Daf Yomi Pesachim Daf 3 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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enjoying all the various collections of beautiful insights we're looking forward to listen and to take notes for our most meaningful sader imeers hashem i thank you all for everything all right we'll have to wait for a different day for the rest welcome and if you do fall behind remember it's very natural it's normal just jump ahead and do the dab with everybody else we're holding two lines from the bottom of that base on the base the mission starts saying our le our boss or and we know it to be the night before pesach but what is the word armin so the kumbar establishes that it means the night before but in order to establish that the gemara goes through a whole bunch of hoops here starting from we had approximately this daf the first half ten different riders and here's right number ten all the way in the bottom of basement base two lines from the bottom the cayenne i made calla lila if you're standing the entire night with microbiome is back and he's doing a crap he's bringing the muri my name is bayach la'ira so when daybreaks tone kid is very glad similar this is in the mishima brings it down as if you learned the brewer from the beginning you know the famous maklakas the russian the rajba if you're up all night you have to watch negovassar again is it the night the tomah of the night or is it because you you touched me similarly over here it says that when day comes you have to wash your hands again your hands and your feet again but what lotion does it use would seem day time not night says the gemara di very rebbe we're talking about the word you don't agree that it means so like the gemara does many many times and that is it takes us on these wild journeys throughout chas and today we're going to have a number of different suggests from ours just to touch upon different things here's a sugi from krisos it's more like anita kind of soggy and it goes like this a woman who gives birth to a girl she's male 1 for 14 days or you let this she told me for 14 days goes to the mikvah she has 66 freebies 66 days of tahara no matter what dime she sees unless she gives birth she is tar what happens if she if she had a miscarriage oh before that on day 80 14 66 80 that's it so she has to bring a carbon on 81. what happens if she miscarriages during the 66 days she does not have to bring a carbon walk on the carbon depending how wealthy she is let's just say she brings two birds if she discount the middle the birds that she brings 81 are enough for whatever happened during this period she doesn't have to bring another carbon if she miscarries on day 81 and for she didn't she didn't bring her carbon she lives too far away it's already 81.82 she didn't bring her car she has a miscarriage she cannot count on that one carbon that she had to bring from day one over here she has to bring another carbon much like this now in the gemara is what happens if she miscarries on the night eighty night at the end of her tahira before she's able to bring the carbon you can only bring a carbon during the daytime so what happens if she miscarried right before she was able to bring the carbon it's already passed at the higher days but right before she's able to bring your carbon 81 or to the 81. hama palace or the chamois she had a miscarriage on 81. beside my poetry mccarbon xiaomi say no carbon why because she can't bring a carbon out anyways if she wanted to bring a carbon for her birth that she had 80 days ago she can't do it it's night so she could only wait until tomorrow so tomorrow let it let tomorrow's carbon be good enough for what happened the night before okay so ada what is the difference between the night like in the jewish calendar we start from the night where schneider starts at night goes into the day so why is it different why what's this thai now what what's their tainabi soul in shiva laylatum ishvaley carbon at the end of the day you agree to me that if she sees dom on day 81 or the night of 81 she's tummy what happens if she sees dom right here the end of this day at night after shaquille tamayo she it's not part of the freebies so just because she can't bring a carbon doesn't mean it's not it's not another day it's the same day it's day 81 already so what's bashami going to tell them so before we see what bashami says but what's the ray here they're using the word r to to describe the night of 81 cc or means ninth fight ambesham rashi explains are gonna answer them very well look at the end of the day if she miscarries in the middle of the 66 days she's temeo that's damtuma and she can't bring a carbon and the carbon that she brings afterwards is good enough so there's no correlation between dam and carbon sebi shaman so what do you bring me awry about diamond knight of 81 to bring a riot to the car okay but that's not the point that's a sookie for christos we touched upon it we learned a little bit about it the point is that the word are means night miraculous by the way if today is your first death it's a fascinating fascinating death a beautiful beautiful dark with stories things that we weren't used to in the last four months mice is finally gestamac and mices that give us muslim teach us how to live so it's a perfect another great writer we have about five six rice that night or means night mesa and here comes a sugiya from you know carbon pasta is also sort of islam and turns into something so when you shock the carbon how much different carbonates you could eat for different amount of times so i would think that you could eat a slum or english so once again our over here is referring to the night you could only eat it for one day so you shake it you eat it during the day and that night okay so this one is one day this one is two days shouldn't their halachus be the same minus the difference in days one is one day one is two days but they should have the same allah you could eat it during the day and you get to eat during the night so too slum you should be able to eat it for two days and two nights same thing right if you add a little hilum over here it could turn into oi meaning when it's still there so the tire is telling us different i can't eat it for two days and tonight i could eat it for two days and one night the following night no because it has to be idiomatic [Music] it's not eaten meaning the night the second night or the night of the third day in other words r means night so we have another great raya that are means night yeah let's just finish off this maybe you think that you have to burn it immediately to dinner and i have a couple homers is only eaten for one day one night are in for two days and one night malala and take it just like toyota you have to burn it immediately after eating is whatever is left over up until the third day but as you saw if you burn it afterwards okay so you wait until the day so here's the rayo since it says i would think that you could eat it the third or or means night great tashma we're going to be finished with these radishes don't worry about it and we're going to go into these beautiful gishmaka sugyas with stories tashma origin we're already lightening up over here yom kippur are all familiar in chiman esre starting from mairev after khalid ray that's the night of yom kippur so that's a ride that r means night mire of chakras milhanila all consist of seven brachas three in the beginning three at the end one in the middle seven brachas plus vidu but the gemara calls it the knight of yom kippur meaning mairev mispal seven this is by the way a suggyo in yuma so we did kristos zwarchem and now yuma baharvis mespalum and shmona asar very interesting what do you do mairev after what do you do we give the oil a break and you do something called havinenu it's a synopsis of the sherman estrella it's a cicum it's a eight-minute monastery kind of thing it's a short version of it why because people are hungry they want to go home that's what we do what's that eight minutes compared to young it's it's nothing yeah uh the sikh of the shrines anyway you used to do the regulations as we do we say we say abdullah and that doesn't fit in well with having anu but the bottom line is great rayo that the word refers to the night so tashma now why why is it just to repeat what we said yesterday why are you calling knight or that's called loss in saginaw the way they used to call a blind person was he had a lot of light saginaw he could see very well it's a nice way of talking it's not a it's not sarcasm it's just a refined way of saying blind you can't see at all he could see a lot and you understand from that that he doesn't see knight is not such a nice it's dark finster what's that okay not like in our mission the brightness uses a different word lele ah so in other words you do because tonight it says so when our mission says are we understand that it means once again a great writer that means the night says the gemara finally after all this a daf and a half elaborate review you should know everybody agrees that the word r means night everyone spoke their dialect whatever it was whatever the way they schmoozed in their in their city that's vasude in the city of ravuna they called night light it was in saginaw uba they reviewed the they called it the way it was the way it is like we say night when we're not messing around we don't do sarcasm night is night day is day but in ravuna they spoke more properly and this leads us into of how one should speak properly and refined batani de dawn my time at katani lately at the end of the day if the title would say one word layla our boss or three letters so would we wouldn't have this whole daf so why choose a word or to teach us a very important lesson for life my time look at honey lately just say it straight out the word the tana wanted to say a refined way of saying night um a person shouldn't say something that nice shouldn't come out of his mouth forget about curses and all these other things that we have today just instead of saying night you say day here's the appropriate word if you want to see how it looks visually it could have said hatmaya these five letters instead it says so what do we have extra eight letters hey equals eight extra letters that the torah wrote just to say it in a nice refined way instead of saying tamaya now what's the question going to be on the base well the torah says the word tame at least 55 times in the torah okay so rashi and the roshanian discussed that and they say we'll just say it here we need to teach you the concept when you can speak refined once you know the concept now just i'll spill it out i'll say tommy real quickly i want to tell you a beautiful story that i i heard recently this idea of speaking and not speaking it's not exactly this kind of idea but the idea the beautiful stories could die to hear there was a woman that had ashamed of her she was known as being a tough woman and she used to take this bus and just roll from this city to every day so one of her relatives asked her can you please take this pretty nice amount of cash and bring it to the other city she says short i think it's about five thousand dollars she takes the five thousand dollars puts it in her she had a traveling bag puts in her bag she gets on the bus and this israeli bus driver says uh uh that bag down there below the bus she was like what does this look how small it is no on the and everybody's looking to tell the driver and she's the type of woman that she sticks her to the ground she's not going to do it she's not going to leave the bus but she says to herself you know it's air versus shauna i want to do something different i'm not going to make a fuss i'm not going to say a word she got off the bus she got off the bus and as soon as she got off the bus her kishki started turning inside out she couldn't believe that she just did this she's so upset she missed her bus she's going to be late so but she said to herself rebecca shalom i controlled myself not to say something that nice to the bus driver give my son a that night she gets a phone call of her son and it's not like the typical like i have a book were coming out soon and nine months later they had a boy no what she got a so she tells the the shotgun we just had that we just spoke about that and the girl didn't want says the shotgun let me tell you the reason why they didn't want is because you're a tough woman you have a shem dover you're not such a great figure but it happens to be that the girl's mother was on a bus this morning and she saw something different and the mella she wants the shirt all right anyways but the point is rabbi sai we got to watch the way we speak it's very important a whole suggest about this person is tame kerry instead of saying he's tommy tahar so once again here it goes it could have been three letters tommy instead it's a share so the tommy and that share wipe each other out and they have la yeah which is nine letters next mr [Music] mccree who built the the excuse how it goes here the building goes on the next line but this wipes out that okay so could've said who so but instead it says migrate who built the tar who killed her what do you have sixteen thirteen fourteen fifteen sixteen extra letters let me see yes is just saying i understand that it says it in the tutorial like this so eve but even if you want to say that you write tar differently you could force it you could take out the valve it's still nine it's not not a much like that's how it's written it's written with above he's right it's it's 10. he's just pointing out look the target could have if even if you wanted to to play games and say creek civ whatever still have a knight i believe that's what they say on it i couldn't find the better picture a guy riding a horse yeah that's how people ride horses that's merkel one leg on this side one that's not sneeze for a woman how does a woman ride a horse like this don't worry i i put a thing on her face can't really tell so two feet on this side of the horse that's sneeze so instead of saying the word merkav which means to ride will be isha karoy maishav she's sitting okay the the words my from my lips should be clear should be refined milaylou speaking my voice right so maybe the toyota speaks refined but us humans of the rabbanum the the the rabbis themselves [Music] i'm just a regular guy so maybe i i could speak unrefined but i remember that's what i borrowed me little second puzzle like america what in the whole time you can't find the puzzle that says that a woman rides a horse vaccine rifka when i because that's the way camel's so high up that it's scary that a woman a woman also rides it like a man it says took his wife talking about a woman by our kid and they rode and now we turn to daff gimmel oh here we go so we just turned the gimbal on the base of uh referring to the sons you're right his wife was also there but the sons we just turned to that giveaway sponsor leading the ninjas sean ambassador of dave pence and ruby hill stragaman of brahma lady second sponsor is the famous uh comment from the five towns leader nishmas ben simha and the third sponsor is by the fine and pearl families of our four shleima for donnie pearl's mother-in-law mendel el cabaz edo so there's a story where avigil's husband novel was murdered by marcus he didn't treat david miller so well and abraham decided he's going to kill him so aviga went to save her husband and she actually saved them she told abraham you weren't king yet you weren't you weren't the king yet because of you you're in the kingdom and was happy that he saved her that she saved her husband he said oh you're right i don't he doesn't deserve to die but it turns out that novel at the end got a heart attack died and davina melech married abigail she's a very special woman but it says again she was on the donkey so says um the reason is because again once again if a woman is frightened because of the night so it's proper for her to write it like that biba you say mom be associated no that's not so problem she should be associated because she's so scared of what david's going to say and he's going to say no i'm going to kill your husband et cetera so she wrote it like that and for that it's prabhu and the turkey could say maybe no forget that the nobby described she's going up the mountains so that's scary and then therefore she writes it like the normal way like a man uber arises if tommy at the end of the day the target doesn't say the word tommy many times i found 57 it might be different but there's a lot of time if the proper words are more then the torah uses the word tommy i would say all these things so first of all the iran goes into each and but the point was we want to bring out the point you should speak bolas in ikea once we know that then we will talk in a more concise way even it's not lucky this is the first plug and commercial for the minidaf in the maserta vamona is i'm sorry anybody on youtube i apologize the um the zoom just went down for whatever reason not exactly sure why so we're gonna have to go back and zoom real quickly let's see what happens somebody ended the meeting maybe a zoom bomber who knows did was it ended for everybody but the problem is i cannot mute who's the host oh it does okay i'm a muted described gary rayboy gary bemoshed did a wonderful job he's a little upset that we didn't give him enough covet before the sheer so now is our time to recognize the unbelievable job that gary bemoshed did by the seam he does every day what happened wow scary guy um just remind me occasionally i'm just talking not not to you everybody's just reminding occasions to do the right thing and to okay i'm not going to say anything okay okay no no i didn't think for a second i wasn't crushing you yeah i was just joking around i was kidding around there wasn't nothing to do so when you have exact letters the torah always uses the most refined way though the word is not so refined yeshaves is nicer like the picture of the woman on the horse doesn't it doesn't have above so it's actually four letters versus five story timer yes not like the stories that we had in aravind oh there's once a my boy and that was the end of the story the the mother was 26 i'm on minus three and we'd say good asic and then but the other one wants to say grace that was the end of the story over here is a real smacking story they were both sitting davis committed both singing from the rav one of them one of the tom said is the lesson of being tired i'm learning so much that i feel like a pig like a dove we call it pig fine not a nice sick not a nice thing to say not a nice muscle okay i'm like a tired goat a lot better says the gemara of allahish wouldn't speak i don't know for how long maybe forever with that talmud that used a pig as a muscle i don't trade the daviasvika made the hill through two medium that was sitting in front of hillary clinton so over here you could see for the rest of sakai a talmud of hillel so it's either abraham and zakai and another uh talmud the law of some say the story it was a different rebecca the famous rebirth this whole story didn't happen in front of the hill it happened with rebbe the author of the mishnahs and when one of the so here you see that the god darn israel was a talmud of rebbe if you didn't know that here it is so this is this the most favorite sugar in mentioned who knows how many times the idea of heksher lituma so anytime you have a fruit if you want it to be if you if you want to make it able to become tummy it has to touch one of the seven liquids you have to sprinkles one is a water blood dew honey wine oil whatever it is we're talking about two out of the the seven mash'em wine and oil so it says he asked the question why is it when you harvest grapes you can't use let's say some sort of tang cli that is tummy because that tongue will make the grape juice on the outside of the grape tummy and the grape will become tame because grape juice is considered a liquid one of the liquids that makes that is mashier the grape to be mekaboltuma so don't use any atomically they ain't moisture however when it comes to olives the the moisture that comes out of the olive the mayo that comes out is not olive oil and that is not a liquid that is machulica what's the difference he asked but he used the nice refined language he said he used the the word tatar instead of the word tommy and the other talmud not why do you harvest the graves with caleb that are tired um and he used nazis to refund so he didn't get punished but rebbe or hillel said omar moved to israel i'm certain that this talmud whether it's later on became this talmud is going to become something special because he used the refined language but like hey um israel in fact that's what happened it says imagine if beijing comes it will be we would say the same thing to each other did you hear i tasted the pond what do you get i got this much and what did you get i got that much so one of the kind of said my luck the tail of a lizard you know what a lizard is a lizard is one of the schmeiner schrotzen right over here it's not just uh another animal it's a sheriff it's a it's it defines toma disgusting sharings so why do you have to use such a lotion to to to to compare ponemta to lizard to sheriffs so they did a little investigation um they found that he's not a real client he's more like hello says he says once it caught him performs or not he's a pure client why are you checking this guy out silicon valley right like time is possible right now we realize that he's about guys he has something wrong with him we didn't go back to ziros shani hussein dioda he calls it him you don't check a regular kai and you don't know if he has once he performs he's a good client but this guy he ruined it for himself once he spoke like this we had to check into it says the gemara one of the very very famous stories in shaas there was a guy that illegally he got a hold of carbon pay sacrifice omar and he started boasting siv called you can't give carbon pays to a stranger called arya you can't give carme aro this middle should not eat from the current pesa no and look at me i'm eating from the the top top cut i'm gonna review was brilliant and he decided to trick him he said what are you saying you got the top cut you didn't get the ali you didn't get the tail since they didn't give you a tail you're worthless i'm saying give you the tail i didn't get ki oh suffering i need you to go back to the base and say give me some tail he saw like so he goes back to the basement fully give me some tail umulay ali salka we're learning this in zwarchen the aliyah in those days they even have sheep till this very day the tail was very long and fatty used to drag on the floor they did something i think genetics that they they changed a little bit but anyways the audio is a nice fatty piece of meat so yes alcohol you don't deserve any of that that goes under misbehave we got to look into this because someone doesn't jive here review tell somebody to go eat the tail that everybody knows that it goes in we got to check into this they realize he's armenian and they killed him he stole from the carbon pesach misa whatever the reason is here this is a very very famous line you'll hear it in different rushes you should have peace you are standing in a place called native um and your net proof trapped this guy all the way in your leg says check on him to see how is he doing so he gets there uh um what's going on with him also he got there they told him as soon as he arrived rafka was nifty kyrie did korea he tossed the korea to the back ubaki and he was crying vasey and he arrived omar lei they realized why is he crying i mean you can't see the kriya it's on his back but they realized well he died i'm not going to say that i'm not going to say such words coming out of my mouth um when you talk like that you consider the shaita we don't speak like that says he went out kiosk what happened to your to your uh to your wheat are they good omelette sauer nasty office my barley is good in other words no says you're talking horse talk here who eats barley horses again he wanted to talk refined but he didn't it didn't come out well so what should have he said he should have said last year i had really good wheat adduction lentils that's human food it's consumed by humans so you should have said you're asking me about wheat my my lentils are really good and then the island would hop that his weed is a little schwak this year thanks for joining and we'll see you later hashem tomorrow and have a wonderful day foreign [Music] on david dombrowski he's on today welcome he disappeared from my screen i saw him on the screen and then i didn't see him reviews of kessler is that your brother that wrote the email no different counselor i think we might have gone through this once before ah where do you live where do you live here joseph ah beautiful telestone next to uh what's his name new um steve steve steve though right he just got a hat the whole yeah steve right i said don't be shy you could all schmooze very nice thank you i got a hat yes i did it was it was a little it was a little touch and go i think i owe you some money because i i need my kids had to have a hat so i heard we're on to uh the second production is that true how many how many hats in the first production yeah come on 100 hats what's 100 what from the second production so sacha cole how many hats did you do 180. ah you're going with the with the jewish numbers 180. aria don't get too excited that they gave you those rights and then therefore you could like just schmooze it up whenever you want it's not it doesn't work like that i took it away already okay that never happened that the zoom shut down in the middle like that there's always something new always something new he pushed the wrong button and he says he did whatever oh yeah no i'm kidding i'm kidding kidding he's listening still [Music] just logged