Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 3 by R’ Eli Stefansky

go good morning boys it's so good to be back sometimes you have to leave for a little bit to appreciate what you have it's just it's amazing to give from a business not a dark dark tent I want to tell you I'm extremely emotional actually because the proof is in the pudding we just got off you could you could look it up it's the open Airline flight 404 check it out we landed at four o'clock AM it's now seven o'clock so I'm a marketeer I have to be here but the four guys that were with me the four of them and this is not coordinated we did not speak about this all four of them are here right now and I I looked around during chakras it's amazing it's it's something that in my opinion you only find the nephew I mean I love lumbus I learned my whole life love this but I have to tell you the truth if I had a harusa for londis if I had a regular harusa not on a program that has this consistency I don't think I would be here this morning I don't think any of the clever would be here this morning so for for people for guys I know I was with them the island slept one and a half hours in the last 24 hours we're on three hour flights you can't really sleep and though the stewardess wakes you up to ask if you want lunch dinner the one a baby most of us had babies before us behind us knocking the trays the whole thing one and a half hours and not a good sleep in one half hours so to be here at this time is a pellet plime and it just shows the power that I feel me and how much it brings and it was really it was a beautiful terrific trip I have to say we dive we made sure that we dive investigen before we went out most people they go out because it's better to see the animals during that time but no we went later so we could dive in first there was the retire it was it was a tire that could trip it was all about the daf it was unbelievable so it's great to be back thanks for the gift thank you for everybody there's other people that were mistative so thank you very much whoever isn't I really appreciate it I just want to show you a couple of pictures we do this if you're new to the share we read some emails and show some pictures here's a c on my mdyc I'm in Central Jersey they say iron Hearst says there's at least 70 people there not shown in the picture Reveille this is Hank Hebrew Academy Nassau County High School sophomore Ali Schwartz he agreed to try the daffod Mike cotton lo and behold he hasn't missed the Daft since then and it was just Messiah subas this is an incred absolutely incredible talk about Yehuda Hulk hour it's unbelievable many many seconds was not a simple maseko it was a long message this is uh 150 people they said we're at the New York seam see all types of you then modern Orthodox Etc deeravelli it is with joy and gratitude that I finished with subas with you and mdy family more of it is assume marks my first completion of all of Shas and coincides with my mother's 47th yard so I look forward to continuing to be part of Indy wine someday have an opportunity to meet you and others in RBS Bryn Moore Pennsylvania Mazel Tov mazel tov this one I'm reading because there's a little bit of a vote here for patience myvard it was a Suffolk I just set it on the Jeep in the middle of the Safari wearing an inappropriate begged another volume but some people might leave the sheer when they see what I was wearing so but we did it anyways tires Tire special meeting you had him then I was just wearing a non-white shirt neither of them no vibe neither of them he's leaving the people leaving this year right now as we speak Lauren with the blue shirt Lauren but special meeting of the only white last with the shadows of some of the brothers with some of my brothers who are in there to stroll off our mother's yard side to part of fake ambassador of two vehicles this is much alachmann lochman she was a holiday surviving alone Survivor her family is her parents of 12 brothers sisters all perished their sons grandsons and great grandsons are Tommy them of your sheer you hear Sons grandsons great grandson she was a ilani sarak that married at the sea Perez as well as strong convictions for authenticatory values which is instilled in future daughters and here's the vard it says in in it says the name Nayak three times in the first possum it didn't have to mention the name because the last positive Imperial says we're already talking about the term says he saw Island banoi a built world before the marble Nayak and after the mob during the marble and a rebuilt world after the marble that was our mom Holocaust Survivor she saw three worlds life with her beautiful family before the war life during the war in Auschwitz and life after the war rebuilding a new family all right information like what does he sponsor yourself guys I think we say it all the time I must take a minute thank you so much uh we're running out of time almost credit was running through supers I started with you on that base got through the homicide with you I learned some stuff the number of times in Yeshiva this is my sixth go around doing that for me sixth time you helped me understand each time better than ever before and I thank you for that there were tough times like when I had to do two dolphins at once after a shot and when I was nervous wreck waiting for one of the diamond from Africa this week wow that's that's what happens when you do these trips by the way I'm very excited because now my batteries are completely recharged for the next two days and then off we go again to London with the same clever are you going you're not coming you should come just to redo this and we'll bring geely maybe this maybe there's a safari in London but Gary Noam and Avi are coming to London as well and a bunch of other guys I hope you'll be able to continue learning many more subs with you thank you again I wish you help and have this I may have some Shawna multiliser the coilover sponsor lillianism sponsored by Jacob and yeah sponsor of the month three of them and by Jeff rosen's host of my songs sponsor for the month listen to this I like this in memory of my dear departed loved ones including my recent young the iskars it was so appropriate about this one is that we're going to be talking exactly about this idea of giving a nether if you make a nether you say you're going to give money for your scar yeah there's a Issa to Epstein base the famous moisture Hersh from the rhamer Cars I guess shmuel sugar refur shlima the Austin family dear Bobby this is and the fourth sponsors having Sammy and timori Joseph in honor of ab's bar mitzvah the Chavez the famous Abe from Chicago the kid who at 11 years old asked me a question of middle Shear in Chicago and I had no idea it was a great cast was actually the cache of because he was holding his mama said 11 year old kid he was a big mouth kitchen this kid so mazutovs who restore the crowness and fire the guitar of the Claudius role his yard says today I guess yeah I mean I don't think some guys like doing it I'm poor him away today is the yard side don't forget mdycm.com so there's gonna be a CM here in mapachemesh Sunday night at Cafe Ramon what time 8 P.M I will be there I'm not gonna be Messiah because the CM that I'm going to be Sam is going to be in London join me in London as well and in Manchester the following day there's only a few tickets left for London and if that sells out they'll just have to move to another venue like they did before Manchester sell down sold out beautiful unbelievable I'm very much looking forward uh there's a lot of different team different places there's Los Angeles that look it up mdyson.com or send the email to drama gmail.com and you also will answer all your questions regarding to Human okay we have a uh a daf here I want to say this that I looked it up this morning after I landed I was just curious the average amount of words on adaf in the lowest in all shots 380 words per daf versus a typical average daf 650 or so it's almost half the size just to give you an example which was 10 days longer than this afternoon 20 days longer is double the size double the size 90 days versus 110 days and it's double the size in words so it's an easier type of SEPTA the Sheeran are going to be shorter much much shorter we're going to finish your room at 805 instead of 806. okay we're supposed to finish at eight o'clock okay so the let's just do a quick review because we're in the middle of a question of the gemara um we're holding base yesterday and today is the second day intimidating okay so the mission starts off as you see a little hint you can look at the top of your page what's a kinoy let's just do a quick review Aquino is a nickname so here you have it instead of saying carbon the word carbon you use the word coinum instead of using the word you use the word instead of using the word in other words we're going to see later in other words using not the word in the dictionary you're making up your own word according to one sheet that we're going to see or this is Allah we're going to see in a second there's also kind of called the others the other says yeah the handle of a frying pan a handle of a pot you're not saying the typical language that one would invoke when he tries to make another a vowel instead of saying this should be osrami or this should be like a carbon he doesn't say he doesn't use those words what he says is he doesn't mention the word user he doesn't mention the word carbon okay so the gemara explains the gemara asks the question why do we start explaining this when it wasn't even mentioned in the Mishra and it's the second thing in the mishnah whereas kinoi he knew it was the first thing this was first in the mission so should go on to explain this what is this it starts the first words the second part of the mishnah talks about this which is ayad and then it goes on to explain it okay Mario what we had yesterday it says that it doesn't matter we're talking about the second point it doesn't really matter what the gemara explains the style of the game artist explain whatever it feels like basically sometimes it explains the second thing first sometimes this one is the first thing first it's not important let's not make a big deal out of it says anymore another shot is we boys three lines down gimmel Ahmed alev aisama yada is again is saying a semi-sentence I am distancing myself from you I'm not going to eat from your food says good this this love of recipe also doesn't say the word awesome let's say carbon did I mention Gary's name seriously did I mention I said Avi Noah Mendy and Gary Manning the cameras all four hybrids unbelievable Venice unbelievable okay I did the awesome address from Fashion number ratio so we have it all all through shots something that came up with on their own is they they enjoy it more the they favor it's a what had it was they favored what's the word okay no there's something in the favor word they favorite okay fine they favorite they came up with it it's not in the toy around this is their the gemara no I said in the word favor ites are fine it says the gemara if that's the case so if you like it so much so start the mishnah with ayad the semi-sentence why are you telling why is the mission opening with the kinoy which is a nickname instead of saying the word card talks about saying card but it says what's the beginning the right separation no first we start off with something that's in the Torah the fire is Russia okay then I go into my hiddish but let's first start with the tire tires first says not her name if you say quinoa let's go back to kinoi instead of saying a person says this loaf of bread should be he's supposed to say this love bread should be like a Karma and yesterday we went into a carbon is something that was mutter it was running around in his farm he could have eaten it if he wanted but instead he took it and he made it awesome on him until he brings it as a carbon as a oil or whatever so that's something that was mutter became Arthur unlike a pig that's Usher when it was born so if you say that a person instead of using the lotion this should be a carbon he says this law of retrieve coinum an invented word if you say that it's not really invented it's actually another language English it's it's Aramaic okay but if you say that invented this language it's something they created foreign both things and you're telling me I want to explain what I invented so it's you know if you're going to say over something Advantage you're gonna say over somebody else's or you're going to say your own you like to say your own so we're going to start explaining our own but guess what is also their they they created these words so that people don't use the original word they had a reason we're going to go into it later not today they don't want people to use those words so that's a great fetish by the way there is time as a side note the written says I don't know that everybody agrees with them but the reason it says that this Lush and knockram when you're in America you could say the word uh This Love of vegetable is sacrifice but if you're in Saudi Arabia you can't use the word sacrifice over there it's in Arabic so the word Allah only I don't know what happens in you know this is a stick of America over here but he says in their country fine but it's very interesting what's going to get to us from this it's interesting it's follows comes out like this that Allah let's call it English because that's what we're speaking now a language of a guy is the eraser so if a person makes a nether in English I vow to eat this loaf of bread thou natives lovely bread so it's but this lotion they made it up they created it so if you look in Iran on the base of 14 lines down from where it becomes white he says foreign it's not a it's not a nether not another what with the rice so then what happens if you say krishma in Los Angeles Ramos events and discusses this we speak ashkenazis speak the wrong thing especially if you can see this and you have an Hungarian accent yeah there's no way that that's lost they admit that that's not how that's how much European spoke it's a it's a it's an Hungarian accent in Los Angeles or put an American accent Ashkenazi action accent we say whatever without the iron whatever it's not real it's not changing words it's changing who said no no to say I in like an olive is changing the word it's changing we don't say it properly we admit that we don't say a problem talks about this so he says that it's called a new language it's called ashkenazish that's what he says and and they they say Chris they're not saying in Los Angeles let's suppose something else so it will come out that according to tysonus when you you're not your to really if you're you're saying uh Christmas so it would be better it would be almost better to say koreashima according to Tyson is in English hero Israel whatever and rather to say it in Los Angeles in a weird I'm just throwing this out and listen I'm not passing anything obviously I'm just throwing out ideas that you should know that we the way we say it is not it's not very good now the brisk of everybody knows if you ever sat next to biscally they have a very hard time saying what's a Asif as you said it ten times so this girl would say it a bunch of times and then afterwards you'd say it's humble I I don't know if I have to be a virus asaph gross which is grass can say it in his language to be right to that word because okay just uh based on this this idea of I just he's just mad if you want to know he's just mentioning discussions and arguments that we have during the trip which was great we were talking he was talking here this guy if you say that a nickname these coinom whatever is a lotion of a guy which is the Eraser but if it's invented let us know the boat making a member says Okay so let's go back to uh yeah mikatani others does the mishnah mention the word Yad in the beginning no not at all ah you already established yesterday we already discussed this so if you look at the chart the the mission only says the blue the Gamora inserted says listen since you're in those days you used to say the mission is about Pat so they took out words everybody was self-understood because we're going right in to explain ya Yad so if you want me to be you know spell it out okay here it is put in the red it's called what is a Yad and then the mission goes on to explain but you have to insert this these three words says the gemara but it doesn't say these three words so who told you to insert these three words after the first four words maybe insert these three words before the four words okay you you inserted them with any others so you be you're asking me a question why is the mission explaining Yad before Kino you know why because it comes first in the mishnah well it doesn't it's not there it's invisible yeah exactly put your invisible words in the beginning of the mission before it starts and then you'll explain your invisible words you explain the first topic not the second topic okay so it's not exactly I didn't want to I wanted it to move like like this and it wouldn't do that if I changed the words so I left it as is but it should say call yada is okay fine you get the idea Valen the others and then the mission goes on to explain that whole thing instead of saying the word carbon he uses the word or kind of or kindness great nextogya well like uh 13 lines down two four six eight ten twelve thirteen where do we see the concept of a Yad again is when you don't say what you're supposed to say you don't say the right words you say some something that resembles another and everybody understands that's what you mean you say I'm going to distance myself from you in other words I'm not eating your food but I don't say your food is awesome to me which you should be saying and that's also awesome what do we see it says an apostle is yeah to disassociate yourself a person who disassociated Itself by making a nether of them another is a person who abstains from eating grapes and drinking wine and anything that has to do with grapes you can't you can't cheers you can't take a haircut you can't become Tommy different things but it says he becomes another in order to abstain from the things which by the way has a little bit of a connection to our Powershell with Nayak drinking wine and then so how do we know we're looking for how do we know the idea of a Yad we learn it from the word it's a double ocean that's how we learned that the gamar is going to go a little bit into it in a bit to teach us that by another if another uses the word let's say instead of the word Nazir it's a nickname it's not the way the Torah calls it it's called Nazar and he made up a word or made up the word like you said or it's that's how you say it in English that's how you say it in Arabic whatever it is it also works how do I know it because it says uh sorry last is zero is going to zeros and also your distance zero is going to zeros the teachers first of all the kinoi which is a nickname and also if you don't say the holashem whatever the lesson is he used some other Lasha and the element zeros that's great when it comes to unauzerian Wine I've been in darmi 9 and so how do I apply these same rules to a netherdale in the same pasok it says both a Nether and another zeros so therefore that's called the heckish whatever Allah I haven't won I have in the other and whatever I have on the other having the one just like when it comes to zeros I made the Yad again what's a Yad say my language not the full-fledged language it's a full it's a halacha you are another if you use such a language consistency Works to make another um these two hello don't desecrate what you say you said you're gonna do it do it and also there's a there's a is Sir to prolong it I don't know if there's a better word the delay very good to delay thank you to delay Le Marshall says the Run by carbon if a person says I will bring a carbon so you must bring a carbon and if you delay it by how much by three yamim then you're over you delayed it too much okay yeah exactly thank you welcome back Ari we missed you during service we just finished service yeah he comes and goes he knows about pet he leaves us he didn't learn yet wow okay yes what does Robert say about zaka brother says about he says that you're over about her if you are if you delay it so if this is Anem we had this also gift is a name and you delay a little bit you're you're either so that when he had guests for Shabbos and a name he wouldn't says don't be a mahmir on the husband of the Ani this is a regular person it's part of my tradition I have to say show me I'm going to jump into Kiddush it's not no about Archer I told him to come over I promised him a meal but there are those who want to be Milam it's closed and say listen he understood that it's people understand that they're gonna have to sit through show my life okay that sort of thing however that's what I was talking about Dr Epstein he made a pledge for your skirt you go ahead and you pay because if you don't pay you could be over well that's by name but we have to be careful to that's another problem of of uh making a nether not keeping but about that hurt don't don't delay your your your your uh your nether of this DACA says a person says he's going to become another so he shouldn't delay what does that mean we're gonna have to see in a second you shouldn't delay and if and he shouldn't desecrate his words he said he's going to become another become another his daughter's nether his young daughter she's 11 years old she says I'm making that there I'm never eating chocolate again diet he says no don't worry about it you can go ahead so two a father has the right to be Mayfair so we learn one Allah from another we're learning the zeros now from the dark before we learn from the door from the zeros the idea of the ad we learn from the zeros now we learned the idea of the father has the right to be made for his daughters zeros and her husband has the right to be makers wives and zeros now let me ask you a trick question can a woman become a zero very nice very nice no I wanted you to say that smash from the gamara right over here that she could so in fact it's a posse it's not just a possum it's a possibly just read but the gemara admitted that word the Gambar just says in that Apostle it says a woman can become an azira and say she's gonna stay from why imagining up in the zeros the received nozzle has here now why are we learning the Durham from the zeros as the gamara nazirus has a double ocean which is that possible let's go back to that positive it's good but check out the Posse It also says Linder nether by nether this is also two words so why should I learn nether from another which has two words learn another direct it also has two words and I'll learn all these Allah by itself I don't need to learn now from the zeros foreign so here check this out [Music] it says now if you wanna if you want to compare the two if they want to make them equal it should say Netherland the word nether should be before lindar the noun and the verb I don't know which one as well because I want the ponovich but anyway you know you get what I'm saying Lindor to make another netherlander Nazir to become another lahazir if so their opposites right the noun is the blue one it should be like this it should be like this Netherland or nuzzle Hazard now they're equal but it doesn't say like that see more says if it would say like this then then you have the same exact mode but since it says it this way Adam that's the way people talk they talk a double less or easar the throughout the time it is double the shyness that's how people talk so you can't learn anything from the way the style of people's language but NASA La Hazard is strange once it's strange then I can learn a limo from it that's great if we go with that if that's actually a thing that when people talk a certain way then we don't learn from it but if Linda Ned there is also a way to learn from even though we don't say this this is how people talk why in the world they'll tell you is double lotion lesser is Sir lindernado obviously the third wants to teach you something from it so the third one's the teachers so let's learn Yad the whole idea of yeah from these two words Linda Nether and then we're gonna have a problem what do I do with nuzzle hazard so I am going to learn from the double words Linda nether the idea of Yad when it comes to Nether um and then I learned nothing more saying the opposite once I learn from Linder nether the idea of Yad now I'm Gonna Learn Nasir the idea of Nasir that has a Yad I'm going to learn nothing from nether before we're learning nether from Nazir now it's the opposite I'm going to learn another from Nether so if I'm going to learn another from nether then I have to know what to do with actual words another I'm gonna have extra words now so nausea hazardous to continue being able to support Tyra and to finish shots of the Rebellion China zeros huh we gotta move you'll tell me what it is in a second zeros the first time up remind me during the days I inserted here the reverse name is too many words um exactly zeros Colin zeros you hear the double lotion as you see on the screen or something you don't see on the screen is coming to teach us that if a person says I want to become another how many days does a person who knows there 30. so if a person does it again he says I want to become another it turns into 60. what about a bread a loaf of bread I'm not gonna eat this bread and he says I'm not going to do it okay it's only one loaf of bread there's no double in the dark well a man or even if he says I'll do 30 Jumping Jacks and he says I'm gonna do 30 jumps it doesn't turn into 60. well the man don't they returned close to me all dumb but if you let's go back a second but the ism I know it says that you can't learn anything out from Lindo nether because that's how people speak the only thing you can learn out from is NASA lahaza which is weird which is different shouldn't say weird it's different um and like we said originally now we're going to learn the idea of Yad that if a person says a semi-sentence in the zeros it works and so too it works by nether Shadows so how does he he doesn't have extra word nozzle Hazard he's learning from nasala Hazard the idea of Yad so how does he know that that in the zeros you could do double it up turn it from 30 days to 60 days says great if you hold like the mother says that you can't turn 30 into 60 everything makes sense now aliens spirit ligammon and zero is causing zeros but if you could turn in 60. Midnight where's the extra word this is the gemara nemakra lizard my lahazir check this chart out sorry not this one oh this is the word lindar what is similar to the word Lindor by nether lisar by nazirus he should have matched up the words Lindor and lizar to stick a hey in there is a different type of word so the fact that it says it differently the style of the wording is different if you want to be consistent say lindar and then when it talks about his ears lizar that's the shadow over here it's a little bit different than Sam reading it no because lindar and Liz are match Lindor and La Hazard don't match so the reason why the kushboo who wrote lahazir is to teach us another aloha first of all I learn Yad and also I'm learning that in the zeros on another the zeros that's all they say is a Tana that learns Linda nether Vistana now this is going back this whole idea that the Torah does speak in like people and therefore there's not much too learn out from Linda nether so he doesn't learn out yadas from Linda nether this is this Tana that learns doesn't learn now from Linda netheryat this is he says a semi-sentence instead of saying this is over bread should be also I mean he says something that me you and I understand but he didn't say like the third said you should say it it's also a nether why because it says in the Torah call whatever comes out of your mouth you shall do what came out of your mouth you just came out of your mouth I'm distancing myself from you so keep it okay you didn't say exactly also carbon all these little shyness but you said that you're you're distancing yourself from that person and you're not eating his food that's enough to make another foreign by the way the rebels and I think this says this that if a person is if a person is mouth he's he he watches what comes out of his mouth then Isa then he has the ability to give prophets and and his words actually have meaning now we're just going into the detail here the okay when it comes to Nether I know what it means don't desecrate your nether Michigan is he made a nether he made a vow he's going to eat this loaf of bread and he didn't eat it but what's the shot that a person is over on desecrating the zeros he even though my hiring in other what did he say he said I am another what happens does he have to take action no he doesn't have to take any pool or any action he becomes another immediately oh how and he ate a grapevine so he's over on another is it called I think I have it here yeah it says in person and then it continues it's really the next person but whatever I only want to do one pause like I got a little lazy next possible the idea is the same it says in the past like you shouldn't drink you shouldn't eat so if a person says the words and he drinks wine boom he's over here he's a great boom he's over so then where in the world is he over in baliaco where when is he over and don't desecrate my word okay um okay it's a big Kiddush usually the other one is um sorry thank you there are some people the picking Arts from the bottom and ask me cautious militia they're those who pick in the Mississippi those who peek in the next line and ask me cash I'm just kidding yeah listen you know the style you know the style says anymore about that is what does it mean you're going to be delaying unit zeros once you say you're in another it starts Boom the clocks are sticking that minute 30 days from right this minute says America he's another on the spot oh when I feel like it I'll become an awesome the if he says they might understood he says when I want to become another I'll become another but right now you're even about if you don't become right away the verses but I want to become another one I feel like it okay so you're not you're not another until you feel like um I thought it's very appropriate there's a bucket list it's a bucket list some people have on the bucket list you're gonna go out to the massimara before they die you know you got to go on the world's greatest Safari some people the the they're going to finish us shots and this guy says I'm not leaving this world bucket list until I become another so if he says let's see let's see Lady president but because exactly because he says I am going I can't leave this world until I become another so you don't know when he's leaving this world he might leave this world tomorrow he might leave in 25 days but he has to be another 30 day he has to start Disney zeros I'm giving you this get unconditioned that it goes into effect one hour or one moment before he dies I just have to show this chart why not Yoshi made this chart he upgraded true as a person has produce he gives usually about two percent you could actually give one grain but two percent of the kind so since she's married to the Cayenne she could eat truma but she doesn't know when she's going to be divorced from him and right now when I eat it right now it might be the moment before my her husband dies nobody knows when they're gonna when they're gonna live and not live well you know so therefore I swear every moment the moment he may die yeah okay whatever say the jokes different times so too when a person says that he will come another one moment before or before he dies every moment of his life he has to he has to start right now as he started this is right now I mean it might be that right now he will die so therefore he has to start right now and that's when he's over about that if he doesn't reboise I have a wonderful day hey nine o'clock nine o'clock I gotta get back into things but since I was nine o'clock next week we'll discuss