Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 41 by R’ Eli Stefansky

oh good morning our boys [Music] please keep this Anonymous By Us in mdy there are certain trivia questions that everyone knows the answer to while the same time people out of him do I have no clue what the questions are to begin with are a few of the mdy trivia you ready guys you wish myself does the story of the golden dove and which person in the sheer is most involved in itsy brought his official growth Schoenberg Titus Gary rockers who does the email part of the series like the factor Jonathan savansky if okay this one everybody knows where's the mokum kavua for Barbara Parkers and mdy and RBS the back right corner the back left corner the front right corner right next to her belly where was everybody born Chicago neighborhood Lakewood RBS anybody guys know who's the editor of this year Gary been much which is rebelly's favorite sponsor the coil sponsor the one with the least words the monthly sponsor turning of the daf sponsor these words what's my least favorite sponsor okay I'm not gonna go there when the rebellious full share in RBS begin Brock is that base needed that base oh what's the best present you get your belly new mdy license plate a custom-made mdy suit a new guy to join the sheer nothing he hates presence who started who started the freaking bar initiative this you don't know Paris can't live in yossi Klein refuel The Barber or nasala Gans it depends who you ask if you asked the signal against is the sound again no 100 there's no such thing as 100 you know that what does it mean what does it mean he goes bye-bye he leaves his house he goes on a trip he leaves this world he goes shopping which one is considered like LaRoche cerebelli if you send pictures of going to Safari you send pictures of playing basketball you send pictures of skydiving you send pics of the mice is All the Above had a crazy mdy story tonight says Paris time Levin was a neighbor I asked him if his house is for sale no that's not what happened his brother who was also sitting shiver asked me if I was high impressed Levine I immediately took out one of my mdy business cards he told me he's a regular at this year he then mentioned to me he just opened up a bakery on 13th Avenue so I asked him if he'd be willing to put up a sign he said it would be his greatest pleasure I started the order for the sign in order to get Mars for the store I thought it was amazing just yesterday I went to abimele Jason so I did the same exact thing I said Jason when are you going to join this year must see mother he's 94 years old he's like if Dr dinner joins I'll I'll join so I look at Dr Jen I said now what's your what's your excuse you're gonna cost two people I said okay fine I'll come so let's see you got to hold him to it they're both your neighbors huh no he said this at home we have children here you could do it you mentioned the chapter of emotion Feinstein and asking in the show and toward the end of death I mentioned that a guttle should be involved in the Mississippi there's a story with Maisha that he went every day to the nurses station in a specific hospital to have to ask about a patient there and then left a number of days the nurses asked the rabbi you come here every day to check out my patient but the patient's unconscious and he doesn't even know that you're here in fact you never even go into the room so why do you visit he answered them because you know I'm here this patient has no family and no one to check up on him it is a known fact that the hospital staff will care more about a patient if they know that someone is concerned about them so I come every day and check in with the nurses so that you will be able you all know that someone is asking about it and this will get better care this part of the guys who are emotional to think about how the best way doing Mitzvah you accomplish your Canon escorts you should go for the beautiful story and over here from Cedar says that perhaps the shot I like this passive Chad that is because he's stripped from everything he can't is Bare Bones and it says foreign and uh beautiful nice the kylo is sponsored that we maybe may we always be able to support Toyota I mean the tire protect us from any harm the Miss sector sponsored ain't Google Joe Sharp lineage was my father about and in honor of the mdy Boca wow will be there soon 50 days 50 days Israel mayor Ben Kayla Dr Mark Berkson in order my daughter shoshana happy belated birthday oh I have here I sponsored money stuff and out of my daughter shoshana I didn't think we'd be in the ER with hashem's helps you should be fine with four slim she shot a Miriam Nina the response of the art for the month is by Anonymous from Lakewood today we have two beautiful pictures that Yoshi put together for us everybody's saying I want to remind the other alarm that was starting a brand new volume of masato sandharim is your chance to go get somebody to join the share you get a free guitar he gets a free gamara today what is we are starting anonymous it's 40 40 daf into the recepta by all my really really here's the few things that we're going to learn today on the screen huh Dr bergson is from Dr bergson I don't see you but I know you're there here and his daughter foreign what sick person what disease do you not visit that's what we're going to be learning today so why why why not leprosy that guy oh contagious that's yeah everybody in this year had a mess happened to them that was greater than the nest of Michelle I mean greater than being saved from the fire and if somebody's what I know from the other person can they both share one play could they each chunk out of the same plate if you know that or not and then we're going to see later on this is not so much for now but just remind me later there are two people on the staff that died in the same day it's a cool it's a cool Shiloh says kimara two four six eight lines down from the top of um is a very interesting thing here yamara says it seems like imar is saying that the reason why people get sick is so they do truva and a person is not healed from his avarice unless he does complete chuva we learned the messephalus Magilla that we say every morning and then only afterwards goes into why I say God Israel uh the Gula middle okay but and then refua says tomorrow you should give all the avoidance okay first he forgives our awareness then only afterwards he forgives therefore he brings a person down humbles them to damn tashem says he goes back to his youth in other words when a person is healed he's even stronger and better than before or he has less various than before he's like a a young kid says Rashi over here that doesn't have any various root flash so root flash is a combination of two words as the Run ratov moist and Pash means a lot so he's young he has a has a lot of moisture in his body Ruth was come back I'll go back to the days when he was young it could be also you could say that if a person has let's say you read the enroutines he falls in rookness and then he comes back maybe I'll come back even stronger than before but okay I'm saying the idea of getting stronger coming out of the mats of even bigger and better than before called oh sorry yeah his entire bed he has a maid bed you flip it over you flip it upside down um when a person gets sick he forgets everything has the right to say this shot why it's very well known we learned it many times already got sick he accurately moved there he forgot all his learning and ABY reminded him it says on the side over and themselves eight other places besides Al gomara but I specifically remember even more than that this is we learned all the way in the first Ahmed of subas it says over there the review Rashi says because he forgot his learning so it could be this exact Lush and it says eight times I think it's even more than that is talmud reminded him this is why we say through our chance I never heard this this is not not true you told it to us ready he understood that he's sick and he forgot his learning this is how you told us this is how you proved it to us and he kept on going even though he forgot it it's very very depressing a person he forgot everything and just to keep on going keep unplugging us also to the doctor we forget it the next day forget it keep on going had 13 ways to learn a certain many sugiyas he only taught seven out of the 13. and then he became sick could only repeat to revi and teaches revi revi only seven out of the 13 because that's all he learned from him six went and we're lost there was a laundromat have a little rabbit garzlo he heard everything ready talked even Authority huh let me learn it did I have a girls I don't know maybe was learning yeah yeah you heard Webbie saying and he was there he was there every day and he heard him I don't know if he seems like he taught himself he was talking to himself he wasn't teaching uh the the kovis directly saying why would he teach the Clovis and I teach okay Sarah went and learned that from this and then he taught it back to revi you created me you made me you taught here and he taught me you made both of us first of all I just want to remind though that all the way at the end of subas an incredible story when reviews lived there tomorrow says over there that there was a basketball that came down and said whoever was at rabies lavaya is who's very depressed he used to be by rebby every day and that day he wasn't there he went up onto the roof jumped off the roof and I said then the yive it says there's the same Clovis is over here he wasn't stamina laundry man he was a laundroman that we talked rebby every all the all the other ones I saw it today and the rich and also bring it I went back there I think I didn't use such I said that guy I called him that guy but you see that he was a he's a very close of a person if it's the same person seems like he's the same person okay you see a very very busy sign here that Rebbie says you created me there are people in history they say about the Morales controversial made of goyland didn't make a goal but over here you can make a human being you can push it create a Remy you teach him you made me okay we don't have to beat the oh we're almost by nadaram so we could say it again you could get another guy to come to the chair and you created him you own him some say it's a little different you didn't create me ready you didn't say you created you had one talmud and I'm here Starman I'm one time and removed from you in other words he argues just just because you created a talmud and that time of that other time and you didn't create the tummy created okay step Talent exactly the grandson grandson you created you're a very good grandson you created here and then and rebby's the grandson bomber Alexandria God of national so going back to the first all the way in the beginning of this year the fourth question I asked are who are the two people that died in the same day in the kivas based on that if it's true I mean it's seems like it is if the kivas it seems like he died he jumped off the roof or he fell off to remember the different shot him he was so distressed that Russia how could you commit suicide you're so distressed he fell off the roof or he thought that he was Michael Shabbos because the sun we had different shot him over there the sun didn't go down the zombie says when rabies lived there so he thought a whole thing when a person comes back from a disease from sickness is a human-made fire anybody could put out a fire so it's not a big deal that they survived that fire interesting the fever that a human being has is like a fire and it's impossible for human being to get rid of it so when you could overcome fever that's a great yeah it happens every day I get it everybody is cured from fever and not everyone could go into fire and come out of it but the gamar is telling us that if you really look into it what's a greaterness that Yakov avinu flipped the stone off the the well or that there's actually a stone so if you think about it actually there's a stone that that you take atoms and you can put them together and they become a hard thing however and that's that's a greaterness that we could see it's a greater than S then somebody come out of fire but we take it for granted everything we do take for granted we are saying stop for a second and don't take for granted the fact that you could overcome fever it's something that you're supposed to die from um when a person's time to expire comes it's time for him to go bye-bye then anything can attack him and take his nishama says Rashi over here what's anything even a fly and a mosquito and I thought it's very very interesting because we know that the greatest killer in the animal kingdom is the mosquito kills over half a million people a year I just looked it up again because I wasn't sure if I could rely on my mind and how many people does a lion kill a year only 250. the mosquito kills a half a million and how many does a hippopotamus kill 500. double you got to know this biggest don't walk on the bank of the river when you go to the safari and look at those cute hippopotamuses you might get eaten okay I don't think people die over here but yeah they die from malaria and all the well you have to go to their house also for mosquitoes I think hmm foreign yeah really I don't want to go there we have we have you'll see in the picture soon actually it's not so true what you're saying um okay um it's not fair you remove the shield the human shield we have a special Shield that protects us from animals from different things you go there's many stories of people just walking around in the jungle and you know animals are typically stay away from humans but Kai was concerned that the animals will attack and people will attack him he removed that that protection the special protection so it says in the Apostle might see anybody the the whether it's the fly the I didn't look up I think a fly kills 10 000 people a year seriously I don't know exactly how but I'm sure what Google it I think it's like 10 I didn't look it up but yeah look Google tell me what it is probably not the typical housefly but they have those nasty flies something next to the water they'll bite you those kind of those probably a little dangerous since you had a mishpat a then everybody is born whose servant to get rid of you to do you and to take you away to do the job somebody said that the Belzer told me and I didn't look it up he said that this Apostle is the only Apostle in Tanakh that has the same Gematria as the word Rosh Hashanah the word of sauna it's kind of easy 600 and something 56 I mean I don't remember Rush the two shins and and the the two 600 plus it's 800 right just the big and then the small one you know something I didn't do that he says that's the only person it fits in with Russians oh so for this we have a picture it doesn't help the suit you much just gives it a little bit of a schmuck so you could picture it here is the picture here's a very tall human being a blinking on a very very small mule hold on and the mule was going over Bridge trying to say here is that since this guy was so tall his feet were able to control the mule you have feet on the ground yet this mule did something crazy he became crazy and flipped him off the bridge which is not a natural thing in other words wants to get a person he could do many many different things and you see on the bottom you have the next sugyo you see that little flag it wasn't clear so I blew it up so let me show you what's going on here a very tall man Diedra and he was riding a very short a very small mule Mata tituro he came to a bridge east of it he got he went with sugar he lost his mind this mule shot there he threw the guy off because when he died I think it's a Rashi that says over here that was very very it was a very small fall you only fell like five inches and he died okay the next Kimber will see even more than this what the gemara means here Korea enough Shea it seems like even though the lotion is not so smart but it seems like rabba said about this guide if it's time if it's his time to go something funny will happen and he'll die Al so what we have here this is the picture right here yeah I have a frog taking a scorpion across the water and the Scorpion got to the other side and killed a person what's interesting here is that the Scorpion doesn't know how to swim and a frog doesn't have venom but when you combine the two and it's very unusual for a scorpion to ride a frog it just doesn't happen who wants to kill someone so do something unusual take two things that don't go together and uh it will happen I also noticed this morning very interesting what sound does a frog make he croaks and look at the word how the gamar calls a frog a Croc though so just maybe that's where we got it from I have no idea yes this uh this um the crabber was sitting on top of that crypto Target is the it reminded me of I have a friend I know him pretty well his name is Israel Brownstein from Chicago when he was nine years old he was on United flight 232 Sioux City Iowa look it up Sioux City if you don't know how to spell it I don't either I think it's s-i-o-c-x or something there's an X at the ux Sioux City Iowa he's a from kid who's on the plane a hundred and twenty people I think died 180 survived the person that sat right next to him they switched seats died and he's taking this he lives with it he's 14 in his 40s today he's a psychologist he's a great guy but wherever he Mount and the crazy thing about him Israel is that when he learned the Yeshiva here and there's Israel he got hit by the number one bus going to the college so I think if one of the bosses ran over his foot okay so what why am I saying this because uh a jet usually can't fall out of the sky a jet they have a lot of redundancies there's two engines so if one engine goes out there's no problem for a pilot to fly with one engine if the Hydraulics go out there's a second hydraulic system the electrical everything is double so the only way a plane could go down well if it hits another plane which is very unusual but the only way is if two of the same systems go out or but it's so unlikely what happened was with that plane is that one of the blades from the fan flew out of the the engine sliced the Hydraulics and it kept on flying that blade came around the plane and sliced the other Hydraulics that's what the investigator said and the pilot was in the middle of turning so it remained in a turn Hydraulics is what controls the the the flaps so it remained in a turn and then they had a nice godomoid that on the plane the best DC-10 pilot in the world was it was a was a passenger in the back he wasn't even the pilot and he saw what was going on he said tell them I'm the trainer of all DC-10 violence so he went in there and he together to devise a plan had to control a plane that's in a turn through the engines and then so they had to control and they were coming in for landing in the last second it tipped a little bit to the side and the wing hit the runway and it flipped and that's what happened but anyway I was just think like the two things that had it to happen the in order for this tragedy to happen is the most unlikely thing in the world that a blade should hit two hydraulic systems on two sides of the plane so I just want to take a frog and a scorpion and put them together and you get oh if I hadn't been there I wouldn't have got bit by the Scorpion shaita there's a million other ways you would have got killed five yeah okay my Google said 500 yeah how many did they fly how many flies we won about huh no 500 people died 500 000 I said from the from the mosquito and he said 725. hilarious okay right but it's still the same idea okay yeah most likely right ten thousand yeah okay ten thousand there you go you should know that the Flies energy scroll just I'm just saying they have a little bit of that African fly is ever you go like this shoot you come right back Americans are much more polite they you shoot away they usually go away yeah the place in the woods when people die yeah these black flies will fly around it's like this yeah we wouldn't ask for what we saw you saw it I was in the hospital okay okay I don't know if I said this correlations bro has a lot of slooking that could take care of the business only to somebody that's fever not Pokemon what does it mean it doesn't make any sense well you can't do big somebody has another disease you don't visit somebody that has intestinal disease and eye disease and a headache or some other thing it said makes a lot of sense this person has intestinal disease he has to rush to the bathroom to the restroom and you're there it's going to be very difficult for him somebody just told me that even a Valium have I have a problem they have so many guests coming in and they don't know when to go and then it comes it comes an uncomfortable situation over here it's even more might have a little bit of an accident a little bit of this there's other things going on here so he's sick with his intestines so don't visit him you have to think before you visit like it happens to be with Avi mandelbam he loves when people come visit him he says something first but other khalem they're uncomfortable they can't speak well they use common sense you talk to somebody has a headache or an eye ache it really bothers them it makes things worse however well malays she said when you talk to someone that has fever it helps them omarova this fire this this inner fever if not for the fact that the malcolmovas loves this and this is his go-to method Molly from the base it happens to be that fever is very good for a person it it combats disease and and infection Etc so fever is good but don't ask for it because the mouth loves it as well we sponsored by yankel Cohen the official mdy MSP was being able to support limit to finish shots of the rebelly thank you and if you have it once every 30 days is amazing foreign in English it's how do you say it is teriyaki [Music] uh teriyaki huh it's a it's a way to treat like um it's antidote right antidote we have plenty of times but if it's if it's ah so he left the I got it okay I don't want not the fever I don't want the antidote I don't want anything foreign barley that's aged the rage Navia it's the beginning of the sifting but however it says goodbye be careful you have to cook it very well okay this with the tire like Bulls meat Rabbi is about the fine flower of barley aticto the age barley the race Napier the first sifting Omarion and that you need to cook it really well over here dumb see Morris is at the end bardham is a lotion of a well bar Dam and so it either comes from hemorrhoids it comes from the lower part of the body aim of vacuuming don't go visit somebody that has this disease and don't even mention it when Dr Neil Halpern was here the other day he came over to me after shear and he said that he he thinks I shouldn't use the word yanamakla he said yeah it's a very Jewish thing to say you don't use it you don't use the word cancers he says but you have to be sensitive to the people that have it and they don't appreciate it he says so I'm telling you it's it's too harsh for them that's what he said he said he's sick he say he's six okay macabo that's what he said help to remember he said there's certain things that you're the mother says certain things people are sensitive if somebody has a certain disease and a certain limb that's embarrassing you don't say oh he has this and this disease it's embarrassing to him you also don't go visit him because of it makes him uncomfortable he might be bleeding he might have to go to the bathroom whatever it is certain things you don't visit he's constantly bleeding or it's diarrhea with blood whatever it is it's not a good thing it's like a it's like a well of blood it's like it constantly overflows um we learned in the mishnah that a doctor whose motherhana he could come visit him and give him a refuse but not a refused moment what is it talking about if the word means like I learned it back then it means that he's giving free free visit and that's it see what we have here okay what happened oh so you've seen this pausing over here Liquors what does it mean you have a life you have a soul naturally I mean if you could do this for me if you have if you have the will to do it so over here you see the word nashika means will that's what the gemara says them what not I'm giving him uh uh a refua giving the will refuse means I'm giving him for free for us mama means and and then it's the same I'm giving the same treatment just one is for money and one is for free if that's the case so say better stay straight out I have to say before hello everyone what it means is I'm healing the patient so here we have we have the doctor in the house doctor Factor he said that the Avi cannot benefit from him so in this case could benefit from him because Avi is only doing a mitzvah in a place that they don't take money for it like an artist's role if you have insurance whatever if you do take money for it I guess you'd have to toss the money and give it to hagdish like we learned but do not try to heal the guy's animal that that's not a Mitzvah that you don't have says the rhyme but sometimes it is a mitzvah if there's no other doctor around so what is that called when you heal somebody's animal s if you look very interesting they're going to shots over here asks a beautiful question he says when somebody loses a wallet and you return it to him you really didn't give him more than he had before which is you could argue that but when you've healed the guy's animal you took an animal that's 50 and you made him 100 so it's more than a shovel you add it to this animal how's that allowed okay that's Iran I think argue suvio on the doctor Factor could tell the owner Avi this is what you give your dog it will be good for him even though avi's also to have a not from Doctor Factor sampling Rallo yeah just one recorder that the Run adds here that if the coiler it's the same thing as this picture but the heila is the one that said I'm not going to benefit from Avi uh they're both Hobbies okay said I don't want to have anything to do with Dr Factor it's the same Arrow it goes in the same Direction One Way is that the doctor is the one that initiated it he's the mother he says you Abby the cannot benefit from me or it's it's the same thing the khila says I don't want to benefit from you but it goes in the same direction in that case is the Run Avi the hoyler could receive medicine from Avi the doctor why because like we learned yesterday you don't make a nether that has to do with your heels okay so we're done with this so yeah I just want to say real quickly I know that we're running out of time but I have to say the story because it's a classic said it many times it's a very very important story and because we don't want to still give a bigger title so real quickly one of his came to him and asked him for a force flame I think he had he was very sick not yet Immaculate he's very sick told him I can't do anything for you but there's a rub and a little stethel go to him get a broken from him so he went to the Rob and he still have time don't ever tell anybody I told you the secret about that road so he went there and the rough game of broken sure enough he was healed many years later that person's sister had the same disease so the person thought told me not to say anything so he told his sister in a secret go to that doctor over there go to that rough over there he could heal you he's a special he has a special class but comes time told me about so she went there and all of a sudden the guy's disease came back he really he realized he made a big boo-boo he broke the sky his promise he went to the clubs I have to tell you the truth I'm too old and I can't dab him for you what happened was I down for you and damn for you every day that you should be healed I told you to go to that room it wasn't the rough it was me I died for you now I'm too old I'm sorry I can't do anything about it it's unbelievable of foreign you see the diving board broke the whole thing what's going on here is how is that a problem how is this a problem or boys the problem is because it has trailers the problem is the problem is that the the problem is that the water comes up when the guy hits the pool and it gives the guy in the pool the little guy gives a little benefit and that benefit is also because he's also as you can see in this one over here the guy in the pool is the mother the guy that jumped in his demand there the mother cannot give benefit to the mother and by the water going up a level or two until now I was up to his stomach now went up the hair it's nice to be schmucking hot or whether or cold whatever it is it's awesome he's allowed to go into a giant pool where the water level doesn't go up and not in a small pool as the Posse says and in the time of the gemara is very relevant and prevalent that people used to they didn't have they didn't have clothing and didn't have blankets so they had to use body heat to keep to stay alive Imagine Learning in the in the concentration camps they had to sleep tight that's how it was so you cannot give off your body heat to your friend and Iran proves that the entire mission is reviewed that he's just explaining you allowed to sleep with somebody in the bed when it doesn't give you any benefit because it's hot but if it's during the winter time where there's a benefit and you know from him it's awesome sit on the bed and discuss here how could you eat with somebody in the same table you move that not from him you might take his food you're not even sit on the same table somebody eating inflation you're eating milkshakes so the rush answers beautifully I know from who a guy that you hate why do you mother because you hate him you hate him you're not going to take anything from him you're scared of him you hate him alone do not eat from the same serving Bowl available if it's a serving Bowl that's very very large then you're permitted to eat because there'll be plenty left over if you're eating from a smaller bowl by you leaving over food your Mahana the guy directly the boys I have a wonderful day okay