Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 66 by R’ Eli Stefansky

all right are we good good morning round boys welcome to all the guests we have a bunch of guys from Dallas what's your name tadek Shelly Weiss Shelly Wise from Dallas and these are your sons Ephraim and all safe wow beautiful okay who else do we have here oh from Antwerp yeah David David David David is his name well first of all you started with us when I I started with asansoka soccer that's right Suka and you guys no way yeah yeah yo Brooks buys guy nobody started Brooks by his there he started Brooks gimbal darling how'd you find us you're one of those guys how many deaths did you miss throughout the whole thing Badness I was late the lids evolving but you never missed it up unbelievable wow I'm talking about Madness the voice that we have with us Michael bunch of streets somewhere yeah there he is all the way from Miami yes yes he worked really hard on the seam and buff Hashem is going great over 250 people signed up already and we have a month to go it's gonna be a huh in one week times four more weeks no okay let's try to get the 500. [Laughter] unbelievable okay Zach is here all right boys I want to show you a picture of Paris time Levine at the question this week he's staying there for the entire shot well not there because they ran out of rooms he's staying 20 minutes away actually that's the walk but Yankee Cohen paid for an entire bill I think it was a big Bill Cohen and there he is I have to say thank you to godalia million from cash United for allowing us look two sides not one with the TV screen gave us the you know front spot unbelievable and he already signed up people the actually writing from above I'm on a plane watching this dive the good morning discussion breaking ashore You're Gonna Go it reminds me of beautiful that my reputation reisman once said over the reason why yako was very sad the news that happened to us there actually says they would have 12 and now he's gonna have the 12th shave it the brisker of ass why didn't yaakov go and marry another wife and have one more child with her to get 12 he answers that at the end of passes by Yeti promises love on do not take another wife and he could he couldn't be Mata nether it could have imaginator but Tyler keeps his word if drug brings down this Vari Dimensions from today to show what happens when you don't keep your word keep up with your holy word Thomas Ivy from Waterbury Connecticut this is interesting and it took me time to have what he's saying but this is a hasid mdy from Barber Park shimmy Braun from Rosh Hashanah death base I'm sure you got a lot of emails how do you have the husband to bring an animal into these majors and then he goes into the whole thing that you are way more than hashtag so so true we may love story belly so track more has see them was the first language Yiddish I suggest having everything do you speak seven languages all seven like except how many languages do you speak English language so five five languages they keep you back because they only knew five nine seven it's a common review that you have Hasina from Stanford Hill participate in the chair you're Thomas schulenbergovic it's kind regards home Burgers he says that what oh the Rope the Roll-Ups and the efforts advertising to circulate before we start a new value should all be in Yiddish maybe okay oh here's one of my famous construction guys in our attic during construction this is what they do he's just one of my neighbors was not happy with him because like uh one of the stones fell on his porch so he called him a monkey so from from that that day on these guys are called monkeys you call them monkeys they call themselves monkeys they ran on the wall monkeys here he is foreign [Music] being alive when you give I once heard a great idea the kids are wisely hard on the left not on the right the answer I heard if it's perfectly what you spoke about yesterday the heart is on the right side when someone is facing you what this means is that we're intended to give our heart over to others and lending support and help we're looking to fill other people's needs that is true life and that is true giving thanks for continuing to keep every day interesting I look forward to turning the share every morning to see what else you'll come up with to keep people tuned into learning Alex Gilden my voice I I started writing this but I ran out of time what is the opposite of pain is it pleasure no what's the opposite of pain very good Gary the opposite of pain is no pain not necessarily pleasure this that's not my advice Weinberg the opposite of pain is Comfort no pain yeah and it's Tower today the coil is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood and so is the art the art is sponsored by Anonymous and I want to tell something to Mr anonymous I know it's a big thing to give zaka anonymously but I believe also there's an Indian think about it if you're going to encourage other people because people think that we don't have sponsors that we just make up Anonymous and others but if you come out and you say hey it's me you might encourage another person somebody that you know somebody else to give and mamela the Mitzvah might be greater than keeping it Anonymous but I respect that huh it's you happy and Benny wow you know what we'll send some more guys there so look a little Fuller most of the guys are from our base matters thank you no that was good we had 70 people on what's the Shabbos 70 right there not in that little by the way Benny did they finish the floor so the by the bus I forgot Prager who's the battle Buzz over there so some some guys doing uh the the owner of that show is doing the Bar Mitzvah there he's the owner of the show and um my daughter is a famous hairstyle she's doing the hair here by Eliza Jacobs check it out [Laughter] I'm saying these are these are very you heard the joke on me because I don't want to repeat it if you heard you don't look interested okay so she's telling me all about that they put a brand new floor down in the basement the whole building just for the bar mitzvah it's unbelievable anyways thank you for having us there and um foreign happy birthday foreign almost like uh not almost a lot of it is Agatha and very gishmag move this and the Very typical Insurance a lot of times when we have a gadget uh it's like the Calm before the storm we're starting a beautiful parrot the famous famous parrot of naira maraso and it's not going to be that much of God to there let's just say it like that and we have to weather the storm over you guys the fell out during evamas there's light at the end of the tunnel I'm saying it today not tomorrow says the official mission is sponsored by Alan Khan in memory of bad Abram please so a person makes a net there he has a way out of the nether with a pass out if the he goes to Rob and the Rob says hey had you known this and this we've made the nether had you known that what you did is also you said you're going to frame from eating meat what about Travis you have to enjoy yourself on Shabbos did you know that oh I didn't know I didn't know okay the nether is gone foreign what about Sunday Monday Tuesday in the beginning they said yeah this Pathak is a great idea for him to be allowed to eat meat and wine on Shabbos because had he known that you must eat wine eat meat and drink wine he wouldn't make such an ether but what about Sunday Monday he has to continue with his Nether and Sunday Mondays once you get rid of part of the nether the whole thing Falls away Emma Mela he's permitted to eat meat and drink wine or whatever his nether was chocolate during the week as well hey Todd what's the case all my queen so he tells yeah so we have Apostle ishkidar Netherlands skip a little bit everything that comes out of his mouth he has to keep and we may love he can't do because it doesn't include Chavez so it doesn't include Sunday Monday Tuesday the whole letter is God another example is I'm not going to benefit from all you guys he looks at a whole room of people like here a lot of times here a few days or ah here we go not you behind you I know you're smart what's your name Tyler Allen or more we met yesterday now behind you is another side like he's a good friend of mdy what's your name are you allowed to say yeah we found them you're going to hear the name you're gonna know the name you should just know that he came to the show to learn for two weeks took a little uh sabbatical for all you do so no I was just saying like sometimes I don't even notice there's a guy sitting in the corner here there at the show I was here the whole share wow yeah a guy says he looks the whole room he says oh you're almost done I hate you all right if so here's a here's an example well when I was in cashier now she was a pretty difficult time to give sheer this beautiful speeches around the clock and they do a badafka I think why why speech started at two and ended at four in the morning and uh you want to hear these things and you also have to prepare share but and that was pretty much the most difficult death I think in Daria Saturday I'm just going to show you the charts I made there there's two ideas We're not gonna go into it really just a quick brief Kazar you understand you understand you understand there's something called my middle something called mashana you take the words that the person said and you keep them as is or you change it up a little bit rava exactly so what happened was and and the situation is that the guy didn't realize his father was in the group of people so there's a whole Nina gamara doesn't mean that he would have changed everything he said or would have okay name it and not is it like you're all lost sir besides my father so we had a little bit of mahlikas there exactly how it works but the the bottom line is we have a concept here according to Akiva Hotel on if the father is part of the group you just look over this quickly this is back from then fight whatever if he says this is not really the example that's coming up but the idea is that if one of the people in the group happens to be his father and of course he wouldn't put his father in a nether why would he tell his father he can't benefit from me and because the father is out of it and he's not part of it and we saw on the positive it says everything and everybody so they're all motor the the nether is bot now this is the picture this is Dr Factor the back of Dr vac I mean points at each and he points to each and every one it's not not I don't I don't see it I've never seen it I see it from the front so that's how I drew you sorry yeah yeah how do you know Yoshi's for sure not here anyways he goes you you you and you now I don't know if you know but the guy on the right I didn't blow him up that's Ivy Factor's father the guy with the hat Shady knows if he didn't realize there's a guy on the right it's his own father and he's the first one so it goes like this if the guy the first guy he started out with is green so then they're all green if his father happens to be all the way on the left the last guy that he made another then his mother everybody else's officer because basically what he was doing is he says he starts with no I'm fixed number one he says this guy amudana and this guy should be like him Avi should be like norm and avi's twin should be like Abby and my father should be like the rest okay but once you take off the last guy he's just the last guy and you could get rid of him and everybody Remains the Same this I don't know if you go here it's not good just in case he goes this is the chart I did in cashier now she let's say you get the guy in the middle so if there's a heter to him that Heather keeps on moving to the to the left but it doesn't take place the people before him because he says this one is like you start from the first one he says and the second one should be because uh the third one should be because uh and the fourth so oops so we may let everybody before I don't know why it's doing that everybody before is also everybody after him is Moto if he says Allah carbon very strong lotion it should be like caught him it says sorry but okay I'm not gonna benefit from this guy like a carbon uh carbon Street once you use a strong lotion we'll see a little bit more then you need to go the rub about each and every individual had you known this guy's your father when you've made this another no you know this guy's your best friend no so each but each one needs a special PETA foreign here's a great picture from Yoshi enjoy it while it lasts these pictures not that many pictures we're gonna make we're gonna make giveaways we're gonna come up with something but if somebody says I'm refraining from wine why because it's really bad for my intestines it's bad for my stomach it's really good musician so this is you have to go to the road for this or because he made a mistake you don't have to go to the rough you don't have to go to the rub you made a boo-boo he thought wine is no good turns out wine is great for the stomach so since it's great for the stomach and and that is going on aged wine Village we had these things I'm not gonna have any onion because onion is bad for the heart I'm alive there's a type of onion that's great for that coffee and therefore he's more than the coffee without going through it but let me go through solemn all onions are motored without a PESA says it's actually a story a person made another against all onions Sullivan he said no you're wrong there are some onions that are really good okay so everything became water says the guimara Hotel because then the Mr continues but if he says the word carbon then you have to get a pet app for each and every one Montano who's this the difference if he looks at five people he says I swear to all you XYZ so he has to bring a carbon feature in every one or no he has to say I swear to you and I swear to you and I swear to you five I have to talk to each and every one individually oh so this is Weinberg what's the opposite of really bad wine no not good wine not bad wine the opposite of bad wine is not bad wine you don't have to go to the polar opposite you have to go to the asking tomorrow why does the mission have to say that there's wine that's really good for the stomach all you need to say is there's wine that's not bad for the stomach he said another the reason I'm not going to drink wine is because it's really bad for my stomach all it needs to find out is there's a type of wine that's not bad for the stomach so it's not in your nether why do I have to say that's good for the stomach it actually heals you but typically they ain't rap you don't have to exaggerate and go all the way to the opposite Extreme as long as it's not bad we could have stopped there we don't want to stop at that it's just not bad we want to tell you this is actually why that's good for you it really ruins his nether it really tells us that he doesn't have to make a pet though same question with David maybe there's a argument that's not bad for your heart what you and your condition I hear no but we're telling you we're telling you I don't know that the gemara I'm not I don't think the gamar is talking about hidushimir is talking about a fact foreign you don't have to go that far but it happens to be that wine is really good for your stomach it's just not wine is good maybe it's telling you uh like that in health I don't know and onions also um you don't have to be like glitch everything is for the for the Lumbers no I'm saying seriously maybe you should know what he said is so off because this wine is not not just not bad but this wine is actually good for you so what you said is it's realism what are you saying dig something Daddy has to ask you [Music] want to know how it looks like we'll explain it says the mishna the official mishna sponsored by Alan Khan memory of Heaven so again they tell the guy listen had you known that your nether was so bad you had to divorce your wife and now you ruined your reputation now you're a divorced guy you know you can't be a robin a soul you can't do this you can't certain things are not so good if you're divorced it might hurt you should do him for your children etc etc would you would you have made that nether it's a nice pass out boys you ruined your kid's reputation you should know this guy has a habit he divorces his wife migorous is saying they're gonna rumors start flying why did they get divorced um I'm not saying this is mizano why are you divorce well it wasn't her fault it was the guy's fault he made a dumb nether nevertheless they'll start saying things oh the daughter of a Zion is a bad thing foreign so this is we had this yesterday I said I warned you it's going to be in today's Mission he says I'm not going to marry this woman because she's ugly and turns out that's a lie it's not ugly she's not there was a guy I think this is Brother this exhibition name safer I might be mistaken maybe Islam uh there was a guy that was that his kid was born with like a a five inch nose what's going on here so nobody in my family has it nobody in my wife's family has it second second kid is born until he finds out that his wife had plastic surgery she had that nose she wanted to know if it's a mega pose or not fine always the opposite it's not but he finds out skura see it in the kids very levana dark complexion he's thought she's dark she's light so sorry sorry arruko motorbike there's a message that a guy found out that his kala when they were engaged she's a lot shorter than he thought he thought that she was a certain height but turns out she's wearing very high heels and he wanted to break the up because of mechachaus so Salon said that he's right he could break the shadow why because he cannot she can't he thought that as is she could wear heels and she'll be taller but she was already wearing heels I'm not making this up MMA made us to make a close and he said you can break the off sorry what look at these suggests there's a here it's coming up in the mishnah you see that right they did uh what is it called dad she's wearing a long dress how do you see this whatever it was he didn't notice okay there's a lot of other questions a lot what he didn't have that she's not dark because she's all this I think that's a stronger question fine all right something says where are we we're in the middle of a mission here no way I like when you work hard sorry I've been asking I'm like got me Factor me and Avi give you work every day you have to just cut the like just make a nice clean cup what's wrong with this story The Mission explains no it's not shot that she became beautiful because as the round explained yesterday that's not something that a person anticipates you don't become beautiful gain a bunch of inches else we're talking about a case with the whole another was a mistake to begin with he thought one thing like my uncle that knocked on the door he thought one thing is this completely different story um right is a Mitzvah to marry your niece and we also said that the niece is very similar to your personality because it's the daughter of your own sister and you're a woman's children go after the brother-in-law so he's the brother-in-law he's the uncle they bring her into Small's house they made her beautiful the one's gonna say you probably think we're talking about makeup whatever no they gave her a golden tooth she had a terrible tooth you have a nice tooth but others say we're talking about the game of clothing whatever today it's makeup beneath now he takes the Hassan you made a nether that you're never gonna marry this woman you're never gonna have anything to do with it do you recognize her is this the the woman you're talking about I'm really laugh no no don't recognize her her teeth are very different the nether is off it's the poverty that causes their face to shrink and and and and all the problems that comes with malnourishment and therefore that's why they look like the way they look but they're really beautiful noises and when Ruby small died the the the women the Menace Israel noises Benoist Israel doors of his of Christ Israel should cry because later but it's very interesting that the guimara said we want to learn that it says that on tubov the ugly girls would come out and say what's the lotion over there oh no something like that take me but but give me gold what was shot I'm ugly marry me and give me gold not only are you ugly I have to give you gold but it says over here and especially with the gold tooth now I'm thinking it even makes even more sense that you could what they're saying is I'm not really ugly you think I'm ugly but if you give me the Hoover if you you'll beautify me give me a golden ring give me something that's going to make me look a lot better says the gamara mice let's start we start off the mission of saying that if she's if you thought that she's ugly but she turns out she's beautiful it says mephourish that if she turned from ugly to beautiful that doesn't work it's only because you thought that she's ugly but she's beautiful but turning her interview if she turned into Beautiful by herself that doesn't work that's not a good Panda and then we bring a story from Ishmael that he made her beautiful and then he took off the nether is that uh you're bringing me a story to contradict what you said says and he says even if she's ugly and she turns into beautifulness then the nothing goes off and I'll tell you a story sponsored by Greg Haber for Rojo paranosa for his entire family and everyone learning the DAP and also let's look up for the members of HBA group and their families on Maine huh whatever it is she had a false tooth vaselore manufactured a tooth from his own money I got an email this morning from Mordecai's not Seltzer but Salter from Muncie and he says maybe the shot is not yet you got some time maybe the shot is that he gave his own tooth mom is his own tooth and it brings a story told me to check it out it was you know it was early in the morning I didn't have time you guys can check it out on tour anytime it's called the the greatest gift ever is of a husband that gave his wife his own eyes something like that okay check it out but small gave Michelle from his own from his own tooth okay nice shot okay when I see so here's the pasok um I have a picture of uh how you could beautify somebody with little teeth it's not it says the immoral I it's coming up later but whatever here I I kind of ruined it here but nice and straw else so this is the positive saying that the you beautified the the girls of Clyde Israel with with the lavush some even learned Shawnee is the lesson of shen it's a play on world words okay says gamara I am from you unless you go to the dog give him some of your food you have to make sure they eat review the time review the fell for it he said you know what let me play ball here because I'm saving a marriage um you're if a person accuses his wife of being misiac with a man she becomes a saita and he brings a piece of and they give you the waters what kind of water is water but it has a parish in the tire they take with hashem's name you put in the water and and it erased hashem's name and then she drinks the water so you later erase hashem's name in order to verify what happened there to make peace between a husband and wife we're hoping that she wasn't misana and then she Gets Braces and everything I'm just a boss of a dumb so let me drink a little bit of her soup and and make everything go away however shimming late time the husband's part what are you telling your wife Omar and he gave her a curse you should be a widow your husband should die and all his children should die the martial says because somebody that makes a Nether and doesn't give the net there the the punishment is that his kids die young I'm not going to fall for this I'm not moving he he was over it's not the wife's fault it's his fault he should get punished that there shouldn't be a problem in the dharam now people shouldn't uh go light on the dorm and think that people are going to help them out and drink their food eat their food but you see from here again the another he didn't want to eat then he's in the middle of talking learn with everybody and then this woman comes and says Ready eat this food so he ate it it's a novel a hotel personal terrible myself I want you to spit at the door asses you see a theme here that women they they went along with their husband whatever the husband they were good women doesn't said spit you spit I don't care I do it she went us as a rocker killer voucher she spattered him but she cheated she sped she sped out his on his clothing so didn't really touch him wasn't the end of the world he the husband of Russia wanted her to spit right in his face you know nice it was a controversial hassano I went with my father my father wanted me to come back him up a little bit and uh somebody walked over to my father and he was preparing this for a few minutes he had a nice amount in his mouth and he went right in my father's face and it just dripped right down his face my father didn't say a word nothing not one peep just walked away but that's what this guy wanted to do he wanted he wanted her to spit Your Little's face right like the whole thing just dripped out it was one of the hardest things for me in my life one of the hardest things because I wanted to knock him out and uh I should have maybe but I didn't want to ruin the wedding it was during it was like by the Copa the whole player I'm gonna knock him out and the commotion ruined the guy's wedding so I said no I was like the the parking lot [Laughter] sticking out I my father told me not to so I had to be Miss gaver okay yeah he wanted in the face but you know what he's making his nether because like that on the clothing is is a big design person told his wife if you could prove that there's one nice thing about you I'm not going to be math another but you're so ugly and terrible this is a great husband um maybe you never saw her he got married and then the next day like whoops now I have a picture of what she looks like this is literally what she looks like here you go no I'm not exaggerating here every single thing of this picture is what the gamara says let's take a look all my lamb so Ruby small tried to save this woman maybe she has a nice head um no it's round you see she has a very round head Shema sorry maybe she has pretty here you know like they used to wrap Australian with that uh flat her her hair is like flax nothing nice about it nice maybe she has beautiful eyes truth are you saying they're they're circular they're round like like like golf balls now I did zoom in on the side because there is I told Yoshi there is one shot I saw once I think I don't know if I didn't find it today but there's a shot that they were red so okay red eyes here we go red eye shadows now nice maybe she has nice ears no they're those of an elephant before the same they're double double the size maybe it's more you get the idea you have to say the joke well there's no time for the joke maybe she has a nice nose take a look at her nose doesn't have any nostrils no nostrils maybe she has nice lips obviously no very thick maybe she has a nice neck shakutu it's if you look at this picture her shoulders are up here she has no neck no no she like this maybe she has a nice stomach that's a stickle bloated Samurai Glenn she has nice feet now they're white as a duck kids moms can't find a good thing about this one oh maybe she has a nice name nothing on her body but maybe she has a nice name piece of dirt the parents saw her they looked at her it looks like a dog walks like a dog has anything you're a piece of dirt cars mommy Throw Dirt Mr beckons dirt unbelievable him yes what a beautiful name it's most perfect a man fits in beautifully foreign I think I didn't he doesn't talk about it but I'm serious there's a whole list you speak to the shopping about everything this does she have good me the snow this is terrible everything she has ears of an elephant the hair of a piston everything the last last thing on the list that anybody would even bother to ask is yeah but what about her first name is it good oh dirt but you see from here more you're digging his side that you can always find good in a Jew no matter what in the in the furthest place but at least her name is perfect with how she looked I mean Go Tell it to her man your name is um don't tell it to her but her name makes sense wow what a what an unbelievable sight I hope I Bothell this rabbosai is the story of Amelia Bedelia you guys remember that story it was a book that was written like 67 years ago here this is it if you you could tell that was written six he looks at how she's dressed she's covering her knees her elbows her hair is covered and it says like this from dressing the chicken to drawing the drapes they they told her she she did everything she's literal whatever you told her dress the chicken so she put a suit and a tie in the chicken draw the drapes she'll draw whatever when a million is involved everything always turns out to be perfectly in the end it's exactly that's the story right over here Amelia Bedelia I hope my above the songs like these stroll there's a a guy that from Buffalo now we know a bubble are very smart people they want that IQ testing the cellular the Israel he moved out of this role now it seems like they had a problem in the language like Rebellion Finkel the crying LeBron I learned by him a little bit but his wife was best friends with my mother both of the uh my mother-in-law and my mom told me that when they went out the shot that made a little bit of a mistake they got on the first date he started talking in Hebrew she said I don't understand the word you're saying he says I don't understand the word you're saying it's in English and then they realize they both could communicate somewhat in Yiddish a little bit of Yiddish and they got married in that habit over here you have a story where they come from different countries speak slightly different dialect you know Aramaic and Hebrew not Savita and he told her and he married this woman for marriage Israel and he's he's an Iraqi I actually treat Alfie make me a couple of lentils but he said trick Trace two she took it Amelia Bedelia took it literal too so she takes two lentils out of the closet puts the spices and does the whole thing makes a thing but actually you got Furious what are you nuts this is what I'm gonna eat today two lentils in English would be like make me a ton of food ah ton ton she goes out she measures a ton brings it into the path and makes a ton of food so she says go bring me to watermelons eyesless of isolated shrug as you bring two candles I race it above a go break it on the doorway have a your husband standing there is Irish he broke the two candles for bringing it on my head that really hurt by the way I want to give you a broker they should have two sons just like Ellie stefanski I already ready all right the famous famous story he's sitting there doing the entire he said go break it on the doorway and he said he wanted watermelon she brings candles takes the thing and breaks it on his head now instead of getting angry a guy comes he's in the middle of learning Terry and also somebody breaks something in his head he should give her a smack in the face whatever he has to do instead he says what's shot what are you doing my husband commanded me to do so whatever the husband does in our generation I always said to do I do I don't ask questions you did exactly what your husband said even though it hurt me and if it said pay you back and give you just like the two candles that you just broke should have two sons like Bob and Buddha or boys I just want to say real quickly if anybody finds us and once heard us a thing that wouldn't hurt us we're just killed all the xylem of the generation he left one person because of this story because he heard that he was a mensch and he didn't embarrass this woman that was his horse [Music]