Daf Yomi Shabbos Daf 56 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning good morning how's everybody doing today is the 22nd day in the aimer and it's lema of kai mitsuk ben two brothers i'll tell you a little bit about them in a second if everybody could please mute would be greatly appreciated ben betsalos that's yasuko bram's grandfather who was lifted 30 days ago lily nishmas ziesel bass yosef allah shalom from maisha weiss once again is gary net on what's going on if everybody could please me i don't think gary's here so okay so everybody please mute i'm hearing different noises coming in good morning everybody um so uh isabram who's a big part of the team behind the scenes he uh got us to where we are today on youtube with the whole live thing we had a whole fiasco back in the day to get to a thousand in order to live stream you need a thousand people a whole so in his honor i'll read a little bit about his grandfather usually i don't do this but basically this is a little bit of a daffody story so everyone from manchester knows about copes cash and carry which grew from selling a few greeting cards to like a large business his grandfather wasn't religious and he sent his two sons off one became a doctor one was an accountant and then when they came back they became back religious and the whole family changed including his grandfather they moved to saul ford and his life changed where he switched in luxury cruises which we are going to be one on one day beezer hashem for our serum to a life of davening and learning he was always from the asura rishing in dominion and he always had a malcolm kavanaugh torah in manchester and he's the kind all the way until age 95 hidden when he was 95 years old he always listened to shiyurim and the kitzer i have a soft spot for this man because he traded in the material world for the eternal world what biggest horse can it be to leave behind an entire family but a torah of mitzvahs just three children a legacy of 31 grandchildren over 100 great-grandchildren and even a few great great grandchildren he was a very proud he's very proud of his kids mikhail zalman who learned afiyomi and even listened to this year and my mother linda who doesn't listen to this year i just added that who raised an amazing family for a man who truly valued toyota this year is lovingly sponsored by his family in this host of avrom garcia mitsal beautiful so at the end of the day this is a picture of his grandfather looks like a hajj vaid copes cash and carry i've never heard of it you guys know what it is you english people yeah okay so anyways you saw me come from great roots and we all appreciate what you've done for this year you've never heard of him you saw her brown he's the the quiet one behind the scenes but he's a big tech guy and helps us out tremendously behind the scenes and another one of our sponsors this is an amazing thing firstly biggest chicago fall that you do and the team the big team we have here it's not poshit we have yosef and gershon and yasaka and avi who had a meeting with me yesterday does all the stuff there's a lot of people we see the great efforts that go into preparing delivering dispatching all the facets of the share the pictures charts all enhance that yami lima in fact they managed to circulate the picture of that non gimel on the daffy me what's up group here in england and believe a couple of members have signed up to what's that group as a result he's dedicating this morning's shielder firstly of two outstanding brothers in the london kahila danny and ellie sellinger baylor and rafael nader what's going on in england i don't know why england is like this who have both been hospitalized in icu for weeks due to the virus this tehillim bakshim dani gradual improvements wind off the ventilator but his brother of falls in extremely critical condition both brothers paragrams of khasid francis beyond normal as sagas ellie's behind the zikr menachem organization which arranges summer camps for tens of children who are sick with cancer kids are the stress of the sheer in this house of all the mis the massive that they bring should bring a much needed yeshua thanks for the opportunity and your tremendous about this terror gavriel for thinking about others and sponsoring and trying to do whatever you could do for refuse lama same guy is daf nun hey with the night yeshiva friend the line about wanting to get some attention after bursting through a dam was referring to me that i now wanted to reach out and get attention meant to be self-deprecating and clever obviously did not come off clear i'm very upset about this i thought he was talking about me i was all excited finally another bernie the burn and somebody could put me in my place and now he's taking it back i had a feeling but i was hoping that i'm not happy about this all right i'm very sorry you don't have to be sorry if that wasn't clear and ask me listen if i was really insulted by it i wouldn't have read it online i like that kind of stuff it's it puts another dimension i've heard it a number of times there's probably something to it wouldn't have the audacity to speak to you or anyone that way beard and no beard i have tremendous amount of respect for you and love your share i wanted a way to give you feedback about my friend reacted but my mamas feel terrible and came up so disrespectful please they probably said it no less wrote this email as soon as i saw you read the email please be michael you strolled good friend matsi no need for meghila was all in good spirit and here's another one of follow-up from arie weinstein thanks for the shout out in yesterday's shirt my mother-in-law used to think that i was one of the lamb of afzalikim but you just made it public so now i was bumped up to llama zion all kidding aside i can't even tell you how many people called me today thanking me for giving them the idea to actually do something extra especially in times like this especially in time like this in other words let's keep on with this acts of random hesed just going to people's houses delivering things you have no idea what it could do i need to thank you ellie for giving me this supposed to be a shuttle with you may this course for your mother be may this be as close for your mother's inshallah as well before slaying officers yeah people should keep on going and doing khasadin uh oh i just printed this out literally i got this uh a minute before share so let's read this real quickly because it has to do with youtube from charlie zolte from toronto hi rebelli i've been following the full show on youtube since the beginning of myself shabbos and truly love it for your ability to clarify even even difficult sugars the alpha charts and most importantly you're positive and joyful attitude about teaching along with the rest of the kabura i live in toronto and wish i could be part of the live share but youtube will do for now one day we'll open up a uh a community just for this year we'll call it heberville and we'll build these nice houses american style and we'll have a base message in the center and we'll do daffy me all day long i wanted to offer some help to other youtube learners with the difficulty in finding the most recent video in the first few hours after it's uploaded so it used to be that after the show was over i clicked done and within a minute or two it would populate on youtube and was ready to go today it takes 12 hours something they say to do with youtube i hope it's a youtube thing that they could correct so meanwhile the most recent videos can always be found right away by going to the main daf yami ramapa shemesh youtube page and clicking on the playlist tab so go to daf yamirama because youtube page and click on the playlist tab the first playlist is insafes clicking it will open a play all tab that contains all the sheer manchabas on the bottom right side of the page the most recent video can be found there right away okay so if you want to do it through youtube there's a way to do it you go to the playlist if you want to go to eightminute.com you can do that if you want to go to tour any time you can do that if you want to watch it on our app you can watch on our app if you want to uh do uh what is it called podcast podcast there's other ways to do it and if you want to wait 12 hours until it populates you can do that as well did a fix for that already for what how there's a video that goes up every day it has a link to right so there's a little video called uh it's a 50 second video if you go on that you click you can go into i couldn't i myself couldn't find it but i'm older the younger guys for sure will find it wishing you'll continue that's nothing that types ellie stefanski yeah that will come up first well come that video and what do you do with that video as soon as it's done the next one it plays is your daily video and also has this description of the uh oh so you played that video and then the next video comes up yes i didn't cop that so why don't you write that in the video while you're writing other stuff say please wait 10 seconds until this video is over and the next video will be the video that will be more understandable for people like me that are not such good understanders wishing you continuous all your share and all the endeavors and that you may come back to the regular base madrid because charlie salty from toronto let's go again another death of agathito i have to say this i had a lot of khaleesha sadas we have a big time with hakem in our neighborhood his name is he's a rebbe in aish neisha torah and he watches the share every day and last night he sent me a message he says by the way you missed a taiswas and i did miss a texas not an hour at isis and bubba bastard a lot of you have been through a seam in my house on baba bastrop and i threw a big seal nobody understood then why it went for hours and a seven course meal and i'll tell you now a little secret because i think it might be a little hazard for some of the island that was a scene that i did on bambastar because i finished bob ambassador 20 times it was a big accomplishment for me for back then 20 i did a 20 casares i threw a big seal and even so i don't remember anything from above bachelorette because gave me this thing my memory is not the best and one of my favorite probably my favorite line in all of babasra is the concept of apache being you think he's a simple guy he sits in the back of the show but when you come up to gane then you'll see that that guy is the main guy and the guy that you thought with the big frog and the players and the whole thing he's in the back that's heist is on the spot over there says and he and he doesn't bring it here he says to explain it we all know that rav yehuda was shmuel's talmud as we had yesterday in the gemara that reviewed that shmuel why aren't you paying attention to this woman she's complaining she wants the entire and she said it's not my my deal she should go to marouk for my rebbe [Music] because shmuel didn't listen to this lady and yoda on the spot says and when i learned it in babasha it's tremendous you know this is well schmuel didn't answer but then he answered them correctly he said it's not my deal i'm not the avbesdan maruqua is but maroqva should have been rebuked by shemoshmal should pay attention to her that's what the other thing is anyways you see that a person his greatest shmuel could lose his status in emma's because of everything something of not paying attention to a woman one time and all of a sudden when you come up to shema wait a minute isn't ravi who did the famous talmud of shmuel no he's over here and shmuel is over there unbelievable i can't believe i missed that place as a game but at the same time everybody has their own miles and historians and you got to roll with what you have whatever your boy who gives you that's what you deal with we're holding definitely aleph all the way on the bottom the last few words on nunheimet basement they didn't go in their father's way small now if you want to describe a russia you don't say oh this guy is such a rush he's not even like the khabib sky if you're describing somebody they don't say he's not like one of the greatest people ever lived so what does it mean [Music] you should know they didn't sin what does it mean that they took shaykh they took bribes of him they weren't exactly like the father would go all over the world and judge people right there and then should never have a hold up he didn't have a secretary he didn't have a gaba he didn't have a driver he went by himself took care of business but he went all to all these places the shove this is struggling they were nice and comfortable where they lived and they sent people out to bring people to them they had their their people their helpers the people that wrote the different stories they fanned up their salaries and it wasn't proper it's like but it's not at the end of the day they weren't even they did something improper but not as not the hat wasn't as grave as you think it is actually whether they did a real aveda or not remember says that they were livium they were the sons of shmuel who was a lady they were entitled to myself the ten percent you take off your food but they requested it and the fact that they requested it they were dialing they were the judges of clay israel what did they do to everybody else everybody else didn't have the rest of the levine suffered they took all the stuff yeah you got the the wealthy guy that goes over to shiva and he donates uh the dining room in the yeshiva so what happens a month later he calls up the receipt and says i need to get my son into yeshiva of course that's what happened there they gave their money to these people to do business the people did business for them gave them back all the profits without taking anything off the top so now when these wealthy people that did business for them came for the entire what is guy going to do he's stuck that protects embarrass them melaye balibata that that's a problem giving preference to people in dinai toro is a big problem they took something they shouldn't have taken with force either it's madness kuna you know when you've shot an animal you have to give the cayenne vicar if you were at the shritan hulu you saw literally the jaw the foreleg the keva you give it to the kind they grabbed it doesn't doesn't belong to them they took it oh so here's the famous gemara the famous story with david and basheva basheva was married to riya and david took her as a wife whoever says david sinned with asia is making a mistake and of course david his whole life the chuva and aveira what exactly did they do you make a mistake very interesting that rashi says on the word maskel not here he says does he say it here i don't think so he's successful why is it called masculine like seiko because a lot of people think that people that are successful they have a lot of say he's very good he's very brilliant in business no gave him that that money made him successful but that's what people call it they call it a mask is it possible that he is i think i saw him now shields shields is on it right my cousin from uh i forgot where he lives already i said in maryland somewhere where's shields i saw him on the first screen anyways he's here every day his brother's name is nassan and nassan on yomatsumoth competed in the and he international in third place all the shields are geniuses including the one that's watching here where is the i'm sure he's on that screen i just don't see him he's hiding very quiet kid anyways so the guy told him la cora he says what's your name says nasan shields he says no no there's no such thing as nasa your name is nathan in this in hebrew we don't have a saf yeah but anyways we do have here nassan navi gave musser to you know what it means to come in third place in all of the world they were asking questions like they gave him one word and he said okay tell me where it is where kid that's kid is uh i don't know 14 15 years old i mean oh here he is aaron shields top top corner by me all right anyways he came in third place of all the world he sent in the tv crew because he couldn't come here supposed to fly him in big thing i'll go upon him why did he do bad he did bad says the gemara bigish last night he wanted to sin villain but he didn't sin and for that the navy rebuked him and said you did bad omarav so rav says like this rebbe the famous rabbi the awesome david he is the descendant of david muhammad of course it makes sense he's trying to find an excuse for david we'll see later what rabb says rapha says also it's not madura bazi why is this one it says raw a lot in the torah by by the kings and everything but this one is different means he did the bad deed and by david it says lastly he wanted to do in the future yes it says a lot of times yes it says a lot of times but not in this context not for somebody that he didn't have veritas say la says if he did that very she'd do that there is so should have brought uria into the sanhedrin says taiswas of course well a king doesn't have the right to kill somebody without a sanhedrin of course he brought bro so the vard is that when you are a king you have to bring somebody into sanhedrin but you don't have to go through the whole the whole thing of of a regular of somebody that's hive miso do this and then you can't go over to the toyota would never call it an asia's ish your wife there's no kidushin on asia's ish the fact that tara calls her your wife means that it did work the condition were proper regulations any soldier that went out to war would write a get to his wife or if he was in a rush to get out he would send the get from the battlefield back to his wife why either that his wife shouldn't fall leave him to the disgusting brother-in-law that his he doesn't want his wife to fall to or what about a naguna if we don't find the body it's not right that the wife should not be married for the rest of her life so what kind of get do you give rashi says it's a get aknai if he doesn't come back then the ghetto ma retroactive from the time he gave it tyson says no you give a real get today and when he comes back they remarry but they do it in in sinnah i don't know why it helps so much because if everybody does it then everybody knows that there's again what says you do it in private nobody knows for a fact that there's a get so they all consider asia and they stay away from this woman even though she's completely divorced according to taisus it says that yeshi the father of david we had yesterday ishai was one of the four people that had never sinned he told david by the war by shaw the one in charge of a thousand and make sure your brothers are doing okay and take their aruba what does that mean the the things that are mingled between a husband and wife in other words make sure you get your gitan he learned to learn from his own father make sure people divorce their wives before they go to battle you can't blame a king for the death of the soldiers that the ammon did to the jews so just like this zero het on all the people that died from the guy so too you're not gonna have a sin for uriah dying and what happened with uriah the issues ish of bashar my time why not he rebelled against the king the umar lay because uriah said he called according to rashi he called the of my master adoniyah in front of king davin and then he said the adani referring to the slave this the servants of my master i saw the queen argues and he says that the according to rashi is incredible if a person messes up and he says he cut off his head on the spot so so he says i i don't get that why would i kill him because he said so taisu says because he didn't listen to david david said come home i need you to come home and be with your wife so he says i'm going to come home and be with my wife what does he say here the lushen is i'm not doing that it's not fair that all my friends are out in battle and i'm going to be home and that's the murray by malcolm x he didn't listen to david didn't come home was looking for an excuse for david but i myself rap say if you look at it only in this that's all david has on his list he says wait a minute there's a contradiction once in his lifetime accepted so in fact according to raviya two time not one what was the la shanhara so there's a bunch of sukim here so real quickly outside basically dabra melech was searching for descendants of shaol his best friend the son maybe he could find somebody so he went and he found siva a slave that happened to be the slave of seoul and he and the slave told him that there's someone called mipi bushes you guys remember me boys from brachas who was me people ishas the man brought us all the way in the beginning of brachas tells us that called me bush is my rebbe that he embarrasses himself he makes his hands bloody and everything every question he has he goes to my rebbe me vaishas siva tells david that someone called me pibushes who happens to be a grandchild of shao the son of son but he throws him under the bus he says he's he's a nobody he's not a time he's beloy dover he doesn't have he doesn't know how to learn and then dublin finds me peabody and finds out that he's he's a huge deal however he accepted the los angeles doesn't like him he's against him and he punished him so because he's in the kabbalah and harambe raph says there's another aveira here let's see inside all these back and forth guffa what was the last where is this meepee boyce's guy bayern siva stephen the slave said only one chart today bellai davar you see how it's written with avov we pronounce it with the aleph he told him and basically the gemara is saying he told him he's a nobody beloy with the aleph so this the king david sent to get me bushes from ben amir and then it says in the next puzzle with avov and we read it malay with an aleph he was full full of torah greater than david bigger than david and tyra is a fat liar he's tall he said that meep bushes doesn't know how to learn he's a nobody and all of a sudden he's bigger than david kihoda so when when siva said that mipi bush is a bad guy and he doesn't care about the king why did listen to him he should have known he's a liar accepted his words and he accepted that me people just against them i'm giving you slave tiva everything he publishes owns it's all yours why would he punish me pervasive because me provisions was bad if the bushes were against david according to tsiva and david accepted it it's not considered kabbalah because dwarmani karim khazebe there's something called dwarmanikar you you see with your own eyes that there's truth to the matter and therefore it's not i'm not accepting what siva said word for word i see with my own eyes that mipi bushes is against me how do i see um exactly what it means i'm not 100 sure he didn't shave his legs it seems like or the matsuda says he didn't wash his legs that makes a little bit more sense maybe but like okay he didn't take care of his mustache i mean he should have coming how do you dress for a king you got to take a haircut you got to take care of yourself he shows up like a slump his mustache instead of going like this and went like that a hole he didn't even have shaved legs what's going on here why are you not with me he says me biboy says i know about that slave tiva what he told you he's a liar as soon as i realized i took my donkey there and i started about i already said i'm giving you back half you take half he takes f so how should me people just answer this the king says i'm giving you a half i'm giving you back i agree with what you're saying so maybe boys so we're familiar with human psychology i don't want it take it back i don't i don't need anything don't do me any favors it's not it's not the right way to speak to a king don't do me fave don't give me half of my stuff back you know what keep it all so it's a it's like a husband to talk like that take it all i can't believe that this is you you're in peace everything is great and you're giving me half of my stuff oh my lord and you're my team i'm saying to myself when is david going to come in peace and this is what you do to me you take away half my stuff you give it to the slave on this liar that's i'm a slave a guy to try to kill me and try to destroy my life and he takes half of my belongings i'm not upset at you who am i upset you're a fighter the son or the grandson of the fighter that's adam aron i've shot mippi bush has just made a fight with agusburg who is upset at his barcode taking away his stuff that moment that dubra melech said you mipi butches and the slave should divide up everything yasabaska of armaloy and why did he do so because he accepted los angeles one time in his life one time in his life except the sinhara one time yatza basketball is going to have to divide the entire kingdom of yehuda the whole kingdom with the slave yeruvam the terrible year of um why me because david accepted the hara one time and that destroyed chloe's fall you rob them destroyed created of a desire and clydesdale he didn't allow christopher to go up to the base amigdale regal he put the golden calves everywhere of a legolino martinu it was all one thing led to the next because of what he did they split them because they split them he created because he created zara golos whoever says yes wow i was waiting no who's new today no way andrew glatz what happened something with his mother to ask him what's going on mother his mother is not feeling well she needs rashmi malcolm before andrew glass from chicago wow welcome welcome how you doing andrew tremendous guy all right i see what you did obviously i see what you got you waited to the two dots and then you jumped in but because of the delay of zoom it was two seconds later okay thank you i appreciate it uh if you say there's way too much time the days around no no no there's a lot of raid here a lot of raid anyways if you say sh was over on the head of the zoro you're making a mistake and again it's the same thing it seems from the post and the possibility so the same idea is not like david obviously didn't do he's not available you know you don't say on on a russian maruti i'm not even going to give an example he's not like david miller he's a russia and here's david somebody that's not like david means he's a the greatest sadiq ever but he's not as big of a tsaddik as david okay if she's worshipped he wouldn't be in this passage he wouldn't say he's not like david um so what does it mean when he's older when he's his old man his wives were able to steer him away he had a contradiction in the one hand it says that they were able to get him it says it wasn't exactly like his father's heart but the similarity is again the same idea they tried and as we're going to see soon it's not just a tribe he should have been he did there was something in all these things even reuben he did something there was something he took the bed out of it but there wasn't any sich there was something he had wives that were no good and they did have a desire there was a hat there but not that he took a gecco and he bowed down to it and did have a desire that's not what happened he didn't do it he yeshua wanted to build he built it's the same words given it means he would try to he wanted to but he didn't succeed so then you show also should be the same exact thing according to this obama i look at this verse is it possible that these kings lived beforehand also he didn't destroy these these terrible achaba yoshio biram how's it possible that they waited generations until the oyster came while they called up the social media's role the two kings austin shaffer destroyed everything before your hgo allah makes rejoining so we have to make a comparison between it was the other kings that did so but the torah considers it as if shiyao is the one that destroyed it because he went ahead and he destroyed whatever else was around after shining he didn't build it but it's as if he so back in full circle if your wife does something bad and you have the ability to rebuke her she'll listen to you and you don't mallow then the city becomes yours so his wives these mitzrim they were doing zara he should have said something why don't he tell them stop it's not proper no yeah let them be i'm not going to get involved that'll show them by us i'm not going to fight with them so the entire go knock down the trees favorite dessert do all the side things that are not available and that this pasta shouldn't be written by yasurab hashem that he did says rasheed to teach us look how bad it is when you don't rebuke your fellow friend wife family member city country as we had yesterday if you're a king and you can rebuke the whole country you don't then the whole of error goes in you and it says it's worse not to rebuke than to be ashamed um when he married the daughter of power she brought in today we could understand it on a little ipad you bring in a thousand songs or whatever she brought a thousand instruments vomit with desired appliances oh we used this guitar for this episode is our playlist we use this trumpet for this thing yeah she's cute she's doing this thing she should have put her in the place right away all right so let's buy that was the beginning that was the seed of aveda zorro you marry that bad woman you are the gabriel the nuts unbelievable the idea of doing something small so gabriel the mouth did something small he put a reed one little stick in the middle of the ocean volleyball certainly and sand started to gather around it another available it started growing until it became an island called greece the allah of neenah craft goddess raymi and this is the great city of romy in other words planted a seed gabriel planted a seed he got married and then that is our grew the the avarice grew grew to the point where that from that place that that little reed came the destruction of the second base hamikdash and gulliver's reply israel israel that same day europe put in that day that he brought two golden calves so again he planted the golden calf they planted a little hut the italian oven and that's the italy of yavan in other words of greece you plant the thing here i plant the hut there and then they start planting it grows and grows until it becomes a massive city um you are mistaken did from the age of eight if you read it like this it would say from eight to eighteen what it means really is from eight to twenty six in other words eighteen years of kingdom land every entire that came he said you owe this guy twenty thousand dollars and you owed so he went back and he paid up twenty thousand dollars fifty thousand dollars a million dollars ten dollars all everything he did all that money he paid back maybe you'll think oh he gave river in shimon's money so he goes back to the room and says hey that million dollars she gave you five years ago please give it back to shimon no that's not what he did he went into his own account and paid people back from his own money completed and this is an argument says in fact he was about trouble and one more in our generation beautiful story finish off the peric um this is there's an incredible rashi in sanhedrin that's on the base you should look in there it's on the bottom of the page and he brings this story and he brings this gemara again it's very interesting that rashi in sanhedrin brings this gemara rashi over here doesn't bring it twice just above the basket brings our gemara but this is over it doesn't bring it for whatever reason maybe because not a the right mice so it's a little bit controversial so to speak so they they threw it in but in a different place you have to go find it i don't know what the shot is it should be in shabbos because he they call chavez he says that this nothing means sparks he had a halo like a glow around his head what happened there was a man marokwa who was in love with asia's fish to the point where he became sick one day he got lucky the asia city didn't have money and she came to him and said please give me a loan i'll do whatever you want me to do and at that moment he controlled himself and because he controlled himself he became maruktva the royce golos he became the god dar he became a halo around his head says he had a a halo like like in this picture of a of of a mallach of an angel he had a glow around his head this is nothing to do from one moment of controlling oneself the godless a person can reach um i was sitting and i was falling asleep the hazoe became and i saw in my dream they reached out to nassan and they said your chuva is mikubal where macabre yeshuva take it away [Music] can you oh call