Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 8 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boy there's no need to do that over that was unbelievable those tops tops number one ever stronger than bellworks and there was two thousand people of bellworks I'm serious known asano unbelievable you have no idea how emotional I am to be in London beer with all the clever it's been a long time in the making the sheer just started close to four years ago and we had a small haburra we started with eight people and it grew they grew to the point that come to City far far out City London and there's hundreds of people that are mishita literally there's so many faces that I recognize and so many people that sent in emails and finally here to meet in person it's unbelievable that so many people basically most of the people on this front table over here are people that flew in from Kutz Lawrence people that flew in from are Straw from America before we begin I have to give a tremendous who's the main so if you want to come no please call me I need I need I need to talk to you in person if those I want to just give you this tiny little thing that you could put somewhere come here in honor of doveris please accept this token of our appreciation and recognition of your tireless efforts commitment dedication which is much appreciated you are a valued member of our mdy team and together we'll continue [Applause] the next one in honor of Ari Davis wizari another one you have to share this one with slimy Lightner I don't know where his is it's in the car somewhere Irish Irene Slammy come come slow me again please accept this token appreciation recognition and be tireless efforts commitment come come [Applause] listen this is one fraction of what was in our box that we got in the in the hotel room you have no idea the attention to detail that Abdullah said with the mdy logo and the whole thing thank you very much thank you hey this half is yours and this okay well we'll get that this guy [Applause] oh yeah once I have everybody's attention before we start this year so it's not about tyro I want to point out to the oil because you guys are not really familiar you hear the names they're people on the screen and so we have a bunch of people here that I think everybody should get to know including Tomer Levy executive director [Applause] okay like this fine I don't know if it ruins the picture or not Joseph biliac the editor raise your hands thank you very much sitting right over there the boys say I don't think we would be here without nassanal Gans who flew in from America who does our marketing and so much more behind the scenes you have no idea so in the sounds game subscribe for flying in right next to him is yossi Klein yasi Clyde raise your hand y'all see come on raise your hand y'all see if the devil says raise your hand you raise your hands who else do we have here Uncle Phil was looking for a hole to bury himself in Mark Ashkenazi is right next to him no I'm fixed one of the characters of Obama's sit next to me the official from official candy raise your hand official come on foreign who also flew in schmully I don't know if you know he started with us with sethless mcgilla made us see him he's Tinus tyna sorry tyness should tell them a little bit about you not embarrassing public okay schmully is a great friend officials and he's doing much better in his life ever since he started a titanus and he's been learning more and more dive and we hope you continue to learn myself after myself we have across official we have repaired crying Within [Applause] I think I forgot it in my room but as I was being marvelous cedra this morning it's the first first Aliyah it's like from the first sukim vesane says you can turn it down a little bit Uncle says took with him the people that he got to learn Torah and I thought immediately about Paris time Levin guy who stands outside and brought over 400 people to the sheer single heavily put up 22 signs and 22 different that's you look at him you think he's a Microsoft Farm or something he's an executive in Goldman Sachs he's a busy man successful person but he the number one thing in his life is to get another year to learn Tyra oh the camps over here ugh right he's a guy a kid that sits next to me in sheer every day and his father is right next to him brought him here as a gift who else do we have here we have Mordecai Perry how do you ariente pariente for coming all the way from America Donnie fine the famous real estate broker shmueli's father [Applause] and we have Dave scharfman you brought something for the island but that's for he has he made those uh the luach beautiful luache I think he's going to give out to the island who else israelitski am I missing anybody I don't know they are oh muradnikash Miranda cash where's Miranda cash I didn't say Mark Ashkenazi of course it did I did we'll say to him again Marcus schenazi serial Goldstein [Applause] we gotta get we gotta get a picture no we gotta get a schmuck a picture of the whole island how are we gonna do it do you have a lift how you gonna do it okay you haven't you have a way y'all see the Harry's there where what a good that's a nice surprise where's yasi y'all see he's walking all the way from the bags schmuck I thought you're Manchester Manchester and London in Manchester and Beyond I shouldn't have spoken about okay he's the original luas of mdy Destroyer and iron Jamel came with Miranda cash I don't know where he's hiding who is Miranda cash he's taking notes he's the one that did Bell Works he's taking notes her boy said this is the whole new standard in this human for mdy so I'll speak a little bit at the seam we'll jump right into it today happens to be protest a beautiful beautiful daf that has everything to do with that fyami and mdy you're gonna love it but before we go we have to give a little bit of a course I'll talk to the sponsors the mdy learning committee are grateful the generous Anonymous sponsors of tonight's year and we hope that this is those who are to 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who's of his son is Epstein remember my dear departed loved ones included in my recent young TV iskars ity having a heart procedure today should I ever Force lame up Nissan birth of a baby boy mazel tov oiceai here we go foreign world in the very very last words the women also could see this sorry this is only for men okay just for mangoes I don't have to be careful okay great the last last words in the assignment base thank you how do you know let's say you you want to fill in you want to force yourself to where it's fill in so you make a how do you know that it works and you'd be perhaps Hive in a carbon it says in the possible you say with your mouth for good or for bad for bad or for good is included together foreign [Music] together [Music] which my mission I know the problem is [Music] tonight [Music] foreign you didn't know you know [Music] foreign three lines down from the top foreign we all have a spool what do you mean how are you going to add how you gonna make a schwa how's it how says tomorrow so this stupid going on here really is this possible hate it and this is you can't break your word so okay Yahoo the story like the initial is enough Sheikh a person even though it's not a good thing to make a we're gonna see later not today it's not a it's not a good thing it's not recommended but when it comes to mitzvahs it's important to sometimes be Messiah as yourself do something extra so that you will be Makai in the mitzvah because we're in a special setting it's not your typical shear I just feel bad I heard yes today when they showed the sheer in RBS they went 15 minutes into chakras okay so we'll have to figure it out but I want to tell you a beautiful story that has to do with this gemara of zerusian of Sheikh tap the roof is really from mesubish but he got a job got a job in after and he said it'll be a rub down condition that they pay him a really nice salary she's okay one day he said okay I'm out of here I'm done but what happened we paid you well why you're not happy with the team but no I'm very happy what's the problem I'll tell you the two brothers both didn't have children for many years one brother was about to go to oil my Ms and he called his wife and he said listen I'm going he said about himself he's going but you can't get married I have a brother now this brother was a pauper this brother was going away he was he was going bye-bye he was very wealthy he tells his wife listen you have to find my your brother-in-law he has to do khalito what you do well you have to promise him anything in the world just fight him okay so they here's lifter she goes to the roof she says what should I do Ralph says put out a memo that if you are the brother you get half of the eurusha the brother of course it's money the brother hears about it in some Village somewhere and he tells his wife here we're going to become wealthy talmana is promising half the Arusha all I have to do is khalitza so the wife looks at him she says listen you're not taking a dime for this this is a Mitzvah that comes once in a lifetime I don't want you to take a dime garnished she's okay fine I won't take a diet she said no no no I want you to make it right now you're gonna promise me you're gonna go there you're not gonna take a dime she gives him the cedar carbon Miller I don't know if you remember we used to give our wives and get married the carbon Monica takes the siddler the carbon Monica which is making sure hold on to the scissors so he makes a Shiva now because he doesn't have any money he thought he's going to get a loan from the roof and he's going to paint back with all the money he's going to make now he doesn't have any money to pay him back so now I got to go by foot there's a hole has over he went and went and traveled he gets to the almana and the Amana says here here's half of the hustle now he's very tempted he's very tempted to take some of the money she's not she's offering to them then he remembered he made so I can't I can't take the money she's no but I insist I said if you come no so she said you know what I'm donating it to the city says the after roof you know how I know the story because when this individual he left he went home backed his wife and he said okay I don't know why but we did it we causing ourselves to do a Mitzvah without any money involved I don't know if I could put this in my book nine months to the day later they had me the up the roof I'm a product of that of that story and he promised the city he said listen what happened was I came here to take what was coming to me I felt it was in the the cities funds for whatever she put it in because she's she said she's going to give half the house and he said he doesn't want it so so I came here and I basically used up my salary now it's over I'm going back to mesbiz but I promise you one thing that I'm going to call myself doctor roof not the measure Rob or whatever after all by the way we the coil right now the mdy coil is in after showing Israel in remembrance Flora's interesting story of lizard usually I don't say such long Stories the one-liners today if you covered maybe if there's a clock it might work better you know what I have okay it's we said this year's gonna be over 752 and 37 seconds and it's already 38 you understand the yakish guy that goes on here crazy I'm gonna hire him from it's like I'm always like 20 minutes late what's the shot Walmart okay person says I'm going to get up early in the morning and I'm Gonna Learn this Pericles I'm going to learn this message this is a complete nether with all the Allah he already was sworn into learning Torah learning them it's interesting because we're going to see soon that we have or don't have to learn so you're supposed to make a schwa even to say oh I'm going to start a few me today I'm going to go to make a good old kamasa we already learned that before how come ashwa this is since you could patter yourself from Torah just by saying krishman in the morning and creation by the evening so there is a schwa there is a is Sir you're gonna have to bring a carbon why because the only time you put it from a carbon is if you already have a pre-existing schwa like we had before on the Mitzvah it's fill in you have a pre-existing schwa they have to wear to villain so when you add a shoe to that Yeshua is for that you don't bring a cardboard but over here you must have to learn Tire every day so I was in my field of learning Tyro with saying now I wanted to add a message that's not in the schwa so now I made a neutral I have to bring a Karma the boy said what's going on here foreign day and night all day all night ER no here's the apostles apostle is that a joke so we have a head there to work and to make Panasonic it's a Heather look at Hillary you should sit and learn day night so for this right well you say you have to look in the ram ran five lines down from where it becomes wide let's do it together Taco Marshall on the kivian the boy pattern of Shea you have it yeah Mr releases the run the left you're not Potter sits around just saying whatever strength you have you must have to learn day and night if somebody asks a question anywhere in the Torah you shouldn't stutter you should tell him right away the creation must shocks virus and just saying Krishna twice a day is not enough foreign human the lesson says the right unbelievable that the heel of the most but the other key of him to tell us that we have to learn this possible it's in Yeshua all the other places that we say that you have to learn Torah is he of says the run you have to see the Run he says just that's not the version of the tiger they call me the ultimate Russia says it's minatory they have to learn day night given the lesson with foolish bakra it's not spelled out then you can make a show on top of it in terms of because it's not 100 of the Torah is 90 of the target okay we go right there um [Music] person tells his friend let's let's have a Harsha shaft let's let's go let's learn he has to wake up before his friend he has to get there earlier let's make a meeting I'll come speak to you Hashem was there before him so you see that if you make a you tell your friend let's learn you should be there before him Joseph foreign very interesting a guy has a dream it's a bad dream he dreams that they put him into neither it's not real it's in a dream but because it's a dream dreams have power and we're going to say that perhaps it's directly from because if you have the screener itself putting you in Italy then the only way to get out of it is with 10 people 10 people is like the shkino remind me of a story quick story that my father heard this from his brother wasn't captions brother the one that told my father's story went to the stapler and disciple said are you related to him not some cup and my father is stuck in there he says you know the sniper never asked what your name was and who you are he asked them are you remnants of Consciousness relative and he says yes it's my brother he says please have him come down here so remnants and captions went to the stapler Aaron Wilson coaches says did you learn in the basement Letterman Letterman is the shoulder of Clancy used to walk you know that bridge they used to walk in the show that's Letterman so the one that made Letterman was a individual by The Neighborhood Letterman he didn't have any children and he built the Space matter she used to live on above the base members and his medic was to do sponges himself clean the base measures by himself every area of showers and the answer of nothing he says you remember Ruby Hill was doing sponger and you were doing schneid mikra in the back of the show and he'll get upset at you he yelled at you he said don't you see I'm doing sponger can you leave and come back later can you do it somewhere else he says you remember yeah he said I want to tell you the hill wasn't after 10 years ago because nashama doesn't have manukan Islands you have to go to his caver with 10 people and be my home the azaleas I once saw by my own eyes a different story with a stapler that had literally real but that's for a different time like upon him you see from the story of a bunch of different things the 10 people on the caver michila also how you have to be marketing you know I have to give myself a Muslim because to provide somebody like that to yell at somebody when the Trump doesn't have Manuka for many years and now listen to this bomb this is referring to 10 people that learn the Run says that learn gemara this all day could it be one of these 10 people no he has to be a person that learns gemara I have a must know but if he learns mishnah when he doesn't learn gimbara what does that mean and this is a tremendous physical for us I had an argument an argument discussion with a doctor from London sat next to me in the plane and he told me he said what he has every day because it doesn't feel like what what does he gained by gamara the whole thing tices over here says on the spot that learning gemara what's going think about it for a second who put this person in Hiram how do you get out of here you need the Rebellion people that are connected to the Republic is not enough in order you hear what's going on there a person that learns gamara maybe the fiomi that's a person that is a shrinamensch and that person can take a person out of here nobody else can I have a massively tunnel you just learned he learns he does not enough good moral ruins and if you don't have somebody that learns gamara then you can use somebody that yeah it's a cities okay you gotta you gotta help him out so you don't even know Schneider's person if you like yeah and if you don't have even that laser listen to this one laser overlaysia my patches brought him ferocious drop him sit at the way and Sarah and give shall malachim to 10 people to 10 people they will say shalom back to you that will be Megan that's horse will save you you hear president Karim he has the Sidra all the bad things are Weighing on the shoulders he says show them alaikum ten people say back to you that has a shimiro okay it's a bigger side sometimes uh person needs uh we had gamoras the person is awesome he's he's in a he's in a state of danger state of danger say hello to say hello to people and then say back that's a that's a foreign what if a person saw in his dream that Ruben he's the one that put him so could he go back to Reuben and say listen that the person who puts you hear him could take you out of here you need that person now I know who he is he was in my dream the whole reason I'm in Harem today is because of a dream so now let's go to the physical and take me out of here foreign doesn't mean that he has all the rights he's not the real person is in the dream the same dream that made you also made you mutter oh my lady no it doesn't work like that shame she actually bearable with Heaven this is a play on words and apostle just like there's no grain without a shaft so every dream has a little bit of shocker in it so this dream we're gonna have to say that he's really in harem and the part that he took him out of him that we don't trust not reverse he'd say the part that he put him that's not the real part no the part that is that's good the party that's not good okay so a couple of things a few times maybe many times would wake up he says oh bring me the wine I have to make assume I just finished in the dorm in my dream I just finished the most after my dream so the first time I heard the story I thought I'm art I thought that the child he dreamed that he made a seum in his dream so he had him then I hopped no he actually finished the in his dream he went through the whole thing so he was learning Tire in his sleep so he had to make a seal fine but somebody came and asked him I dreamed also I heard that you you make you see him unwind after you dream I said I dreamed that I made a CM that I finished almost SEPTA can I eat now meat even though it's the nine days so I guess he said yeah in your dream [Applause] and then comes the very famous story that somebody came to the base this role and said I dreamed that I'm a rabbit my father came and said I should be the rebel so this is all told him it's very famous it says a dream like that has to happen to the hasidim not to the river they should have dreamed that you're the rabbit not you the rabbit to them okay but I thought there's a few a few records we we're gonna we're gonna make tonight record number one this perhaps might be the largest gemara share that ever took place in London I don't know tell me if I'm wrong yeah no I hear right bamberger has a pretty large chair but like this and that's a Manchester I want to do something very interesting there's two sides of the room this is the right and the left and there's one guy sitting in the middle he's gonna have to decide if he goes to the right or the left but in Yeshiva we and Seoul in Chicago I didn't do it this year in Arizona I think we're gonna do something mamish muradic also a record we're talking about a sugya if in your dream they woman out of you there's such a thing otherwise I take a look at the screen for a second I want the guys on the right to say this loud together and the guys on the left are going to say the bottom then we're going to switch it you ready everybody together love now you guys ready you got to do better than them you ready practice loud this is real this is real aim is broke records here it's evolving thank you huh is sponsored as a supposed to continue being able to support Toyota in the finished shots with rubelli therefore shlema borrowed mansaro ito's bassmindle la slokas it's interesting that the ram brings here all the way in the top what if a person dreamed about a nether he made a nether in his dream that he's gonna learn entire 10 hours a day he says no no that that to make a nether you have to say with your mouth it's not it's not a neither that somebody else put you in Harem you you made a promise yeah you have to be up and Alive conscious you can't and then he says believe it or not the rashpa argues on me and the rashmah says that if you dream about another you have a big problem says his wife ravine's wife had another now you see the Posse over here it says the husband has the right to undo the nether this is not orious this is the dorm obviously the round explains that this wasn't the case here ravina's wife made some sort of nether now the only time we have this puzzle is if it applies to the husband if the husband is if somehow this bothers the husband then he has the right if it doesn't bother the husband let's say she made a nether she's going to say to him every day when he's at work so he doesn't have the right to be Mayfair has to do with the only issues whatever it is with the husband and the wife if she's very bizarre and that bothers him fine says Iran therefore we must be talking about one of the nadarmed that he doesn't have the right to be mikind as possible or he only has a one day window maybe it's two days later he heard about it he forgot to do it he didn't care then and now he cares she goes also the commander of Ashi again Ravine and ravashi wrote the gemara um can I represent my wife in her karata she regrets it says if the people were sitting there already great I don't know if you've ever been in the basement or sometimes somebody comes over you says I have to make a thirst in the door for my wife or whatever they can't if you're already sitting it's okay but the ghost let people that that you can't do it says we see from here three things it's okay for a husband to step in instead of his wife and explain why she made the nether whatever the the reason is ravino didn't have the right to Iran explains one up shot them maybe just grab three people and be matinee there what are you asking ravashi no you don't do it in front of a rabbi when they are already sitting down it's okay but if they're not sitting down not okay vishanta but if a person is and he wants to get out of it even if it's in the place of Israeli it's not going to be on the rebbe we got to get this done quickly we got to get him out of his and therefore you're allowed to says tomorrow a guy who's a pro now this is showing him here according to the ramban he has to be a Muslim obviously which most agree that today we don't we don't even have that we don't have people that are just etc etc thank you so there's a Shiloh could you be matter nether in the email on the internet on Zoom do you have to be there in person say so huh look like this that's Hillel kamiansky's nobody else is allowed to say it besides him okay yeah according to the rambam thank you uh uh it would come out uh that according to the realm I'm comment that the person making the nether has to be present no internet no letters but according to the run it seems like you could even do it in a letter you could send the letters you could do it on the internet and it'll be okay says the gemara Omar this I believe is also a record and I'm going to take the record even though every Mega cheer this is going to save these lines but I'm going to be the only marketer to point out that these four lines maybe the only time in chess that it's the biggest freebie four lines of just names of just names of those who said it like eight names or so but it's twenty percent of the deaf twenty percent of the almonds here we go mom is a freebie these four lines are 20 of the 20 lines on the summer check it out this must be a very very important memory that brings all these people where it came from foreign are not exactly familiar they don't remember where's I'll tell you if you ever do you keep a cotton this plastic is in there the my son will shine to you those who have yiroshimaim those who fear my name what does that mean these are people that fear hashem's name to say it in vain they don't say oh my God or whatever it is they don't say hashem's name the Shemesh that's the son that says you know when you see I'm trying to explain like this when you see the ray of the sun coming through a window that's when you can pick up the dust particles in the air you see all these things flying around that says imara has healing powers foreign immediately when he dies we're talking about loss of love not when a person dies from its pouch we'll show him the Dynamo you hear about his eyes says there is one giant beastmasters the giant Beast majors and they're enjoying themselves you know why because they know what's flying they know what's going on they learn chess they know Tyra they're familiar with the musagim and then you have the Russian that come into this medrus and they push it don't know what to do there's no video games there's no internet there's nothing there's a cheer and a standard mouth open for millions and millions of years it's very painful there's a gemara that saysi he says every single day there's gonna be a din you're gonna have a din every single day so the big question is what do you mean Rosh Hashanah is the day what do you mean every day so the answer is based on a muscle from the vashemtov was it a story or muscle what is it it's a marshall of the division of says there was a old yid wrinkles on his face 70 year old man a water carrier hardest job schleps water every single day they asked him to ask them something he says no repeat how you doing he says how am I doing look at me I'm bent over I have wrinkles I work like a dog I don't have any money for tomorrow every day after work I can't retire what do you mean how am I doing look at me the next day he met him and he says how you doing is how am I doing I'm born Hashem able to carry the water and make a parano so my friends are in bed in a nursing home somewhere they have no life it's all over for them I have heels he said no what happened what happened yesterday you told me it's the worst that is the best it's the same water carrier it's the same weight it's the same job but it's the attitude it's in the head perhaps you can say the same thing here in this guitar it's not exactly saying but this could apply to every single person on a daily basis with the Taurus that every single person has in this world and it can apply also the FBI I mean you could look at it as the sun is out there burning me up mom is burning me up I can't stand it where's the air conditioner or you could look at it and say this is the healing of the sun the sun is Miracle me I love the sun I need the vitamin D I need to get into the sun if you can look at it and say there's no volume look at these sorry for gaming I mean this and that it's not fair you can take it and say oh loves me and he gave this to me because I could handle it it's there for a reason and you can take it you can look at it and say stuff yummy business give me out of the 365 days give me two days off two days vacation that's all I'm asking for a bunch of Layla you can say no that's the goddess of dafyami that's the beauty of dafuyomi the no other program in the world has every single day I'm connected to everybody every single day it doesn't matter if it's in Kipper it doesn't matter if you're in the Safari you know vacation you're on holiday every single day you can look at it oh it's a drag how can I do this every day no because I do it every day that's what makes me stronger that's what makes me better I become a better kid or boys I have a good volatility evening describe for having me thank you finish let's finish hold on I forgot got lost there hi okay who's giving us the Sun Village a person gets becomes better becomes you go out there and you flourish says like these fattened cows which reminds me of revolver he said he was once passing by in Switzerland on the train and he saw an unbelievable scene he sees beautiful mountains I don't know if you've ever been there in summer you guys are close so you've all been there it's unbelievable I know you're on the floor is Hashem the little snow on the top of the mountain in the green and the the cows are grazing he's like unbelievable and then he hears a Aid say I wish I was a cow this is unbelievable that's his music in life he wishes he could be a cow because it's so imamish missed the boat it's okay foreign have a wonderful day