Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 9 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning R [Applause] boy I just spoke about this this is the the basement where I give I'm giving the shear to myself nobody in the room although MTI bski I just saw offer to come over but we just got from the airport we are in transit so we left Utah this morning it was still dark in other words it was before Sunrise when we left and we got here after because there a two-hour difference because kids it's a full day traveling I lit the and I'm giving Shear now and then off to the airport to catch a flight to will be back in on Thursday first sheare uh in English will be Friday morning first share in Hebrew Thursday night um yeah let me read this um I want to take a moment to thank everyone whose hard work made the shabbaton possible all those who attended and especially all those who took the time to come over to me and introduce themselves the D were great the food was great the dancing was great and the speeches were great but above all meeting and connecting genuinely with so many Jews from around the globe many of whom look very different than me and to feel that sense of inclusion Unity in connection to each other was incredibly powerful a reminder that when the Jewish people come together we're Unstoppable no doubt Hashem is very proud of what he saw in Stanford this past weekend with gratitude to be part of this mdy family and wishing all a kanuka filled with light Cen not an actual nazer Ah that's the one who okay now now I get it not an actual nuer so the guy that wrote it is CN the guy with the tius on the outside the has tius on the inside B this is a picture oh I got to show it like this oh okay uh we have a yes guy two Yesa guys and not an actual nazer what else do we have today that's in English in Hebrew um thank you to yourself and entire MD staff for your most intense memorable uplifting Shabbat we returned to Montreal by car last night but I still haven't landed listen to this slide I feel like I've been connected to a spiritual IV drip since Friday afternoon pumping me non-stop with the love for learning MD my MD family andem last the whole year why shouldn't it if we D each day just made my first mdy recruit tonight our 11-year-old son I think I possibly also justed what you mean when you say that the Great greatest gift to you is to bring another y to the DA when my son agreed to the challenge I felt overcome with joy like I just won the lottery and he hasn't even started the thought of him gaining experience self discipline and and learning is over the top imagine self-confidence it gives a child warm regards from and when the got together and they got my sons to do that who they're going very strong cuz they send me ARS all the time and my son's like why did you say the story he didn't say that but he made like the sour face he said story about me in court you know for uh throwing me under the bus there like I did it on purpose I want to see if you're doing the share Rai this guy's name is shagi rubello something like that I forgot his name sorry he made a CM maybe um Mar ashkanazi knows his name here's the CM he made raboa here goes this has volume thank you to the person who made this possible but I call my r Ellie stanski from all's funny jokes toall mean jokes he makes everyone laugh and most of all enjoy the Tyra when I was introduced her of Ellie stansky from a friend of mine on Thursday June 27th I didn't think much of it then came Sunday June 30th my beloved neighbor and the gab Yi Bas suddenly had a massive heart attack at that time my dear father told me we should take upon something to do better as a SP I took upon myself to just learn for one month the daf me I started the very next morning which at that time my father's friend H's dead gave me a shout out since that day Bubba Bast I never missed the day I want to thank the MD family and editors who who put in so much work and make everything possible okay is sponsored we have four sponsors from his grateful family is sponsored for sponsored by m started learning at age 70 and continued for 32 years until he was for the unity of the Jewish people fting and Rosman on the marriage of the granddaughter mik extin former lone soldier AI bin both of tin New Jersey Rabbi Willie balk my grandfather Mr Edward Bob who on Tuesday Morning have Al wow so somebody's LIF on Tuesday Morning Tuesday morning today's Wednesday so he's just nter and Rabbi Willie bul is putting in a sponsorship wow thank you rebelli Yosi Klein and for everyone who made shabas inspiring and amazing from morai and the znik family they were all there I met Mor's brother I danced with him of the month for we have one sponsor for the for rebelling the whole staff to continue to make T So enjoyable for so many art of the month in honor of Yi Klein and Mark ashkanazi for all the work they do it's incredible so this morning I'll just tell you because I wanted to make sure that the uh Hebrew speakers they get a live get a Shear so I had to get up super early and I delivered the shear at I think it was 6 yeah 6:00 in the morning in Utah so um mark askanazi was there with me doing the shear it was more like 8:00 in New York but it was early in the morning and here he is again almost 12 hours later 11 hours later doing a Shear so he's always there for the shear never says no never complains he's always of course I'm available what's the Shiloh and then I find out he's in his car with his M driving somewhere on Kana we have an amazing da today you know what's amazing has his ways we know San is a very very long in other words in terms of words per D it so happens to me that the day that I'm super traveling gave us one of the shortest do probably in the and B it's going to be a shorter Shear so to go over what we learned yesterday amazing the way Yoshi put it together here just puts it all together we have a in the mishna whether a person who's M shra do we need a bezant of three or 23 m shra is a husband who just got married he claims that he didn't find Bim for his wife and therefore he doesn't have to give her a Cuba that you would give a unmarried woman a a woman who's never married before which is 200 he wants to give her a Cuba of 100 or Noba at all because she's m it could also turn into a case of capital punishment because if she in fact was misana she's considered a true he gave her a he gave her a ring and during that time she's considered if there's Witnesses she be if Witnesses the whole thing what is the why does remor say that it's a bezin of three when the husband comes to bz and he claims oh my wife tells the father it's in front of three whereas say know it's in front of 23 the gar brings eight different possibilities in the m and to make it super easy we have these beautiful charts and here's the first one yesterday we learned a we learned a few of them three or four a says but what's amazing about the Su is that it goes through eight different eight different so when we learn this we learn about different things that you know in terms of and different maybe it's related to something else and here we go a says are we concerned so to speak when a per when a husband comes to bezin the morning after his wedding and he starts complaining about his wife people are going to talk and there might be two people that witness that she's infect M they saw going somebody else mayor says we have nothing to be concerned no that it's not going to turn into a whole circus where other Adam step forward and therefore let's just do it in a regular bezin of three he's trying to get out of paying 200 he wants to go to 100 or zero whatever it is that's that's a monetary d three say no we have to be maybe the ADM will create the this rumor of a husband going to bz will create a situation where a come testify that she was maana therefore it's a capital case a capital case is 23 it's Mis is 23 that's yesterday a another thing that we saw yesterday is RA Raa says are we concerned about the honor the coved of the what happened was we had a husband that claimed that his wife was Misan I could prove it so they gather 23 people just in case they have to kill her turns out that he's making up a story as usual he's a that's his name actually in the he doesn't have yet he still wants to get out of the monetary thing so now you don't need 23 you need three oh do we send the 20 home and say listen we don't really need your services or perhaps that's a that's not so AIC for a dying who already was there do we leave them or not that's the whole Shiloh then we have ab ab says no you know what everybody could agree that we for the everybody could agree that we maybe uh people step forward and there will be but we have another M these little characters on these sheets are very cool do we have to say you see they're pointing to the Big Stone do the Aiden when they tell the woman hey if you're m get do they have to say which there four be they forgot to mention that's going to be stoning it's going to be Skil is that a problem so says you have to in order to for the the warning that has to be done properly with the type of death and therefore they didn't do that so she cannot be put to death it's just a monetary say no you don't have to describe exactly what death you're going to die who cares what type of death with lethal injection the electric chair that doesn't matter you're going to die let's put it to death and we need a bz of 23 and now we're holding on today's all the way in the bottom of oh sorry there's one more we have rap Papa from yesterday rap papa says we're talking about a woman here let's see is she going to walk by this lady no hold on is your papa no I don't know what happened okay let's go back to our Papa SOA says we're talking about a case where a woman is a she knows her stuff and the says do you have to warn somebody that knows their stuff you have to warn him that you're going to get the death penalty if you you have to tell he knows it say everybody needs whether or not you don't need so if you don't need over here they didn't do they didn't warn this woman that she's going to get the death says you don't need therefore you could do a bz of 23 put it to death says no you need and since there's no she's not going to be put to death finally we're up to our today another so again what's the question what is the source of the in what is what are they arguing about when says that a requires AZ of three say no he requires AZ of 23 it's talking about what happened was they they didn't tell this woman she's going to die they said you're going you're going to get malus you're over is malus there's no malus now the question is when you you do a about malus you say somebody at do you need three people in the b or 23 people in the B if you need 23 so that's says you need three do you need three or now now we're gonna see three raas now it's a beautiful sh all these are it's a question of so I just want to say again what I said this is my brother's basement I said in sheer once if you didn't hear it I was giving a Shear that was in Hebrew to myself like today right now nobody in the room and the night before I gave a Shear to a thousand people in barart and I thought to myself that's that's some days it goes it's thousand people ohal what a what a was very emotional the whole time it's like wow like it's not realist it's like surreal I'm sitting there there a thousand people you know it's hard to get used to and then the next morning poof you're by yourself not even one person the the last few days were very very difficult to you very terms of being exhausted just the actual sking is very exhausting it's very demanding on the body and zero sleep and coming off a Shabbat tone with very very very little sleep and and dancing and just my muscles were aching and everything just to give sh is just very difficult but that's that there's no stopping and there there's no excuses and you go and you go here share with zero people we go it's so says five lines from the top so what happened was this one of the is one of the ADM is a relative now the son we're talking about a situation where there's three aen one of them happens to be a brother okay let's say but you don't need three ADM all you need is two a to convict somebody so perhaps the third Aid is nothing so he's pule throw him out toss him out ignore him disregard him and they have two and with two a there's a lot you can do or perhaps no all three are in the same boat and if one is bad all three are bad so that's so we know the famous let me see you get to it oh everybody knows this question is if two are good enough for any case even a capital case so why does the say or three three is not necessary says it's necessary to tell me that if three a are testifying and one of them is no good one of them is a relative then all three are no good even though two is enough but in this case since you have three we toss out the entire case so the third guy is like the rest of them they're all in the same boat so therefore says beautiful concept beautiful idea in yish that if we don't need you yet you're there you are like the rest of them and you ruin it for all of them so certainly when it comes to Mitzvah if you're there you're helping out let's say uh you know your friends are making a seeum and you go and you help out you help out in the K you're part of it you're one it's as if you did it yourself just like by the a it's as if you did it yourself and you ruin the whole thing for everybody I just want to read this Rashi so it says Rashi what's the it's a famous concept says rash sorry we know that the good is much more than oh I'm sorry I shouldn't have done that one there's a better one here let's do this one did that what that the good is 500 times 510 more whatever it is me the is much more than the bad so by bad if you are part of a a group that that's doing wrong you are considered part and parcel of them so too if you're in a group that's doing good you're part in power so there was a guy um some David Ruben something like that I have his name here somewhere Ruben he was at the Tish by SL him back in the day and he would fall asleep every Friday night he was exhausted from working so much you would fall asleep by the Tish so they asked him why do you come to the Tish you fell asleep every single time what's the point he said if you're on a bus and you fall asleep you're not going to get to your destination you get to your destination as long as you're here you're you enjoy the benefits there's a lot of truth to it in other words if you I'm not saying it's the best thing when you come to a Shear every day you fall asleep there's people that come to Shear as soon as the shear starts they're up for the emails they're up for the and as soon as the gar if it's not interesting they G is there a Mitzvah in that is there your nit Mitzvah you're you're part of a group that's doing a Mitzvah it's a beautiful story that Cohen from Chicago said once it made a big Ro on me it wasn't even like such a m but he said it there's a guy that every single night he would come home from work exhausted open up a gamar and fall asleep so one of his kids asked him once like what are you doing like just go to sleep get in bed and go to sleep he says no I want to show my children what's important to me it happens to be that I fall asleep every day but this is what's important to me I want to learn I just I don't have the right now okay but it's better to be part of a group of people are doing mitz and that's as if you did the whole mitah continues if you have two a and one of them is a relative what's the the entire thing goes out the [Music] window so too if you have three people do by the way I just show you real quickly I thought maybe to to to have this in the background it's a gym I was like nah so at least just show it for a [Music] second it's never going to be the same okay hopefully it's almost there I'm in a gym giving a she if one of the two witnesses is a relative what's it's over so two three so two we have three if one of the three is APLE this is B so let's say let's say you have you have here let's show the case of a you have a case where oh here it's new beautiful let's do it again we have the two two say oh I was wondering they they're testifying those two guys with the binoculars they're testifying that the four were on a cruise when the testified that this woman was m whatever they testify if one of those people so basically all three become all four if all four are put to death even if you have a 100 the same thing applies all 100 go five out the window because one of them is and continues so what's how do we know this so if you see why does the T tell us the word aen twice even if you want to say two and three so so say you don't have to say just one at the end the extra tells us this that they're all included and if one of them is no good they're all no good continues that's great when they come to kills if you find that one of them is the relative they're all no good but when it comes to disputes if you have three a one of them is no good because he's a relative then you still are you still have two remaining ad that are testifying that so and so owes money argues and he says no even by monetary disputes if one of the three a is relative all three are not good they made they made a warning to the relative but if there was no by the way I was just I I said this in Hebrew so I'll say it also here that as a caterer I found that one of the people that knows the most Halas when it comes Toba and uh you know these kind of things because we're talking about and because sometimes happens by by people don't real realiz that this person is Zar he married you know whatever certain kurva so one of the people that is the most knowledgeable at a wedding you'll ask anybody is the photographer because we used to do weddings in uh in Chicago in North Lake that's where the Midwest confer Center is so it's very hard to spell it and in what city what what are the the rivers that are next to it as the photographer he's he's been to so many weddings he knows he knows all theas says if they didn't warn the relative so here it's a question in every wedding don't you have witnesses at every that you know there's two brothers witnessing that they're getting married so then the whole Kush is no good you just ruined the Kush because you have two c that are that that that winess this let me just see if I could make this a little taller so I don't have to okay sorry maybe that will help a little bit okay what if two brothers and a third guy that's not related witness the death so the murder is going to go scotf free because two of the Witnesses are related and if two of the Witnesses are related it ruins the entire testimony no what's the difference because there's no on all three you had to walk over to all three and say listen if you're going to lie here you're going to be put to death or whatever it is okay so that's that's so let's go let's go back so we have here between let's see if we can find it here oh now what happened was we have a case where there was three a and one of them is a relative so we have and rebi whether the relative ruins it only in monetary cases or I'm sorry only in in capital punishment cases or even in monetary cases so according to it ruins it the the there's no there's no a to over here so you can't do you can't do the so you do a regular bz of three according to we need a bz of 23 so that's that's the first second is so according to remor is going to hold like that what that if one of the a is puzzle even though they didn't do yeah they didn't they didn't warn the guy all of them are pule and therefore we're reduced to AZ of three that's is going to hold that we don't reduce it to AZ 3 you it remains a good bezan remains a good capital punishment case and therefore you need a bezan of 23 you need the mouth of the to do the also everything has to be with the mouth of the and finally case number eight or number eight keep going we're talking about there's two things when Witnesses come and say so and so deserves to die so we have to check if the Witnesses are saying the truth we have to we bring them into uh Hebrew in English it is um the police they not interview whatever the word is you know what I'm talking about right you don't have to send the email everybody's going to what it is um maybe it'll come soon the so they they ask him all different questions now the first thing is that you have to pass with flying colors you have to know what day it is what time what place you can't say it happened in Utah when in fact it happened in New York that's not going to work so if if the two a mess up on that it's over if one a said it happen on Monday and the other one said on Tuesday it's over but then they ask bikas is very minute things what color glasses was he wearing what color socks did he have did he have M the socks not the whole thing what if they mess up on the bikas on the smaller things so the says here for instance here's what if the bezan said oh you say that the murder happened under a fig tree how thick were the stems of the figs were they very thick medium if there's a between the two a on how thick the stems were it's over if it's over it's not a case about Misa capital punishment it's just the case of M okay so then you just need a bz of three so the question is do we passle or do we we disregard the testimony regarding the capital punishment case and therefore if you disregard it you don't need 233 is enough and or if you don't disregarded it's not such a big deal if they mess up on a small detail then you could kill the you could you could use Bez of 23 and kill the person new new case new so those are the eight different whether you need AZ of three or 23 oh I like this myself we're talking about andas there was a uh an attorney a defense attorney that was um cross-examining all the witnesses asking questions back forth and uh at one point there was recess the judge and the other lawyers they stepped out so the lawyer asks his client the one that's accused for murder as no how did I do you like my my cross-examination he said you did so well that at a certain point I was convinced that I'm not the murderer all right great case let's see if there's any art here that I need to know about that I didn't have in the morning no okay the husband claims that his wife was M therefore she deserves the death penalty right and who is he complaining to he's complaining to the father I didn't find your daughter so in the fence and the husband does one of the the the father does one of these he brings Adam the two guys from from the ship no all the aen were on a cruise now what what happens they they These Guys these guys they wanted to kill the woman because they said she was maana now the is that if you try to kill somebody and we find that you're Muslim you there so we put you to death what else do they want to do they wanted to create a situation where she doesn't get a Cuba so two things they wanted her to lose money and they also wanted her to die so if somebody tries to do two things in one shot he only gets one punishment the greater of the two what is that called it's called so beautiful the husband brought that the wife is and the father came and brought Aden that says that the these Aden that the husband brought were IM they on AIP so those guys on the Cru ship they die because is a concept called you only get one of the two punishments the greater of the two M the husband the the a of the husband they only die and they don't have to pay theba whatever the Cuba is worth at that point so just to show you we have a little bit of a clip here the same concept occurs on chavas let's say on chavas a guy does two Aus or he does two things he shoots an arrow on shabas which goes more than for so he's on the arrow and at the same time he ruined somebody's clothing he's only of one okay he's only on the and not money on the clothing because you can only punish a person once for one action but says the unbelievable that we didn't know this until now now it's a yoyo there's two a that say that this woman was M there's two aen that say that these two a are liars now there's another two a say these two a are liars that they lied you were never on a cruise ship you never testified that the were on a cruise ship the original are right the middle guys are we kill the middle guys what about the money that they wanted to cause the husband to pay so says the gamar here is a they have to they die and they pay why since the were trying to kill the the a but they also wanted the husband to payba so the money was the money was to different entity and the death penalty was to a different entity death was to the Adam the money was to the husband so M could be them two different things will kill them for trying to kill the Adam and will be them money for trying to be the husband of and then we're done for today if somebody testifies that he was he he had relation somebody had relations with him but against his will he was over right against his will he could be part of the witnesses you need two witnesses to kill the offender he's one of the witnesses but what happens if he says what if he says I did it willfully R then he turns into a Russ because he just did we don't listen to his testimony why because he's a russer and a Russia can't testify he's admitting that he had relations with another man so says the so this is the famous concept called and that is RA says a person's not believed on himself to say that he did a is he's not he's not believed person can't say about himself that he's a Russ but he said that the other guy was so we do we chap his sentence so and so had relations with me willfully that I I dismiss I don't listen to and therefore I do have a Aid that testifies that that guy is plus the other Aid and finished I'll just finish off on this once got up in his later years and I'm a huge I know I'm a big I work I even give the famous I'm this I'm this I'm that I don't have manyas at all and everybody's sitting there thinking okay we thought maybe he's getting older it looks like he became fak and then he said you know what you're all guilty of this everybody thinks they're perfect everybody thinks they don't have everybody thinks they're the best a person never says about himself that he did some that he has to do TR nothing he's all good everybody what are you looking at me like I'm crazy you're crazy we're all crazy we all talk like that we all think like that we don't talk like that but we think like that have a wonderful day I'll see you next time from ER live for