Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 16 by R’ Eli Stefansky

hi [Music] exciting stuff here first of all right oh it's not on the thing hold on this is Marty Delbert huh you got it good morning from Lincolnwood you are invited to live share in Manchester the Manchester Islam is still going Stark I don't know how many people they signed up but a lot many so they're doing this live share anybody want to do a live share anywhere we will push it we will Market it for you we'll get it out there I got this picture this morning this is the first CM ever in Manchester to the left and this is our CM that we just had on Septic Service on the right a year and a half difference [Music] oh so this one We're not gonna show yeah take that off so let me just explain real quickly last night uh my kids surprised me and my wife we have we're different ages she's 30 I'm turning 50. not Mama's don't write me but what's important is my age 50. and my kids did a surprise birthday party for us it happens to me that my my son Akiva is in from Los Angeles because we're doing tonight myself and my brothers we wrote a secretary from a schwer so he flew in and he flew everybody and every single integral had to come to this thing including my son so Martin my whole family was there my brother and my sister-in-law fluid special for this birthday party last night and my wife's best friend fluent so during that my son my car did gramin so I just want to share with you two lines that have to do with mdy it happens to be that my my son the bar is bald bald as can be and this is the bald is beautiful here listen to this line it might have foreign [Music] he's roasting me okay now here's another one one more that what he's saying is if you can't understand he's saying the kind goddel that's the the last line here we go [Music] obviously it doesn't go huh yeah that results me either good evening I don't think the coin got the difference with socks period he doesn't go to the night he doesn't yes that'd be beautiful good evening you're Rebellion crew Tuesday night was a rough night for me for some reason I woke up at 1 30. this is Avi mandelbam I couldn't fall back asleep it may it made Wednesday a very rough day for me I tried a nap in the morning I was really down in the dumps around 2PM Steve Rappaport arrived at my house with two of his sons they visited me for about 45 minutes I cannot tell you how much they lifted my spirits made me feel better and prove my attitude I want to thank them publicly and thank you is that you share the entire Wednesday would have been depressing instead of uplifting Javier my voiceai the coil sponsorship the message A Memory of my dear departed loved ones included in my recent yante vizcars wow yours is today and nobody sponsors the yard said yesterday [Music] yeah the one was it okay in honor of Ellie dykeman's baby girl mazeltoe Valley on the bottom yes yes sir you gotta learn how to do it yourself but I'll do it until you learn foreign [Music] on the spot says it's not with any it's Ani it's very similar word it fits right into the receptor the difference we're gonna have where people confuse words or say things are slightly different but over here it's Amy I will not sleep now I think I was gonna explain by the way Lily is going to explain the mission is going according to her mayor remember we had a machlikas for mayor and reviewed the one of them is remayer does not say hey you don't infer anything it has to be as Isha I will not sleep and we also explained that a schwa doesn't have to be on something tangible it could be on something not physical like sleep so this should work I'm swearing that I won't talk also great because the gavra is swearing the it's on himself he won't talk he won't sleep it's not on the Heifetz it's not in something tangible or not tangible that's a nether schwa is the guy where the person himself asks for something on himself now what I noticed this I didn't see anybody speaking about it and I don't think it's that important it just seems like whoever split up the mishnah I'm not sure if it's that woman in vilna who made the shots split it up seems like not the best way in the world because if you look in the mishnayas the mission is completely different this is a new mishna here this little part should have been part of the last mishna and as you see from the gamar even calls it the end of the last mishna and over here goes together with the following mishnah and the mission after that is the and it's in if you look at the mission ice I didn't I didn't know how to read it I went into the mission and lo and behold it's there it's in the right way I think this I don't understand why she did it or whoever did it did it this way okay at any rate we're starting a new Mission here carbon this is another okay fight for the picture you guys both that way so what's going on there what is he saying so carbon it could be in the life of a carbon so there is no life of the carbon when it comes to an arm like this but it's in the carbon or so it's complete stupidity what he's saying it's nothing what he said is it doesn't mean anything or carbon so whatever the carbon I won't eat of yours but anything else I will eat okay so again it doesn't it doesn't make any sense it's not a nether now what if he says carbon what does hot carbon means carbon the best that the best that I could understand is that it was like an American he was trying to say Hanukkah and became a Hanukkah instead of Haye I don't know something like that is what's the opposite of low carbon yes a carbon that which I shall eat for you but that's only if you infer from it only if you're inferring if you're going to do the reverse of what he says he says not a carbon I won't eat so the opposite of that is yes a carbon that which I will eat meaning it's awesome too bad according to your mayor you don't go backwards you don't go reverse you don't reverse what he's saying again is not a nether's motor okay I can before I go right there I just want to say some relation to the few guests they noticed what's your name from Manchester were you there I met you and everything you're here also all the time time foreign [Music] not all of them but only the ones that were appropriate it was a even that they they hmm okay when was the last time you heard that well you had a real share like during the week you were during the week okay I have to explain what's going on here okay for him it's a big simcha we got some here and my shirt is a victim as you all know gives that fiamishir and the Eon chair on Chavez evolved okay money must listen remember so according to your mayor when somebody says the word carbon carbon making a nether carbon so he's saying that this should be ulcer like a carbon when he says carbon Hawk Harbor means in the life of a carbon ARA the Mishra goes according to your mayor top of tazana according to review that we saw you have to stick in that cuff kick carbon ha carbon doesn't do anything yerushalayim is nothing you have to say King so high carbon is nothing and hot carbon is nothing aim is safer so if if our mission goes according to a mayor it says by the way I got to show you this uh this minakama test at me here's a guy is putting out these um cartoons you see them it says Lloyd carbon machine and the guy is like huh that's that's that's the basically the circus we're learning like what are you talking about okay and here's he comes into a Basden it says it's like what is he saying okay fine physician will have our own artists you like it better than the house I have to explain what you said with this better then you don't even have that one that you're talking about you're slow well I'll explain to you afterwards Amos safer look how you know what Abby sending the clip he did okay now you understand it oh that was better that was the chat Emma say for like carbon like motor says La carbon right we said it's a double negative so we have a very big problem if our mission is going according to our mayor it says my first and a mishna that we learn that if these exact words in our mission says so how could the same exact words be reminders saying over here mutter and a few daphago is awesome remember we had this at least three four times says the way he says it he says here you see in the chart it says the carbon so instead of La carbonne we read it lit carbon we mean it means instead of not La would be Loy carbon not not a carbon it's the opposite it's lit carbon to a carbon so what do we do so by us also lock carbon means to a carbon to a carbon should be awesome carbon so in the chart you see if he says look carbon so I have to translate the lamid I could put whatever I want on the lamin but maybe that's what he meant maybe that's what he said right that's great if he did Le carbon but if he separated and he made it into two words there's no way you could translate into the red liquid carbon it has to be blue La it has to be Loy carbon there's no how are you going to translate Loy into Ken into yes if it's like carbon so maybe they say lies to the list you know it's similar but like carbon two words is no way to get out of it obviously it meant no carbon and no carbon motor it's not an end the Lego Avid carbon comma fine now if right and that's what we explained in the middle if it's like carbon just to finish it off if it's like carbon so the only way to explain his words is we have to we have to do what he meant to say is if it's not a carbon would be ulcer and that remainder doesn't do remain it doesn't do hey says the mishnah the official missions so now you see now it there's a continuation here if this is one mission that starts so you see the the contrast before we're talking about another right the end of last mission this is actually that I was just explaining to them that whoever split this up didn't split it up correctly I think I hope the the last two lines in the in the last mission onomat base should be as in the machines if you pull out the missionary so you'll see they go together and then we're going to and then the following Mission says these two things you see that uh is more common than another but anyway I'm not going to eat your food so it's pretty obvious I'm making you schwa I'm not gonna eat you food foreign now what does this mean replace if you stop right over here you don't peek in the gamara you don't look in any run he says these words four words I'm making sure that what then I'm gonna eat your food is there any way to explain is the way to explain it differently that's not what the gamara says I won't eat your food how in the world could we explain that it's a it's a lotion that what do you call it the Saginaw you saying so you know that's not what we mean okay double negative in other words he's saying that there is okay what is the words I'm not going to eat from you in other words there is a schwa if I do eat from you so over here we have to do a reverse right works and the problem is how do we do how do we all of a sudden we reverse it now in the double negative obviously it doesn't mean Noah because there's nothing talk about means I'm not making it's a novu if I don't eat but it is a Shore if I do eat right that's what he means but remember holds you don't go backwards you don't do you don't infer anything in because the only time he says you don't say is by a nether that has muminous explains Iran anything that has moment is every nether has a little bit of monetary value there's some sort of object that has monetary value the rush says something else Russ says because she was Muhammad okay there's uh in Yeshiva once I went over to one of the big masmith in one of these you know I wonder if they will say there she says what do you mean I don't want to eat with you he says that if you if you stop somebody middle of learning he's going to give you you have to eat calls I don't want to eat with you I don't want to eat with you get out of here okay fine I don't want to eat with you I mean Sheba has one of those guys awesome fine says so going back to that what you guys said in middle of the mission seems like I'm going to eat your food but but it says also it works it's it's means I'm not going to eat from you no verminole here so it says an apostle I never excuse me for the for the bad and for the good what's for the battle for the good for the positive and negative doesn't mean bad and good it means lahara I won't eat and later I will eat and that's in the future so you take those two and you double it so the tire only talks about the future making a schwa in the future if you you double it lover in the past I did it or I didn't eat it's two that are four the bottom line is if you look at either one it's one of them is I'm going to eat and I'm not going to eat so in other words means I am going to eat it can't mean I'm not going to eat because that's how that means negative means positive so I can't translate to be a negative when it means a positive over there is foreign there's no way to get around it if we're sticking in the words I won't eat so I will eat means I will eat not I won't eat um just another corny thing what does this have to do with this week's parachute I'll say it again foreign so much it's nadaram the jokes are in a different level it's a different lotion in the dark oh the jokes are in a different lotion not the lotion how you miss Cyrus which by the way I noticed also the word missarvin also has toulashinas usually Messiah means to refuse over here it means they they encouraged they they insisted Miss Irvin over here means to insist ERS you're saying it's coming from the same motion okay homeless serum they insisted so basically what the Bible is saying is you have one word I'm going to eat it could have two meanings depending on what came before it depending on the context of the conversation so if he was at somebody and they were they were forcing him to eat they kept on saying please eat eat eat oh my almost like I'm from Aveeno by the way now I'm hopping it is a Verma come come eat what does it say in the deposit words what does it say about mavino asking them Allah compete no does it say it doesn't say that he begged him to eat rested no no bye everyone okay fine it's in the Shady anybody want to look it up they they asked and they begun to eat so in this context they asked him to eat and he swears that he's going to eat of course was that he will eat but he says to them I'm telling you I'm not gonna eat I'm not gonna eat stop asking me I'm not gonna eat with Sue and I'm swearing so it's over here different ways to explain it but basically he's saying I'm swearing that I won't eat I'm telling you I'm not eating I swear about the food I might have read okay very good yeah the the Iran says it's like a rhetorical question is okay whatever maybe that's on something else this is a way to get out of it if you speak Hebrew in those days it made sense in a conversation in that context he meant to say what'd you say again how'd you say it I might average I might ever eat I swear I might ever eat in other words I won't eat okay very good [Music] what does it mean so if you read it it says in the in the mission no that's not what it says it says you have to stick in uh so the Run says and on the base because the holy dharm that's how it works like it's not organized well if you want to look for the random a lot of times to explain this and he says that he prolonged the aleph he said and it sounds like that's how the Run learns it that's why Rebellion says that when you say achad you shouldn't prolong it you shouldn't say you should do a normal like regular people speak because the problem is that when you say God you want to behave and that Hashem is one and then stick it all into one word so people prolong and he says he shouldn't because it changes the word over here you see that if you prolong the words it's as if you're saying I don't want to eat he's not basing on this but it's that idea says tomorrow if that's the case it's over here it almost seems like he mama said he said I don't want to eat well the same uh make him listening he he stumbled upon his words he didn't mean to say that he was saying something else it came out that's what you heard kamash Milan it's a good finished [Music] there's a lot of this this kind of the gearsity like this is like that where I've actually nothing moved away from my body's reason that what that it depends on the context of the lotion sometimes it means yes sometimes you know because the same reasoning that you have that the word depending if they they pestered him this way or pestered in that way so the same thing would be with depending how they pestered him if somebody begged you to eat and you swore so it depends on what they what happened beforehand so if also has two meanings how come you're only saying one word that has two meanings and now I have two two statements that have two meanings the statement has two meanings and you ignore it completely that what you miss having left all they were they were insisting that he should eat so we're not the bottom line is if he says let's say he says let's say the gear says so he says I'm not going to eat I'm not going to eat and then he says so over here if he said I'm gonna eat so then he swore that means he ate if he said I'm not gonna eat then he swore he means he didn't want to eat okay so the same words could also go both ways I don't know how you whatever being Paris vehicle tourism you can say the same words [Music] which one okay yeah that's what I'm saying before that's what the Iran says am I gonna you think I'm swearing I'm not eating I told you I am gonna eat okay um okay so if that's the case if I could say the words means two things so then how come it's not in the mission no the bottom line says I don't agree with Abaya this is one way to understand the word and that's how we would like to understand when a person says I will eat he means I will eat doesn't mean I won't eat it can never mean I won't eat even if the context means that he won't eat when a person says I'm not going to eat but in our mishnah that's why ravashi has to say that in our mission they didn't say Khali says that's that's why she has to say he said a different word here we had this Mission a number of times and like I said before it's a continuation of the two things that we just said we said carbon foreign if a person builds a soccer what broker does he make no brother who said anybody say let's say he said he says that we don't we don't make a broth on Ahsoka but there is a very big Mitzvah to be icing in a circle and building a Suka it's a lot better than just having a sucker Ready Made For You could you be madike from the mission of that they say no it says it really should say but what he really meant is [Music] that's the main point here some Cypher points out that we it says in the positive basuka's taishu the icker misses to sit in the circuit have to build the circle obviously it's a big Mitzvah but that's not what what he meant over here when he met when he made a nether he made a nether that is going to he's not going to sit in a circle making a nether against the Mitzvah Lula of Shani naital he makes another he's not going to shake a little of it's villain he won't put on Philip like the famous mice of the father begged his son when he was leaving going to college his father said listen but one thing do me a favor put on Philip yeah yeah Dad don't worry about it because of course like a month later he calls up his fathers he put on film yeah yeah so can you send me more money I'll send you more money close up a week later knew where's the money says they sent it to you didn't get it no two weeks later sent it to you no kids and finally he starts he starts screaming let's go I I'm asking nicely it's already a month and I have nothing he says I totally we're Phil and if you were telling everything was good then the money was in The Filling put a bunch of cash in the filling awesome if he makes a nether that he won't put on fill in you can't put it up but doesn't work why she is when it comes you can't make a not to be me so let me ask you a question if you can't be if you can't make a schwa not to be mikaim a Mitzvah so what happens if he makes it sure not to not to put on villain so it's nothing nothing uh you think it's nothing the rat says he gets malkus he gets malkus because he was over but it doesn't work against the Mitzvah he still gets Marcus foreign if we go here just put it the mission on the bay says motor and Anonymous and all in the bottom it says if a person uses lotion carbon it's mutter when it comes to Nether it's not a good nether but when it comes to schwa it's a good schwa so therefore watch was more Hammer than a nether like a technical question you're saying the schwa is more Homer than a nether when you say another carbon meaning it is a net there's a little bit of a nether it's just a weak nether no if you say carbon it's zero it's not even a nether so how can you say that was more common than another it's not a nether it's a it's more common than a zero not a nether says no you're right it's not going on what's right before it on the word it's saying that was more calmer than the other Mishra when a person makes a schwa and something that's not tangible like sleep it works because the schwa is the gabra it's the person making the schwa on the sleep he will not sleep but you can't make another I won't sleep because sleep is not tangible because a nether is always on the grave it's on the object and sleep is not object now if a nether didn't work at all so then you have the question again than another it's not even another the answer is because according to the second territory we said yesterday ravino that it is a nether with remember if a person is macaron himself he does the Mitzvah you know how to tell him don't do it like you brox whatever the the examples are of like I brought you as an example of the the good example real example is not eating meat during the three weeks which is took upon themselves that this fires and didn't nine days nine days no you had nine days thank you some of their abundant it does work so that's why Works another only works with my name is what's the case refghny this is uh dream again a few freebies here he says it in the name of the viewers you know the famous Raven shmuel he either heard it from rap or heard from its voice how do you know that you can make it that he's not going to be in climate you can't break your word but you have to break your word when it comes to Mitzvah if you said that you're not gonna be kind of missing you break your word says when it comes here says the Posse ish heed or nether lashem so the word La Shem is right in between either let's get more this question in a second but it says okay so therefore um even when it comes to Hashem even when it comes to the Mitzvah of Hashem of tillen of sukkah you can't break your word that's why I put it up here because it doesn't really say yes it says Hashem right before but the point is the same the word Hashem should also go on the following words of ishave so whatever you're saying for another should also apply this just like a nether you can break you cannot break your words when you when you made another not to put on fill in so you shouldn't break your words we're making sure not to put until or a bio oh don't mind no secret life of when it comes to a nether so the nether is always so that's what it means lashem s don't break that nether lashem so the nether is going to be a good nether but is very different the schwa goes on The Gather again we have this lotion of Giver cases and therefore he can't he can't be retirement or moreover so rava agrees to Abby he just doesn't like the wording Mitzvahs are not there for your benefit so how could how could how could I know have have an effect over here so because it was because this is the yard side yesterday and I forgot to mention I have to mention this I love discussion in the igorithm says that the greatest Hana in this world the greatest is learning Tyra it's not a rookie it's a thing it's a goshmi's thing and the Ugly Tao says there are some people that think that if you learn and you have enough from learning it takes away from you Allah she says it's a mistake that's exactly what learning is supposed to be learning suppose the biggest schmuck to do the death it's supposed to give me schmuck the if you're learning is to have a na from the learning and therefore the learning will be embedded in your in your blood and your bones he says and since it's sharpsy outside your shaft is once schmoozing with behind primary dansky and what is there and they he was giving out he was giving out money to use Simon and our mothers and he's done and he told her he said now until now we're Isaac let's sit down and be Isaac Mars and they learn for a few hours because for them Mrs in Tyra Lannister you could you could have Alana from Tyra hello my brother hold on he just fixes it a little bit oh dummy she used to go live come on it's not not take out the word I know he's saying I won't benefit from the sukkah or it's either I won't have an it's the sukkah we look at the hefts of the sukkah or it's the garbage me I won't go into the circle or I don't want that suck on me depends what it is if you look at the object you look at this guy's object you're being neither from the object then it works if you're neither your body from going through the circuit then it doesn't work okay we could stop right over here robosai have a wonderful day [Music]