to make such a pose now. That's why he's show that's misha. You're right. You could show it in many different uh I don't need excuses. I don't even want to show more. I show it at least once a week. Okay. Okay. Now we can go back to the shear it. So Oh. So what happens? So we're talking about that a person said I will eat and he he ended up not eating. Thear says there's two reasons why you shouldn't get malus for that. You don't hit a guy for that. If somebody swears they'll eat this bread went by and didn't eat the bread. You don't get why. So that's super easy since there's no action. He he he swore he's going to eat this bread. He didn't end up eating it. Zero action, zero malus. Okay, great. Says a little bit more complicated. In order to give somebody malus, you have to warn him. Two of them have to come and say, I'm we're warning you that if you do this and this and you don't eat the bread, you'll get malcus. The problem is you have to warn him right before he does the action. The and he has an entire day to eat the bread. He swore he's going to eat the bread. He could eat it whenever he wants during the day. So when are they going to give him? When are they going to warn him? They warn him now. It's not they warn him an hour from now. It's not. So when are they going to warn him of the end of the day? Then he won't have time to eat it. Kids are they're stuck. It doesn't work. And that's why he doesn't get malus. So we must be talking about when a person swears that he ate and he didn't eat. says what's the difference on something that happened in the past even if it happened in the past why should you get mock for that it's also not a miso so says because thera says that if you swear falsely it's similar to that's Why Raven said that is listen to this. Think about it. A guy swears three times that he's not going to drink this bottle and he goes ahead and he drinks it. How many times is he? He swore three times. I'm not going to drink. I'm not going to drink. I swear I'm not going to drink. I swear I'm not going to drink. I swear I'm not going to drink. How many times is he? Says only once. He only has to bring one carbon. This is a typical case of. So now what happened there? Why does it why is it why why you only once? because we know that anytime you swear to keep something that's in the Tyra, it doesn't work. Let's see. Yeah, I think what I was going to say, I don't really need this uh slide, but there's something called meaning if Hashem says you can't do something. So, the fact that you went ahead and you swore that you're not going to do what Hashem already told, Hashem says don't eat. And you say I swear I'm not going to eat. So you don't get it. You don't get a additional a for breaking your your your because Hashem already told you not to eat it. So when a person swears he's not going to eat this piece of bread now he cannot eat it. It's like this bread turns into because he just swore he's not going to eat it. So how could you swear that you're not going to eat it again? It's already so you can't add another is on it. So he says and this word this is it. This is this is what does it come to exclude only this and this will be a question says that if you swear that you ate or that you didn't eat in the past that you don't get malus you do get malus here. carbon. Forget malus. You'll get malus that for sure everybody agrees you get malus. What he's coming to exclude is this is something that you get a you have to bring a carbon but not if you do by mistake you have to bring a carbon you don't bring a carbon and this goes according to here now I can show you this chart it's confusing to me because we did part of it and we didn't do I didn't Not that this right here please. Oh okay. Okay. So says the Gar the ratio goes like I'm not going to eat is considered and what does it come to exclude a case where he says in the past I did such I ate this flow for bread and it turns out he didn't. So what do you just say? You don't have to bring a carbon. That's what only that I will not eat in the future. But if you talk about the past and now you don't have to ring a card that's so let's just say it outside asking how could that be the safa must go according to and you know what the problem is how can you have a ra and a safer with two different what's the what's this table is gold or that this man is a woman that's and zooi this is the case of and what does it come to exclude I ate but he did in that case you are so let's see inside what is the come to exclude it comes to exclude the case of not the two cases what happened in the past two cases of the past you don't get mus comes to exclude that when you do it you don't have to bring a carbon but if it's on the future I'm sorry in the past you see on the bottom it says and this must go according to doesn't matter if you swear in the past or the future So I asked the simple question. How could it be that the is purple is and the is blue doesn't go? You can't have two talking one says. No. Let's do this. Let's see if this button will work. No. Oh, it's delay. Great. This makes more sense. The ratio and the safa are both what? No, I didn't do the the sponsor turning into D. He's right. It's everybody's dream to say that like you got it. It's your birthday. It's your lucky day. See, mom lucky day. I rather I can never Oh, that was his dream. Everybody has a dream. There you go. Where's Where's [Music] Where's Rabbi? We don't We don't have to understand the word. What happened? What? No, I I got to finish the sentence here. says um just as I finish the sentence and you don't understand the word I said then I'm going to go into the SP is going to confuse you and then we go to the next sorry the whole thing is so that that answers the question it's not coming to exclude something I did in the past from a carbon it's coming to exclude the future mimalos. You don't get malos avoc the sponsors now. We're I'm scared to touch it. Here we go. Attorney of the DAF LC in honor of our sons 12 9 for learning Sanhedrin Makud Global still experts in international financial services anonymous in honor of the sadic whose name we cannot say was sitting across from his client shows us what it means to be a giver and sadic as why are you telling me that we have to exclude uh I will eat in the future. What's the difference? Says in the past you are says when you're discussing a future thing. So your your whole exclusion should be something in that category. You're talking about the future. Let's let's take something out that's in the future. It's like a it's a question. Doesn't make sense to to exclude something from the past. So says, okay, small little here says that if you swear you're not going to eat something and you eat one tiny crumb, you're the question is in the entire the shear of eating is usually right. How much do you have to eat? It's never how much do you have to eat? Yeah. Every time we learn this these it's always so the question is says all you need to eat is one crumb in order to be does he say that in the entire crumb maybe a crumb I don't know but at least to be this forget the mitzvah to be is au whatever or when it comes to let's say one tiny amount of the fats of an animal. The whole we always talk about you can't ignore that is just to tell you when you have to bring a carbon but to be to say that you did it that's and you're right. So then how come he picks this case right over here instead of arguing entire about the oh he says I say no notice even a tiny drop really you're right he should have argued everywhere to show you how powerful and how strong are in their what If a person swears, you hear this. What do you have? You have uh malaria. Ants. Yeah, I don't know. Oh, hold on a second. Are you joking? Check this out. I'm not We did not talk about this before, but in case you're you're wondering what he has on him, cuz this is a suit you're coming out about. I'm not joking. We're not going to get to it today. Or this one. You guys remember this one? or this one. It's funny that you have ants. Yeah, this is a shear of hands-on demonstrations and you were just telling me how you want to do demonstrations. Come and show me show me the ants in your pants. Okay. [Music] Everybody agrees that I'm on the on the on that. The question is if I say I won't eat. I didn't say how much. How much is eat? So usually it's says it's a crumb. But says but since when you specify you say if I don't eat a crumb I'm so maybe even if I don't specify I should also be why what's the logic? The logic is because I broke my what's what's the difference how much I ate? I said I'm not going to eat and I ate one crumb. So, that shows that I'm lying. I broke my my my my vow. My my um How do you say in English? Oath. Oath. That's much better. Oath. Vow is another can't be vow. Oath. I broke my oath. I said I'm not going to eat and I ate it. So, what if it's only the No, no, no, no. Even here hold that it needs to be a or perhaps agrees in the whole that it's a and now we're going to use that exact logic and explain the other side that since when a person says straight out I'm not going to eat this small amount one crumb therefore he does hold might hold that Even if you don't explain how much you're not eating, if you eat one crumb, you're why? Cuz that's breaking your vow your oath. Sorry, your oath. Now we have some rice over here and at the end proves it, right? says, "Oh, if you make a oath, you make aw, and you break the by eating one crumb and" and they say, "Where in the world have you ever seen this other than this?" Where where did you see that? Where did you come up with a culture? Where in the eating a what should be asked? Why? Who said is no is it makes it You're saying that's a that's something else you're talking about. I think shares this question. What Yeah. It ruins a culture will ruin your your batch of thing. You can't eat it to be put a little drop on your tongue [Music] even. Exactly. Now what was he supposed to answer this question? Think about it. What is he supposed to answer them? What do you mean the entire you don't have to it's only if he holds in the entire he should have answered that to them. And if you're right that doesn't say it only over here in our he says it in the whole everything he should have said I hold like an entire so says no you're right he does hold an entire it's not it's not proof why because you could say that he really holds in the whole that it's a culture but he was talking about he was talking to them I hold in the like but according to you what about this logic that we're using before I'm just I hold in the whole that's but what about you you should be to me in this particular case not the whole not in that logic that we said before at the end of the day you're breaking your your oath so you should be we Okay. So, next uh oh, what's going on here? You know why? Cuz you told me how great it works. I know. I know. Comes over to me and says it works on time. We start on time. No flaws, nothing. That's what happened. Listen to this. This is this we know a person who says that he's not going to cut his hair. He's not going to drink anything that has to do with the wine. He's not going to eat even the the grape seeds and it has to be a kazay. So what does he do or reus but for some reason it's kaz I didn't have time today to look this up is going to look it up for me. He takes it he doesn't have a full amount of wine necessary to make a nazer restart the whole program. So he takes bread and he dunks it into the wine and together the bread and the wine make a combination of here have a and together the bread you have a full you have a full what's he's another there was a a guy came to from to America to collect money and Um the balab boss wanted to impress him. So he gave he took out a really expensive bottle of wine, you know, one of these 300 bottle of wines and he poured him a glass of wine. Now I just have to say as Musgar I might have said this in the past but say it again because I love this ma has this collection of very expensive scotches. Yeah. He likes this one scotch three $400,000 a battle whatever it cost and uh every year a certain he's very close to certain they go by him come to to they stay by him so one year he's like you guys want him say mash get a drink they said yeah yeah so he pulls out this bottle and he pours them a shot you know each shot is like you know you're looking it's like $30 $40 a shot man this was good this is good take Another shot. It's pouring. One for him, one for him. Gets her six shots later. The guy goes, "I'm telling you, this stuff is unbelievable." It's like, "Momish is like Jack Daniels. It's Mish." What a waste. And these guys. So anyways, the guy pulls out a $300 bottle of wine and gives it to this guy from collecting money. So the guy before he doesn't know what to do with it. So he takes the piece of kala and dips it right into the whole glass of wine. This it's annoyed. It's annoying to this guy like I just gave you this very expensive bottle and dunking your it say you can't. He says the guy says can I have more? Of course no. She says listen I'll tell you um I always had a why did everybody have to make you have millions of yan more than all the wilderbeast that we saw today? It's like three million Jews basically, you know, with all the the children and the adults, the women, tell each one to take some kal, dunk it in the yams, and uh they'll dry out the yams. So, so the guy says he first, as he's talking, he takes another piece of kal, dunks it into the wine. He says, "First of all, it was peso." So, they only had matzah. Matzah doesn't absorb so well. Second of all, it's shuya. It's you can't do it. That's why he kept on dunking dunking. Anyway, so this this clown, somebody told me it looks like Jonathan Ballard, but this is lit. This is our lit from NER. Nothing to do with Jonathan. Great guy, Jonathan, but it's not him. Jonathan Ballard. What? Maybe it's the same if Okay. So, what just happened? Okay. If holding the whole including they don't need a whole she all you need is a if a drinks one tiny drop of wine according to according to your he should be right there he should have to restart the whole program why do you need a piece of bread forget the bread forget a sheir a mashu one we said one crumb is enough it's one drop wine is enough. Why do you need a piece of bread? We learn this is very interesting. A person swears he's not going to eat. Let's say he says, "Today I'm not going to eat. I swear I need to go on a diet. I was at this crazy uh safari. I ate like a third six meals a day and I have I have to go on a massive diet." He comes home. I swear I'm not going to eat. And then he eats a cheeseburger. How many times did he or let's better did he break his is that considered eating eating is that considered eating all the bad stuff. Why is your say? because of that idea of Hashem said you shouldn't need a cheeseburger not your so you can't add a to that and we asked the question according to the you are for [Music] eating why said you shouldn't need it forget you're swearing your doesn't help anything this is very very simple concept that is you cannot swear that you're not going to eat a cheeseburger. Why? Because a cheeseburger is already so you can't add anything to it. But if you swear that you're not going to eat anything today, you're going to go you're going to be in a good diet. You're not even going to eat carbs and sushi and everything else. So once the applies itself to all regular foods, it also applies itself to the things that are for you to eat and that is called here. Check this out. Iser one is the is of or the is of breaking applies itself to the is of tra when you learn in a kyo means when you add other stuff to it. When you add things like sushi once it applies the sushi it applies itself also to the cheeseburger. The only way could could apply itself to bad food to food that's already awesome. In other words, if you if you eat less than the so what's less than say the so less than that according to there is no sh the also holds all over. How does it help me when he says that that he should be even for nothing? The nothing is already something that Hashem said you shouldn't eat. We know obviously you see from here that himself holds like the in the is not the is only in our he holds that if a person eats a he's have a wonderful day you should better do tomorrow or maybe I should give another [Music] merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a share today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdy.com.