Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 83 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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about seltzer we we have some uh so some of the people sent in you're gonna love this one it's not he's gonna make fun of it from a Yoko Marino from our kylo you know you snooze you lose he says the the slogan should be you schmoozy loose schmooz you lose all right oh he agrees and he's on now what you have to the best thing will be if you brought a slogan and we're gonna do your slogan for cadders no no goddess awareness nothing to do with callus what he just said I don't know nothing though no but you schmooze during cabbage I agree yeah okay now I have a child for the oil on before we go fighter if a person thinks that they're another they think they're another she thinks she's another this one I think she's another and she goes ahead and she but Africa drinks wine because she's in azir but turns out she's not a zero is she over in Avera no yes no no yes huh it's unfortunately in the dream yeah if a person thought they're eating Hazard but it turns out to be kosher you're over and out over at the time you're you did something against we'll see in a second um so that's some of what we're going to be learning today and today is the 12th birthday of Oscar Jake uh who comes every single day Simon Jacobs I know that's as far as father Simon Jacobs is the famous the grandfather famous Simon the coil is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood and also sponsored by a supporting Tire strength and I will be talking I believe we'll have more sponsors today for the for the kylo than for today's daf happy 70th birthday to Dr Alan Rabinowitz from Canada many more years of gizunda nachas until 120 and the Art of the month is sponsored for complete Revolution a voice I we're middle of a beautiful magois yesterday if a woman makes a nether and she says she's not gonna eat two types of bread one let's say donuts and one sour oh well not sour sourdough smack whole wheat whatever you don't like spelled multi-grained white bread uh you know what I don't personally if you live in New York you know guys exactly the bread with those seeds what are they called okay a lot of people don't like it obviously they sell it for a reason in New York what no ride with the seeds with the seeds delicious they put it in that machine the bread gets cut then she takes the string off the the ceiling and she goes like this and then black you remember that you don't remember okay fine fighter she made it to the door one other she's not gonna eat donuts one other she's not gonna eat rye with the seeds the donuts is a tremendous eating that fish the other one is a tremendous broccoli for her because if the husband is made for her Nether and he says she could eat as many donuts as she wants does that also include the rye bread do we say guara you drag in all the nadaram Rebecca says no you could whatever she was able to do the round explained some people said they liked the fact that I read the Run other people said it was 100 miles an hour they understand the word they'll say no it was great that you said it is I did it we had four minutes left what do you think you thought it was great okay good I didn't ask you this but good I know you're gonna like it others the the the ones that the slower readers slower understanding didn't like it slow down yeah so alcohol Duran said yesterday that the point of rebuilding is that yes you have to say you have to be made for the entire nether but the guy the guy was made for everything he was able to do as much as he could do he he was made for the Inuit part and that's what he did okay a space now we have Akasha from a mishnah that you cannot you could only be made for half what really ah oh wow if I didn't say it I have to say Vegan Army you think I remember what it's going about I don't know bigger than me but realizing on some say it's none of a cloakers and they're Rebecca it was just it was a question that's directly through mistake your car eyes of a woman made another that she's not going to eat two types of bread or one of them she has a lot of you know a lot of Affliction and pain one of them is not a proud Mao or Malaysian said Mayfield he only has the right to be Mayfair on the union fish part and not on the other one um you have a woman who made an ad there she's gonna be in a zero mamish in what nine days nine ten days we're gonna be another Shem a lot of times the gemara does this gives us a little bit of a taste of the next here we go how would you draw on a zero a quotient a zero here this is Yoshi's depiction of an aziro [Laughter] you know I'm stuck here okay fine now she was Metallica Mason he did a little bone in her pocketbook and a couple of grapes she was in a zero but she was over in the zeros well remember that laugh forever yeah all right so I say Ferguson sarban she gets malcus I could have brought my Marcus thing The larva got me fine she gets markets she gets 39 monkeys hey for lobalo let's say her husband goes he finds out that she's in a zero you have to understand that in those days we've somewhere explain to us many times they didn't have filtration they didn't have chlorine they didn't have all that stuff it was very difficult to drink water you drink water who knows what kind of disease you could get so they would mix the dilute the wine with some water and then the the alcohol from the wine would would overcome all the problems in the water but they would drink the wine all the all the time right 99 of the time they're drinking wine if you it's not it wasn't a luxury that you drink on Chavez wine this is a normal beverage why if you can't drink wine it's it's a bit it's a big problem so he finds out about this in zeros and he says she's not in a zero hey Phillip she had no idea for law that he did this hafara you know Tamil amazing so this is actually a fascinating halacha we're not going to talk about it now so much it's a it's in that whole so give a person thinks that they're eating strafe and they don't care and they find out you know what it wasn't true if it was actually closer it's an Aveda it's a bigger area you don't get malkus but it's an aveiro because at the time that you ate it you were being over at various you were you're being hooked with the clashem so to speak Hashem says don't eat Trev you say I don't care about Hashem I'm gonna eat it anyway you're right it wasn't enough there but at the end of the day think about what you did here the point is this woman does not get malcus monkeys you don't get a various shoes over she thought she's drinking wine the Issa and she didn't care about the Allah she's going to be over on something there's a key over there okay the bottom line is Anderson phases our volume this is over here not that she gets malcus if she knew but that she doesn't get malcus if she didn't know the problem is according to Robert economy Iris Mayfield and Miss Anna Ben Mayfield Miss Anna if you could take everything she made another against so when you make a nether when you're another you're making nether they're not gonna have anything to do with wine you're not going to cut your hair but wine also includes are the seeds of the grapes zaga the peels of the grapes but that obviously is not something that's no pain I can't eat heartsano the many people that they get through life without eating the grape seeds so the husband has no reason to be made for that according to everybody you have to make a distinction between what's painful and what's not painful only the things that are painful Fly Away wine is painful she could drink wine for the rest of her life is not a problem not to eat it so that that remains you have two pieces of bread you have a donut and rye the husbands are fire goes on the donuts doesn't go on the right the husbands have fire goes on the wine doesn't go on the seeds what's the according maybe says the Run we have to take out the word maybe it's not maybe according he has no right to be Mayfair the rye bread he has no right to be made for the cartoon and the zag is that Dilma it's not he maybe he didn't feel like it it's not a maybe he didn't feel like it he has no right to feel like that is even if the husband says the round got up and said before us I am May fear all the seeds and all the peels of the grapes that fire doesn't work because this is how far only works on something that gives his wife and that's only why and not for the class okay so take out the word Dilma it's not a big deal fine the point is according to you there should be a distinction here and she should be over and she should get markers for eating Hard Sun and zag though Isla Tara but this book is harborne now a good point here is we have to point out who told you that she's not look inside what does it says she did two things as Yoshi showed she's eating grapes and she's she's holding a bone of a dead guy because the same thing about a cartoon and a zag maybe Hartson and zag she's Hive it always says that she is if she drink wine she's not high so the round says no Iran say is a little different he says that if it was the case that she's really not high for eating I should say me first that's a huge Kiddush even if the husband went along and he made a half father and he said I don't worry about anything you still Hive that's a big killer it's a little different than a copper climber than what you said the point is that it should have said him before us say before us um no there's no such thing the when it comes to the zeros you can't split hairs it's all or nothing and if I'm gonna get rid of wine and and everything else I have to get rid of the cartoon and the zag no and what about the Durham so so that if you look at tices over here and he says it's like um I don't know 15 20 lines down maybe less this is not so and he says all the way on the left if you have touches on the left it says steak race he sticks in a word here that that the two it's different than the case of when she makes a Nether on two loaves of bread because that's like two separate Durham whereas nazirus is one in the zeros and you can't split hairs in one thing if if the husband is able to be made for the wine automatically the zag and the hearts and everything else Falls away as well he's like I don't I don't like what you're saying why you didn't say it well you're telling me there's no one is a talmud I'll be madike he's known as but maybe there is in other words what he's saying is rebby you should have said a little bit better and strong you should have said there's no half in anything not in the carbon out of the zeros why you know if a typical and seriousness is for how long a person says I don't wanna I wanna be in a zero slow jam so let's say after 15 days the husband finds out about it he sees every meal again she's not drinking he also he hops doesn't zeros he's made for right away so according huh yeah okay you're not gonna go there now though I was gonna say what did he say now that I'm repeating it that I can't repeat certain things okay but so they noticed that that their hair is not a fight sock upon him maybe she should bring a carbon for the 15 days right because here goes let me just show you this for a second there's two sets of carbonas when it comes to the zeros when another is finished his 30 days or is 20 years or whatever length it is he brings Three core bonnets just to show you just to make it more interesting there's a picture I got from called Sean and Yuma here's the nozzer they shave his head they take the hair and they put it underneath the pot you see the parole in the back the pot that pot is cooking the schlum carbon and you take the hair that's part of the process and you burn it underneath the slum interesting Allah but there's three Cabanas that's if everything goes well and this is over as the gemara what happens if this woman did 15 days out of the 30 that's a half according to you it's mashma that she would have to bring a car these three core bonus why because the way of Joseph said it is there's no half in the zeros meaning it includes but that there is a half a carbon not that you bring a half an animal they bring an animal for half the the amount of time foreign fine there's no only zeros for there's no happiness there's another Carbone this reminded me as a public service announcement we're talking about a and the zeros look outside the Mitzvah you wouldn't believe this if a person puts on filling and its fill-in goes a little bit onto his forehead just a little bit past the roots of his hair on his forehead he made a broccoli mom's brother some people like you see people sometimes I saw in the airport like a guy from who knows where his film were like a karate that's already literally to his nose but I'm saying like you have to be Mac bit if it's a little bit over here I don't I don't like running around telling people ah but it's better to put it higher up like further back than further up front if it's a little bit past the roots of the hair broccoli you are going to hey you have to put it over here [Music] oh and that's that's another stuff that I want to say that it has when it comes to human and he's saying it about nazare but just in general hey when you learn something is Nazir I don't care how interesting the receptors because saita is super super smart I gotta tell you this but you got to go all this then every receptive you have to go to them you have to finish you finish that you make a seam then you did it um fine it is check this out so now we have look at these carbonus look at them nice and long now there's another there's another thing going on there oh okay that's in a second when a woman or another another becomes tummy thus becomes Tommy so he also has to bring three Cabanas but completely different carbonus he brings one animal called an awesome and then he brings two birds an oil and an if ATO sorry so and then the count starts all over again so let's say she did 15 days she has to do from that point on another 30 days or he doesn't matter man or a woman but listen what happened over over here you have a woman who made another she she became in a zero and then she became Tommy she touched the dead person she went to levia she became tomato and then she was my first these three core bonus she said listen I'm in a zero who's Tamaya I have to bring three go about so she did what she had to do and after that her husband found out that she's in a zero so he was made for it so does she still have to bring this car bonus or not because when he's May 1st from that point on but you only bring carbonus I think it's a very interesting style you only bring core bonus if you're gonna complete unit zeros if you're a regular NASA your regular zero goes from day one to day 30 in this case from day one to day 45 because the first 15 days are nothing because she became tomato she has to start over but her husband just found out about it so husbands Mayfair from this point onwards right we've said that pharah is from here further not backwards but she was a real nazira when she became Tamaya and maybe for that she has to bring a carbon look at this chart she only brings one out of the three she brings the khatasa if and not the awesome zeros and if we just established there's no carbon for half of the days if so why does she bring one out of the three she shouldn't bring any hello my what says the gamara you do have to bring core bonus on half of the days huh then then it's completely not good Vellum yes nothing Martin says three animals these are not animals these are birds and they're more explains what's three animals when do you bring it when you finish your regular zeros in other words the gamar is jumping here for a second away from our case and saying a carbon on half of the days she was only in a zero for 15 days and she got she messed up she's mayor she should bring some of the carbonas of Toma with that logic if she was on a zero for 15 days and her husband cut it off then she should bring all three of the animals as if she finished in the zeros because at that point she finished in her zeros you hear yeah it's interesting because I think he says it over here the the the round just uses the lotion not to confuse anybody but we all remember Megan's Gaia and yo he told me make this guy is hamburger the whole thing the the ran uses the Lord should make his Gaius and he actually brings the gamar over there as many guys but in a different context he's saying the biggest guys would be that you cut the hamburger and what's left is the 15 days that she has to still be in azir and she can't what's eaten is the 15 days that she was already in a zero says the round it's as if I'm cutting the hamburger in half and she should bring a carbon for everything she ate she ate a half a hamburger slender bring corbones on the half a hamburger on the half that she had it's a different music of makers guys than we know before because guys that we have before is got rid of 50 and then 50 is left over is using it as the reason why I have to record banners the havamina is because she she actually was a a true to zero and and that pharah only goes from this point on but the 15 days that she was in a zero she was a real zero he didn't retroactively remove those 15 days like I Tara it's only a half hour for those 15 days you should bring a cardboard thank you says tomorrow hello [Music] of course you don't bring her bonus not on if you become Tommy in the middle of unit zeros of course you bring a carbon of your tummy Millions years every person that becomes Tommy middle and Zeus brings but if it's a wife that from here on out she's not gonna be in the zero anymore so you don't bring her bonus on the little tumor that you got on the first part because you're not a real zero and of course if a wife if the husband tells the wife from here on out from day 15 to 9 you're not in a zero of course she doesn't bring the Three core bonus pain zeros and Corbin consonant zeros so why is it they go back to that chart for a second why is it over here okay where was it here why is that she brings the khata safe the haters what does that mean we see in other places in the tire that you could bring your hatos on a Suffolk where they had a safe not by regulars there's always an issue of bringing a carbon music why because the school and bars are very good you can't bring I can't bring it that's awesome this isn't the right so for me to bring a car only if I know for sure there's one exception to the rule if a woman gives birth and she wasn't sure if she gave birth the stillborn wasn't sure exactly what it is we allowed to bring it safe so since we allow her to bring it so we'll allow her to bring here that same khattasai for the Suffic of of zeros like Verna zeros the problem is here's going on here since by uh your lettuce I could I could bring hot sauce so two by a nazira that her husband stopped in the middle let her bring a kata's wife you don't bring a carbon on nothing it's ear what did she do she wasn't she was she's not in a zero she's only zero for 15 days she wasn't a zero full time so why should she bring a Karma you know who addresses it all there is shining here besides the Run places the rush and Rashi all say the same exact thing that what that it goes according to but Allah copper if you want to see it's like I know six seven lines down from the bottom of tysus he says he was a copper a person who becomes another is a sinner he has to bring a carbon anyways so she from the fact that she became in a zero she needs a little bit of a caparov so we allow it to bring the katasaif aslay whoa no because first you have to explain that part they agreed to the run you have to explain that part that it comes in a suffix and because it comes in an esophage we allow it to come over here also again if she's a heighter she does not bring a katasaif on her head it's not a full-fledged hat it doesn't say in the Torah they can't be in a zero for 15 days it's one of these there are bonans you don't bring you know what I'm saying you don't bring a ghatas on that kind of hat so first I have to explain to you that you can bring your katos in a suffix situation you can bring it over here also in a very weak situation but what did she do I explain to you what she did she did a little bit but at the main point is to explain why I could bring it the cloud says that if a woman makes a nether she's not gonna eat donuts she's not gonna eat rye bread on the donuts the husband is Mayfair because it's Eloy on the rye bread nuts a woman who made who became in a zero and then she became Tommy and then her husband annulled it she brings the arm is Cash is new deal is what what causes a woman to be bizarre again what's in the zeros zero says you cannot drink anything that has wine any wine product any great product as you say even its seeds its peel but also you can't touch a dead person and you can't cut your hair now what causes the woman pain and aggravation the wine everything has to do with grape almost everything causes her pain does the cause or a pain that she can't go to funerals she can't go to funerals anymore it's like uh I have the low five dollars when a guy is an oval you can't go to hasana you can go to his friends classes anymore it's like it's all it should be a heel for every animal to go to every song soccer in town fine on fifth floor on a on a late late Shabbos and you got up at two in the morning the day before fine that's uh yeah fine aquapon you know what I'm saying who wants to go to these levias so it's a relative yeah yeah relative yeah but sometimes it's it's the the okay fine so you found yourself at these Levites that you really don't want to go to you ask him you wanna you die you're dying to go to levia I should have gone to that Levi I didn't know about it yeah Ramen Mr Brown great guy okay so assistant so again so here's the question when when the husband was Mayfair he wasn't made for the stuff that she doesn't care about she doesn't care about funerals about going to base availability people responsible Greg hayberry for brother for his entire family for everyone learning the daf and also last level for the members of the HBA group and their families amen you should know that people have Tire when they can't go to funerals the here here's the pasok yeah let's see if I can get to it what oh boy this is tremendous says in my mermaid he talks about this and he says that it's a tremendous muscle for us to go you have to go once in a while because people think in their everybody thinks they live forever and that death doesn't have to do with them that's other people you have to go and and experience it and and feel it and remember why we're here etc etc like there's a somebody was nifter so they they were very close to this famous rashiva so they they Co-op there she said listen we need you to come to Levi and be Masters he says no problem so he comes to the Levi and he says he's a tremendous man [Music] and then somebody slips him a note ah and it's all because of his wife was just Nifty anyways these food used to delay these buddies wouldn't lay if you go and you give a good husband they'll give you a good husband you give his fat ass man you don't go Levi he's not mess with anybody you don't care so they're going to treat you the way you treated them so maybe if she's uh nazira and she doesn't go test pay them she doesn't she doesn't do expansion she doesn't know levias she's never been Acro she's concerned that that's what that's how people are going to treat her yeah you don't give people wedding gifts they don't give you wedding gifts you don't go to their environment since they don't go and you're about you don't go to the kid this you don't go to their kids all right Joseph [Music] yeah always go to people's funerals otherwise they'll they won't come to you always go yeah smash this okay Brunei she's very concerned if I don't help in the burial they won't help me they won't Bury Me Maybe I'll stay in the fridge the whole the phone was along fine now just uh we got to say this real quickly because the round points this out very very important thing when the Gamora asked the same exact question on the medalov by nazirus oh the husband made a uh how far it should only work on the grapes and the wine it shouldn't work on the heart of the zag what is it more answer in there and is there and there's no hats in the zeros doesn't say the same thing here how could he be made for only for wine and not for levias because zeros so Durant says one of the things he says here is because it's very interesting and we're going to see this halacha there's something called the zero shimshan if somebody says I want to be like meaning for another for the rest of his life over there he could go to funerals very interesting yeah for sure he can't drink wine but he go to funerals oh so it's disconnected they're separate and the mail of the husband could be made for this part it's not Katina zeros it's almost like its own category that's one thing he says the other thing he says is very important what if a woman says I'm making another she makes another I'll never go to somebody's funeral again we have to know if that's included or not the what we're learning here is that funerals are also considered a Inuit again Asylum a woman says I'll never go I'm making another I'm not at such a terrible time at the sugar house I'm never going to get the Chevelles could the husband be made for it or not is it considered inoy or not from here wants to teach it's considered because people are scared the entire life that people won't come to their Shiva they won't come to their funeral a woman says I have nothing to do with human beings all the brioys ER fascinating just yesterday we learned if if she says I'm not gonna have anything to do with one person that's already you know okay because that goes according to foreign I could be Mayfair I could be made for means akula he said the whole Paragould the entire parag all the way to the end of the receptor you realize realize the husband cannot be made for eign so just to show you this real quickly what's like a chicopeeo we say it all the time um we're starting to do drawings on it this is the beginning but it'll get a little better here's a field like it are two stalks of grain that fell he's holding they fell off his thing goes okay fine so I want it to look a little different I wanted to look at the the stocks are injured I didn't know exactly what he did there they fell they fell off his thing great next is if you forget a bundle or two behind and basically it's what is it oh it's a forgetful kind of guy the guy is forgetful with my glasses if he forgets as well forget fine that's true to forget forget a bundle and then you have payoff which is the corner of the field it's it's all you have to leave this in the corner the other two happened by mistake whatever this you have to leave every field a little corner it's called Paya and they have payus so remember to remember let it pay up fine now is because the tire says over here the current holidaysome you have to leave it leaving is not giving leaving is to walk away from it if you don't give then the person receiving didn't benefit from you if you gave somebody something they were they received something so even though she is also behanah from this guy she was neither from all human beings in the world she could take the lucky the sheikhl and the pale now are these two allahas connected to each other the gemara is going to say they are but we start off thinking that it's not it's two separate Allah first of all according it says now you should know that a woman who's very poor especially in this case where she can't benefit from anybody in the world foreign it's not hers or his to the side that they can't take from him it's their Matana it's their gift they could take forcefully however I don't want this particular family my neighbors the terrible I don't want them there's a type of no over here there's a certain benefit by me giving to a certain client they can't have that type of benefit says um delay it says in the beginning of the mishna there's a contradiction says because it says the husband can't be made for if she was not that enough for the entire world why because obviously she's not gonna die who's going to support her her husband but she says I'm not going to benefit from any human being isn't her husband a human being sometimes they're not such whatever in this case he's not a human being he's not in the in other words she didn't mean it she meant all people in the world besides obviously her dear husband who's gonna support her but on the flip side it says foreign it says she could go ahead and and grab stuff off the floor why because she's poor if she wasn't poor if her husband was supporting her fully and she had credit cards and everything she needed how in the world could she go take like a chicopeea that's reserved for poor people obviously she's very poor why is she very poor because her husband's not supporting her so which one is it is her husband included or not included it wasn't one of the world or not part of the world we'll we'll see it again tomorrow but let's try to do a little bit here today Oola and the third shot are saying the same are the same idea and the middle shot is the opposite now what loyalum she never included her husband in the entire world all eight billion people besides her husband however what the musicians tried to say it is a continuation that what first of all the husband is supporting her second of all the reason why he can't be made here because even if they are poor and he cannot support her he can't afford her you should know she she's not gonna die she still could have look at your copay Robert says the opposite the husband is like everybody else in the world and therefore she can't have enough from her husband and therefore what he should be able to be Mayfair she's stuck and she's stuck and she can't eat he should be able to another but the mishna says in my time calling my why can't he my time she has a way out now what about but okay real quickly the round says we're talking about in the summertime when there's a lot of pale around but in the other mishnah when she said I'm not going to have enough from one store and then we said the husband couldn't know it why because it's not like a chicken anywhere there's snow everywhere there's no there's no food she's gonna die so for that he gonna know that one might call it that she's not allowed to go to we'll do this tomorrow again basersu the the like the first shot the husband is not included in the nether so it's very interesting the husband is a lot of benefit his wife he's not another human being he's different than all the human beings but guess what once they get divorced now it becomes in the same category as everybody else it becomes a regular human being and she can't benefit from from him so she's gonna die from starvation and that it says this is have a wonderful day feelings