Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 82 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good everybody doing yes yes okay yes over the years you received a lot of emails I heard people came over to me and said how the she has changed their lives older people younger people teenagers just recently we had a guy in the Hebrew she our C who wrote an email he said he wasn't doing well in Yesa he struggling no and he found the she and he got such his whole life is turned around finished seven with us a week and a half ago or so uh a 19-year-old came here he did a it's first him ever the shear Chang his life people always mention they say no maybe should do something for the teenagers I say the first thing I say is I don't have time I don't give T work on the da all day when we started well when he started the 8 Minute D the 8 Minute da the first guy that walked into my house the first guy that walked through the door the know fix the first guy to walk in to the first year which by the way we're making a CM soon in July almost seven and a half years huh Ley seven and a half years first guy to walk in no fix so a few weeks ago no approached me he said you know you always talk about over to Yesa you don't have the time I want to take on another project I have a few extra hours a day I want to take out another project I want to announce to the world the very first Yeshiva MD y wow please be seriousy wow wow what is Yesa mdy you want to take the same the same concept that brings rabi sh wants to join as a talid as a first year based M Guy this is a post high school English speaking Yeshiva here in raes we already have a beautiful place and we want to bring mdy G to the Yesa whatever MD stands for for the adults you want to bring it to the b in a full day we spoke to we got there bra mdy means top in everything the [Music] top so I myself I'm going to take the position as n I'm going to be the boss from behind I will be giving the b a private here and the B are going to have the best top top Rim here on this block alone just on this block forget about the whole RBS ches this block we have probably close to 15 top talent B we have RAs here we have R you can't even imagine the top of the top we already spoke to some these rabim are going to be learning with the B learning teaching them how to learn how to analyze how to take a part these are going to learn a full we'll take a smaller every B is going to have every year a under their belt where they builds their confidence but everything all the hands on with the props with the G some of the B I spoke to said now look we're not trying to change the M we have Yesa is but it doesn't work for 100% of the B we are looking for top guys wholesome guys gaka guys with it guys that are looking for morish maybe maybe a little lesson but mormak and there are a lot of guys like that some of the guys said literally a guy said I want to learn three Dar just I don't I don't I don't connect to so if you're one of those guys from the little that no went around what we have so far is we have six third-year guys that are basically committed and a bunch of first year guys we're trying to and we want to go slow obviously we're kind of late in the game a lot of Yas already gave the answer so 20 guys maybe 30 guys at most we're going to have an in-house Chef the top dormitories we already have two dorms built below mdy bis come come check it out and um being on this block shabam is going to be a unbelievable thing you have so many people from the community the RAB are going to be living next door um another thing that the buckham really liked a lot first of all if you finish this m you finish this m and other things the incentive is a ski trip to the Alps so the Bing with some of the guys he said what if we want to go on a safari we'll do that also first of all maybe both who knows okay we could switch whatever the B want we want to do practical psychology for the B at night where B learn how to speak in public how to be a married person how to how to talk to your wife how to understand your wife I would like to learn that also you and R show we'll make you know what we'll make a sheer for adults and that's called 710 that's what we do here you get free advice for me but we're going to no really there's a guy a guy that here in this neighborhood actually also lives in this block this is what he does for living he gives these practical things for bam he gives even even had a had a budget you know little things like that cool hash F what does what does f mean who who's the things that perhaps a lot of us didn't learn in Yeshiva but so what did I miss here anything huh oh speak to oh let me show you this I forgot to show you this to apply mdy gmail.com where you can do the regular dama thing but mdy isa.com um n offered to to build it he's built tomor which is a very very successful Seminary he has other businesses he's going to be our executive director and bring the right Rab in start it off on the right foot take most of the pressure off of me so I can concentrate on giving the da and uh you know the boys that are here they're going to hear a personal shab sometimes they can come to my house but it's going to be unbelievable and we're very much looking forward and by the way bem we really believe this is going to go well and then we're going to open up other branches all over the world this goes well it's just the beginning if you want to be the you want to be the guy that says I was in the first first year of MD contact us is going to be unbelievable where do I contact you I said socially on guys that's number one after nacho who do you got over there we got to we got to recruit not really what's your name Aon what oh yeah I know but you think I remember n how old are you 17 17 no what does it sound like I never spoke to you and I does it sound interesting yeah for real BH BH B n what do you think about this guy B BH BH yeah you got to impress the the recruiter over here what are you looking to come to Yeshiva next year really what Yesa are you now in La what what's what n NB NB it's easy it's an easy transition NB all right we all right kiss from Hashem it was not staged it really wasn't cool what do you have anything else did I miss anything sponsored by their grateful family What official is in all right R we might have a building anybody else no seriously we're it's going to cost us $2 million the first year it's a lot of money it's a lot of it's a lot of and by the way we're not comingling funds Isa is separate MD separate two bank accounts two different things you want to give to MD not a dollar go to you want to give to won't go to MD we're going to keep it like that Anonymous yeah exactly in memory of by the way another thing I spoke to just two people men and shf who are excited to learn with B here they're going to be learning here we have they're going to be part of the the guys from the community are going to come and learn top guys top Larry Cohen M who started learning at age 70 and contined for 32 years until he was n Anonymous to the unity of the Jewish people Glen with love and gratitude from Wilmington North Carolina thank you for enriching my life with I didn't have a chance to speak to because he wasn't here the last two days but he'll be on board also the Fallen hostages that's when it came down the last three days KY sponsors what is going on over here other HK H YK Ventures it says over there in honor and all and for the success of all our it's a mistake not anym nothing in life is a mistake weekly sponsors that's audit and tax season wow daily sponsor one y ma in honor of our son Shou getting married tonight ma to Fredy mayem bless them with in the art of the month the make many in honor of andaz for all the work they do wow okay not so bad we're 727 we're doing okay holding by the 80 into it's a fascinating topic and we have a da a real da the top sometimes when bzen doesn't give a it's not really clear if you have it in you you feel that you have to stick up for the you have the ability to go ahead and kill somebody how exactly does that work and it's a big since you don't really have the authority to do it but you have the permission to do it so since you're not authorized to do it so you're not really coming to kill the guy with a heter so maybe you're a little bit of a raid of yourself maybe the guy could turn around and kill you I you can think about it too here's a here's a here's a here's a question let's say you somebody killed somebody by mistake yeah you you going with the the axe and the axe flew and hit somebody and killed him by mistake so you have to go to IR ml so you're running to mlot the brother the the father of this guy that got killed is chasing you he wants to kill you he's he's a he wants to get you are you allowed to pull out your gun and get him first he's about to kill you he's a are you allowed to to kill him why what I saw he running after yeah no you're the right the the killer the near that becomes it's not so POS what you saying says the somebody steals is going to explain he steals the vessels of the does he uses or he curses the is explain with a witch with a with some does magic somebody who has relations with a non-jew any non-jew not RIS if you're a not these guys that they have to oh he's a Kan and he he spits and he throws Stones a guy that he's doing this from it hurts him it physically hurts him he's doing it out of respect with the he's allowed to kill this guy now when when could he kill somebody has relations with a GU when he found out afterwards no only on the spot only on the spot [Music] no we'll see in a second yeah that's uh that was with P says the continues who performed when he was you don't you don't go to to get a the younger guys who don't really perform that because they're under 20 this is very graphic they take him outside make sure there's no T inside they they split open his brain with clubs it's harsh harsh stuff in other words somebody that did it deliberately he knows he's T there's no no business being in the B he does it anyway they kill him what one of us most of us decides he's he wants to perform he wants to do a holy thing he goes todash to perform that such a guy gets you don't kill him physically in let take care of it it's the vessels like well slightly different here this I took from the art scroll real quickly this is the where you put the bread on the on him so if you look closely in this picture it's interesting I didn't realize that I always thought it was upside down the it was it's a half a pipe so I always thought it was like this the half a pipe and they're saying it's like this and the bread rest over here so even if you take these so they're made out of gold you take the these uh these just half pipes death penalty you're not supposed to be taking stuff from the B and there's a hint to it in the you're not really in the but there's a hint it says so learns the word means to steal if they steal from the holy vessels they deserve the death penalty the other thing that we said that you could kill a guy take him outside and kill him without what does it mean like we had when a person curses the said wow remembers so over here it's slightly different it's similar but different I want the magic guy the guy that does magic to strike the the one that gave him the magic so it's not in the it's not a real you take care of business the magic guy should strike you my enemy and his creator and the one that gave him everything in other words two of the but he sticks in also not only but he's cursing that person as well person has relations with a non okay so you can have you could have P who comes along and takes care of business and what happens if the ACT is over and we said it's only during the act the ACT is over now what what do you do to himot oh it's going to be on the bottom yeah yeah yeah this is all here it's all here it's all part of the story this beautiful you know I'm not a big fan of when people dream of the uh I dreamt that I should open up a Yeshiva that it's not going to work yeah maybe you didn't dream it maybe he did some rebis they dream like the father is n yeah my brother should be the Reb because he's the oldest but my father came to me in a dream he said I should also be the Reb no it's over here it's somebody else dream what the tell says in the the is going to explain all the [Music] words he had relations with the daughter of a um how do you say another a what a foreign God thank you so ra says listen I don't know what happened I got in my dream I have this from here is the p that reminded of what what's how do you how do you say bed in English reel how do tra traitor how do you how do you no there's a better word betray how do you betray the re what's the number one way to betray the not it's not when you take another another yeah that's the biggest so that's it fits right into the words betrayal referring to what isin abomination have relations with the daughter of a foreign God somebody that has relations and on the side it says a non-jew not this the sensor yeah over over the years they had to put in okay what does that mean if the person that has relations is a his curse is going to be he won't have children that talk and learning that that's their that's their life somebody could answer person has relations with a guy he won't have a son that perform that somebody has relations with a it's like marrying why he had relations with the daughter of a foreign God a foreign could produce a child so how do he have relations with her is referring to a non Jew somebody that's a idol worshiper and you're having relations with her you got married to was a wicked King and to give him sent a letter and Y looks at the letter and he rips it up just it came into my mind so I'll tell you was like it hurt me then so I'll say when when Trump once G got up there in front of the whole Senate and gave the speech and he gave it to that Russia n Clos and she went it's a smack in the face so y took it went soem said you'll never get you're not going to get buried it said on his skull you're going to have this this revenge is in a second Revenge says the G the story Amazing Story how many years did live very good 400 what's the story of r r he had a talmid that wasn't very good and he had to teach him every single thing 400 times and one time the T was spacing out he wasn't he wasn't focused he says what's going on with you he says Oh I thought you're leaving so he repeated it again 400 times and then a Bas came out and said because he did this either you get 400 years added to your life or all of the N the entire generation is going which one do you want he said I want the whole said and when I was learning now yesterday now yesterday I thought to myself that's M what we learned yesterday the day before or M shabas this idea of picking one Mitzvah like I was talking about shinberg the and that's the says pick one thing one the does say but we're learning pick one idea this wasay this thing I'm going to take this talmid I don't know if he had the time to do with more than one taled 400 times that's my thing 400 times again and again and again and look what happened 400 years he got this life because he focused on this one thing everybody picked the one Mitzvah one thing and go with it no by the way I forgot to say sh what's your name is from where London London sh nice to meet you did I meet you before were you at those sh back here two years ago when you were in London yeah no I was in London a year ago less than a year ago no but I was also 3 years ago met you excellent do haris you know what I just remember you said do Harris and shim lefman who just had his 40th birthday you got to be crazy for one thing one thing and that will bring you he's don't worry about it he didn't take his he found a skull that was there by the gates of and it said on it he found a he found a a skull funny thing marked into the skull three words he buried it and pops out here we have a little bit of a drawing I thought this is beautiful if you look in the background look at the background and here we go pay attention wow this is God's fine coming here we go wow [Applause] on he was working on it so for the Hebrew Shear which started at 10:05 1010 whatever it was so only part of it was three quars of this but he kept on working I guess wow I didn't see it either until now remind me we should show it is Dave here Dave maybe we'll be able to pull it out and we'll show the guys the guys liked it not bad for huh this kind of stuff huh [Music] enthusiasm you realize right away something's weird over here something's this is different I buried him it pops out very pops out what is this says in cover how do you bury a donkey you don't you just let it sit there what you going sit bury make a levive for a donkey put on the side of the farm at the end of the farm so then he realizes this is this the grandfather of he says Mal interesting no he's a king but a bad King no no they know he was the king because no no no because the curse of that he's not going to bury he not going to be able to buried and don't know you realize you realized what else who else could it be that's what it on the skull it's he's a king maybe these conversations across the table is not you know you should we shouldn't embarrass this uh this King he's a king yes he was bad but he's a king he wrapped it up like with silk with nice garment and he put it into a box now imagine you bring home this beautiful box and you leave and your wife she sees on the dining room table she sees a nice box oh what a romantic husband I have she opens up the box and her horror a skull you know my my he lost it maybe she comes out and she shows the skull to her neighbor she say look what's going on here look what my husband bought me as a anniversary gift so what is what does the what do the neighbors say typical this is for sure his previous wife he he dug her up and now he has his yeah skeleton in the closet he can't forget her R says I don't know if it's but he says it so it has to be a true story he says that a woman caught her husband looking at pictures of her of his ex-wife and really bothered her and he says from this gimar you see she could burn the pictures burn it don't ask any shus why not only that that he brings rash who says over here you see she threw the skull into oven and she burnt to nothing but what about the of burying skull from the fact that thear brings it's interesting I would I wouldn't learn how no you learn from you learn that you're allowed to burn it allowed to burn that's what he says that's by burning it that exactly then he said that's why it says on the skull he had all his punishments that he wasn't able to be buried but now now at the top all off it was burnt to just dust so now we have a so here we have it beautiful first they said that somebody has relations with a Goya he's over on n stands for says Rashi a doesn't have Dam it's like Dam but they Ed it they said no she's a she's a she's a and in fact she's discuss in a second she's not there's no for but we're going to treat her as came along comes along and he says I agree to the but I don't agree to the AL she's what is she she's a no there's no there's no there's no marriage by so he says no you're right there's no but they definitely get married and when they get married they don't allow their wives just to be half care we can't allow you to have relations with her because you're going to get used to so we have to be we have to be mock on her as if she's a regular and therefore you have all these things by having relations with a if somebody ever tells you or you think that he's about to be over a if somebody comes to ask you could you kill somebody that's about during relations with the we don't so you have to remember this we don't pass him that's the idea of it's not it's your own feeling from inside it comes out we don't tell him that he go let's say was in the middle of the act and he finished he's done he saw P coming not only that we're going to say later you have to give us so says I'm about to kill you so he jumps he's done you can't kill him and P decided to kill him we are going to kill Pinas and bezan he's a he's a killer he had no right to kill Z and here's the beautiful thing of the no no he's doesn't no boom yeah now if Z turns around in his act he sees p with the sword with the with the spear about to kill him he's allowed to kill him why comes out ifz tells you to kill himz says go ahead and kill him then Zim doesn't have the right to kill him even though he's about to die but since you hear what's going on here it's a it's very dtic it's something that I thought about a lot I was trying to figure out like what's the ga here bezin did not tell you to kill him they won't tell you to kill him you have a heter to kill him that heter doesn't prevent the the one that's being over from killing you first Zim has the ability to turn around and kill Pally why cuz p didn't get a from bz if P does it okay will be happy with him but it doesn't mean he has if he got a from bz it would be different that's what most although I saw the says that the case that I brought before with the he brings for he could kill interesting there's different I think there's different ways to look at it hold on you spoke a lot today it's interesting says that Z was trying to prove a point to clel to do Chu he want to be of them he felt that they're going to do Chua when he does this act whatever that means and says that's not how you do K you don't do K by doing Aus K is without Aus it's a big because some people say oh I'm doing so may I do XYZ I'm being so therefore I could whatever it is different things that they do no you can't people in getting killed here what happened B wasn't successful with the clawless so they said we have to go to we have to go Plan B what's Plan B we're going to be the with Aras and we're going to make doire as they come to do arise say hey no no yeah I'm asking to do arise but first bow to this we're going to get them the Cur so then they had to start killing Jews for being over you're not saying anything what do you do he took 24,000 Jews went to the daughter of the king a non-jewish king be agreeable to have relations with me I can't I'm the daughter of a king and this is what my father told me only to the greatest of them referring to he speaks in third person even him meaning myself I'm a tremendous I'm greater he's from the second I'm sorry he referring to himself from he comes from I'm greater than him grab and he brought I don't know if that's such a nice to call the son of how do you marri the daughter says right away the was he was was before and she became a forgot for a moment what what to do that he didn't realize that you could kill somebody that has relations with everybody start crying they're all crying by what did he see that nobody else saw he saw this actual act and he realized oh that's exactly what we learned once here just make it simple P his father is AER his grandfather's Aon his brother the father other words didn't you teach me one one I think it was 101 just you told me this this is Rel if you're you go and you kill him this is the name of the safer of the S the one who brings the letter let him be the but if you notice didn't give him you're not allow to give a without say go kill him they don't okay you brought the letter you it's like it's a hint sometimes even though standing there you don't have time to when when's name is being defiled desecrated you go and you take action right away you don't ask says okay have it in parth what did see he saw that the Mal is destroying he's killing them now it's just interesting a lot of people here have weapons on them and we're in a dangerous times they have weapons but there a sh are you allowed to walk into with a gun question now if it's Sak there's no sh but if it's not a Sak you're in America I don't know where you're in a place there's no Sak or there 10 other people at the door here it says over here took the spear you don't come into the not a place that you Lear with a weapon it's not a pro this is a place you get close to not further away from it's a it's a a CLE here's shanana is the the the metal part that goes into the handle right so the spear has a long handle and he takes the metal part and he puts it in the handle sh is a sharp one yeah I guess very good who rud so he took this sh out the the sharp blade he put in his pocket now he starts walking with a stick oh he's an old man he has a he has he has a limp he needs atile stickle help he put in his clothing walking his he came to he said Bo say listen to this I think this amazing if you pay attention over here what's happening he comes to the sh he's from he's from Ley he comes to shim he says listen you think that we think we're better than you we think you think we think that we're such holy people we also want to do zus just like you where where's the tent with the with the Z where where's that think about it if he would walk in there and and Zim wasn't in the middle of the ACT he wouldn't be able to kill him so he would walk out like a fool the whole CL no he came to do no he's taking big risk here let him go in he's came to they said oh the they said it's just real quickly first of all if you skip the email portion I highly recommend that you see the big big announcement probably the biggest announcement that I've done since we started this year in the beginning of the year there's no emails today only announcement turning of The Da sponsor for by a global experts in International Financial Services Dr Allen and barbar list house in memory of my dear Father Joseph on 4th yard in honor of and the entire MD family says 10 I I said it last night and a bunch of people said I said 12 I said No 10 like they they were familiar with the was the first one because comes in and says hey I'm about to kill you I'm giving you a what you're doing is wrong he should have jumped away immediately and he didn't and that's good that's a good thing so saw what he was about he should have sced out help something that the people from shim should come in and save him he them right in their a in their privates through his and hers and the spear remained there and that was the nce the med says why why go over there because it's a if he would kill them let slash their throats whatever so people will say oh he went into Doos he finished his his act and then he decided to get rid of the evidence like this he caught them in the act and here they are like that didn't fall off the spear the spear had to be in a vertical position but if he like lowered it to get out of the doorway it would slip off of them so the Mal lifted up the the doorway now he killed their their leader the Nazi imagine you kill the Nazi today you come close to the Reb you get beat up imagine somebody hit the rebba it's all over done killed here he took a spear kills the n and he walks out hey RAB say look look look what I did they kill him so so the Mal came started killing people there this guy drops dead this guy has a heart attack so it be there was a commotion so he was able to leave took their bodies and he threw them in front of 24,000 24,000 Jews are going to die because of these two it's like he had a fight with hm so to speak which is a tough thing to do this is this guy worth it 24,000 Jews they want to push him this is a a descendant of Ley who did who killed all the people by din over there he's the descendant of who quieted down anger with the with no any good deed goes UNP goes you know punished he tried to do something nice people always make fun they they knock you so the started embarrassing him saying not nice things about him you see this this guy when I say this word I I have to say it's like when sometimes you you go through a place a person has an accident and and he and he walks by it he has to make a has to thank for I say this word I want to tell you I said this story many times I'm going to say it again it's a to me once upon a time few years ago when I was saying this word I had a slip and I said a word in yish that's that explains pm and it came out terrible it just didn't sound good and uh a guy a clown took I don't know who he is I'll call him a clown maybe it could be a very nice guy but I don't know if his intent was 100% he took what I said and he put it on a real and I kept on saying that same word over and over and over and when I saw it I was mortified like people are going to say this guy's nuts this is what he says in the sheer this is you know he took it out of context and he just put it in the thing I have to tell you that since then even as close as a week ago a guy came over to me says you know why I came to yesir knew why I saw that clip remember that thing yeah I remember yeah that's why I came to yesir I like who's this a weird guy that says these things I started that's how I got in about a year ago maybe more a guy came here and he said I'm a psychologist and I want you to know that in my profession I've sent over 100 people to is here so I told him I said look I said that's very nice but I think you're exaggerating he says in fact I'll take the sa right now and I'll swear on the sa that I brought over 100 people I'm not exaggerating even one so later on I I I kind of understood what he deals with and the shear helps a certain type of person okay but it's it's unbelievable to think that what I thought is going to be the downfall of the shear one guy brought over 100 people because of that one video could take the worst of the worst it was the worst of the worst probably one of the biggest slips I ever had it was innocent mistake I think I turned red right away like when I what I just said wow okay so as the editor please don't put that clip in [Laughter] [Music] to here we even have a little chart of here if you want to see how he's related here and Rashi brings that he's also if you say that it's on this side so maybe y was on the on both sides he was related through Y and Y but we know was a bigar person he he he gave csar he a guy you who are you to kill a he is the descendant of a who is he did the right thing go ahead and say shalom I don't know if you heard this before I thought I I invented it myself I was thinking to myself last night what is the hardest thing for lak the hardest thing is yes they say the but then I thought no you could go like this sh you know you could say it seriously like I don't want to know you I have to say I'm sorry okay anyway but it might be one of the hardest things he says you go you run and you say shal to him this should have gone forever look at the it says forever funny words what do these mean you have to understand what these things are a lot of times in is I'm just throwing this out I'm not saying on my own anything I'm just throwing it out had 424 relations that day the maral says it means if he could have he would have different different things everybody understand the way they want soash says it says in the he waited why did he wait from the word there's also the word in there so means he became weaker with him the one that takes revenge in other words there's a little bit of a problem there Pinas waited for the right opportunity but during those minutes that he waited what happened K was getting killed boom boom boom 24,000 every minute it's he made a mistake he should have jumped in there and kill him right away but he didn't realize hasm was with him no not not 400 by the way I I forgot to say zarir has two races is 400 it has a y is 210 plus Z is 14 is 224 424 so that's where we got 424 here says they discuss where do you get there's no's no source for like a egg that's that's rten she herself from all the she's like a garden full of water her seat where she sat she sat her body is the size of a saw which is an exaggeration the opening of her womb name is not why call she said a lie to her father like how do you say of she her father said only I want you to trip up CL go to the the top of the top I'm a king you're the da I'm willing to give my daughter to Tri but with with the top of the top out this nation through me what is she doing there between the reads and the my what she doing there with the the pills of the the she threw her mother under the BS so to speak to say that she was he has five names is one is second by the way the says here in I looked it up I didn't have the source yesterday but he says over there to was was the same person just trying to say he's in the same whatever and then I looked in Rashi and Rashi only says doesn't say but they bring should you name your kid two names what is the benefit of naming your kid today everybody does it you have a grandmother and this two grandmothers buiss with this okay I don't want to call her G I'm going to say G you know a nicer name a you know like we're going to call her this so what's the the Milo the mil is you have the the mil of each name comes with a certain and they have double but interesting to note that says do not name your child it's too late for me but all you young guys like you oh that's uh if you plan on naming your child two names on condition that you call the person with the two names because what happens is talks about it when you get on Leo then they call you up the two names but he his name is really not that his name is only Yan not Yan is so you have a problem with theba how do you call him this he says it's better not to name two names if you don't plan on calling them that so think about that that's the like we said before a r um a spoiled egg means that he assessed the the the of his he lent himself to that says over unbelievable thing that when can died he told his kids five things and one of them was you should love you should love it and that that's what he acted like and that's it we're going to stop over here rabai have a wonderful day oh