Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 77 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boys I am living is this is the mdy family mdy is family says last night at Diamond Swiss bar mitzvah there are some of the cover do a lot more than that when I went 90 of the place was empty wires right oh and then you sent me a picture I should have shown that where the island a lot of people sending pictures of themselves at home they're like we'll be right to like this people from America from different countries everybody say the one and only some Rand who but Israel Hashem I'm hoping he's going to be at the Miami Sea and he's gonna interview people testimonials Etc here he is listen how he says it Peter him in the vacuum it's put him in the weekdays here we go because he's out of class and everybody's living there at a wedding this guy is listening [Music] say hello say hello Steve civil from Baltimore oh yeah see making this Hashem learning at a wedding I'm Purim here this is a very interesting one we need a shot in this but first I'll I'll show it to you and then you'll hear the caution during the thing something about Vegas you ready give me some volume please he says he he I learned with mdy every day and he loves it and the reason why I learned with mdy why Ellie was out here in Vegas once a couple of years ago and he came to Marshall Lane I said I can't join you in the middle of uh of a uh he says I'm going to get you and I said to him never he said don't worry I'll get you someday a month later my nephew he says I was in Vegas a few years ago which I wasn't last night I was in Vegas was for a real estate show like 13 years ago she says a few years ago I was there and I told him join the Dove and he said no and I said don't worry one day you will it says you got me now I am I'm addicted it says so either Joseph Berman was there or I remember this guy but not in Vegas maybe he was like in a different city or something I don't know okay huh yeah I got it anonymous Ariel lazovski Yesterday by the you mentioned that you hope that hasida will come to Miami Museum I could assure you that at least two of them are coming from Toronto hope to see you soon and I'm proud to be part of it from Toronto Ariel lazovski a talmud since Tinus looking forward yes by Hillel Handler Rabbi hello Handler my constructive criticism of your shared presentation I greatly respect the hard work you do in preparing and engaging in lighting of young you're doing a great job about the story King yearbook your 10 minutes before the share engages the Islam and builds a sense of camaraderie and Community among your listeners yoshizard usually serves to clarify many difficult Concepts however sometimes yoshizak creates distractions rather than enlightenment a burning stove and a fire engine does not help us understand future nadarim it slowly takes our Focus away from the main point and the cute rat running around is also confusing a confusing and distraction the crane with a wrecking ball was a beautifully targeted illustration we need more of that kind of art Yoshi needs to become more of a Thomas tell him it's not about the art it's about the dove first of all I'm very happy the construction was on somebody else not me Photoshop listen if you have I take it all I like to hear from Ireland if more people think this way I'd like to hear it me personally I enjoy the rat it was a surprise for me a lot of the art a lot of the the jokes especially the dumb ones are mine it's my it's my humor there so maybe I need to become more of a time whatever the point is sometimes the art is not even to explain this just to distract the Stagger to give us a little bit of a break between Yuma kind of thing okay a few shilohs for today a nether that could have been annulled on Friday you could have done that on Friday but you didn't you decided you don't you don't feel like it can you do it could you be mattered on Chavez you had the opportunity it's like uh you know you could have brought a knife to the show for the Milo before Shabbos you don't have a right to do it on Chavez can three how do you know can three brothers be Mata or nether what are you tired now Avi can three brothers be matter another or that why because the three brothers they're craving could you could do you need like three yes okay can a husband be mikaim or Mayfair his wife's nether in his heart could you be yeah you say yeah anybody huh anybody say no anybody say yes no he's in his heart right the size so it's okay that was one of the big things you're talking about you're all wrong you're all wrong huh no it's not enough focus it depends it's about foreign practice did you talk to him okay we got a bit we got it back yeah okay you show Humanity but we'll see in a second that's today so yeah the kylo is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood is and in honor for a new granddaughter born in eres Israel by the way Arbiter harbator you get a Muslim no yes I I know everything great grandson number five I'm counting but pilot to Pilot my friend another pilot in the world [Music] [Applause] [Music] all right the art the art from the is for a complete reformed Leia I hope he's not watching this but if he is he knows I'm joking he learned in coilover for years he's he knows how to learn that's why I hired him I I much rather go with somebody another list you get he gets it and Joseph wants to thank the ilam who came to celebrate with me and Joseph I mean me and zamus V at his bar mitzvah you scored for everybody for participating it's a beautiful seal I want to I'll talk a little bit about something that happened during the the members and nothing to do not related to the barometer but an interesting thing happened all right I did Iron Kessler that's right our own Kessler who actually wrote to me today in memory of his wife Miriam Esther Basu the doe for slow stream unbelievable tragedy again a very very young woman in her low 40s I think the same muscle as my mother so much should have an Aliyah iron should have an Akama every white seen that camera boys high we're filling up quickly is there a change of venue where's Tomer basically the change of venue oh tell me there's a change of venue exactly where I'm not sure but it's no longer in the first venue because that was too small for us we're going to a larger bigger venue with the best texture in the world the best caterer in the world the best of everything all right here we go let's start from two lines from the bottom even though we already learned that we'll learn it again I involve almost base where boys in case you're wondering foreign actually has a piece of art here the middle of that Toro he this is obviously not here this just happens to be there but you're shooting arrows shooting arrows according to one shot you discussed yesterday is practicing to catch birds you have to be very accurate you have to be a great Marksman according to the rush he says that since if you have 24 hours to be made for another then you shoot a narrow on the wall and you check where the sun is and that's your clock and when the Sun reaches that same point tomorrow then you know another person okay foreign so again we're saying that since all you need is harata all you need is to say I wish I didn't make that nether so you don't have to be a great time or you don't have to look into it there's nothing for you to think about if the guy says I wish I didn't make the nether I didn't make the nether so I could be shooting arrows I could be getting up and walking around I could be sitting down I could be making a coffee I don't have to concentrate the point is once in a while it would sit once in a while it would stand yes it's not awesome I should have just read that line yesterday but I got this we finished this year like three three words too early okay it doesn't matter we got to see a piece of art it's not awesome this is a mission of Mr Chavez says you could be made for a nether ium Nidoran Bishops you could be Mayfair and nedder on Chavez thank you I've been a Shaolin Linda Daria so we have two things here let's review So Yesterday happens to be I don't know if I told I didn't tell you this zombie I was in my son's school and two of my son's friends from his class are in the sheer of Mordechai we have yoi is yo here today so I wanted to show the rebbe that they know what's going on say ask them what's the difference between a Tara nafara and they're telling me about a tornafara then I asked them what is Mega's guys they didn't know guys so the Remy started getting nervous he goes I don't need to know so you got to do the dot okay fine but then I told him I said hamburger as soon as I said hamburger they both started saying what it was they knew exactly half of it is missing it's a little hamburger and they said the olives the whole thing famous right Mordechai myself great so what's the difference hatara is one of the best then or is he says it never happened and therefore retroactively you never made that nether it's a retroactive hatar but when a husband or father are made for the nether not matter the Mayfair the nether it begins right now from now on out the wife or the daughter her nether is no longer another but whatever happened before was so the Mario starts off saying that I have Farah in other words a father or a husband they could do a far on Shabbos do things like that on Chavez we'll see exactly how when we're Venezuelan but to go to the diorama was sitting down and asked for Atara on Chavez it says you could if it's serious what's the Shabbos we have a little bit of a picture here check this out I like the wiggling thing here Sawyer Shabbos you guys see that nothing more let's do that again okay here we go here's the tray now if you look at that Gala it's still moving right now as we speak you see it I don't know if you can see yeah this is all Ashkenazi food this is stuff if you're smarter you just throw up looking at it it's got some Gala some gefilte fish Etc Herring is it I don't know what what you like the wiggling so this is your control to your father he wanted to show his father yesterday's charge from the sheer so he shows him here the red word I said why don't you show him uh Mario okay Pac-Man oh he would have given Meister to learn in this year so as a big run or the famous Road Rabbi are you back from South Africa now what about afaro if you notice it ends off saying that you could do hatara if it's Latoya Chavez a guy made another he's not gonna eat chant anymore I'll never get filter fish anymore it's disgusting but I said sorry for that you let it go mashma there's two ways to learn it that the soil Shabbos goes on both cases anatara and afaro even afaro when a husband is Mayfair his wife's neither has to be the third Shabbos because she can't eat Chong or maybe no maybe let's search Shabbos is only at the end the last part when you go to the best then you go to the three people that has to be Antonio Chavez tashma tutorial Papi so now we have a price here and later I'm going to see that it's actually hooking our mission attacks over here it says even how Farah needs to be for child it needs to be for food for something that has to do with Shabbos you can't just make if your wife says she's not gonna go to extra quiet exercise classes anymore and that has only to do with the weekday so you can't do how far on Shabbos you have to wait until the weekend that's the Bryce omrivashi holiday but in our mission that doesn't say so why what does it say in our mission what if she made a nether right before matsushabas a minute or two before the end May for law actually he should do how for us in the door him right away a minute before mati shops right and the mission explains over there he learned just to learn the yesterday it's a normal days because if you wait until after Shabbos is over then what then you're done for life you can never be made for it because our mission holds you only have until the night time you don't have a 24 hour period so it's only till the night but the mission says what does it say here's the case for boys here's the case once the shop is at seven seven o'clock at night she made another 659 go ahead run run run make our fire right now say it quickly say more for love because if you don't and it's 701 it's too late asking a question says the gemara at 6 59 what could possibly be a sorry of Shabbos why does she need to be made for another now she has 59 seconds left the Shabbos what what's so important to do it right now wait three minutes dude how much is the answer is that you could be made for a nether even shallow its own Shabbos she doesn't have to eat the second she'll eat in another second Shabbos means in the morning now she's starving she made another she's not gonna eat today sorry for that you go to the roof but the mission is telling us to go to the rock or the husband can be made for even a moment before Shabbos is over and over there it's for sure not Shabbos don't send our mission it says she made another one minute before night time Mayfield law actually he better run and do that for himself [Music] he shouldn't be able to do it at all foreign up until the night time slaves right we had this is the zoo the zoo the pier say yeah no oh let's just do the chart for a second here until the night means if there was a nether that started let's say I don't know at six o'clock at night uh six o'clock you go all the way to seven when when night when night Falls but according to the Zug according to the bear you have a 24 out made another at six o'clock you have 24 hours until tomorrow six o'clock to be made for the net the man doorman says if you say call him doesn't mean 24 hours means till the night you don't have more than that is Mayfair now you're in a trouble now it makes a lot of sense this is the good Mark our mission is saying you only have until Nightfall so you have a big brush on your hands what are you gonna do you have made another you have 25 minutes until shkia and a Chavez what do you do if you don't do anything then it's gonna be about to Shabbos that's it it's over you only have until multicabs so because you're limited in time and after showers you won't be able to make it will matter you to be Mayfair even if it's not important for jobs the man dominates but according to the zoo that says you have 24-hour period Then it depends in July this is very good if you have 24 hours there's no rush to do it on Chavez so it depends if it's Sean Gala all the good stuff or whatever it is that's important for Shabbos you can be Mayfair but if it's shall return shaft is no reason for you to be made for now okay and what's our mission our mission is talking about we go according to the model and it says you only have until night time that's my first in the mission because look at the last words over here you can't be made for after nighttime oh so since we only have until night time so now even yeah I'm permitted to be made for on Shabbos because that's our mission the pricer is going according to the Zug and then you have 24 hours and that then it depends if it's uh right before the end of childish or even two o'clock in the afternoon it's going to be the same situation it can't be made first until after hours you said she made another 25 minutes before Chavez was over that's in our mission yeah so he still has to wait till speed up yeah correct correctly no no just means no just means you don't have time you don't have a lot of time he could be made for anything yeah it doesn't mean one minute not Daft in that case it means even that case that's the that is the biggest Loyola sort of case in the world when it's one minute before Shia or before you can't tell me that I need to do it this minute why why is this man better than the next minute which is after Shabbos if you're hungry in the morning I said sorry you know fine okay so the the round just brings down because the round is we get I'm getting used to this you know next time next perception we don't have ran Theron always talks about we pass in that a husband can be made for another what 24 hours until until even without any reason okay now we brought this the top the first words on this Ahmed is and it says over there foreign you're permitted to go to the three dionum and be Mata your nether when it's four Shabbos for something for Shabbos what's the case we're talking about people that they were rushing out of Shabbos they couldn't get to the best then there was no time oh no time okay see we made from Chavez or or we're talking about even in a case where plenty of time they were lazy they said you know Chavez I have a big break I'm off of work I'll do it then is that okay or not this is the Kiku later I bought on the bread he had another daughter he could have made it to the best and 20 times over and he decided to wait until Shabbos and they said okay so you see it has nothing to do with if you have time you not have time you know we're having chance I love us if you have time you could do it if you're a honesty so sometimes you can do you could be house shops and certain things like like a knife of Milo let's say I think yeah am I right if you have time to bring you have no right to do it on Travis no no only if you don't only I'm saying if you didn't have time if you there's no other way no you have to bring it before okay we're not gonna go forget it forget what I just said forget what I just said okay this is but there's a there's a thing called in maximum we learned it but if there's a thing called if you could your past like you do you have no right to do it on jabbas certain things I don't know what the case over here it's not the case even if you have the time you could have done it before you're not gonna call Shabbos you're just being matineeather you shouldn't do it on Shabbos Okay so over here you could do it on Travis you could do it on Travis even if you had the opportunity to do before shops reviews if it looks like a bezden there's a big problem why because when they're born on you don't go to bed on Shabbos president doesn't operate on jobs so if you go to three Diana and sit them down and say Hey I want to be matinether it's going to look bad it's going to look as if you want the best in a job do the same thing with a professional go to somebody that really knows the stuff or one rub that's really good he'll be Matthew another um looks like it did um [Music] is here it's in the picture check this out I like this [Music] Bowman Brothers you see does this look like a peasant to you this is down here we go but these are the itas but the brothers the point is that the brothers the bald men brothers so here you see Craven there we go okay even if the standing and even if it's night time so again you have brothers standing nighttime this is this is not a business all of them ah all of them are as well I don't know okay now sounds like there's a 100 dharm you know Arizona huh oh exactly from this gamara do you do you do you do a thousand dollar to your son a lot of times it happens people has to Shyla on every Shawna what do you do I feel crazy movement I feel it will be craving but I feel about Lila Dino so nobody's going to confuse this for the entire everybody knows on everyone I could do with my son so it's not a real best and nobody's gonna say oh you did a business on Chavez they know it's something different rap says you do a Taurus a foreign at night a husband a father could do that far at night foreign it says before us that you may for another on little Shabbos hello right here no joke but later laugh I'm involved hello is you're permitted to go and do a torah's nether at night I it looks like you're going to a business and there's no business what did Rob really say this they allowed to be matter Mayfair nether at night or Malay ishtig when I asked him the question rather's quiet so I understood from that what that uh they could be made for another he's quiet he's Mighty To Me on my leg so remember tell us was he actually quiet because he was ignoring you or he's quiet because you're saying give this guy Allah this guy just had a beautiful Shiloh a beautiful thing ah murdick let's let's give him Malachi let's give him a drink was drinking that really yeah I just think it's a rap shot the boys that might be a different shotgun not what Iran's saying the Iran has two shot to me but going with the second shot I think I didn't see that in the first person on the Run I know for sure the Iran says like I'm saying but I didn't okay okay let me see are you think about the shot to go see breakfast foreign [Music] two lines from the bottom right there something tomorrow whatever the point is the bottom line is did he agree with you or did he disagree with you how do you know that he was quiet because he agreed with you maybe he's quiet because he disagree with you on my leg owner of ecobar oven is the kicklay rav larabo robs the person that we're asking about RAV yeah the Gola Doran bubble the first Amaro the last Tana he rabba had a Nether and Raph said it's Mother where because who's in a small room over the base mattress like the rabbi's office you know like a little a cotton Kitana debate in the in the basement he was standing it wasn't just that he was quiet he actually said Allah at night um at the end of the day he could go to the best then to be Matthew nether they could be standing it could be uh it could be a night it could be on Shabbos it's not Hill Shabbos Uber Craven could be the Baldwin brothers even if they have time on Friday to do it and it was they're amazing that they didn't do it they could still be shoiled on Shabbos I saw interesting Shiloh today this is not to get hours uh so much but just interesting forget to be done in front of a business in front of 10 people preferably to that the rumor should go out everybody should know that she's divorced there's a couple that had to get divorced some sort of a favorite happened there they had a they had to get divorced and they refused to get divorced the whole thing finally they agreed to get divorced unconditional nobody knows about it private divorce they stipulate it they'll get divorced if it's one rabbit only one Rabbi show my Israel nothing else could they get divorced with one Rabbi and the some slaver pass skinned similar time that if it's a real sorry then you get divorced in front of one row and he has to be very careful and this and be I mean okay whatever not not the past can based on this but just interesting a lot out there foreign what you're standing you let her standing drawing so there's a person like murder says over there the person came during Emilio and wanted to be matinee so remember huh yeah I have to sponsor Greg habers Greg here for broccoli I didn't say everybody should be like oh everybody besides for his entire family and everyone learning to death and last soccer for the members of the HBA group and their families I'm sure you did something I was just hoping is I remember so you wouldn't have time for that I figured I better look over there once we're already been battling what's your name sadik mayor Tesla with a t ower ah tester from Jackson Lakewood and Utah what's your name there you have training yes yes from where leg one another leg wow Lake was taking over huh same flight were you guys learning the dive and taking pictures of each other okay right there so William Leo asked his person there he says do we drink yeah italki are we drunk could we possibly says we can learn a ton of things from this so he said yeah you're drinking and talking so they start going and he tells he tells the guy that has to come you may dial with us so I'm picturing you this you're gonna lose on a donkey and this guy is like running after the donkey three mil somebody just told me yesterday that you know he exercises with his wife she like walks very quick and he drives the car with the window open next to her who told this to me just to ask you somebody in the basement anyways that's what it reminded me he's on the donkey yeah yeah you have a shot of wait wait we're going to be there soon three mil three mil maybe he had a horse I don't know what the other guy had another car fine the bottom line is he gets to the three mil the gamar says that just going on a donkey makes the wine leave not off the donkey Miss Atif he he put on his his you know to to give him some fear some covered some you know to be serious to look into this vyashav and it says he sat asking more how could you stand it says foreign that you start off with karata and you have to be you're the Nether and that's why I had to look into it hold on a second I have to see what the gearsity here is wait a second that doesn't make so much sense ah are you probably see him I don't know what the gear says okay very nothing what happens you need a pet dog right so anytime you need a I think regardless how your guard is here the point is they need a Peta that's the whether you go as poison the point is that you need a petta you need something that you have to think about it's not something that you can just shoot arrows and walk around you need you need a pattern and therefore that's why he sat down you don't need a Peta movement and therefore he holds the lotion you know it's a little off I think it's counterintuitive you just do harata you just say hey do you have you feel bad you made another yeah okay next so you don't need to get off you don't have to sit down um I'm just trying to think here oh yeah very interesting the the rashford the round brings uh I thought it was an interesting lesson just for the lotions could die the rashford says we hold that you you start with karate and since in the beginning you start off with harata so harata so it goes like this forget that that's already going into Los Angeles just a nice question the the Rob asked the guy do you have do you regret what you did and he says no no regret okay amanta my next option what's my next option uh a PESA a real PESA you need to Sith because you need to have yeshivadas you could stand but he started off standing asking you need harata you want harrata no I don't want next you wanna you wanna pass up I need to sit says we don't need to sit you don't need to sit why because once you started standing once he started uh standing he could also continue standing so on that the round says official law you're right at the time I thought it's a beautiful ocean because I don't have a clue what the rash was talking about I can't pass him like him even though it's the rashma I would love to pass away but I don't I have to understand what he's saying for in order for me the basketball game I have to I don't understand I don't understand the logic in it if you have to sit by by a passer so yes that's it who cares if he started outstanding okay only reveler foreign because you sinned why do you sin because you made another we learn check out this uh this thing here oh that just fell off on the ground I never I didn't notice that look at the gala falling in the floor here it wiggled its way off okay oh I'm gonna get an email about that nidorin is a gamatria 304 this is the balatorium and is 304 because whoever makes a net there is not mikaime is his kids die young so you're retail the kid serves they told them I was throwing this in there I I personally for instance I was Macabre and myself in Kipper never to make any Cabelas again foreign [Music] no but for badminton boy it's very very difficult and no excuses me and my covers are schmoozing as the middle caddish and Venice [Music] we walked home and he's like I can't you know when she was in Kansas it's like yeah I didn't realize like it was because it was the words and the kids are yeah it's a proud so the entire night he kept on telling me because we went to learn afterwards and he's like I can't believe I spoke to him so he went and he did truth he went to the side says I didn't I didn't realize and there's a whole thing and then five minutes later he says I can't I can it's unbelievable I never in my life spoke during college I spoke I said it's not Mama's because the he's breaking his teeth at that time and it was like this kid's the whole soccer kids I don't want your excuses the big big karato all right what what because that day yeah unbelievable what do you think no you know it's unbelievable because every single person held like me but you have to sign from so you win you know first of all you know how many people emailed me and called me and stopped me in the street and told me they don't agree with you okay there's only one person in this room that agrees with you knock them no that's it nothing nothing I'm alive okay it's 802. let's let's go let's go yeah [Music] and it's just saying the nether just saying the words you're over even if you're mikaim it later on just by making the nether even if you foreign it doesn't mean that any nether you're gonna make in the future it means any nether you made in the past he explains that's a that's a good lotion in the future means there in the past so listen to this this lotion could you hint in the dark could you make a hint he didn't say he said diary I don't like the fact that you're making the dharm that's a hint says the gamara or he says ainsa nether also not good enough you have to be very very specific and say UFO sees you did a great thing another hint there's nobody like you in the world you're the best it's so good in that there that if you didn't make that nether I would have done it for myself I would have put you in another in other words the difference between a Kill manafara you could do with a hint uh akiom I'm sorry Cube you can do with the hint that far you cannot do then what's the difference you're unbelievable you're you're a great person that's a hint that's a good nether why because you could do in your heart so you can do it in your heart so hinting is much better than your heart heart nobody heard the words at least you hear something and it has some sort of head but how far out what you can't do in your heart you need a a full-fledged a mirror that it's muffer foreign you shouldn't tell your wife that the lotion of afara on Shabbos why because anytime you could change something on Shabbos like that you should change yeah that's that's a hint take it and eat it he's not being made for but it's a pharah clear to see Vanessa bottom a love was shot um when a person does two things in conjunction he's movato in his heart and he tells her a hint that's enough to tell a person a hint is not enough and even vital in your heart is not enough you have to add that if you have a pencil add that into your thing it doesn't mean that is in his heart by itself it's vital in his heart together with the words of cleavage take this and eat it but he was up together because his Shabbos it works let's see we'll talk we'll talk about this tomorrow but boys I have a wonderful day what's up