Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 50 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boys I will start over the unbelievable video today happens to be probably my favorite dive in all of shots has my favorite story and many many stories and I think everybody should learn the stuff many times so much to learn from the staff only one email today and this video and here it goes this is the famous yossi green what are his famous songs you'll see green hey so he has a music video that just came out yesterday what are these days and I'm going straight to minute 420 on his music video here we go [Applause] foreign [Music] I don't know it's a video they didn't ask us they put it in yeah all right I've been following you share systems at Zuma it's been a highlight of my day it's also excited to meet you I was excited to meet them at the shops in the five towns you mentioned something in the passing the other day that really surprised me you said that someone told you that there are people that only listen to your rather than watch it and you could understand how anybody can follow it without all the charts and pictures we have 35 people on the mdy was sent to the chat room I would guess that at least half maybe more listen to the in the car and the way to and from work I usually have you in my car while driving every day while you're technically on my phone I have to keep my eyes on the road so if you got a chart on at the stoplight I'll look at it if not I'll imagine it many of the people I know only listen to you share and do the best they can without the charge you may not really how many listeners you actually have for many decades before the invention of Television people listen to baseball and football games on the radio the greatest announcers describe what was happening so well the people felt like they were at the game Millions still listed the ball games in the car today but that's the point they don't really sometimes I say look on the right side on the left side I have to be more cognizant what's the word okay aware thank you aware is better they may download the from all different media and have it playing as they drive but it is a listening experience so keep on painting a picture for those of us that can't always watch but learn from you just the same a picture may be worth a thousand words but a great might get cheers worth thousands of tell me them what's the black West hamster knew I didn't really I didn't read this part West Hempstead New York here he is your Chicago the only email on my favorite daf in Shazam dafnun okay the sponsor of the coil we have a new sponsor is Mr Anonymous from Lakewood I don't know what he wants to do him of his nieces he's also the sponsor the first month of Art the message we have six sponsors for the day hyelid Ben layoff he alsoever open heart surgery later this week we're foolishlam into both these in honor of shimmy rap for getting us to join the dove one year ago today you think of real in honor of shimmy rap you'll see Fark is leading this Mass handle basmus latest before slave of our son out there we go oh what's your name again and you brought me this from it Sunday yeah I'm not gonna open it Sunday it's good it's better like that whatever else it says goes shut off the video afterwards my voice today we're going to learn about rubikiva anybody know how many times people got married twice Thomas right at least three times yeah we'll see in today's sogio are you allowed to lie in order to save your friend embarrassment to make your friend feel better another thing how did Rebecca become wealthy there are six ways he became wealthy each one is historian of itself and it takes a long time and raboysai uh just asking what is the most famous from heimulavits out there most famous lie huh that we know that means 12 was 12. I think it's 12 plus 12. yeah fine red boy said here we go unbelievable buckle up three lines down from the top of the Moon he they're married to the daughter of cowboy one of the wealthiest people in your Salam the reason why he's called The Hungry dog is because any time honey came into this house as hungry as a dog he came out full however he heard about this terrible he couldn't believe it now I I made a chart here what was so bad about it vikiva check this out his name was Akiva not Rebecca he was the older bucker he was already 40 years old much older than Rahul none of us would allow our daughter to marry this gentleman he was the son of a girl he was he was already married before he already had a son he was a very very poor person he was a simple shepherd He was an MRS to the point he didn't know a single halacha not one not one mishnah not only that he hated Muhammad he said there might be more things that's what I came up with so what in the world did Rahul see in this individual she saw him two things these two things he was the one of and he's very pleasant with people he had very good people skills that's it all these things these seven things over here he's 40 years old knew nothing didn't know how to read he didn't know elevates but it was unbelievable unbelievable so I don't think we could look down at Cabo Savoy I think every single person in this room would be mother not their daughter say are you crazy I don't know to that point to that level but sugar you look at her daughter of the richest person young very very smart you see that she's smart she understood that she had and the things and this is the I think you're bringing home I have nothing to do with you you can never benefit from me Oslo business over here is she got married to him in the winter meaning having gone away all they had they had no money she was willing to sacrifice everything they lived in a hut made out of straw in other words the Gamora is telling us it was in the winter freezing cold that nothing no blanket no pillow that's straw and obviously they were extremely cold the gearsity here is that River kivo would take the straw out of his wife's hair you see from here that women married women had here so maybe hasidim have a different gear set here they do there's another gear set here that she took out the hair from his head and maybe that's the shot and the gears are here he was both that was his son no he was bald okay he was both this is a gear this is law okay fine all my law he Heavenly we mean a lot here is he told her he said listen oh I have this here somebody put this together this has volume or a boy said here goes this is a sheer uh put this together today I thought it was cool resolved [Music] Akiva and vascular rockhold I was a boy I don't think I'm invited anybody there okay [Music] fine this is a Salim this is yoni's picture of it's just like a tiara that that has made out of gold and he said if I had any money I would give you your slime shows off and Shop is definitely gimmel says that in fact later on he was able to buy her it and he bought her your slime shows up also Leo Eliana became knocked on the door his Diamond line Kanosha he looked like a human being that could carry above and he knocked on the door and he said to them heavily put to the tivna you have straw I need straw the aladders eat the sea my wife gave birth but Leslie midam and I don't have anything to have her sleep on now how's he let a lie yeah I know he didn't have a wife who gave birth he doesn't have a wife so you see from here that to prove a point and to make Rojo feel better you could lie I'm not I'm not passing but there's certain situations that she shouldn't be embarrassed this is from the the right they bring this as a right huh it was about making him feel better she he's the one okay he didn't keep this oh so hold on yeah well we're talking about anios now about not having this this is a different thing you thought I'm gonna get into that in a second Isley so here's the sorry that I said yesterday I saw Danny fine was arguing he didn't like it so much but here's him before sugar became to prove a point he says listen if you think that you don't have anything think about how much worse it could be there's a person here who doesn't have straw to sleep on his wife just give birth she doesn't even have a bet she has nothing to sit on let's think about that blessed I said if a guy has a certain like a weak car instead of thinking about the Lamborghini you should think about the guy that only has an electric bike and then I thought when I was in South Africa and I said this I I struck up a conversation with the security guard of our compound over there and I said uh so where do you live he says I live like five miles down the road whatever he said I said how do you get there I didn't I don't see your car he says I walk I said you walk why don't you have a bike he says I can't afford a bike that was the conversation he couldn't afford a bike and it's push it you see people hundreds just walking on the highway just walking so if you think you have it bad you only have a bike you have a bike and that guy has nothing the guy walks every single day another thing you think you have a kid that's off the dirt I know a lot of people don't have kids at all how much you'd give to have that kid it's off to there things like that but yeah it does say so you're right you shouldn't be looking at somebody else but keep a look at somebody else look at the other person as doesn't mean to look at somebody else it means realize how much you have you have eyesight you have this yesterday I was speaking to about her 21 year old that watches to share every day for over a year every day many and I read some of his emails many many surgeries the guy has and every surgery goes in but Sim honey watches this year his whole life in and out of the hospital from the day was born till today we're talking about over 20 20 surgery up on surgery what we have and what what how how it could be a lot worse we keep it told his wife I'm relay zil have a bay Ralph go go to Yeshiva we made a deal I'll marry you if you go to Yeshiva so listen to this right boys this I think is an incredible incredible lesson it says in the message that Rebecca was too embarrassed to go to YouTube he broke his deal he promised her he's going to go to Yeshiva he didn't want to go to Yeshiva how is he going to show up in Yeshiva he doesn't know he doesn't know how to read hush doesn't know how to read I was talking to the guy in the neighborhood last week he's in his 60s so come to the street he says but I don't know I don't know how to learn guitar it's not for me I never learned so you know what she did she had a donkey the measure says and the donkey had a little bit you know where you sit a little caved in I have a picture I had Yoshi do it for me where is it not this one right here she she took dirt and she put it on this this actually Drew from scratch he took dirt she took dirt put it on his back and planted vegetables and all of a sudden vegetables start growing out of the donkey's back and she brought the donkey into the marketplace and people started gathering around this donkey they've never seen tomatoes grow out of the Donkey the second day again people came the third day the third day some guy came over and said what is going on there tomatoes and people said what you don't know about this this is this is old news old news and she tells me about Kiva look you'll go to Haider you'll sit down as a 40 year old maybe a 41 year old sit down in school and people are going to make fun yes they'll make fun for one day two days and that's it then they'll get used to it why am I saying this because I went to a guy's house one of my good friends knocked on his door a while ago I said you know it's one thing that you speak in show so I'm not gonna I'm not I'm not the Masjid of the soul but you disturb me you really it's so loud the way you speak and you laugh out loud you really it's been very forget about me and he told me he said I can't stop because I'm embarrassed to stop people know me as the schmoozer is the less of the show I make jokes in Middle School everybody laughs how am I going to stop he told me straight out people have a busha to step it up I'm gonna walk around with a gamar now they're going to call me from me look he started learning yeah to make fun of you to make fun of your two days three days it happens to be and I'm thinking now when I started learning more this same guy made fun of me made fun of me because you're not gonna last more than three weeks and this and that and it's embarrassing yeah so he's picked it up and learned he's a little one two days after two days don't worry about the goes away it's unbelievable lesson gamara oh my Lord we keep on say no oh the whole thing and it says that during all those years rebecciva was chopping wood and he sent the money back to Rocco Rocco maybe even sold her here interesting how here and it came out of the hair and she saw the fight something about the hair the mission when he finished learning for 12 years he went home and he heard somebody talking in his house to call my Allah so last time we learned it in subas he was in Russia over here this is uh your xiaomi a little bit the strong elution Russia he heard that Russia the Visa talking to his wife your father was 100 right look at this guy you married he's not in your status you're a wealthy you're xiaomi he's a the son of a girl a poor guy he left you a living almana an aguna he left you for 12 years I believe that everybody in the right mind today would say the same exact thing your husband left you for six months for for a year for two years for five years he's already 60 he's 52 years old right 12 years 52 years old mom has left you in aguna but he's a Russia he's a Russia because had he succeeded in convincing her then we wouldn't have rubikiva wouldn't have any Tire today this entire shots that we have is Oliver Kiva that's another thing so that's another I don't know exactly where he was maybe you shouldn't have been shooting with her maybe had other things in his mind I don't know but he's a Russia even though he didn't succeed and even though because of him he actually caused an unbelievable thing because of his riches that he said River Kiva went and then the next line happened but he intended to be a Russia he would have gone for another 12 years all my rubikiva heard this holiday so I heard that she's giving me results let me turn around 180 and go back to Yeshiva others so he went for another 12 Years also and when he came back and here's the famous that we have to say it even though everybody knows that we have to say it again and again he's ready at the door where is what would have hurt him if he would have knocked on the door and said hi I'm alive thank you for supporting me I'll see you in another 12 years why couldn't he just he was already there he heard that he was so close heard the conversation he's already there he didn't want to make a hexagadas he didn't want to stop for a second because if you stop for a second then it would be 12 and then another 12 and 12 plus 12 does not equal 24 straight years to have the rebecciva who left his wife and his children he left for 24 years it's only 24 straight otherwise it'd be 12 plus 12. what does it get to us very negative you're sitting down and you're learning Tyra for an hour and you look at your phone at your WhatsApp in Middle you just took a break you didn't learn for an hour you learned for a half an hour and a half hour you hear why are you guys laughing so loud you just took your heads off or something I don't know what you're doing there you look a little guilty it's a half hour plus a half hour or it's three seconds plus three seconds plus three seconds Plus yeah something about going Burger tifos Non-Stop yeah another thing I don't know if this is what requirements meant but I'm thinking that had he gone into his house who knows what would have happened he would have said oh it's not bad over here let me just chill out here for another month or two and then who knows if you've ever gone back a person knows is Yates are you know what you're in a good you're in a good Groove you continue the groove don't stop don't take a break because you never know if you'll ever go back to that okay but every time someone says stronger 12 plus 12 doesn't equal 24 and we can use it in different applications says he came came back with 24. you take the word zugi out 24 000 tell me them so Yoshi was on a mission to show us what 24 000 is I'm not exaggerating if I say you probably spent the entire day on this it wasn't push it and just he was not happy with the outcome let's put this really he's a perfectionist this is what he drew one talmud and this is a bit of a close-up of that one talmud until he got to this he actually spent the whole day duplicating and stamping and having the the right you could see that they get smaller and smaller on the front line even so it's difficult it's not like taking one thing and doing it and this is only says about nine thousand tell me that this is not even 24 but you just want to give us a little bit of a an idea what 24 000 looks like Yoshi the whole world heard about this famous river keep and I have to understand in other places the moisture abena will wonder why giving the tire through me nothing he was from the greatest people that ever lived so he comes to town and people are like wow this is Kiva everybody wanted to see him and she went to see her husband here he comes again this neighbor the Russia how do you think you're going to show up with your tattered clothing like this is the people that is with in other words he'll understand the poverty and the sacrifice that I went through I had to sell my own hair I had to live off the the small the few fruits that he sent me from his chopping wood and living in a straw Hut all these years he'll understand also says she came to see him didn't they literally either pushed her or they they just they made a fence they said you can't get here you can't you can't go who are you you can't come in here and he saw what's going on he said leave her alone of course the type everything I have everything you have is all because of her show me back so the father heard also he didn't know who he was a he said I I didn't have I wanna I stop you want to you want to be Mata nether he felt bad that he can't speak to his daughter she was Mata nether the what they asked him they said are you gonna be if had you known that your son-in-law would know when Allah would would you make the nether know had you known this no okay so we'll let it go so we spoke about this back then we spoke about it in dismissal what about the concept of neut you can't make a Shyla on something on the future on something that's going to happen had you known that he would become a millionaire would you make the nether that doesn't work that's not a good childhood you have to know had you known at the time of the nether so Tyson Superstar with gimo we learned to then Tyson says that if somebody goes to Yeshiva it's a guarantee that he's going to become so it was at the time of the nether but over here the Run says another nikuda that I liked a lot because at the time I was like what do you mean who's again everybody around sticks in he says the whole letter was because he didn't know one halacha well if you go to Yeshiva you're guaranteed to learn one Allah if you know one Allah the nether is off and then there's other childhoods here how in the world is matter another for himself the nether was against him okay fine a little bit negative don't think that his wealth came from all the time he was charging a nice twenty thousand dollars what did he charge today 22 000 per talmud times twenty four thousand no he became wealthy on his own first of all I'm in caboa when Cabo found out who he is he gave him at least half of his finto beautiful Yoshi made this for us also I think it's his mom is really nice the here's a ship and if you look at the front of the ship on the right side there's a like a statue of a deer a male deer and they used to they used to have they used to put this on the ship as a it was more like um what happened Good Luck Charlie Superstition good luck charm and this is like oh our ship is gonna fly through the water like a deer so the gamara says what happened because you know one time they left this and they would put money in it also as part of the Superstition and put money in this thing also fine Rebecca found it was full of gold coins um also there's a chest this is another story how he became wealthy interestingly more says the story twice in other words there's a thing back then oh you're taking this big trip America you might go into Target or something here take four bucks bring back something nice from America I don't know what going to the gift shop bring bring back the souvenir okay so rekiva gave these guys I don't know what surprised me I'm a little Iceland so they come back do you bring me anything they couldn't find anything just a little chest on the shores I saw like and they brought it to him on relay I'm in Marana la you know one day one day we'll make it up to you I'm sorry we brought you this this little rusty box uh metal box but you know this is heavy because it's metal but then he decided you know let me pop it open let me let's see what's inside stackers to have a foreign like all of Torah was was was forgotten and he he was able to to bring out Tire like that he was able to to pull out the the zov him himself with the whole ship everything went down whatever okay fine a different time because you see the went down there's no tire left in this one I'm just stuck at it forget what my little shot the ship went down there's nothing left but all everything that was in there was all put into one box into one chest it's talking about with zimno and he found it all and he brought it out another Kissa is interesting it has to do with our our parachute it says on the side over here so this is mine was like in our Powershell it was a um how does he say it the um Convoy of you remind me you know because back to we're talking about you hear this Dany he told me I said I heard it from a few people yesterday also so I got to say it it says when you're looking at rookies when you want to grow in rookies always look at a person that's above you look at the topic look at something that's greater than you and try to achieve that all right when it comes to things in this world the gosh means always look at a guy below you and say you know what I have more than him stop avoid Google huh what what's the same person could be now um so I don't know if we should read the whole you could the last last round here it's a very long one you know what let me read it real quickly but really so you see it's like almost halfway down the thing but it's a long one says that says the run the story after all the story what happened over here with this latest Noble lady so they needed money they want to borrow money from this Rich wealthy woman I'll give it to you in the morning I wanna Hashem and the ocean I Raven my daughter they'll be the guarantors he said okay I'm going to pay you on on Tuesday he got sick she didn't pay so she went to the to the ocean omran she said reporting is sick and he can't pay me back but you're the guarantor you're the Arif took a bunch of jewels and gold she threw it in a box of a circle she threw it into the ocean the back shows up exactly where that lady was sitting she took it and she went the ominous healthy he goes to pay up his loan and she says I already went to the guarantor because himself you see she was you see in the city when you're dealing with the Room Keeper you're dealing with Ms there's no room to lie and not to be honest she she said I already got paid back take all the extra that he gave me um that's what became wealthy sponsored by Uncle Cohen the official mdy MSP was being able to support the minatory and to finish shots with the Rebellion so again the famous story and this is the third time the rubikiva got married Russia he used to debate sister ran away we're not going to read it again it's too much he's debate rebecciva and he came home very depressed he used to lose obviously every single time he can't argue with Akiva he's the debate Suk him in the terror and his wife says what's wrong he says I lost again to Rebecca she says you know what one thing I called you Barco hates is let me dress up let me seduce him and she was a very beautiful woman she went to seduce with Akiva and the famous gemara rock Baja he did three things he spit he laughed and he cried and she said what's this he said I'm spitting because how disgusting it is you came from a typos why am I crying because you one day are going to be buried under the ground and you're going to disintegrate so why are you laughing that I'm not going to tell you well what he meant is because he knew that she's going to end up marrying her and so she said she she saw how strong he is and that he's not bending she said could I do truth of what I just did and he said yeah you do so she became a gay IRS and eventually she married rebecciva and that's why sohak says the next story is and she was very very wealthy she came with all the money so she was the wife of Tunis rupas so she came with a lot of money and she made him wealthy um the famous story in uh the famous story where Reby says there's people that they get the entire element in one second so what happened over there was that the somebody uh this Katia by Shalom he beat the king in other words the king wanted to kill all the Jews and he convinced them not to he said if you can never kill all the Jews you can't exterminate all the Jews There's Always Somewhere in the world that they're there besides people gonna say that you have a uh a kingdom that's missing a limb so the king says you know you're right but there's one problem if you're right I have to kill you because you can I can't I can never be wrong I can't lose an argument let's go off with your head so they take him out and some woman maybe he was like Eliana or something he said listen you're already going to you're gonna die now you might as well be part of the Jewish nation and he threw himself down and he got himself a meal either he bit it off for he with a stone he cut it off and he got a Bismillah and and as they were killing him he said I want to give Omen hasim to rebecciva the khaverov and Rebecca made in Russia it's like Aaron so he took 50 and he gave the rest to his friends aquaponim that's where Rebbie said yes that one moment where he beat the king and he became a girl he did more Robbie cried about it Ruby had to work his whole life to achieve something like that okay I'm not saying that they were similar in Godless but rebby was like Wow can't believe somebody could could be Queen again another story not with Rubik's mother Ganda he gave also you want the he wanted them to buy him something from the from the duty-free last night get me something from putlars they couldn't find anything unbelievable I give you four zones you know you bring back a monkey the Rings are like a monkey it's unbelievable the monkey ran away Allah parsley went into some hole cover by straight they needed to find the monkey so they started digging Lisa they found him sitting on a bunch of diamonds on on magolias Iceland coulon and they were honest either Duran says it was casidos it wasn't really his a monkey candy for you they decided to give them was like a rhyme and a shemaim that was for gamdas they gave him all the jewels on religious the case the daughter of the case there Caesar told him that the the holy Torah is in such a disgusting vessel beautiful Torah in a disgusting events in other words he was very dark he worked with with uh Cole whatever his he was um how do you say whatever dark ugly um you should look at your father's house the Caesar where does he put the wine um well you're going to be like everybody else it's not appropriate for you to put it in such disgusting earthenware you should put in Golden Calum as of his romance sorry so she listened to him she put all the wine in gold and silver and of course it's spoiled on my law over there when we learn to think about it says that the Father the Caesar said who did this to you the point is again this is how the Torah is you can't put Tyra in a beautiful vessel but it's very beautiful people that learn Terror on my law you have a Sono have a community if they were ugly they would be better in learning the martial says doesn't mean if they were ugly but if they would hate their their beauty then they would be better because this is this is a this is a question of gaiva tyrant guy that doesn't go together so if you have a cliff that's gaiva it's harder to keep the learning if you're foreign a woman came to review the foreign he has like rabbit teeth to go all the way down she exploded and she died foreign you take it one thousand times you put it yes literally Yoshi took all day take the egg dip it in hot water a thousand times my Korean is a thousand times in cold water so everybody say I have here an egg literally this is Ms this is a real real egg this was done a thousand times here Ms Thomas come here I think you should eat this Venice come here eat it it's real I should open it up there you go [Music] started out a normal size a thousand called a thousand don't say that the Gambar makes stuff up here you go or maybe it's a pigeon egg I'm not sure okay [Music] a quail egg whatever it is but you as long as you guys fell for her for three seconds it's good you let a lie it says you're light alive what says tomorrow by the way we have you who this brother here what's your name himself you know you never asked your father who's he named after him wow you remember his brother I miss his brother big time I'm gonna miss you also when you snap come you better not stop saying tomorrow So Adam mizutra becomes really small okay for the bully yourself that you could swallow it is and anything in the intestines that's no good if it adheres to this egg when it comes out the Asia Yoda Asia the the the the the the doctor will know my summer what kind of medicine is she giving and how do I heal this patient who's a famous doctor he used to check his own self but says I don't know what that is others say it's like cabbage Saleh it used to cause him such pain that his the women of his house that they would undo their braids of their hair from they would like pull their hair it was it was too much for them to beard to watch their father in such pain imagine basically sorry not awesome another right well because it's his daughters it says his wife it says it says it's not awesome does anybody remember cliffson is yeah I didn't think so we learned it yesterday it's the type of a fig hazaro or our scroll somebody sent me this beautiful picture I thought it was amazing I saw this person on the Israel chat I think it might come in handy in the future daf liram and cavi incredible 3 100 year old earn filled with strings of figs from the 12th century BC found an ancient city of ekron might be what the talm refers to as igule develop unbelievable 3000 year old figs just in in perfect condition in an old 3000 year old urn well it's beautiful anyway so these are the figs not this but it says like this if you're working with figs and look at this right over here he saw by the camera when you work in a video you can take whatever you want pick a a grape off the tree and eat it what about Truman samisris you don't have to think you're eating temporary eating as you go but don't put it not like these people I go to khasana they come with pots you start throwing schnitzel in there and nobody's gonna eat it anyway you know whatever not like that you take whatever you can eat then says the mission over there but if you're working with cliffson you don't have a right to eat another type of fig that's on the side over there you're working with the other ones if you're working with anisher on the cloves and it's different my clothes it's a type of fig that you make some sort of dish a cook dish it says laptop person sent his talmud is is AVID to learn a thousand recipes from things only learned he only taught him the mail he promised a thousand he paid him a thousand dollars one dollar per recipe he ripped him off he only gave him 800 recipes we forgot all the good that we had all year round it's not like today all year round he had radish on his table he was very very wealthy and he says I never saw something like this such blasphemy is a thousand like reminds me of that children New York that has seven types of child imagine a thousand types of salt this is like gastry's on the whole nother level uh you know we don't even know should we do yeah let's just do a few more lines and we won't have to finish though graffitied on the wall let's say he run on the wall because a reboi is ten thousand twenty four times ten thousand which is 240 million dinarium ready spent 240 million nowadays like 100 million dollars it's probably like a Guzman like a crazy number they were similar in age but he was younger but a talmud um the kids are getting a little bit of a stock it seems like but they were shutting explained it wasn't so as many so he did he did invite him all my lawyers so he used the same elicited by them I said if this is how you act in this world and you have so much money you're gonna be wealthy and I love my ball so much more so rabbisai have a wonderful day [Music]