Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 14 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] today sponsored by Barry seagull his father-in-law Charles rinder where is down for the today no quickly yeah [Laughter] yeah okay galic um great let's see what we have here today Mel he was at the shabbaton big part of the Year de SP tomorrow morning he started somebody else is writing this na walfish marriage and family therapist writes that it took him 11 years he started that 11 years ago was just he spent last shabas with you and them the family I thought it would be very meaningful for the shear to she success story attaching a video of a speech and see him as well some added pictures to select from as you see fit he starts to talk about his introduction to the Y three years ago may we Contin to share many more Sim together tremendous accomplishment of finishing sh personal story of hi deell why do you do it to me why did I deserve such bues he'll explain just realizing what happened happened after babbling the D for a while and realizing that I didn't get very far with it I started listening to she here and there not wanting to do the D through sheer feeling that after my sh Co from I have two emails like this of people that are in Co the next one is actually from a rush Co 8 years being 30 plus that's what ended up doing the D just called for shipper sitting in my dining room raising my two hands on the very good question you asked I don't remember what it was giving a smirk and making sure no one saw what I just did to myself the Sy was made mdy as it stands month day year mdy month day year I didn't pick it up the first time I read this email mdy month day year since since from didn't miss a after two months the crash came today waking up at 6:15 a.m. when my alarm was set for 5:15 I got so upset of myself knowing that my day will run late still need to get to D before feeling the pillow tight to my face just running to get all ready what is this the same the K what he's saying is two months ago when I woke up every day at 6457 to tell my son have a wonderful day and now 6:15 is late couldn't believe it felt so different in a moment now comes the question why do you do it to me you may made me cry in front of over 100 people by Shak Talis on my head feeling thank you hem by such a wonderful family didn't have such a hall in years he's upset that I made him cry during Hollow this colorful sh is making my life no more black and white welcome to me in my beautiful colorful life just finish off I'm sure you're not yet immune for compliments since they all true so now can say thank you for changing my life my phone is waterproof not looking for my name to be public here's another one that's not looking for his name to be public RAB I'm just going to say R Rea from Lakewood please don't mention my name my life was turned upside down I was had other plans for me now I'm I began the D 13 days ago I so touched how you said that you gave up your gash me for in your plane see you built a business I see I built up a business enough for me to stable enough enough financial stability I now need to learn other too so I do them with you my life is now complete with here gives a feeling of belonging only hasem can pay you back two requests one would you be able to describe how much more fulfilling your life is now compared to how it was in the business world two would you be able to send me magnets for my car it's very important to me both requests are denied I don't know somebody's going to have to I don't send magnets but I have magnets we we we'll move this email to somebody else oh it's much more my life is a thousand times is more fulfilling now but it's not a cuz I have uh a lot of people that the lives are changed yesterday said forget about it so this is actually the sign in Brooklyn as you go on the Belt forget about it you mentioned yesterday this line so I got the picture that actual sign it's located on the Belt Parkway on exit 15 between 15 and 17 have a great day thank you much for inspirational [Music] shab we have six sponsors of the month now four sponsors of we never had this from his great full [Music] family byar start Lear for 32 years respons Unity of the Jewish people for I have a picture of him if you forgot what he look at this picture are you able to oh oh you good Gary very good very nice ah here's bmen and his dear son I mean Robert and [Music] bmen tremendous again the six as for our children and tremendous par motivation for another good luck what is that I'm from this cheer this sheer changed my life I'm donating today that in this I should have and Rebellion should be able to go on and on at the end of the shabbaton the night so I called up all the SAT that were in the room to come on stage and there were more than a minion that all from Monroe and they they didn't know about each other a lot of them didn't know about each other so they said they're going to make a group they T did make a group I forgot how many people on the group now there's like 20 30 people in the group what two guys the oh you guys are not from are you where you from where montre both you like what's your names your your father was at the uh your uncle at the like six of them came in who's knows mess your brother your brother was mess your cousin the one with the blondish beard first that's your who that's your cousin very nice somebody could get them a seat no seats left and you what's your name sadic meni Mar margar Shalom also from Montreal beautiful all right we'll get them some seat there's a lot of guests here who's who's that guy next to you yes from where Elizabeth years ago from elizab wow what's the sound the seat says seat next to you and there's one seat over here come to the m there's two seats come come there's two seats two kids oh kids okay who are these kids next to you huh three I don't see oh what's your names scream out your names so we can learn some oh what Z I heard the what else yes from where [Music] I forgot to put this in we'll put it in B last night there was a siren so when there's a siren I go to the window and I start taking pictures videos I first screamed to my wife there a siren she didn't hear it cuz it was in another neighborhood and then it turns out that a giant piece the size of this table fell here in Al a giant piece unbelievable round like this big unbelievable okay where are we do Miller yeah you don't realize it was it was uh it came all the way from Yemen and the peace the peace Falls a couple hundred feet away from this base measur it's crazy for for Rebellion the whole MD staff so we have two art of the month also never happened for for Rebellion the whole MD staff to continue to make t on J so many and in honor of Yi kin and markazi for all the work that they do Bo a guy that was at the uh at the shabbaton who's so moved he gave Yi Klein a $20,000 check yesterday but he doesn't want me to say his name so I'm not going to say his name you know where you are whoever you are you said you don't want to know you don't want me to say he's raising his okay I said the guy at the shaton very good we have a beautiful D very compared to yesterday we have I have a question for the yesterday's was like a somebody sent me a message about you I sent it to you I for you heard it so I'm going to say ma to MTI fish is his name he's a guy that came over to me uh two weeks ago he told me a about his friend told me a story about he did a tremendous so that's why I'm mentioning him that he became a m fish became a so we're holding down here but I just want to ask a quick question when we talk about U we find a body so we bring the we said you have the three five they measure from the closest city where's the body the closest city let's say it's obvious there is no there's a city you over there over here and the body is 100 feet away from bamas do you have to take out a measuring stick and measure yes or no what do you guys think yeah you still why what do you say what it'sah good thing it's a good thing came to the D today okay we'll see we'll see let's see oh it's a big for us by the way I I ra I said it last night but I'm kind of we have with us a person who decided on his own without asking any questions he usually does to bring more people to T more people to T his way of bring more people to ties to pay them $1,000 each so only 300 people signed up for $1,000 each and another 300 people here in and this another 300 for 2,000 shek each that's it 600 people imagine if it works the amount of lives that this person change now that wasn't enough so he went and he he spent tens of thousands of dollars on a 3D animation to get people in I'm going to show you a little clip later when we get to that sugya but here he is official everybody I think a big round of applause taking B taking things into his own hand doing his own thing I called him up once I said listen $1,000 I could get people for $500 why $1,000 we can get double triple he says I should get a thousand of these people I don't ,000 that's how it is don't ask questions he is fine whatever it takes whatever just to bring another you guys could do it cheaper You Stand in the Rain bring people one two for free whatever everybody does it their own way he has his way and it's m he got a whole sh to finish what was it all right so now we're going to learn a little Tyra we have 20 minutes left we got to do says we're holding by T like 12 lines from the bottom to give somebody so in America I don't know only I'm from America it's a huge thing he's garnished he has nothing in his life big thing he puts a big Rabbi in front of his name they always talk about they don't talk about anything else I got from you don't know who he is I got it yeah what else do you have in your life garnished got here nobody cares everybody's everybody's going you don't you don't need you don't need open a liquid phone with every single person is they ask me a lot of people in America uh do you have SM no I don't so what are you giving a share for give a share without SM really okay interesting I'm not going to listen but good luck to you you don't have SM you're nobody anyway SM it happens to be that in the time of the they try to reinstitute it the the ra says it says in says the I want to bring back so theyed to do it and uh they weren't very successful but the himself got he gave it to every could look inber wrote a whole piece about it but it's that was a he got gave it to gave it to but that was it there was like a lot of opposition and you know you know how things go you can't like just it says if you get to agree so they had to agree with it they wanted it makes enough communic give malus you could do a lot of different things okay so the end of the day today we don't have so the actual SM to make somebody a and to and to do which we said means this here we go to lean on the animal here they have this is the MTI fish and here he is telling me about the that he did Big okay so says the means to lean on the animal so we have giving where are you is to give okay but we have means to lean on the animal is to give how do you know they need three people in singular from the seems like it's one not three maybe we could open up a window or something know it's boiling hot we need a can Gary can we put on the air conditioner please something but we open up the windows let's go no it's going to that's fine but a little bit a little rain won't just let it let it warm up cool off a little bit okay 10 minutes where are we so you say okay but is like 71 where do you get three from maybe you should need 71 it's either one or 71 where do you get three it's a good do you do you put your hand on the and say you're you're no what you do is you just say you say you you let him do kosas this is not a real K I'm about to show you but I thought this is little sad a guy got a ticket here in for wearing tal fill while he was driving they said in they said he gets a th000 plus four Monon suspension of his license cuz he's driving with fill weird thing it's just it says meish in this thing I don't know how true it is I don't know cuz it says dangerous cuz no maybe the oh I just cuz you weird F and you can't you can't think about anything else so M you're not concentrating on the on the driving that's the yeah okay it happened to be the guy was talking on his phone but he said oh you're an anti-i because I'm wearing no you're talking on the phone and you went past you went through a red light yeah what one person cannot do now we're going to a story the name of said was a person you have to remember for the good we all remember is one of the because of him we didn't forget what do you mean forget open up and learn it without him because there's no then there wouldn't be anybody that could do what happened there's a lot of the made a lot of in the Jews anybody giving over any giving anybody receiving dies and anybody any City that this happened in the entire city is destroyed and when there's a because we're running late maybe I won't show it maybe I will for the new people here means you're permitted to go 2,000 amama out of your house on shabas from the last house in the city but you could extend it by putting a meal 2,000 am away from your house so what happens is the meal becomes your new house your house is no longer your house the piece of bread the bread that you put is your new house and therefore a big happens you cannot go 2,000 amama to the other direction of your house because your new house just relocated to where the the center where the where the bread is you can go 2,000 am from the bread in each Direction but there's a red line in back of your house you can't go even one foot into your backyard but that's not our anything within that gets destroyed if you do so what did he do went into two between two massive mountains between two cities in other words that the mount you can't punish a mountain you can't punish the city too far away from it far away from the whatever it's called here what happened there recently anybody remember there's a missile that fell there no sent a missile somewhere killed a bunch of people and he did he did these are like the so who gave so there's a story I forgot maybe maybe you can remind me where I saw i m saw it recently there was a whole family hiding in the Attic during the the Nazis and uh they heard the Nazis coming and the Grandfather said I'm going downstairs right now I'm going into the living room they said what are you doing he said look they're going to come in here they have the dogs they're going to sniff us out in a second to kill us all we're all going to die I might as well give myself up I'm sitting in the living room so he went down into the living room and he opened up a newspaper and the Nazis walked in and they see a guy sitting with a newspaper so they grabbed him and they they walked out they realized nobody's hiding in the house how can somebody hiding in the house when this guy is all chilled on on the couch so he gave himself up and like this the whole family was saved in the Attic that's where I saw it I made it up now you're right that's where it was no no no seriously seriously that's where I saw it I was I'm looking for the story was October 7th you're right the the grandfather okay sorry beautiful thank you m you you I didn't know I remember seeing the story I forgot that's where not by the nais October 7th he went in the same idea but it's more it's more relatable now because it's m it happened last year the grandfather went into the dining room start the Arabs killed him and everybody else was saved so this is what happened over here run for your life I don't know how they found him over there but they found him what's going to be with you I'm just the stone that that you can't flip over then says like that you give the give him something to take out his anger on they take it on on the old [Music] man they they stocked 300 Spears in this means like this so SE whatever it is tomato tomato tomato oh so the bottom line is that you see that himself as a single person gave all these so why do you need three say have a bad day no he had three you're not GNA say say happens to me there's two other with him that's not true himself says mayor was a might have not been married he was very young for sure he's young so didn't want to accept him as a Rob what kind of R are you young young okay bishin great you're not a r so then later on in his life when he got older and people were less jealous I guess he was that's why it says that they were both you cannot give a cannot give so one person cannot give another person even if he's in front of him in what does it mean that you don't you don't deal at all with any kind of penalty cases any thean could kill somebody in there's the death penalty in so certainly there's a penalty you don't give not that you don't deal with the cases that cases do like penalties like but you don't give the giving is in let's say was and he wanted to give to who was in that wouldn't work why we just said there's no even if your mayor was in front of him even if and were in the same room in B there's no so certainly if was in and was it wouldn't work what if was where he was in and was in B could he call him on the phone and say hey this people a guy came to me he said I know that one of your relatives has the as cancer I know how to heal over the phone give me your phone number I could heal her over the phone I could some people they could heal they think they could heal cancer over the phone so maybe he could give SM over the phone what's the big deal I'm in I give you was very upset he had that if Shaman wasn't there that he could give him SM why not you could give SM even though he's not in front of wasn't there was there but one another person is the other one the one that was there what a missed opportunity this guy comes to every day here the one day he doesn't show up that one day that's the day the is giving and his friend got he did not get can't miss opportunities really was yearning to give him he wanted to very bad says Rashi it didn't work out why didn't work out you didn't have two people that were right to give what's the big deal he's in grab here you two come with me we're going to give him so they want to prove from here that Rashi hold that in order to give all three have to be on a level and that's why he couldn't fight there's other that argue with rash say you don't need all three you need one great one and two two simplon is very sad there's nothing for you to be upset about why the famous family of they were cursed they don't live past 18 and therefore not because that there's another thing that they don't get what are you so upset you want to give me I can't receive I'm from how do you know you don't give to the family of you shouldn't have any Elders in your house forever and Elders means if it means that you shouldn't be old that's another the entire family dies at a young age so it must mean so rash has if they die at 18 the only time you can get is if you're 18 and a half plus you have to be at least 18 to get they all die when they're 18 so how in the world is a child for somebody from anyway they're dead says rash there is a way that they could get old the people from did live long years how by learning to to is the antidote to anything people that were over the greatest a ever the is you can bring as manyon as you want you don't get listen to this it's crazy greater power than a carbon so even if they made it to Elder years the over there says the RAB who learned a lot of to he didn't die at 18 he died at 40 who learned a lot of plus he did he lived to 60 he got extra 20 years as am I don't understand what kind of it was like they called hey I have a flat tire come help me so shouldn't have done it you should have called up for them and say hey I'm a r i got a teach here you do the and if it's a that you can't call anybody up so rabba would have also done it rabba wouldn't have said no so what kind of are we talking about here say he changed people's tires why because he want wanted to show they have to do you have to be and that's why he another 20 years cuz he showed even though he didn't have to do it he was showing he was teaching about and that's why he got an extra 20 [Music] years he didn't want to get he's hiding says like dark hide and if you hide and you don't put yourself in the Limelight the you will live a long life he heard that the only way you become step up into position of authority is if they're a he wanted them to be a she said oh here I am give me SM the only way I can get sm is if I'm great and if I'm great so let me ask you a question not everybody knows this if he came just for this it's it says on the day of his is it straight out that's it a guy did he did he all these things he yeah and then he gets married Clean Slate that's how you understood it I don't think so I'm going to be or something now maybe not I think you're going to be masking to me it's notat that it's a real theat is they put it on hold on standby they say okay if you change your ways today you don't go back to that stuff that you did when you were younger then there's a but if you go back then you get everything back it's not a it's not a clean slate if it was everybody do all the things divorce your wife get married now again and then a clean slate it doesn't work like that that's why some people get married for okay but it they don't they didn't they didn't hear the shear they got married four times no it's not I'm talking about a guy did this no no everybody everybody who says that okay like to know the for this have to look it up but that's says this is okay okay I heard you I thought you going to say that that's that's the that's the it's not a freebie not a freebie doesn't make stop because you got married oh but what's that if you get married what's and this week's par says that the reason why this works is because you take responsibility you took responsibility when you take responsibility hasm says okay take responsibility on a woman you're going to take care take responsibility of what's kapar just getting married everything married with someone else that's yeah that's that's why he's else only and what if you're a terrible husband it's all on standby you see it's un standby when got married they started singing this is a song that they would sing for they tell tell the you don't need makeup you don't need anything you don't need to dye your hair or do uh you know weave it whatever it is and you still have tremendous so you don't need anyti as is you are perfect they would also sing a song for if we have more of these bring them we have to do like him we have people don't give us this is when you have a you don't make a niceo you don't make clothing out ofas don't give us don't give us people with crooked the famous says why everything in this world has a reason created a spider could hide in a cave hem created a a a mosquito everything has a reason why did create somebody with crooked go to Yesa the guys I have friends whatever you tell them they say a little bit off they're always a little why why that he says so you should have the ability to be or to make that's his V not mine you don't like his V speak to him I think it's great this says rash somebody that takes things with Force you're taking people's toy away you're not giving them the real to and this is T says rash I have no idea how this fits in here some sort of bean the people huh he says empty people empty people okay people like beans a bunch of beans the uh fener told me this and I saw that the AR brings it but he told to me with a little bit more than the says that each one of these words is referring to uh current I'm not going to say current but the had issue with this he says that means that it's a r that teaches just a DA here da there or peric doesn't finish the and means you only learn a fifth of he's all referring to all referring to that are not giving over the full amount the learning on a slower Pace that's what the AR says and it brought them Mar says that they should do a whole thing of get together that the should teach more more okay fight when you go from the all the way to the Caesar's house to the Palace the women of the Caesar the the women would come out of and they would s you're the N of the nation the prince of the nation you're the leader of the of your of your nation you're good-looking like you have the candle the light of the candle what they're talking about is looks all right so in a I just want to say what's your name you just stood up it's okay you could stand stay what from where New York you relate to Herz from Herz from Lakewood my father's very friend with the heres okay welcome and I oh you what's your name and this is from where ALB New York Al ah you you wrote in and all this finally made it there I almost skipped you it's a few other guests in the room we'll get to them is when you find the body you have to do a measurement oh what's [Music] [Applause] [Music] the to hit the EG he's on deck getting ready to take he was right says he if if he didn't say it I wouldn't say but he says that he said A V A vit it's more like a he says that um why is it that y sent yehud to open up a newa had a yes already what why you have to open UPA she say is because when y sent he gave him a hint said we were learning the par he says oh it's one of the you have Yesa that still learning the same Su 22 years later a new Yesa [Music] so here's the each word means two it's plural means two you cannot do an even you have to add another one know here's another question what part of the do you need five what part the measuring the knocking of the head what part do you need five huh the answer is only the measuring the knocking of the head you could have lesser three but you don't the the the that we're talking about is the measuring measuring all hold on hold on I'm not going to go with the I'm just using one word means two I can't have even but it another two how come you say this three it should be five is also two teaches us that they have to come from the San you can't just take from a regular they have to be the special that speak all the languages I know that com from have another from the words it could have said no I can't use the word at all because the word without would mean old people not even that's why just from the words it's not the real from the 71 maybe the 23 the best of the best from the learns yesterday we had this whole that from leaning on the animal remember over there we have uh let me just [Music] see R says five so we learn from Z from we do to the the leading of the animal so we're not learning the amount we're learning what type of so just like yesterday we learned that they have to be from sanin so too that do the measuring of have to be from the saned you're already learning from from leaning on the animal so learn all theas from there in other words also the amount of and why do you need the two words over here you're right the word us need saned the exra that teaches us you need two doesn't learn so M he's stuck with three so now when we take a look at the now everything's understood look it says how many two is another two so five + 4 equal 9 two total of eight you don't have a b shle you have to make nine where do you get five uh no I have to use those words for something else the themselves have to go out they can't send the messenger they have to measure even it's so that this is close to it's not it's you must do a measurement sponsors turning who watches the every day who doesn't watch every day and a huge thank you to repres who doesn't watch it every day plus all the D Ern of elite isra reality welcoming all the proudly standing with you on your journey to finishing CH together we're starting a little late today we're going a little later than usual measure because you need to show everybody yeah no no the reason why you measure is to to to to to spend a little bit more time so people know that we're doing this and that maybe we'll find the murderer say our mission is not like because in the back now it says so we saying a big says the king himself and the K the greatest and K they also have to go and measure we never said this before the word and go together like it says and in the same so anybody other words a king and a also have to come out there AR on one or two things what what are the two things one thing we just saw that he says that the king and the and the K have to go measure but how many of the San do you need maybe you need five you need three perhaps he holds that 71 sanin have to come and measure what's so there's a New Concept we haven't spoken about in a long time it's called the the way it works is you have a saned of 71 if we have any sh whatsoever in CL the sanedrin decides we go with the majority we go with the majority and that's it no Shas if one of the people of sanin decides they don't know what they're talking about they made a mistake I'm going to make him we kill him on the spot we kill him and if San hedin sits and says no no don't kill him it doesn't work you argue with Sanhedrin you die on the spot why no there's no everything is clear all this right here is because we're in G that's the curse of G but time zero everything was crystal clear this is that's it if we had any questions we ask somebody argues choke him to death but that's only if that took place in if this argues it's outside of it's the next part of it's the new any argued with maybe K him it has to be in the place it has to be in the here this is a place in the BD where the 71 sat they never left there that's where the argument takes place any place else we don't kill him now how did the Sanhedrin get to this B pagi Place how many left you said let's say 23 left the B they went to B pagi they took a little so why would you kill them at all maybe whoever's left 20 71 minus 23 official how much is [Applause] that 48 maybe 48 say that the guy is right why kill him he said like the 48 how do you know you're not there you're talking about he's all 71 that in b p out like next to somewhere why did they leave they want to visit a c let's to let's go they're not to go out of it says don't they loot the wine more than a third in the time of the you take wine you add a lot of water in other words a third of 71 is how much 23 at least leave 23 in the B of MD how did you get to a point where they they went on a and everybody left obviously they had to go and what's the you see from here that they all left 71 left to measure we thought you need five or three no here's you need 71 they all had to leave the for what must be to to measure say no no no there's two other things that they for when they want to expand it's not a joke you don't say oh is another 5T those five feet means that you're allowed to eat what you're allowed to eat different carbas within those five feet so the they sing they bring carbus it's a whole it's a whole situation that's why the 7 one had to leave but they didn't leave to measure your let's just do four more lines to finish to the two thats one of decides to argue on the they went out to measure the and the the city and you think that you could kill him for that only if this happens wonderful day