Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 99 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning, Ra Boy. Today was a record day. I got I had so many so many emails and text very cool things. I don't know what to put in. What now? We're going to start one by one. Laser Goldman. This is absolutely mind-blowing. No matter where I turn, MDY is everywhere. My uncle Gary Rose got me hooked in the da. I'm a Lakewood ber traveling through Utah and just look at what I stumbled upon. Unbelievable. Our chef. Oh, I'm I'm in the wrong. Here we go. This I'm an This is Rabbi Spiro. I work for his brother Borrow. Look, I'm in Utah on a and he is a chef over there. Look, people are doing MD. Look, the chef. It's breakfast. Look what he's doing. Rabbi now from big part of the daf his entire class finished migill with mdy and therefore their in saying in saying this [Applause] very good This uh this is an unbelievable email. I love this guy. Aba Renert very very big part of the year. He made a big roam. I never thought that I would reach this milestone after watching you on meaningful people almost four years ago. I went from someone who didn't think learning a day was possible for me and gave up on ever finishing shing and learning with MD wife for three years and eight months. Barak Hashem today Wednesday I and everyone else who started suka reached half a shas on their shas ferris wheel I must point out that this learning is lashma as there's no crews waiting for us at the end I started on Friday July 9th 2021 1356 days ago with the thought of finishing seven makas in 6 months and then I would be done a few weeks later daff 32 you gave a live sharing bar shabas does. I brought my family from Lakewood to Burough Park for Shabas so that I can attend the masi shabashir all the way in the beginning. He was a dedicated dedicated MD wire and a good there must have been at least 30 people there and I was amazed at how much time and patience you have for everyone after the year. I heard that the sh got a little bigger since then. You asked me that night if I got to know the and seeing that I was puzzled. You told me that one of the beautiful things of MDY is that we are all family. I didn't understand that at the time, but I understand it now. As a matter of fact, I was once walking down the street and someone shouted at my name. I said hello, but didn't recognize him and he asked I asked him how we know each other. He said that we never met, but he saw me once on the shar and now we are. There are many emails from people who talk about how since they started, they didn't miss even one day of the year. I'm not one of them. Along this journey, there were days that I missed especially over y that I not kept your advice. I have not kept your advice of I would have thrown it in the towel and fall off long ago. There were times I would miss more than two, three days in a row and I would feel like I was slipping down a slipp scrambling to get up to get my grip. I come to terms that I missed those days, write them down and would have to catch up later and then the next day just start from the new daf. Many times not understand but not knowing but knowing that just pushing play was today's avoid. You hear this pushing play is today's avoid because he wasn't in the suga. He was missing but that was his avoid. It was hard to do but you do it and hopefully I would understand something. But even if not, it's about showing up even after you're down. It's not about the streak or perfection. It's about knowing that every day is a new yoi and a new opportunity. This rule is for listeners. Of course, the maker has a different set of rules. It's about getting up each morning no matter what happened the day before to hear those hal inspiring words. Good morning. And then we all respond from all over the world. Ah, there's a joke. How do you know if someone is a vegetarian or is the ofer? Just wait a few minutes and they'll tell you. If I may, I would add, how do you know if someone learns the rebellious to the mix? Because when people aren't proud of something, they want to share it with the world. Over the years as a car to you, I went against my nature and was against his nature. A boy sites against people's nature. But that doesn't matter. I was to harass to harass. I was going I went against my nature to harass and bring many people to the share because you're supposed to harass. I'm not pointing at you. I'm pointing at the shar. You happen to be sitting right in front of my face and you were talking to somebody trying to harass you and some of them. Let's do the There's the joke. How do you know someone is a vegetarian? diamonds or is the just wait a few minutes and they'll tell [Music] you in my conversation with people who argue that they don't learn the d because they won't the whole sh because it's a waste of time I would respond that a good sed is when two kuses argue for an hour over the at the end of sedar even if they still don't have they would consider it a good sed because they tried similarly if one tries to understand and it only gets a little even less maybe only the emails that full 45 minutes seder is just this with Hashem as he's trying his best with that being said it's pretty nuts that you live in and give a shir there and how much that affected not only the trajectory of my and my family's life but also the lives of tens of thousands of people all over the world biblical I'm grateful that Hashem created you in my lifetime because I can't think of another person that I would have been able to do this with so consistently no pressure here's to the next half. Here's the next halfemid. I love you. It was unbelievable email. This is what can be done and should be done. And we'll have many many more of these. We just started here in Betar and inim this is Betar I believe on a nightly basis every single night. A nice shows up. Very nice. If you ever wanted to learn, this is the to get hooked Harris and coming up with their own ads. Just 23 blot, one grade magir starts Thursday with reansky. A bunch of people sent in that they want to be ambassadors. I'm talking about a bunch. This is just three that I put together over here. I joined the san. I'm interested in being ambassador for pose. Uh Bar Acriman and yesterday Ellie as I want to be ambassador for Crown Heights. No Harowitz. This is my second time writing. I've been a part of MDY since February 1st and I'm a single DAFF. I would like to be the ambassador for West Hartford or Connecticut or the New England region. Attached my son. Sometimes I listen to shear in the car when I drive off to school. When I don't have you on, he asked to listen to your shear because he says I don't understand what he's saying, but I like it. I think there's a lot of adults that say the same exact thing. I hope to bring you this year when he's in Israel next. Thank you for all you do. Run out elephant. Check this out. This is the sun. It's beautiful. He says the maybe you want to hear that ra again. I'm a ra. Maybe he listens to the Hebrew one. [Music] Ron's name is Ron. Is this right? Do we have time? Okay. It's a long one. I hope you're in your My husband Shim and I have been married 32 years. Four adult children, three grandchildren. We live in sunny Los Angeles. A few years ago, a friend visiting from New York in tradition to your DAFF. We're not your average yeshiva family. More out of the box. Shim was always has always tried to learn through the years and found some nice shirim along the way. But nothing has transformed him the way you and your class has. To see my husband excited about learning to him give over the knowledge to our sons has been an incredible journey for our family. So, I'm grateful to you. It's a new founded light that has ignited inside of him. Shim had the privilege of joining Yaf once in Israel. He was able to you know this guy Shiman. What's his last name? Kagan. He was last year. He went to the insane Shabbat and he's still floating from it's been Shiman's He was at the Shabaton. Shabat. He's not related to Oh, now here it comes. It has been Shim's lifelong dream to go on a safari. He falls asleep at night googling safari trips. He spends his days caring for everyone, taking care of elderly and hospice residents, a member of Sulli. He gives himself of himself 24/7. If I can make this dream come true, I think I could go down as the coolest wife ever. I know your your May safari is exclusive. So stop. It's not exclusive. It's for everybody. It costs a typical safari like this cost over 12,000. Usually about $15,000 to go, right? How much does it cost if you go with the cost? No, seriously. You looked it up. Yeah. Yoni has this trip for $14,000. Head. We are going. It's going to be what? Yeah. Yeah. Per person. $4,000. What we're doing is we're only charging six 6,000. It cost us more. We're charging six if you donate $20,000 to MDY. Anybody that does that is invited. It's not exclusive at all. Those who donated last year and went on the on the Poland trip are not invited this year. It's it's not exclusive at all. Anybody mo most of the staff is not coming because it's extremely expensive for MDY. It cost about 10,000 I think per person or whatever it is. And we are 12,000 lum but there's going to be singing. There's going to be shurim. It's it's a different trip. It's going to be on the highest level. The food is going to be the highest level. The place that we're going is the highest level. It's going to be everything full. The that we even have a charter jet to take us from one place to another. Everything is top top top. No, I don't have jets in African car. I look forward to hearing you. Am I exaggerating anything? 100%. Look it up. It cost about 14,000 over here. It's if you give ducka if you're giving zuck anyway. So that's what Shamshi is doing. He's figuring out how he give his duck and pre-do it so he can get out and it's limited. Say real quickly. This is this was on a podcast. I thought you'd enjoy it. It's kind of long. It was a on a Yiddish podcast. I see have here Yeah, is the artist. He's the artist. Okay. Yeah. Business this month. publishment, personal. Okay. Every single day. um that's number one. Number two, guys, whatever you speak now, they hear later. It disturbs the people that are listening later. I know you think that it's on here, but Okay. Okay. Okay. No. So, I I saw I said I said and somebody rolled his eyes at me like why are you shushing me? 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Thank you rebellious leader for teaching me half a shot started suko 1 1356 days ago what happened over there Adam listen you gota you got to up those zoom those zoom numbers you know somebody has to do it we started hiring guys in India for that my father David banara ascara ascara ascara leelish vita MDY kids monthly art of the month and the whole MDY staff to continue to make so many for all the work they do including being on Zoom while you're in the live share. We have amazing daff here. As we are in middle of a gata, so we have to go a little quicker. We're not going to understand everything. There's a lot of tough things to understand. But we will be pulling out some beautiful some beautiful ideas from the sug. What did I say? There's going to be another which I will in the future in the future this that we have will be forever. No going there's a concept of a president and a vice president. There'll be the president David, the new David, the older David, the one that we're familiar with. He's the second in command. He's going to be the vice president. Why do you need a day? Why do you need day? It's It's dark. It's fenced there. Are they saying outside? There's no there's no light says the marshall of a chicken and a bat here. Chicken and a bat that they were both waiting for the day to come for the for the sun to to rise. So the chicken tells the bat, I understand why I'm waiting for light. When I was younger, I was a 10-11. I learned Tifra. I had the opportunity to be together with uh Oh, David. I I don't want to forget. I owe you 100 bucks for the best. He won. He won. He won. Now, second place. We're going to make it easy. You get the 100 and you get the 50 for your son. Oh, wow. We have to We have to show the two pictures. I I don't have them, but whatever. You should go have best calcium. Best permium. I used to go into to these little barns with the chickens. Once it starts becoming shakia time and it's still light outside, they're they're completely blind basically. You can walk over them, go like this. They don't even see chickens. They they need the light. So says the Gamaro. And here we even have a little video. Good stuff. Not gross at all. This rat with wings. And he's going to attack. Not a bat. A vampire bat. I still do not know what's going to happen to them. Look at him move. He's hungry and his two sharp crystallite canines are going to end his burning thirst. That's it. So you see that there is something between the bat and the chicken. You're blind. You can't see anything. What do you need light for? This is what the men ask. You're when is he coming? When the darkness covers you guys, what are you cursing me? No. I'm just quoting a when the darkness covers the the ground the world and the fog will cover the nations. But you on you specifically there'll be the the sun will shine. How long does the days of Msiah last? The longer it seems the better. She says it's only new. How does it go? [Music] Yes, there was more. [Music] [Laughter] [Music] Hey for [Music] you. I have a question for the I have a question for the I'm sorry I have to ask this question but don't answer don't answer if you know the answer raise your hand it's going to be tough for a certain person what does the word mean what does mean anybody know what means don't answer raise your hand if you know in the whole room let's see the whole room we say it every single day oh he's looking at the article he's raising his hand I'm just kidding No comment. I ask you a question without looking inside. You know what it means? What? Stumble. Nope. We say it every single word. We say it. We close our eyes. You have no idea what we're saying. Yeah. In the danc to take almost hardly anybody knew. The one person that raised his hand was cheating. He looked scr. So if you came out of this year just knowing that it's a grab. Yeah. I'm going to grab the the the generation. Look, you look into it now that we know we don't know. Now we're going to look into it. 70 years like the the days of one king. Who's this one king? Three generations. I'll see you with the son. That's three is one is two. 1 plus two equals three. This is what we saw yesterday. It's very very scary. There is no mashia. That's it. He's not coming anymore. According to the learning this hill, which we don't pass like there is no mashia. We used it up. We wasted it or it happened already. We're going to be stuck in gul now for for a while according to to others. What Yeah. Yeah. According to he was according to other like the it's not true. Rashi says Mafur over here. No, Hashem is going to take us out of out of gulos. I mentioned Rash yesterday and the Ran explains no even if there is no Messiah that's because the Mashiach happened in the time of but there'll be the rest whatever is here. It says over here last 40 years 70 years that 40 70 years won't happen. We'll start after that. That already happened in time. now go straight to and whatever it is. But luckily we don't pass like the should have he should he should forgive. Why? He made a mistake. You're telling me that Msiah came in the days of So why is it that right after lived many years later is talking about Mashiach coming lived way later hundreds of years later he says your king is going to come he's going to save you that's what it was I didn't even show this yesterday I didn't know by the way no means to grab No, look at Rashy. Rashi. Rashy. Rashi says look what he says. Look at Rashi. Rashi says I'm just saying angry. No, there's another listen. Okay, I'm talking Rashi. Now, every single line in this Gar has two or three in Rashi and in other is okay. Look it up yourself. You did? What does the scroll say? Angry. Okay. But Rashi says over here take. He says to take. Look at him. I'll do I'm talking about sadic. We're not learning Rashi till we're learning with Rashi. That's what we're learning now. You want to tell me other great hold. Where am I looking for? Oh, there's a thing here. I don't know what happened to Okay. He's He's going to ride on a donkey. Okay. And that happened after the days of 40 years. He gave you he gave you how do you say in in English? Uh affliction and he starved you. And then when it talks about you should make us happy like the days the days that you afflicted us. These are the the years in the midbar in the midbar it's 400 not 40 400 we had we were afflicted we had 400 years like the 400 years that we were tortured so it's 400 years 365 365 years like one year per one day of the year of the says, "I I told my heart, so to speak, when the ghoul is didn't tell his own when the ghoul is I told my heart. I didn't tell him." The villag says that my heart is referring to the I told them when the ghoul is going to be. I never told the So he's arguing on this whole idea of 6,000 years. He says the days of Msiah are going to be 7,000. Okay. What does yus mean? So you should be happy, joyful like have seven days of so and every day forem is a thousand. So 7,000 years however many days the world was until this very day. That's how many days did. So we have many here. It's 40 40 years. We have all the way. Oh, by the way, when it says here 365, there areas that say 365,000 years cuz each day is 1,000 days is 1,000. Yeah. Each day is 1,000 says it's 365,000 years. So we go from zero you must is either zero like was already happened already or 365 300,000 years or 40 day 40 years 70 years a lot a lot of whatever it was from the days of you see what he does here with the words is like the days Omar of all the beautiful things that's going to happen by Mashiach is only is only for the in other words there's no way to say for something that's impossible to describe I could describe We'll see. What is exactly? Does it change a lot? A little as a mush. Could you tell a blind person how the Alps look? How a beautiful flower looks? Could you tell a fetus in its mother's stomach what the world looks like? There's only a little separation. It's this thin, but you can't describe anything to it. Can't describe what a steak looks like, what anything, not zero. But come outside and there's people and there's wars and there's this garnished blind. How is the going to describe to us what is? It doesn't we we have nothing to to reference it with. So therefore the never spoke about they spoke about the argu this argu is going to be exactly we have it today going to go to get in our car drive here come here. The only thing is we're not going to have any sus from our enemies. Nova was only given to so we have a famous we're familiar with one side but if you ever learned from the beginning you know that it's not so what's more so everybody knows over here you see the famous sheet of deficit is more. So he says that all the about is only for the valley they have it wasn't said for this argu is more Then what does it say first in the one that was distant from hem and the one that's close to first comes the then [Music] comes so he learns is going to argue how to learn this he learns somebody that was distant from the beginning he was he was not on the right path and now he is right now and the way he was born he was always on the same path Rambam and a lot of other they explain that about chuva this is very important what's the difference between a balu and a it's huge chuva that already sinned and this this is a tremendous thing for bal chuva we have a lot of balu in the room chouva he he knows what it what what it what it feels like to do this a vera so his madrega to overcome that a for him to overcome an a is a lot stronger than a sadic never tasted it he doesn't know what he's missing guy never tasted ice cream doesn't know okay so he doesn't eat ice cream somebody that knows what hagaz is and then he's I don't know I can't say that I ever it's tough so that's why gets morear he knows what this is and he doesn't do it that's one shot the other is the famous that uh that he so all his a turn into mitzvah. So maybe he has more than the sadic somehow says he has a problem with this. Why does it say first doesn't is not referring to the person is referring to that he's distant from the he's far from the opposite not referring to the it's referring to the who's there people who themselves are not but they could do one thing they can marry off the daughter to so that's a great thing and that's what the nobody was talking about this I don't know maybe somebody has the ability somebody watching but you could do business for for this is why one of the uh and say this again cuz I hear this all the time one of the people that get that get um hurt by scams most more than anybody else is a ky guy they fall for scams all the time they explain one of the reasons is they don't have access to internet so they don't know how to look people up. You just put put a guy's name in and you see all the all the people that say he's a scammer blah blah blah they don't know they don't have a lot of experience with business so some they have saved up for kids some comes a scammer and says listen give me this money I'll invested in this in this place you make 400 times your money in 2 months and they fall for it. So if somebody has a real business and wants to do real he takes money invests it well and gives it back to gives like people are doing one after another. We have a lot of people that are coming forward for the campaign for the we have now is not talking about himself. You can't even imagine what kind of what kind we're not talking about that take care of the we're talking about themselves. You can't imagine this. So what does it mean? This basically sums up the entire in a few words. What does it mean is going to get the craziest award ever? This is wine. from that's the so if anybody thinks they understand what's going on here this is a perfect example of not understanding that there's some sort of cabala hint what a guy works his whole life he learns learns learns and then they're going to give him a glass of wine that's all the way from obviously that's not what we're talking about huh after okay in the back I saw a new guy somewhere. Where is he? Not you. You're You're new. You're not so new, but there's a guy. Oh, he's hiding, I think. Isn't Yeah, maybe. Oh. Oh, very. That's waiting special edition that he waited from. Okay. Nobody ever, no one, no human being ever stepped into. The question is about what do you mean? Didn't live there? No. But he lived in the garden. Well, isn't that the same thing? No. It's two separate things. This guy [Music] and we just finished a very very long almost n or something of Msiah. Just talking about Msiah. What happened? The paric started n ago. part and then the says these are people don't have say and that brought us into and now we're going to be talking about if you say there's no didn't come from from it came a human being wrote it that that's a person doesn't get an epicyus What are we 12 13 lines from the bottom? He took Hashem's words and he despised it. He embarrassed it and he broke the mitzvah. He a person like that is going to get in two worlds. A person says no wasn't given from from another example. But another example person not that he doesn't say not that he says that he agrees he's so we have to see what it means person that doesn't get a bismah he's already older he comes from Russia or something and he doesn't get a bismillah that's bu so we have a very we have to do this quick but I thought it was peladic What happens when you get a bris when you're this age? Guess how old this guy is. 96 years old. Getting a brisk. He doesn't have a father to say his name. He says his own name. [Music] One amazing father. I asked him when he was still lying at the table. I asked him, "Why did you decide to make a piece?" So he says, "I'm coming to this and I want to feel totally a Jew like everybody else." You want to feel like a Jew like everybody else in 96. It's never too late. Maybe you waited for age. You don't really feel darez. I I said this before, I'll say it again. I might have said it a week ago. I was I was the sandic at a person's bris who's 20 something years old. The mountain is surim. It's you can't even Okay, I don't want to talk anybody out of it. So, if you don't have a bris, do it. [Music] It's if you don't get a bris, you won't have if somebody does. Let's say he eats when he's and he and he embarrasses the the so I want to tell you this is a that a lot of people Yeah. A lot of people will be shocked. It's people came to me after the yesterday says just for that it was so I'll say it this over Rashi says what's it mean to us and this is going to change the way I act this year and I hope to remember you'll have to remind me there's a Rashi holds that it's to treat like a weekday it's not it's not the weekday that's again it's not a day that you go on trips yes you could go trips, but that's not what it's for. It's yontiff like every y meaning you get up in the morning and you put on your gym shoes and your and your whatever stuff that you wear and your polo shirt your according to Raji. So remember this try to wear your suit your shabas clothes whatever you wear on chabas if you wear a white shirt with giant collar and no suits do that also whatever you do but do not wear your gym shoes unless you wear gym shoes on maybe you're one of those the new type but you have to dress like y cuz it's remember it's you wear a cowboy hat you must wear cowboy hat on and another thing is you have to do a special meal so that we don't have an issue the hotel every every day it's one meal special meals you have to do a special meal on remember if you if not then if you go like the other remember somebody remind me remind yourselves that we discussed not having this one I'm taking out this doesn't fit well for certain people that speak in public and on a daily basis unfortunately. But they do take it out. There's other things on this staff I have to take out. I'll show you where you don't have. If he says that there's no if a person says the entire he just disagrees with one didn't say it made it up himself. [Music] the entire even this but I don't agree with this I don't agree with this don't make a whole out of this or he disagrees with rushes from either some people explain is in theory is certainly something that comes if you don't teach I saw about Ramshin he says that even though he's a rash and he teaches many people he he spent a lot a lot of time writing is why because that's for generations to come and in fact that's what you see we have nobody really heard nobody knows what is that whatever he did 30 40 years ago I don't know all the all the stuff that he wrote and he spent a lot of time writing that lasted generations if you learn and you don't teach it you don't care about in other like this is terrible. I I speak to a lot of people. Why don't you learn? I don't have time. But it's checker. You do have time. Everybody has time. What? You work at home? No, I go to work. So why can't you learn on the on the way to work? Why don't you have just click and go? Why do you have to listen to on the way to work? Don't tell me you don't have time. You do have time. It's it's it's in the same sentence almost. If you could learn and you don't learn or say worshiping where do you see this you're you're putting down despising what said what does he say he's doing this is terrible this the here shouldn't listen to close your ears start singing a song now I'm going to read this if you You have to do it says over you have to do. No, no question. If you learn to you don't repeat it. I do. I just don't remember. I'm in the next thing. It's like you're planting and you're not reaping. Now once again for for talking about we are people that usually don't learn and this is another type of learning. There's a there's a way at least at least you're learning. There are people that learn but they use as to go through the whole it's a different type of learning. So, but nevertheless, a person should try as hard as he can to do. There's different great programs. There's the program. There's different programs that you can do and you retain. We're just doing step one. We're learning through. If you forget there's a massive before I forget, I forgot to tell the the Israelis. This is a good time not to be to be between the [Music] and holds that if you forget man you're not over this why because the is written so it's not a big deal if you forget you just open up a safer and the thing about forgetting to was said in the time of the when everything was memorized and if you forget you're forgetting an essential part of the argues he says no it's even so he have to learn slowly and go slowly means you take active step, right? So that's what I was I I read it like that last night that you're taking active but it means also you're forgetting we're going to see here he's supposed to sing a song every single day in the but it means to repeat the microph listen to this it should be our when you are and you toil in that is going to go to work for again you toil now it's going to work for you which is 101 say you're supposed to learn 101 times you learn in this world the is going to open up doors for you in the world to come it's going to go to work for you it's going to say bring this guy into the it's going to work for you a person was created. A person was created to work hard. A person was born to toil. Now what does mean? Maybe it means that you should physically work not with your mouth. It says your mouth. You're created to do something with your mouth. Now maybe you're created to be on the phone and do sales shouldn't leave your mouth. Yeah to learn all day every day. She did a nice thing. Maybe it means this. You should be working in construction. It doesn't get harder than that, right? No, it means with your mouth. Maybe it means you should be on the phone doing sales, work for Avi, listen to the to the calls from jail or whatever it is. No, be learning. So also um says the same thing. They say what's a I I think that you were created a person created human beings to work in construction. That's a it's not a and therefore he says that it means that I would think that a person was created to do and to do mitz physically. No, it's better to learn according to slam dunk. you the we don't want to because then I got a I got a I got one of these from somebody sitting next to me. Whatever. We'll talk about it later. I didn't say I'm just a messenger. Don't Don't shoot the I'm saying you want to argue with him. Argue with him. Of course you need but also I I see Mark like squirming squirming in a seat do you continue we need people like you you also learn a lot of and by the way your causes many many people to learn thousands of hours of every day so that's another thing is all together all what says that of Of course, of course. No, we have a to do mitzvah. We have to stop now and put on fill in when the mitzvah coincides with Tyra. But if you have two options right now, learn Tyra, do mitzvah, you choose Tyra you have to to say to put on this. But we said already what's more important if you have to save a life or you have to go save a life. But if there's somebody else that's going to save the life and you want to take that call or listen to you're supposed to you're supposed to learn Tyra comes first. Our body was water here for working for toiling. Huh? Nothing. What does it say over there? Then it's toiling in. Oh, sponsors. Wow. That's what he was saying. Where are we? Global experts in international financial services. Doctors Alan Barbarse in honor of Elliot Rebelli and the entire MDY [Music] family. This is a but this is very n to us a person who only learns occasionally like one day yes one day not this is more like a person who's learning but he breaks his learning that's a little different I would argue with Yoshi on this picture it's a nice picture but he's in the middle he opens up a and he's taking phone calls doing text message I get it we're talking about a guy that learns one day one day he doesn't learn that's why this again to you become so I'm not going go into rashi. You could look at it yourself, but he says a person who's married, you have a wife, you go home every day to the same person, that's normal. That's regular. You learn every single day. Person doesn't, it's like a person doesn't have a wife. He goes to different places, different times. Stability, stability. That's already it's very important to have. It's interesting that the Pharisees talks about he says these four things very interesting first of all you should learn at the same exact time every day learn in the same place every single day you should learn the same thing every day the same and also the fava whatever that means it's not the same I didn't think it mean the same thing it means more like the same style same style in other words don't go to another This man, a famous Russia, the son of he he tried to poke fun at the Tyra. He had nothing better to do. Why in the world do we need to know who's the sister of Leon? And we need to know who the the was. Who cares about Alifaz? That's one thing. But that he had a pleish and her name was this and that. What good does it do? Exactly the the the time of the year that he went. It was that wrote extra stuff here. So as the Gar is going to answer, you see beautiful stuff are in here. You just have to look into it and you'll see that it's amazing that the said it came a heavenly voice. sit down. I want to talk about the brother. You talk, you spoke about your brother. He spoke about the son of your mother. You did this and I'm going to be quiet. Think I'm be like you. I'm going to give you person starts out doing a vero. It's like a spider. I'm not going to show you the the whole spider thing, but we know spiderw webs are amazing things. This guy has a thing made out of a spiral. In the beginning when you do an a break it you don't but once you get into it you do it over and over it becomes a part of you and it's very very hard to break again the idea of of a habit and this is a bad habit that becomes part of you becomes like a thick rope that you can't break. I heard an unbelievable thing from from the Satba Sat he said he was talking to Baham he says you know that you know the especially there's no there's no there's no you have to go you have to do this you have to do that whole thing he said that was only said to somebody that was a one time but somebody a bunch of times then his kapart is stopping doing a when you stop to do a vera that itself is the kapar because it's so hard to stop not doing break. That's your That's your Okay, but what happened? It's a good qu It seems like a good question. This Russia asked what? Oh, sorry. It's similar to the thread of a spider. It's as thick as the the the ropes that that you tie to the to the animals on on the the wagon. ask what's the says it's beautiful. You need to know that the sister of Leon was Timno. This is a woman who interestingly enough she tried to be a gay first. The gar says you should know who she is. The reason why he's saying she's the sister to know that she comes from uh royalty from every time it says in the It's kingdom. It's it's royalty without a crown. Nobility. Nobility. She noble but not not the highest with a crown without a crown. She wanted to become she came to no. She did an amazing thing. She sacrificed herself. She is royalty. She decided to become a second wife or whatever nothing to just to be related. It's better to be a to this nation than to be royalty to another nation. Terrible thing. She is the mother of why. We see from here a tremendous thing. Somebody comes to become a do not push them away. The same thing we have with is he was pushed away at a certain point of time in his life and that's why he opened up his his new religion. you don't push people away. So they asked why did aino it wasn't a it was really gak why did they push her away they were they were busy making gimm because she was a mamas they felt that she shouldn't be a guar and that hurt cla tremendously later on amali came out of them hmon and everything else what why did she get she had to get close and because of that the same thing like mish okay I hear what you're saying but the same sh that we said by hmon why did his children get get p get rewarded hmon himself got punished His children got rewarded because he did a good thing. But he himself I hear she himself didn't get punished. It came out of that. I hear I hear I hear I hear I hear now we're going on to you. You see from this that waits until after everything is reaped. Then he took the dudim. The Torah is telling you when it happened to tell you there's no gazel. What is what are these that he gave his mother that have uh the ability to to help pregnancy? What mand? I never heard that word. It's siglay is according to rashi means this like these purple flowers. It's like whiskey spices. So, I don't know if I've ever seen something like this in my life. Look at this. This is a page from the Mikas. I'm going to zoom in just to show you the What's a It looks like a human. Here we go. Look like babies faces here. You go over here. The one says it's figs. He says it's apples. Over here, everyone says different here. That's the every single one has a different nobody agrees to the other. Listen to this. This is beautiful. If you learn to note to be and to put somebody else down, you learn for the sake of the three different what it means. You bring you bring peace. So I want to tell you he says like this it's going to shock you but you're going to love it. What's thema what's let's say? You know what is when you dive in in your house by yourself. That'sma cuz nobody sees you and you're not impressing anybody. You're not chuckling to show the other guy how great you know how to struckle this way and that way and your kavanas and everything. You're diving in your house by yourself. That is the exact opposite of what everybody else thinks. you ding sh no no no ding because you want to d into hashem and it's it's embarrassing that people know that you're diving then and it's late and everything and still nevertheless you're diving that is another thing I heard once is how do you know if your is good you check it out how you diving at home if you dive in with the same uh what is it called SRM or whatever shuckle per minute SPM and the same you know if if it's the same thing you dive it at home the same way you dive in sh then you're Okay. But if your file is a slightly different, it's a little quicker and you're not chuckling the same way. You're not doing the same thing, then you should know something's up with your I'm not I'm not encou I'm not encouraging it. I'm not encouraging to dive in and be at home. But if it happens, you should just know that's some people they put on fill in 5 minutes before. That's filling. That means that I'm embarrassed. I don't want anybody to know I'm putting on film five, but I'm doing it. Why am I doing it? Cuz I love Hashem and I want to be kind to mitzvah. It's great. It's a new look at it. Am I encouraging to put on film five there? No. But if you do, you should know you're a great person. Like in water's there 2:00 in the afternoon, they start putting on fil and they encourage it. Why should a ban go all day without putting on film? Because he's embarrassed. Don't be embarrassed. I encourage you to do it earlier. But if this is when you want to put it on, put it on in front of everybody in the B. Oh, better do it in the room. Let's just finish this. Unfortunately, built a castle up and down with the hand. I'm going to cover you. I'm going to shade [Music] you, protecting the whole world. By learning, you're bringing the closer. Fine, we'll stop right over here at Boyai. Have a wonderful day.