Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 71 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign you haven't continued to change my life and my entire family life will you see attached video that I posted to my status your tommidt Morty Gable the boys say check out this video very interesting thing he's saying here you ready so ever since learning with Rob Ellie I have not even thought about the fact that it was the Hebrew anniversary of when I started Miguel darf base was on a sarbatavis so just to give you an idea I didn't even think about it to me it's not even impressive because like what he said it's a daily thing and I don't think about it and it's part of my day and I'm like I'm not counting days how long did I do it doesn't matter and I find it to be amazing that there was one thing in my life that I realized that I literally I was like wait a minute like why should I celebrate that it's a year to me celebrating as if I did it today if I did the Dolph today that's celebrating I didn't even think about it I can go five I don't even know I don't know how long ago I go today actually there's no commitment in my mind every day is a new day and I don't commit actually I don't know how I'm gonna go with this but it's today if I do my dive today on a server tables in the dorm we're good very interesting good morning your belly today on the server tables is my one year anniversary since joining this amazing share it began by starting with the circus mcgilla on this day to somebody else and have not looked back since I have a lot of occursive typing your team for missing obviously keeping back is nothing to be strong to be honest if not for your share I would not be able to continue learning that on a daily basis but Hashem uh okay and then a friend of mine posted on a status about your share I looked in the share so you charge the situations the connection to the sheer the seventh I came back from a distro so my journey began on a servitavis but then I had to figure out when to learn because sir he learns 5 45 A.M and as confused he sits down at 5 45 a.m and on Thursday nights and Martin Shabbos I watch this year live and zoom it's enjoyable to stay on after the shoot the schmooz with you and the ilam I love the camaraderie in the Hebrew that ndi is the offer whether it's the local New York City cinema bellworks it's so beautiful to see different types of backgrounds all coming together for one cause to set aside time to learn Torah every day ooh keeps on going and now unlike Robert cost from yesterday I feel that because I have set time to learn my personality I've taken a big leap Leonardo and a better husband and father my two children a better educator to countless children who I encountered daily even my children know the memorial boys including my 16 month old she already knew this ah around 11 months old Manish I've made a lot of new friends since joining mdy ring queen with old ones in addition connection to Dr Feinberg from the days of networking May Hashem give you us to give many more years in this ability to an entirely example to the kive material until 120 years or May looking forward to seeing you in Miami in person culture of Rabbi yiddi Schwartz and here is the 11 month old or the 16 month old with the ah [Music] and she's holding the hat if you notice okay you know your mdy when you start dreaming that you're in cheer and you woke up and where's the pizza because he's middle of his fast and he's dreaming that he's in cheer with Ellie's the fan ski and uh uh the kids are Shaker as the middle of listening to somebody say shots he may as well she's doing away since before brochus a personal recruit of her belly Joseph and Zev see you in Miami it means Hashem beautiful looking forward to Joseph and this is guski I just learned that in uh German you it's a j instead of an I so you put this on a status I I didn't understand I mean I understood the first thing dasmine Ellie stefansky that much I understood and it said YouTube fourteen thousand nine hundred companies acting like that little things like 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for the month for complete before shlema Ben Leo foreign now which basically means a brand name is starting today [Music] arusa if a woman who's engaged meaning she received money a ring from her husband so she's a an arusa in the time of the gemara she said but she's not married all she's missing is hopa once she's married what happens she leaves her husband her father's rashos and there's no more how far is the darn from the father but she's not married she's listening so she got divorced what's the day so check this out right over here what Yoshi did for this is very large ears it's shama he heard we're going to be talking about that the Shemia is the auros the arrow started but it could be the father it could be the artist Demar says the Stars so if somebody heard that there's a net there once you hear it doesn't matter when it happened let's say it happened six years ago but you heard it today the clock starts thinking I have one day to be Mayfair so the arrows let's say heard the nether she got divorced she got divorced that's why it says because you only have that one day once the clock starts ticking why is the clock start ticking because there's a hearing there's a shmia somebody heard the nether someone meaning the father or the Horus and now [Music] she gets engaged again even if there's a hundred men what's that local now what what's going on here 100 men so yo she did a a very nice piece of art I think to give us a little schmuck here this could be the future by the way this is the beginning of the future here check this out this is oh this he's showing large is they go through the Hat I mean it had a poke a hole in the Hat okay now who's poking fun that's it amazing it's better one game bye-bye oh yeah appreciate it so if you check this out what's going on here is like this this is and she's saying that there's a tremendous Monument here of a Mitzvah you could get engaged to get divorced behind in the midst of the Shema and all the money goes to koitish to the badatz in front there's a a ring machine you could buy a ring for a pruta and there's a there's a lot of patsky villain and raboysai here it goes let me show you what happens pay attention they all start lining up the bezen comes into place and a Mouse runs through should we do that again no no the mouse has no chance to anything [Laughter] um yeah I can do this slower Ellie you're on the beach but they're getting she's getting divorced there you need the best then okay that's down look you're asking about it it's great okay so now that's why if you had a child of why she would get married 100 times in that one day it's once every 12 minutes you have to get married get divorced no no super nothing just get married get divorced I don't know if you notice but here's the Akron here's the reason so the first guy in line that's the reason number 14 in this case if she didn't acquire her own domain in other words she's not a beggaris she didn't turn 12 and a half and she's not in the Sewell she didn't get married even for one moment yesterday in Iran and Judah David jumped out of his seat like huh are you joking happens to be that I found here in the run so it's a pretty long run says the asvara here I'm not saying this will understand 100 he says where's it like two four six eight nine lines from the Bottom by me the nearest time but this is the reasons we're going to see this later about when it becomes weak he steps in instead of the first one you want like what does this guy have to do with we're just saying svara you didn't miss anything say You're beautiful smart how does this how does the second engaged guy he missed the whole thing he took his kid to school look at this hold on you ready hold on here look look you see what's going on there and look at the mouth right now oh okay you didn't miss anything fine oh so we're over here we're over here it should have been a rabbit right why how does number 14 come into the picture over here oh the net there was done but first guy the first guy took over the nether where is he coming says the round of lotion he's carried the reshoid he steps in he's in like he's another he's another engaged guy he fits right into what the first guy was doing okay Kevin the Mars Lars car seat I forgot to actually ninja even though it's weaker okay it goes into that we're going we're going to the week and not week in a few moments says the gemara in mayfairim shiniru so says the run over here that this is schwalt talking this is shmuel um shmuel started out this this thing in other words shmuel had a Kabbalah from his Rabbi sister who heard that is another he's midstarif to the father if the arrows heard about it he knows about it then you have to have a combination of a father and an artist together which is Big right so how do we know this um left then the Dharma already there so if you look at the puzzle it says like this they're on her and then it says their honor so in other words the Allah is not necessary you can get without the allele I know it's all natural it's already it's uh the nadarama on her why did it say on her twice in the apostle so we can say from here I learn this idea that they were there already beforehand and even though they're there beforehand the Hassan the arrows is with the father to get rid of them the father is not in full control he needs to come onto the Hassan I could have shown you that I don't know if it would have helped when we learned the tsugya a few days ago we had the three parishes the the top power show when this girl was under the father's complete resus then she became an arusa and then she became a nosua so this positive isn't when she became arusso you're talking about an arusa and it says already on her from beforehand this is the gamara Doom out of me this is what's bothering everybody lawyers reshine maybe this is talking about because the first guy that was engaged he never knew about it I will adore him where in the world does this the second 15th guy a hundredth guy in line have any shot has any connection to the nether that happened beforehand by by the first engaged guy if let's say we go let's not throwing this out there not that this explainer not that anybody ever said this but let's say it has to do with the savara like she made another aldasa auros over we're not really talking about that but again what is the the second auros have to do with the first Stars sorry so I should have said it here this is where the gemara says the extra allel not in the beginning that's where we learn it's an extra word and this is yes even though it doesn't make so much sense to us but there's an extra word and therefore we learn from that extra word that the arrows the second arrows he goes in combination with the father to be matter nether that nothing to do with him it happened beforehand now the Gamora brings a ride foreign ers beautiful nairo were you asking if I made a broke or not no no okay did you make a run I have no idea I did okay thank you foreign we have uh naira a 12 year old between 12 and and 12 and a half who's engaged muras you need a combination of the father and the husband to be made okay here's the case so the the father heard okay as big ears he heard about it step two he was made for it he destroyed it what happened to the house and nothing he doesn't have big ears he didn't hear about it but because they're engaged the father needs to come under the house and you need the cost of it the problem is bye bye he's not around anymore and then she goes at the lavaya this is worse than the worst things you could say out of Shiva house this is at the lavaya awesome he says have a great show for you why are you so crying so much here oh okay in the cemetery foreign so over here you see what you see on the bottom small over here you have two x two wrecking balls you need the two of them the father and the Hassan why since the engaged guy died so the father we'll see in a second Martin will explain it better than I'm going to explain it now it says okay says it more like this so that's the ratio okay we have case number one in both cases not to get confused in both cases step four happens the arrows dies the difference between case one and case two is who heard it exactly in case one the father heard it and before the cousin had a chance because in case two we have the Hassan heard it and the Hassan did the zafaro the father did not hear it and then the cousin died what's inside hold on this is this is all it's all small hold on so again over here again the same thing happened as in the first case where the bowel Doris dies ER Ave um then the father who didn't do that far at all so the lotion is a little interesting it says he has to redo the husbands the orus's portion which means he has to redo both of their portions okay so we have two cases here we have a race and a safer the ratio is where the father heard the father's Mayfair the husband dies in that case you need you have another case where the husband heard the husband was Mayfair the father didn't hear then the husband dies so then the father by himself is Mayfair there's always in a day yes yes okay that's exactly what we're talking about but she got engaged she got engaged again she got engaged again so here yeah that's it that's exactly it now we're talking about itself so over here what happens over here the husband the father is Mayfair than nether without the husband at all without the artists or revolution so this is we had a little bit of this oh very nice this is going according to be shot so it goes like this the Ron says we have two shot them here in the round we have the shot that we're gonna go with and then we have Tysons it says that the safer is am I in other words the ratio everybody agrees to everybody's going to agree in duration of there's at the end of the day they shoot for us if the father heard the father's Mayfair the Hassan died it all goes first but I will be silai you can't do it yourself what agree in that case hold on everything everything will be we'll see in a second but in this case where the husband heard the husband was Mayfair and then the father didn't hear the Father the husband died so the husband is made for it by himself but he still say no the husband the father is not made for by himself like over here this is what bishan I hope they still say not the father by himself but you need children okay so now you're here the maclagas is in the second case whether you need or just the father that's what it says that's what it means here doesn't mean he can't at all it means he needs a partnership he has to come out to somebody else the Hassan the second cousin we have a new Carson we're trying to prove what are we trying to prove here we're trying to prove shmuel's halacha that Judah jumped out of his seat yesterday we have a new Hassan showing up foreign shows up before she has a chance to go to Shiva he gets engaged and now he could annul and be made for a nether that had nothing to do with him had everything to do with the first cousin that died and how does he do it together with the father they go to the best in the Mayfair right then and there before they go to Shiva was shocked right let's okay hold on outside yeah well we'll see in a second now we just turned to that iron Olive Ahmed Bayes sure but it's very long we're doing the entire round don't worry about it kidding Divine Oliver was sponsored by Greg Haber for broccoli for his entire family and everyone learning the Duff and la slacher for the members of the HBA group and their families oh man so let's just say this about Pat for a second going back to the machoikas of Vegas guys and miklas College what happens when a one of the two partners in a nether you have a father and a an Engaged man and they both come together and they both have to be Mayfair individually the Nether on the day that they hear on the day that one of them here is actually if one of them hears the other guy has to do it that day it's not on the day you hear on the day he hears okay fine but what happens Shiloh that we had is the one that takes that's made for the nether does he get rid of 50 percent completely and then there's a solid piece of nether left a 50 of the nether or so be like this let's say it's Tuesday Sim so one remains and one is gone and I'm gonna use the the zaysim as as the example there not the hamburger or Nicholas college or does it become very weak so shy is like this in a case where the husband heard the nether and the husband was made for the nether and you say make us guys make us guys means that he got rid of his portion you see that that one Olive that has an x on it it's gone it's gone from the world so it's gone from the world and then he dies so what did he give over to the second cousin nothing there's nothing for him to give over because his Olive is is gone it's demolished so Mama the father according to bisham he's going to do it himself he has one solid Olive left and he's going to do that fire all by himself that's bisharma they still say no miklash College so it's very weak the whole thing is very weak Emma Mela he actually gives it over he he didn't accomplish anything you hear what's going on here the first Hassan didn't get rid of anything all he did is he damaged the olives a little bit but if you damage you weaken that's not an accomplishment you didn't get rid of anything from the world so when Mela everything in step three transfers over to the new guy why I don't know there's a little bit of a smart I can tell you and I said before as far what yeah all the weakness transfers over Emma Mela if it transfers over to the hustle number two that's why you need partnership from the father and the hustle together and that is what that's what shall says that's what you says imbecilo we see what and should be still is great we like to go with Bissell so it fits in perfectly that what there is a case where the arrows number two who you can't even believe and imagine that he has any connection here he goes together with the father and he's made for another why because he's so to speak inherited on Nether from the first class and he gave it over if it was Mega's guy is if you got rid of half fifty percent of one and all you left is 50 so there's nothing for the Classen to inherited my then you don't need any AFR at all let's see inside [Music] now what about a case that shmuel says that artist number two what do we do over there because that's a case that's the case where right that's the case where the artists heard it but he didn't do anything about it he didn't damage and he didn't he didn't get rid of it so if you don't get rid of it it's in the world and mamela transfers over over to the next Hassan and then you need a partnership to destroy yeah in a case where the Hassan does nothing we're talking about in this case why are the olives light and weakened because the casa number one did an action he took action he he said I'm a for it let's say hustle number one heard and didn't do anything didn't do anything so what happens to the olives they stay nice and dark green and if they're Stark dark green two of them and then there's a casa number two around he dies and the hustle number two is there the Hassan 2 is going to get those those strong olives no then you're gonna reach out to us no in a case even I'm saying even be shama agrees even be Sharma agrees that when the Hassan didn't do anything he didn't open up his mouth he wasn't Makai in the nether it wasn't made for the night it wasn't kinda neither but he heard the nether so then it transes all to the second castle you need a shot was over there somebody yesterday I think one of the kids answered my thing he was he was probably right which kid said that you could be mikaiman nether by not saying anything if the day went by who's saying which kid yeah he's right he stopped me I didn't want to be mudded at the time no because I'm in the past like it says before like it no it says the coming of the real when he's quiet become who uses even Allah I thought I I think he might be right I'm not 100 positive but I thought that if you don't do uh Kim you don't do you don't think action then it then it just it becomes a good net they're not that's probably right it becomes hold on a second one minute Thomas we said it's a zombie should come every day with your brother with your brother both of you finish eyes together okay do we have a spiral why are the second hours yeah so this is as far in the Run that he says like this that has to be similar the second order should be similar to the first Stars that the first artist never had an adore him that he didn't hear something like that so maybe the second horse also should be similar to the first Stars it says okay values what what no it's a question Megan's guy is just make his guy is then then no no forget about Ivor that you don't need that you don't need the the husband if you say Nicholas College you need a husband we still say Nicholas College how many people have to be made for the nether again let's go back to this picture here's the here's one picture according to be sham I look at step six the end this is the end the end fathers May the the Hassan you see there's the X on the Hassan he didn't get anything he didn't inherit anything if he doesn't inherit anything bottom line is you're Judah bottom line is the the father does it himself but if the Hassan doesn't have it in step five you see check Marty inherits you need two people that's enough give me to make his guys let me close isura okay the round is afterwards what part of the round I have no idea were you looking you're looking places you're looking in the round shot it takes two hours to learn the thing you want to do it now he's masking okay fine next yeah it's very very smart it goes like this no no in this case just this this case what's what's the mahalaik is between right once again because we have five minutes we have more no no no okay okay we have my colleague in this case you want this case you want to see the picture you don't want to see the picture when a Hassan here's another and he's Mayfair he's made for he takes action he's made for what happens when he takes the action what happens what's what's in the background what's the technical how does it work technically nobody else did anything the Hassan took action did he get rid of half the nether or did he weaken the entire nether but didn't get rid of anything huge huge nothing if he got rid of half the nether then he doesn't he's not murish anything to anybody he got rid of half the nether so what what happens to the other half the same thing that was happening before there's another person involved his name is the father because when when you have a naira muras you have a father and a Hassan the Hassan took action at 12 o'clock in the afternoon then comes the father and he takes care of his thing I the Hassan is dead who cares he left 50 percent for the father to take care of but if you say that when the Hassan took action he didn't take he didn't get rid of anything he left entire nether as is slash its weakened it's in a weakened state it looks like this so now there's something to be Morris to the to the next guy to the Hassan so if you're going to be murdered that's called you're going to merge that to the Hassan so now you have two people involved you have a question and a father before you only had a father because it was not weakened it was only 50 and the 50 goes to the father but this is a whole eurusha so to speak we use lotion of yerusha is mintak mirish whatever you want to call it he takes these olives in a weakened State very by the way in all cases when the Hassan dies whatever he did we have to understand fine but now you need at least two people but that's exactly what Shimon said the what the when a woman makes a nether a woman I call her a woman she's a narrow she's a kid she makes a Nether and she has a first caution and he's Mayfair and he goes away he goes bye-bye and then she gets married even a hundred times the last guy in the list he has to be made for the nether together with the father abiding White the answer is because according to be Silo it was only a weakened State the entire time when the first guy was made for the only good weakness weakness goes on to the next question and from the next lesson the next lesson goes all the way to the end number 14 or 100 whatever the cousin is he all of a sudden inherits he didn't ask for it he comes into the beautiful in the cemetery plus not only a crying Kyla but plus he has an alarm on her that another Hassan saw but because he inherited it why did he inherit it because it's weak so he has to come on to the father-in-law see I need two wrecking balls there that's that's the riot to small they need two not one no I just told him I know that's been so and Bishop is saying Mega's guys make this guys means that half the nether is gone gone the half which half is gone the half of the Hassan so all Hassan in the world don't get anything because he got you know what he did to it he burnt it it's zero nothing there here one Olive the one with the x is gone now you have another olive who takes care of that Olive the the person that was supposed to take care from day one which is the father in in step five don't get anything but the nest that usually we have a longer Dove so I don't have to repeat myself you're just trying to get to 805. what are you trying to do here yesterday is this how you understood it the second time after the first time yeah you went with us I heard a rumor is it Ms I heard a room that you got up and danced when you heard the runs trapped Ellis I am donating twenty thousand dollars tell me why if he gets up and dances here no they'll never happen he will never do it it won't do it he won't do it we'll do it okay I mean we could we could do this tomorrow we can do it now Garrison you have an orus you have an artist yeah he hears he he gets his that's beautiful and it's right after the engagement you know you know what I mean like all of a sudden everything starts spilling out by the way I have this disease and this Michigan this and also at 45 in Durham adios let's go to the sofa we're riding up again they're engaged engage you have to do again so does that mean that he doesn't care about the nadarium does that mean he wants to be Mayfair what is the what does it mean I'm giving a get I'm a communist or I'm made for it yes you can stick it down here comment down yo what is it is it is he he's being quiet he doesn't care he's he's ignoring her he's just gonna divorce and get out of there quickly or he's actually saying oh oh you're in the dark I'm a queen you know foreign and he remarried her that day I have unbelievable Joker advice I want to tell you a joke there's a guy that divorce's wife and a minute later he got remarried to her so he's the answer like why he said off Civic Chaney she's a good enough I said it yesterday in the email but thanks for paying attention I mean why did why why do they do this who knows I mean it's a midst of them it's dangerous you never know she'll take you back but it's a mitzvah fine now this is Shyla you know I have a shadow for the island here's a good child that when you get divorced from your wife and you take her back let's say take her back you have to wait the seven days that every cow in the world Waits because does she or doesn't she have to wait seven days in this case over here says they got married that day what happened to the seven days no this is a human by your wife this is the scheme would buy a ex-wife I'm asking is over here so there are some say that yes there is and and in fact they're being over and then Allah or there's no because they were just married a minute ago okay anymore okay well should we stop over or stop over here a boy's eye have a wonderful day