Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 9 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning grab voiceai wow it's it's not London it's not it's it's England the UK they got the ah down packed okay valdek poisonous before I get into the details about the connection to Manchester I just want to say we have to say tremendously Chicago and you swirl corn Blues and zevi sinitsky and we cannot forget yasidahari Hawaii a night like tonight is harder than ahasana and you're talking about people We're Men to put this together without the help of our wives and uh and that's done put it together to put it together on the highest levels of of an event of this magnitude it's it's unbelievable it's a tremendous tremendous thank you so much you know when dialer asked that we should come to London and we should come to Manchester it's debate between do I go to Manchester first this is where it all started wow go to Manchester or go to London and you know back then they were saying well they're gonna be about 100 people in Manchester and 500 people in London we think you should go to London first it was a little bit of a difficult decision said okay we'll go to London but I want to tell you everything every equal every step of the way this is the one who started it all and I just asked him again to repeat the story I was sitting and learning haruso with my cabrusso my rebbe Didi Kramer he was in the basement which is right across the street from liby David in walks Robbie David and he walks over to me and starts asking questions about the daf and I asked him who he was and I said tomorrow you're coming to my sheer and the next day he came to my share and then when he was about to travel back to Manchester he said so you have this thing online he said yeah he says okay I'm gonna go online I'm going to continue online so he is how do you call like the cover the first patient of covid patient zero carbon number zero here he is Robbie David but listen to this Rabbi David just came out of the hospital today if Rabbi if we would have done Manchester first which was yesterday and come to London today Rabbi David the one who started all would have been in the hospital so look at that protest it's unbelievable on the one hand he's like why is he going to Manchester second you probably said it to yourself right has a plan Chicago has a plan so Bobby David used to tell me for a year he says I have five people we watch you all the time I said thanks for making me feel good where's the picture I need a picture yeah I'm sending you a picture he's never sent me a picture but tonight was the first time that I actually met I don't know if all five no can't be all five and I'll tell you in a second why but tonight I'll tell you what I met I met Lenny Hummel right is that I used to pronounce his name Lenny he's a little upset at me he asked me not to be invite from Again by Robin so I won't say that he didn't learn the daf until he was 80 which I said on meaningful people and I advise him in front of 30 000 people but I told him it's a tremendous physique and here he is today I think that was his first time first time learning gemara first time doing that via me the scripture of David so he's one of the first people of that khaburra the first the second person to be on Zoom ever is Schwartz who's here tonight as well the the simcha that it gives me it's it's unbelievable you can't imagine such a simha to meet Schwartz in person to me dribbleni in person to see Rabbi David again the the the first guys in khabur and then I met rivi Pogo beagle really beagle so finally I met rivi where's rivi also here in the front somewhere where is he all the way in the back for another so you were really all the way in the beginning right from the beginning I have to mention that exagger way he's also is that how you pronounce I'm very bad news you have to zagwe zagwe he was also part of that initial haburo and unfortunately it was nifter and Dylan knows him he's a he's a tremendous uh he was a tremendous part of the Manchester Island so is the Sherman should have an Alia and Usher chakran chakra not chakran Shock run he today is in Dubai resolved from the initial kaburra so it's unbelievable unbelievable how one man with one idea changed the way tires learned today we were we were streaming it on YouTube and this and that but he decided he's making haburra and he's getting guys together so he's Robbie David is the first khaburra that mdy ever had and Beijing should be thousands more with many many more people perhapura is David and and a tremendous before shlema it should be exunt and start leave alone that hospital we don't want you there anymore as every simcha we have mishpaka that flies in from all over the world and this probably has never happened before that close to 20 people flew in for the sea um and not all of them are here tonight but I'll tell you some of them we have official where's your official right over here we have Uncle Phil somewhere where's Uncle Phil always in the back Tomer leaving hides out he's the most humble executive director that you'll ever meet really see him remember you saw Goldstein had enough swimmers right over there at Boyce eye he came in and all the way from uh who else do we have so we have if you want to meet that's Gersh the famous Gary who deals with the cameras the famous Joseph biliac saying right next to him the editoria Paris time Levin's supposed to be here somewhere Paris Kyle Levine you should all learn from him he brought over 400 people to this year without any platform without anything he works for Goldman Sachs he's a finance guy and he just goes around day after day schlepping people giving he he printed his own designed and printed his own business cards tell people about the sheer he goes on the train he sees it from guy goes over you got to join the share he goes to him he starts pulling business cards everywhere schlepping signs he signed up 22 stores in America New York that say joined free death 400 plus people the boys that you can learn from him thank you is David the deal here where hi David another honor of hiding behind the Vegeta welcome back to Manchester Square for being part of this year how about these trollinsky's here follows us a real groupies Benji Silverstone is here all the way from Rapid chemist and Marco I'm not going to get your name again parenting going just call Cohen Show Israel huh yeah by the way there's a bunch of people I I can't I forgot to mention one of my favorite people in this year and has helped me a lot a lot during the years with pictures and Sam pizzok about rum Vice fish sitting right over here and from the very beginning shmuli Vice fish who I don't know it doesn't still do the daf the whole thing he's left there's a whole all right so um I guess we should start no what do you say we're gonna hold we're gonna pause and you're gonna edit this out right the kylo which Robbie Bernard David's son Robbie David's son lives in the kylo and where's your Falls brother where is he where your brother if your fall is in the car what's your like I don't I don't even try to pronounce troyath so Troy F what a name givaldi from Switzerland so his brother's part of the coil the coil as I I mentioned I don't know if you listen to the sheer they just this week took a test on a thousand twenty death from beginning of Shas till where we are these guys really know this stuff they work really hard on tests they just took 120 dot tests the 30 DOT test and a thousand and twenty that test and some of them took it with Titus unbelievable so we're very proud of them and every month somebody sponsors not a same person but we get sponsors is sponsored ain't Google lock the Paris says right he's switching around me Jeff no because it's always backwards and I have to remember it's backwards today it's four words and I have to remember that he switched it okay Jeff Rosner in my son Joseph Epstein in memory my dear departed loved ones included in my recent scars that he's supposed to give this Docker immediately Goldberg reforms today's surgery we're starting from a very brand new mishnah guys all right so if you're joining us for the very first time or you are thinking about coming back I'll give you a little bit of a background of what we're learning here we're learning about yadres about handles the handle is something you hold on to but it's not the actual pot it the handles the handle to a pot in other words if you say a sentence and it's not a complete sentence that's a Yad now there's three categories of your diet only they get a screen oh they go okay yeah I see it's three categories there's a yard it's extremely obvious what he means maybe he's 95 with 95 sure if you want to put percentages I don't know exactly how to do it but let's call it 95 we understand what he's doing even a hundred percent we just don't know he hasn't mentioned a particular world word called user a word called carbon but we know for certain this is what he means that's a yard it's a perfect Yad first mission in Durham says that's a nether so if you talk like that you just miss one word it's it's perfect then this is it's something I could go both ways basically so it may be 51 52 55 you could say it sounds like he's saying that it's awesome but maybe he's saying it's motor maybe he's looking at a loaf of bread and he says uh whatever he says it could go both ways either he means that I'm not gonna eat this bread forever or you mean I am going to eat it now he spoke about something that's not not even on the list in red he says one word Irani Iranian doesn't mean anything that's not even a yacht we're going a little bit back to that sugar not a lot but it's within the Suga of the others so it says the mishnah top of that Tesla models if a person uses this lotion he says I'm making a nether like a Russia must be Russia he's calling himself like a run like I want to be like they're a shine now what's a Russia it doesn't mean a real Russia a guy that eats khazur Russia means a guy that's not very careful with nadaram oxidic that's careful with his words doesn't make another doesn't make it and in Russia doesn't care I like your son Sadiq and your tongues I mean I just see the first there's a bunch of guys over there mdy socks okay sorry let me get back I have ADD by the way okay he says another like a Russia a lot of people today they go I swear I swear you sure that's what I swear I was there it's a Russia not a Russia like oh you get to Marcus he talks Prost that says it's not a nice way to talk it's not it's not how we speak okay I don't have it here next time foreign exactly let me just show you the chart basically if he he says these words I'm making Ned like a Russia hi rainy and then he's there's another that's walking by guy with long hair it's obvious he's another he's not taking a haircut he's not drinking wine that's all he said he said four words can literally show him and he looks at this guy that's going to be the mascara the wording goes back and forth and we already saw the round that says the lotion of nadarim ishuna it's a little different than the rest of the Shahs Canada is if he made a net there on another like this over here Ubi carbon or he made a net there he says he says the loss of her carbon or he swears he makes it he says I'm doing like the shark so it works another it's a nether with another it's good with a carbon it's good with the show why because guess what we're trying they make nadarim and he says he wants to be like a rush okay so it's a good nether but if he says can you drink share him I want to be like uhevsky's net there like Omar you didn't say anything how can I ask you those are making the dorm like that can advice um but if he says I want to make an adava like replyingevsky then another carbon then it works then it's zeros and it works with a carbon what doesn't it work with sure because the god of outside like a person is careful with his mouth doesn't make any sort of shoes that's not something they make so I want to point this out once made this a chart I had to make it again because I couldn't find it today the internet wasn't working on the trains I just made this real quick there's a way to remember the difference between a Nether and an adava nadava has the word dive in it then where do you find the beer in a zoo so that means Hare Zoo when a person points at a animal at a carbon at a sheep and says that's in a double again there's a dive in the zoo fine so if he says another what's a nether says her real life a real life because the mission mentions both will showing us and Ned there been advised some another benefit he says Zoo this particular animal and if this animal dies his Potter but if he says then he's high forever until he brings the carbon so if I were to ask you're a boy's eye what's more khashav to say zoo if it dies on Potter or her real life I am going to bring a carbon one day to live in some English which one is more caution which one does everybody like more no anybody a real life the Run says harizu why because I raise Zoo I'm taking action right now I'm not I'm not delaying my nadava right now this this thing right here he's more serious I really like one day eventually when I get around to it I'll bring it I know it sounds that's why I tricked you it sounds like oh I realize you can never get out of it but he's not going to do it who knows how long harazo is right now use the whole lotion here that's a person that's closer and it means he's serious okay when it comes to a and Iran says it's over so I'll just say it over here when it comes to also he says I'm making a schwa that I'm going to bring this uh this carbon or whatever so the round says it has to be in front of him the car the animal has to be right there and then okay so stop it comes out a very interesting thing I might be wrong tell me if I'm wrong again I don't have the the the the check the checks that I have usually from the titles if I have a question like this I could ask the guys in quite a little but I was on the train so I couldn't really ask anybody it look higher stop if you have a friend that is ruggle belushan all the time he says I swear I have friends like that I swear every time you doubt him he says I swear what are you talking about I swear you don't know it's not you're not supposed so it comes out you should not tell this guy are you sure I doubt you because once you say that then what is he gonna say I swear swiftly either it's awesome let's think about Russia I mean I usually sit over there so and I still hear you you're One Foot In Front of Me I have to chop him it doesn't doesn't help oh chapstick corn is announced by the way everybody say shops in Cohen I love when he comes to sheer and remember okay you're dying a guy says he wants to answer something on himself I don't want to make in other words his lotion is vague once his lotion is vague I could go in different directions maybe he wanted to say that he's not making a nether says he says over here like this and the story or he says hola or he says he takes the first two words explains harami when he says the word hirany been a zeros like this chart when he says the word a lie because he's talking about a carbon hemanu and when he adds the word foreign once again still if he says how rainy places and zeros what's going on we should wait it's good okay nice so you can shaking your head back and forth it's not good we can wait bamus okay so that what he means is he wants to become another he wants long hair maybe the shot is so don't say oh because there's a guy in front of him that I cheated I totally the end of this again maybe when a guy says he says those three words he's referring to he wants to be he wants to be himself a Titus that's walking by him when he says these three words now it becomes obvious he's not talking about a tightness he's talking about zeros so it comes out excuse me I don't know if it's the weather the rain or the singing last night I don't know no no it started before so you see from an interesting thing you have a guy that's making another like a Russia and a guy who walks in front of him he's inspired by it and he makes a nether of a Russia it works he's the same guys inspired by the walks by and then it doesn't work it's the same my rainy harini it's the same Irani I want to be like that guy if it's a static it doesn't work static and don't talk like that if it's a Russia it works so what does this have to do with the daf what brought to mind is molandi well Landing well a boss in Muncie he's very inspired by the whole daf it changed his life sent in emails the whole thing and one day excuse me it's coming from America there's this role and he's in the airport and one of my friends from romantic happened to be in JFK in the airport and took a picture of him and he asked me you know this guy he's wearing a mdy cap and he's learning I don't remember himself let's say so turns out the mole Landing was with Cabo himself but when he flies from America there's a straw he's going to finish the time in that one picture and that story inspired many many people since then when they fly to learn to not watch movies and that's Markov that came to me when I was learning this that there's a person who's caught learning Tyra and inspires many many other people many misceptors have been finished because of this one guy Mo Landing Mr Cheney I was recently in the airport in a favors in a country where no from people should be there and I walked into the lounge and I saw a very very looking in with a Hamburg and a fractal thing watching movies on his on his phone when he saw me I told him you know there's a show put it away right away if I was somebody else who inspired me to oh feet does it you could also watch what was wrong imagine if he was sitting with a gamara and somebody snuck up on him and saw that what inspiration would be you gotta be careful what you do you don't know who's watching you don't know what kind of influence moland is sitting by himself in a corner in JFK and then in the airport and how much influence he had in the world this this guy is walking by this guy with the long hair he's a nozzer he had an influence on somebody because of him somebody did something that's wrong or not wrong if he's a tactic yeah no but you have influence what you do it's not just you you have influence on other people foreign I could have done more charts if I had more time not just this one chart but okay you understand the idea you're taking this is another part is the shoe part is the carbon part the word a menu is referring to schwa asking him so this is I don't know what he's saying if I asked you before you learned this song what does this guy tell me there's a riddle guy says what is it what does he mean I don't know I'll tell you what it means uh I'll say and maybe it means that I am going to eat something not that I'm gonna bring a carbon I'm not gonna do that how do you know or moreover there's food in front of him there's a loaf of bread and he points to it he says it's a whole sentence okay now it's obvious he said I'm not gonna eat as the memorial Hawking my limit okay so he said a full sentence he said it so it's not even a yeah it's not a yachting maybe it's not even yeah dude like we spoke but no okay so he he missed he didn't say oh let's see what the gamara says he doesn't mention the words then I'm not gonna eat the bread he uses this funny lotion of kennethreme menu so since he's using this funny launch without mentioning the word that's exactly what the first mission in the misakha says if a person says the whole lotion but he doesn't say the word author or doesn't say the word that's a God and it's great pause we're pausing foreign let's go Manchester United foreign foreign foreign okay it's good enough says the gabbar we learned in the mission can the Drake share him like Omar Khloe can advise some not that if he says I'm doing a nether like a kosher person that's nothing because the culture person doesn't do in the dark but if he says can you advise them then it's a good nether says who is the Tana that says there's a difference between the Nether and a devil though the Sanyo toivore Massachusetts so we have to see the pasta here pasta gimmo the end of possible says so first of all when you make a nether you pay the Empire's parakeet says it's better not to pledge than to pledge and not to pay but pastor gimmel says if you pled you should pay it you vowed it right it's a good cash actually he's asking your cash it's a shame you don't join us more often I'm going to get to your cash in a second it's a very good caution what's the Kiddush you're asking like of course if you don't if you're going to pledge and not pay don't do it it's terrible okay so says remember that is better than pasta gimmel when you're saying possible says you should pledge and pay you know what's even better than pledging in paying don't pledge at all why what's what's shot for a boy said what's up shot you're pledging you pledged a million dollars you gave a million dollars you know what's better than that don't pledge at all don't give what do you mean oh because if you pledge you might forget you might not pay forget a lot of people forget okay that's how he learns pausing valid is better it makes more sense for you it should be Makai and possible not possible don't don't pledge at all there was a very wealthy stingy man you couldn't get a dime out of the guy so they went to the different time the behind tells them listen I hear you show him by his on the Rocks right yeah I have a great eighth of you it says that if you pledge to zaka and you don't pay up your wife dies wouldn't that be amazing if you could kill your wife just by pledging he says he says listen I want you to pledge a Mikvah Sergeant Mikvah and don't pay it and like this because Bob is going to help you he's going to kill your wife he said because the the Usher was such a stingy guy he didn't want to divorce her because then I'd have to pay subun but this you know he was manager stingy man here's a way you don't have to pay two bucks bro takes care of everything Clean Hands alive she says uh tell me tell me what's going on he said I would come home we fight do this no if I am she's not but she's not dying she's not even sick she's not even starting to be sick he says this is the problem the problem is that you're fighting you can't fight because if you fight that's his surim and the Surah mahapper we have to do is you have to be nice to her be nice to her be nice to her she'll draft that I promise you she goes home he's starting to be nice to her nice everything is great and then he comes back to the the recline and says you know I'm starting to like her she's you know she's nice I'm nice to her she became nice to me it's working out which I do I don't want her to die so you don't want her to die you pay to make the uh you say this they say this about the different kinds not even a joke I'll tell you you know what even if it's not a true story it could be true actually it can't be true but if it happens they're behind that it's true okay fine my stories are better even when they're not true okay fine so I didn't know the colleague here is better don't do a position way if you don't matter so again remember how Romeo learns absuki this is the round I'm just speaking out around here Durant says according to the mayor deposit doubt is better than possible you know I rebuka learns the possible check out the chart it's the same puzzle but you gotta you put in a period or exclamation point okay and the story don't make don't make another Mission because maybe if you make another you you might pay but the thing is don't pledge but Avada positive gimbal is better if you're gonna be Benoit there and Sham of course is better mashallah says some debates as a supposed to continue being able to support Tire in the finished eyes with your belly fullness nether the doubly comma the mayor was only talking about a nether you see the positives he's not talking about the dove is different ah evoke Tony in our mishnah there's actually a contradiction the mission itself it says nether in the Dava but our mission itself says can it voice Karma if he said I want to do like an adava of a of a kosher and then he adds on nether you're right you have to take it out it's only talking about nadava it's not talking about nether you take out the word but you can advise him not that he's taking advice there was a mistake uh where there was miseration instead of a doubted mice but why what's the what's the logic should make another why you're going to come to some sort of a Vader what's that vario you'll be over I'm about to ask her if you make a nether you don't pay you'll be over about that even if you delay it right even if you pay it at the end it's just delay you're over about that that's the color so the same thing should apply what's the difference you're making the dove or you're making that there you both you're over on both on both of them you can be over about that you're talking about you have the behemo right over there and he'll ask zulkin what did he do is okay nobody's ever able to use his carbon oil when he was alive if you use the carbon you're over an Ela you now use hegdish's animal if you do have to bring a carbon you have to pay says the Camaro what happened you bring a carbon not literally into the Azara up to the doors of the Azara because you know how to bring a hula and at the very last moment and you do this this is we lean on the head of the animal into smiha Vegeta you know your brother rubber fall you left me a message today he said I want to remind you I'm saying you're here says today a lot of people in America especially I don't know how they do it in England it's not the same thing and it sounds a little different but America they do the name minutes before why because there shouldn't be any issues if you do months before like over here he says based on this gemara okay before coil guys see Carl guy comes to to the rescue bonus so we go like Hillel he's bringing the double he's bringing he goes at the very last second and not Marshall anybody okay that works when you bring your car into something else you can go to the last second but what happens by the zeros what if I become Tommy in the middle what if what if it doesn't work well what happens then Sadiq Sadiq he was the first coin godo in bayshini his Corona lasted for how long 40 years what is he famous what's his famous saying very very famous so not Sadiq again unbelievable famous story yeshivas have partied with the story without the story would be out of business I think if a person acceptsify himself from the zeros he says I'm not going to drink wine I'm not gonna eat salad I'm going to grow my hair long not going to become Tommy lames and it becomes Tommy in the middle of his 30 day into zeros first of all he has to bring her bonus has to bring two birds and awesome we're talking about awesome now the concrete and then he has to start over the nazirus all over again I never ate another's awesome became Tommy brought a carbon I don't touch that God why because he held it wasn't appropriate another shouldn't become another and if it comes to Nazir I don't want to have any benefit from it at all there's one time in his lifetime that he was a coin godo and Kangol gets to take whatever he wants all the best Stakes one time he ate the carbon what was the give out the story and this is a story that we have to internalize this is a story that if you think about the story it could change your life because once a person this is not a stop of person this is a a very holy Jew I mean the martial points out minadarim who cares where he came from he came because went up north he went Durham to get Torah this was a learned person this was a big time there is you don't have this lotion in the gimbara very often we once had it in Tinus word for word this person was a model beautiful individual he had beautiful eyes very good looking um curls the top of the top sorry good morning kitten I looked it up what are you doing why are you about the chapel of your beautiful hair what are you doing think about it how many Royal how many Shepherds Klystron had including River Kiva and jacobino who Shepherds but the shepherd for some reason is has a lot of time to be missed all by himself in the pasture Royal easy lab of the Eerie I saw I was I was uh I was a Shepherd for my father in a city limits first time in my life that I ever noticed something like this he says I went to draw water I Saw My Reflection for the very first time these were boys I are the type of jokes that get me into a lot of trouble especially in Manchester and in gateshead and then what's the other place that 10 people drop off every one of these jokes 10 people leave Stanford Hill but I have no control and I have no filter and I'm going to say it anyway and you don't like it don't laugh and send me email afterwards but I have to say it because I don't filter I'm sorry I apologize it was a couple that they're in Switzerland and the wife tells her husband she says wow she looks out she's look look out the window you see that unbelievable sheep it's Mommy he says so they kiss it's not a sheep it's a cow and it's not a window it's a mirror you're an American you're the one that got it thank you yeah yeah okay all the way all the wives that heard it and there's not your volume what was that I just said on matisy Shabbos forgot what I said about the Shabbos I said something about the Shabbos and Mindy orbach's wife was passing by and she did not like it it was one of these oh I said a joke about um and now she's gonna kill me for saying okay whatever but I said a joke about how the the father they gave him a big Mazel Tov that he had he had a daughter and he was like mom is so excited he had a daughter because he didn't want to have a son that should go through the tire that he just had waiting for his wife to give birth he elected Sarah of the husband was more than the wife and she did not apprec women don't take those jokes even if it's a joke they don't want to have anything to do with that that's not your volume so I'm hoping that they're not listening all right Minister carti babushi but on a more serious note reviews are sad he wants they they had a whole debate who should go to the king who should speak to the king and then everybody's saying real Assad said that that guy right that person right over there that's a hiroshimaim that's a Malachi Kim he said that person they said That's you you're looking in the mirror I don't know what happened after that but I yeah I think he went to speak to the king but he didn't know what he looked like he never saw himself in the mirror so says again so the shepherd is telling I looked at my reflection jumped at me and it went really quick he wanted to take me out of this world says the round you can look at the run where it becomes white over there ubikisht Jordan by a person going after his eyes going after your eyes could take you out of this world it's going to remove me from this world going after my eyes that's what he wanted to do says The Shepherd of shimen it Sadiq will begin I had a conversation with David Sahara with the with the ater Russia you're a big Russia law matam is a big deal you think you're you're trying to to be haughty on on us people big deal you got a human being to to sin the Mishu also is remember we what are we we're nothing we're going to be in the in the cave area we're going to be worms and he says I'm gonna shave off my hair it was a my my wife's cousin and all of a sudden I couldn't believe it all of a sudden he has here like till his shoulder like I didn't want to say anything to him it's like you know it's not I thought they came out he's like a normal guy suddenly uh mama still shows and longer longer every single I go to it's like and then one day I caught just recently regular like a buzz cut so I went over and I said what happened ah I'm donating my hair to a cancer patient there's a girl that has cancer and no one has a match I have a funny color here I decided to grow my hair now in our circles it's not so acceptable or whatever but the a lot of people out there that's what he said I would say yeah I was shocked because I I thought that something happened at the moments I thought he is he's telling me no it was amazing I think it's in Seltzer's book a girl came home and she wanted to shave her head and her mother said absolutely not and she wouldn't explain why I've shaved my head shave my head shave my head and I think she actually shaved her head and they found out that there's a girl in her class that has the makla and lost her hair and the girl was embarrassed so in order to be magazine that girl she shaved her head it's unbelievable my son foreign so he says I'm gonna I'm gonna shave my head right now so that I don't have a Yates or horror and nothing so everybody said this also I think is a tremendous Musa Haskell this story is is unbelievable that's what I mentioned somebody over there asked me in that section over there about the Daffy and everything and I think if a person and there's some of you here tonight that might not be learning the deaf or maybe fell off the bandwagon in your vomis or somewhere else and you have inspiration a lot of times in life you have inspiration to do something the idea and the trick is you jump in immediately immediately you jump in that test whatever that is you jump and you do it just like this static Destroyer he said I'm not gonna wait until I have any issues I'm shaving off my head right now right now I'm just taking it all off and show me his role you grab a gamar out there you join the daf and then you you become a changed person big big monster something Mario um immediately I stood up I stood up went over to him and kissed him on his head beneath noise it's usually not a good thing but if you're doing it you're doing it with the right intent and once again we see this you saw it over and over Yiddish kite is in the head the same person could cut his hair because whatever or grow is here because he's in the sugar because he wants to fit into a certain Society or there's another guy that's doing the same time there's another guy that's doing it for a cancer patient whatever but it's all an intent the same guy with the same long hair if his mind is over here he gets tremendous scar if his mind is over there it's awesome and he gave him a kiss on the head unbelievable and from him from him ate his carbon when he became Tommy the rambam says in paragud gimmel he says that if a person makes a nether to change his ways his massim let's say he says a muscle he freses he's a professor when it comes to meat he's a meat fresher and he makes a nether he's not going to eat meat it's the changes me dice that is he says and that that's good that's very good Tim is me this is yeah that's what the positive talks about The person talks about people like you muscular of money Ruby money the money says my snow ashram Nazir Tommy delay when another became Tommy and he had to bring your awesome he wouldn't even see there by the way you shouldn't point out there's no difference he wouldn't eat from both but what's beautiful about the awesome the reason why he calls it ashram is because ashram is exclusive to another that becomes Tommy another doesn't become Tommy another who finishes out is 30 days doesn't bring awesome brings Usher awesome so when he says ashram it's referring to another that becomes Tommy says tomorrow forget about another any person so even a Vero he shouldn't eat from the ashram and we know Kiana meet from ashamas but that's not what she means said he said I don't eat from the NASA you know who's ready Brianna happens to be rebimani's father now we've seen a different game of Tinus that's Tinus room when something goes wrong when they want to they make naziruses because the problem is a person says you know what I'll be another big deal 30 days 30 days and day 29 he goes to lavalia and he starts all over again and then 28 Days Later he goes to another levia and this and that the kids are he forgets he walks into the hospital or something all of a sudden two years into it he has hair up to here and that's harata that is you hear what's going on it's unbelievable he has to bring a cardboard but because he has karate from the Mitzvah it's as if it's not mamesh it's not a that's really pushing it because he's hyped to bring a carbon but we consider it like azzaro it's like not even a carbon why because imagine a guy goes I don't know somebody learned to for an hour and he goes it was so so hard I wish I didn't do it that's it you lose the Mitzvah you know I mean you could do a Mitzvah and then erase it don't erase it don't have harassment yeah he did be proud of it over here a person is has karate from being another his his carbon is almost like culin Nami so then why are you picking on another who became Tommy every nother in the world doesn't really mean it says for 30 days he could last it's when it becomes more than 30 days says that's when he starts having haroto raboysai have a wonderful day