Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 5 by R’ Eli Stefansky

we have a tremendous amount of emails can't get to all of them I read all of them uh first I want to start with some of this human around the world over here we have an amazing seal I think there's 150 people in Muncie and the famous Tani palak who lost his son his two-year-old we had a lot and we still have people sponsor Lynch mostly he was the Messiah over here we have the Sim in Chicago my landsman voice I going back to good morning our boys size we have me kotzel cutter we have some khasid boys doing it and they they know how to do that this is the Prototype of the ah here we go because it wasn't so loud you got it on the speaker oh Lord okay because of Lakota now we have nothing not such a closet I'm not gonna call him a closet his eye is not so stuck here we go this is a Kenyan in Kenya a foresight [Music] ah can't get enough of it it's a fire is he here today I'll show the picture a different time when he's here hello everybody sleep though my kids were asking for other forms of multi-shabbas entertainment but I insisted on watching the daf way to go I know you're thinking you know I'm these kids are never doing the job you wanna I know no but so look they're all watching thanks for the share those title in Cedarhurst New York give all the good stuff I'm I'm pro-it you speak to Norm that's part of my uh back and forth on the Jeep in the Safari Mercury branwin Floyd your belly just finished my third reception with you and it's been great things thought you might be entertained by this my wife is so supportive decided to make me a surprise and order a cake with our picture on it first problem I've never taken a picture with you simple solution Photoshop so juggling two babies on her lap she sat in the photoshopped a picture that made sure it was round to fit the cake perfect then we made a family trip to glaubers to pick it up except it was still a surprise so I thought we were just going to buy some ruggalock when she came out of the store she was laughing painfully turns out listen to this the filter on our laptop had decided that mining your faces weren't appropriate and made sure to censor them I guess now we joined the canceled culture we're now proud owners of a cake that displays the Actos of an unnamed litvak and hasid check it out this is what the cake looked like give up I love give all these stuff [Laughter] hi thanks Mercy Bradman P.S if anyone needs a template of two men on a cake we have one available okay here it goes again I see a closet I don't know what where when I see some guy with a fancy suit and a tie no face okay this where boysai is in Toronto we had another amazing scene in Toronto with over 80 people the the event included a little shisha the fake hitter by Bobby's diner with amazing popper strong kugel whatever boards and of course great scotch you could try to pronounce it I'm from part of it I'm from panovich I'm not going to try to say jacuzzi as always it was a true demonstration anyway I obviously stroll and I have a styra it was amazing seeing so many new faces who have joined the daf the Messiah Rabinowitz fourth grade reading a real estate agent shared his personal mdy story about how joining a previous CM motivated and started the daf he shared how his life has now changed and he started learning more and feels more energized and connected see pictures and video below I don't have a chance to get the videos and maybe tomorrow thank you for everything you do and creating this amazing my family experience and mayor planco mdy Toronto reps so here it is okay so here's the schedule for the mdy UK and I was thinking this morning that it's going to be really gevaldic especially in London where so many of the core have of mdy those who started from beginning if you want to see who my guys that went on the Safari trip or just the guys that shout out in the middle you're coming now I am the kids said there's a whole bunch of at least I don't know 12 14 official if you want to know official is uh Mark Ashkenazi Donnie fine really and small okay it's going to be amazing what are you guys names that we have a bunch of guests what's your name tadiq mayor calling from Toronto see missed it but you're going to be here tonight basically Maybe he's on vacation so you wanna we attend Kohan and brick is kind of technology today who else what United College you're wow you're the reverse of medical Adam most a lot of them they just want to be you're a real client and you say you're Israel unbelievable what's your name's attic abramov from Monty also miss them it's okay you you're new here yeah what's your name David from Tina learning live welcome welcome who else oh you missed a picture okay tomorrow we'll do your pictures tomorrow can just in time for this year okay if I'm missing anybody else we might hold the SIM tonight assume we have over 100 people registered for kui is there room for more people I don't even know who's that guy hiding what's your name yeah stormy Joseph cats from Philadelphia Philly he came for the World Series you think I don't know about this stuff I came to Davin at the coastal I got here doesn't know what he's talking we have a big guest there judah's here about Hashem okay fine the coylo was sponsored Lili nishmas Hayabusa huh Benny you ready for the big speech tonight I'm only on the floor crying right it's gonna be if it's anything like your emails I'm gonna be crying the messester is sponsored by ainator the month is Jeff rasner second sponsors third sponsor Dr avrum Epstein a memory of my dear departed loved ones included in my recent years as we learned you give this DACA you pledge DACA you have to do it you have to give it immediately otherwise if you're even about to happen is I don't know if that's a mistake or some purpose do people call themselves I don't know I'm serious my boy side we just got uh we were just informed by somebody with this it's going Terrain in London no it's not it's Tuesday Wednesday it's going to porn rain it's not going to rain have no fear it's gonna rain that's what it's gonna rain in London mother is surge in yehudas in honor of my sons David upcoming wedding from your shalayan that gives us a tremendous amount of entertaining entertainment during our safari Mazel Tov you're here today oh he's here everybody say Mazel tov his son David is getting married tonight to my Ah that's why you better beer tomorrow and the day after okay your boys are holding that hey Ahmad alif in the middle of a sugars I want to remind the element of a famous story there's a a kid similar to one of my kids who basically every time he communicated with his father it was about one thing it wasn't to say hello and good job is like Tati you have some money one of my kids I'm not going to say which one the kids are this guy decided to send a telegram to his father and as you know I don't I don't think he ever sent one but in back in the day when when my father used to call his mother and there's Israel it was a 30-second conversation back in the day it was like and my mother's like no can I say one no no no no no no anyway what they call collect and you say who who's calling Stephen Casino say what okay all trades fine but before that there were telegrams and every letter costs money we know the story but it's negative so this kid decides he's gonna write his father dear tati please send more money so you're sitting there writing then he says Dear Tatty take off the deer it's Posh it's there Tatty this is who am I I'm sending it to my father so I don't have to write tati take that off More Money More is not important to take that off so it's please send money but please you don't need please of course it's please I'm the son The Plea takes off the please the kids are send of course he's sending how else is he gonna get here money like it's a money you don't even need money I'm in Africa I forgot that you're here come in this is my uh my daughter-in-law's father rebellious and his son where are we putting him right over here right next to me right next to your belly come sit wow yeah we're gonna we're gonna make an exception first and we give you a big hug him he's one of the few guys that's taller than me and stronger than me and better basketball than me okay here come you go that way yeah [Music] again I want to tell all the guests again uh a lot of guests say when they come in here the room is a lot smaller than it looks online and I'm a lot taller than I look online so I've got a you know not just because you looked at me with together 10 doesn't mean I'm that short he's a different breed okay so we're middle of the story the bottom line is he decided he's just gonna write new and you two letters the father gets the thing you'll see new it'll stop right away what else is he sending me on telegram it means I need money that bad Sam is the Sugi of yados if I write certain words that you could understand not understand how much are you writing that's a Yad ayad means I'm writing some of the words or one word and you from that word get the picture at least the son thought of his father would get the picture do we get the picture and this applies not only to nadaram this applies to kadushan to garushin to different things if you tell your wife Bye Bye doesn't mean you're divorcing her you know different words how does it apply to huh no it means you wish that she dies and whatever could mean different things fine says the gemara holding that hey so just to review so again we have over here we're talking the sugya is about the center one the blue yeah it's a a hand that's not a handle that's not a hundred percent certain what he meant if it's a hundred percent we know it's literally it's clearly stated it's just missing one word oh sir that's the the first mission of nadaram says it's 100 of the nether with their eyes if it's not a yacht at all he says one word new harini we're not talking about that we're talking about where there's some words and we're going to go into it and perhaps you could explain it this way explain it that way maybe most people do understand don't understand so let's see yesterday we said we're talking about shmuel it says explains that he adds the words foreign he takes one sentence and adds another sentence to it and together we have in our mission there's one user it says also all the way at the end of all the sentences so that means that he himself is also the guy talking is also to eat from his friend because he says I'm not going to eat from you he doesn't mention he takes away any other way of understanding it he's not saying you can eat from me he's saying specifically I won't eat from you because he adds those three words what if he just says two words so we had that yesterday and we have something very interesting that mudra knee if you just look at the you and that's why I like the story a little bit because you start playing with the words what what does each word mean so here I am awesome what is that we explained last night can't mean you I'm gonna I'm not benefit from you what am I benefiting from you from from your face from what it means from you're not awesome I'm not going to benefit from your Hassan so when he says I it means so therefore it goes both ways you are us around me and I'm also on you that's how we could learn this is about words and how to speak properly and how you could understand from different you can and yes it's a little difficult for us to understand it's a different language it's Hebrew let's increase but basically if we say the word was according to the rhyme we start with the word it means from your belongings so therefore I can flip it and say the yud mudran me I what's I who am I I am only my belongings so yeah sir and your belongings Euros are my belongings it's very interesting because if you add to those two words if it's just those two words I must say to you and you're also to me but if you add then all of a sudden you're explaining what you meant you meant It's Only One Direction doesn't go two directions it's just I and master to you it's limiting it's limiting thank you that's how the gemara understood now Steve Martin says what we learned in the mishnah three lines now so let's take a look at this this is very similar to this is take a look at this very similar is me mein Hassan what should be that love over here okay it's a lotion of Issa so it should be I'm also to you and your answer to me based on what you just said but that was not like that it's only one way but according to what you just explained and you just made the you came and the yud and the half it goes both ways over here you have a year and a half and it doesn't go both ways it only goes one way so tomorrow okay maybe we could be deutschak keep going to Parish about the light I'll make it happen explain where yeah it only goes one way because he explains specifically that it doesn't go two ways he said what's it called he he limited he actually did you have to explain that he there's some limitation there that he added now what about her uh I'm going the wrong way yeah foreign so again it's the same exact thing that we have before just the words are opposite a lie do you me not just your the whole word and Allah means I a minor hustle at you is like it's the same kind of lotion you so you means you're not awesome you're not sorry you it says over here again it doesn't go both ways it's only a one-way Street okay overheard as well we have to explain that he limited it I was some of my but if he didn't limit it he just said these words it goes both ways in both ways in oh it continues and says you know when both of them are also in each other when you say not just you have to say you have to add two words if you have a total of five words and you explain me and you and you and me then then both of you also foreign so there's a story with the briskarov I think it was the worst girl of I hope I'm not mistake one of one of them I remember when I was about who was the British group correct me if I'm wrong that he wouldn't write his hidushim he had somebody that was writing his condition so he's sitting there for a very long maybe there's Quail remembers you're sitting there for a very long time with this guy riding and he's going back and forth and saying this brisket Tire beautiful stuff like London stuff he's going and the guy's writing and writing and he's thinking and he says more and he has to cash in the Terrace and finally after like a long time he says you know rip it up rip it up it's a mistake he found a mistake so the guy writing tells him what do you mean it's a mistake but it's beautiful so I'll write the whole thing and then at the end I'll say that it's a mistake we have it's a mistake no but it's not Ms it's not Ms I'm not I don't want you to write something that's not Ms get rid of it it's not MS you see it over here a few times already see Vita go Nice Shot we can see this maybe take that but at the end of the day it's just it's not working it's not we have to start over start over Noob shot okay foreign what yeah okay no I just couldn't read this word hello if he says I'm a mother to you then both become Usher so very very interesting the word goes both directions in this case if you look in the Run almost equal to the line over here foreign okay um somehow in this context it goes backwards also means not just to you but from you to me backwards Parker okay so when he says because the word means both ways will drowning him off who author the javeroy motor so initially we were saying over here means both ways means I am also to you means you for me foreign it's me from you but you to me is Mother foreign you saw in the mishna the word image remember here this famous chart did you change it I didn't get to see you'll say if you change the the green of course he did the purple okay so in the just one one little job today before you foreign it's one thing session wall right hold on a second but yeah let me just read it is when is the only one way when he limits it and he says then it's only him to you Ma but if he just says one lotion just the two first words without limiting with the the ending of then we said okay so we can't say the mudranium is one way we said is both ways is me to you is you to me help me so we have to say different time again say okay we're knocking everything out start again foreign okay this is the chart again and he explains it's me also on your stuff now we're going into another what exactly is he trying to answer here we're talking about here talking about Allah that's not a hundred percent certain what he meant he wasn't very clear he's trying to save on the letters and he's he's doing is as little as possible so very specified what if he takes away the word he takes away then what does it become what is I'm asking you if somebody said those words I asked you what does it mean I'm distancing myself from you what does it mean okay very good it's a lot more than just eating anything zero nothing I can't have anything to do with you which Moore was saying is not adding anything it's limiting it's saying before it was it's everything it includes Hana no I can't visit you I can't do anything I'm saying no it's not everything it's Justice foreign that's the opposite is actually taking away it's not adding yeah it doesn't matter whatever gears you have it means the same exact thing here and everything else what does it say in some of these but no you have to start from the beginning what's the for the whole the whole lotion [Music] if he doesn't say the limitation then everything is awesome it's the same exact thing if he limits it to achilla then it's only a Healer or the other gear says and if I don't limit then I'm then I have everything I can't have any I know at all hello okay let's toss that out hello the reason okay we're gonna go back when he sticks in he says honey adds the words then he creates a issue he we don't know what he was meaning exactly my timer maybe the word doesn't mean you're awesome maybe mother is a lotion of I'm not going to talk to you one thing I'm not going to talk to you what yes you could eat my food and you could use my car and everything else mother look it's a it's a it's a it's a language of of its language it's speaking I'm not going to talk to you um I'm gonna separate myself from you it just means I'm not gonna do business with you it doesn't mean you can't eat my food I'm gonna have a re-hook from you I'm gonna distance myself what is this physically I'm gonna stay four hours away from you could you eat my child yes use my car yes but I am going to distance myself I'm gonna be miraculating myself from you maybe that's what it means again I don't know I can't prove what this individual meant he said a very he said a riddle I could take you this way I could touch you that way ambiguous very good yes okay fine so the bottom line is it's a yard that's not meaning there's no we don't have evidence what exactly he meant and according to shmuel doesn't work we're gonna see why he holds that I there's a Bryson that says it does work okay he holds like the demand it says it doesn't work like this is is it so you can't ask any questions before we were asking your cash on she went from abrasive because over there wasn't even a yard it didn't even start it's not even it didn't even start but when it but but if it's a if it's then he could pick and choose and he says listen I hold and he explains in the mishnah that it's died no it doesn't work at all doesn't work at all no no why because you have to be specific you have to be a deeper that's understood and and you explaining it and you saying I meant this and that doesn't help it has to be something that we understand oh I still don't have he thinks things that I'm doing with that I just never put it I didn't print it up I didn't have time yet so tell me what it is meanwhile no no not something else as a scores to continue could you please pull up your thing thank you as a sauce to continue being able to support Torah and to finish eyes with her belly and the first time of apartment sorry the first name uh it is okay so it seems like over here we're to a point where shmuel says that if it's not 100 you can't prove it from his words it's not a it's not a handle it's not a yacht and therefore it's not a nether in foreign though that you oh yeah that's not much it's not a yacht where do we see it very very simple it's not what's the main point of a get the main words if you had a make a synopsis of a good the good has 12 lines what is the most important line in the whole gift s now reviewer comes along and says not true reviews first of all he's saying listen the get is coming from me I the husband am giving a get it's very important because maybe some other guy gave a gift now you're gonna say well it doesn't make any sense why would somebody divorce somebody else's wife well you have to be very clear it can't be a diamond review the holds it has to be very very clear from within the get who gave it and what are you trying to do here is not is vague too vague noise I'm releasing you the garage I'm abandoning you in other words you're going to see the rat explains that there's two things going on here first of all I need to know from within to get who gave it even though you and me it's very obvious she's married to this guy so this guy gave it okay but it has to be in there and also it needs to be obvious that the get is what's creating the crystals the cut and not his words maybe he said and he just wrote in the get that you know that's what he did it needs to be obvious from the get that he's divorcing her with this document and who's divorcing her so that means the review the holds you can't say oh well it's it's obvious and this and I get the hint no there's no hints when it comes together that's me has to be very very clear who's doing it and how it's happening it doesn't have to be obvious ly because he was forced from our mission of watching the mission lost in the mission of forced him and that's why he actually holds like this the Run says I believe I might have forgotten already what he says but I'm pretty sure the round says that that's why small picked aside he saw it doesn't it's not like he holds and therefore he he forces shot into the mishnah he he came up with this halacha based on our mission why am I Tony Chinese why did the mission the next word the third word if he says he already says I'm a mother from you obviously whose food am I eating a mother from you that I'm going to eat why does he have to add on this is because you have to be as clear as possible and now remissioner seems to say that therefore I'm going with that cheetah I'm explaining the mission according to my name is a handle another that's not a hundred percent obvious it could go in different directions it's not clear I buy all my having a dime verava Omar Lord having a dime when we have what are we passing like rather except the alcohol corrector who's that Duron is he even here oh that's you I I I have to listen for the new people I was sitting here the other day and I I said a couple words to him but just to explain Irene knows a bunch of my settings about pet literally about Pat and he has seem on him so the service like give vomis I guess he knows about also so he says I'm not coming for you Obamas I'm sorry okay we're doing supers I shouldn't prepare a drush on your vomits okay thank you for tonight we're finishing soup is he knows cult you know it's cold he doesn't program there's a lot a lot of hazardous I guess he's not a part of the program but I wasn't making fun I was I think afterwards I came in sometimes I have to explain to the new guys that he really knows these himself diagency oh five four if you want to know how to do Hazard speak to Larry Rosen it married that if it's not 100 clear it's not a nether amarava review explain this to me oh my crop so check out this person Lindor nether the athlete according to the Tyrone resolution of being clear versus clear to make another nozzle Hazard so we already had these double the shyness to explain oh my God hashems zeros so now before we were learning we're learning Ned there from Nazar now we're learning within nazir's itself one word is coming to say a regular zeros I become an author I say I'm not going to drink wine I'm not going to become Tommy I'm not gonna shave my head Etc but there's also a yeah zeros he's not being very clear he's saying that he's another without being clear he's vague minus zeros by her flaw just like the zeros you have to be clear so to the yard you have to be clear what does it mean so if a guy walks by and there's a mishnah if a guy who walks by you and you say I want to become another if he's another so then you ask him are you another he says yeah it's not in a zeros why because when you said I want to become a nozzer if he's a nozzer he didn't know if he was another the zeros has to be by flaw it has to be clear that's your touch he says oh he says she's saying before us to express okay I I thought it's more of a lotion of being clear being precise so no because he was expressing himself he did say I am another if he's another it doesn't work because he didn't know so the before he has them before no how you explain before us conclusive explicit conclusive what is it not expressed it's exactly whatever that guy is it's very expressed to me it's very whatever he is that's what I want to be it still doesn't work because it wasn't known it was unknown at the time okay Michael Jordan is using the zeros minus Zero's power flow just like when you're saying the real thing you said you said I want to become another if he's another it doesn't work I feel this is zeros by flaw so too if you're hinting it also doesn't work your hint is no good it has to be clear so that's the sheeter that says that there's no you die having you dying by the zeros perhaps we just mentioned this is say that the main part of the ghetto these five words you are mother you're you're allowed to marry anybody you want reviews it's a letter of get it didn't happen about pet it's within the get we can make a distinction like everywhere else in jazz we try to make that's the whole that's the light of gemara to make the differentiate between two things that seem similar ious that you need to understand within the get that is a divorce that is a cut that is a separation crystals I need to understand it from within the gate that's not again if I can't understand from within the get it's but it's a special Allah but in general you have enough to understand what's going on here you know that what he meant is that he's not going to eat food from that guy don't be always maybe didn't mean it no you know that that's what he meant he said you know that that's what he meant again it's not enough to know that that's what he meant because the terrorist says it has to be a safer creatures it has to be uh a letter that within the letter without any Hawkins without any uh love this without anything you understand from within the words that this person is divorcing that woman foreign there ain't nothinations says rather over here is the most obvious thing in the world any kid knows that there's a get between the husband and the wife who else is divorcing this woman how could a a random person divorce this woman so why do why why do I have to write that I I give to get of course I gave it again who else gave it two the two points first of all that I gave it and second of all that I'm that to get is what's causing the get and not just words there's enough Community to get in the rest of the world and therefore we don't have a Raya that whoever holds one one sheet that they get will hold the same exact thing in the rest of the Torah the boys I have a wonderful day tonight the Summers