Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 91 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Mordechai their belly I've opened up another division in my company and I've been posting joined that family status the last two weeks with the results at least five people have joined the joinery I just post my new logo he's a joiner shimmy leafman does woodwork just joinery so he said just join the kids are the top is the original wishing you all the same as their trip to Miami like Manchester you will need an umbrella but this time for the Sun not the rain shimmy just joined for boys side I'm asking the Islam to please dab him for me but Ms I'm not joking it's always difficult for me to leave my routine and get on flights and make the flights I know there's a little fun involved but in between the fun you could ask these guys remember the pressure during the Safari you gave me muscle you said I was ruining it for everybody their repu Murray everybody's asking about Natan kashnood yes not such good thoughts about his life and I just wanted to send please come down over there thank you I just wanted to send you the entire mdy family an update on my situation here in Los Angeles I've somewhat settled down found a place to rent thanks to Ben hagigi and lazarian so I could tell you I hope and and please do not be Ms if you listening to this do not forward this to my son but my son told me that he found a great place in Los Angeles to rent rent is like three four thousand dollars he found a place that smile is brand new for like a thousand dollars a month so I said it's amazing but immediately I called someone with Zaria and I said no how much are you paying under the table this is what who told you I said there's no such thing as a thousand dollar rent so here also I don't know I'm just saying lazarin is involved in rent it's not a good thing I started going back to mignonim learning say there and going to the gym daily I never stopped learning the death throughout this entire deal all my kids are finally back in school although I need a little bit of cashew enough she to handle the two oldest ones specifically wanted to send a special thanks to light be lighter yitzy cash Loma lazarian who reached out and helped me but listen to this little boy said this blew me away also I don't know who but someone from mdy sent me the entire Art School Shas what does that cost fifteen hundred dollars or so more two thousand dollars when I was at the lowest point in my life has said and just knowing there are people out there who care about me kept me going so I want to take the opportunity to think Mr Anonymous for sending me that hug from Hashem I know it's you sit down and stay there okay really looking forward to walking into Sadiq Los Angeles thankfully in a tan cashnu describe from the time for the update it touched my heart this guy nobody knows who he is sent a two thousand dollar gift to somebody that was down it's uh it's incredible to be part of this what's happening that's your third remark you're limited to one and preferably at the end this year when you're usually asleep it was funny it was funny okay you got a shot from your father -in-law bring me that shot say show me every single one of your volumes has a letter from your father-in-law you have to remember that he gave you that chance I saw that there are two cumin that I'm announcing here if you live in uh uh what is this no no no what's the name of that place Stamford Hill here we go and in Chicago I see them for empty YC monitorium which will take place they're saying that a lot of them don't have access they just watch the but they don't have like WhatsApp so here it is 20th of January at 8 30 p.m in crowland Roadshow it's 11 uh 111 113 crowland Road and everybody in Chicago has WhatsApp so they don't even read it but here it is it's sponsored by Simi mandelbaum and Philip Byrne and they're also accepting donations over there if you want just spent 15 minutes searching for my phone in my car while using my phone as a flashlight when I saw this I reminded myself what you said about looking for your phone while holding it Robert cornbrew is going to put it in his next book of jokes okay Ethan bursting from Springfield New Jersey was it tremendous supposed to be able to attend a live mdy share this past month in Shabbos while the size of the ship was significantly less than the previous two stream at 10 the one in Belarus in the five towns the energy excited my life sharing your home court was it truly special evening but it almost didn't happen we're visiting from New Jersey my family always staying in RBS the kids said the kids were very very cranky um they started losing it I told my wife let's just go back to saline the kids need to go to sleep in that moment mdy seems so far it's so close I was disappointed but I figured it wasn't in the cards for this trip my wife didn't turn to me and said I want you to go not just that you should go but I want you to go I knew I had the green light you see if you're doing mdy right it doesn't just impact yourself but it impacts all those around you mdy is just as important to her as it was for me and then why it's not just adapt share or daily lean mode one does on their own rather than something the whole family feels a part of thank you for everything Ethan bursting is here in the house you should have thanks for coming again and finally I got to read this because I've been toiling with this and I'm schuozing with Noam about this yesterday a lot and here's a very long email I don't know that I can go through the whole thing but it's mutty Weinberg again I emailed you two days about the two days ago about the mdy kids in Muncie many people have been sending a requests and inquiries that came with the solution I have great news I like to announce the first ever worldwide mdy kids program which will begin next week as Hashem of course it's only with rebellious permission I'll need no you don't have my permission not yet let's let's let's let's talk about it I'll need the admin people of the mdy the creative special what's that group here at the dealers in program beginning to Sunday all boys between 11 and 15 around the world can begin learning from Southwest McGill in time to make a scene from Purim over boys are already doing the RBS the pace will be six plot a week every Sunday inform you send a test of these boy completed my mission where we were talking about an online raffle for fifty dollars at the end of the receptor there will be a grand raffle of 300 each boy that completes the receptor will be subject to make a cm and the program sued the surrounded by the family and friends a bonus wrath will be made for any boy that sends in a picture short video of the poems to the CEO Mrs McGill will be sponsored by myself Mrs finding his sponsor the next maseka which will begin on Titus Esther it's unbelievable somebody what's your name Bloomberg from Queen Somebody Come have a seat we might even have seats up here somewhere foreign [Music] makes sense now anyways thanks to y'all say for the hard work give him a raise it's on tour anytime all right there I'll just tell you real quickly my the idea that I thought of during chakras as usual I'm not going to say it was during twin s right maybe me I'm not gonna tell the island it was not during cabbage it was that we should do a zoom and have all the boys on there you can't turn off your screen there'll be monitors adult monitors to make sure there's no bombers that the kids are actually watching maybe we'll ask them some questions at the end to make sure that they're listening and every single day there should be a raffle of some sort and every week there should be even a larger raffle every month even a bigger one at the end of this sweatshirt swag that kind of thing and then it could be International could have literally hundreds and hundreds of kids on the zoom if anybody has any ideas he's not part of this year but DaVinci is the one of the diamonds here he came over to me yesterday gave me a thousand dollars for mdy kids he was so inspired by the idea even though he's not part of the a thousand dollars and monthly Weinberg I think said also a thousand dollars so why rib sorry one rip so I I think there's a there's a lot of potential just I would like to iron out the all the Kinks before we we launch it it shouldn't be any issues and we should know what we're doing okay 500 and how many 550 people yeah I got the thing 550 one of them is okay we have special guests coming in from aldaf I okay 550. if you're not gonna see this please don't register anymore for the CM we don't want you there there's not there's enough people this is too we want more see them thank you this is the joke I've always say it's very exciting day we're on the last last stop from Durham let's see the sponsors oh what actually inside almost we're on the last stop um I'll just say this from Barrel schmuckler he says I heard your beautiful words about Yoni and I heard that Yoni was transported by atsala ear to had about 12 hours right here are you really you heard about this transport of Yoni yesterday where they bring him to is it HIPAA you know how to say margarine is telling me to Orlando from Orlando whatever it's a special place anyways they do this kind of stuff unbelievable at solar air what's your name his girlfriend I should do the get over here get over here I would like to fly maybe if I do a get over here and put me in the front seat I would like to fly in the jet one day in the front he needs to measure for you in the micho benadine by Beryl schmuckler the coil is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood because also sponsor made supporting third extension I will be talking this is the last day of the sponsor the merciful himself doesn't have a sponsor yet it is Avi you got some extra for this Avi won't help it helped yesterday it's kind of quiet Vice princy and Alan gross the entrance of the Arts is our fathers look Isaac saw Birmingham and Isaac High I'm on TV hi Taki what's going on Beyond Isaac been here by shimmy wise S.I 41 and wife in honor of our third year wedding anniversary till 120 on Main with this mess shove a bathroom two of you have Romans your set is and the art is sponsored for complete reformed Ben Leia also sruly Adler a guy I think for Muncie is sponsoring a hundred sheko per kid who's doing mdy kids and there's how many kids were yesterday I don't know 312. 91 kids if you ever listen to the video you'll see any kind of that your civilian makes is very loud everybody hears it somehow nobody knows why I don't know I haven't watched but I'm assuming and this is zoom into his face he did the whole thing okay something tomorrow we just had yesterday in the mishnah that the two kufas and Clyde's show one when women were believed to say that they were violated and they could go out and they take a tsuba but common realized that this is a nice trick that women are using they're lying they want to get out of a marriage or a bad situation and get a tsuba so they make up stories so if a woman says she was violated she has to bring her right yeah says the gimbara by where it says a woman admits that she was violated and she's married to a coin okay so he's saying that she continues being married and Iran discusses however it works could we differentiate and say on the one hand she remains married because we don't want her to pull off any stick and lie about it on the other hand she admits she can't eat truma so let her not eat Truman what's a big deal nothing will happen she doesn't need truma she doesn't have the right to create problems for children which in a roundabout way will make her husband divorcer if she has children that are halalim and people are talking about you heard about this look this woman candy look try to give her true Mish candidate you know why because she was mizana and her husband's gonna hear about it he's gonna divorce her so the whole so the trick does work at the end of the day the trick is gonna work so let her eat truma everything is fine and like this her husband will keep her and no tricks no it's not a problem even if she doesn't eat rumor nobody's going to start making his brightness here oh shoot some Stones no it's easier to get Hulu you know why she never serves true at home it's easier just it comes by quicker you go to my collar that's what they sell omaraba my dear obsessions however she's agrees to me if she loses her husband and typically an almana of a Cayenne could continue eating true mob she has kids what's the whole point that people will start talking about her children the sirema law but in a case where she lost her husband she's a widow it's already I mean so and I skipped the word on purpose for a second they'll say it happened now the reason why she can't eat trumas because now she was violated by somebody not good like uh like some sort of nothing or something Vanessa the same case happens in this guy's show however over here you have to stick in a word that she herself is a client because if she's a divorcee just to review the Allah any divorce C from akayan Israelis who married a guy and they get divorced she loses the ability to eat the truma so of course over here she lost ability the answer is because she herself is a client she's the daughter of a Kind she's okay Hannah and she should be able to eat truma on her own sake no because she was violated or she's mizana she loses that ability rap Papa Was a talmud of rava in fact Ralph papa took over the roshishiva he became the receiver sometimes the gamar even says if there's like a steering rather they'll say oh you sure it was rather that said that maybe our Papa said it in his name it's not really a contradiction so Republic took over so papa says you know Robbie used to ask us questions to see if we were sharp and he asked us this ashes koyan oh does a the wife of a client that's known it's known that she's nanas now that she was Violet does she have a super or not he even though he knows what's the question and obviously has to do with our mishna he's going to bring it right from our mission he even though he Israel you admit to me in both of these cases if a woman who's married to Israel goes ahead and is mizana bharatan on her own will he must divorce her so if she is violated by a Cayenne he must divorce her in both cases she doesn't get exuber hey look super maybe even in the case of the Kaya just like by Israel she doesn't get exuber when she did it willingly you could compare the two cases willingly by Israel unwillingly by a coyote they're very similar no both have to divorce all and by the Israel he has to give her so too by the client has to give her let's say listen I am Roy to get married I'm marriageable material people can marry me and he's thrown in the world can marry me the guy bro it's the cayenne's problem not my problem put me on the market anybody can marry me so right he didn't like it so much I have to admit that I had a hard time with it as well I at the end of the day she married a coin she got herself into it no she's saying look what happened to me is is a is a situation that passes me only for kohana not for Israel so if you think about it it's your problem not mine it's the staff because he says now we are big common because we know the end of the gemara but how did the gemara get to that this position how do we know that the mission doesn't say anything about the mishna just says a story a woman now who's this woman and the first daf right so one of the very Ms difficult for me personally is when I fly usually from from here to America I usually have to give I think every single time I had to give to shirima one day for me it's very difficult because I could only concentrate on one day at a time and I go slow and the whole thing so another Daft Bays the gemara says the famous line and every time says that I like to explain the bcisive that doesn't mean words are missing has to show them rebe forgot to put words in it means it's obvious people and the reason is because the mission has to be very concise because people are memorizing it the more words you put in there the harder it is to remember so you put a couple words in there and those who understand understand over here also doesn't say anything about a coin but it has to be a client it's not kasuri mexra this if you have a little bit of a Mario cup you understand the mission is talking about akayan why very very simple the mayasquino Ely invases Israel if you're talking about that a woman shows up she's married to a regular Israel and she says oh by the way I was violated no what was the situation he be Ronson she did it on purpose of course she doesn't have a she's admitting it is and if it happened unwillingly against her will Miko mitsur Al Gabriel she's not even us to her husband there's no divorce here so it's so obvious the elevations call you we must say let's number one is talking about a kite now what happened with the kite if it was willingly of course he doesn't have exuber migorous Israel she's no different than her Israelis who admits this nose barata Allah obviously we're talking about a cayenne and we're talking about against her will okay so again Rob for asked the question then he wanted to see ifraph papa learned the correct shot in the last mission that's what he's doing now they're they're learning I don't know they're in the middle of a desire somewhere Rob says by the way Papa what do you think about this and this and that and he immediately had to calculate and say there's a mission in the dark and we had to learn shot in that mission that's talking about a kite and not only a Cayenne but a Cayenne that his wife was nenas and it says that she she gets aksuba great so I have an answer to you Ebola a woman comes to her husband and predict her husband he says let's say she says to her husband garastani you divorced me think about it what woman could say something like that their husband fabricate a story from from scratch this is a divorce yeah you know what a divorce looks like you were in a business how big is it what how what does it look like can you you divorced me in other words I want to marry some of some other guy could you go and get married those are her words now where's the get I don't have it yet I lost it but you divorced me um if a woman says I was violated to ukion I'm coming to you know even if you go according to the later generation where they had an Institute and say that she's not believed at all because women were using this as a trick to get out of a marriage awesome with him a chakra in that case where she says she was violated she's lying why the other it's it's one of these stories you can make up and say when you were away doesn't this happen and nobody will ever know the truth so there's no house over here there's no hot spot but to look her husband she's married him for 20 years to look him in the face and say you gave me a divorce How could a woman do that it's physically impossible to Clara the other he knows that she's lying or not lying Muhammad so if she's able to to gather the courage and tell him to his face that he divorced her obviously he divorced her we had many times we know human nature human nature is that a woman a married woman would not look in her husband's eyes and say you divorced me and if she does it was actually a divorce by the way as the run this might be the last one in the Mercer where he says we always passing like Revolution says even according to mishnach right now I'm saying even in the beginning in the first Generations that a woman is believed that nothing happened there she had a it's a sob story foreign says doesn't this happen then we have to believe her why would she come and say I was violated we have to believe her I have a look at this but if sometimes it happens then a huge fight a huge fight so she's gonna save me izumisa she's gonna say to you this face she has to get out of the fight foreign sometimes I'm saying exactly show proof they don't have proof that you can't do it sometimes you don't need proof sometimes this is the proof is the proof whether you may or not the whole thing doesn't start you need to have some sort of real proof that's what you're arguing real psychologies as proof yes but rather argues and Robert says that's not good enough just recently some some woman in America got mad at her husband I don't know what she took a gun it was all on video took a gun and shot him and then in malfunction she's trying to shoot him again and again he didn't go miso miso she's willing to kill him she's willing to say you divorced me Hashem the missionary China so what happened you said in the mishnah is that a woman tells her husband by the way it says I should have worn before we're getting to like more of an adult so good so if you have children in your MacBook just be aware so not the end of the world so yes but nevertheless is a condition where the the woman says I know that you physically can't have children who knows besides the missionary China why is it a question in the in the in the beginning when she was believed and and he had a divorce in Europe Rob is all tiny is that why would a woman stand up there and tell Benson she's violated it's embarrassing or whether she has no she says I don't have a problem he has a problem he can't have children I want out as the Run explained I need children not because of the midst of children because that she doesn't have but I want you to take care of me when I'm older I need a I need a cane I need somebody to bury it she has a title but there's no Boucher you're telling me it's because of the busha she's believed this is [Music] what does she say she's she's claiming that it's not powerful enough to to impregnate her so it's not Yorkshire now she can't even come to bed and use that lotion which is a muscle doesn't shoot like an arrow she has to say exactly what she meant and exactly what she felt that's very embarrassing for her that she's not going to get up and do it unless it's true but what about the second part of the mission that exact story but in the later generation why because both of them the guitar understands both of them know what's going on to somebody that knows shouldn't the husband know if he's able If he if he's capable or not it's just like it's just like a woman telling your husband you divorce me she's she's telling him something that he knows or doesn't know and also the husband knows and she's not believed it says yes he knows that he's able to be bile he's able to complete an act he doesn't know the power and the force only she can know that so again it's one of these things that the husband can't argue on it's not like a divorce where he knows whether he gave her a divorce here's a physical condition that the gamar understands now that only she could feel and know and remember she's my shocker that after relations you have to wash your hands like Lego master six times some do eight times so every morning after she had a minute she would wash his hands ome so she brings him water in the morning now usually he went to do nagavasa himself when she brought him water it was a certain symmet to him what are you doing is it you didn't have relations last night or Malay in Kane oh you're right I had you didn't have uh we have a little problem here must be in Kane it must have been that a guy was boiled me one of these guys that sells perfume he's running around the neighborhood he must be the guy now it was highness she's admitting it was highness she she brought a negov answer she played a whole game here here's another he says what are you doing I was Naval it must have been another person oh another person is by mistake it must have been a guy so we have to say Texas is on the side here we're talking about a Cayenne must be a cut because he's thrown she's completely mutted them they're saying you're a client and I was with a guy last night give me a divorce what a beautiful iron foul very tricky woman here comes with the negative I said oh my Mr tadakis only to say Oh we must have been a problem here last night okay if it wasn't you maybe it was them we can't trust her at all oh sponsor because who always encouraged us to finish shots the members of the HBA group and their families she wasn't in a good mood she usually wasn't a good mood oh my Lord what happened foreign I haven't been with you in a week sister but there's a problem I was with someone last night it must have been the guy if it wasn't you maybe it's one of them now if it wasn't that he already says listen well what's the two stories here one story is enough must be that we're talking about a lit in a closet he wears a lot of perfume so the wife deodorant so I was confused between him and the guy said he only goes to the Mikvah and takes his showers only in the Mikvah but when he comes out of the Mikvah we're makbid not to shower because you want the douche of the mix of water so he smells like neft a male she was confused foreign [Music] the such stories that women make up stories they come up with all sorts of ideas don't pay any attention to that Ellie guy [Music] she had a plan there she made up a story it was all fabricated there was a guy that wasn't married to this woman and he was he was being misiaked with a woman in her house oh the worst thing that could happen happened oh awesome Mario the basement the husband shows up so what does a naive do a typical knife what does he do he either he hides under the bed runs into the closet this guy no pardon hootsa is always like a very flimsy fence he broke the fence varak and he ran away you know right in front of the the husband he starts running you have to understand human psychology it's so Sharia if that's the case that he ran away right in front of the husband you should know he's not a knife why it means if this guy is a true knife he would have hid a knight of eyes the knife doesn't run away that the husband should see him he ran away because he's embarrassed he's called but if there was a physical Miser he wouldn't run away foreign again another story and you could think about this because this is imagine a guy stop a guy who's let's say stealing right he goes into somebody's house and he's stealing and the owners come in and so he hides under the bed and he Witnesses an attempted murder he sees somebody they got a gun he was there because he wanted to steal 25 now he's witnessing a whole thing what does he do what would anybody do would they start screaming hey don't kill and then they they they they they discover him it's a big problem for this guy or he just he's quiet he Witnesses the whole thing somebody died because of him and he goes back there he sneaks out of there what would what would a person do this mom is what happened there was a night he's he's hanging out of this house the more calls him to know you he's a bad guy also gabra the husband shows up because so this talk is like rava said he's talking enough so what does it not even do instead of running he hides he hides in the closet behind the curtain he goes behind the curtain he stands there like a Sharita here the one chart that we have today this Taco's Crest I have one more chart check this out oh that is obviously there is a heavy that's like a cobra my attempt at putting a cobra in the trivia it's not so much okay fine the other one not the one on the left the one on top of the crest here that's not a cobra yes it is yeah okay so this the guy witnessed the snake now we know that the snakes they they uh insert their venom into water a lot of people on water and wine on milk he witnessed the snake hanging out in the taco in the crest he realizes if the husband of this of this woman that he's knife with eats the tackler he might die as a dilemma does he save the husband he starts screaming hey and then nothing says I caught you what are you doing behind the curtain you all should get out of here you know whatever or you just witnessing him eating Taco and then the guy drops dead also guys I don't know was it Margaret Thatcher was it the or the what's the other guy Roosevelt one of them said but I think it was like to Margaret she somebody said if I was your husband I would poison you and she said and if I was your wife I would drink it but I was the opposite yeah okay fine Churchill that's awesome yeah all the good lines is not migrated faster okay right the the man of the house wanted to eat this Crest was a big thing in those days is crests everywhere throughout Chas but I died he didn't say anything like he didn't tell his wife he's gonna eat it maybe she would she knew also well she was with a guy and they both saw it she didn't no but maybe they saw maybe he didn't see the snake when he's behind the curtain maybe he saw the snake together when he was with that woman they both witnessed him so he screws out from behind the curtain hey don't eat it not a good idea I witnessed a snake eating from it on my Robo it's a Sharia she's mother why he misses it says about this but they also killed off the husband so you see that a nayef is somebody that's hushed places says it's positive says where do we find Evan Shas that somebody that's the naive he has a taiva he's also gonna he's also gonna kill so he says that what Isis means is that when the ritika is connected to the Nils then he's caution when he has a chance to kill off the husband then he'll kill him off he's not a rich sack he doesn't go around the street shooting people in the street but what has to do with his Avera then we have to be gracious and that's what the gemara says later about as we'll see we'll we'll have to finish that tonight base rashem rabbosai tonight is the Siam here in ramadichemesh tomorrow in Miami everybody even if you look to this you can still sign up so we'll be a stickle tight over there but it's the schmuck when it's tied have a wonderful day wish me luck damn for me we'll see you basic show when I come back from Los Angeles I don't know exactly when