Daf Yomi Shevuos Daf 20 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Hallelujah. [Music] [Applause] [Music] to [Applause] be your [Music] with they [Music] are you I forever. [Music] [Applause] Not the Lord. [Music] A good morning. [Music] [Applause] Oh my god. [Music] [Applause] [Music] God [Music] [Applause] to shoot It's a tremendous privilege for me to be in such a tab of people who today, without exaggeration, being in a jeep for 14 and a half hours straight with a two small breaks for dominating for eating but 14 and a half hours. And what do they do? They eat, they go barbecue, they dive in, and they come to learn Tyra. before they take a shower, before they go to sleep, they come to learn Tyra. It's so great to be here with my Galican friends and they're not stop. I haven't even got we got like two worth of people over here. Some of them already heard a shir in Hebrew. Unbelievable. What a day. What a day. I'm going to share with you a few pictures, clips, stop so you understand what's going on here. Here you go. Raoai go raoai in the Serengeti. There's about one and a half million wilderbeast. These guys go from the Serengeti to the Masimara and back. It's called a great migration. And here they are. They're coming back. Thousands of them as far as the I can see. Look down. They're getting mile down. Mile down. And then the jeeps in front of you. That's our TRA. See four jeeps. There we go. That's our guys. All the way around. All the way. There's layers upon layers of these animals and we were driving and driving and driving and it just kept on going. It must have been tens of thousands literally by the time we saw what cuz there's two and a half million. They said I said one and a half million. Somebody said, "No, there's really two and a half million." We saw a very large amount of them. Now, since we came to be the mitzvah of understanding what's kosher, what's not kosher? And we saw the kosher. But then we have the will of the beast. Is it kosher? Is it not kosher? What what's going on? And you know, of course, I told it's not kosher. This one said it is kosher. And take a look at this. The will of the beast is considered kosher. They meet the requirements. We have two million free animals and eat unbelievable. We were kind of today not on the now 14 hours of having a suffic and here's the funny thing. It's the sad thing. the all these people that were on the jeep for 14 hours. They want to do it all over again tomorrow. They're getting up again at 6:00 in the morning. Well, no, no, 5:30 so we could be on the jeep by 6. Do it all over again. Nobody, not one person. Okay, one one person said, "Oh, maybe we should slow down. Maybe we shouldn't do 14. We should only do 13 hours." No, let's do it. So, we're going to do and we're going to go and look at more and more. And once again, I want to remind so far zero people were in this tremendous mitzvah. Not even one person. So, there's anybody out there. The price went up. It's now $2,000 just to be Ellie Heft is I don't want his money. I don't want his thing. I don't want how much money that's in the mitzvah. Wow. I don't know. Do what should we do? What should we do? I'm not doing it for him because he's too late. I got the money too late. The deal was over when I was in 12. But Marad is going to be missing for him. But he submit. Ah, he submitted before voice. One of the one of the classics here. We got a Kaminski and Benny Rodnik and trying to be again. I just want to remind them that who was it? Rebi under over there and said he went for two years. Two years to learn about the animals and being within the animals two years. No, it wasn't wasn't 18 months. Now Ayans took this picture today is my favorite picture of today. The two cubs. Two cubs is very very hard to see. And um this you know what? I don't have to. We'll show a little bit of it. I took this just driving driving for three minutes. This is three minutes straight on a road trying to push these guys out of the way. I'm not going to show you all three minutes. Obviously, we sped it up. Eventually, it's going to start going fast speed, but it's like nonstop the mount of these. And you have to understand these are the size of like I don't know. I can't say really a horse. Maybe smaller horse like a larger than a donkey. Larger than a donkey. And then closer. Oh, fine. Just you understand what's going on. It just goes and goes and goes. Fine. This is Monty Bellski. And here's Lionus hiding out by the jeep because it's trying to catch a wilderbeast. So here it goes. And here's the actual hunt also taken by a Kamyanski. Here's the willbeer beast. As you can see, I don't know if you here. This is the horn, right? Here's the will beast, right? And the lion is right in the grass. And you can see that it seems like it actually grabbed onto it because there's something going on there. And then the willbeer beast gets away. See what happens. right now right there some sort of struggle and boom gets away and you see the lion chasing the line is the head is popping up so to see that is very very rare and a lot of the people saw it including my wife so I'm grateful that she was able I had to take one for the team had to go back to prepare for shar today being that there's not much of preparation so I'm just going to show a bunch of videos of today. All right. So, that's pretty much that. Um, did I want to Oh, one email in Hebrew. I just want to share with you. There's a guy who's it who's a real again, I don't know if I said this said, I'll say it again. I just said a few days ago for the first time, I got we have to use this. He told u bar mitzvah I think it was and he told him listen in life there are two there are two things there's people that are players they're just hands off the table there there are players and there are fans you can be a spectator or you can be a player is not a spectator sport and there's a guy part of the very who Very fine. Really see the what? To be a spectator. Be a participant. Be a participant. Very good. So there's a guy who's not a participant. He's a player. He's he's fairly new to the just a few months. And uh he wanted the sh to come to his he has a wedding hall. He's the head of was it? No. Kazami. and uh it's a multi-million dollar organization and he put on these giant posters all over that the she's coming and he gives and gives and gives and now he's the first one that opened up an official MDY satellite location with the MDY logo the whole thing. So he writes over here that he went to a Shiva house in one of the guys there says one of the veil one of the guys sitting Shiva says what you do MDY he says and how do you know he says I I saw your phone it has one of those stickers stickers says that you do get your back forth before you know it people are talking to the and they're asking him about to share this he said he signed the five people on the spot in the house. So what a what a nish is for the that people came to be but they came out learning and that's a person who cares and wants other people to be from so beautiful. Oh, because it's English here, we have to do sponsors. So, where is Moi? What is going on? You know what? He's in China. the night night sader for you know doesn't that's of all our children actualized in honor of Die Master and all the silver Ellie Dyman for their flea of Rifka and Rifkasil what' he say I think it's so second marriage [Music] and are the members of Bergen County. Teamwork makes the dream work. Teamwork makes the dream work. Here, that's perfect for us. Everybody here in this room is part of the team and it makes the dream work. Daily Spanish anonymous, daughter of a dedicated who suddenly nif this week. Wow. should have an [Music] alias who gave a part of his liver to a baby second more. Okay, this I'll accept. Who's the other one? So, tomorrow remind me I'll do before the mitzvah. Ah, no. Seriously, I think we're just I'm not joking. Wild the beast. We didn't know. A lot of people didn't know. Thought it's a beast. A That's where it comes from. A wilder beast. A va beast. Huh? It's called a gin. So our grandparents Benedict hope you were having a blast with Ellie. Ah he was he was my jeep mate. It was just us. We had a very quiet uh 10 hours we spent together in the same jeep. He's not here. He wasn't he was in Hebrew. Yeah. I know. Anyway, kids monthly innovations. was official. What you told me was supposed to come Dr. Gans for the whole to make many for all the work they do. Here they are with us. We're holding brand new. So the first 18 daff of the the first Mishna actually starts off with these words. No, if I recall, let me see. I don't want to. of and we spoke about too much. Today we're going back to and it's a little technical you know what is what kind of and then we of course as usual we have a beautiful piece of you don't trust me anymore I see no I'm being for real says the oh it says in theory There are only two cases of and that is two cases of the future. I swear that I'm going to eat a certain thing. I'm swear I'm not going to eat something. And we take from those two and we make them four. The same exact thing but in the past. I swear that I ate and I swear that I didn't eat. So let's see each one. Check this out. We had a guy. It was his very very first time. One of the musicians. I forgot his name. Ellie, right? Nakman is very very good folks. They made a big mas today and um I told him you know you know first D it's kind of hard to step into learning shas with the first you know he said no no no the thing with the gallow is unbelievable. Okay so here he goes. That's how he liked it. I swear I'm going to eat it. my my niece after she got married, one of Naki Shabbat's daughters, I'm not going to say which one, she she was sitting by uh Naki's partner and Nahi's partner said, "Listen, if you uh eat Gala," she said, "Gala is the worst. Eat Gala, I'll give you I forgot five grand or $10,000." So, she had to eat it. Her husband made her eat it. She said, "No." He said, "Listen, I'm going to divorce if you don't know." I didn't say like that, but it was it was kind of you're going to give up $10,000, $5,000 for not eating. Eat it. You eat it. You stomach it. So, here it is. And what's I swear I'm not going to eat it. Take a look. He swears he's not going to eat it. And then, oops. What happened? Oh, we have to go. So healthy. I swear that I ate it. This is the second two, the other two. I swear that I ate it. And I swear I didn't eat it. I've seen this guy in a restaurant before. No, in an American restaurant. You don't have these guys in a in our stroll or Yoshi did a special for us. This is Mameish. Hold on. With the wilderbeast. Check out the wilderbeast in the background. He says, "I'm swear I'm not going to eat it." The wilderbeast in the background. So says the I said the first four, right? If a person swears that he won't eat and then he goes ahead, I'm not centered. Is that okay? Driving people crazy. I have to go this way, I think. Like this. Okay, that's much better. Okay. Okay. A person makes a that he's not going to eat throughout the whole there's a certain amount of food they have to eat in order to be it's usually a person says I am I swear I'm not going to eat and he ate one crumb. Where do you find that somebody eats nothing and maybe where do we find that a person just speaks talks and he has to bring a car. So what happened over here the reason why he made he spoke he said I swear what are you getting malus for because he broke your your how do you break the by eating a culture. So it's not that's what's because he broke what's because he broke. How do you break? By eating. So now the is being very technical. If we read it just anybody that speaks Hebrew or even those that don't speak Hebrew can see it's obvious the first words of the what does mean? I swear I will eat because the next one is I swear I won't eat. So says means I swear I will eat meaning but the problem is it says I swear that I won't eat means that I whatever I eat from you will be offered to me in a so over here means I won't eat not that I will eat I won't eat and here's a funny one it's like double negative. He says it's not a that I won't eat from you. In other words, it is aw if I do eat. So what is it means I I swear I will or it means I won't. No, of course it means like we thought in the beginning like in Hebrew, I swear that I will eat. We all had it where you go to somebody's house and they're pretty they're they're great people but just horrible at cooking and you're you're they serve you this thing and you just don't want to eat it. So So you you make a I swear I'm fasting today. I swear I'm not going to eat it. Yeah. happens to all of us. But so that's what happened the forcing deed. So he doesn't know what to do. So he makes he's not going to eat. So that's what it means. But it depends on the situation which is an interesting explain. It's very easy. The we have here is nobody cares. Nobody's there forcing him to eat. When a person makes a that he's going to eat, it means I will eat. But in the he's being this outside forces that are are are bothering this guy. So in order to get out of it, he swears he's not going to eat. I'm not going to eat. I'm not going to eat. That if I do eat and I'll be on the then I'll be he makes a certain they shouldn't eat. Doesn't like it. We have to explain that we're talking about a that he won't eat. Now, if you think about it, it's not changing the words. It's the same word. It's how you pronounce it. What kind of where you put that on? It's, you know, you stick it on the E. There's a little bit of a E over there. It's the same word. So, means I won't. Means I will. Isn't that we already said it in the BR? Let's read it again. It says so they're identical. They're both there both that I won't eat. So why you have to say it twice? So my listen when I say it's not the regular way to speak. So maybe like he messed up the word, you know, like and mumbled jumble something and says he meant to say no, he said it's a it's a no. So says ask I don't understand. Ask the guy what's the problem. Just ask him what what do you mean to do? What what do you mean you meant yes or no? So they says he forgot or is I don't know why this is shaking. Let me move this table a little bit away from that table. No, it's not touching at all. So maybe it's the air conditioner. Something's is literally vibrating. Okay. So he forgot or is and this is interesting. He says I don't know what the word means. Whatever whatever is in the dictionary, that's what I meant. I don't know. I said if it means yes, yes. No, no. Here we go into technical stuff. If a guy says the word in Hebrew, what he says, you know, he says it's a funny word. So it it means what does the word mean? We're going to see soon that argues. He says no does not mean says what is the of when a person says is now we just established is means what's asking which is going to get to if you say that means doesn't like that because it doesn't make any sense he just established You just told me a minute ago that the word is equals. So what do you tell me? Oh, if is means then you just establish it does mean a what's the what's the translation of the word is doesn't mean it's something very different. It's still but it's not. It's so we have a new concept in now called meaning that you you say you see this item right over here this item right over here is okay that it's already awesome. I'm going to take this other item and make this bottle like this cup. Whatever this cup is I want this bottle to be. That's all you do. You didn't say this battle should be this battle should be like a cup and this cup happens to be so the battle is that okay or not okay. So it says now what's the what's the tell me that mus works which we'll see whether it does or not. If you say that this concept of making this bottle like this cup works, then of course it's a real on the bottle and you'd be if you ate from the bottle as you know that the word means that's the initial's question is gonna go away from that. How do you know that the word is here? It says before the word means it's the same thing as that's you going to tell me that. So I tricked you since you're using that. I'm going to also use the posit for and say that means also. So in other words is a type of not what I meant to say is how do you know that the word is means to be what does mean does it means I don't say that this is I say this should be like this how do I know that okay because it says in the like not with the bish means not awah but in the this should be in this and like like this cup how do I know that the word means This doesn't mention a word, but it does say that she becomes with the word and doesn't say the word. You see [Music] like doesn't work is not a good equals and so ra doesn't say that is awert is awah. So we have two ways to say either or is at least two other way. Now sorry and this is cool. Look what he did here. This is my chart and this is Yoshi's much better chart. Goes like this says it's red. The word nether is red. That's the word we're talking about now is in green. Bishu is red. So, what we have here is a sandwich. Red and red on the bottom. For some reason on my screen, it didn't turn red and green. Okay, hopefully they don't see it. So, check this out. You could you use the word is and you could use it any way you want. You could use it you could say specifically, I want the word is to be a nether or I want the word is to be what's the waiting for this whole sha long. What's an whether something is a nether or and the answer is one is one is this true [Music] not means the is on the person himself and is the is on the item another I'm saying that this item should be I am to it I the person that's a big says Listen to this. Took the word and put it between the word nether and between the word. If you use it as a nether, how do you say nether in English? A vow. Thank you. If you use it as a vow, you're only here two days and you already know stuff more than the other guys. Wow. Now by the way a nether doesn't have a carbon only does. So if you use it as a lesson there, what do you say? Good rebing quick and if you use it in a then it's okay. What do you see this? And then the says this chart right over here which is this. Okay. [Music] Great. And says according to their own reasoning does work again. I want this battle to be like this. Does it work or not? We already discussed before says it's perfect. It's literally like saying it doesn't work. So we're talking about the word like the day that his father I should say can't say about your own father especially when your father is alive like the day that that one's father it's talking about his own himself but it's a nice way of saying it I'll just tell you about a personal story that I had when my mother was lifted 24 years ago. So on the first right before the first yard I went toki and I said I heard there's a big Indian to fast on a parent's yard should I fast he says it's a very good idea to fast but say on the first year that you're not doing it as a nether believe nether and that any year you want you could be I took his advice and I'm very happy I took his advice because years later I fasted for many years maybe one of my only siblings I don't think my other siblings do but maybe they do I felt Okay, fast fast. It's not a big deal to fast. But then it became a very big deal when I started giving she and I just it's very very difficult for me to prepare and say sh at the same time not to have a coffee in the morning. You know the whole and I said okay said I don't have to fast it's not a it's not a nether and it's much better for my mothers in the sha that I should be clear and give a good cheer than to fast and mess up for you know however many people listen to the sh. So that's exactly what's going on over here. A person says this meat and this wine should be also to me like the yard site and on the yard site there are people who don't eat and don't drink wine. These are the two items talks about doesn't see fast really says to take out these two items from your diet on that day. So that's to be mbus right that's to say this is also to me like the day of the year of the yard. We're not today is this should be awesome to me like it is in so I I asked the before so but he can't answer now where does it mention the story about huh no where does it mention it You can't answer. You can't answer. Very good. Other people said it's somewhere. You know where it is. Where is it? So you're good. I wouldn't know that. But this is what I always say. The yeshiva guys know Ni from Gmorra. asked him where is it bury anything in tell me okay yes but everybody it's a trick question organizations you get it yes are nonprofit novi organizations okay in other The food is awesome. The the reason why it works is only when you are always being this nether like the guy who has yard and doesn't eat fast every single year because he's himself like a nether that year otherwise it doesn't work. So another according to works but the problem is according to it doesn't work. We said that he holds that mus is not. So why exactly is it then you have this that chart ready? No. Here we go. Oh. Oh well. One [Music] day. Oh, we're asking completely different questions as well. What? Whoa. Who did it? You did it. Official did it. Where's this? Oh, here it is. So, let's just do this first. There's something. So, it says Ravo. Okay, let's get rid of it. Learning with a global still expert in international financial services anonymous in honor of the savic whose name we cannot say who shows us what it means to be giver. Come here Mr. No one knows who you are. How do you know? You're guessing. I'm just guessing. Good point. Okay. Yeah. I don't mean to get it back. Okay. It's back. Bye. So says like this. What the means to say is what language does a person have to say in order to make a to make a good how does it how does it work? Oh, works like this. And now we just do versus I don't want to eat meat like the day of the yard or like the day or like the day that it's only if you do this every year. It's a double option. You have to the nether works when you say it based on something else. In other words, according to ris, a nether doesn't work if you say this is also to me on another. It only works if you say this should be a nether like this. You have to compare it to something else. That's and that's how works you say to me like the day that his father died. What's the difference? Anything that has already but I wanted to tell you is if you say this should be like the day of it also works. Why shouldn't the works anyway? So what are you what are you adding by saying it's it's something that you're to do not because you made it awesome you you're to fast whether you would like it or not. And this is another thing I don't want to get into it so much because I have family members that don't fast in some they don't fast certain fast. So why always some silly excuse I think people are a little malle on it and what yeah why so what's not all them what women women that's something else that's for the new guys I I say this all the time every time I say it no gives me a funny face like okay it's so boring I heard 25 times but I got to say the brisker he comes home right after this he does like listen Um, I'm very on and therefore I can't fast because it's you know to fast and therefore I'm not going to fast. So she sits down across from her and she she puts out a plate for herself and him and they start time out. What are you doing? It's what are you? He says, she says, "What do you mean you said that you have to be not to fast because she says, "Yeah, but my teacher said that I shouldn't put my on my wife is only for myself." Yeah. Okay. So, what's that? They don't fast. Oh, women. No, but there some No, there's some that they themselves don't fast. Okay, fine. Huh? Ah, that's right. That's right. One of the I remember. Yeah. Yeah. Because it's too close to keeper. What? Because it's a he got killed. What? So didn't know that. We just discovered that now. Wow. They made a mistake for like 1500 years. They were fasting the wrong day. Okay, that can't be the reason. I don't know. Fine. Too weak to fast. I don't know. It's the you gave me during dinner. Yeah. Okay, good. Very. By the way, the um all the guys, all the safari drivers, they know Very would have loved it. Next time comes and he says, the guy just starts flooring it. It's great. Okay. I don't know where I'm holding. Oh, see this is a day that's so what are you saying? like this day that it's awesome. You didn't make the so it's not you're not making something that was became a because of you're making you're using something that's because says it's okay they made a mistake because it's whatever but back in the day they thought that was the day to fast I'm just repeating it. So this thing that we just said before that is considered the word is considered a right that's what says that is a says agrees to that both of them are all right so here we almost getting to that What happened almost if a person says the person says I swear I'm going to eat and he doesn't I swear I won't eat and he does that's called a lie and that has different pos what if a person says that's different. He lies about the past. You know these people, patholog pathological liars. Everybody has a friend like that. Two, three sometimes. Like for no reason. Uh I went to the grocery store in the morning, but you didn't. Okay, that's for no reason. They have no control. That's like Rash. One of the one of the examples that Rash brings a person says on a man that it's a woman. That's So when you see this different that's where's the difference. Okay. Now there's another type of nether called which is like saying something like a we say it on we have no idea what we're saying. Yeah. So is like you should not your words. So if you if you you break your and here here it is. Remember these words are one and the same. What does it mean? I left. What does mean? I went here. I did this. I did that. That's in the past, not the future. So, she is also in the in the past, not the future. And that's a big problem. Says that is in the future. Now, we're saying it's in the past. She is in the future. is in the past. The problem is oh here comes that you told me that she and are one and the same. Now if one is in the future, one is in the in the past and they're not the same. No, what I meant is think about it. If you didn't come to what in the world what does that mean? Anybody know? Anybody remember? Seriously. No. What does it mean? What? Deeper. What's Sorry. Oh, very good. But what does it mean? Very good. You're saying you're right. What does it mean? You're right. No. My girl, but what is I'm going to say? Yeah. Yeah. No, seriously. It's a part of the thing. It's good thing we're doing now. But everything we said is the hard part. You said the easy part you didn't say. Here it goes. Now it sounds familiar. Let's do it inside here. Check it out. The two the first and the second. The first one says the other one that's in three later at the end it says that's in this. So why did Hashem change his words? The first time he says you should remember the next one is you should keep. So which one is it? So we say said both of those words both times and both said simultaneously said two words a human being cannot possibly say two words at the same exact moment and you can't even hear it at the same so there's a nest that heard it and they heard saying in both it's just missing each one takes one word but the person said together. So what does that have to do with us? Because we're talking about guess what is we're talking about the two types of swearing. One is a lie and one is but they're both and the first one the first is second one says so we're going to say the same exact answer that we said by how could be why is it different the answer is they're not hashem said both of them in both and that's what I mean to say that they're not that they are the same one is the past and one is the future but said it together simultaneously I understand a woman is to make she shouldn't have to make. Why? Because it's a anything that has to do with the time limit. You do it on once a week on Shabas. That's something a woman is not. But this is an exception to the rule. She is having kish. I don't I just remember learning it. I'm sure you'll correct me if I'm wrong. Something about that a man who makes in shouldn't be mighty wife said but we do. So I don't know like at night in the morning whole rate. Okay. Huh. But over here it says over here it says here we're going to read it again since a woman has to keep she has to mention the and that's why she's to dodes. Why did he have to say shepher in one in one moment to teach us that just like a person gets malus when he says a false not a shepherd but a how do you say shove a in vain in vain. So two he gets malus when he says it's exact opposite of your logic. Why? Because where if I gave you two two situations where would you say the guy has to give when he lies about in the past or he lies in the future meaning he says I'm not going to eat and he eats. What do we call that? When a person says I'm not going to eat and he eats something that's a boy. He ate and by eating you you broke your your your talk about the past he said I went to to Target today and you're in the Serengeti and everybody knows there's no target there's no mice over here so so okay just says let's flip it sorry just like you get malus on on false nose you also get malus on something that makes no sense. Um, they're both we're going to see tomorrow. Maybe you shouldn't get anything. You shouldn't get deal with it. Like he answered him as we're going to see tomorrow that you do indeed get Malus from Raoi. Have a wonderful day. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a shir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor atmd.com.