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everybody we are live in moreshet in avi mendelbaum's house unbelievable it's uh it's a show of actus really mareshit is uh up north very up north there's 320 homes here 320 that tilumi families and with us tonight we have three members of our share we're very excited to be here so thanks for having us and it's avi's 40th birthday when uh hebrew birthday was this past wednesday english birthday was march 1st yeah you could hear avi manuel so avi is on he's very famous he's on zoom every single day he's the top shelf zoom he has a very interesting background every single day and we decided for his birthday and we're we're only 45 minutes away so we decided to come and uh do the share live from his house so happy birthday today share spencer leading us mordecai and sponsored by yossi klein from superior plumbing yossi klein is doing something beautiful for the cm he's donating i forgot how many but a couple hundred art school gemaras shkalim for anybody that joins this year so he's asking if anybody wants to join him in that partnership make it hundreds maybe a thousand so contact i don't know you'll say for somebody sponsored by your client thank you everything good matters don't worry about that yeah you're very too close for comfort by the way gary usually you're at the other side of the mismatches i know the camaro today so i'm getting ready for that sucked to gemara we are that there's no email today because i don't have a printer and uh bazer sham will have one tomorrow instead we're going to have some i'm going to do a little bit of a matsushabe story in the middle of the daf so we're holding that kofu alof on base 2 4 six eight lines from the bottom approximately omer of joseph we know raviolis of himself was blind he actually asked to be blind and he's granted his wish after his rebbe was nifter so says these three things could cause blindness mandesaric ray so again we're going into a whole sugya enjoy it while it lasts we're going to the whole sugar of agatha we're going to get a couple daff of halachas for the lala seder very appropriate just in time and then back to agatha so these are the three things that cause blindness mantissa creature yabbish if you comb your hair when your hair is dry um tiff and if you drink from a barrel of wine drip i drip um if your foot is wet then you put on your shoes it could cause blindness or koshilani you saw if you hang bread at home it causes poverty you hang your bread you're hanging your livelihood and we're talking about bread ava bis raw this is good news in chicago the oil is very into hanging romanian salamis everywhere so salami is okay meat is okay recovery fish you could hang fish less lumbar no problem okay that's the that's the usual manner of doing things doing these things great pare the basic question on yourself so this is an interesting use site really i saw it brought down this is brand if you have brand at home it brings on poverty what's the what's the idea the idea is if a person could afford more and he's stingy it's not good to be stingy you could afford more and you're keeping your money for no good reason it's a problem it causes poverty nishivara babaysa consciously you saw if you have breadcrumbs at home also causes poverty says the more i believe reverse showroom the demons they have the right to attack on friday nights and tuesday nights is may the one in charge of pranasa his name is naked naked means cleanliness so he likes to be clean he's a clean freak and he doesn't like to see some alechem welcome he doesn't like to see crumbs so be careful don't have crumbs out iso and the one in charge of poverty his name is novo how do you say novel in english disgusting uh so a gross guy so when you when when he sees that the place is gross he really enjoys it so if you have a plate that's on top of a barrel caution under you so it's not good if you want to keep your money mandatory if you drink water out of a plate it could cause blindness if you eat cress and you don't wash your hands you'll be scared for 30 days you'll have anxiety for 30 days daffodic bay is top of coffee base the dishwasher is going off if a person has blood leading and doesn't wash his hands he'll be scared for seven days the shock of zaya valley if he gets a haircut and doesn't wash his hands but he'll be scared for three days the shock of two fray and if he cuts his nails will be scared one day he washes you with people wash your hands after they they cut their nails i think most people wash their hands six times like lego bastard three and three yeah no two two eight to four and four three because after yeah the going does four and four yeah great if a person puts his hand like this above his lip that's like one step towards being scared if he puts his hand on his forehead it's one step towards sleeping there was a book somebody just showed me the other day came to me in the meantime she said here's a picture of kyme kaneowski a kid walked over and said uh rav what does the gemara mean when you have your hand on your forehead show me and he showed him one like this so the picture they took a picture of him going like this but we couldn't print it have it on my phone somewhere this is an interesting one it has to stay in one place and that's it you got it let's go yoda you get to see this live says in the morning that way and the camera's here don't worry about where i look you can't put the camera right where i look every single day it's a lost cause you should not sleep above food we used to do this in shiva all the time in the dorm put food under the bed not a good thing i feel like even if you try to save it with a metal clea it's not going to help it's not going to it's not going to protect the ruach from hitting the food so what do you do what do you do with this food you have to throw it out rafael told people that you can give it to ishiva guys why because at the end of the day this is uh it's you see from here that it's not like a um it's not concrete it's a rocker but it's not to the point where you destroy the food now the says that it doesn't the whole thing of ruach ra for instance he says when it comes to doing different things uh different um different you say different chemicals everything he says you can do it on chapels it's not a problem before because it doesn't exist it doesn't help so the villain guidance says that he made a mistake like yeah he must have made a mistake because you see throughout the gemara that it is it does work this is hashem now why exactly am i saying it here i'm not exactly sure but why not it's matsushabus fine i'm just telling you about rav global moves review the youtube goes like this so all three no thousand people on youtube the east of the manufacturing reviews availability so do not drink water so what is it what's up shot you can't drink water on tuesday night on friday night all right so you should not drink water tuesday nights and friday nights what does it mean don't drink water or you got to be thirsty it means if you're in complete dark once again this has to do with shading they need a drink and they're going to attack the water then the shaw saw and if you do drink dhammab you're creating your own sakana so therefore you deserve to die [Music] if a person is very thirsty mata kante what should he do i believe this coming guy dumbest guy in charge why here's a guy that's not familiar with this but he's familiar with the following thing the elai if he doesn't know this what should he say i'm sitting between the stars being played between believe between the very thin people shmayne between the fat people azilno you hear this yeah so here's a guy that knows how to say this but he doesn't know how to say that interesting guy and if this doesn't work or he doesn't know it if he has a guy sleeping nissa are you should wake him up valet malay plucked him by polonie so i was just thinking about this i'm sleeping and a guy walks over to me the middle of you sleep this is what he's telling you so that he could drink plenty of babylonians he's very thirsty then after after he wakes his friend up and and screams his mother's name in his ear then he can drink the water he should rattle the top of the barrel and then he could drink it basically scaring the shaydom away veeloi nisba midi had initiated throw something in there and then he could drink what's the problem a copper seder yeah okay great you should not drink water from the nahar from the rivers and bodies of water at night again you have the shaded that are lurking around the waters and it's dark so dhamma brazil miso so i want to tell you maisakano sakanas shavriri their shade that we had the other day shavriri is his name that's the sakona i would think maybe this is related to the story of yakov and the molotov that was a body of water at night and what's this akana you gotta he got attacked okay so they hang out by the water you see maybe that's why they hang out by they need the drink and he he bothered them so over here it says that you shouldn't drink at night because of the the gemara master says desire says something very different now by desire it says that you shouldn't drink because mario says it talks about drinking from a tube that you didn't check and if you drink from it without looking you might drink a leash a leech so i want to tell you about the shabbat story i said this over a while ago but you guys didn't hear it i don't think if you did let me know so a while back when i lived in chicago i bought a an rv you know the story about the rv you told us about the rv whether it is i tell you about the leech in the rv no okay so i bought an rv to take my kids on a trip and it was it was a pretty bad investment i bought it for that one trip i took one trip and i never well it ended up being a good investment but that's a whole different story for a different time so take my children there go back and now i said now what i have this giant rv sitting in front of my house i think it was like 36 feet or something what do i do with it so i said okay if i had such a problem renting one and that's why i bought one let me rent it i'll go on craigslist i'll rent it out so i put an ad on craigslist within an hour a guy contacts me says yeah i want it for a few days it's like great i give him a price you know six hundred dollars a day great it's gonna take so but i had to go into the rv to make sure all the systems were working i didn't we didn't use the toilet at all because i refused to clean it and all that so i said okay we're gonna well let me see that the sink works i didn't really use this thing cause i turn on the motor push all these buttons nothing no water comes out there's a button next that says pump i put the pump on no nothing so like a genius i said you know maybe it's because there's no like i gotta like maybe i gotta give the the faucet a good suck and i'll get the whole water going and this is a moment of geniosity so i put my mouth on the faucet and i go and i hear the water it's like oh it's working my this is working i'm very excited and i keep on going and going and suddenly something hits my mouth it was very sweet so i spit it out into the sink and it's and it's pink pink something and immediately i realized oh my goodness i just drink anti-freeze i remember recalling antifreeze and people put it in their rvs and the guy probably winterized it with antifreeze and now i have antifreeze in my mouth and i remember antifreeze is extremely dangerous i go on google and i put antifreeze in google and says how to kill your neighbor's dog you give it a bowl of antifreeze and it says if a person drinks antifreeze it will kill him within two days he won't die right away but it hits your liver so i'm like oh my god i just drink antifreeze and i spit most of it out so i call i go out i go into the house and i call um poison control so what happened i said i drink antifreeze sir do you want to commit suicide i said that's not the issue now i have anti-freeze do you need are you trying to commit suicide no i'm not are you sure i was like what do i do just tell me what i do say go to rush to the emergency room so i'm not going through the emergency one o'clock in the morning i'm not going to emerge so i get i go i get into my room my wife says who are you talking to one in the morning like i'll tell you there's good news and bad news the good news is i'm gonna live for two days at least two days bad news is i drink you know some of this uh antifreeze and i'm not sure what's going to happen to this i might go i might be my last two days fine so that was that a couple hours later i have to get up i give it i used to give a share in chicago and they're doing aveda zara oh i open up daff good base and i start preparing to share i get a few lines into the daf and i can't believe my eyes it says in the gemara one should not suck from a tube because there might be a leech in the tube and it's a zakata like this is the modern day leech i just sucked the and i closed the gemara i couldn't learn i was in shock from the gemara that it just happened a few hours ago i didn't i didn't know about this gemara i suck from a pipe without knowing what's in it and think about it tells you not to suck from the pipe that was that okay so that's the matsushiba story i'm just gonna add in you just said and we were doing a vodazara is just a little bit more mai takante so if it'saki if a person is very thirsty what should he do mata kante if there's other people with him lay malay planet i'm thirsty i want to drink viloy neymar he should say themselves me my mother said is diamond be careful the shade name and listen to this this might sound familiar shaviri that's where they got it from by the way i think this is thing but in reverse it starts from uman and it breaks it down to one letter shavriri breeri riri riri rie sagrino mayo i'm thirsty for water because in a clear cup okay that if somebody's poor and we learned well we added to the mishnah we know that if somebody's poor he has to provide himself with four cups of wine he has to sell everything he has he should sell himself you should work hard to get the fork but if he's dependent on duck and they have they should give him the four cups of wine says of course of course he has to sell himself of course he has to do whatever he needs to do in order to provide himself with the four cups of what he says you should make a very very simple shabbos don't do child don't do me don't do anything and don't be dependent on others over here he admits that you should be dependent on this duck if you can't afford it another way you should do whatever you need to do in order to have the four cups of wine from here you see also the the concept of the pursuits of that no matter what four pieces humanisa you're mysterious labrios there's a very interesting idea here in this in this line i say about today when i was learning it i was thinking to myself that this is more of a problem that's so much a maresha in a nervous role but it's more a problem in america where people live beyond their means they're living on credit unfortunately it's a tremendous it's a pandemic that you have to live you have to keep up with the joneses you have to have that car you have to have that house you have to have this you have to have that you don't need anything you need to live within your means and people don't it's a tremendous and that's what it says over here i say hull if you can't afford it don't buy that chicken don't buy the the that fish eat cereal on shabbos don't come out to others and that also means don't use your credit card if you can zog even though said that but at least do one simple thing the cover chavez koi dish oh you know what tonight is rish khairdash podeshtav right now it's rich and i just want to point out that we just learned a few weeks ago about restricted you have to add something to your meal you have to make a special i'll just remember now because here unchap is you do something even a poor person has to add something small you have to make a little pseudo what's the word in english as what does it translate like like um no of course he does ask what do you have you don't have a thing there where are you following in the hebrew side english side kind of figure out whether these guys [Laughter] fine ask your number you know what right after that right after that five words after that let's not review them bold have it as konami should be bold like a number like a mighty or intense number is a leopard so look at look at the raspberry beautiful rajbab have a asconomer when it comes to money and spending they should live below your means not above your means when it comes to mitzvas is the exact opposite more than you could more than you think you're capable go even that much further you think all i can learn is an hour a day push it to hour in five minutes do a little bit more always push the mitzvah the calcaneus and light like an eagle actually they think in hebrew they naturally they say is a vulture rods could see i don't know which one it is katsu should be light on your feet like a deer the gebo kyrie and strong like a lion last interesting interesting because on the base we'll see also this gibber kyrie i'm just going to say it but here here it is right there giba kyrie powerful like a lion last israelite of vietnam this is actually the starts off page one and shahana has this in there that when you get up for for chakras you get up in the morning like it like a lion get up don't don't be lazy laza's returning commanded his son so now we know we had at least one son named sure don't sit where everybody could see you and learn tara because people will disturb you then val todd or be irish don't live in a place where the mayor of the city is either you won't have time to deal with the stuff whatever the reason is the base club his time don't just walk into your house unannounced the rajbam here brings very nice that rebjorn wouldn't go into this because it says in the past that the kind goddale would walk vanish where is it thing but he says something about vanishing deposit says that you heard the uh the bells when he walked so he also has been kind as possible you don't want to scare them maybe they're not doing maybe they're not dressed probably whatever you knock on the door before you come in college in the base javier certainly not when you go into your friend's house this is anti the intermittent fasting that i do you should get up in the morning and do chakras it will protect you and here once again we see the idea make yourself if you can't afford it spend it um [Music] now if a person has a lot of a muna a lot of amuno says borrow money and i'll pay it back we have to believe in it somebody asked once trying to think if i remember the story correctly can i borrow money uh can i borrow money without knowing how i'm going to pay it back i haven't i have a muna i'm going to pay it back told him on condition that if somebody like you asked you for money you'd lend him the money based on that and muna if you have such strong immuno that you're going to be able to pay it back that you would lend on that kind of a muna then yes you could borrow on that but if you don't know where you're going to pay back don't money from you you'll also have abraham even to buy and sell is good it's also considered part of the broadcast if you buy from eoi you have broccoli you sell tea if you have a broccoli a person has a lot of luck buy and sell from it how far are we from uh kevin rushby uh minutes that is 45 minutes okay my daughter goes to my oldest daughter goes to school so you're wrong we know was in jail the romans said not to learn torah and he said i'm going to teach tyra no matter what and they put him in jail um he says teach me so he threatens him very very interesting line in shas needs a lot of explanation if you don't teach me who's representing his father what was his name hello gary what was rupturing by his father's name he's the son of iraq i'm going to tell my father and you um i'm going to keep this in jail already i'm going to tell them for real what you're all about basically a real threat understood that he needs to learn tyra framer akiva that's the that's how we got chas kiva test this is the famous line i asked gary i started the word today and he he just said the entire line i guess it's very famous on my life bini yes writes a linak more than a calf wants the nurse right to the hanukkah the mother wants to give the calf more than the calf wants to drink trust me i want to teach you torah more than you want to learn entirely from me that's what rakeem told them this is danger i can't teach you what he says is if the calf doesn't drink it'll drop dead so you're talking about death you're talking about masira and bicastro chronic if you want to hang yourself he told the bilingual so he told him he started teaching him he said basically if you want to learn torah for me if you want to learn torah go to the greatest so that when people i'm saying over from the how he explains the gemara not if you want to commit suicide go to a tall tree it means if you want to teach torah you want to learn to get it from the greatest so that people will accept it from you this is the origin of go that's right when you teach your son make sure that the safer that you learn from doesn't have any mistakes in it once it has mistakes and and your son absorbs the mistakes he'll never forget them like tavasha big derose don't use a path that your friend already used manila what is it referring to guru shiba kaya bala do not marry a divorcee that her husband's still alive dominar guru shinosu arba de osbomito when a divorce do we have any divorced people here close your ears a divorced man who marries a divorcee did you marry are you remarried a divorcee there's four people in bed says the rash bomb here that there's a problem here last last line in the rajabama is another thing about another woman the ubuntu cravingly if somebody thinks about another woman then his kids are similar to hane they're the sons of a of a grusha in his heart okay fine cruises are like v by sema i feel bad some people say this is also a problem marrying uh a widow lefie in colette's voice not every man is the same and the concern is that dalmato will start comparing husbands sponsored based on the day sponsored by ellie dykman for all the mdy team ugarshin and all the other guys and and all fixes doing exercise while watching the daf in their everyday lives for all the heart of this acquisitions they do thanks to ellie daiquin and sponsored revolutionary stroll especially from our mdy family please consider joining the mdy to healing group tohilum.8mindaff.com mitzvah of god if a person wants to accomplish two things he wants to make a mitzvah but also get a lot of monetary benefit from it so what he does is he could lend the money and what they would do is the guy in return would give collateral a field and he'd be able to use he'll take the benefit from the field and eventually get his money back so he gains a lot of mitsubata if he wants to do a mitzvah and be pure and i see isha villain one shot was i saw that he already has children he was already married but if he wants to be pure not not come to any average he should marry remarry has a great line he says it says as we mentioned before when you wake up you should wake up his gabriel kyrie he says but you can't expect to wake up like a lion if you went to sleep like a donkey so you should say krishma you go to sleep like a lion and then you wake up like a light why because for 10 generations you have to be careful not to insult her 10 generations you'll say oh you you know why you're like this because you come from this you grew up in an arab village of course yeah that's a problem you now let us sit on a guy's bed literally um but the famous story of the rappapa and what's very interesting is if you think about it rav papa rav papa means he was an ambario rebbie wrote the mishnah he's a tana so papa lived way way after abby had he listened to this rebbe's advice he wouldn't have had his famous story what was the story rapapa sold beer for a living he's very wealthy so he lent money so he lent this woman a money a non-jew and then he came knocked on her door said give me the money says okay come in i'm going to look for the money meanwhile sit down on the bed what happened was before he sat down she ran she took her child and she killed her child and put her child under the bed and she accused him of killing the child and she actually it was a great idea she only lost one child but she didn't have to pay her a pop of money because he ran away he ended up running away to different country so if you don't sit on a guy's bed you wouldn't have this problem and don't try to get out of taxes differently i saw different people's what kind of taxes maybe it wasn't the typical taxes the taxes of these hoodlums that would run around and try to get more dilmma isla because if you don't pay and then they find you they'll take everything you have i saw rabzil stein says there's a guy that came to him and said here's the story you hear the miso somebody wanted to do his friend a favor so he decided he has a he owns a phone a phone book company so and he had a good friend i'll give him a freebie gave him a full page ad about his business but then the the authorities found out about it that he has a business they went through the book and they say oh this guy's a business how come he's not paying taxes he got into a lot of trouble because of the free ad and he came to the beds and he said my friend messed me up so saying said at least i think the story was in full stars i don't know if you would say the same thing in arizona i don't know but it said it was in hutzlarz dina de marcos and since the guy had to pay taxes anyway so there's no problem putting in that that was his stock anyway says the camaro valentine's sure don't stand in front of a bull when it's coming out of the water [Music] because he's meshuggah as you all know if you listen to this in the safari they tell you the most dangerous animal in the safari the one that killed the most humans is the hippo but the craziest animal the most unpredictable animal in the safari most predictable the most unpredictable guy is the bull the buffalo that's correct i look at you he's pretending he's grazing suddenly just charges even a lion he'll first he'll make a little roar he'll shake his tail something you'll know not a but not a buffalo bull buffalo the same they might be kosher those guys but that's only a black bowl nissan and a nissan tonic if you have a bull that didn't gore anyone he only gored once twice not the three times then you have to this is yourself fifteen five oh amma from him that's about 150 feet mishaar muay but if he guard three people kim loy enough just stay away from him even if his head is inside the basket of food sock league will run run to the roof we'll shut the diagram into dog and get rid of the staircase you have a ladder pull it up because he's going to climb the ladder in other words obviously a bull can't climb a ladder the point is they're very dangerous omarav nisa toro hein hain this is interesting in model the sound that you make for an axe you want to get rid of him you want to scare him off he say hey name nizidaria and when you want to pull you want to give the people motivation they're pulling the the boat you say hilny haya he says if a person has an animalistic taiva he wants to act like an animal but he wants he knows what he's about to do is wrong so he should say something very simple like kane hain da da what does that mean you say what was the lush and he said over there just a very damn bus just say like one simple passage something simple that will take away the yater omar abbaya or dagv khameneu batesville kingdom we're going to go into each one question in the gemara is always a pig a pig or saras that's harassing your skin so now we're talking about saras you just said that what the other day we had was a type of food and we didn't know what it was but okay so these things are bad for saras now some say it doesn't mean that saras that comes from talking about shinhari but it means just the skin ailment or if you're going to sleep on hide that's still it's not done yet it's not good to cause skin ailment dag what kind of fish he booted nissan type of fish called you know the the fish with the uh breaded fish the not good leftovers what does hat mean somebody constantly likes hot showers very hot water poured on him it causes skin elements baits him mande madrid if you step on eggshells kingdom levonim white kingdom javila boucher if you clean your clothes and you don't wait eight days it's a problem remember in those days lice was a big issue the baryon the they'll relive you wash them right so now they they go slightly dormant if you're gonna wear them right away they will come back out and and they'll get they'll get at you and they'll ruin your skin omar because at the end of the day the snake the the cat will kill the snake is little bones beyonce if it goes into the bottom of your foot nothing won't come out easy stacking little causes a house that doesn't have a cat like nao bay in issue but i can't see anymore i'm literally my my lenses are going fine because perhaps a snake will come and get you so this in those days at least cats used to eat the snakes so if you don't if you don't have a snake if you don't have a cat be careful of the vitamin c very small big basis rabbi so this is interesting exactly how this happened who it was this different gear size here okay i'll just read the way it says ruby schmoveberry told rebbe some people glorious rap because that makes a lot more sense don't create a move in your own thing you shouldn't go to to the entire against three people why the hell will trace because one will take the position that he's against you and the other two illegally will pretend that they're witnesses and now they're getting up against you this is just a general rule nothing to do with this gemara you shouldn't go into a store if you don't intend to buy and look around because this grenade is dust it's not nice to the owner he thinks he's going to make a buck off you over here is a little different it says you shouldn't stand there and really check it out and pick it up first of all other people can't buy it it's only it's us and they walk away now you just cause the guy lost but you're gonna make the price right people are going to see that you don't want it they're going to say oh something's wrong with it we don't want it either now real quickly we discussed the the idea of nida da raisa in the before they establish what we do today so if a woman is maya she she she sees them even if she sees them on the seventh day seven days straight she go to the mikvah that night midair isa today she has to have shiva nakim so we don't have the issue with the gemara is about to say no ish the woman comes from the mikvah zakir khan relations are also the first night now today it's the opposite it's a mitzvah omar neither their eyes are because she's still within the flow hoyobo because she's still flowing especially if it was the last day she she's allowed to go to the midfield all the way to the end of the varmint review three things ruby i see review the total remedy don't go out and don't use a brand new bath house shaman de baches in those days if you think about how they built it it was all wood and they had like fire underneath to heat up the water and it could everything could collapse at any given moment add camo how much do you have to wait you have to wait 12 months to make sure it's nice and strong now this is a very interesting you can learn a lot from this sounds weird okay but the the is and it teaches us a concept in how to treat friends don't put yourself in a position that you might see something in somebody and you're not going to like what you see and then you won't like them so it's you have to try really hard not to see fault in a friend so that you shouldn't come to have problems with them that's the salah right here you're going to cause that baby to have epilepsy it's only if the baby is less than a year old and these are all things i forgot who says it that these are things that you say the opposite maybe it should be a small baby no these are without a height that we we know the certain things that are new this is more than a year old baby it's not a problem another gonna carry it's only when the baby's on by the by the pillow they can raise a not by the pillow i would gonna allow the reishi less limbo but if the babies bite the head of the bed it's not a problem remember this name when we learned it the other day he said that over here says the shade the wife of asav gomorrah talks about how humans can have relations with shade them and have shayden so according to marsha that's what's going on here it's aesop's wife had a baby shade called agras he ushered known for his stories of sitkas of nisa i would have put you in grave danger if i'm so important like you're saying goes into your life then what i'm going to do with you i'm going to eliminate you i beg of you give me a little bit give me something lately lately reveals she gave her friday nights nobody goes out friday nights lately reviews not a problem by the way just i i don't know if this is a fact but i think there's an interesting very uh interesting thing going on here why why does she have to tell him oh if not for the fact that you're you're the famous from hanina vendaisa i think there's a psychological element there she thought she's going to get him by giving him a compliment you know he's such a great guy and then she's going to get him and it didn't work he didn't fall for the trap but sometimes when people give you compliment um compliments there's a little this there's something else going on behind the scenes they want something they want to they want an angle the gemara says very similar and we're almost done we're just going to the last well we'll see the top line here this egress the shed is also called because who was who was a bad stepfather rabba the famous rabb and his father so he called rabbin put on here if abaya was geyser how come we bump into aggress all the time amri hani gazios once in a while when they have to run through the city to grab their horses then you get to see them but otherwise abaya was successful in eliminating them have a wonderful week major hashem we'll see you all tomorrow at 7 15 eric's stroll time me see these guys and zoom for a second i'll say goodbye to them for having us more than my boyfriend unbelievable when did you join us have you in the beginning bye a summary to go through getting cake and then my next attempt i just googled i went to youtube and i said english. yeah and the first one was america you were in america look what's going on here our boys we got avi mandelbaum in the background the first time ever the first time ever there's a normal background great to see you one second exotic locations and after i have to be with i have to be with the garrison garrison took me out it's a whole it's all mice and maybe i'll say it tomorrow before sheer but they the the some guys got together i was having uh some rough days some things going on in my life so they took me out for shabbos so bor hashem but the other guys didn't want to come here they said it's too far away and they can't leave their families geshen's like he looks at me i'd love to leave my family let's go garrison doesn't things are funny doesn't think it's funny nah she's okay we asked permission we asked permission