Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 86 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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to have far up according to Baltimore somebody asked me why I write review like that and I should rub your whole email because it doesn't fit in the line if you see a regular effect okay anyway yeah very cautious people have a lot of time fine there's a reason I wish I could write the whole name both of them are old you have to do how far up yeah but there's two reasons why according to rekiva because of the hadapha because of the extra that she earns above and beyond the five slide that she's supposed to produce for her husband the deal that they have between them and of course Nuri it's because perhaps right now it's okay but what about in the future if he divorces her then the nether will be Hal and then if you want to remarry her he'll be stuck you won't be able to remarry her because he won't be able to do all these things for him and how can you be married to a woman who can't do all those things for you well the Gamora says but isn't that a double that's in the future himself who passes like Nuri like the Red Box Leclair says I personally because you could be marked this is carbon hagdish himself okay here we are says the gemara five lines six lines from the bottom of Base hello let's explain our mishnah the reason why this woman could make a nether against her husband even though it's something in the future she's getting divorced in the future no it's not the future it's something that's here right now what's here right now her hands what she's doing is by marriage my hands that exist today they should become Kurdish hegdish for anything that they produce new Bible her hands are here so she's not making a Nether and something that doesn't exist she's making another on the part of her body that exists today not the produce but the hands that are producing does that works it's a very interesting thing I could ask you a question here you know what the answer is because I'm asking the question what's worse if a woman who is mature with their husband right now her mycio dying should go to her husband her hands are messed with her husband is that worse or better than a case where a guy's not Jewish it's not even Jewish and he says I'm going to be my Cottage you here take this 10 bill I want to be my Cottage you because in six months from now I'm gonna become Jewish what's worse would say the case with the non-jew he had he doesn't have the right to be my Cottage today this woman okay her hands are not hers the round says no Iran says that this woman is worse off why because by the by the non-jew he's saying when I'm able to you're right today I can't but when I'm able to one day in the future when I become Jewish and I'll have the right to be Michael is you I want to be because you then then but right now this woman wants to be Michael this sure might see a dime today and today she doesn't have the right over her hands because it's Michelle to her husband I thought it's a tremendous that a guy has the right to Mechanical woman in the future because he's saying that should be high on the future whereas the wife doesn't have the right to say it because she wants to be held today she doesn't want to be how when she gets divorced she's saying my hands today should become hegdish and that she can't do because she doesn't own an Astley tomorrow what is it going to become it's going to start and be how in six months from now yeah so nothing now nothing now he's just talking now doesn't it exactly now he's saying that later on I mean he doesn't exist okay I hear you I hear you child when we get there but it's just interesting idea you're saying it's it's he's asking is it it's uh he doesn't have to say hurry up because that's just in six months no the words that he says now are gonna happen then [Applause] of course no you could be magazine you're right but right now even the okay so the more is asking let me let me go back no I jumped maybe we're saying even according to Amanda when it says that you could be magazine you could but over here you can't she doesn't own it it's not her hands by God he could because he will then be a owner over himself and he wants to he wants it to happen then but over here she doesn't have the right to even according to my number it doesn't work over here because she wants to do something that doesn't it's not in her resource sure tomorrow says the gemara very good she doesn't want it to happen now she wants to be like the guy the armor of Kimmy garisha I want it to be how in 10 years from now in six months from now just like by the guy he wants his condition to be found six months she also wants says the gemara so what did you gain over here what are you saying you're saying it's a double oil we asked the question she said no I'm using my hands my hands are body long but but you're not using your hands today you're using the hands they're gonna be in six months from now but that is not bull oil so you didn't gain anything but your whole Terrace if I'm using my hands if I'm talking about my hands today and I could do it today then you're right it's boil them right now but if you're telling me that it's not boiling right now it's in six months from now the only thing I gained by saying might see that my hand should be called because my hands are available today right now we're not saying that you're you're using it today because you can't use it today LMI using it when she gets divorced today she can't use it because they're not hers they're husbands so you say okay yeah but in six months from now she's gonna acquire her hands so knockables according to that my number it doesn't work you can't be my kind of magnitude no you're having a um together that's another Castle the round talks about that okay so um right now it's still double if you go to super stuff notes I went there and I listened to my share uh I want to see it maybe I can still maybe I could steal some bartum over there I had a different energy at night it's different I don't know I was like yeah it's like different but anyway check it out um I realized I did some charts there that I didn't show the element yesterday here I'll show you the charts I I wasn't actually even planning on showing them I put them all the way at the end of the slide here it's you and Navi you wouldn't know because this is as much as Shabbos Reuben could answer I'm serious maybe Abby was there ruin Gasser his pay raise on somebody else or himself on somebody else's payrolls but how do you answer somebody else's payrolls on somebody else not bad I should I could have used it yesterday back here it's literally as I mentioned yesterday this is a daf that is a word for word just taken right out of subas or because it was taken out of here but it's word um if a person says you see this field I own it right now I own it today I have the right right now to be recognition I could I could give it over to the base of English but you know what I'm going to sell it to you and then what I'm going to do is I'm gonna buy it back from you it's interesting right now I own it step one step two is you own it I'm gonna sell it to you step three is I'm gonna own it again in that case when I repurchase it from you talk this I wanted to become me like Katja oh that's similar to our gamar over here why because at the end of the day right now I have the power to be mark this so even though in between it goes missing for a little bit I don't own it at all I could be magnitude right now because eventually I will per I will acquire right now I own it in a year from now I own it and in the middle I I'm not gonna own it so right now I have the right to be Magnus and that's what's going on over here with his wife she owned her hands now she doesn't own her hands later on she's gonna own her hands she can be magnesium oh massive there's no comparison right now he owns it 100 the field and since he could be Maxi right now he has the power to be marketed for later also he's talking today about a future time but but right now he has the ability so okay so since he has the ability we give him the ability to do it later she might see Adele so this the round says goes according to Manuel and says they could you could be magazines so let me just go back here for a second so the way Duran understands the longness here is one thing you might understand to begin with like what was the havamina what's the havamina she doesn't own her hands right now at all that guy owns the field right now so it's a completely different so the man says each one has a Myla and a hussard so I'll take the the plus of this one opposite the plus of the other one each one has a a pro and a con so I'll take the two pros and I'll say okay look this one has a pro this one has a pro let her be mocked your hands in the future now what the Hassan is by the field he's going to be missing a big chunk of the field it's not going to be his at all for that chunk of time for that year in between when he owns it now and when he repurchase it he's not going to own it at all zero that's a big big con it's a it's a negative the the the woman on the other hand she never loses her hands completely The Shepherd of their hands it's not like a field where you lose possession completely is a big negative the woman on the other hand she also has a negative her hand is mishubad to her husband from beginning 10. but on the flip side says Iran each one has a special um positive the field as we said he owns it right now and the hands nobody owns a woman's hands you could own the Sheba the produce that comes off the hand but the actual hand she always owns so mamela we'll put the two greens against each other the two pros and say they're equal and because a guy that owns a field now has the right to be Magnus the field now even though he's gonna sell it but he's gonna own it later so a woman should be able to he marked as your hands even though her husband has a Sheba today but she has another Pro called her hands or hers as the gamara but wait a minute maybe the pro is so strong and that's the main Pro that's the main thing the the point is that you you have the ability to be practiced today if a woman doesn't have the ability to market today because she doesn't own she it's me with her husband so she loses everything Pro against Pro doesn't make any sense that's a that's the round goes into the nitty-gritty a little bit of the londis how it works I told you the Rand does this a lot in my opinion I think more than a typical Rashi like he tries to go into like what what the Savar is what was he what was this my number thinking and what did he answer foreign is very similar to something else like for instance I'm just thinking now out loud when I was listening to yesterday's sharing two speed on subas I didn't mention this round because there's no round it was Rashi so I don't think Rashi mentioned this spot over there let's just point it out so this is very similar when a person says I don't know what the feel right now I don't own it so this my law that you're saying this big Milo that right now he owns the field and that's why he has the right to be magnitude today even though tomorrow is going to lose possession that my law is lost in this case why he already sold the field so he goes over to a random person not a random person the buyer of his house and he says listen you bought my house last year by the way I plan on buying it back and when I buy it back I want to be magnificent okay so that's very similar to now this woman also she doesn't own her hands she doesn't own the mighty dime when she acquires it back when she gets divorced then she wants any magnitude and holy Dominos it doesn't work so her papa says listen I understand your question just I don't believe that your muscle is a good muscle this muscle that you're telling me is not good why me dummy Gabby is vino Sigma when it comes to selling a field it's gone gone gone you have zero left you have no connection to the field so you cannot walk over to somebody that you sold your house to and say oh by the way I used to own the house so now that I sold it to you if I ever buy it back from you I'm going to make it hack this but right now you have no connection to no ciphers zero not not even one percent but whereas a woman she has a lot of hands they're her hands so maybe she has more power to be mocked there's things that come off her hands might as well they're her head holy dummy you want a good muscle let me give you a good muscle try number four we're finally we're gonna get it at 10. you see this field I gave it to you as I'm asking so the way you used to work back then I don't think they do it anymore but the way it used to be is if somebody borrows money and he doesn't have what to pay back so he gives a field and the field produces so he tells the guy take all the produce take it I owe you ten thousand dollars keep on going take take when you reach a ten thousand dollar level give me back my field I don't owe you any money it's it's not a masculine like you you might you probably read I was masking that's one type of matter it doesn't really matter if it's okay but okay the point you start knocking down the debt is we like gotcha now what's what's going on here because who owns the field who owns the field the owner he owns the field he gave you he gave the lender the field to take back some of the but who's the real owner the owner the the owner of the field is the real owner the original owner but the husband and the malva all they get is they don't get the field they get the produce so he should be able to take the actual field say that the actual field is headnish the Liva who who gave the field away as a mashkin has all the rights over the field it says if you go to court you're able to bet he's just upset he didn't come up with that idea he's doing he's doing satellites so he's also huge right there this is going to be bigger unless you start giving bikes and scooters you got to step it up Betty step it up thank you anything me holy time I just saw a beautiful lotion in in the in the ran in the famous lotion but he says anything that's in your ability to do then it's as if you you're you did it you're able to do it if you're able to do it you're not able to do it she's not able to do anything so that's it she's messed up but the and I'm a she the husband the the the the malva you can't do it the life of haircut sorry midam the mouth I'm sorry yeah well I did this with Iran says yeah I jumped it midami Sada it's here in the world is could the woman decide she wants to get divorced so over here this way around says that's why I put my note thank you take the note away foreign oh since it's in the future I can't I can't be pregnant for 10 years let's just shot him like a chef since he has to wait 10 years so it's not boiler this is a very interesting Round Here why don't we say that every woman has the right to say yes everyone could say any designers of any Isa right now it is the other she could stop the whole Sheba what were you saying the husband has all the rights on her hands on hermites you die and that has to wait until she gets divorced and she says she doesn't have the right to get divorced she doesn't decide if she gets divorced wait a minute she does have the right she has the right to say right now to her husband make a little meeting from today on all my might see a diamond are mine why because I earn more than you and I'm not interested to do that trade I don't need your messiness and I want my mice to die so it is beyond though it's beyond the step right now just like this guy is be able to to stop the mess you die points out the run but there's other things that she can't stop she still has to cook clean all the things the seven things in the mishnah that she doesn't have the right to stop it's one of her obligations in marriage when she got married she said she's going to do this stuff so right but not in other things kids over there you could redeem the field so you don't know when she's gonna get divorced that's possible for his entire family and everyone learning the death of Maine in Las Vegas for the members of the HBA group and their families ELO moravashi um oh hello maravashi so going back what are we talking about we're talking about that a woman said that her hands are going to be cutish IM and we said the hands are balam but at the end of the day but they're not Bali alone because the husband owns them homes the shebot this is Maria I'll tell you what the shot is even though they're her hands right but her husband guess what the woman has a right to undo this shibud by saying one word by saying hagdish why because any one of us who gives overshiba to somebody else and says my field is meshipa to you my slave is you owe somebody money and he's scared that you're not gonna pay him back so you say look you see the slave he's mishuba to you I obligate myself that if I don't pay you you're going to take the slave five days later you say my slave is hegdish that's it you ruined it you made it goof it's it's called I can't use the slave nobody's not you can't either use a slave I have the right to make my slave kudlish so if I have the right to make my slave cut she has the right to make her my her hands kuddish she has an obligation to her husband obligation flies out the window once she says College it's different saying Kardash it's not she can't give it to anybody else you can't let somebody else take the mice to die but once she says the words like she's using over here kind of special she used the lotion of a carbon not Sama carbon not a Goodman a lighter type of condition that you could redeem this is a good army it's like literally making your hands cut this like a carbon like okay we're talking about meaning don't worry about the loan I borrowed from you take it from right here you take it from right here and I make it hegdish or it becomes comments automatically because pesos came around so you tell a guy you see you see this whole room over here of chocolate cake it's in my house yeah all that is yours if I don't pay you back the guy says okay then comes pesach now it's coming over I can't benefit from it and neither could you the guy can't either that's it so now the guy has to go and find something else to take from him but not from the chocolate cake and if I take I'm sorry I messed up before I said that he made the Avid College he let David out he let David out he he he freed him chemical Avid College he freed the slave so I owe you a thousand dollars take my slave in South Africa whatever for the slave and then he frees the slave he goes Fife in so now he has to start over the same thing with the woman he has what I saw the money and I sorry I don't know people over there they have different things going on yeah I wasn't somebody I said this already I'll say it again I was in a guy's house the guy very guy hush of a guy in the sheer who's actually sponsoring a beautiful gift for the Islam at the at both CM I'm here and in in uh Florida mom is a beautiful gift it's a book you're gonna love it it's a lot of money so in his house I went I used Citizen's house I went to plug the thing and he says he's framed the guy's name and he made him plug it in like I know nope not that's not how it works in South Africa he plugs it in okay like the Union in New York you can't plug it in it's 300 for the guy to plug it in now I got where they got it from it's just pain New York they pay for it over there they pay once a year what's the difference it's still pain okay a beautiful child of rubber Falls from 11 that's the silence again another thing from chassis and then he asked all the guys what sugiya is brought down in chat six times discusses pesach it's not even um and they all knew the answer this is not look in the side I didn't but I trust him it's not there is that you really have to know shots you have to be holding tests of cash like that oh so the point is whoever the real owner is he's the guy that makes the the the the the guy that then put that point he's the one that could get rid of it make it hectish and therefore this woman also yeah okay lumily your Channel what's all the guitar says it says Rebecca says Rebecca manuri sorry what is that you have to break yeah let's go back reverse you have to make our foreign because you might divorce her not true she might today say that her hands are hagdish Emma Mela they become haddish she's able to undo the Sheba that she has her husband just by saying the word when is he doing it today you'll have to wait 10 years until you get divorced this is the gamara to me you have to re it's it's a new thing first of all step one is today she has the right to undo her Mighty dime and give it to the base amigdash and therefore you better be made for right away because don't think that you have full control over her hands she could make it hegdish and then you're gonna be in a big problem do how far right now second of all even if she doesn't have the right let's say she doesn't have the right you still should do a father right now why because he might get divorced and you won't be able to remarry her so the rat asked a question and we should really see it inside if we have time he says if the husband has so much power that she cannot make it egg dish according to this turrets right what is he saying saying but aren't that sad that she doesn't have the right to make it egg dish you should know you should be made for anyways because he might divorce her but on that side that you can't that she can't make it egg dish so when he divorces her it's delicious you didn't get anything the whole question was we're talking about and he said oh it's that level because when he divorce it might see you dying she said you're dying but at the end of the day you got to see the round inside for this I can't even say this answer you have to see inside it's like two lines before it gets super wide right now he didn't divorce her divorce has happened in the future the future is says at the end of the day you could she could make her hands like this listen to this line but when she becomes divorced then it goes backwards because then it should have happened retroactively so the ritual says a little bit of a interesting loss in it to be Master a little bit not the masmodern he says it by himself but I I thought the solution is cool he says the famous lotion of Arya ravioli there's a lion sitting there when she made the hector so it wasn't allowed we didn't allow it to be Hal once you remove the lion the marriage then retroactively it goes and it's how so you stop right over here let me just see for a second it's a very easy mishna [Music] okay we'll stop right here raboysai have a wonderful day [Music]