Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 2 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning Rob boys [Music] we're starting a brand new message at the same time we have just finished the most amazing encephalus and set this subas for many it's been their very first receptively finished so Mazel Tov to you I am here live in the massimara in Kenya my very good haverim who started to share together for putting this all together together with non-fix Avi kamianski and Gary Ben Moshe my four very dear Javier who were with me from day one we are here in a tent in middle of the jungle with all the animals and highest that were on the Teva look of it parishes it's my birthday in just a few weeks so they decided to get me this unbelievable wonderful gift and I very much appreciate it so thank you we're here in the beginning of my husband remember Victor Miller asks why is it that an entire month of husband is not a single yantev a single Tinus and he says it's because we just came off a month of yum and many of us fell off the bandwagon when King Tower learning and other things and this gives us an opportunity to start fresh a whole month without the um so we could catch up on our learning that's what he says so I think it's very I proposed we're starting around myself don't set this in the darm it's a great time to start bring your friends to start I want to welcome the hundreds of people that signed up to start the Merced it's a tremendous privilege and I'm looking forward to getting to know you and to finish themselves together so we're we're here on the Safari and one of my haverim told me this Bart I'll say it over which I'm his father was a famous Rob in South Africa I won't mention his name Andy Mark husband is a lotion of this is that if a person is learning Tyra he has to walk like Dallas until you go to the base because his mouth continues to to talking and learning the same thing is we're coming off of a month full of in Kipper and Roshana our mouth is still diving and we're in we're in the zone and everybody wonders we're talking about Yom Kippur what do we do the first thing I am keeper call nidrae what does have to do with Yom Kippur and the answer is that what comes out of our mouth is extremely powerful and it makes all the difference and it's very appropriate that we're starting in the beginning of Mark husband when our lips are still with the Fila of Yom Kippur and the kolnidre so we're going to talk about the power of the words that we say and what effect it has we just learned we just read last week in the parachute famous famous targum human being is that differentiates were here in the Safari with all these animals and each one has more strength than us and more abilities but one thing we have over them is the ruach that our words our words have that much of an effect says that showed us with tornadoes and wind that you say it's just wind it's just it's nothing no the wind could break homes could destroy things that are solid and he's showing us that it's not a joke that words have that sort of effect so that's the message that we're talking about with Miss now before we jump into it I just want to greet the new people and tell them this is a thing that we do every mess you can look up different sectors that base and uh I don't want to go through all the different pros and the cons of that feeling but just to mention a few it's a Hazara we haven't spoken about it for almost four months so it's always good to but here they are on the chart over here and if you want look up other myself this famous saying that we like to say here in mdy it's not about the daf it's about the yomi that feeling me is a program one of the only programs that has the consistency of learning every single day no matter what and we've shown it here and we've shown it over and over a bunch of guys mailing me okay I'm gonna make a chair but the guy is here on the trip constantly thinking and learning talking about the sheer and the Dot from yesterday and not eating dinner until they do the daf and not many programs in learning have that strength a lot of other learning especially if you're learning let's say londis which I'm not getting into I'm not saying anything against I'm just saying people that learn lumbus not necessarily are gonna they're gonna be learning on a trip like this it's very very difficult to pull out svarim and learn and concentrate so that's one of the big miles of that via me of course it makes you a better person a better husband and one of the things here I just threw in a that not an accurate stat but most people that are learning these days when they travel are people that are learning the affili me so just to go through some of the yaters people say that it's not for me I don't remember anything I don't catch everything I was taught in Yeshiva to learn really slow this is not for me that's all because if you're not learning every single day and these are just excuses that's what they are just excuses and finally one of the biggest states of Horrors is coming off a period of time like we have right now coming off of a yantev where you missed the doctor too with three Dot the ATR always says let's make it up later but or the guitarist says let's go back to where I was forget about the dot today let's go back and the idea is catch up later learn now learn now catch up later if you could do that when you miss some dap him just jump ahead to where everybody else is will be that much better off so without any further ado very short almond and daf in general we'll jump right into it AR so hold on I gotta before we jump into it I want to tell you a little bit of agama from if you look over here on the side on the daf yeah talk about the cover shaft as well okay the daf especially what we have there's a lot of different but our sheer is umacher a real family where people from different countries help out people they've never met and this and people get together for simchas and now people are getting together to force human all over the world I myself I'm traveling to London this coming week with at least 10 people we're doing a seam in London and then we're going to Manchester the following day this is going to be a seal my remap challenge which I'm going to be at there's a seam of Wycliffe Ohio in Lakewood in the five towns in Brooklyn in Australia I think everywhere we had to see him in Kenya unbelievable so they see him everywhere people get to know each other and that that mishpacha that camaraderie is what's causing a lot a lot of people and I hope that you join and you stick with it and you'll see that it'll change your life it'll simply change your life so nadaram is different than a lot of my sethas in that Rashi is not really Rashi according to most she this is not the Rashi that we're familiar with so most go with the run if you pay attention even here on this armor the run is an enormous amount of reading so I've done it for you and I condensed very small pieces and I'll just explain the first Ahmed that much easier before we jump into it there's very few sponsors today the kylo responsible the second part is and some should have an allele so here we go the official mishnah shall leading [Music] it says in the possum is talking about another a vowel person takes a vowel that he won't eat a certain thing let's say Heather nether it's another it takes a vowel deposit continues he swears that he's what so the difference the gamara says a very simple difference another and this is where that yeshiva's term comes from the nether is on the on the object and the is he himself and if you flip it you say Allah and what you mean is nether or vice versa [Music] to not keep your nether now the mission understands that you get this policy you know about this processing let me just jumps right in Canada a kinoi is like if you call your friend a nickname it's awesome this is a keynote means that instead of saying Allah carbon because one thing that you could do is you could say so let me let's let's jump in here let's do the round first Iran says just explain give an overview of what's going on here in the message though so first of all we are going to be learning the run and Iran says that bism is the dharm of isser versus the nadaram of hagdish hagdish is in kochim we're not dealing with that at all we're talking about is there things that are also on you so a person will answer something that's mutter loaf of bread and he says this loaf of bread is awesome to me he could also say that his friend's object is also on him great now the way you make a nether the basic way to make another sister out is to say also rely those words this thing also rely is awesome or you could say carbon we know a carbon is something that used to be mother it's an animal I used to have and you made it also you made it Hector she said I am going to bring this animal as a carbon so you say this loaf of bread should be like my carbon or like a carbon that's awesome what if a person says this loaf of bread should be like a pig like a pig like a Dover after does it work the answer is no why because the pig is already officer Minotaur beforehand you wanna say you want to be mattress you want to say that this is awesome like something else that used to be motor and today is awesome this animal used to be multi now it's awesome so so through this loaf of bread used to be motor and now it's also so if you see double is the also rely this thing is awesome when you say this thing should be like a cargo kinoi is instead of saying the word carbon you use a nickname for carbon the word carbon you change to kind of why either instituted new words so you don't say the word carbon or that's how the guy used to call the carbon is to call it a kind of but it's a nickname so you say this loaf of bread should be also to me like a kind of hopefully next year when we do a Taurus in the dark we know what we're talking about a little bit [Music] now we're going to learn a little bit about it and hopefully the dharim will be your favorite myself to like subas was many other people's favorite Mustafa I'll call upon Aquino if you say that this loaf of bread should be also to me like a quinum a nickname instead of saying Karma it becomes awesome and the same thing is what have you said in English this thing should be prohibited on me like a sacrifice that's also Kino it's a it's in any language Iran talks about yadavis which the mission discusses so I'm just giving an overview and we're going to see it in the mission of volkisra over a yacht is a handle like a handle top frying pan if you hold on to the handle a frying pan you're holding the entire fry back so when a person says a partial statement without saying the full statement it's as if he finished the whole statement like a person says before shining he doesn't mention a word usher in there and he doesn't mention the word carbon again I'm separating myself from you then I'm not gonna taste from you then say I'm also to taste from you he didn't say it should be like a Karma but we all understand what he was trying to do we understand his intent and that intent is enough that's a Yad and it makes it a full nether is on the person himself and it's becomes awesome even when you don't say shamashem you don't say the name of Hashem okay and we'll talk about it more extensively all these things more extensively as we go on says the mission how can we in the dark in the dark if you say the word or whatever the word is it has the same effect as another The Horizon similar to another again if you use a Kino now we're talking about how everything could be used as a keynote because we understand that there's something called another we understand something called we understand something called the shua we're just saying that this concept that Aquino a nickname works by a harem works by another or special so if a person says the word pay wreck with a kufadden instead of a mem that's a nickname it has the same effect as a nether instead of saying I am again a nickname it works the zeros he says instead of Nazir Albia naziah it's a nickname it works exactly like uh zeros meaning a person who says that he's gonna stain from grapes and wine Etc now suddenly the mishna jumps into the others the handle of a frying pan I want to tell you a quick story The Power of Words the many many stories this this is one that came to mind there was an individual that was running in the street and reviews asked him where are you running to each other she said I'm running to work to make partners he says why do you have to make paranos she says how am I going to live told them how are you going to die yeah how are you gonna die what do you have with you to bring that you could go and die you're ready to die and that person was so shocked by those words and it it made us huge rush and I'm rushing on him that he opened up the Nevada Yeshiva okay then your son you're someone telling a very good oh shoot okay but that's just a word you could break a person with a word you could build a person with the word a lot of them is dealing with how to say different words and how what's what's considered something and what and what order to say it so we're talking about a yacht suddenly jumping from we started with kinoy and now we're jumping into the concept of a yacht right so I made a chart here so that you see how this works very very simple but the first three things in the mishnah go together with the fourth thing in other words each one is and then you go to the red one it's one sentence it's just confusing in the way it's written with that what all these three things he added to each one of those sentences but it's three separate sentences three different individuals instead of over here I'm not gonna I'm gonna be distance from you that I'm not gonna taste anything that you want awesome that's enough why is it because he didn't say the word awesome he didn't say the word Karma but we we all understand is intent the person says so he does instead of one of these three little shiners he says foreign of nether that's the solution of neither because or not we should be bathroom over and say it is a lotion of another that we turn the base on the base trading the Darth as his horse to continue being able to support toyuran to finish shots with the Rebellion okay then Zara plus the Reformation okay that's it so we started off the mishnu these are the different nicknames of nadarim of haramim of right that's how we started four things we have the same idea it talks about another persons says instead of the word Nazar says the word nazia it works but why is it that a miseptice Nazar which is becoming myself it doesn't mention doesn't mention doesn't mean why is our receptor different ly why is it over here we have four different halachas and over there another it's only talking about the zeros a person that studies from grapes from Katana says so this is the person we saw before just point it out again is either Nether lashem and then it says in green so you see the Nether and go together and therefore the mission abroad those two ones we mentioned another we're going to mention the nether's works it says once we already saying anything else so you just say one thing as the gamot bomb question that's the case look at the post it says nether what comes after nether but in our mishnah we're listening what does it say now in between it says why break the Posse god with the lotion of khairim in middle and not just say it as the posix says especially when the only reason why you're saying all four things is because it is possible so she match the apostle foreign at the end of the day it might be the same thing but it's the way you invoke it the way you make it something and therefore was not in the same category as another favorite is in the same category so we start off the mission with the Netherland and then we got the next category called if a person says for instance person says I am neither to do XYZ I make another to learn is it a nether or if you such a Lawson could do something if that creates another or not Agape says another question I apologize if you hear like music in the background that's the Maasai Mara guys the Maasai they're a tribe and they come through this hotel every night as we're giving sheer and they play their drums and the music yesterday they sang For Me Happy Birthday it was give all the good stuff maybe one day we'll show it pause you start off the mishnah talking about nicknames Etc and all of a sudden the ghost didn't explain when Pharaoh's others Etc how is that how does that work visu you're this engine there's no mention that there's a concept called the others it just goes in explaining this idea it doesn't say first it should say a yard is awesome and then yeah it works if you say this and this doesn't go doesn't do that and of course the mission is speaking about it and this is a classic answer the gemara that when you when you're in the time of the mishnah and we had they had to make the mission is very short because people were memorizing them too many words it wasn't good I read in the store what we're talking about we're talking about he knew you were talking about yeah this and then I'm going to explain so the other is uh hi everybody yeah they were talking about it it's just not literally missing words but you have to insert those words to understand but everybody back then understood this is what it means call you just say imagine part of another that alone is another but if I'm starting with Aquino that's how the mission starts liver is commemoration so then go right into explaining let's do it in order we speak about Aquino speak about a yag go explain what a Kino is and then explain what a yacht is why are you jumping to explain the god the most first answer is the one that we finish with so we said the second Allah is the one that we're going to explain first and this is going to bring us into a Shasta into many different suggestion shots but very very light and just on the top on the surface going through them a little bit of recalling some of these suggests but not really going into them the mission talks about different oils that you're allowed to use different fuels that you're allowed to use and can't use because you might come to fix it or whatever and then what does it start with what could you light with and what can you light with and what does it explain the second part they might leaking so it talks about the things you can't do not the things you could do so that's the style of the mission says anymore another example first is the positive what could you bury your food with Earth Shabbos and it's going into double myself Heaven if you're things that add heat to it also not and then it goes into explain anything the second part of the mission of not the first part because bury food with something that's my survival and then it goes explains any kindness instead of what could you be timing the certain jewelry they used to wear like uh certain things that a woman might take off to show her friend and she might walk in the surround for Amis what jewelry could she walk with in your surround what can she and the mission that goes on to explain what she cannot walk out foreign a son inherits his father that we know and a father inherits the son that we also know but there are those who just inherit One Direction and not the second marriage in other words a son inherits his own mother but the mother doesn't inherit her son the music goes on display yes positive and then negative and then it goes to explain and these are the positives so we go to the beginning of mission on another example there are those women who are motor to their husband that they're married to and then their husband dies and they follow the ibom they fall to another man to the brother-in-law and they're also to their brother-in-law what's the example so here we have our two famous characters from mercifulmas who are sitting actually in the room who use them throughout themselves we have no I'm fixed and not becoming but we don't come by their real names because a lot of times we get rid of them they go bye-bye so this Reuben and shipment Reuben is married to Rojo Rubin is a Cayenne they're both gay had him obviously the brothers the Baldwin brothers one is a kind he's a regular kind shiman is a crying Godzilla you hear that chairman you're a coin goddal in this case what happened was check it out Reuben goes bye bye so logically Russell who never had children from Ruben falls liebum to the coin goggle but that's awesome she why because she was in our mind I forgot to say this great let's start over Rocco was an almana and our mono can marry a regular kite but now that she falls the yiboom to the queen girl the queen Godzilla shimmy cannot marry her even if this admitted rights to marry Obama so that's the case and that would do it with today's charts these are all charts done in the massimara can you quit being a client guzzle and then be evil I guess why would somebody do that it's the biggest job in Clash the highest Ivy wants to know if you could quit being a coin god though and marry a flyer so oh we're all the way down here yes there are those who are muted to their husband like if the husband is a regular client but she's also to yavam who's a current Godel is sometimes it's the flip sometimes in this case check this out I didn't do it but instead of saying coin Hadid next to Ruben he happens to be a coin gobble and he married our Mana against and then he goes bye-bye so now she's a mother to the other one because the album in this case is not a kind God oh and then it goes to explain again it starts in the beginning of the mission at the end so you see that sometimes it goes it explains the last thing it's saying in the mission and sometimes it explains the first thing now there's another Allah made out of flower sometimes you add oil and frankincense and sometimes it's something it's oil without frankincense for instance that requirement yesterday requires they bring it to the misbeh which is the closest corner to the heital but don't require that you shake it like a little of remember why do we shake a little like a love why do we go like this and back forth all four directions you guys know anybody remember because we learn it from them not the opposite not that we learn a minute from a little of the reason why we shake a little is because of this because he's a Sheikh so when we learned the gemara Avi kamianski Mr I've done a bike ride in Ramada Challenge and he met an Arab and he paid him I don't remember what probably basically what he's tipping the people in the hotel he probably paid him 200 and he got a sheep from him and he lifted up the sheep and did mufa to all sides is very heavy and very difficult now yeah this is a video out there somewhere fine so some carbonus require a tenufa shake it like a little of that you don't bring it to them and then it goes on to explain so again starting him again yes we're going through all this cotton but in very easy light way this is a first born son who inherits his father that is if he's his father's first born son the aim Bahar lokayan however that same sun doesn't require opinion at Ben why because his mother already had another child his father didn't his mother did or sometimes it's reverse sometimes this child you have to do opinion at Ben because it's the mothers it's her first time she's married or whatever it's the first child you have to do opinion but this father had has another family from a previous marriage and he already has the bukhar who inherits two portions of the national and then he goes on things and why so Iran explains what I don't know if no I think it's all in the rush that many Allah means four that I hope this this music is not making me so we're almost finished another minute I'm sure means that in the same for instance it says over there um it gets too confusing to start from the end just start from the beginning and go to the beginning when there's only two things then we go to the end 100 oh uh as the gamara we'll just do two more lines here [Music] an animal can't go out on Chavez into surrounding public domain with certain items like a saddle the delay option there's not many I love his numbers we start from the beginning foreign don't worry about it over here we started with your dice but we could also start with kinoy whatever the Tana feels like explaining but boy side thanks for joining us from the dharim please don't show me finish the dark with us we'll hear from you have a wonderful day