Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 40 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Mordechai so last night at the supposed smaller basement but there was not a seat left in the house I have to give a tremendous I only afterwards understood he brought in this guy from out of town with a big truck the guy makes waffles on the spot we had ice cream what was a whole massive I didn't have any because I'm on a stickle diet but my kids said they never tasted something like that ever so if you guys need a good waffle guy he's unbelievable seriously he's unbelievable that guy and uh the tremendous uh tremendous event everybody came this Blazer Hashem and we're going to the lower level which is even nicer than the upper one it's a beautiful thing this coming Friday Sally Ford gang what better way to start the week when the first WhatsApp status you see is from your son at the sheer PS with zisha frequently running to share my wife keeps saying that we should divert tuition to mdy proud father Tinus 25 HVAC 21. here we go [Applause] and that's the cover from Shiva from Andrew schmullen she was not allowed to know about this they said okay so we're not going to show the picture yes in Manchester all right your voice live here in Manchester we know how many people watch this year come join these guys there's a little physical over there but still nice that they got together this is unbelievable I always say some people Mama started learning the daf this guy this kid is learning The Potato Head part of it with Valk her belly attached please find the video of my son shragy doing good morning where boys have to complete his reboise coloring project [Music] oh so last night if you watched this year I used the Avi mandelbam as the the case of the khila and yasi Klein was the mavaca and I explained that it got riches from him so here's the email I had to miss the live share tonight since I thankfully had about 30 guests talking about big Highland 30 guests stopped by the hospital to visit the picks that I saw in the WhatsApp Group after were truly amazing I can't wait to actually learn today's edited version since the live feed on YouTube appears to be missing the beginning thank you for putting such a huge smile on my face both literally and metaphorically Avi Winter's soup time Mendel bound remember used to sign off okay he's back my boys have he's back with his soup and here none other than shimmy leaf men check this out new addition to the mobile mdy Duff signing up wagon so you've got the QR code it's comfy free gamara picture of the mega chair and you've got these beautiful new cards printed with all the details on to sign up and on the back we've got Philip before and after learning available soon with in all chapters around the world now if you think that that van is a joke here it is that's me it's real this is how he runs around town with a guy holding on to a fish or some guy with a yamaka this is in Manchester United it's not like uh it's not Ramada chemist this is non-jew is like what is going on here why is the guy with a young holding on a fish okay if you want to know you have to hit the QR code over there so um do we have sponsors no oh okay hold on one second like I'm in this I can't go to another day yeah how's it going you guys say it out loud everybody no to this month is sponsored by thanks beautiful moisture oh I didn't say who else we'll see you later okay I have a shower for the oil I'm just curious if anybody mentions the famous run from nidorum throughout chassis the ran in the dorm what does it usually mean no Menachem I see you here what does it mean ah I was hoping to say something else no I'm gonna say you're gonna say oh in in what [Music] here huh Fila Renault I thought oh you're close Fila is the right word for me it always meant if you're allowed to Daven for somebody to die that's how we all the running of the famous runner door if somebody's on his last days could you diving for them to die that's something we're going to learn today and also a very famous Shiloh if somebody gets sick do you hide it from everybody or you tell everybody about it so they could dive in a lot of people they're very private about it and also we're going to learn about what time of the day do sick people feel better and worse what does it could die to visit them and finally what myths for what thing could you do or prevent you from issue or bring you great friends and what else away so that's what we're going to learn today we're holding the last last what we have some sponsors having here it's my fault I erased the whole uh slide thing today you put it in right I couldn't find it so whatever like this Raphael boy last last words on the Ahmad oh the coil is sponsor may we always be able to support Tyra and made the tire protect us from any harm and finally the art the very first month is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood house oh somebody I can guess remind me your name Mike dinowitz from New City Mike de Ross University you're with us from all the way in the beginning The Not So Rare otherwise we find some of them they're around more than you would think subscribe thanks for coming what's your name Penny krizell from here around Crown Heights how did you find this guy there's coil and you're taking credit already well he came in here ah thank you okay thank you Penny what you know slimy Klein oh no sort of but um and I just I what's the hype all about I'm in Israel so I figured I'd stop in okay that's it now you're gonna be we're sitting over there right over here we have to go all the way around I'm gonna go what's your name both of you it's all Simon yeah I met you already on Friday you know Howard subscribe all right from Woodmere you heard that accent from movement starts announcing to everybody is sick we gotta say to Helen well you get the car seat for whatever reason they had reasons nobody showed up oh my little how could you not come to visit him didn't we have the favorite story with kiva's talmud who became sick nobody came to visit him Akiva went in evacuated to visit him himself or the family they swept up the place they they sprinkled some water to to settle the Dust he survived if you heard the story yesterday my story I said yes it was really for today where the granddaughter of the real Mall somebody married her show vol's son married her for one day because he had to tell the king that he was married and she was under on her deathbed they were looking for someone that's dying so they found her and because she got excited that somebody married her she came back the the remote's granddaughter although you see a similar thing people from they cleaned up the room he felt nice and fresh there was a woman who I forgot the exact details they asked her like what do you live for she's like you know people that are sick they can't turn over in bed they're in bed for a very long time they can't bathe she said she waits for that once a week when they bathe her and she's able to make a bracha and say Amen otherwise she was like soiled and show me around him so but cleaning up freshening up brought this guy back to life on my legsani you literally you brought me back to life based on this and he gave a draw shot if you don't go to him it's a joke a little bit but there's a lot of truth to it unfortunately he says that there was a guy in a in a car accident Yeshiva guy was in car accident so all his friends went to visit him one guy I kept on procrastinating didn't visit him didn't visit him and he hears that the guy's about to come out of the hospital so he starts diving he says Hashem just keep him in the hospital a few more days better yet maybe he should even die why should I have that Boucher that's gonna come out that's what he says over here it's not so far from them sometimes we want to kill somebody because they they stole our parking spot or whatever yeah she just call me is here says like in the story of Akiva you cause him to live you cause him to die my grandma where how exactly are you causing a guy to die foreign to diving for the person but if you don't go to visit him she almost you you it comes out that you're diving for him that he should die dog what literally you're gonna dominate should die hello hello the problem is that if you go if you're not being me back you're not going to do either you're not gonna dive him for him that he should live and you're not going to die for him that he should die why is she dying for him that he should die so for this we have to see the famous famous ran in the door the random here at least in my when I grew up I heard this run a hundred times for my father so that's why for me it's surrounding daughter for no one else okay it says the top run this is sometimes you must Daven to shame sometimes it's a midst of the diamond and somebody should live when somebody's at his last last breath and he's having his Surya if he's having tremendous tremendous and everybody says it's impossible for this guy to come back foreign in other words she was very learned and we sister brings the stories from her obviously we passed him based on her she saw rebby was had a lot of tire but still becoming star omro she said that the upper should be the the ones that the lower ones climate the lameless rubbish he was saying she diving that cancer the round holds that in certain situations when it's there's nothing to do Duran holds you're diving that a person should die I'm kind of philosophy brings that they asked them in childhood there's a mother who was extremely extremely ill she's bedridden for many years her situation is getting worse and worse and she had a lot of issue and she asked her sons and her husband to Daven for her that she should die and that's what kind of Elijah to do said that it's also for the children to die in such a uh Philo but they shouldn't dab and that she should live so there's a Chev outside talk about it they say similar things one it's not really brought down that someone should die however the brings it down says the situation is that that person should die but many are them seem to hold that you shouldn't you shouldn't say you shouldn't utter the Musha says that an hour days it's interesting there's another emotion that we'll talk about in a second but remember says nowadays anyways our teals are not so heard and listen to so it's better not to dive in such things but there is no Rahman in that case when there's when there's no oh Diamond foreign do what you need to do okay fine right here that's that might be that might be uh you're saying that's even more than tiger don't say anything okay I hear nice everything should be Rahul all right remote just says in terms of practical Allah that you should not give such a person medicine and and there are things that to lengthen his life and certainly don't give him anything that will shorten his life then he goes into talking about sometimes medication like morphine I don't know exactly which ones but I remember it was certain medication actually takes away life there's certain very heavy um what does it call those medicines that lower the pain painkillers certain painkillers what yeah they're in college they they actually they lessen a person's life and he says you should be careful from that and certainly not to give any guys's medicine that's already a big problem to give a guy since medicine okay uh no I'm just and there's a lot of them that say that the Run never meant Allah you're just trying to explain the gemara but not passing so okay each one asked the Rob what to do it's not so cautious sounds like more like this Bravo the khales the first day Rob became sick um on day number one don't reveal to anyone the disease that his Mazel shouldn't become ruined in other words when it's not out there yet and this is still a possibility to flip it let's if it's not out there we just had it recently forgot what it was that you shouldn't say it because once you say it it becomes like becomes a fact but that's the first thing once you see that it's not going in the right direction go out announce in the marketplace why the whole decidingly literally I want all those who hate me to be happy look at this post look it says impossible you know he's not gonna like that your enemy is so happy and you're gonna get better based on your enemies so I I want I want the enemies to be happy with The Rock and Lee and those who love me so what could I lose it's a win-win situation if my enemies on day one it might be a problem the enemies might be happy and they might be like was going to look into me he's gonna see all these people that are so excited that I'm sick he's sick suck his Brooke was gonna flip it and then say okay let that guy be sick but once it's already a done deal day two you hear this day two I heard of stories I know of people that had a terrible illness didn't even tell their wife and kids nothing nobody knew also one day that's it then the story so people there's a lot of secretive people out there over here it says nigamara shouldn't be so secretive it's better that people should know and Diving for you omarab called Medina says RAV as we had yesterday when you do because you're saved from whoa is that the person who thou will see is a person that's sick means Hashem will save him from that says from from sickness will end his life was saying this that Hashem almost ended his life from a disease so you see Dal usually means a poor person over here means a sick person from another person foreign was attracted to his half-sister Thomas and it made him sick literally sick so you know the best why are you sick so you see the word thou means and the Saint Patrick says Russell will be in the bad day in other words so you see that if you move you're saved from means Hashem is going to save you from God and if he didn't visit him we just said you get a tremendous heart person who has to get you ahead of him he's gonna be saved from gehenna my butt so what's the scar of a person I want to know why am I okay but what about other muscle four things Hashem Hashem is Hashem will save it from the Atari so big hilum has all these amazing things in it will keep him alive or save him boy who be they'll give him covet about this even we learned yesterday even there's no goggle and cotton when it comes to to uh first it could be a a very famous person or very the simple yet you think that you're putting yourself down by being a whacker the simple yet no the opposite I'll give you covet through it will give him unbelievable friends good friends people that care about him that because of the friends naman's Saras was healed huh yeah 30 30 visitors last night 30 visitors but he's dominated so I just want to show you the super mirror because we have a little time I thought I thought it's fascinating but welcome days the stories like this Naman wasn't Jewish and he had to Ras so a Jewish girl told them go to the middle go to the Toledo is so Alicia didn't even leave his house now I'm on the great generals outside on his horse see you later sends a guy out the door tell him to go to Evil seven times in the river garden and then everything will be okay so if Naman is furious how is it possible you know I might be like yate he doesn't come out the other thing oh I'm a corporation I have I have many rivers I don't need your River at least so I have in Buffalo I can go to many rivers I'll go over there what I need your your great idea so now this is what the gamma's talking about of his good friends this is a good friend if he told you something interesting to do you would have done it if you would have said stand on your head 20 times you'd have done it so because he told you to go into the river and you said you think it's silly because you also have a river so that's why you're gonna be upset go try it out what do you care try it out now it's below his dick in the day he's a hush of this he's gonna listen to this Alicia and then he's gonna go fight but yeah but y'all should be sorry to keep signing our cutting my guitar everything is good and then the positive says now he was already impressed with the Big Nate that happened then and then he said he'll be strong okay fight upon him you see from here that when you have good friends they save your life and that's what that's what who says and it's possible over here that if you do pick a kylem you'll you'll have good friends that'll save your life oh so what happened the last thing and don't have friends like his advisors divided his kingdom and destroyed clay Israel and the Corbin happened because of them if the youngsters the inexperienced ones they tell you build us but the elders who have experience they tell you break you should listen to the elders and don't listen to the youngsters what happened is that when I died or haven't took over is the king and Clyde Israel comes to him they send a message listen your father really you worked this hard release a little bit of the pressure so let me think about it for three days and he asked his advisors the elders in the younger the Elder said yeah yeah listen to them chill out a little bit let them go release the pressure the youngster said no you gotta up the pressure a little hotspot that they're coming to you like that and they told him I love this lotion katani your pinky my pinky Tuscola Israel after they say Please Release the pressure he says you know what you're talking to my pinky is thicker than my father's waist That's How Strong don't even mess with me so what happened was they broke him they couldn't take the pressure and they rebelled and Klystron split into two and once they split into two they had big fights we know the story Urban some people say as a I'm not promoting this but some people say in this gemara image star that the the elders the older generation said when the kid doesn't behave nicely give him a Astera a frask the younger said no no the new psychology is you got to build up the kid well no the stero is the building and the building is this era ah beautiful the work for Our Generation for some vegetables if you if you want to know but kids who listen to the ones that have experience experience there's nothing like experience you shouldn't visit the sick love it myself never visit the sick the first three hours of the day and the last three hours of the day foreign that a person you're going there to David you're going there to help the sick if you go the first three hours you're not gonna dive and go the last three hours you're not gonna why should I cut myself a person wakes up he wakes up with a fresh kite he wakes up he doesn't look sick she come visit him this is what they're talking about look at him he has he's full of energy on the flip side you might go at the end of the day where he's completely wiped out and you're gonna think it's too late already I'm gonna waste my time with this guy he's a goner so go during the day go in the middle of the day he's doing well he's getting better just in cars don't even more you want people to dive him is sustains the sick sometimes you see they don't eat at all but they did on a little water and some some ice they're able to survive a long time foreign right above the sickness Hashem is going to be there a letter on the bed of the the the the bedridden when you go to visit the sick so you shouldn't sit on a chair in a stool so the ram explains what you know how to sit down says no it's talking about that the sick person is on the ground so if you sit on a chair you're above the screen up you're you're belittling the screen you got to be in the same level as the screen element you cover yourself like Baba Sally you know all covered like like maybe the video I'm not ripped of it the other bobbins that are covered like this that they you show that you have fear of Hashem is you're coming in to a very holy Place Hashem is gonna is going to be where I learned his divide on the sick bet Mama RAV oh so now we're in the news let me just make sure oh Metro if the you see that the rivers in bubble are overflowing they're swelling so you know that it rained a lot in Earth's throat so so what so check out this possible site says in the pasta yeah well I'm saying that's what it means no you want to really like the tomorrow if it rains in there just roll and then bubbling you know right away when they see that they're rivers are overflowing so what's gonna get us it says an apostle like this mine in red mine is a spring and then there's another category called Uber amikvah what does a Mikvah mean gathered water how do you make a mcflow we know you have to take Meg shaman there's a very very big difference between a spring and a Mikvah a spring water that emanates from a spring from underground it could be flowing water you can go into the Mikvah even though it's moving it has to be stationary water let's say if somebody wants to toggle in a pool or an Eddie mcfloat that has a filter you have to turn off the filter you can't have the water moving it has to be stationary water the problem is if you're in a you're in a some sort of river and most of the water 51 of the water just came from rainfall enormous amounts of water coming off the mountain and it overflows it's you see it's swelling from the rain water you're now at a table in it why because it's rain water that's moving rain water can move if it's without rain water you could be titling it all day long because it's a Maya but once it's make sure man you can't be type on it says the gemara if I see that this the river is overflowing I know that it rained a lot of energy straw and therefore I have to keep away from the river as it comes in like the first little one yeah so that's a good morning of a desire the thought and eventually it undoes it each drop does bottle and then afterwards it over overrides it and when you know and it comes in a lot exactly it's flowings like go to the Alps you should go if you haven't been there you see it like this wherever you go they have these Rivers next to the road coming off it's all over the Alps just melting snow constant massive Rapids just the water is Flowing all day over there it's cadillos have to jump into the water there with a boat with a guide and uh and take one of those tours just get in and it's all from the melting snow so middle of the summer it's freezing water but that's how it is and that would be awesome to be title it because it's all melted snow it's not caution for Mikvah sesame however small argues we learned it in China's that when this one tafak of rainwater down here there's actually two talking to come up from the ground from its natural source says don't worry about it when you see that the water the river is overflowing it doesn't mean that it came from the rainwater it came from natural sources from underneath however I believe this was war but swell himself contradicts himself hey there's a surprise here boys I surprise Turn the Page slowly press the what where there's only one month a year that you could beatival in the pros in Euphrates and that's in tishre because now I know in tishu I know for a fact that there's no melted snow there's no rain water it's all good and culture so there's two hours here how long number one has to be like the Euphrates it has to be a river that never goes dry ever so you know that it comes from a natural source because if it's a natural source they'll never dry up and B you can only you could only be tyville in tishre so what do they do in Europe in Europe we know they used to be traveling in a river why in hell so the round brings a lottery result here that basically we posskin that you're not allowed to be told in a river there are some restraining that hold you could river that has rain water like small not like small you see that we contradictual that means we don't pass again like him the kids are the bottom line is Rebellion time says you could be titled in a river that has this rain water so the ramasas that that's how there was so much it's like they were Mako sort of it seems like in Europe to be to be titled there's no Mikvah there's no Mikvah so you could rely on the Rama in that kind of situation but it's only it seems like like a header like a cooler wcisive you're not toyball well I don't think the spider were in those areas but despite them are not playable in a river based on our gamara here oh sponsor the third of the time sponsor my uncle called the official mdy MSP and the school is being able to support Lima Torah and to finish Shaz with rebelli his daughters I don't remember we had the sugary I think they weren't married but I'm not sure but it doesn't matter one way or the other he didn't want his daughters to be titled in the river who's crisis for this problem of Rainwater so obviously I'm in Nissan he made them special maker that he shouldn't go to the river but when they did go to the river in this Ray um he made the Mets the regular the symbol shot as they made mats that they should step on the mats and not on the mud not to have from them or he made the Mets that were vertical for sneeze foreign what are you doing get some Caleb that you need to go to gala's goal is Caleb and people are going to say what are you doing you say listen we're about to go to girls you better do chuva what what did he say Bill Zu should I have like this uh portable you need a light a flashlight uh a bowl and a shatia it says that Kaiser didn't listen so if you don't have a bowl you're on the way you're traveling you need to make bread how do you make bread without a bowl you dig a hole in the ground you pour your ingredients in you mix it up what's going to happen you're going to start chewing your challah you're going to bite into Iraq and so that's what happened because they're called so it says an apostle right by the by the clawless you're not gonna have anything you're gonna be hungry and thirsty but Arium naked you don't have food you don't have a drink so what does it say you're not gonna have anything you yeah there's nothing less than not having bread and water well and and clothing you don't have anything and you know what not only that you're going to be missing heister called you're missing other stuff what else can be missing you could be missing other stuff you don't even have light dark hungry and thirsty now this is not my relationship okay that's also very important what I I didn't say that without a lighter without a tablet you'll be eating on the floor whatever you little have no he's not my blisha you won't have a wife representation you want to have an assistant if nothing this is the worst you only have Seiko you won't have understanding Tana below Miller you might have a little food but it won't have any taste you won't have any spices or below revolve you won't have any oil I don't know I'm thinking right now because I'm on this uh been a while on this diet and one of the things no oil right no oil you know what food tastes like without oil neither have I am as soon as my wife makes a good dish I say no no how much oil do you put in another just a little yeah right when a person is poor wasn't even poor he doesn't have that remember isn't this a song [Music] in a closet [Music] I was in a guy a guy just wrote him serious one of the comments it says how do you fast forward that what do you call it um off how do you how do you fast forward the off key to the singing that you guys have yes the whole song is okay um so it says like this if you have Seiko you have dance you have common sense you have everything the the law the bay if you don't have common sense then what do you have the Connie makani if you were you you acquired say hello then what are you missing you have everything in your life as long as you have sex if you didn't acquire say from my colleague then what do you have so you have a nice car you have a nice house but you're a sheita I have a wonderful day 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