Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 75 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good [Music] morning welcome welcome Steinberg dear belly in the crosses interpretation of the verse explains that this verse describes how person recognizes the comfort of sleep but chooses to forgo it in favor of Tyra study Ley Freeman you heard the V unbelievable V to give up to give up sleep is the sacrifice you need for to person sees gets up like says I get up at 6 to come to the she likei he sleeps for 90 minutes and it comes to the she that's but you know what it would be much more G if you got up early in the morning to come to shear and when it's easy hours at night you also came that would be more Bo say ah things all you do D It Whatever certain people stun deal dear Bell last week my show went on a trip to Prague to see the famous Jewish sites such as the of the moral and the as well of course the on both days while traveling by bus or quite possibly the first time ever instead of just smoing to my fellow passengers first time on a bus instead of shooing like everybody does I managed to do the dve photo attach something that would not have happened pre my mdy days it has now become the norm to learn on buses and planes while standing in Thad crematorium is that how you pronounce it something like that where countless Jews would have been put into the ovens I noticed there's a vis visitors book for people to leave a message so I'm just watch you display your wife's present a silver tray with the words a written on it I could think of nothing better than to write that in the visitor's book picture attached the show the Nazis that was still here and still learning to 250 D without missing a day there's a video somebody sent me yesterday you probably CER rabie sner does that make sense sitner he got he he got up and he said a beautiful thing he said that he was thinking about certain sorus that were going on in the community this one has a m terrible M this one this and was bringing him down and all of a sudden he said himself where's all this this is what this's thing stop stop being down on yourself and then he started repeating to himself many many times to himself without anybody hearing he said like 40 times 40 times and by the time he got to the 4050 all of a sudden he hears a guy three four benches away screaming the that we just learned and it g chills running down his spine cuz what that would have been a thing that you yeah no but he said it not me like I'm saying [Music] over London Gold is green here he is say on the bus B on the bus there's a lot of things you listen to musico this that learning to Aron arnov this is my third attempt at trying to go through sh when I left is to go work my father made made a deal that if I do the d y here you would let me work that failed I got married had kids and tried joining the d y again but that failed this time around when BR started I told myself no matter what I'm not dropping off the D I started but Co hit and my dream almost was gone at dest of I fell off the bandw not an MD I fell off the bandwagon didn't join till I joined a few different the K I missed that I wasn't sure if I would continue other one day I was show a clip of I sh told myself this is where I want to be and therefore since hav't missed a with in all I keep up the DA has become a habit I am addicted to it I run home eat dinner and then the da it became my routine to watch Friday morning sheer thank you reell for changing my habit from just sitting around and scrolling on my phone to being able to learn and understand everybody understands this thing thank you reell for changing my habit from just sitting around and scrolling on my phone to being able to learn understand since the youer in here last night I want to tell you that it just hit me when says he didn't buy shoes that have shoelaces only slip on shoes because he wants to save that one minute it takes every day to to to to tie his shoes so I thought to myself his brother yeah his father was brother inw in law in law he's married to's okay sister was the big RAB of and when y told he went there to S to brisk his father made him buy shoes with laces so he said why he said I'll tell you why you're going now you're going to the best you already think you know everything this way you bow down to your shoes you have to yourself every time you tie your shoes you have to yourself show you don't know everything every s and I now listen listen listen listen to this side so I did the math on Friday don't help him out if you spend one minute every day of your life just one minute a day how many hours does that add up to your life I'm not a math 550 hours of to be to your shoes could could it's a good thing but that that one thing I was thinking there's so many things that we do we go on our phone we scroll this nice that one minute just one minute just for one minute that one minute 550 hours in your lifetime crazy crazy Bo say a big big announcement this is n to all the wives of mdy wmd I like to call it I don't think they like that too much the First mdy Wives Rish event when Tuesday March 4th at 7:45 Bells Hall in bar Park attendance is free think they have a comedian over there wives. mdy wies that but no no no that the one thing this is for the people in B Park people in Baltimore love do something else but at least get on to the group there's 150 women right now in the group and we just started the group from here can go huh why not in is your wife on it so the wives have to be on it and then they discuss where meanwhile the women from Bar Park are on it better buy my wife smartphone so she can get on the group oh we can go to the thing here wives. mdy online she could do it on the on the website have all okay oh we have to do the sponsors we have some new turning don't you're not going to believe it from his grateful family anous for the unity of the Jewish people Glenn with love and gratitude from willing North Carolina thank you for enriching my life with toyra monthly spons Speedy 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don't know what you're saying you don't know huh Donnie what's worse I can't even answer your own your own grandmother so the answer is the answer is BOA the answer is it's much much worse to marry your wife's grandmother than your own grandmother in fact your own grandmother is not even in the T there's no to marry your own grandmother that's crazy as that sounds but your wife's grandmother that's is okay just thought I'll throw it out there you could ask your friends that don't want to do and you can say asking this question and I don't think they'll know it fine we weren't able to finish the D yesterday and the Israelis were coming in and it was a b we had to stop here but we have a very short D coming up in a day or two so B we be able to catch up whole that we had a person in certain situations has to give up his life for the and then if you do it's in front of if it's a time ofad you can't even change the color of your shoelaces does a a non-jew they tell him do this or we'll kill you does he have to give up his life guess anybody forgot them alab giml it's the some people like which is but I like everybody knows that we had yesterday then do Al gim can have your own each person can figure it out themselves they have their own thing that's how I like it so I'm now there's only seven according to you they you have to give up your life some puts a gun to your head and tells you to that should be number eight it's the seven and if somebody puts a gun to your head on all these seven you have to give up your life it's not a new one it's not number eight it's the rules and the instructions of these seven do you have to does a go have to give up his life for talking abouton is a non-jewish uh General thank you and he had SAS so he told him go to Alisha he's a big Novi he might be able to help you out so he shows up there with all his men and Alisha wouldn't come to the door and he's very insulted but Alisha sent him a message just go into the river dunk seven times you'll be okay me you know I am very very hurt so somebody said what do you care you're already here try it say oh our rivers are much better he goes into the river dunks and it disappears comes like a baby so then he realizes that there and all his life that he's worshiping Zar was a mistake so he comes back he says look I am doing TR but one thing I can't get rid of one thing now I have to go with the King and he's going to go to and he's going to Bow over there and he's holding on to me and what I do he's going to Bow and I'm going to Bow I I have to with when I go with the king I have to bow with him that's one I'm going to do so ala gives him the okay that's fine it's true has to kill himself for the seven if you have to that's to kill yourself why tell him it's okay says there's difference like we said and the King nobody saw get get away with it is when our question was does he have to be and say no I will not do this because it's in front of other people all what other people Jews or non-jews the go in front of Jews Rashi yeah yeah there's a person who was looking at another woman is going to describe if she was married or not he became sick over her and he didn't know what to do so they went they asked for medical advice and the doctors gave advice this guy has no way out of it the only way can get out of this disease is if he's with her so let him die there's no here so it's interesting all of a sudden the doctors all of a sudden they have the first they say no no no this is the only way then all of a sudden you know typical they say oh but the rabbi said it's a oh you know what there's another way out of this she should be without clothing so that's awesome oh we have another oh there's another we we we realized there we looked it up there's a a third idea here that could save his life today it's called talking on the phone those days talk behind the fence you don't see the other [Music] personing has to give up his life give up his life says one says that this woman happened to be other one says no she was unmarried if she was married everything makes sense that's why he couldn't even talk to her from behind the fence which is amazing hell a person is dying dying death life and death he cannot even have a conversation with her why cuz she's married why that's the why mean why why why can't you do have you speak to married women for foras foras for own his own enjoyment his own benefit so comes out that to to gaze at a unclothed married woman you have to give up your life for that not to I said even talk even talk I'm I'm just saying something that's a little bit more practical it could be you have to give up your life not to look even though there's no no physical contact nothing to look give up your life but according to she was unmarried so what's the big so talk to her from behind the fence which is a this it disgraces the family it's a biz for the family her okay she's she doesn't want the guy to die you know what let me have a little one from behind the fence he doesn't see me even and he's healed no but it's embarrass me embarrassing to the family so because you hear what's going on because it's embarrassing to the family this guy has to die this other things this this is this is this not just smoing with somebody they're not saying hello to some this is because this guy has a disease that he the only cure is this to do something that's it's part of the thing of AR and and this could lead to the Jewish girls being in as I have another idea why he marry her he should ask the if they agree uh I don't know if there's anybody in this room that allow his daughter to marry this weirdo but okay he already goes to the doctors doctors have a whole thing there's nothing you can do oh yeah this a great who who the daughter marrying this m that saw my daughter and behind the fence whatever then and says I love this it's the opposite of it's a mitzah to get married okay I would never say this line but since I heard it from vior Miller I'm going to allow myself to say it and if you want to write me an email go ahead he says what is the quickest way to kill a romance to get married he says this this this guy should marry here no get married it doesn't work the whole idea is that he's obsessed he's crazy getting married not it's not going to help the was taken away from married people was given to the people the famous what tastes better the CH you steal Ina Thursday night or the that was you know three days on the on the BL on shabas morning shabas morning is nothing compared to breaking into the kitchen on a Thursday night when nobody Thea could catch you and get thrown out of Yesa and then you steal that [Music] like rash brings the famous what is a reference to to relations it's the hidden the hidden bread is better say with that huh it's a it's not yeah yeah but the it doesn't say doesn't say something else says what is just to remind a lot of people before they they did the DA they thought means you take a bunch of wood and you light a fire bonfire and you put the person in the fire we learned that it's not that you take a bunch of waist you put the person into the waist and then you kind of choke him not to the point where he dies but to the point where he gags and he opens up his mouth and once he opens up his mouth then you pour the hot molten into his esophagus whatever is left of it and then it goes down into his body and he goes by by who are the people that get St from what's is so if you were to read this by yourself without looking in the gar or anything you think means what huh woman and her daughter which woman which woman his own wife his own wife and uh her daughter that's the simple Isha his wife okay however what it really means is it means his mother-in-law and his mother-in-law's mother it say said your your wife's grandmother your wife's grandmother is your mother-in-law's mother she's we had a whole about is the daughter of a we is she married is she engaged is she married or engaged both of them could be one you're embarrassing the so she gets what does the get something else he gets now once we know is once we know there's a there's a header this is what this is what the tah says the tus talks about these two right over here let me show you oops you see they pop out a mother-in-law and a mother-in-law's mother that's in the T once we know those two we we come up with a total of nine what are they you could learn from these these are his his descendants not from a wife just from ano without a marriage out of wedl be his own daughter and his granddaughter and his granddaughter but through his son so you have his daughter here here's the chart a person has a daughter here let's see if it pops up it doesn't po his daughter and a and a granddaughter on the right side and you have a granddaughter on the left side in other words he has a son and the son has a daughter very very simple stuff those are the first three now we go to the wife he's married same idea the wife has a daughter and the wife has a granddaughter from him and also his wife has a son and that son has a daughter here we go you see these three B again you weren't looking so here another three and then finally we have his mother-in-law which we already mentioned as the header what's the header abai a mother-in-law and her mother so now the Mna repeats it you have to say the once in a while you have to repeat the knock on the door guy opens up the door and his horror his mother-in-law standing there with a giant suitcase he's in shock he like how long do you are you planning on staying here she says as long as I'm wanted here she says what so you're not even going to stay for a cup of coffee okay so the final the final three are here check this out isto I guess I didn't say it in in a month or two in a month or two I said somebody that's sitting in this room in this room sends me a text message on Thursday he says not only do I have a for the amazing that you give and everything that you've done for me and how you changed my life but you don't understand I was in my mother-in-law's house right now and I told her have to run to your Shear that is the biggest I could ever have says so true so true okay so that's that did I show this let's show it one more time so the understands here I did I threw one in well you know under my breath but we have to pay attention to it a little bit you have your mother-in-law and your mother's mother-in your in-law's mother but also your father-in-law's mother again your father-in-law's mother she is also but yeah it's a little hard to your father-in-law think about you his mother your wife's grandmother no your wife's grandmother from your father from her father's side [Music] right H it doesn't say that you're over if you are with your wife and also her mother well not simultaneously but if in other words if a person has relations with his mother-in-law doesn't say that why why does it say that because you're allowed to be with your wife your wife never becomes AER to you just because you had relations with your mother-in-law doesn't make your wife AER to you ever because it seems from the mishna that these people become they're user to you all of them are user to you just says plain a a woman and her daughter it seems like the woman and the daughter are user and who Could That Be must be it's your mother-in-law and her mother now that's the header once we know mother-in-law and the mother-in-law's mother in other words your wife's grandmother and your wife's mother and we learn the rest out of that you those two a mother-in-law and the mother-in-law's mother your wife's mother and your wife's grandmother are in the specifically and everything else is learned we have nine total in the mishna so two out of the nine are in the toyra seven out of the nine we have to learn from these two what are these two let's just did with one of them his mother and her mother or just his mother no both mother-in-law and the mother what do you mean why does he need why he each one separ each one each one each one no no no when both of them are when both of them are dead we're talking about both If he if he his mother okay that we're going to get into now hold on that's depends there a shw if the if the wife is alive not alive but yes she's AER 100% AER so this is what we're talking abouta here these two yeah you're married to a woman her mother and her mother's mother these are the ones that are in the [Music] tire okay so check this out it says in the like this person marries a woman and his and her mother we have to remember this word we're going to learn from it you have to burn him with fire what does mean Rab in in Hebrew them them now does it mean them or does it mean her Anda says it means them both of them says no it's only talking about one let's go in Rea so we have what meant here here it goes is two people them like you said you all said it means both of them so who could it mean both of them who who you killing over here your mother-in-law and your mother-in-law's mother your wife's mother and your wife's grandmother and what's the what's the you get you get straf for both of them says no is your wife and the Mother-in-law but only one of them dies in other words the iser sorry the iser is only why does it say 10 two both of them to tell you that in order to die for a mother-in-law it must be that your wife is still alive that's what he says okay stop Yes you holding according to RA in order to die for a mother-in-law the wife still has to be alive it's like kind of so is has to be alive that's wife says v v is not that both of them die because both of them don't die cuz a wife doesn't die in this case she's to the husband but this both are there okay so says the how how you explain the word the whole is what do we say the m is talking about we said the Mish is talking about so this could go according to who says that two people die over here it goes great two people are dead mother according to says no drop there is no mother of a mother-in-law the only thing we have here is that's it just one and question is is the wife alive or not alive so we have a problem must you just established the mission is talking about a mother-in-law and her mother but according to it's only a mother-in-law nothing to do with the her mother say R says you're right I don't agree with that and what you established that was talking about a mother and a mother-in-law the first line of the I disagree we're talking about a person is married and he has relations with that person's mother in other words okay once I have establish uh uh whoever it is a mother mother-in-law and her mother or mother-in-law I learned from that the rest of the mishna question is like five words from the end of Miss says a mother-in-law and the mother mother what do I need to repeat it if that's the header which means according to it means so why is the repeat you already said in the beginning of the so therefore says because check this chart out there's three things popping out here I want to talk about I want to say one thing the father-in-law's Mo mother your wife's grandmother from your father's side I want to talk about that so I'm going to say I'm going to repeat all over again your mother-in-law and your mother-in-law's mother I don't need to because it already says in the Miss but it's in that category there's three from the mother-in-law's [Music] category I want to talk about your father-in-law's mother your mother-in-law and your mother-in-law's mother and what is according to ra that the M the beginning of the m is talking about your wife and your mother-in-law so why does the repeat again same terets I want to say two things according to by only wanted to say the the father-in-law's mother now I wanted to say the top two ones so therefore I also talk about how do know punishment in all these nine C all these nine here we go yeah we had the a minute ago this only mentions the mother and her a wife and her daughter and her mother going down a level going down a generation it says by mother-in-law here this mother-in-law it says the word Z you see Z is highlighted and it says by your wife's daughter and her granddaughter is it also says the word just like over here in this it says all these categories BAS so two in this now we have a freebie a bunch of lines that we're not going to explain now because the is explain every single word says how do you know to make how do you know to do the upper category like the the the lower category like the upper category upper is like down and down like up how do you know to make the men like the women what does that mean if you're going to say that the the daughter of her son yeah the two botom ones are equal the daughter of the son and the daughter of a daughter are equal that can't be they're in the samec the same they're in the same I want to do these two make these two equal the mother of your mother-in-law and the mother of your father-in-law the two top guys they should be equal that doesn't make sense to ask such question we don't even know yet we don't know yet the of the Mother-in-law so you ask me how do I know the mother of a father-in-law why would you jump one thing at a time mother-in-law what comes after mother-in-law mother-in-law's mother once you know mother-in-law's mother then you could jump to your father-in-law's mother but why are you talking about a father's mother which is the furthest one away from us before you even know before you establish anything about your mother-in-law's mother uh your mother-in-law's mother yeah no your mother-in-law's mother yeah we finish you going to go to the to the the father's mother when the says this interesting what's how do you know to make like you know you know the Z is you know the cave is the Z is the husband then is the wife so yeah the husband to make all the relatives on the husband's side like all the relatives on on the wife's side and for that I say Says Z by the husband's side says zma by the woman's side and MW they're all together let's do the sponsors for a second 30 of the other so we have new sponsors global he's not new but he's going for I think almost the whole year experts in International Financial Services Dr alen and Barbara list house the famous Dr L has been with us since BR in memory of my dear Father Joseph L on his 405th yard life like life real and moorn in honor rebelling the entire mdy family moorn told me he didn't know about this his company put it in yeah but can you get rebell to clarify that the ladies event is for all women from all areas in and around New York not just ladies from B Park if anybody thought that woman coming from Lakewood m in Five Towns it's just taking place in a b park because it's a central location I got that I think everybody got that I think they they were they're complaining Mark whoever wrote that they were complaining that women Ines don't have anything but that's the typical Bish thing bees always wants things that to happen for them we should make things for them they never get up and say okay let's do something the GU they're working and working to do things how come nobody made anything for me I don't know it's a good okay but that's how it is we were trained like that we started here right huh it's and everybody's like used to like we give C we do and things just happen by themselves M brings breakfast why does they bring bre people come to the there no breakfast today but you know when we when we establish right was but the Hebrew she works a little differently I'm serious because from day one said we're not giving you anything so a guy came and says you know what I want to do CH today the guy said you doing CH I also want to do CH how can I how can I get on this so he brings CH says you brought ch I I my wife wants to make schnitzel so he makes some schnitzel and the kids became a like every night somebody brings something somebody brings cold beer this every the shear never sponsored one thing not one thing the shear is doing it huh there's other things you could have there lior the things the things ask not what the shear could do for you ask what you could do for the shear Bo said wake up how come we don't have the women's thing did you make a women's group they made a women's group they got together got 100 45 women on and now it's more Let the women discuss by themselves v v v over here they say V in the Hebrew sh if a guy said Vitter that six guys would come pick him up throw him out the window the closest window you must love it I do it say a word they do they do but it's different I want you to be jealous but it's a SLE that's come come come one night to 9:00 come to 9:00 by the way the in the Hebrew is three times as loud than the English [Music] wow this's one thing missing from the Hebrew sh Bo there one thing missing they don't have a sitting next to me that we need is going to start coming to thew that was a guy from the Hebrew she saying please don't give any crazy ideas here Z oh how how you learning his family from her family it doesn't even say the word zema by his by him it's a pretty good you're learning Z say Z by him how could you learn such a thing this is a very famous well basically the way it works is like this look very simple it says Z over here and it does say Z over here but it also says ha the ha which is talking about talking about the husband so it says ha there so you go backwards now now you put the H the Z together in the other POS by a woman and and her daughter you get get the z z through that very simple sh here what does and mean to you simply it means Generations there's one generation and there's a lower generation there's a higher generation a lower one so the is asking how do you know to make the upper the the bottom generation like a upper generation so let's get a here here we go here there's a lato I want to do a baso the bottom guys on this chart all the way in the bottom I want to make them like the higher generation like a daughter like a daughter you're with a daughter so too granddaughter so that that makes sense there's a Lata all the way down in the bottom of the chart should be like a Lala in the middle of the chart I don't understand they're in the same the same I want to know I want to do the higher you see the Top Line we just switched it and that's the problem we're going I want the top guys the grandmother should be like the mother like a mother-in-law that doesn't work well why then the wording is not good it's not kilala is that the the bottom should be like the upper over here you're asking me how do you know that the upper the top level is like a bottom level the wording is backwards that's what it means you don't have to switch the words here that's what I meant that the should be like that's what I me wait a minute it doesn't say Z that's what you're you're looking for a source and you learn it from the Z it doesn't say at all anything in the Tor about a grandmother-in-law right oh that's a good word a grandmother-in-law the your mother-in-law's mother it doesn't say that in the T it doesn't say anything about and you going to tell me that it says Z by by grandmother-in-law it doesn't mention grandmother-in-law certainly not a z beautiful chart we start in the middle your wife your wife is number one yeah oh that's Mar your wife is number one and anything below or anything above is a two is is a second generation so how do I make the three generations above in other words all I'm trying to show in this chart is it's two generations we call it three because your wife is generation one her mother is Generation two and her mother is generation three how do I know to do that like going downwards like your wife's daughter and your wife's granddaughter and just like when it comes to the punishment the the the the daughter granddaughter is like Lal and so too when The Warning part because you need a warning right you can't just kill somebody without a warning not the the has to warn you and the T has to tell you about a punishment so Rashi says over here a very interesting like four lines before it becomes wide a father they're always considered this's a story attributed Toki and you know it's hard to believe that he would talk like that but a lot of people told me yes yes it's a famous story he's on a plane he's on a plane everybody shaking their head they know but a lot of people don't know the story he's on a plane and the guy next to him was a non-jew a doctor sophisticated person was politician isan isra okay no no no no no I don't think that let's not let's not do that let's not do that let's say okay fine going to stay change the story a little B stop the story is the story exactly who it was so he says everybody knows the story so we can go there the guy says you know I noticed entire flight your grandson is getting up for you and bringing you and leaning and is that huh let me just let me just say the story who is it the head of another I love giving sheer here for the English guys you'd like to say the punch lines do know let me just tell you the story with with with with his punch line with this so annoying you guys want to get go ready I'm going tolep this out so who was the person in the story so was on a plane and the guy next to him from this not this tells him what's that your your son your son your grandson is so you the entire flight is bringing you and slepping and asking he says and my grand I also have grandsons and they don't treat me like that he says I'll tell you we believe that the greatest occasion CL wasi so the closer you are toi the more you are I am closer to than my grandson and my son so that's why me you believe that we all emanated from monkeys so you are closer to monkeys than he is so he has moreas than you I don't believe that he said that it's not him he's a politician he was he said it like a amaz okay totally it's great for the brisker of or whatever but not okay fine it wasn't on a plane it was on a train it wasn't retki it was the styler it wasn't his grandson it was his son it wasn't a guy was from the it wasn't this it was that and here's the punch line before you say the joke all you deserve a round of applause wow what an audience what an audience I have such a with you please come every day please come I really appreciate it boys let's go V wow wow oh the joke where he said stay for the coffee that joke oh yeah say it thanks for not Ru that one wow okay oh sorry sorry sorry let's just do Rashi then you all could run to I know you're in so here where was it there was the hold on no no I know I know I'm just looking for Here We Go we're talking about whoa whoa whoa we're talking about how do you know the upper ones from the lower one the question is we call the upper the lower yeah we are trying to know the the mother-in-law's mother she's the upper one look in the chart she's higher so why do you call her a lower she's a higher not a lower right further away says because she's further away she becomes a Lata she's she's more distant she's less relative to you so she's a Lata relative she's not a she's not a strong relative she's a relative if so if just like on her side your wife's grandmother is also to you maybe you should say that your own grandmother should be and we know that's not the case reason why your own grandmother is not a to you is because we have an exclusion in the only your mother's a to you not your grandmother have a wonderful day