Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 24 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign [Music] parents Levine's grandchildren I don't know if I showed it yet just in case I didn't Skype okay somebody online wrote this Rebellion I dip and occasionally live in London you point today about not adding his surim well don't we learn ramban that the definition of tea was nothing other than but switches and continue your fantastic dedication to the spreading to and spreading of tairo so just to address that for a second because we did address that in the past so the message says in Shire precious well come on in the big star shmuel made it all the way to La you know it was in London yeah yeah yeah is the concept that conclusion 2 you should add things that are motor to you so it's already discussed the Muse charm says that's only if you're already on a McGregor it's all the way by pre-shows you have to get all the way to the end of the mercies to show and we do everything you get the precious then kavish that's what I mumbled on my breath when I said first time take care of the basics of the day-to-day things don't be don't be looking for adity surum when you you still over other you swim in the better that's number one number two talks about it as well and he says that the idea of kajalak is when a person wants to do truva on certain things and he he adds in terms of chuva but not not as a way of life okay pleasure to talk to you representative said over in the name of the balsh tell me they mean Kip is a day of slichham capara why do we start with colony so that's what I wanted to address at the end of the year yesterday but we ran out of time the revolution says that we start with Carl nudry to show the the power of speech and that's how we started off the Messiah the power of speech called nidre that with your mouth you could say something that's mutter is awesome and something that's awesome you could become a Nazir you hear nothing yes so what song are you sing in there foreign keeper with your mouth and that erases our various so that that's the point another shot that I saw is that Yom Kippur is the number one day of the year where people accept upon themselves new cabalis and many times unfortunately those cabals go on the Wayside so you say colidry on the spot here Jack has not been in school the whole year cold midday night he sits in the back people say what a noise farf no and she minded dancing jack is back we're waiting a whole year for him and parts of a Yeti yaakov makes nadorem begging little boys jackets being the Kindred nether of the shafty Savi and come back to my father's house call me tonight all apply yourself being McKnight Israel Travis Toronto slash Lakewood but if you want to see more of it as I mentioned yesterday or himerkaz you see right over here y'all safe right over here or Hammer cause rebiakov Schoenberg writes every single week yeah Point down and um there's a lot of different writers this is the way about chuva views things the way uh Spidey views things the way Israel children we have Akiva who gives us different areas Akiva rabbis every they're sitting across from each other mommy unbelievable okay we're in Paris for cousins Bar Mitzvah while we walked around town my father-in-law Dr Bob lindman from Toronto MD wire since brachis Brock is I took up the opportunity to death it looks like he's enjoying it Mom's enjoying it I've been enjoying the time of working and going to catch up and accepted I'm selling this remote Nevada my name is Jose Mizrahi and he has the he's the founder of torahzoom.com one of the biggest websites around the world for Spanish speaking audiences sorry and he says he just wants to make sure and this I I actually put this email here just because I want Tomer to hear me saying it because I just in case I forget to tell him he has over a million visitors from 40 countries and he's loved he had requests to see our share on his website y'all see Miss Rocky tourism.com okay maybe [Music] from any harm and we have to do Lee linishments what's the name that we had yesterday from the anonymous call sponsor is because we said it the wrong way we have to do a few more days every day is different very good it's just write it in English do me a favor it's all messed up partnership I hope it's the right way it's backwards here Paris Jefferson is [Music] including my recent interview scores and the partisan unconditional parenting of the United Kingdom UK look however Medallion Miller the exclusive today is learning We Wish You Lord this is for Kesha nafshi with all the planning and fundraising for your life saving Shabbat tones and raboysai good news we had a tragedy this year Tony Pollock lost his son and today he had a baby boy so it's a tremendous um I just want to read some names here Jerome Kessler donated 18 recently as a mishkoff 10. been seeing lubelski 36-4 mdy monthly oh we have a lot of guests I'm like what's your name Lipson from right here you're not related to double lips in Beijing wow the one that used to go to um where my father's a rabbi there shayasov somebody else different one yeah no no this guy is uh other than that older than me Ezra mishkov but where are you from from here he said there's a Staub 36 rattle for even 36 the Iran McCabe 18. Arya Himes by the way we don't give cake every day it's birthdays I don't wanna I don't want to mislead you Anonymous thirty dollars May cider 18. you shot Middleton at 10 Daniel Stam 18. stem a s t a m m I don't know Mark DeAngelis 52 we said Nissan kilov 300 a month are you Coco 18. yossi Klein that's another check Alan Khan 52 years all right here we go huh oh yeah we got to do some guess here I have to embarrass him with people what's your name David Goldberg from Edison Highland Park some like some neighbors very good who else do we have oh what's your name I see I see you don't try to hide from Tom's River Circle very nice oh Thomas River your parents live internet ah okay very nice man the Learners here from the Valley Hotel she's not a guest he's a cowboy right that's it what else okay good no good start okay everybody says it goes like this yeah yeah we had in the mission of the government base that there's four types in the Durham that don't even start they don't begin and we were discussing until now one of them called a nether of zeros another to convince somebody to do something and we had yesterday in the mishnah um in addition to what we learned we have another net of zeros Heritage you wanna motivate your friend to eat by you you want to convince him so you make another what's the nether you say that if he doesn't eat by you then you you the friend that I want you to eat by me you won't be able to benefit from my stuff you're not gonna be able to benefit from my stuff sesame Ebola please here or not does anybody argue doesn't mention that there's an argument in the mission just says lesbian says that's also one of the mystery zeros it's not a nether it doesn't even begin everybody understands that he's trying to motivate his friend it doesn't really mean to tell his friend he can never benefit from you can't borrow his car ever again he can't do anything he's just saying listen you better eat by me my wife made good food you better come for Chavez does anybody argue the intimacy and if somebody is arguing I like foreign but perhaps it's not like maybe that idea of kabanaki maybe over here doesn't apply or maybe just Rob him against him now when we had the idea of zeros the first time in the mission the first mission of that explains zeros right the first official explains zeros we had the case of a buyer and a seller the buyer in the cell the buyer says I won't go lower than four the buyer says I won't go higher than two so over there we say that in other words we know for a fact that they're lying they're both lying they're negotiating that's what negotiation it's part of the negotiations and people don't speak the truth in negotiation that's obvious that that's what's going on it but over here perhaps one of when somebody is upset at his friend he says you better eat by me you said you're gonna eat by me no I'm not eating anybody well if you don't need by me I make another you're not going to benefit from me forever maybe he's being serious there's not a negotiation this is this is real this this is real he's upset at his friend he doesn't want to come over what do you mean you don't want it's already been two years you haven't been by me I think you have a problem with me I'm making another if you don't come right now so that's why perhaps Mark there's a reason to believe that I'm just it's again midorium is slightly different in many ways but this is one of the ways like the Run constantly explains a little bit different like how what the java mean is what the malays could be what it should the different steps of the game are okay that might be me sesame so now we're going to go through a bunch of different values to see is Revelation by himself he's saying this is another zeros when you when you try to convince your friend to come and nobody argues it's a given or perhapses the argument let's go through the different rights at the end of the day I'll just tell you so you don't sit and suspense the entire share and if you're dumpy where is he okay you ready left it's not even eight o'clock he's already gone foreign and this seems to be an argument okay um I am going to be mother nether you you're gonna be awesome if you don't take a gift from me now you are not going to take a gift from me okay you have too much pride take gifts so what are you gonna do I'm gonna give it to your son it's good it's gonna be for your son yeah I want to give a Rob some money he took it and he said listen it's not for me I'm telling you right now it's time for me I'll give you all my all these kinds of things I give to my son okay fine well it's not for him it's a nice way of saying you know thank you very much for the gift I'll give it to my son I have to give him anyway I have to support him here's the way yeah if you don't give a lot of Wheat and a lot of wine this is called the zeros you don't need a rough for this because he could say joke fighting so the guy could say why why did you want to give me a gift because you want to honor me you know what I have more honor not taking a gift as it says on the screen is okay I rather not owe you anything there's a famous guy and I don't know maybe I shouldn't quote because I'm not 100 sure what he says but basically anytime you do a uh uh a taiva you do something nice to your friend The Village says he holds that you owe that person something you physically owe him something even though there's no money discussed you went out of your way and you bought you went to the store for your friend so now your friend owes you five dollars that's it and the story there's a certain hive so that's why I don't know exactly what that means so that's why but that's what he says this is something you all went there's a hype and therefore you don't want this you don't want to own anybody anything I don't want your I don't want your gift because if you give me a gift I literally physically owe you back of course I thought whatever it is the whole I ain't showing the guy mode so we give a reason not because of zeros we give a reason we say look the reason why then there's nachal is because you wanted to do me good it's good that I don't take I hate gifts that's you want to give me covered we accomplish what you wanted but that's only because you have this reason but without this reason it is a good nether again I'm making another that I'm not going to benefit from you if you don't take my gift what is that called it's very similar to our mission that's a zeros I'm trying to motivate you to take my gift s why is it a good net there it must be active holds that's exactly in our mission he's trying to motivate his friend to come eat by him over here he's trying to motivate his friend to take a gift from him what's the difference I want to give you a bowl of Chunk come eat by me a bowl of child or I want to give you a box of chocolates here remember gave me a gift here let me see what it is [Music] we'll have to taste it French what's the difference come eat by me and I'm gonna give you uh a glass of wine or I'm gonna give you a bottle here take the bottle if you don't take the bottle I'm gonna make it it's the same thing with her you know says the gamara yeah not a great place fine that was the European L.A so you can't be realized it has to be somebody else so you see this in my colleagues here it reminds me I could hold it's a zeros if the nether doesn't even begin remember hold it does begin because again we're not sure when he said it we're not sure what he meant exactly maybe he's being serious he wasn't trying to motivate he was trying to be serious he this is real this is not a zeros a zeros is fake he's he's not he doesn't mean what he's saying in the zeros he's trying to motivate over here he's being serious why don't my leg I'm not a dog I have a picture I'm sorry I thought it's you know why not I'm not a dog I know this is my for my last drawings for boys from the last it's gonna it only gets better from here foreign I'm not a dog what's the what's the challenge dog this time a dog is different than all animals a dog if you have a goat you feed it it costs you money and it gives you milk you have a cow you feed it it costs you money it gives you milk it gives you meat a dog you feed and feed and feed and you get nothing you're loving returns yeah whatever you want yeah they use a lot of time yeah but yeah you get stuff oh I'm gonna get there I'm gonna get there in a second therapy dog very good very good you know what since you're asking the question I had that question and literally 10 minutes before share I had to give up shot I'm foul tell me what you think the guy is saying what am I a dog a give and I give it a give and get or I take and I take and I take this is I take and I take and I take and I don't give you back I want to give you back I'm not I don't want to feel he gives love the dog gives a lot of people oh hold on hold on hold on I'm getting there that's exactly what I'm getting to my whole life don't you don't ruin it don't touch don't ruin it bring out the cake let's go yeah so many people don't don't understand this because who's more scared of a dog than a firm person if you ever saw a dog walk down the street and three be sack of girls run across I mean I saw in the Alps and I saw uh from kid almost commit suicide I'm not joking there's a dog a loose dog in the Alps it was with the owner but not on a leash the kid jumped off a cliff literally jumped off the cliff it was a cliff he jumped off we had we had to get him like five ten feet down he that's how scared he was of the dog okay well the dog anybody has dogs and you know the story we don't have one anymore whatever I don't say because my son might be watching but he took it back to Los Angeles so the last thing we wanted was a dog but once we had the dog my wife got very attached to it because the dog shows a lot of love you come into the house not like a goat the goat will just look at you a cow looks uh a dog jumps on you and licks you and wants to be with you gives you gives you a lot of love call leave so what's saying I had the Shiloh what's he going to say to get this you are saying beautiful you know when that guy gives me a lot of food and he gives and gives and gives and I don't give anything bad what do you mean I don't give anything back that guy gets he gets Mitzvahs he gets oil he gets everything the answer is it's like a caliph it doesn't have my mushes it's the best thing love is much more than milk and mitzvous is much more than money but it doesn't have my mushes when you give somebody something you want to see in oil a return you want to see money in your pocket and if you don't see money that's what the Camaro is saying it's a beautiful muscle if you're willing to take their gift that's because no oh no no if it's not my matches it doesn't work they're not me being cautious okay fine anyway yeah now it happens to be you can't say this svara in in the mishnah why because if you remember in the mishnah we're talking about a different case over there he made a net there just this is a very subtle but very important what was the nether International I'm making a nether that if you don't eat by me then your ulcer on my stuff it's the opposite over here look over there over here yeah he's saying you are not going to have enough for me or where's the opposite I won't have enough from you I can't just take and take from you I'm a dog if I take from you I'm a dog but in the mission is the opposite you're not going to take from me okay so you don't have that svara of me being a dog I just want to point out very interesting that when a person is a there's two types of people in this world they're givers and they're takers and the eye that says that you should never eat by someone that's a taker somebody that has a levra he's a stingy guy and never gives you never seen giving don't eat by him don't borrow money from him his money is no good that's what he says no good okay okay by the way the only I mean the place that you're supposed to give and give and give I'm a big Monk on this shown by this two areas that I'm a big yeah there's a reason why they didn't ask me to speak at the question you think okay very good imara there's somebody just huh yeah foreign you're not going to touch or nether you're not going to touch my stuff if you don't give me a gift give me a gift I want something from you I want you to give it to my son it's a good night it's not a good net there you don't need a rabbi nothing oh so this is a very very interesting what's a person has the right to say I received it it's as if I received it you owe me a hundred dollars as if I received it was shot so the Run says it's a it's a very very hush of a thing to remember he says does anybody remember normally means that if I am holding a bag in my left hand that weighs 10 pounds and I'm holding a bag in my right hand that weighs 10 pounds and I'm very tired it makes no sense to go like this I didn't gain anything zero zero gain same thing over here what am I gonna do you're gonna give me and then I'm gonna return to you you know what let's just call it even let's call it even like there's a a guy said I'll bet you a hundred dollars that you're not gonna eat a frog not a not a juice a hundred dollars you're not gonna eat this frog hundred dollars he takes the Frog eats the Frog and I'll bet you you're not gonna eat the Frog 100 so he takes the Frog and he eats the Frog he says you know what we could have just kept a hundred thousand not eating the Frog we're even mine was the same I matarosa what's in there you know I'm gonna give you you're gonna give me a gift I'm gonna give it back to you so let's just call it even but Duran says very important that doesn't work on that's a a kium miser go ahead and give me something you know what I'm a vatter I'm out for you instead of you giving me and I'll give you back I'm Michael and it says if you gave me if I gave you back but if I tell you don't do something and you do it then you can undo that I tell you don't go to a certain place and you go if if you go the Nether is Kyle and you went that I can't say you didn't go because you did go okay but what's the riot okay same riots now again it's the idea is the same throughout the studio it's because I have a reason why it's not a nether who oh Manny who could this be like huh I said the word not the gamot oh Manny who is it irrevolutionary of course it should work I'm making you I'm forcing you I'm motivating you to give my son a gift and motivation is not a good nether a lot of robots you see somebody argues so many arguments so this is the opposite sorrow what do you think I am a king a king gives and gives and gives and gives and gives never receives in return a king also I don't know certain Kings just like to be Liars they have a lot they give to their people I'm not a king honestly what I'm just going to give give give give what are you such a taker be a giver once in a while give back someone may log he's being serious it's a very good taina I give you my entire life I give and give like I give a child I give a and you garnish you just take no I can't if you don't give back I'm making a serious nether I'm not a motive not a motivational letter a real nether almost so if you go back to the mission you'll see one of the four nadarim that doesn't even start is a nether of Inus here's Force what happened it is against his will his friend pestered him you better eat by me but he became sick he couldn't get there because there's water there's a there's a flood he got sick you see that without the the onus that he had it is a good net there no money that's a typical motivational Nether and you see that it works remember he says it doesn't work a lot of red buttons you see there's uh somebody that argues called oh it is so you have just uh you have like in the basement who invited kamta or come to barcams whatever is the one that's get that's getting invited so typically I invite Kanto the balabayas invites the one making the pseudo invites cancer Loy that's not what happened there and then he would be motivated right the balabayas wants to make the guy motivated coming by him so he forces him with another and it's a fake nether Lord that's not what happened this means wants to be invited for Shabbos he goes to the guy says listen are you gonna invite me for Shabbos yeah yeah about you make a nether that if you don't that if you take it back you're going to be all certain stuff okay I'll make another but it's the one one thing to be invited invoked another here so over here you don't have motivation what's the motivation the the balabis is going to make a Ned there to force the guy to eat by him he didn't want the guy to eat by him she even bought her wanted to eat by the boss he may he force them to make another there's no there's no motivation here it's not a story of motivation so it's a real nether this is could you please invite me for Shabbos really this is not the first time you promised me that you're gonna eat I'm gonna eat by you so make another that you're gonna attack and invite me couldn't get there so over here it's not a another it's not a zeros it's not a motivation fine that's the case yes sir okay I have another case in addition to what we're talking about is zeros over everybody I will make another then I'm not gonna benefit from you if you don't become my guest then eat with me hot bread out of the toaster oven I'm gonna drink a cup of coffee with me control now and the other guy also made another he also said okay fine I'll make another I'm not eating by you you are making another you think you're gonna force me with your nether I'm making another opposite of you I'm not gonna eat by you a favor this is considered a zeros argue it's interesting because it's in the dorm you can do whatever you want I mean it's different lotion and we're going to see tomorrow and it gets very interesting what the races with the safe is but means our mission that's the case that we're trying to see does anybody argument our mishna says gamara for some reason I'm not 100 sure what the connection is a hundred percent which might not believe you're about to know if they're gonna argue on this on the bus rights on this bryza they're also the higher arguing on our mission and the story great great Raya from this Bryson you see me for us that it says in the Bryson that and they say that it's a good Nether and therefore the same would apply in our mishnah and the story of the support Torah and the finished shots of the rally the first name of Barbara when sorry what um why so what's the words no you do it yeah because not everyone's watching by the way I have to show that email so I don't know what you did you did a thumbnail of me going like this but during the share because I said not to do thumbnail okay that's fine that's for sale no because somebody said he liked it it was a good joke it was whatever okay next time you do those sticks send it to me why not if I don't think I'm not gonna wait watch 45 minutes but or 20 minutes on two and a half an email other people's thinking okay fine no somebody said you did Ice and and uh uh I said call me to get him and I went to see it was very nice Taco very nice so might have a lot at the end of the day what do we do here who's is when you want to motivate your friend to come eat by you you make a nether it's not a nether so now is no so the saying that we're saying that even though [Music] um yeah the mishnah is something that everybody knows the price is not so much when you say that Locker is like so that love is okay says the mission the official mission is now let's go back for a second that Hoff of Bayes it says in the beginning of the peric Arabic this foreign that just you don't need it you need you don't need to go to Rob without a hatara they just fall on the Wayside they're not a real nether Midway is so now the mission is discussing the second one an exaggeration there's at least 600 000 men from the age of 20 to 60 that went out 600. maybe about 600 maybe a bit more I am making a nether if I didn't see 000 people today on 13th Avenue so what is that that's an exaggeration you didn't see 600 000 people exaggeration if I didn't see a snake like the size of the beam of the olive press I have a picture there we go I saw that's a clearer basabad and I saw a snake that size now there are snakes that size anacondas could go on YouTube You'll see anaconda eating a deer and an alligator and and people cute a full human being no brow is going to explain that it means the ridges on the top it's the the car is based up bad is it is like this snake is smooth okay let me ask you something if you're looking now at the mishnah is there a difference do you see a difference between these two exaggerations is there a difference the mission gets two examples I saw 600 000 people and I saw a snake the size of this beam right over here is there a difference in the exaggeration and the answer is yes one is Ms one is checker what does that mean the guy a guy says I was at a wedding what does he say every time there's a million people at the wedding the million people you and I know exactly what he means there's a million people that's the way human beings talk I saw a million people how's that the daily million people million people right so it's not it's not a it's an exaggeration of Ms MS first of all it could be a million well maybe that's not the liquid is that's how people speak but there is no such thing as a snake there's no such thing there's a uh a guy who read a article says at the funeral there's hundreds of people he got really upset he calls up the editor he says listen I was at the funeral it was maybe 30 40 people there that goes are you serious there's 34 people if I would have known I would have wrote there's thousands of people that draw the value okay that's how it is hundreds that I've gone and there's twenty thousands five and a half people there fine but that that's normal that's that's not even a checker that's Ms Ms but it's very very important to Seaside it has to do with the sugar if if because now one is a schwa shove if you say Shecker it's shove if I say this table is gold everybody knows everybody in the room knows that this is not gold it's washed off if I say that there's a million people that's not a short shop that's how people speak huh where uh covered okay fine I'm gonna find so we did that um so the run is goodness are very very important also a motor doesn't have to be glorious there's two different gearses here but he learns the sugya just like nidorim our mother so too is Mother if you say uh exaggerated she will survive what's the what's the case all he said is uh he didn't swear on something he swore about a story I saw I saw what happened oh wow thing I saw a million go go great stick I love it ah howman I'm knocking this rabbi it's beautiful beautiful he doesn't get the joke no I said yesterday that you could all leave at eight o'clock so they did Lauren I'm gonna get you back though I want to know who got up after shot and said let's do it the last question that's gonna happen but okay something I would do so I really appreciate it wow smash the oil image stick it's not right it's not right okay so anyways um we gotta go attack eight o'clock I have no idea where I am you know what let's take it from the mission oh yeah so the problems like this if I make a that I didn't see six hundred thousand so what is a Juan it's a nothing you didn't do it on on fruit I'm not going to eat you didn't say I'm not gonna eat this fruit if I didn't see 600 000 you just said sure I saw if I didn't see six uh if I didn't see six hundred thousand okay that's not a sport you're not you're not putting it on anything not that I didn't see sure that I did see okay so now what's very important is and I saw in I have to call them a sift up I need to write them an email because it seems like they might have misrepresented the suggest because over here schwarzharisi um it's only on I saw Reese I saw 600 000 people it's not the racism before it's not on the other schwa that I saw Charisma it's only the 600 000 people who because but for some reason the art school doesn't do that but the the I don't know if you have it over here he says both it's the schwu on the 600 000 and the car has been so bad okay all right bye and then he kind of explains not like that a second later all right so what is the if he said chorizi then what's the difference they're both the same and this the round explains and you have to explain it not like he says I don't know how he explains it do me the Nether nether's on two things in the mishna 600 000 people and a snake what you're saying is only one not two it's a it's a it's a Consciousness Rover if it's the same it should be on both not on one elomorova but I made us repairs say he actually puts something there he puts Paris there he says I won't eat the pay raise right if I didn't see like other than real quickly so Rob is just learning yeah he's saying Li not yes like a bye says I did see Robert says no let's go back to the beginning employer you see but I'm saying if I didn't see then the pay rate should be awesome real quickly the famous myself with the problems from the Drone he said that when he he asked the cousin ish can I lie when I say story to motivate people could I lie UT says yeah if you're going to be be massive people be chuba you could lie so remember said and this is my first lie I never spoke anyway something Romanian says that you're not allowed to lie even if it doesn't cause damage to somebody else a guzma because we're talking about Goose mice are you allowed to exaggerate and for what reasons but he says you're allowed to and let's say Lord says you see from the tire the tire exaggerates a lot per says they built the thing all into shamaya this different exaggerations that you're it seems like you're allowed to so they say that the turret does it in a way that it's obvious there's no building that ever reached the the sky there's no any guzma that it's in the Torah you know that it's a guzma but a Guzman that's not obvious that you shouldn't be saying have a wonderful day have a great Chavez Mr Chavez supported take no that's what we're going to try report you're all welcome to up north