Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 30 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Mordechai I live in Boca Raton Florida I started with eight minutes half and eventually moved to the whole thing this past Friday I fell broke my hip lay flat on my back's in surgery when I had a hip replacement thank you so much for the kids you gave me while in the hospital it says in the bottom no need to read this aloud I just want you to know how much I appreciate all you do but I'm reading it thank you so much my stay was atrocious didn't have the right pain medicine but the bottom line is I had enough yomi to enjoy Mark Shear manuscript here's a Wolves play from the Jewish day kindergarten and Manchester showing different logos and prints that the children see around them and recognize and there you are from a grateful mdy talmud of rum lemon what else so oh so I want to tell you those fouls um yesterday two people stepped up to the plate very very nicely for our new artist um right after this year Leon welcher called me up he said first of all he wants to print a thousand books of the first receptor that Yoshi completes it'll be like a merge thing I don't know if he I'm gonna give it for cost or whatever but okay and also he wants to sponsor the very first day then I got a message from Mr Anonymous from Lakewood he said he wants to sponsor the very first month of Yoshi so he sponsored five thousand dollars my wife overheard the conversation so she tells me you know it just means that he is not going to give you money for other stuff that's what she said because I said because Barbara decides where it goes and how it comes and two minutes later he calls back and he says oh by the way I want to give another ten thousand dollars for the coil and 250 per average for Hanukkah so I looked at her and said no nice to show you what now I won't he's one of he's one of the big sponsors of the coil and whatever so after Mr Anonymous and it's all his nieces the kylo is sponsored may we always be able to support Torah and may deterior protect us from any harm the myself sponsored ains Jeff rosnerisms in memory of my dear departed loved ones included in my recent yantevis scars Joseph [Music] David that sponsors no you don't know okay mazel tov you please new great grandparents wow oh my goodness so the new grandparents claiming guy elbrid from Houston Guile's a grandmother wow unbelievable guile is my money [Laughter] [Music] unbelievable guile the grandmother is my sister-in-law sister so I know her since she's a little kid and she's a grandmother unbelievable and new parents Malcolm Solomon of Ramada skull it's a girl dick all right boys side here we go today is the very first day of Yoshi's art but I have to say he's not in full form because we he was up all night the night before so I gave him the day off but the little lady did let me show you no you did a lot a lot but I it's a it's a theory for the two of us fine we'll see what's going on and we only have 25 charts today you also wrap oven we're holding three lines from the bottom of Jose's meal so revolving reviews were in front of a beer meal because we have many times in shots where namaira was falling asleep a lot of a lot of times it's RAV so like in between sleep and not sleep able to hear but not really respond so well and then wakes up you asked me with Cameron they said the bipolar map done so let's go through the charts that I forgot to show you yesterday and uh I don't know where my head was yesterday but okay aquaponio goes like this in the mission it says hurray this is not from yesterday's from today the next one is Miss Hare nathi carbon so guy makes a nether my fruit should be called it should be like a carbon to do so until I take them off the tree what does the mission to say last words in the mission though you can look on that based on the topic what does it mean there's three options can mean you can never redeem it once a guy says you can't uh the fruit is Cottage until I take it off the tree you can't it says the mission you can't redeem it well that's not the child says because why can't you redeem you can redeem everything so that's plan number one we throw that away so it's either the green you don't need a pigeon at all or means that you can't be paid it before you take it off the tree in other words if you redeem it before they get off the tree it flips right back into gdusha the second later then you redeem it again it flips back into gedusha again you flip it you keep on redeeming it you can't get it out of its state of Medusa because he said so until you take it off the tree so it's a nothing you do and then we even brought the rash blood that even if you sell your house uh unconditional moving towards this road it's going to go back to the guy keeps me going back to the to okay so that's rafado is the blue he says you can't be paid though before you you could be probably it works for a millisecond the fraction a second it becomes College based on that so this is just a cartoon I didn't show yesterday that's from the cartoonist not our guy he says he's all mixed up what does he say ready die or D ice but yeah but I wasn't sure okay anyway so this is Yoshi's uh first piece of arts for today so he has what he's what he did here he tried to do um how do you depict fruit that's Kardashian so the cottage the Yeshiva guys one of the brisker one is you guys are gone the guys he's smoking never he's blowing gum okay that's the the kochim and the way so we have like this in Step One in Step One no seriously like I I enjoyed choosing with him because just the cops the you know I don't know how to depict the stuff I had until now we had how do you say something in Scottish I write kaddish he wrote catch him whatever but so so step one start it starts from the right goes to the left here you have underneath common amnam yeah the review is is falling asleep and he hears this discussion you have fruit that's kadosh then the guy redeemed that that I did because the middle of the night it was already asleep so I just took something I took his hand that he did somewhere else and I put it on their push kit you probably did you put money in the basement what happens it becomes cool in step three you can take fruit that are called and they become Hulen and then what and then it flips right into step four it becomes Cottage again even though you redeemed it okay based on this if this is how it works that you have something that's kuddish you redeem it for a millisecond becomes coolant in step three and immediately goes back to become kadish says the gemara this is what's gonna happen if a woman receives two conditions two coins you can see in the picture two coins so she's married once the guy gives her a get in step two that's like Redeeming the fruit take them out of the dusha she becomes available to the world and then step four as she becomes Kurdish again she becomes again based on the original act that the guy did if a guy makes an original act with fruit on top and step one he says you're kaddish until further notice until I take you off the tree so no matter what you redeem you get whatever you do it jumps right back to the step one so here also I I take act I say listen your Kardashians twice so she becomes she leaves him and then she comes back then based on the original kessefkidution that he gave her in the first step that's what review that's what they want to say we're coming nominee review show you made it cooling they jump back and become I could prove from here we wish I had a question I know it's a person gives two times the amount necessary two Brutus and he says with one of these coins I want you to become dishes today so she becomes today in picture number one just explain to you what happened here he made those he calls them assets he made those fruit and I and he made also the pictures of the kadushan in the get and I had to put it together because he just ran out of time so this this I did in the morning you know with the arrows and you could see my work it's not his stuff okay just uh so so they they uh they talk about those label and forget that for now the you could ask on a lot of different things there's uh what about fruit the round talks about it in fruit uh it's this it's it's coming it's a it's okay fine what do you mean you're allowed to make you douching are you asking about condition you can make a condition from here and then in a month from now yeah yeah he gave her the money today whoa he gave her money today and it's called tomorrow why not let's say there's no Garrison it works in a month from now what do I care that has something happened in between so that goofer we're going through something else now what you're discussing is that and that's why it's similar to our story that there's a situation in between day one where you gave it the money and day 30 where he married her for the second time the situation where that money couldn't do anything to her because she was already married to him so the money you couldn't do anything with it you ask him if they weren't married I could give money in day one and get married and day 30 that everybody agrees that's nice and condition so what's your problem you're probably asking because in this middle between day one and day 30 they were married and the money couldn't go anywhere you couldn't be my Cottage again you can't even catch a woman a second time the same thing with the fruit it's Kadesh so you can't make it a college again and then only after you take it out of the whole and it comes again okay that's what they discuss fine why would a person do this why would he be my kind of sure so one of two reasons do you shine them say or say that maybe he wanted to be Makai in the Mitzvah of massager or he told her said listen you're certainly not worth it as a first wife but maybe for civics you're worth it okay that went over very well huh fight I'll go bottom is jumps up so whoa whoa I think I just heard something you know I say this many times I used to own a sleep lab and maybe one thing that I learned from the sleep lab is that people here 100 everything that's going on in their sleep just the brain chooses not to wake up that's not important that's not important that's not important then you hear your name you wake up you hear your alarm you wake up but all the other noise the snoring and the this and the kids screaming that you don't hear especially if you're the guy you don't hear your babies crying nothing nothing disturbing why your ears are open they don't close it's not like eyes they're open they hear everything fine he's in between Consciousness and not conscious but he hears the conversation he's just not actively involved now he wakes up oh my God what's the what's the tsushta what's the Demian what's the comparison you're you're telling me a case of the fruit on top is where he did everything he's the only one involved he's the one uh Redeeming the fruits from coaching and it goes right back but don't by when it comes to a woman in a get she it's as if somebody else is involved there foreign so then your initial act keeps on going all the way through so even though you made a little bit of a half stick in between you took it out of coaching it goes back to coach him you're the only you're the only one in valve so whatever you did in the beginning last to the end without once he involved with another human being here whatever act you took in the beginning gets erased gets stopped by somebody else getting involved in the situation visha foreign when a woman gets divorced somebody else gets involved there how does somebody else get involved there so over here you have a run that's a a bomb you have to remember this round for the rest of your life it's like 10 lines down from where it gets wide and he says let me read inside Elementary when a woman agrees to marry a man tell us she she gives in she says okay I'm asking um and she makes herself to the husband she makes her body into Healthcare and then the husband comes and Scoops her up from Hefner that's how the round learns that's why it makes sense he could be my password a woman's not worth the proof the woman is worth millions but when she makes herself after when she says Okay I want to be my Kurdish to you she does she's not involved in the in the in the Kenyan she just makes herself Health Care I don't know if this is going to hurt women that are listening not listening I don't know but that's how he says it works in terms of the the mechanics behind it so Malo he says the the woman is involved there when she gets a get all of a sudden becomes another human being there's nothing more interaction here with another person that second person stops everything beforehand so now the two protists that he gave her in Step One that's it they're done because somebody else jumped into the picture who's that somebody else to yourself it's not just him alaika what's your name from where are you foreign by the way all questions that you don't know but all questions are predetermined and we speak about them beforehand yeah yeah what is someone else I hear but you still need a second person because right but I hear what you're saying but what she had asked back then she became already Connie to somebody then she acquired herself back what does it get to it acquires herself back so now then she just became a new it's a new thing what she said three days ago she's going to do I don't think makes enough Community today no she doesn't accept the guilt now she accepted the Guild in step one right now she accepted herself she just received herself back from Africa until now she's like have somebody else's coiner the get gives her back her freedom and then she now she can marry anybody she wants so now now this now she's gonna say okay now I'm gonna go back to step one let me take that money from step one but now she's a new person it's not just him doing the Kenyan she's a person receiving that money that she got in Step One you have what I'm saying woman when is the kingdom how at the second time she gets married when she gets married the second time she has to again be Matthew herself in order for that money she can't be masking herself Once In step one for two times each time she has to be mad at herself sister in the case with the exception for a 30-day condition the mice when she accepts it but you now have an opportunity that's that's exactly them so you had yesterday could you have that's exactly the Shiloh but over here regardless even if you say she could have her out there at the end of the day since she received the get she has to have she can't use her heifer that she did in the beginning because we just undid the health care so you can hold her to it you know what I'm saying it's like there's another human being involved there okay Yeshiva you're right we'll be down here for hours and days maybe weeks how it works exactly is it the Hefner she did in the beginning is the healthcare a new health care do you have to make it okay fine but you scored for coming we we left them to go home like yourself evaldik bring more yeah are you really did you bring him in or is he stopped checking it out we're trying we're trying I'm gonna show that guy I'm gonna ask him if I'm gonna slug him up here yeah this is good okay good 204. 217 f21217. I'm not gonna remember that okay oh yeah yeah ah the jacket the whole thing oh what number oh my God empty white division my boys uh mdy division foreign I need a number though what number one oh [Laughter] Ms Maggie cheer one got it thank you all right about me I need I need a new house to put all the merch like it's not even a yeah I didn't build a new floor I'm redoing it yeah okay is my name is okay we see the same inside here you have Rebellion I'm talking about Rebecca that everything is good if he himself is available once you involve another human being the mice he does in the beginning doesn't work anymore says the mishnah the mishna is a official missions oh fine did I just did I skip something yeah I did what did I say no I just made a picture over here of I put two hands one is somebody else's hand and one is his hand okay fine just to show that I've committed between somebody else doing the video and that's the step where somebody else gets involved it ruins everything is so in the beginning I had something else I got a surfboard here I thought I am a guy that goes deep into the ocean he goes deep down that's not literal little you're there I mean somebody that travels on the sea so this is also his his idea he didn't do this chart but his idea was I was like how do you show somebody making another and the problem with the nether for for drawing it is that it's counterintuitive because over here you have no I'm making another he's saying I won't benefit from anybody that that works in a submarine that goes on the ocean anybody that does that stuff I have nothing to do with it is that a is that a check or or x what is that the nether works so male it's no good he can't benefit from them so you can go both ways you could do a green check or a red X I'm going throughout himself I'm doing a green check in other words it works what happens when it works you can't benefit from it fine but it works what it doesn't work for is people that live on on land and don't go on the ocean so X his nether does not work at all he's he's motor to have enough from from anybody that lives on on land people that travel and go on a ship that's another what if his nether was this his nether was I'm not going to benefit from anybody who lives in the land oh sir I am so then the nether is also for anybody that's in a boat why because everybody that's on a boat eventually is going to get to land they live on land most of their lives just once in a while they go on a boat foreign now there are those who go on the shore oh very distroll from AKO diapho so it's not it's not a very long trip and it's not a dangerous trip it's not really considered let me ask you something if you go on Calamity with your family and go into canary on a speedboat are you you're the I am do you have to say goaimo what if you go on the Staten Island Ferry do you have to say agaimo you go from here to Staten Island Ferry and if you drown if the ship goes down you're probably gonna die now how can you survive going down the middle of uh that water it's a serious water what have you got a cruise ship Avi I'm talking to you what do you mean what I'm going to kick you out of here in a second okay talk to Mordecai but no seriously if you're going to cruise ship you have to say I going well did you say go he came back you say grandma why not I don't know because stand up foreign when was the last time a cruise ship went down it went down once so they had a situation where but it doesn't matter some people say it doesn't matter everybody that flies says this but those who don't say Grandma flying because it's the safest mode of transportation they won't send a cruise ship fine I guess briskers won't say on a cruise ship they will never be on a cruise ship but if they go on a cruise ship fine exactly not a joke every how many women do you know that come to Arizona get in the rental car and start driving is it takes like six years to start driving here in Israel so it is probably a little bit more dangerous to to drive from here to benebra than to get on a cruise ship no says the says you're talking about people that that are going out to the to the ocean okay but the point is if it's not a Sakana if it's on the shore you went out there you could drown the positive people I know people that drowned on the shore it happens unfortunately all the time in the canary in in the in the in the ocean at the beach but it's not considered a voyage out to the Sea MMA law that's not what he meant in his nether rapopha this thing is not a trip it is a trip what are they talking about so let's let's look again this is the ratio I put there it says ratio his nether was against people to go to the ocean it does not include people on the land the safe is he made another against people that live on land it also includes people that are on a boat so man the master so if you say the ratio it's a cooler why is this a cooler about his eye because his nether does not include something it doesn't include people that live on land so it's a lesser nether it's a cooler saying he made a nether that everybody that's on the ocean I'm not going to benefit from but it doesn't include 99 of the world that's a massive cooler and then it says sir but those who go who travel by sea is awesome the like and here's the Kulu Hawaii the guy that little Surfer guy he's on the shore he's not a yard that I am he's not included in my nether so the Kula is that it doesn't include people that are just traveling on speed boats and surfing and and larger boats that are maybe take a day they say even to get from I don't know how long it took to get from Academia let's say it took a whole day that's a short in terms of the time in the gamara when people go out for six months on on the sea and having them come back to go next to the shore from out of the office nothing that's not what he meant kind of Golden Years okay hello with me you should talk in the fires it's only talking about people the man they go on just Rhythm that's not safe for for those who say what [Music] okay Maggie Morris is the forest but okay let's see them that's how they wrote it foreign there's no above there so you have to put a hilum I hear I like it we'll go a little French you're right as large will say it Arsenal just well this is the same size what do you say before race Cyrus but they noticed they're they're seriously okay okay fine um as long as I didn't read it wrong the guy wrote it fight Monday here's the safer that he says another against somebody that lives I'm not gonna have any benefit from anybody who lives on the ground foreign so he says I'm not gonna have anything to do with people that live on the land that all that also means you're the I am because everybody that goes on a cruise ship on a ship on any ship on a submarine they all live on the ground once in a while and also and including them so it also includes Surfers and everything so now there's a massive homero everybody in the world 100 of the population is included and is another serious formula Ella filo the mean of the forest uh okay because at the end of the day even the surfer is going to come out of the water and he lives on land says the mishnah is that I feel bad for this guy maybe I'll give him a little discount because every five minutes is another hundred bucks he wants his name to be said is he the one that's sponsored today also did he had a simpler foreign against people that see the sun also I presume him that includes even blind people who can't see the sun Charlene is Gavin's there because what's his kavana when it comes to nadarim what's this people that the Sun sees them not they see the sun by the way in shasidin so right next to me was Rebecca vadas and he asked the question he said we're in chass does it say the word saginar which is also a lotion of a blind person and I didn't know that very good you could be in chassis then but where is it only twice in shots does it says and he explained because the russetious knew it better than everybody else he saw it that's it what oh I'm shouting wow you just took up the whole level this year oh my God we came over here when I when I a very interesting what a very interesting thing happened to me yesterday and I remembered I tied in the story here there was a miser where okay yeah it's fine we have we could do what you want me to stop the middle of La Manana from whatever stop amen fine we start a little late the amazing where somebody built a building built out and happened to destroy a lot unfortunately people build without permission without the the proper paperwork and he blocked the sunlight in this guy's house and the guy was going the guy was going back and forth foreign and then what turned out was that somebody offered him a nice amount of money in his apartment more than he wanted or the asking price because they specifically couldn't handle sunlight it was not they were allergic to the sunlight you just yesterday I was walking home from here to my house and a lady was screaming on top of her lungs you saw this at the at the the owner of a certain moisture that's next door to us because there's weddings and by Mr two o'clock in the morning she said your Russia my my kids can't sleep and I asked you 100 times and I haven't slept and anything and she was screaming screaming so I walked over there I I said represent she said you don't call me rabbit okay fine that was I said listen you know I hear you 100 I get you she goes you don't understand me if you understood me you would make him a house I said I promise you understand you I understand you meanwhile the guy Slipped Away with his wife and they ran away and we ended up schmoozing over there but so she said I said you need to sell your place because he they're never going to stop doing weddings today it's nice income for them she says who's gonna buy it who's gonna buy it if if there's so much noise I can't sell to anybody I can't even put somebody in that position I said sell to to deaf person this is black opponent I remember this thing now Suma there's some there's some people I'm serious there's some people and some people No I gave her I said sound machine ear plugs she goes I put on the air conditioner in the in the winter and I close the windows and I still have noise I mean I might still have her fight Donnie do you have anything are you deaf I got a pla perfect place for you it's like but we can't say it's like the sun because oh there's so much noise they liked it because it's so much noise because oh they finally start hearing there's so much noise even a deaf person can hear okay fine my timer what shot he said he didn't say minor Royal he didn't say people that could see it's the Sun that sees you so what was he trying to exclude he's only trying to exclude fish that are covered places explained they're covered by water they might see the Sun but at the or the sun could see them but the sun doesn't really see them because there's a half stick there's water him and and um fetuses thank you what do we have Obama this week's parisha yeah two says so he says somebody that has dark hair what does he mean also be careful and old people even people that have white hair yeah so I don't know if this is true I heard once that somebody that's bald in the front means that he's a thinker he thinks sometimes bald in the back means that he's a big so something that's bought both front and back he thinks that he's a haha yeah the bald man liked it because when he says black-haired people he's talking about men he's not talking about the color of the hair he's talking about a specific type of person um so I just did this as a thing if a guy says makes him much more clear guy says I am I have nothing to do with people that have black hair all the people that are men whether they have white or they're bald or they have here or they're blonde all these things are included in this neither he can't have benefit from them what's not included in his nether are children women girls little kids all those are not included in foreign you could go out but he doesn't say always once in a while you walk out without yamaka now we know that now we're in yamka is the word it's worse than uh there's nothing worse like when a guy goes off to there what's the first thing he say yeah you stop wearing Yamaha you don't say oh you stop wearing tilt no he stopped wearing Phillips no not a big deal oh he stopped working yeah I'm a girl so what's up so the Tas the task says the nowadays it's a massive humra it's a massive Issa he says big is Sir but what's shocked you've seen the gemara that people used to walk around without Yama because you see it's like his mother decided to be mahim and put a yamaka on him when he was a kid and the one day he didn't put it on but you see that they weren't really wearing yamakas all the time so he says you don't have to wear all the time then I realized the Sam Cipher says beautiful he explains it very nicely unfortunately it's a story maybe I shouldn't say barabba so don't put it on but when I was 19 years old I went to Rome and when you go to Rome what is it to do wrong is boring over there you see the the chartitas whatever so I wanted to go into the Sistine Chapel I didn't realize that it's a problem I said yeah it's not a it's not an active church it's they don't they don't pray there it used to be a church so I go in there me and one other guy from kind of balloon we walk in there and he goes uh um there's a guy a guard he points to the side said no yamaka No Cap nothing I'm already here I got to see the system Chapel so it took off my yard I said it's officers I'm not going to fight with him so I went without a young scissors I'm sorry for that's the problem so I just again it goes back to the Brooks it goes back to the strimel it goes back to all those things that what do we make the icky that became like my mistake or when it turns out there's maybe not the biggest today it is also awesome but and then by the way in a show because of that it's much more harmer to the point what if you dab into an answer without a yamagonist or not it's only a task that says it's awesome you don't have to wear yamako huh remember okay fine going back to I know a guy I know a guy that's a very not good guy very not good guys not really from but if you don't wear a hat and show he will buy you a hat you have to wear a hat became Akram like what is okay Mark foreign there are men who sometimes don't cover their head and that's okay a woman always covers the river if she's married you hear this so they say today it means under three years old they don't have to okay says now if I were to ask you real quickly yeah there's a it's not a heart so you're very easy what is it yellowed what is what does mean he was born already not born already just tell me Nyla means born already so I'm telling you it's counter-intuitive night light in this mishna means here we go Nyla means that he wasn't born yet he's still in the egg he's still there he always means he came out into the world just remember that now so look at this if a person makes a Ned there on anybody that was born already so that doesn't include kids that weren't born yet it doesn't include but if you make a nether on people that weren't born obviously that includes even people that were born that's what the mission says here now just the going says on the side he says they bring he he he I neither men how you loot them he puts in the ooh so now it makes a little bit more sense for me at least means they were already born because you lied them and my mind means in the future okay it's just another gear or something sponsored by remote below them so her mayor says even and he says it's not a nether what does Eva mean even you like them but including they love them I know it gets confusing it's not it's like that's why the chart helps out over here the mayor says Ah what does AF mean even in other both cases are mutter mutter means no Nether foreign now according to your mayor element man also yeah let's show this chart for a second if it means you lied them and even you like them it means everything so then what that is nether accomplished he said [Music] but but then that doesn't work nothing allow them nothing you love them so then what happened there says very very interesting here if a guy says I don't have anything to do with you like them then you're permitted in other words the nether doesn't work on the kids that weren't born yet so what do you see that's the Assad who he's trying to say when I say you like them I mean you light them I mean nothing else don't give me another category I said I'm not from kids that are born that doesn't include kids that are not born so my middle of the reverse is also true when I say I'm not from kids that are not born then it's only kids that are not born can kids that are born are not included he goes both ways that's exactly what he's trying to say here um user be like them that's the that's the kind of karma remember I love them because he said specifically only kids that Warren board not to be lied to me doesn't include like the tanakama another category well okay so the murder says let's just finish this off real quickly what is the word according to what you're telling me is that a lot of means they are going to be born they they weren't born yet right talk about Ephraim in Menasha they should be like Reuben and trimming I'm getting in other words I'm giving them two where five minutes are born and not born of course they were born but it says means they're going to be born so it doesn't mean that they weren't born yet so what are you telling me that the word nodu means they were born already in 350 years from now you're gonna have a son that was born that's going to be born what he was born already it's in 350 years from now but I'm in naturally but his own grandfather wasn't even alive how could he be alive so the word no that doesn't mean that he's born yet it means that he's going to be born he can go both ways um then we go by what people say but revisa real quickly the word you lied then let's do one line what is the word delighted mean you go both ways what about you like them that Iran says according to everybody means they're already born let's just do one more line that Pookie dog in life is maybe you should go back to tomorrow we'll go back to tomorrow because it needs a tiny little bit of Asbury where boysai have a wonderful day [Music]