Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 51 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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they're going to talk about it today iie rosenfelder from Jew and a participant of mdy has been incarcerated in prison for too long K of the month sponsored by hyk ventures in honor for and for the success of all our clients or Main [Music] this is one of the best ever in honor of aitz for rejoining the da the amount of money mdy made because of akit dropping the da and rejoining is unbelievable thousands every two months he rejoins and every two months we get another $180 so I give you a br this should be the last you should keep on going you all remember he came here he was so excited he did M and Tinus and he came and gave me this giant silver washing cup remember that every time he joins does everybody does any what every time he joins he should be that's right a every time you join you have to bring another one that he'll never join again he'll never leave again what's his thing f94 I think something like that no I don't even remember yes f94 for real f94 100% the the St to make you know how many times he goes and calls and they say f94 when are you going to do the da you know like art of the month in honor of Yi Mar asazi for all the work they do here we are on the bottom bottom of the last two words before before I go and invite her I have a really if if you weren't here last night it's a good sh this is worth maybe a th000 points at least if a woman who's a daughter of a Cen and she's married and she's maana what Misa does she get strafe is not bad but you're not going to get Skil married Skil I'll tell you I'll tell you why you you're probably wrong cuz what's what's worse in arusa or an AA arusa one of them gets one Misa the other gets the Lesser is less and Skil is the worst Misa so probably you cannot be right you might be right I don't know what the correct so anybody want to answer what is get huhra who says K you're wrong you're all wrong you're all wrong m is not bad but you're wrong yeah here check this out it's a three-way perhaps threeway cannot be okay nobody said that one right now we are smack in middle of AA and we're going to go word for word through the entire braa it's going to bring us deep into B we're not going to go through the first part of the BR because fortunately for us every single word of the BR is going to be repeated and we're going to go through it and we're going to have a lot of fun with the Dres today says theas and I have to mention that we are you're not going to believe this but we are 50 five old into seems like yesterday but that's the beauty of every day that goes goes by you do another D and it adds up quickly now the comes up with something interesting that the is even going to discuss it says she's the daughter of a who's M and she gets it doesn't say what kind of daughter it doesn't say if she's engaged or she's married it says the daughter of a she gets ra now the says perhaps it's only if she is married to aen where does it say that in the T it doesn't say anything in the T like that let's see again it says in the no uhoh here we have all these seats here there here how about that one it's not bad it's close enough I I won't look at at the at the sun I'll look at I know cuz I look at him for cute he like if it's a bad joke it's a good J no look at him now I'm looking at him he's like give me like I don't know what he no but I I need also the agreement you know I have to know where I'm going faster sometimes he goes like this that means like faster you know yeah he [Music] has also by the way your cross from what's name you can keep him in in yeah today he's a little he's a little yeah he slept too much good Okay no Okay listen to this it says it doesn't say who she's married to the says I don't think she's married to I don't know yet but to words of let's say she's married to what's so today we have a lot of unfortunately let's say aena he marries another B cha and the B cha let's say she in her previous life she was with a GU one time that's it her children are even though she's married to I know people like that M right they go to they go to SCH good friend goes to SCH the father gets the son gets is she's not mared this allow to marry a m she's not allow to Marry m no one is allow is can't marry M what are we talking about though you're not let to marry these people so we have to be talking about that we're going according to the Mand but but let's just assume that if she this daughter of took a ring from a it's a good K she's AER to marry him but the K is it's a good K even according to say rash that holds that typically are not but perhaps that says that in these cases a because he's only talking about with real you can't be mad's sister that's not going to be tus or what okay but a what's a the they came they lied to Yeshua they said that they're from a far away country and he made them then when he found out that the liar liar so he made them all water carriers Wood Choppers but they're still is because from the you're not allow to marry them and she went ahead and she received K from them how do you know if she was M you hear she received K from a m and then she went and she was M she gets because the K of the m is a good K know we go back to this oh not this one this the word ish is extra over here it says she's the daughter of a but ish the the what's important here is that she is the daughter of aen not that she's married to a that's the that's the point we don't care about the husband as much as we care about her father even though right now she lost her her title her her of K and the is going to explain why because she married out ofun even if she married Israel she's no longer okay H let's say for truma so the Torah says that she still gets says says the tremendous well she not really yet but the the is only on the woman on the daughter of the not on the that's a tremendous that although the ad came and they lied and they said that she deserves to die with hot lead they themselves don't get the hot lead even though every single time in the T you try to make somebody pay $200 you lie you have to pay the $200 you try to get somebody to be he said that heas but he was M shabas you two a him will get the skila that that guy was supposed to get in this case even though they try to get her to get doesn't apply there's a reason there's a there's a mute in the and finally there is a riddle the father gets and the father-in-law gets skila what is going on here it makes no sense so one would be and the gamar even goes away from that one isva when she's in her father's domain meaning she's engaged right cuz an Engaged girl stays by in her father's house until she gets married once she gets married she moves into her husband's house which is usually usually by his own father's house you they have extra room over there so as when she's by the father-in-law meaning she's married then she getsa when she's engaged she gets okay that could be so that yesterday we had now we're going through the thing by thing it says in [Music] the okay same we'll just use the same slide so maybe it means even yes the next word is so think maybe even though even if she's she should get is worse than according to is the number one so if the entire world gets foras why in the world would I think for a second that the daughter of a gets less than everybody else if anything she should get more why would we downgrade her from Skil to it's interesting cuz yesterday I said over in the that I was in a taxi and the guy was shooing with me the entire time and uh I just yesterday saw this m the same story well not the same story but very similar reminded me of the story where a guy came to the r and he said I'm trying to keep shabas I decided I'm not going to smoke and I broke down after 2 hours I said started smoking what should I do sounded the same thing like this guy was in pain like I want to keep sh I couldn't I couldn't control myself so the r told him I'll take it I'll take that by myself the guy's like what he says yeah but you have to give me the two hours of your struggle before you broke shs and you struggle for two hours I want those two hours now I'm not saying that's I don't know how SC I know if it's a fear deal or not but the idea I thought was very powerful in other words don't forget don't don't look down on yourself you broke shabas yeah you broke shabas but until you broke the shabas you were struggling gu he's a smoker and he want to smoke and for two hours he going back and forth should I should I you didn't those two hours are very powerful so okay oh so we asked the question how what's thean the should should get she's is when is less than says because we go according to that says no is more thanil the whole world gets we have to upgrade her not downgrade we're going to upgrade her one more one more to the worst which is typically we give more why they have Morez than most than all other therefore she should get the higher and that's why the says no only when it comes to she gets the the bigger when it comes to as but it makes no sense how is it possible a daughter can get a bigger than her own father if her father's he gets and if the daughter she because she's the daughter of the she gets the worst which is according to how's that possible no I still have maybe she does get the worst why because she doesn't do the father already he already animals on so therefore for whatever reason he should get a lesser he she never has this uh she never goes on onas so she has a very strong shabas maybe she should get the higher okay next part of the BR this is unbelievable I would think for a second that a unmarried woman who is M and she's the daughter of a she' get means that she she's attached to another man and she was M under him she went with somebody else this is a single woman why would she get there is a two singles and they didn't have in mind to get married she became a z what does that mean that at this point she's to she's to a so maybe she should get no no no no no that we already had yesterday we're going to have it further on that we have that in order to get you have to have zik you have to be attached to a man and then be M you're right what she did is I'm just pointing out a very she was and it says in the so she should get no this at this type of enough to make her possible for Kun but not enough to kill her why because it says a and she has to be zik she needs zik she has to be married or engaged this is the continuation of the like I said we're just going to go through the piece by piece or perhaps the BR says maybe I would think that the Torah says hold on a second here it says in the OFA in the says OFA so the the thinks for a second that we're talking about that she's m with her father meaning that the only time she gets if she's with her father but if she's with any other man in the world she wouldn't get what would she get typically you [Music] get maybe means to exclude everybody but her father whoa she's with her father and for that I need a puzzle that she get any woman in the world that's M with her father that's exactly what she gets so why in the world would I have a special P talking about a daughter of a the daughter of also gets we have this famous here it is z to teach us that there's a is it's a interesting thing when we learned to Su like you're like it's mindboggling where in the say that you're not allow to be with your own daughter so have to come up with all these the the daughter of your wife you're not allowed to be with don't say your daughter the daughter of your wife and what's the is what's the what's the like a granddaughter this different that we have I could learn if you're if you're with your granddaughter you get so certainly with your own daughter I I can't I don't know that it's great logic but you don't kill somebody with logic so I need this fine whatever it is and to teach me Z teaches me what's so why do I need a special to teach me that a daughter of a also gets ra I already know that every woman in the world who's with her father get this comes to exclude a since there's a special says this is only by the daughter of I think that this doesn't apply I would think that a a person that's with his daughter he's is is not that's why I need a to tell me that everybody's we continue with the this is this is fascinating stuff that she's married to what ises a I got to tell you this this story from the stier it says in the that you should not marry unless you're so guy goes to the Stifler a true one of you know say I'm not a and they read me what should I do says the ster there's a bigger chance that you're than she's the [Music] best you're laughing but the it's it's hard it's Donnie not to insult you the chances are that you're more than you're aen that's what the sers said May knew something about that family that's what I don't know if he they said the name I like of saying something a true c a true K is like the K that I gave my uh no look look look don't say his name I'm not going to say his name no you sometimes do okay so we won't even say the story I'm just going to say biter not his name I'm not going to say I'm not going to no everybody knows the story but I did a piona myself when I was 13 years old I went to the guy knocked on this door he took my money slam the door in my face I didn't even come into that's a true that that's name they have I don't know what they have they yeah oh she has as long as she's the daughter of a she doesn't have to be a right now what do it mean that she's not a right now what because she's married to a Le a mom that makes her not the daughter she's we undo the daughter can't undo that she's still a does say anywhere in the that this has to be married to a in order to receive it says she's the daughter of the that's it doesn't matter who she married this is it's a very nice hav because it says she started she is I'll give you an example what what does the media love the most to to a rabbi the great Rabbi of this great synagogue he stole $100,000 and they put his picture on the the front page right that's it doesn't get better than that but let's say he went off the DK last year he shaved his beard all that so they're not going to put him on cover that's it duck she's not a basen she already married a mser last week so you say oh this woman who married her M last week you know what she did oh she was M who cares old news she's she already did worse she she already married a m yesterday I would think that a over here she she's she's um defaming what's the word there's a good word here she what profane me she's she she's being she's no she's the today but she wasn't why because she already did it yesterday she was married to to the wrong guy I think the whole problem is when she does it for the very first time today she was M as but in this giv she's already married to she's already married to so already happen What happens if a if a a daughter of a gets married to a is is she allowed to eat truma as a she's not allowed let's say she gets divorced her husband dies is she Li to e trumo depends if she has a kid or not let's say she gets married to a mom and the M divorces her is she allow to e truma no never why cuz once once that's the that once she's with a M she becomes P forever even if she doesn't have children she can never eat truma again so there's already she was already the says even more even if she married somebody that's kosher a Ley she goes back after she gets divor she can go back and but when she's married to him in other words she's she's not a c at that point since she can't eat I would think that at that point she doesn't get she get in all situations what the like says that a who marries let's say a m Apostle she doesn't get hold she gets doesn't she doesn't get whoes and she I check this out what is special about who married a is what's different about her so the first thing that we learned already is thatas who marries is and then she's m gets there's another very very important thing that we didn't speak about and that is typically speaking when a Cen when a is eats eats a truma is you as is eat truma and if you eat truma by mistake what do you do you pay Karen you pay the five apples that you ate or whatever Plus 25% she does not pay she does not have to pay a why because she you're right right now it's also of her to eat it why because she's married to a is she can't eat it but if she did eat it she doesn't have to pay the the 25% why because she's not a zar she's not she's not stranger to truma right now at this point she can't eat truma yeah and finally the third thing I think I hope is that if she is married to like Kramer's wife is soer could receive you saw in the famous picture I showed it a thousand times where I one time bought a sheep and we did a here and B it's coming up literally within the year B we'll have another one of those I believe it's already seven years ago like seven years a seven years ago we a sheep and I I gave him we all had the darker ha then and I gave him check this out this is beautiful what's m look at this it's galic Roya the jaw and and so they gave that to me on a plate and I gave it to but he's married to gets she still [Music] gets so she doesn't have to pay the 25% and she dies if she's m with the very and however says if if she marries then she's like a then we treat her like a complete stranger to the and she does have to pay the 25% and we treat her like a zar she doesn't get the she gets the the lower argues and as we saw before even if she's married to she still doesn't have to pay the 25% we still consider a a daughter of and she get and here comes the riddle this is the final part of the we're going to have a few to explain a riddle one of my favorite is to explain the riddle with one of the hardest riddles you'll ever see it's it's a it's a riddle to the riddle but anyways What's the Riddle her father gets the father-in-law gets what is going on perhaps it means that she was with her father she was or she was with her father-in-law that's the that if she's with her father she gets she with her father-in she gets so then again once again why are we talking about the daughter nothing changed there daughter-in-law a is daughter-in-law is skila Isel daughter-in-law with a father is daughter not a daughter-in-law a daughter with a father is so it's why are we talking about Bas at all obviously we're talking about something else we're talking about when a daughter is in the domain of the father meaning she is a and what's the what's the when she's married we downgrade it we said it's less remember did three bad things she's yeah sorry yeah so she would be we dowr to to according to oh so check this out this is gal like this will mamish make the entire suya perfect first of all I just want to throw this in CU wherever it comes up typically speaking a regularis who's Mar who's who's in arus and she's m what does she get she gets skila if she's married she gets K that's a regular case okay now we're talking about the daughter of aen we have all these Shas check this out it's G R raban say what's the worst music you get skila what's the worst skila and what's worst therefore Skil fits right inim says the worst is therefore everybody gets says get and gets and now we have rezar just says that in get that doesn't line up with anybody take a look nobody says that a married woman getsa lines up fine with and on the left side left side lines up so if we do this who does rabar go according to it can't be raban it doesn't line up in fact it's the exact opposite of raban say get not get and say that get not so one of the the is going to be let's flip ribar let's just flip him and then then we're okay we'll say that gets and gets and then it lines up perfectly with RAB but let's just see RAB now who does it line up with come onar on the bottom rear on the bottom who says does not line up with the three above him and that's a big problem and all the way let me just tell you all the way at the end of the gar the gamar is going to say that it does go according to this it lines up with this and the gar starts talking about what do I need to know this this is not it's not get we don't have the whole thing okay that's typically speaking a regular woman should get what what what does a regular woman get that that's married as M and the upgrades a married woman and the is not upgraded remains at Skil because that's what the Torah says by a regular woman yes let me just go back to the regular woman for a second regular is get so if I say this we're not going anywhere ARA remains skila there's nowhere to go from there it's the top of the top it's the worst Misa anyway so rebelar on the bottom cannot line up with Rabon on top let's just look at this let's go downwards does not line up with the that says okay both of them are and we upgrade to because he hold is worse than skill according to right is going to have to hold like that the worst of the worst is upgrad and now if she's married what does mean she's married she gets so look the second from last on the bottom does not line up withar because he says and he says rear cannot be going according to them this and this don't line up ohai says says roben in the name of know that it goes like RAB look at this for a second please rab say that if you're married you get and if you're you get what is the most complicated way in the world to say those words riddle how do you say these words but in the most complicated way ever instead of saying is is let me tell you do it you go like this meaning this is the center this is the middle if a person if a woman is M with her father she gets what's less than below that one step below is K is less than S so who gets who's a woman who's married and she's a is Isis and she's m she gets and what's above oops sorry what's above what's worse than straa skila who gets an Engaged woman so we got that we have the flat line we got the middle the this below the which is this above that oh so now that we know that that's step number one to the most complicated way to say the simple Line This is How I want to explain it get and talking about here right here you want to see again that's so that's who we're going this is what we're trying to say anybody that's below the what's the the middle line what happens to a person a woman who's M with her father she gets so what's below that a woman who's married and she's she gets less than stra she gets but if she's a check this out now I'm going to go to the next chart oh if I change everything and I go toen then she's not going to get she's going to get if she's a married woman and if she's AR she stays by SK you hear what's going on here instead of saying that get I'm saying if it's from one that's M with her father that's which gets K you change it from Ken to and if it's above this woman who M with her father which is skila it remains skila yeah nothing happened there just to say two simple words that a nusa gets skila and a getsa I I said the most complicated thing when she's she get sorry yeah above that which is above the when you're with your father what's above that engag nothing changes in that part nothing changes because you can't get worse than it's a Ser very serious beautiful lumish not lumish uh very sharp way of saying a very simple thing but unfortunately it doesn't fit into the words it doesn't mention anything about above and under the under 500 above doesn't say anything about that okay next I'm out I want to get over here okay I want to go with this on the bottom who says that goes like that says that and but we have a problem once so what I'm going to do is what do the word it's a riddle right it [Music] says so what does it mean when she is engaged yeah go back so what does it mean means when she's engaged she wasn't M with her father it's just her her um curent status her status is that she's engaged okay that makes sense now we're changing it what does mean it's not status now now who was she M with with her father-in-law and then she gets it could lie with wasn't talking about with her father-in-law was talking about with the person look it fits in now is masing that's just in a situation when she's with her father-in we're going to change it to how could you change the father and the father-in-law you're saying father means status father-in-law means she was M with it doesn't make sense either both of them she was M with them or both of them are statuses he can't say one is a status and one is with both with the father himself or either or it's a status she's in the r of the father and she's in the r of the father-in-law I got to go back over here we're trying to line up so goes exactly like and a married woman is like an Engaged woman we go so let's go real quickly back over here who's M she and she's married she gets so let's go up once one one level above that to and arusa was stuck there's no there's nowhere to go arusa she's already at the top okay hold on so we want to line up with says says I go like him but I don't go like him I go like him then I'm going to go up one sorry so yeah it goes up one why because I go like it goes like that is the most I'm going up from I'm going to the worst to from I go from K to skila I go from number three on the list to number two on the list I go up one to skila great let's just do the um sponsors turning of the Global experts in International Financial Services and Anonymous okay what in the world is going on here look we want to line upar with shim what does say both of them how could you say that Lear lines up with if you line up with they have to say both how could you say one is Skil what did I just do here why is it backwards oh that's why it's backwards yeah sorry it's backwards on purpose okay this one sorry here shim how it doesn't line up well so says in other words there's no Source in the T has sources and both of them are you can't you can't say oh re hes this one is skila doesn't make sense he goes up like who where where do he weim has sources in the with get his Source got the just like but you can't go up on by by with logic I want to go up one I want to go up one you see that you do go up one okay but that's that's it's weak it's weak says weak if you're going to go with you have to go completely with say both them are you can't use lot why does he have to go like anyone why can't he why does he have to go like someone there trying to understand no yeah we no he could go by himself just want to understand what he who no what what did he say I just want to know his words what he said cuz he was a riddle I have no idea what he said he says what is he saying is he saying does he line up with r does he line like who does he line up with did he say his own thing I don't know it's going to go like ra and check this out they're they're opposites right now he says so all you need to do is to make it all line up is switch them around is like here let's just go up the bottom is like the top everything lines up because we just did we did a a switch R in other words when she's a when she's in in the status the domain of her father she gets skilo when she's in the domain of her father-in-law she's married she get so why can't you just why do you have to go like this just say gets and why do you have to talk about a father and a you know why you're you're right it's weird to talk like that but don't forget we were talking the entire time about this we're talking about the whole time so he just threw it he decided to talk like that okay like this that we we're going with raban rear lines up with raban in other words if you remember this was it the most complicated way to say the simplest words that an arusa gets SK and gets how do I say it there's a middle line and if you're above the line and below the line and this and that okay so what point is there to talk about these things now we don't have M so you're going to tell me is when comes and a woman was you should know that if she's a Bas and she gets and she's she gets SK if she's an she gets this but that's from when comes why is it for today so what that's it we're not going to learn anymore we're not going to learn any this's a concept of learning you learn so over here also learn so first of all says a beautiful thing he brings he he says when you have two things going against you see he says beautiful of course we're going to learn because there going to be I need to know today how to how to what to do but you know what I can't do I can't talk about a woman who's going to be M after Mia comes you know why because nobody's going to be M then the mhia is coming why why would somebody do a is then I'm going to talk about if somebody's going to do is after comes why would I even think about that is going to be a different world no it's the it's the same thing everything's going to go but when you see M you see how could be how anyways if somebody does it we'll worry about fine so another thing is and the the other point is we don't know what ribar said so why are you so concerned about rear says for when mashiah comes when Messiah comes we'll ask rezar says Rashi what are you guessing what realiz says it's only a good guess for when mhia comes because we don't havez today so so I need to know what said about when does comes ask him he'll be there you'll ask him what he meant that's that the other is says in he says that what does it mean that if you learn this it's as if you're this this thing you theas you learn about mbas so like last week I said as a joke I said how do we we should make a thing you know people do p they buy a donkey this that a firstborn everybody pays a dollar said we should do like AZ the Mitzvah mitzah to kill oh here it is if we learn we're that special Mitzvah of killing somebody oh and for that and RAB I forgot to show this yesterday here we go practical hotline hello Rabbi I have a question about mis's B with God's help the Messiah will come soon and you will get answers for that I apologize I have to continue to the next caller practical hotline hello oh hi it's me again asking about Misa Bon I know it's not practical right now but says that's why I'm asking that is true but you've reached the Practical hline not the line for we only answer practical questions here goodbye practical hotline hello look I gave a ring to a woman and told her that I would only be Mader if the explanation in the mishna is according to raban what is this a true story um like Ellie likes to [Music] say okay so we have an easy here we have to do it quickly oh oh no sorry why do I need all we wanted to know we don't want to know what I try to figure out what did what say all I want to know is what his words were what is the in the riddle not what is who this again this is right that and get where do we see this talking about an Engaged woman doesn't say anywhere in the statuses every single time in the Torah when the Torah says and it doesn't say what it is what is it should have got and the says you know what but even gets and gets when we're talking about we're talking about an Engaged woman a married woman this is called we learn from just like over there talking next the and as simple question didn't want to do something to this woman he was just over what does it mean there should be you should give him what he wanted to do no whatever the wanted to do to her they don't get that they don't get they get whatever they wanted to do to the not to why what he wanted to do to his brother not what they wanted to do to her they wanted to kill her with they don't get says both both get that even an unmarried woman gets we s we saw this already no it can't be for unmarried woman it has to be someone who's married just like the first talking about we're talking about a 12-year-old and she's engaged by also maybe she be only a 12y old between 12 12 and a half I have extra for this extra we have to kill her with a terrible death of of burning hot lead down her throat tomorrow we're going to see it's open up her mouth or you figure out a way where the person is like choking so they open up their mouth and that second you you throw in this hot lead down her stomach and the whole stomach Burns if if you learn from this a married woman learn from this also unmarried if you want to exclude unmarried woman take out the I have two things to exclude the means when and not unmarried and the extra comes to include the married woman you know what we'll stop right over here rabai have a wonderful day