Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 7 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning rap [Music] Boy live from Park City we have four people here it's unbelievable it's unbelievable Park City at my son-in-law's house my daughter should we tell people where it is no we don't need an address here the Park City you're in Park City I'm going to be here tomorrow as well we just came off an amazing shabas we had 850 people we took the entire Hotel 440 rooms at Aron and um it was unreal unreal the only people missing were really Alisa and mayor my son-in-law my daughter they live here in Park City Alisa cannot travel and um it was it was Unreal so we saw there was a lot of stories a lot of crying laughing throughout the shabas and today I received I'm not exaggerating over 60 probably 70 emails about the shabas and about different messages and I'm going to read one but usually I read them in the beginning of the year I'm going to read one towards the middle of the year just because a lot of people skip those emails and I want them to to hear it so I'm going to read it in the middle I do want to show you this video real quickly I'm dealing with real skiers here people that ski over 100 days a year 60 days a year and uh so I oh so I got to tell you this if my eyes are bloodshot it's because we missed our flight last night was cancell the whole story we had to get up at 3: in the morning to catch the earliest flight out so basically spend the entire day traveling and we got one hour and 20 minutes of skiing today and that cost us $1,000 $1,000 for three people to ski an hour and 20 minutes makes sense right because they all they could do is they could give you a half day ticket which you know and I didn't go online and get the discounts and you're looking at me I could get you the I know I know for tomorrow we'll talk so yeah but it was worth it sometimes you know that's the price you got to pay I didn't sleep yet since 3: and we got to give a she and I have to give another one right afterwards in Hebrew so we're going to get moving here we are we just started San hedin s hedin is about 110 days uh my two boys were promised at the shabbaton unbelievable the guys got together they don't really learn gamar that much well one of them does a little bit and uh they were promised for the older one $20,000 if they finish it it's like a bet and another one $10,000 and they're doing it surprise surprise there's another guy I'll tell you guys cuz you didn't know about this there's another guy his name is ficial from Baltimore he gave out uh there's 300 people that joined this program he's giving them $1,000 each uh that's just here in America and Israel he has another 300 who also joined and he's giving them 2,000 sheel if they uh provided they finish the M we are on d z seven it's six days in and today we're starting with is very light it's not gimar like it's very much like stories and just different um ideas in Judaism and and things and sometimes they're hard to understand today you know on the lighter side of the a sanedrin has the most um pages of Agata about 30 pages of AG so to get to that we just have to we're going to finish up three lines from the bottom of so we are discussing uh the whole is about bz and there's different numbers of BZ the we have a bz of one person two people three people five 7 10 23 Etc and 71 so the says how do you finish off a din and I'm Horse by the way because we were singing We were dancing one of the most emotional things that we had at this shabbaton was uh we were in a huge room 850 people and we nobody agreed to speak because you can't speak to 850 people in a large room on shabas without a microphone so I got up there middle and I asked everybody to sing with me um shabas songs and one of the songs just an emotional emotional song and but I'm I'm really hor from that I was screaming in the whole entire Place well minus the women they were singing was incredible so bear with my voice so says you say so and so you owe money to another person is z and the other person or the other person is not if he's Potter we were talking about the concept of which means a compromise and that's what do today they they're very into doing because it seems like it's the greater Mitzvah to do and that's what says is that there is the concept of because there's the other the other remor holds or whoever it was that said that sh is actually not a good thing sh means the compromise you're actually stealing from one person by by making a compromise either he owes you a million dollars or he doesn't by saying that he owes you 500,000 so either you're stealing from him somebody's losing 500,000 here she says it's not a good thing but we pass that it's a good thing to do compromise how could you tell me that R said that it's a good thing Ra was a student of R when you come to would say what do you guys want he would ask the the do you want to or do you want to make a compromise if you're telling me that the is better why would he give him this option says said it's a Mitzvah because I it's a Mitzvah to give them that option sayas I just want to show you I was on a plane today here's my um my boarding pass yeah we got the last row and then um this is what I did on the flight and this turns into oh I wanted to show you guys [Applause] [Music] this I'm not like you guys oh maybe I should stop it oh and I have to do the sponsors I'm completely out of it anyways this turns into this so I'll show you real quickly we have four sheas over here who says that it's a Mitzvah to offer a compromise offer two people come to bz you offer it to them it's a MIT against their will you have the option to do it against their will if you feel like it you as the Tama holds that it's also sorry it's an option of the Dyan to offer it to them you don't get a Mitzvah it's a but it's once you know if the D knows what theak is then it's AER to offer a compromise it's very interesting if deep down the D knows what's going on here he knows what says he should not offer a compromise according to the T then you have that says also very similar that it's a to offer a comprom it's a to do it against their will and what he what's us is not when you know it but when you already made the when you already said this is theak then you cannot say hey but by the way maybe you should compromise no you already came out with ab and finally he says that against the will it's always user to do a compromise where as you saw over here everybody else in front of him on top of of him says that's okay it's to force him to do a compromise we're going to get to in a minute says he seems to be saying exactly T so the now shows on the screen you see that the T and which are these two guys are not saying the same thing because you have this AER guy okay you see says it's a Mitzvah he's the only one that says Mitzvah it's a Mitzvah to do a compromise and that's what ra said before we pass it's a MIT to do a compromise I'm say I don't know if you have ever been to bezin but I've been told that they try to convince you to do a compromise these days they don't try to get to the bottom of a lot of times because of this when you hear what these didn't have to say and know basically where the is leaning towards do not offer a compromise then in that case you're not permitted to tell them to go out and do a compromise you got it you're with me okay so they argu that says that a d is not allowed to uh force a here he is you see AER right over here he says it's AER to do a compromise against their will so he argues on so we brought a a that says that is like water Etc he explains the POS differently that what what happened by the agle so we have artist his name is Yoshi and he did a interesting thing I don't know why but he did it this is how they made AEL see this it's AI generated but there's a lot a lot of work that goes into it so he says like this what happened by the it's interesting also has most of t in it most of the stories of T so this is the famous story of the agel that aronen basically made a compromise with K he saw they wanted to have AAR he saw that he wouldn't be able to convince them to back down so he said you know what let's make anle says he he did a compromise but it was bad it's not a good thing to make a compromise like that he saw this person by the name of already tried to stop from making an agle the golden calf he was he saw dead they killed him you try to stop us we'll kill you if if I try to stop them they'll do what they did they'll kill me later on by says that they killed and that's what they killed in the that's why was killed and that's why there's later on Generations later the B was destroyed so I don't want them to kill me because then will never be forgiven for that they'll never be forgiven just want to show you the POS real quickly because this is Rashi it says like this look how cool this is on this that's what the says now so Rashi says the way you can read it is you go like this he understood instead of to build a he understood from the dead person in front of him it's a completely different word means the means a dead guy that was killed by CL because he tried to prevent it it's just a way a play on words so says so he thought himself it's better that they should make a golden CF and for that there is Chua okay it's a terrible a but maybe they could do Chua if they kill me then it will be like the kill like the killing of Zak where didn't forgive CL and nevertheless it's also to to say wow AR did a beautiful thing he made a compromise cuz that kind of compromise you don't do this a terrible joke but I'm going to say say anyway why not I like to push the buttons especially for you Steve the they say that the Yi he got up right on time for matro talking about the golden Cal got up on time he came to the to mat and he saw that no one's there he went back to his tend he went back to sleep the litvak he came when a litvak comes and he made it he made it there and he got the Tyra he got a blade see you know they get up like toate they came whatever it is they came they came they came for the dancing the dancing around the Egle so they got stuck with the dancing in the N ah it's for you my son-in-law says the by the way just it says that Aon spoke the truth brings the P of EMS whatever the L is over there EMS something like that so the question is didn't speak the truth never spoke truth used to fool people he would lie he would say he would say to somebody you know you had a big fight but the guy loves you he's trying to make up with you but he's scared of you and then you go to the other guy and say he's scared of you and then you know put them bring them together that's lying what's the answer man you know the answer you can say you're allowed to talk they say the answer is it's unbelievable that let's say somebody's looking for someone he wants to kill him yeah guy comes in and got where where's where's Max where is he and you know he's behind the couch so you tell him no he just left is that lying it's not lying the T wants you to say that he left you can't tell the you can't say oh have to talk truth in this situation the truth is what the T wants you to to say and it's considered truth iron spoke EMS because in that situation to bring two people together to make peace you're allow to say a little bit of a lie that's not go you're allowed to say a lie so it's not a lie that is that is the truth because truth means what hasem wants you to say anyway just thought I would throw that out there says the G so what are all these learn with this that we had yesterday Rous mother so we said yesterday means fight mother so this is an amazing amazing and this says like this when a person dies he goes up to sh what's the first thing they ask what's the most important thing they ask a human being they ask him did you learn T did you learn T every single day how much T that's that's what they care about first so asked the famous question it says in shabas they ask you something else they ask you were you were you honest in business that's the first and then only they ask you did you do but this is what I tell people all the time I'm on a mission to get more and more people to to learn the da because I believe that it's one of the most important things you can do and it literally changes people's lives number one the first thing the of a person's is did you learn offers the ability to learn T every single day you create a habit where you learn every single day learn the same time usually the same amount same same same place and it's every single day without fail on shabas y on a plane on a train you're always doing a d and then you do you pass this first question with flying colors mother Rous means in the beginning rightous in the beginning m means the that's the first thing May what's may may means you know the t is is is compared to to water so the first water they ask you about is that's the first thing they ask you about is about T I read a story about a a guy who used to visit people in Upstate New York what's the name of that jail over there they have a lot of firm people there Otisville yeah a lot of have a few so he wanted to visit this one prisoner and they said n don't mess with this guy he's first he dangerous and he he killed somebody or whatever he's he doesn't want to talk to anybody and he insisted and finally they let him in there and uh he started talking to him about y about Tyra about this about that and finally after like 20 minutes he says what about filling you want to put on filling she says okay put on filling so she rolls up his sleeve and had some nasty tattoo there it didn't say what it was but you can imagine something that wasn't appropriate that feeling to be touching let's say whatever it is so he he made a calculation in his mind say you know what I'm going to take this on myself even though you know I don't know what is it might be not okay I'm going to give him the so he gave made the and when he came out the warden said well what happened over there like nobody's psychologist can't speak to him he doesn't talk to anybody he's very aggressive so he explained later he said you know T is like water water goes to the lowest place I spoke to him about t spoke to him about y explained to him a few Concepts and he was open to it and the next time he came to visit him the tattoo is gone they don't know he said he explained like he's in jail they don't have the lasers over there but he did whatever he had to do with chemicals and he he washed it out somehow doc how does that work is it something like that something with salt water a whole Spiel bleach and it's tough stuff probably doesn't feel very good but this guy felt that if he's going to be putting on filling again he's going to remove that on his own with a lot of bleach so yeah says when you have a fight with somebody we all have little fights with this person that person similar to I don't have that I should have I should have had oh Kobe is watching live here he wants me to show people Kobe's watching live Kobe's our Hebrew editor he's on his on the way back we have like four guys on their way back to Israel he's watching the daff live I don't know how how can you watch Laugh live on a plane internet but it goes onto your screen that's super interesting wow cool that is a great picture actually I like that okay spending his time wisely so time of the gar you know they didn't have uh irrigation like we have today so they would they would dig these ditches and they would fill them with water they would get it from some River so he says if you don't stop the water and you let it keep on flowing what's going to happen it's going to erode you know it's going to erode the the property and you know it's going to make things uh worthless whatever when you have a fight and you don't plug it up right away it just gets worse and worse even the it just gets wider and wider the Elder says it's like a plank on a bridge K in the beginning the the the plank the piece of wood is a little you know it's not so sturdy but after a while when a lot of people step on it it gets you put it in its place so I I'm thinking I didn't see anybody say this but what's the difference between the twoam seems like raun is saying that a fight widens and widens it gets worse and worse a is saying nothing gets worse but it it it uh becomes permanent it becomes so it becomes deep and permanent not sometimes you know you have a fight with a with a certain individual then it gets it's worse meaning now the children are fighting with you you go in the street they they look the other way and then the next Generation next gener you know it can get worse and worse or if you don't stop a fight right away you have an opportunity there's a certain amount of time whatever the means you go you apologize you move on otherwise it becomes like a piece of wood that is in there and it's never coming out it's like stuck but not saying I don't necessarily think it's going to get wider and worse it's just going to be permanent so these are just words to Remember the Time of the by the way all this was memorized by heart um only later on were they able to write it down so they had to make like these little um monics thank you I so now we have a bunch of sayings that people used to say when you hear when somebody says something not nice to you and you're quiet just take it you should know that you avoided a hundred bad things in other words somebody somebody curses you out and TR whatever it is somebody says something nasty to you and you keep quiet you should know you should know says gar that you just avoid it a 100 different problems in your life imagine you you spoke back to the guy you cursed him back so the next day accident this that business whatever it is you might not know it because everything seems great and you ski down the hill and you're you're you're healthy but had you not been quiet things would have turned out differently so you avoided 100 I could actually see it in the same that we brought down twice so Rashi says I like this the second m is gatria 100 me is 40 d is four V is six that's 50 and N is 50 so that's 100 so you you avoid a 100 bad things another guy was saying thing you don't kill a robber a thief for stealing three times stole three cars you're going to put him to death no in other words what he's saying is that you could do a few bad things you could do and hasem just turns the other way so to speak he'll take care of you later he doesn't take care of everybody he mean oh look I did this a I'm gonna get punished no it doesn't work like that but there's a limit I see the look it says three four hasem doesn't say anything and again it doesn't mean Hashem ignores it hm just doesn't do anything now he gives you the opportunity for years to do Chua there's there's seven pits in front of somebody who makes peace in other words you could avoid seven pitfalls versus the guy who's a bad guy even one will get him I'll fall in that one pit yeah you know what I'm talking about like the guy that the addict or whatever you give him one thing B he's he's done a guy that that does that's doing well he won't fall that quickly he'll have seven opportunities to fall and he won't fall a guy that's not that good you give him the smallest opportunity to do something bad he he'll fall I can see this in the famous that a sadic falls seven times but he gets up what's the what's the saying in English must be saying like that in eng no seven he shall fall and stand it's a famous saying that a sadic in order to be a sadic not that a sadic falls out in order order to achieve Tus To to reach a high madga You Must Fall seven times you must have that experience of of of going down and up and down you know and eventually you get to to to be it falls on the first one would another person had a saying comes out of BZ and he says they they took away and the B said you lost your your garment to somebody else says the gor says this guy was [Music] saying he should be happy he should be singing a tune why why should be singing a tune because it's not his if he's if he has something that's not his so he should be happy that that he that beasant took it from him yeah there a mus says this there's a Uprising there's a whole bunch of people that did an uprising against a king and uh there it was like a club they wore certain you know certain garments whatever like you know their their motorcycle jacket they they they're going against the king and one of them was very upset because he owed money and uh the guy he owed money to took his uh took his coat from him he said I'm taking you your jacket until you pay me back so he's upset just so happened to me that the king found out that there's a whole group of people that are creating this Uprising and he found out that they all they all wear the same jacket and he went and killed them all but this guy survived because he didn't he didn't have his jacket turned out to be a good thing she says the same thing over here if you have something that doesn't belong to you you have money that [Music] you it happens sometimes you have somebody else's money you're an adro he claims it's his you claim it's yours we're in a fight when bezan says it's not yours should be happy that means you avoided a disaster avoided having somebody else's code that's not yours so you should be singing not being you shouldn't be upset it's actually entire nation should come on its place in peace there's another guy that has saying when this woman sleeps in other words she's lazy and her basket here we have a little bit of a let's see what we have here here check this out see your basket when she when she's lazy her basket Falls it goes down in other words by her being lazy her production is is obviously less is another guy that that used to say person that's trusted he raised his fist against me this person that I oh here we have it is the another guy had is saying listen toy this one you like when the love between a husband and a wife is so great they could lay they could sleep on a bed the size of the width of a sword but when they don't love each other a bed that's 120 feet wide is not enough for that you hear the line when love is so great between two people then they could do away with a bed the size of a sword when there's no love then they need a much wider bed even a much wider bed doesn't help I can see this in the so here we have a 3D oh messed up I need to show you this beautiful animation we have we have two 3D animators that work for us fulltime um I don't know if we're going to be able to do sound wow 33 minutes in Mark you ready here we go where am I in the based in Shell M and how did I get here here we ask the questions so where do we start I volunteer for Mar zaka hatala and the fire department I have the gak for loans and I don't a kid to my sister and a live transplant to my mother-in-law and I also beginning of a person's judgment is on tile um why didn't you study every day the truth is I tried a few times but I always gave up on difficult sues so why didn't you study with Reb Ellie and M it's not be all all what I'm so tired I think I'll start the arom me tomorrow I'll learn to [Music] off it's [Music] I have to put the volume in this you want to do something over there good awesome let me move on you got it you got the idea of the video I was I'm in I do this but the bottom line is you learn TI every day let me ask you the question I ask everybody what's a bigger mitzah to put on or to learn Tyra how do you know cuz that's what you're asked okay good that's a good answer but we say it in DAV every day learn Tor it's like if you learn Torah you'll put on film these are all good but how do we know because we say every day in D right the beginning of what does that mean what does it mean Torah equals everything Torah equals everything Torah Torah on the scale on this side and all the on the other one Torah outweighs it got to remember that if you put on every day got to learn to every day says the gar wow these are long D my got this long that's why we're moving if you understand you understand you don't understand you understand some of it where's that couo was that left unbelievable um okay soar says oh I forgot I was looking for this and then I remember that check this out look at this this guys is a 3D animation of what the what it looks like in the so these are the Ken the two the two birds so to speak and this is the AR right over here on the bottom you see this is where the Tor is this is the AR and the K are like that anyway we're not going to go into it so much but the point is it says that I'll meet you over there I'll be right over here top of the that's this thing right over there was only nine nine fists like [Music] thisal long 20 wide 30 tall in other words it's not even enough if there's no love between and then even a very large building is not going to be enough how do we see that the word means to withhold just like when you gather wine you shouldn't gather so gather SE is a of gathering of withholding you should prepare in the summer the bread is that's the word we're looking for that it means to gather to withhold harest you're GNA gather a wise son will gather during the summer again another when a he does a good in he does it with full truth he creates that will rest in sorry this is the first is he stands in the nation he's with the lies create that the presence will will leave when are not being truthful there is unfortunately there's a lot of stories in nowadays of and that you know are whatever have different issues whether you could pay them off and this that so they're getting better and C is getting better at but it's a very bad thing when a is not very truthful when a d takes money from one person and gives it to another against kill him don't steal from the poor because he's poor and they'll depress a poor person at the gate will fight their fight basically he'll take their soul did a nice little drawing over here this is the drawing a Dy should always see himself as if he has a sword between his thighs he has hell Underneath Him 60 strong guys around it you turn the page all on top from the strongest of all holding on to swords they are trained for battle what do from the fear of the night they're fearful of which is similar to night now that the is still here I want to read yeah I got to do do sponsors in Park City okay we need sponsors in park we need we need spons in Park City okay so I'm just going to read one email out of the 60 dear reell for years I've been learning the da on and off over time I've listened to several from world renowned so when you started your sh encouraged me to join I didn't fully appreciate what made it so unique until it's pasas being there and experiencing the atmosphere firsthand open my eyes to what I believe makes MD so special I realize it's not about the da listen to this line I have a line I coined the line called it's not about the da it's about the Y it's about The Daily Grind it's not the D and he comes up with something else I realize it's not about the da it's everything but the da it's all the round around the the cartoons the pictures the jokes the stories when I'm in a good mood and and awake the the family what sets you share apart is the joy and energy you bring to the learning so here's a guy it's very interesting this guy he's not part of this year he wasn't part of this year until shabas he donated some money and uh he donated money to the shaton somebody knew him okay okay and then they guy say yo why don't you come for shabas so he came for shabas and now he's writing this email being there experiencing in the atmosphere firstand open my eyes to what I believe Mak something wise so special I really it's not about that yeah what sets your share apart is the joy and energy you bring to the learning the jokes stories videos and all the extras you incorporate create an environment that is incredibly engaging and inspiring it's like experiencing something so funny uplifting entertaining they feel compelled to share it with every everyone you meet it's a Hidden Gem of Joy captivating contagious the laughter and excitement linger with you bubbling up in conversations because you want others to feel that same spark of Happiness this happens through toyra learning it transforms lives and families when one comes home and shares the story's jokes or insights and the share with their wife and children and shows how en joyful and meanful can be it's not just about fulfilling an obligation H lot of people think T you got to learn you got to force yourself to learn it's not about fulfilling o it's about radiating the joy and excitement of learning I also realized something to shabas that I didn't appreciate before when I would watch your share in the past I often skip the intro including the emails and stories and jump straight into the D this shabas made me realize that was a mistake the intro isn't just the war that's why I'm reading the email now for all those guys that don't listen to the emails now they're stuck they didn't know there's an email what are they going to do they're going to fast for it so now they got stuck to to hear an email it's a mistake he says n isn't just a warm-up it's an integral part of what makes your Shear so meaningful and unique your she provides a wealth of toy content and participants are eager to share with their family not to preach or teach mus but simply to share the happiness and fun that comes from engaging with God's Tyra thank you for creating something so unique and special for inspiring not just me but countless others I look forward to joining and continue this incredible Jour Journey warm regards he doesn't want me to say his name great we are five lines from the top of Z what is this thing over here I don't know what this picture is have no idea what's for maybe it'll be it looks cool I like it I don't know what it's about have to see if we can find it in the gar somewhere M does it does it ring a bell this picture you should make a in the morning and save the one that was robbed from the robber from the says what's you only do theti morning not not all day means in the morning but it comes to tell you if you're dying and you see something that's clear like the morning like we say in English clear like the day so the is using clear like the morning don't make a if you're not 100% certain what you're talking about tell the you're my sister in what does it mean who's the most obvious person you cannot marry your sister if something's AER whatever like you know that your sister is AER to you then say don't say something you're not 100% certain 10 people are doing the entire this 10 usually you have three in this case you have 10 those days they used to lead the guys to death they have this metal uh you know I don't know what it's called more than a chain but it's like the metal you know the chain is attached to it the metal clasp I don't know what it's called so in other words each one of the 10 is responsible here says listen to this we learned the other day that if you're re is in town rebi lives within seven mile radius approximately of where you are you can't tell a person your rebi is here it's not appropriate for you to make to to teach peopleas tell them to go to your rebi they had a lot of covet for for the RAB back back in the day Nar is saying the opposite if you see a rebi making a mistake you're not even part of the Bez but you're a talid you have a lot of of Honor you give him a lot of Honor but you're sitting there you see he's literally making mistake doesn't know what he's talking about you need to stand up for the guy for the mistake you have to say hey rebi sorry you're wrong he's my re and and because because it's so that's why ruen is going to now lose $100,000 in your re is wrong you got to tell him if you don't tell then it's like that that chain is around your neck he gather and bring 10 you should take a chip off the the beam in other words let me spread the responsib I don't want all the responsibility on my shoulders let other people take the responsibility you had a cow cows are expensive right like $2,000 today God comes to you with a TR he says is this a hole in the heart do I have to throw it in the garbage he bring all the butchers of and he would let them all be responsible in this I hope you're not you're not I'm going a little bit quicker than normal one and a half speed because we have a lot to accomplish and we're already 40 something minutes into this this is crazy okay if is like aing he knows the stuff uphold the Earth but if he's like a who you know doctors do this also I don't have to tell you Steve sometimes a patient comes to you and you have no clue you remember something from from from so what do you do on Google right MD Web MD I don't know what you guys do my father-in-law is also a surgeon I know he pretends he goes let me look it up oh yeah Google so you know what I'm talking about not you not me not you the other guys absolutely so we have a world renowned surgeon here that I my son told me uh Elon Musk has you uh speed dial he calls you once in a while for spine spine well maybe not today but back in the day so no seriously maybe you should get together with my father he's also a world class head and X surgeon vented a bunch of stuff anyway he's not a good skier though so um but if you're like a Cen that's looking for like uh the truma that the Isel gives him he's looking for something literally like today on Google He he'll destroy the world you got to know your stuff imagine doing surgery like during surgery like looking up on Google and this cut over here do it over there yeah so I'll tell you afterwards my stories about surgery back in the day they allowed people to go in there uh I used to I'll tell you one story real quickly there's uh my father-in let me in there but he didn't tell anybody that I was a son of law right he tells them there's a like a no not a men a a surgeon from uh New Jersey whatever this is in Chicago so in middle of surgery I said something really dumb that a like a real surgeon wouldn't say like he's like hey what like what what's that what's that uh you know I so he's like what do you mean so then he plays this game like as if I asked something really intelligent and you know so I said I said I don't think you should cut that um that artery you solding you know the what is it what is it called the No No like that that thing that smells real bad they go quartery yeah Carter eyes whatever it's called he's like don't do it she's like so the the under guys the he wasn't doing the residents were doing the surgery so they stopped because I said she says keep on going I told I said Doctor don't let them do it so he said why not I said because this could cause a lot of d a lot of damage later on so he's like what are you talking about this has nothing this is this and this I said you're right but from my experience two years three years down the line they come back into my office and they complain and I know it's because you're cutting this outter it so he says Oh you mean like this like and they wouldn't do it and then afterwards we had to tell them that I'm just a a guy from Yeshiva I never went to medical school I don't know anything I was messing with them anyway took like five 10 no he played along he's good he's good my final is good say Maro and then I saved the guy's life then he uh flatlined no the patient flatlined yeah in middle of in middle of surgery and nobody noticed it I'm like Hey Dad why is the why is the line they like 911 shock him yeah of course the guy got up they never told him that he's you know the secrets of surgery next says gamar um o all the way up here still yeah so that's what we did that's where're the household of thei used to be in the time of the G that there was person in charge of he was thei and a person in charge of of Iran of B he was called the r so the people of the House of thei he put a D in there probably paid them off a little bit he didn't know anything La a he wasn't a learned person they had a guy that was like a spokesperson he's like the the microphone the speaker you know like um the the rashash would speak in a soft voice and this guy would scream it out to the whole yiva but he would like translate a little bit if it was a different language if it was in Hebrew translate to to the to the local language to to Aramaic or vice versa I want you to be the spokesperson come so he leaned over the guy didn't know anything so he couldn't tell him what to say so he decided this this was a learned person and he was the M he was the spokesperson he decided to to say something on his own it wasn't good I tell the the tree to wake up wake up you Stone who this guy anyways he's poking fun at this di that doesn't know anything he should he should be a DI he's full of gold and silver he's like a a golden idol or whatever that has nothing he doesn't he doesn't have any doesn't have is going to take revenge says this is later another sentence will take revenge of whoever puts these non worthy there next following says the whole land is scared of them if you think this is G this is not regular gar this is like story time in G this is not like a back forth if you put a d on the CLW and he's not a good guy means tree worse kind of thing that you could have you have to burn it you can't have any um benefit from it so it's as if you planted tree if you put a d that doesn't know what he's doing right away the says shouldn't and if put such a diet that's not learned in a place that you have big put right like inside what you're not allow to make golden idols and silver ID but you allowed to make a wooden Idol means a that that comes for money that's what it means you shouldn't make golden and silver uh Idols doesn't mean literally Idols it means you shouldn't shouldn't have that are getting paid R is the when he went to bzden to do you'd be very nervous he would say on his own will he came out to die in other words it's very dangerous what I'm doing and for what reason what do I have what do I stand to gain from this whole thing with he doesn't even do the chores at home he doesn't vacuum he doesn't mop the floors he's busy over here in bz he comes back without any money it's not a paying job when he comes back home it should be like when he left home he left home without sin he should come back without anyways he's very very nervous to do this it's a very difficult job you mess up all the time and it's dangerous you know today alsoa goes and um people follow him they want to talk to him so You' say it's unbelievable I at the shabat so the actual uh M shabas the whole thing was over like [Music] um where is this I thought I had the p in there no h oh yeah it is here right here so you finish the sh let's say about 2:00 then after shab 2:00 all these guys are coming over you want to take selfies everyone wants a picture picture picture that's know it's the new thing you wouldn't believe it this guys long Bears they're taking pictures and like I got to go to sleep it's 3:00 in the morning just just one just one up so my friends were very nervous that's going to get to my to my head so they kept knocking me you know and this one guy's going running around the whole hotel with a with a little baby says listen I didn't have a baby for eight and a half years and uh rebell gave me a Braha and nine months later I had a baby and here's the baby and he's taking pictures of this all thing so we came so my friends are like listen you're nobody like don't don't let it get I said don't worry about it nothing but RAV this is RAV also had this issue like these B are coming these people are following him around taking selfies so he said like this even if I go up to heaven he used a very very strong I'm like feces it's going to be it's going to be gone like like um what's a better word than feces um waste that's the word I wanted to like waste words don't worry about it RAV you're nothing that's what he tell himself you're you're nothing so they put him on the shoulder and uh bring him from place to place on chabas this reminds me there's a famous story I'm not going to say the name of the they were doing they were taking one of theas on they put the r on his shoulder and they were running around so some didn't like this rash so they started pinching him so the rash said enough coved enough covet put me down enough covet so so he would say he felt like oh they giving the honoring him so he didn't like it so he'd say this this uh I'm not going to have this this um this wealth forever and I'm not going to have the crown from generation to generation in other words everybody dies nobody brings money with them to the Grave it's nothing it's it's temporary all this all this cover is nothing should be patient comes to theti so it says when you go on you shouldn't use steers you have to use a nice gradual ramp why steers is like it's like hard boom boom you know ramp is is is calmer it's it's gradual it it's similar to having patience versus doing something uh you know with whatever the word is so right after right after talks about sters you shouldn't have stairs it says the whole these are the the rules of of din so it just means to say that a dying should be very patient and calm when he thinks he shouldn't be shouldn't be rushed so in the time of the gar they used to sit around on the floor oh I think he did something cool no I don't see it huh so how do you know so they us to sit around the floor now you you trying to get from point A to point B so you kind of like step over people you know says not it's not appropriate it looks like you're stepping on them you're belittling them go around the famous should should Place why does the use of placing instead of teaching these are the rules they have to teach CL not place on referring to the tools of a would say bring out my tool what were his tools listen to this you're v m had he had a stick You' hit people with a stick if they they broke the rules you you give malus the RAB with a stick or a no not strap it's a how do you say shot a um a whip a whip and they they had a Scher to put somebody in you have to like excommunicate somebody put blow they they were tough back then sandala and they had a special shoe for KH if unfortunately now every so we have in the war people uh some soldiers were killed before they had any children but they were married young young young soldiers so their wife has to go through the uh process of KH so bezan has to have a um special shoe when we were learning yamas so I tried to get the shoe because I do a lot of Hands-On you know props I want to show everybody the shoe so I went to the bz NE they told me no we use the shoe all the time we we use it three four times a month it's very it happens with very young couples or very old you have elderly people that get married the second marriage let's say 80 years years old now they don't have kids together obviously but they never had kids before and the husband dies now the woman needs to do so I went out and I we made our own Sho cost $2,000 these shoes it's a simple piece of leather but that's what it C well actually the guy gave it to us for free what am I talking about but that's the market for it is $2,000 about $22,000 it's cool I have one so anytime we talking about in Israel I pull it out so that's a tool that you should bring to bz let's just do a few more lines here and that's it actually you know what let's stop right over here because we're kind of late rabai have a wonderful day thank you for coming tomorrow 8:00 sharp bem