Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 38 by R’ Eli Stefansky

this is a very very touching here we have a picture of yossi Klein visiting Avi mandelbaum in the hospital this you didn't have the best news Avi mandelbaum the the test came back not so great so his spirits were down and he wrote to me this morning he said we had an amazing time together and uh he really appreciated I came to visit now here you go I want to show you a couple of videos here real quickly one of them is long but the last words is them searing in the hospital together hanging out you have to remember I don't know if you were part of this year then the sheer got together and learned over 5 000 dafa gamara five thousand off for Avi mandelbams refua and here is Listen to It's a little long but this is the last last words he says out not from Abby's room wasn't easy I was pink thriving wire hold on wow he says pink deriving like he was part of English wasn't easy I was pink thriving wire they were doing treatments but I can tell you how much tears in my eyes unbelievable to see what we saw that he was a very big has it and um we are he was very happy to see me gosh I couldn't believe it is a guy guys [Music] should come to Hadassah I came spent I don't know what half hour hour or so it was more than an hour whatever and uh we basically going to visit somebody who lived in Malaysia crazy mdy is a real family a real real family a real family I don't know this is not normal all right please see attached video of mdy Javier Manchester heever doing their thing Mindy greenfeld corny heel stepsky and Henner schwinger he writes it with a V over here it's interesting we have two uh similar videos or things today here here's the khaverim the all MD wires doing their thing [Applause] [Music] my name is Saul Freeman you can tell yasi that I'm a Hassan and I hear the share every day two emails like that I drive in every day for monthly through Bar Park do that coil and he's a coil guy and I watched this year on my way I tried a lot of chew him in the daf on tour anytime and nothing compares to yours yes so clear and interesting sometimes I hear it on the way to coil to be clear for the learning and sometimes I hear it on the way home for hazari issue gives me an excitement to drive in this world his name is every day here's another one from YouTube Freeman I've joined the dab of the ship since beginning of the dark I look forward to listening to it every day I work in construction when you have time between job sites I listen to it it gives me energy today thanks so much for looking forward to the CM email kids and daughters that's my daughter is two years old saying good morning our boys to the family and you can tell y'all see Klein same lotion and you can tell yourself and I'm not ashamed to listen to the sheer thank you it's called Friedman and here a boy said yesterday during cheer I got the message I didn't want to tell the oil scared of them but Mark Ashkenazi stabbed himself by mistake with a brand new knife and he thought he had nerve damage and he could he couldn't get the bleeding to stop and his hand went like this in the hand he stabbed himself in the hand I guess he was trying to see if his hand was no no it was a mistake it's a better knife so he was in the in the emergency room but this picture is amazing to me here are three hatsala members that are all for them including the patient or all four MD wires and he tells them listen I gotta go on Zoom now they said you're not going on zoom we're dealing with you and he says you take my hand I gotta go because he is the administrator of zoom in the morning he said if he's not on a lot of people uh you know people will bomb it or whatever they do so he goes on there and his daughter took this picture well as you can see a lot of blood on his hand oh and listen to this he told me and I wrote it down here that he went to the hospital one o'clock in the morning and it just so happened to be that a plastic surgeon that his specialty is palms of hands was in the hospital for another case and took good care of him so his mom is left to right rh170 huh of Marcus schenazi's own wayfus rh-170 schmoole kogus rh-252 Morty Schwab oh sorry rh17 World cogus rh-252 Morty Schwab rh-251 wow they get together CJ Leonard to chuckle or not not to chuckle that is the question I'd like to address the email from yesterday regarding knock himself to chuckle on two speed I found this mail interesting I had a different approach to the high-speed chocolate a while ago as first this is because it's possible to watch this year on two speed I was very excited to try it out as soon as I increase the speed however I immediately started experiencing what can best be described as an onset of a seizure as they watch knock them and chuckle back and forth at the same speed as a jackhammer as it appeared on two speed but the good news is that I owe him a huge jet of gratitude as I immediately put it back to regular speed and I've been watching the share regular speed since away in the best possible way that only you know how it is keeping the rest of us from taking unnecessary shortcuts to toyra because favorite stalker sticky shaky shuckler wow you're amazing he is amazing and because clear copper I stopped at my local auto repair place as they finally received the parts to my car I'm just laughing that I had a white out his cap uh aloe you're with me oh how you doing I'm ready is in the house today oh yeah what about the other stuff I wasn't paying attention if it was on the screen now but you see that little white dot on his cap that's me because he has his phone number in big he has to show him if he loses his mdy cap do I don't should know where to get it it's matching the front okay well when I saw my cap and brought in my office to see what we're look what we're watching the guy tells him at the office and sure enough in the car place did you ever notice every single auto car repair shop the office looks the same same papers in the same spot the same stickers on the wall the same everything so they take it clap you I don't know okay fine shout out to high-tech order of Muncie it's always small in this and it has a certain smell the coil is fine to me we always be able to support Tyron May the tire protect us from any harm the message what's going on here no no you can't sit there hello I'm gonna I'm gonna sit backwards if you sit there like I'm confused now starting to get a mature please I can't I'm I'm OCD like the red is on my left the left is on my right the first mother is fine but when I said we have this guy here real helper Neil help the famous Neil helper from Teen Nick New Jersey woman you did that seriously you're a doctor in uh Memorial yes oh wow you know that you know he is the top doctor Memorial no I mean you're part of the share you allowed to say it of course I am at any time wow so I mean I don't know if you're around but they treat my mother there it is unfortunately there's a lot of ashkenazic Jews there and the cassette that goes on there I talk about it all the time all I remember is two soccer ladies carrying huge bags of fresh pizza and knishes and then the meat and if you want milkshakes or flavors just pirate them and sell you know what I'm talking about every day unfortunately you do eat their food really wow you scored for all the classes to do the cloud Israel in the whole world it's unbelievable the front runner of so now you so you may be in touch with Avi mandelbam help him out a little bit give him some advice all right sit next to me the art month the first month of art is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewoods and I want to thank you tremendous describe to another anonymous sponsored and sent in money for the Arts we got your money in case you're wondering this muscle Shabbos in other words next year is in yerushalayim at what time eight o'clock-ish eight o'clock um and we're gonna start having a live feed there every single morning at 7 15 when we say when the cheers here in rochavia mdy Jerusalem is called satellite it's in America 50. okay cacao 59 this is here as usual 59 what no no I'm just going once I'm about to shops we're not even starting up until the following Friday when volume two starts which we're talking about volume to our voice and the dorm too I don't want to be that ready you're going to go to get him if you don't bring your friend but you will as we learned if you stand on the Wayside and watch your friend not learn Tyra you will go to no I'm not gonna say it because I'm gonna clip it out do the right thing my boy said you have your friend don't be that guy that's not it's not past this I'll let the Ravi Schoenberg do it for me Schaumburg how many people did he bring to this year I don't want to put you in the spot in front of everybody I might have to knock you out of our Americas if you didn't huh he keeps them excuses many I don't want any of those excuses you also keep people do you bring this month no so you're not getting a freaking Mario okay just real quickly what yes what yes hmm somebody come from guess what are you doing in that corner what's your name Brandy Brenna from Garrison Brenner from from welcome no he's not he's I recognize him fourth cycle of the Duff beautiful right so we have a lot to accomplish today yes he's not a guest he's only here yesterday okay real quickly I just want to show you on the screen if you can see if somebody wants the Shekinah to be on him what does he do there's four things he can do and this explains why perhaps I myself don't have the screener the this foreign we're going to learn today for the VM that we're very very wealthy does anybody know who they are and what happens if a sphere is in a big fight with a future son-in-law could that son-in-law marry his daughter so you were going to learn today uh yeah I guess yeah that's a good good point fine let's see the sugar we're talking about we're like 13 lines down from the top of lament Zion on the base the Omar like like the middle of a line the omara rav says we're talking about time the the nigging that goes together with the possible so it says like this this is talking about Ezra value Kim they read from the safer the toyer of Hashem is explained okay so targum seems like over here came from harsinai we know it as targom enclos so you have to explain that uncle's just reinstated it it was there you see that Ezra's talking about tiger I just want to point out real quickly that the last few Cycles I've been doing shine mikro I underlined in the Tiger have I see something interesting I looked in this week's Parish I didn't see something like but last week's parachute says upon me is your color so the target says I was told in an AVU there's not going to be there's not going to be a little tired there's not going to be a a claw on you but the the unclos or the Tiger ads I saw I heard this in the navua sometimes the uncle the tiger adds words and things like that okay fine I'm talking about real real in the words okay very good uh sorry the same Circle I'll put a sense mean like this I this was from yesterday's book I forgot to mention you'll notice it in this week's pirate show virajoba is later it says and emphasis on the bass not on the Isle of like three percent before so mean something completely different we also have a like Mesa Rocco what does it mean ruffle died or ruffle is going to die mace the way it is she's she's going to die so Mesa okay fine Mesa she already died she already died okay so it depends how where the emphasis is great so peaceful time um sorry that's where you stop the two dots that's in this I got a trap uh off track the two does to show you where the end of apostle is and I said yesterday that's one of the most important things to know where Apostle stops because it makes a difference in the meaning of the following puzzle the evino Batman to understand the possum How do you understand impossible it's a piece of timing these are the truck the truck the what else do they call them the time the where to put the comma the cancellation where to put the comma the the period uh the review sometimes the you know the villain always has his rushes darker severe etc etc there's a market condition that says men want to live women women don't want to live so this is a big Shiloh what do you mean women don't want to live well that's not what the gamara says you more says noshi they don't want to live you have to put a question mark So if you don't put if you don't read it correctly you read it with the wrong tune you know with the wrong emphasis so it means something completely different no that's not how you read it women don't want to live it's a question mark okay so obviously question marks periods commas all make a huge difference in the meaning of the Apostle and that's why sometimes you have to tell the valkyrie to go backwards last night yesterday right after share I told him at the end of the day you're Russia why why can't you at least throw in one mistake once a month garnish the whole year we have to sit there waiting for you to make a mistake take away that and not from us mama Mr riches he said I'll try to help us out one thing that he does that the island goes crazy and the attack and fix him is messes it up big time on purpose that's the one once a year that he does does it fine says again tomorrow is if you hold that taimim is not a day right so the cancellations are not at the right so like rebuking and all so we have to say that the word the the meaning of the positive is the difference how we have a massage on certain words that are read a certain way we might be able to understand a little bit better from this coming tomorrow maybe it's called Mick Ross sorry for him The Ether cyphron 's gonna explain every single one Victorian but like Siva and what you read and you don't write you see them like iron it's written and you don't read it here's one for instance for a carry on ishasaurus Galena if you read in the Torah this is it says it in the red it says no such word really in Hebrew but we read it it's a completely different word we read something that doesn't it doesn't say you could read the word eres it doesn't have the kudas you can read it aretz or eret so to know where to put the a circle or a comet that you have to have Allah IM okay those kind of we don't nobody just made it up this came from mean to make to beautify the language there's no reason to have the aha in there Sean what does it say here sorry was look in the past again it's charm singers right that's why it wasn't what sorry okay Kidman the singer is now it should have said first came to charm then came the the players of the instrument but it it uses the word akhar just to beautify it sometimes the word is not necessary stick it in anyways hey so the the cuff it could have said that Costco just to make it a little nicer tired like Sivan I have a joke here but I'm gonna skip it because we have a lot no no it's not that good we'll do it later if we have time if we have time at eight o'clock seven for us check this out in this party right over in shmuel base the word Prost that's highlighted in blue doesn't exist so we read it even though we just stick it in y'all have been higher the bakari has to go cross but it's not about Korea but let's say it was enough toy or whatever press ish because the word ish is missing there you stick it in huh I thought I said it okay in the parchment the WordPress is the word s is missing Elijah in the word Eli is missing Elijah hauling these chironments even these are examples of things that you read even though they're not written before is in the Navy and what do you have an example that it's actually in the pasok but we don't say it at all no the Isla here's the example it says here in the Apostle Hashem we don't read it it's it's there the word non Olive is there we read Hashem we just skip that word now they ask davi's question this is all from Navi so how could it be Allah someone want to say that yes the idea of the navi was already given to him okay iron Trump you don't read it even though it's there you don't read the word if you don't read the word the word IM you don't read online these are examples they're written but we don't right over here it's one giant long possible character test positive test it's a it's one possum but there are some since you just said that the two dots that indicate that it's a safe passive that's Allah there are some that say that this person is actually three I just showed you how it could do but I've always a third person foreign when they were looting Metairie moisturaben was busy with something else what he was busy with the bones of yourself what exactly happened when klystro was taking the loot from uh the yams of he was busy also with some I don't know what the battle what the bottom line is he didn't have money from that sadly become wealthy is made out of sapphire so take a look at this assuming that a tefach is eight centimeters then the Lucas had 55 000 296 cubic centimeters so check this out if you are a diamond dealer it's 971 000 carats that's how big the Lucas were and moisture at Beto Mandy goes wow because he has the right to say wow it's 194 kilo times 2.2 do the math it's 428 pounds of a sapphire he was supposed to carve it out so all the leftovers all the pieces you can imagine that was hundreds of millions of dollars whatever that is great so that's how became wealthy the aqua gave my a piece of sap I wake up in the morning and the sapphire is in his tent he took the sapphire carved it out you got to keep it all what do you see from here what no no you told him what to do Cinema you should carve it out say Lucas showing him like the first one yeah now all you see from here is a very very simple obviously side that if a person puts his entire bit talk on a coach bar who he doesn't have to go run after the loot I'm gonna try him he doesn't have to get there the loot will come to him or come literally to his house like I said over the story many times this was an invented story in Chicago but a guy from tiffraff came to collect money in Chicago as all the guys come but he was different he didn't go to single door he sat in these measures from morning to evening until and some of the boys went over and said who are you what are you doing here says I'm here for marriage stroll I came to collect money remember there's a pill sent me but I don't know what to do and how to do it so I'm staying in the basement address they went they came back gave him a check for you know fifty thousand dollars and sent them on his merry way that was a miser like they did a quick uh what do you call it uh what a parlor meeting and then in 10 minutes they raised ten times more than he would ever raise if he went from door to door because if you do the if you have a completely I'm not saying that that's what a person do but it was interesting story next I actually know I think it was in the Lakewood Community coil these things just like when just like we learned how to Daven from Hannah but it doesn't mean that if you say the exact words that she says you're going to get answered you have to be original he was original the second guy that comes in does the same thing they go back to tifra you know what I'm saying it says uh interesting thing the tire is only given to Maisha what does that mean the words are also yours he's very large and generously Israel on his own he gave it to Christ this good-hearted natured person he should be blessed not for my own good will first he commanded me and I decided on my own will really imagine it's again a problem Hashem told me to to teach clients oh we can sing the song here but we have to start very very low on that one yeah but low oh the as a sheep of yes [Music] [Applause] [Music] so if his wife was telling clients uh right right to Shira so you have to write it all down it's not much a favor huh Israel this Shiro you have to teach Claudia Israel I I don't know I don't know if I ever knew the words so now I have it on the screen great no whatever the sheer is but not the whole Torah the man Israel so if toyra hears the question if what the Shira is a testimony that clay Israel broke what they were supposed to keep but if they're only getting the Shira what were they supposed to keep obviously they were supposed to keep the rest of the toy roll the mitzvahs hello says the people so there's a very very Crush of a rush here I think it's important to see it inside so the rush says what's the next word next removes him says an unbelievable Insight then all your common sense of the world everything is hinted within the words of the Torah many many examples from all different Islands from all different Generations The Village said you could see every myth from the first word boracious and they asked them what do you see uh Ben and he showed the opinion fight but the point is and the martial explains that of course Clyde Israel had mitzvahs that wasn't the havamine of the gemara Israel had all the Mitzvahs and that's why we had McIntyre but the question was what about the learning part the Mitzvah to learn the Torah maybe that was only given to myself no even learning was giving to all client Israel the pilpo whatever that means a certain level of understanding the depth of of Tyra that was given to Maisha Rabino alone and he decided to share it with Claire Israel Omar listen to this doesn't restrina on a person has to be strong the Usher and very wealthy and very smart very wise and very humble and I know that a lot of you are thinking to yourselves wow I'm three for four if I only had ashiro's I would have that unbelievable I thought what you guys are thinking about it it's unbelievable you'll have to dress that or enjoy the other I want to know if you're on over it's so strong could it compensate for yashirus no it's a good child oh so my Caruso asked me right when we learned this he says wait a minute because you know because he's holding in all of these myself because he's doing all these khazars he says in Shabbos it says that the fourth thing is not another it's height you have to be taught so it says on the side and then we found themselves the shots he says it's a Mitzvah to to explain all these things in order to be a leader you have to be strong you have to be wealthy you don't want to be influenced by other people with with people giving you bribes you see shows but he was he was taller than everybody hi people I mean was very short but okay you see that answers your question wow wow okay he's talking about Nevis yeah but not every Navi had ID [Music] we see this idea from my shopping take a look at this picture this is the mishkan and he put that bad on top he did it himself and I was very tall it was 20 feet tall 10 hours approximately 20 feet so much for being had to be that tall so the Martin understands if you see like a serious football player I don't know a tall NBA player you understand he's pretty strong don't start off with him nobody starts off with a big giant guy the stomach is very strong because he's very tall maybe he's very tall he's like new ball I don't know like a tall lotion but you go like this and he blows over Darwin McCarthy maybe it's very sweet element then crop we can learn from somewhere else now we just said how how much did those Lucas weigh 400 a night if you do the simple math almost 500 pounds a he was able to lift a thousand pounds and just toss it is six by six by three and therefore we know they were very heavy Usher whatever the material was whether it's Diamond Sapphire whatever the the thing was was very happy Usher how do you know that it was well wealthy The Leftovers there's 50 levels of understanding of wisdom he had 49 out of the 50. Kim the understanding is that I could he didn't understand completely that's one thing that he was missing but our company is he had 49. see it had a lot of on of the same voice just I thought when I looked up the pasok I noticed that in this process we also have a cream sieve it says fine but was the greatest honor um so these are the four the theme that we know that were very wealthy I never borrowed I never rented a donkey from anybody Agra if he just he didn't take huh oh well that's another question at the end of the day mushroom before he got all that money okay before the Lucas well if he didn't pay for it La Boogeyman what we're telling him he's saying that moisture Ben wasn't a gun of so obviously we're talking about that he paid even paying even renting he never had a rent why because he had his own he says tomorrow oh maybe not maybe the woman he was so poor he couldn't even afford rent okay like we said before he had the leftover of the diamonds of the sapphire Sultan yeah I didn't take anybody's Acts foreign understood the bottom line is if somebody doesn't need to come out to anybody else he's self-sufficient never has to come out to anybody that's wealth but he was wealthy omariver in this area was greater than myself I just realized I think in another place also said schmores greater than motion something not in this something else maybe this is okay he didn't even rent he didn't take a a donkey I think even if the person came over and said please please do me a favor Navi please take it for me no you wouldn't do it yourself the business I have a lot of cattle um here's shikman this is the Sycamore because we had a lot of he was a boyless boilers is a lotion of boilers so it's interesting the rant explains I've never seen this he had a speech impediment and instead of saying boylesh which is detective used to check the sycamores he said it by less like uh like a litvac that's out of shop he's the talk he said sin a lot of Sin from litter there so he said sin so he said well and the navi imitates him it's interesting I've never like so what if he had a speech about say the word he's trying to say no we'll bite less because that's how he said it that's how we're going to write it I'll go about him you see that that uh he was wealthy he had all this cattle he had he had a ranch he had a lot of trees the I have cattle I know but I have a lot of sigmores in in the Valley Fine yo you know how do you know when you want to catch the ship the cruise ship he gets on there it holds five thousand people there's only three and a half people on there he says we gotta go he said well we're waiting for all the people to come he says how much is it three and a half million dollars let's go here's three and a half million dollars we go so you see it's very wealthy private Charter plane 747 took the whole thing for one trip fine as sorry you pay for the whole thing um they have a 4 000 golden coins we can understand that's a lot of money he tried to figure out the remember the entire Tire everything but he forgot it until it was given to him as a gift it try to remember the tire it's impossible to remember the tire in 40 days it's so vast it's so large why did you try the answer is obvious the only way you could achieve that gift is by showing Hashem that you're trying 100 you put your whole thing into it you say I am going to learn it I'm going to learn about pet I can't I'm doing it ah once you do it then you get a gift from Hashem says the halogen Mission the official mission sponsors a person is from his friend he says that guy cannot benefit from me Reuben can't benefit from me yet even though Reuben can't benefit from him has the right to give paranosa to the wife give her food vespanov a yeah I didn't say it is I did okay I'll say it twice now I don't have to say the second time even though the husband must support at least his wife and sometimes even the daughter if it comes from a divorce or she's under six years old he's Skype to support So Reuben is saving every day ten dollars for not having to support his own wife and child comes the neighbor and supports him I rule is not a benefit from shiman over he's allowed to why the Rand holds my legs were shot him it goes like Hanan or like but always that everybody agrees over here because he has Havana to do a Mitzvah and it just happens as a side effect that the he's giving a gift to the wife and the wife instead of suing her husband she doesn't do that but it's it's a grandma more but you're not allowed to feed that guy's animal since that guy can't benefit from you but you feeling the the animal is a direct benefit whether it's a donkey or it's a cow foreign that you get to eat a fat animal so here you see the difference you have a fat cow if I fatten the cow says the ram we're not talking about the initial food the basic food we're talking about the added food the dessert the second portion that the animal doesn't need to survive and sustain itself the second part the second food is to do what to fatten the cow oh defend the cow is a problem because who has direct benefit from from a fat cow the owner now you can tell for more money per pound but the fan the guy's dog obey him a tomato doesn't do anything for the guy either rabbit it ruins it now his dog is lazy his Ox is not going to be able to play out of the field so that you shouldn't do you shouldn't be me fat like a dog and he'll behave with me oh my Lord huh oh oh that's a baby yeah you could sell it to McDonald's for burgers the dog could eat his friend's dog meat I guess they're not so much but once the dog is dead he doesn't care where it came from so this benefit here's a beautiful brand new uh drawing from Yoshi foreign character for the rest of shots that's what you see he's about to break a glass he's holding a ring he has a white you know cousin cousin has a white ties he has a white tie that has a little bit of mdy in it and here's the sphere on the right side now check this out this took me four hours to figure out I'm not joking at least four hours back and forth fourth and back we already used this and we had it a different way and people complained I think this is just very simple less words very simple the sphere in this case can't give anything any benefit or anything to the Hassan he's moderna like rubikiva where his mother are not from his daughter the arrow goes this way yeah okay so that's Cowboys from the daughter is saying you see he's saying something it goes this way I cannot benefit you I can't give you that is going this way so the Hassan cannot benefit from his future father-in-law why and how it doesn't really matter right now he said it this way he said that the point is no no going from the fat guy to the skinny guy great Hare Harvey ball rabbis Arab am I asking what are we talking about if it's talking about this case right over here that the ther answer the stuff on the Hassan that it can't go to the direction of the Hassan this is a very very harsh lotion very harsh I want to explain it though for all the women and wives that are listening in the background or in the front grill I don't know whatever it is the the point is the gamar is saying that a person has to appreciate his wife a wife not only his wife with good morning super the Demar calls a person's sister or shifter in other words when a wife does other stuff like laundry cleaning cooking she brings something to the table that the husband doesn't have without her a person has to think to himself what would I be without my wife who do my laundry who would clean who'd cook would take care of the kids did that so the mark calls it it's a it's a strong lotion in other words the father is giving huge benefit to the Hassan now the Hassan also gives you the benefit back but that's called something else seriously tomorrow but at the end of the day how could the Hassan in this case you see the chart the Hassan is not allowed to receive anything from the father-in-law he just received he just received something it's going to cook for him and do his dishes oh it goes from says you cannot he can't give anything to despair he's not allowed to give any Uno to despair and in this cake what uh thank you thanks thanks for the help is that this guy what is he doing this guy is taking care of the schwer's daughter from now on the show doesn't have to pay ten dollars a day in child support in food the Hassan is even though he's not allowed to give anything to the he's taking his daughter into his possession and he's giving your food he just saved the big guy ten dollars a day it's awesome he's not gonna give anything to swear he says again what are you talking about the mission says I'm allowed to go into the shreds house while the schwer has a daughter in the living room I'm gonna give her money even if I don't marry him I want to go into a guy's house and anybody's house if I move that I don't know from you I can go into your house and give food to your kids your kids and you are not so certainly I'm gonna take that kid out of your house and feed that kid if in your house I'm allowed to go in so certainly out of the house says you have to go back to this case the simple the ther cannot give to the Hassan that we're talking about an older girl who gets married on her own she doesn't need her father at all she's not giving her head and no it's not like oh I'm giving you someone that's going to do your dishes it's not yours to give she's 25 years old she has her own dance so then what's the problem so what's the Kiddush he didn't give her anything so then what what's going on here but at the end of the day so they'll shut him say that the Hassan asked the father of to convince her is allowed to ask a guy that he's not allowed to benefit from anything convince your daughter to marry me fine let's just finish this there's a story here but let's let's try to get to the mission because most of jobs I want to start from a mission oh come on why do you have to do that I try to skip huh okay fine I'm your office yeah yeah we want to finish if somebody is it cannot benefit from his friend also last he's not gonna marry off his daughter you're not allowed to give him a young girl brother's yes here we have a picture oh there it goes like this the child the father says that the child is not going to give him any I know I want that child to grow up to be a good ladar you are not going to mow my lawn you're not gonna do sponge in my house and I can do anything for me why because I want you to concentrate on learning Torah so in this case the child again it doesn't matter that the father said it taking out all the confusion there the child can't give benefit to the father but the child is still nevertheless small things like filling up a cup of water that wasn't part of his nether kid is allowed to do that music on his ladder give him a small fish nothing or maybe remember questions we learned that the oval drinks 10 cups of wine he's not giving one it's not his own he gives him from over there so he's not giving you much remember when somebody comes out of the Mikvah or the the bath house supposed to drink some water so he gives him water not his own water from the mix of water he gives him some a couple of dirty water is allowed to support the person's slaves have been tired but he shouldn't support the animals my timer there's a lotion of I don't want to show myself but basically you cut from the chin down it's a way to show that this animal is trade for not eating it you can't benefit from a slave you're not going to eat his meat you're not a cannibal so he's worthless his meat is worthless behema clippy to my Avida but uh you can't feed your friend's animal because you're benefiting him have a wonderful day a good and Chavez crap