Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 79 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Applause] this is a serious upgrade he says check this out behind me is North Korea and I don't think any North Koreans has heard rebellious so I'm going to scream over there and try and get some North Korean members North Koreans join ndy yes it is in Tokyo a rummy truck draft will go far away to get free tomorrow actually not that funny somebody's paying this guy okay Manny Brown this is Mendy's Uncle your uncle's talking here Manny Manny Brown Ron sorry Braun whatever he calls himself yeah my father shalita Mendy's Uncle heard a Chavez sugar from Yankovic not in one shot in that drug the monster won't speak social another 10 times a day he's been covered to hold back once a day for a few weeks then twice a day for a few weeks and so on and train himself to speak less and less until he can completely stop that is true even though while he's in the process he's still speaking quite a bit about shinhara the ones that disagree with you about being Macabre a lot of dog they're in college seem not to have her Bianca on their side okay can I respond to this absolutely that's the ongoing thing again regards for Mendy thank you to be very clear trust me they hear you nice and loud because I said this many times the point is if it's between you and Hashem and you want to take on the Kabbalah to be mermaid and talking just then of course you should do that as a public campaign to Cloud yourself that would not be a good campaign that's been a good one thank you I see let's see I have an idea I have an idea I have an idea once and for all let's go to your Rabbi who's your Rabbi let's go together without you telling him before they were coming on video and write down the question before and we're gonna go let's go today for this there's a guy that just gave five thousand dollars to campaign to stop talking during cars right now there's nothing better than this money it's the best thing ever people stop doing College you call him right now call him right now it'll be unbelievable call him let's go I'm sure it was so nice to see you today by Charlotte see attached picture how you pose with Shiloh listen to this your boy so this is a little bit of a contradiction I told them what you're doing and what you did to my life reptile was amazed he said I was I must see the smuggage here so I had to switch on today's sheer in Chicago who are we talking about on the one hand he's able to talk to him they talk back and forth but he doesn't even know who I am it's fine I mean he had you and your family in mind that of course the whole I'm doing I'm saying somebody that could talk from his caver back and forth knows what's flying in this world no no he knows who Jonathan savanski is also he knows that Jonathan savanski is also a guy if you could choose back and work like that you can do anything we had you and your family in mind and of course the whole mdime regards SB Stern from London Garrison Rose also [Music] in a few hours on one status Gershon Rose I'm surprised because I heard that gestural stopped for the status I once asked him to go back on status so maybe this is what he does and he may oh if you look itaka doesn't have any more statuses this is the only status I just realized all I need is one person to join my rabbits the fantasies here would you like to try it maybe it's really for you private message now for the upcoming research and he had 479 views and he got two sign ups and possibly three you could do the same thing it's just simple typing Mindy you know now you know how to do it I saw it I brought a demonstration here yeah okay in the video below you have the Michelle from Scottish Bakery visiting the music bar Park matzah Bakery check out the mdy plate have a great day we'll see you guys Miami on the 25th your talmud from base multi-pearl taking the video here we go you got volume good Brown everyone see me bro the famous female dog all right here's a Shiloh how can a woman just by getting married get 100 dharam on her or 25 10 15 just by getting married husband or new husband doesn't say a thing doesn't say a word oh I have to get this what is this do anybody have an answer all the people that learned to laugh yesterday how about you you learned enough no you you learned to death it's knew how as a child oh my goodness oh my gosh oh yeah my favorite Thai snaka are you nuts there's over a thousand dollars worth of ties here four ties they're not normal everybody want to talk DG anybody all right you bought them to messenger you're nuts why are people doing this who the watch from like how do you know I work with the cheese is there to see him with a regular shirt in the shoe but yeah over there those are a bunch of locations oh all right for that listen free ties well I've never I don't think I ever marketed anybody I never said here by Lisa Jacobs did I uh the barbershops because guys brings uh yeah oh if you if you push the dock if you push the dive unbelievable wow your boys say check these ties out now the mile I just saw you the quindici all the way in the back has all the numbers of their the the the colors it's a it's a hole in my house and they have the brightest craziest colors it's not 300. how have I 300. what's your Shabbos only well I think I paid that much I get them for free everybody gives me McDonald's okay fine anybody have an answer for this no nothing okay huh what oh yeah it's supposed to I'm packing a woman again one gets married as she gets married because she got married fall on her she becomes full of nadaro without her new husband saying a word he didn't think a word he didn't do it knew anybody you want to take a stab at it that she had beforehand that her first husband was milvato is there a way that once she gets divorced and remarries when she remarries the original dharm they all come back that's the Suga one of the things we're gonna learn today the kylo that's why it's closer no we'll see we'll see then this again the coil by Anonymous from Lakewood another sponsor for the coil the entire month May supporting entire strengthen our be talking and finally the art of this month is for complete reforest name of foreign [Music] okay so as you can see your boys are holding that iron test all the way on the bottom line has on my base muscle the case over here is you see the chart it says we have a woman who said oh no is this it yeah we had a woman coinum yeah this is it coinum the smelly socks she makes a nether and he sits there and he doesn't say a thing he's he fights her on instead of being Mayfair he's quiet a lot of times we have we could be slightly familiar with this not everybody's wife but some wives out there they would like to turn to their husbands once and say do I look fat what are they doing they're testing you you want to see love them not love them what are you going to say and those days it's a little different they say do I look fat they make a nether now if you're a good husband you're gonna move for right away if you're one of those guys all of a sudden are you quiet you're mocking at her you you upset her you let it simmer or in our case you say yes not that fat you know it's like the same thing magnet a little a little Magneto am I too skinny back there she would say am I too skinny yeah am I too skinny yeah okay very much yeah actually fat wasn't my yeah just well I don't know what it was back then it goes every 100 years changes fine so here's quite as we said yesterday if he was quiet for 10 days and then he's made for afterwards Samara says it's a good how far away because when the tire says means the day that you hear it that's the day that you're made for but if you have a reason why you're not being made for the reason is because you just want to bother your wife so that's okay he says there's something that's something that uh Akim stronger than afaro Uber offer I mean sometimes the hafara is stronger than the hakama what is it so we're going to start slower okay just want to make short hair yeah so just by being quiet just by being quiet you can confirm the Kim but by being shy Sick by being quiet you're not movato the round just sticks in here that if we had this so you just to throw in the city that we had if you have a combination of Cleveland right if he says like a funny lotion take this and eat it and he's also made from his heart that's enough of the combination of two things fine we're not going to go into that next he and Billy boy if he was mikaim in his own heart so Durant says here again from the fact that the Torah says that when a person is quiet for a whole day he's makaim his nether why because then his megalodas he's showing us that he wants the nether so therefore you see from that says the run you hear if a person is quiet a whole day the nether becomes why because he says I wanted to become a Queen by me being quiet a whole day therefore if a person says I want to be my kind of right now I see from that that a person has the ability to confirm the nether at this moment again from the fact that I see that after a whole day becomes McLean why because these magala does he wants to become so now we know how it works we know the insides of Kim it's based on his Russian on his Gili Das and that happens sometimes it happens after a day and sometimes it's the round it happens after a minute he says right away I want to be mikaimeth he says that we're in his heart and that's enough I'll probably boy but if he made a photo in his heart he says I'm a battle of this it's not Mercury um what would I just do huh oh this goes here and this goes here okay fine sorry if he's mikaim he says he confirms it in his heart it's a good thing it's a good Cube half a Billy boy and we imagine this Allah earlier if you don't have Farah you cannot do a foreign your own heart so what's the what's the humra of of Kim the Homer of Kim is that if you're quiet you could confirm it in your heart and go you cannot be Movado with sticker no no no I'm not who's talking about Keon that's some that's another that we're going to get to in a second she made a Nether and in your heart I'm a vato the nether not after a Kim there's two things going on there she made another you have two options either to be me you could be mikaime in your heart you cannot be Movado in your heart yeah I'm here this is the line that you're talking about once he's a mechanic if he's a good nether now he no longer could be Mayfair hey fair and if he was Mayfair he said it's not another he cannot be Makai so once you do one of the two options you have either the option to be mikaim to confirm the nether or to another you did one of the two that's it it's too late so let me ask you a question he was a big girl though I forgot his name his wife was very sick she made a net there that she's gonna go to the Kirito forgot what country they lived in so it was war different things and by the time she healed and her husband said this godo he says I'm a cobble the nether I'm a kind another so it's a good Cube now she got healthy and she wanted to be mikaime or another she's very worried and she couldn't do it anymore that's it they closed down the things it's very dangerous to go there now what do you do you're the Shiloh he was mikayan the big question is could you go to a ROV and be matter and nether that her husband was Makai you hear could you go to the robs that doesn't enjoy fight but over here the husband was Makai so the Marie Bruno said that you could there's such a and he brought it right from our over here do they want to bring it right for carrot remember but at the end of the day that's how they I think that's how they pass in that once even though the husband was makayam you could go to Rob and another nether exactly that's what they wanted to do they want to be mature and be made for me look retroactively correct what that's exactly what he was saying that's what they were saying but the others wanted to say no hatara is great when nobody got involved and you could be mikai you could retroactively annull it well maybe once the husband gets involved and it's a Makai admit maybe you don't have that right okay fine because it says over here okay fine so Tony you have a case where a woman made a Nether and the husband was quiet and his reason was to bother her that's why he was quiet not to be mikaime but to bother her we have at least three types of stickers here we have a sticker that's makayam there's a sticker that he doesn't know and there's a sticker to bother her there's a reason why this is my love is when you're quiet that itself is a confirmation it's a kill my lab so what does that mean again like we had yesterday since there's no explanation so we have to say it's talking about all types of sneaker it's in all categories it doesn't matter if the guy was quiet because he wanted me guys quiet because he was upset at his wife what's the difference he was quiet it doesn't say if it would say hey uh he's only quiet but not upset his wife it doesn't say that it says he's quiet so we have to understand it means all types of quietness even the case that we're talking about the case of bothering your wife Maybe we're talking about over here is a different type of sneaker it's been quiet in order to be Makai now just pay attention here for a second the round points this out it's very interesting because it isn't a dharim and sometimes the lasagnas are all over the place so over here is a good example what does it mean he's quiet on conditioned to confirm the nether when this minute or at the end of the day so over here would mean this minute in five lines from now it means at the end of the day okay Stam why it's not dark you don't know you ask him he tells you you don't know you're not supposed to know it's none of your business it's my business I'm sorry sick I know what I did I was my time I was my client it's all about the husband you have to ask him you'll never know how could you know he's going like this you see them maybe it's Mayfair how do you know he's my kind you have to ask him there's no only I'm shy from uh me you and I can't know this thing imagine you're just telling me that he's making it in his heart he was Choy sick and he's behind it right now wait a minute that's the next case Kian Billy boy let's manage that case that he's becoming his heart we're going to introduce another type of sticker when I'm not introducing it because we actually discussed yesterday some exactly there's another type of quiet stamp he's quiet he doesn't want to be made for he doesn't want to be mechanic garnish nothing's going on his brain so we just we just said that if you're quiet that is a confirmation well you never told me that so now you know Kim has one thing that's more Hummer than Huffer hafara what about how pharah overcame what does that have how do we know over here means what is it okay stop pointing it out but half of everybody Give Me A Reason uh that that hafara is different and more strong and stronger than hakama um Here Nissan alhawking you could ask a Shiloh you could go that same day says the run it's not a writing so much Tower of Shiloh over there if a husband let's say did Akim he told his wife I'm a kindly nether just like that God will did his wife was very sick and she's been covered herself in Nether and the husband was happy with her nether he said it's a great idea you should go to Sadiq him I'm a kind another and then he says wait a minute what am I talking about even if she gets healthy how's she gonna get there is so what does he do he runs to the rabbi he runs the rabbit says I want to be I want to undo my Kio so they say besider but if he says like in this bubble he says either he says he may fear I want to undo the hafara I think it's a great idea that she should go to the Kirito Deacon but why did I say at the time I'm afraid I felt bad for her but I think that she should be my capital or another too late robotomy not going to help you once you do have pharah that's it they're locked out of the story they cannot be Mayfair they can't be matter right to have for sorry they cannot be matter for once is Mayfair that's all over here is the apostle so the beginning of the politics her husband is quiet we already discussed it doesn't mean 24. like it's 24 hours or up until we pass in our mission says that by itself by her by him being quiet that makes the nether McQueen and then it says that the deposites because he was quiet just by being quiet that Makai in the nether says [Music] talking about when he's trying to bother her hour case he goes like this I fight you on you said a nether I'm Gonna Let You soaking it and and worry are you going to be made for now maybe I'm not doing it I'm just bothering you now I thought everybody has to make out oh yeah yeah this is the most obvious question who told you that this beautiful pasta is talking about a k hour case maybe still talking about a regular case the guy is quiet when you and I read this policy but my creation if if a husband is quiet we didn't think about a fight we thought if he's quiet so who told you was talking about a fight here yeah maybe he's quiet and he wanted to be mikaim when over here this is the run at the end of the day not right away okay let's see the the charting the button please give me a button I'm begging you what it's ready okay so basically from tomorrow we're doing your butt the matter is he'll come back right now with this flu like this so you see The Two Reds here the public says twice he's quiet that's yeah he's talking about a regular case where a person is quiet and he's waiting until the end of the day he says okay at the end of the day it's going to be my career okay so that now it's understood he's talking about a guy that's trying to bother his wife because it can't be talking about a guy that's just being quiet and trying to be making because it already says in the past basically the fact that the tire says it twice that's that's how we have two kids we have a case of a husband that's quiet because he wants to do that in the Nether and we have a husband that doesn't want to be behind the nether he just wants to bother his wife and in that case when he's made when he decides to be made for it even 10 days later two years later he could be made for his assistant why because he's never mikaim it the only reason he's quiet he had a very good reason anytime you have a good reason it's a oh [Music] sorry let's go back nothing um oh so over here it says in the password look we're talking about two cases we're talking about our case that we're asking a question about where's the commodity next question the gamar established who was it um there's a question in middle of that says that if a person was upset at his wife and he was quiet to bother her he has 10 days over it says before it's an apostle that it's a good nether even in the case of hakrish the beginning of the policy is going bad a fight it says um he doesn't have 10 days how do you tell me he has 10 days this is It's a bomb question and the story we don't know what to do we can't we can't fix rubiconino okay says the gamara so what does a bomb question mean and the story so if you have a bomb question do you ask another question I don't know maybe says immoral if you like him this this two other types of sticker who told you to talk about that this person is talking about and you bring me a ride from this person it's a good nether in the case of a fight maybe he's talking about the sticker stop there's a sticker that goes to the end of the days Michael is the sticker stop so tomorrow cryothering if you look at the Apostle here we go it says the word hackerage what happened to it three times so we have all three stickers to bother your wife another question says Duran you're allowed to ask more questions even though you have a bomb question that we don't have an answer to we said to you because just in case you do come one day up with a good answer so I have a backup question he better run ahead and do how far he only has a few minutes to do it let him do it right away why shimlich because if it says you're locked out you can't do afar anymore you told me anytime you have a reason why you're quiet then you have 10 days over here is a very good reason because it's almost a Shabbos why does he have to rush rush rush to get another zafara right before Shabbos is over he could wait as long as he wants as long as he's quiet for a good reason and his reason is because he doesn't have time right now so he has 10 days 20 days what's the difference if he if he's waiting because he wants to wait until he's calm I'm about to Shabbos or he's waiting because he wants to chip his wife chipping his wife is better than Master Chavez it's the same exact idea it's a bum question so I have another one and here's the third one foreign and he says my wife made another she said a letter I'm never gonna eat potatoes again so be Mayfair she's like what's matter Mayfair I've never heard of it so why because says the run it's not the Torah says right at the end is possible this is the round it's not the day that you heard if you don't know about the Allah Farah you hear this in order to be Yom shama you need to know the Allah if you and I'm a Ritz and you have no idea what our foreign before like most of us before we started then you don't have yamshami doesn't start until you learn the hill okay go selector Anis is my feeling if a person knows that is such a thing called hafaro yeah we saw this a bunch of times yeah first this is a a very hash of Maggie cheer who's in a everybody knows the world famous issue world famous Jiva I just met him the other night admirev and I saw right away that he doesn't do the duff anymore with us I saw in his eyes like he was and he's a guy that used to write me all the time like conscious and stuff and learning that I enjoy their lives become a problem So like um says I dropped that at the end of yvonis another casualty of your promise so I told him I said let's go he goes I I have to be my I never learned really in a dharm and I feel like an MR it's in the dark I said okay we're gonna start reminds me everything and every year here the yo I'm sorry I'm starting for him but yo I'm Sharma it says you only have one day we've discussed it before but here it's in the positive I'm sure I'm gonna go back to the possible you have until shkia to hear there's another and then the father and the husband both of them have until that day that says to know the daughter and the wives and the daughter depending we had all Suga we're not going to go into it if she's engaged if she's married okay we're talking about her husband now your dad is just my fear I know that there's such a thing called haforo have any idea she's a nether I don't I didn't have that this is another oh this is a little bit different than tomorrow is this considered again is this considered again he knows the idea of aphora he's just a little bit of uh on earth when it comes to the dorm he doesn't know what constitutes a full leather and not a full method huh someone to be understand not here because I'm somebody understands what are we oh so but the gamara doesn't say well depends maybe maybe they'll explain chat in in maybe remain loyal he cannot be made for y because now we don't say oh he doesn't know how far he knows that was that far he just wasn't sure if this is another that's his problem he heard it he should have been made for no if you don't have the whole package if you don't know that it's a Nether and that you could be made for you don't have everything that's still not young means you know everything you know that it's a nether you know that you have the ability to know the Nether and you didn't do it then the clock starts ticking right then and when it comes to say it's over for you but if you're not artists in either one of the two things you don't know this is another we don't know that there's even a concept called aphara then you have until Forever Until You Learn that Allah as the gemara but according to a mayor that says he cannot be made forever [Music] you just told me an idea beautiful Concept in the dark only means on a day that I'm talking about not you just now yesterday means that you want to be made for but if you know for a fact you don't want to be made for you're quiet because you have a good reason a very good reason would be to bother your wife in this case a very good reason is because you push it don't know the Allah so you should be you should be able to be Mayfair on a different day then the clock doesn't start ticking what's the difference if you want to bother your wife which McConnell says you have 10 days 20 days a thousand days or if you don't know the halacha it's a very good reason the reason is um what is it in English they say like if you say a officer I didn't know you're not gonna go through a stop sign ignorance no no but it's a better way to say it huh no ignorance of the law is not a defense that's that's how you say it was not defense okay I'll come on over here said ignorance of the law should be a defense it shouldn't be any worse than a guy that wants to be make out his wife okay so we have three bomb Consciousness was a very difficult paragraph you know they wore this before it's not today's David thing is very simple says the game yesterday's not we had a lot of easy documents and we'll be continuing with the simple ones so just to show you real quickly we're going to go through these two things so we have them clar there's two types of reasons why a husband is gonna be mayfair's wife's mother either because it's Union fish it causes her pain and aggravation Affliction whatever you want to call it it bothers her she can't eat a certain food she can't do a certain thing and then you have the volume Shabana levena things that get in between the two of them not wearing makeup the mission says different things that bother a couple so those are the two reasons why a husband will be made for another now it's interesting that Shoemaker says the helium sponsored by y'all Friedman Liliana is my dear father Israel David so this is the big problem here that the mission only mentions of one out of the two and that's what the Gambar is going to explain why is that it causes her pain it's just physical pain discomfort how come the mission doesn't mention well there's something called we have to remember these terms because we're going to go back and forth I don't want to like explain it in English every single time does eating that fish and the department of lavena Indianapolis is affliction between the two of them so we're going to see in the gemara what exactly she said here the bottom line is she won't what no no it's not both no it's Michelle not both but what does it mean each one huh that's fits both categories yeah yeah yeah correct correct but the mission causes person who can't bathe International now people go to the Mikvah so they would have to go in the freezing cold you can't benefit from going to the Mikvah if it's to cool off or something fine so you didn't have fish this is a terrible Indian FS I said there's a certain country in Europe I want to mention which one you go there it's not enough this is part of life you're not supposed to wear deodorant you're not supposed to shower so whatever but depends on the person on the thing in Memphis by the way this is uh I once looked it up I didn't look it up now this is some there are certain people in the world maybe one out of a billion 100 million that are allergic to water they can't shower they can't drink it's a whole I got whatever they'll take showers in Coca-Cola I don't know what they just can't shower well Cocos as well I get it fine and grape juice what you have a kid like that I think all kids are allergic to water yeah is he allergic to Coke that's the Shiloh if he doesn't drink Coke you know he's allergic to water fine uh I'm new here to Yeshiva I'm only here for a month where's the shower yeah my Yeshiva the guy asked once uh I'm here for a month where's my smudge whatever this Mission I love this Mission why I use this Mission once against one of these guys I love arguing with these guys there's a guy that that um he sponsors a thousand dollars per kala who doesn't wear makeup during her so I went I I like you know I stopped for the stick I went over what about this mishna it says it you look at the rat over here like violence from the bottom he should upon him we're talking about makeup no more no less and what does the mystery call it inuy nephesh this is Affliction of the body of it's marriage for the stick was it's fun fighting you know what did he say uh different different you know that Ocala is a lot of you know it's like this kind of ballot there's a lot of Allah okay whatever mice a thousand dollars let alone just cash it now it turns it up I can test some bass sponsoring your cable oh wow it's a long way I thought we were talking about a four line on the base seriously we're learning the death of the members of the HBA group and their families she argues he says no not going to the showers this is what it is I'm not gonna eat apples anymore I think it means even one one type of fruit I raise the yakala they could say says the fruits of this particular country the Rand points out it doesn't mean your country because if you're in your country then for sure you can be made for it this says I'm not you don't I'm not going to have any fruit from California you can bring because you could bring from another country then um yeah Paris companies if he says if she says this from this particular store so you can't be Mayfair because there's a way out of it but if the husband has credit only that makola that store haresi offer then how is she gonna make food and everything [Music] okay fine there's uh whatever okay say it a different time this is who the Mayfair that's the gamara but it says the mission of only one of the two in that fish what if there's no Indian efficient there's no head to to be Mayfair but Tanya I wanted to point that also on the mishna that when we're talking in the mission of who who are we talking about a husband or a father so talking about the Run says we're talking about a husband but if you remember enough time of above the ran over there brings the rambam who holds that even a father's it's the same thing as a husband there's a bit of levena between a father and a daughter she says I'm not going to cook you anymore but cook for you I'm not going to clean your house anymore and it could be made for and it has to be that kind of category according to the Rama but not this line right over here but in general you see how the gemara brings the Apostle of a father and a husband and then the gomor goes in to say Mayfair the husband sorry is that the right for carrot it's right for carrot it's only the husband not okay fine Milan shall bow made from the door with from over here you see that the husband is made from the dharim that I have to do between the two of them sometimes it's my relation sometimes it's it's just things like like showers or also dorms have been a makeup we said tomorrow Mayfair no you can be made for both both of these categories eating that fish and vomship you eating that fish what does that mean first of all if you look at the the plastic it says so that's my fortunately something that has to do physical discomfort but the gamar says the big enough yamina when the what you hear Judah when the mishnah says these are the dorm that you may fear and it brings in because so if the husband is here in 2023 and he says muffer what happens afterwards they could get divorced she could remarry he could remarry it doesn't matter it's Muffler that's a shot in the mishna the reason why it doesn't say the other category that that Mio availability if it doesn't have any nephesh in other words it has to do with me and her yeah when the married Israel when he is when he divorces her then then the Durham go back to her this doesn't answer my question yet all right but what if he remarries her he marries her and she made a nether she's not gonna she's not gonna shower she says then they get divorced the Nethers call automatically then he remarries her because it's admits in the 33 Mary then the nether goes off automatically time out hold on one second see you shaking your head over there so here is the shower it's been a levino meaning but if it's then it the nether is no good at all the guitar just goes over it again now if there's no internet fish is something between the two of them she won't cook for him anymore so cleaning I don't know what figure it out something that's better than makeup okay that's not eating that fish just eating that every minute huh yeah yeah fine you're never sure he got a good point can you guys look highlight look says what's going on here if a woman here in this case right over here a woman says quite a messy are they I'm not giving you you can't have benefit from me he was upset the food burned whatever she said she makes a she's nishbach she she makes another she's not going to benefit anymore not going to cook for and he says I was I was just going to say that fine she tossed his last toss and she makes the nether is he doesn't have to say a word why because she's misrepid to make him food she's been sure but certain things she's she's the wife she can't make another like that says Rebecca manure you better make the nether you know why you better make the nether because if you don't she might get she might get divorced you might divorce her and then you're going to remarry her and the nether is going to remain the nether is going to remain so you're better off breaking the nether right now just in case you get divorced and you want to remarrier so you see from here that if you get divorced the net there is how and and it doesn't go away like you said almost no either way whether it's a good photo hello means even other men that are going to marry afterwards so when you do in your nephesh you have the right to be made for today and it's how forever even for another husband when he doesn't have when he doesn't have control over anybody meaning that fish but if it's just dorms Mayfair it's himself he won't be made for us in other words what happens is oh let's just do these two lines the our mission is only talking about one category uh Ned there that you may fear for everybody yourself and the following husbands in line AR he could only be made for what they get to him so soon as she it comes out like this he took off the nadaram so they're off he gets divorced they're off lechair once he gets married to another man all the nadaram that he took off that have only to do between him and her the original husband they pop back on here Mandy I'm asking you have a bunch in the dark that are between this husband and this wife makeup so he says I'm afraid great and then he divorces her but once she gets married to another guy she's not allowed to wear makeup anymore it was only the original husband that was able to cancel that Nether and then it goes back that answers the original riddle the boys I have a wonderful day wow it's getting later and later every day