Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 12 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Molokai I want to talk a little bit about London this is a picture of Avi Factor making I think the very first get-together in London that screen for some reason is not working I wish it was merchants this is the before a year and a half ago and this is after unbelievable so oh and now if you have some good sound going you have good sound really high really nice [Music] [Applause] holy slowly couldn't believe okay and here is some of the record [Music] all right so I wanted to speak about a little nikuda there because Donnie fine came over to me last night after this year and he said that he was blown away by him I think everybody was and when you any guest that flew in received a box this big mdy backs he said mdy all over it and here's some of the gifts that came in the Box mdy have dollar set with mdy uh Matchbox it was over the top and I was had a little bit of an argument with one of the guests he said but why and breakfast every day and a note to each person says but isn't it enough to have one pair of mdy socks in the Box why two I'm like no mdy is all about being large we always went all out whether it's building a new Building Philadelphia I mean giving freaking moras what we need four socks to give us but thank you [Music] and and then I was thinking that it's a force in this week's power show of Roma Vino went out and he checked it a calf just for the tongue to be making sorry if the people he doesn't even know a tongue so the guy that same argument would be said why why over the top why a tongue is in the rib enough isn't it no a tongue for each guest that's over top shanky money for people they don't even know and these are people that are doing the Daft people that are our best friends of course you have to give them two pairs of socks it should have been three or four but Donnie told me that he literally came away from there with a new appreciation by finessing when he was in the Americas and a random person came over to him and said can I come over to you for Shabbos and he says yes come to the shot and he called him his wife said what could we do special what could we how can we so we learned something from London I want to show you something that's really over the top the gift I received from the chevro especially noamanavi who are both here but I don't know I was flying away tonight and maybe to explain what's going on there this piece of parchment that it's on cost 600 shekel I didn't know that I was told later on this is real parchment and from every single daf they took out one halacha one years cotton is called it's the and their idea is they're trying to tell people right in yugomara one you saw you learned the word atfasa put in the back of your any day that you learn something some people just put their jokes in that's also good Halal has jokes whatever you take out from the sheer here somebody you have to like do it like kind of time yeah it was it's a beautiful beautiful gift I really appreciate it I think we're gonna hang it up here in the Beast Majors no that's that's the plan okay this one took many many hours to put together so I really appreciate it still on a high from this whole thing I just don't want to forget this I keep on every day I keep on pushing it off hi my husband Ellie beitelman is a big fan of your death his 40th birthday is coming up on tessman she must have sent this a month ago and if you sent me something a month ago it's very hard for me to remember so I I just I realize now that I missed this it was three days ago or something is there any way you could give him a shout out in the beginning of this year Mazel Tov on the big 40th and dear belly listen to this I have no words to describe last night see him I got a bunch of emails I'll maybe I'll try to read them where people were they both they described how they were crying throughout the seal I didn't I thought I was the only one crying they were crying as well but it says I'm all in the ability is close track my wrist different backgrounds some younger boys have gradually began joining your share wanting to be part of mdy I had an infow an idea that I wanted to share with you but couldn't find the right moment last night mdy has so many adult members and many of the members I've saved have children many of these young children would love to be part of me why but are unable to complete the daf and are therefore limited good morning Rabbi I was thinking wouldn't it be amazing to start at mdy Junior we have wmdy now we have jmdy because there we have mdy Junior retail 8 or 15 minute gemara learning program covering a far smaller amount a short sharing broadcast for example for school boys must be so many children recovery members will be able to join for about 10 minutes a day because it's a great idea yeah I like the images if your editor which could for example use your same anyways I don't know if official heard about this email where he came up with this on his own but Fishel is offering a free sweatshirt a junior mdy sweatshirt for any child that joins the junior mdy program if it ever gets off the ground okay after the Parsha thing and after Mr Brewer and Damen adaf and the junior it's not a big deal and the second chair at night wow what's this parishism yeah I did yeah but it came right I sent it right before they came afterwards so many boys if anybody wants to add to this idea great help to them to cut this curriculum just an idea would appreciate your thoughts on the above thank you for having taking the time to read it obvious third heavy Stern we love new ideas the coilover sponsors the first one is the second one Jeffrey is third by Dr avram Epstein remember my dear departed loved ones included in my recent jantaviskars for a healthy child easy pregnancy or Maine by hennach swimmer otherwise known as schwinger schwinger anybody know hey now hey now in honor my dear father joining us on rebellious death Journey Papa we love you he came over to me like during the whole scene he was there his father but he didn't want to jump in and if somehow towards the end after one of the speeches I think it was the speech where boys I recommend watching guy Levine right that was his name guy Levine a bunch of people watched it it's kadai to watch I think it's online now it's an unbelievable speech by a person who just became about juva and joined the death and finally I just want to remind the ilum that nidarum Volume 2 is around the corner so if anybody wants to do a nice sponsorship for volume 2 we are looking for donors at mbysponsor.com Okay so yesterday we started the suing we asked the question we can go over it real quickly asked a question it goes like this the animal as you see in the chart has there's three stages in it there's an animal that's minding its own business it's Hulen then somebody makes it a slum I just put a scary face because I know it's going to get chucked at any minute so it's a slum once a person says this animal is a slum it becomes user for you to use to eat to do anything then they checked it and the Cayenne does the foreign to eat so we have a child like this he has the shlomim that's already checked that it's on the floor it's in a box it's on the butcher table by Benny's and a guy takes a loafer Ben he says this loaf of bread should be like this piece of meat what did he mean did he mean me Curry cut off us is he going to step one me Kara which is in this case step two forget step one that's not a shile at all of course he didn't mean to make his bread like uh a roaming uh sheep in somebody's Barn he meant either step two or step three commates so that's the whole city today are we going on the initial because right now this piece of meat is 100 worth it to eat the butcher's chopping it up to give it to Israel and anybody so did he mean it should be like this piece of me that's mutter which means that my loaf of bread is mother so then what is he saying or did he mean it should be like the like the slum that was awesome me car right does it go backwards we could see it inside two lines from the bottom my loaf of bread should be like this piece of meat might be iCarly come activate again what is the word mean this should be like this it should be linked to this it should be Associated to two words I don't like this should be like this I don't know if there's a word in English someone has a better word let me know who comparable comparable but I wanted to be with the same Allah says that thing equivalent replicates equivalent maybe equivalent to that okay I want to be equivalent to that so is he's doing B ikaro is he going backwards not what it is today but what it was yesterday in step two which was uh Usher animal called slumming I better tell you or he's talking about what it is right now and right now it's mutter which wouldn't make any sense why is he saying that his loafer bread should be like something that's mutter it is motor already before anything else is said that his loaf of bread should be one word he didn't say ke he didn't say le la la nothing you just said my lover bread noisa let's drop because it is the darum will drop the word piggle it doesn't make sense really in this so yeah okay they go together nice and pickled we're talking about noise sir nicer is that let's say you could eat the schlumen for two days in a night he left it over three four days he found the piece of meat in his refrigerator oh expired no sorry now that I eat it awesome with the rice teeth so person takes a piece of bread he says my bread should be like this piece in the fridge the noise are it's a good nether now what's noiser says says Rover like this so think about it we we all know if somebody says Milo for bread should be like a pig like a pig doesn't work why because it's another it has to be something that you that became us or through somebody's mouth through a nether if I want to be mattress my loaf of bread it has to be equivalent to something else that became awesome through something somebody's mouth Pig was born also what about noise sir was nice there born officer or was made by a human being was born officer it became us or automatically not not through somebody's mouth by expiring by by going past ski on the second day boom it became also on the spot so when a person looks at his loaf of bread and he says now look at the chart you have four options here this is my loaf of bread should be like a piece of noise like noise what is he referring to if it's step four it's nothing it's like Pig his love for bed is motor if it's like step three it's Moto my what he really meant is step two that's the ride of the gamaro you see when a person says that his loaf of bread should be like this thing in front of him he's going backwards he's going me a car right because he cannot be meaning what it is right now because right now it's Pig right now it's noisier it happened by itself the nether doesn't work step four country hold on well zrico's motor he's trying to say that his loaf of bread is also why would I say anything I have a loaf of bread here this is my loaf of bread right now I could eat my loaf of bread I have no problem so I'm saying something I'm trying to say so I'm trying to to articulate something here I'm trying to say this is like that I'm pointing that now that is noiser that is equivalent to p i g not that feeling that okay that is equivalent to Pig noise are happening by itself Pig happened by itself anything that happens by itself you can't make a netherron another says an entire key there has to be Dover another we don't care what he yeah but that's that's the whole thing what maybe maybe zamaret okay but that's the whole studio that's the homoseto so throughout Thomas talking about a guy that knows his stuff what does he mean now we can't ask him as we discussed yesterday it doesn't matter what he says what what did the guy mean does a guy typically mean what's in front of him right now and what's in front of him right now doesn't work for another or did he perhaps mean something that was yesterday that's it maybe you and I would go with why would a guy go yesterday no it's hard to understand but that's that's the Shiloh here so approving from noise Ariana guys is noise and it does work why would the mission say it works so you should have had your cash Ira you should have asked in the mishnah the mission says a guy says my love of bread should be like noisa it's a good nether but why nicer is a Davao sir not a Dover neither noted of another so it shouldn't work Allah might have to say they didn't mean right now amen the piece of meat that was yesterday which was Usher in a different stage nothing but the stage in the other stage otherwise why would it be awesome in stage two not in stage three which is takamoto but it can't mean the guy's sugar the guy's making another my beloved bread should be in stage three where everybody's eating it of course he didn't mean that he meant in a different state this is the Camaro um since it's possible to say that the carbon is not a schlum here go to the Chart all I did is I changed the the slum Tyler but what happens is check out what happens to this Rico this Rico also becomes awesome because in Euler it never becomes mother to eat oil goes on them is bad it's cool Hashem so if we're talking about since we're talking about we could be talking about a carbonyl so therefore I he yes he said he's going me car right but there's no stages in between there's no stage of mutter so I can't bring it right to my case my case is a case where there's a stage of mutter in between so since this case could be is could be talking about that it's also from beginning to end this is no right hours was asking on a piece of schlumber meat that right now is mutter did he mean yesterday when it's Usher or today that's mother well there's no mutter in this case because it's all author also threw out all the stages that's all you love or Malay well so he gets him good in Kane listen then why does the Bryson mention stage four that it's a noisier just say it's a Isla is also from the beginning it's also through zurika and it's also through nysar yes you're right the Euler became nicer it expired but it's also because it's the oil because it's stage two not because of stage four it's already also from beforehand that's not a Heather and not only that worse than that we'll see later even if certain people maybe could either still considered also well multiple is bad that's already you know that's in culture we talk about okay listening says no it's telling us a beautiful thing the guy looked at his loaf of bread and he said this loaf of bread should be like stage four like myself but it's already I love so it says very simple learning Vibes are available carbon chromatos if he says his loaf of bread should be like the oil of course it's a good nether is to say that he used a different word use the word noise keeps on talking about piggle piggle when the original say the word pickle doesn't really apply here but anyways I think that Lamesa used a wrong word he used the word noiser and noise are is like pig noises and he made a nether in the wrong thing the limits are and it shouldn't be a good nether commercial Lawanda what he meant when he said noisa is huh is as if he made the net there in something that's awesome which is noise R Pig etc those kind of things but he used the word noiser and he literally perhaps meant like sir no what he meant is the original carbon not the noise and not today's final stage this animal turned into a noise an expired carbon what he meant is I want my loaf of bread to be like an oil and that's a perfect nether because a carbon that's awesome it's not a mistake he didn't make a mistake you know what he was doing that's the whole point it shouldn't have worked if if he was literal with what he meant but he was he didn't mean no he says you see this piece of noise sir he's talking in in in in riddles he says I want my love of breath to be like this piece of noise sir he's right it's like this piece of noiser but he meant the original issue that was created in that piece which was two days ago when it was the oil again they're trying to point out that this is in the dharim and the lotion is it doesn't mean it means tashma it's not a question it's Uriah tajma like Maize is how do you say my lover bread should be like this piece of whatever Omar listen to this case again a funny lotion Allah but basically he's looking at a piece of bread and saying this piece of bread should be us around me he uses a different says a different lotion I am not going to eat what he means is this loaf of bread a mattress this loaf of bread in a time in a place that the love forbid was also to me when his father's yard sight his father's yard so I just want to discuss a father's yard side for a minute here there's an Indian to fast on a Father's yard side [Music] to do tikkon and to do a nice UDA oh no I'm getting I'm getting there I'm getting there it's more that's more of a casino and I'm getting there the solar says you should fast what's the in the fast so the number of reasons given to fast first reason is it's a bad muzzle for the person bad muzzle so you fast another reason is he would have aim another reason is to remind the person of his thesaurus that he had another reason is to give his fathers in the Sharma kapara however in our days when people are weak they don't have the kayak anymore at the fastest too much for them they should do [Music] you invite a lot of people some people you don't even know and then that's of course that they're that sauce that that they're uh that they're giving food to other people that should be Sharma and that's where the minute comes from from you bring some schnapps some uh some calculus like myself don't do it because this is the Hemet that says what kind of is this people bring food and schnapps in the show was his soil was it's a show everybody we're trying to bring amen and stuff that okay so that's why I'm just pointing out the different things I have personally today I I think it's like it's already accepted and if you don't do it you're considered you know something's wrong with you but just to show how I think most people are are familiar with chicken and Schnapps and bronfin in in in Shoal and they don't realize that the actually says so I myself I went through uh the first like right after my mother's and if there and I asked him what I should do he said do not fast on the first yard site because if you fasten the first yard side you'll have to fast for the rest of your life some happy I took his advice I purposely didn't fast on the first yard side and then I fasted every single yard side until this past yard site or maybe two yards I don't remember what I did two years ago because I realized that if I fast I won't be able to prepare and we won't be able to give a good cheer so I was happy the company told me not that I figured it would be a big excuse for my mother if I give a I'll be more with it and not in a fasting state but if anybody wants to fast even years later you could just pick it up and still be a source for the nashama and it's a day of a bad muzzle and all the the reasons given by showing him and and whatever they still apply even if you never fasted it's parents yeah yeah it's the same thing it's bad Mazel keyboard avoid all the reasons apply to her mother like uh what is it the kapara of the nashama you don't want your mother to have a compared not yours hey are you mothers in the Sharma kids are I think the reasons I don't think he makes it enough it's that this is not the sugya I'm just throwing it in there we're going faster you sit you people fast ing so we are familiar with son gidalia what is Sam ghidalia I think some people fast and some you die they're not really familiar with what happened we'll go through it quickly after the urban abayas as the king as the ruler of clay Israel the small amount of Jews that remained kit sir somebody came along and he wanted to rule and he killed gedalia and the Jews were nervous that put this guy in and now we went and we killed him they were nervous that they're gonna he's gonna take revenge on them that they didn't they didn't they didn't watch the person they put in charge they went to the navi I think it was your meal and they asked him what they should do she said you want to know I'll tell you but you have to listen to what the Nouveau is you have to promise to say yeah well listen no matter what you'll listen it took him 10 days to get back to them because the Nouveau didn't come for 10 days and then told him that they are going to want to go to mitraim they shouldn't go to the Midstream if they go to them it's time they're going to die so he told him that's an avoid so you know typical you know what do we do today I didn't mean it it wasn't like that it wasn't real it was really his talmud I was trying to be a novice excuses they already had their luggage packed they're gonna try they went to Miss Ryan and they all died so therefore we consider the death of gedalia the end of the whole situation they could have rebuilt klystro technically speaking if they would have listened to Nineveh and they didn't so therefore we have time gedalia some people even say that he died on Rosh Hashanah but it's Roshana so they pushed it off for three days okay she's saying this loaf of bread should be like the day that gedalia died I'm going to go into that for a second later because it's actually a day of fasting so he didn't add anything to the bread it's in my bread should be awesome to me like the day that the whole cries real fast okay like the day that I saw your shalayim it's horrible the day they have to fast says so here's a little bit of a chart I did here's the lavaya the yard side is in step two before the levia a year before that nothing happened it was just a regular Day Champagne Bays it was a terrible sad day gimmel hit him fast touch and pay dollar it all the way in step four he wakes up he says I want to fast I want my loaf of bread he's standing on the yard side okay that day in the calendar on on a Sunday on the first day of a Nissan he says okay this loaf of bread should be exactly like in step two step two I fasted let me mail I want my breath to be like step two you see I put a little box there that's small little box under the two is because it's not something that he he he didn't eat that day he made a nether he was so sad he said I'm making another that today the death of his father he's not eating and the Mayla untouched and paid dollar hood on step four he doesn't have to Fossil he says this loaf of bread should be like the nether of issu that it did with my mouth and doesn't pay base on the first day of Nissan is standing on the yard side and step four is the same day of his father's death these other days in step three in step three and a half step three point seven all these years in between the death of his father and the day he's standing here today then on that yard side he ate and he first and he did a big ticket and Troll and he ate with everybody and there's no fasting foreign works so you see from here that when he makes a net there he's going backwards to step two he skips everything in between he doesn't say what it is today today it's more differently no he's he's referring obviously he's referring to a time of visitor that's what I have to say right Ari when a guy says something he means something his meaning is Sir he's trying to do bring out his so he's not very good at explaining it of us he's trying to create is Sir you want to say hello is hello is whatever you want no the love of bread the love of bread like his answer then yeah the lava bread maybe maybe all the food maybe all this food today I don't know if it makes enough Camino one thing he looks at this thing or the whole day I don't know right that's why I said it's I think I think he's talking about a loaf of bread I think huh yeah he says he's talking about this specific thing now Tyson just points out maybe he's talking about okay so what's the answer that's nothing there's no way in the world that the guy meant step one I just put option pay out step one for Tyson's question there's no way the guy in touch and pay dollar is talking about step one except what is that it was insignificant there's no it meant nothing to him then so obviously he's talking about the year of his father's death okay it's like this there's a net there on every single day of the every year there was a Nether on the yard side so Mayla again the same kind of answer you don't have a ride from here there is a shmuel we're not making this up the talmud of who said that his revi shmuel said that it only works when the Nether on every single year from the day that his father died oh so now I understand it's not his mattress mikara he's not going backwards skipping over years that our mother every year was all sir so therefore we have no right from here if it's huh oh yeah gotta change the text okay not now all those are awesome you're right great should we do it now no we don't have time here you see now all of a sudden the commercials before it's messy if he says this loaf of bread should be like the khalo that every woman takes on Earth Shabbos and she makes kala and she gives it to the coin what is that it's a truma okay [Music] like Aaron stroma meaning if you have produce you give usually two percent of the coin motor why why is a motor it's not a good nether why is it not a good nether because it's Dover awesome with the guy's mouth no because it's within that's how to explain it's within the product the truma is within my produce I have a pile of produce the truma somewhere I'm just saying it's these two over here and I take them out the how also it's within my dough I'm just separating that part of the dough but it's in there this already was created when I made my dough so it's a Dover also not a Dover a mother and therefore it's not a nether motor is and because we can make any vehicle we want and we're gonna make another Duke soon ha it doesn't say before us ha I can infer from here yet awesome [Music] the what what's left me toy though are the 40 lobes a person brings a carbon gives thanks Hashem you save from uh This what I like like today we do a a gomo in those days they would bring a carbon with 40 loaves of bread four loads of bread you have to you can't eat it yourself so you must invite all your friends they explain it's a party for your friends great so he has 40 loaves of bread and he removes the truma he has to get from there's four types 40 logs divide into four four types of bread some are matzah some are hummus some are Ricky Kim some like this they're they're cooked in oil not okay four types from every type there's ten so from every 10 he takes one and he gets to the coin [Music] awesome tomorrow sponsored as his host to continue being able to support Toyota's Rebellion is asking Mario like this when do you typically take the truma of the lechem you usually take the truma it's not so maduric my picture I couldn't find the picture that has like four so there's five in there but just you know what pretend there's four Breads in there okay it's just lamb Kasha so you have the 40 breads over there [Music] he does Rico the coin doesn't Rico on on the carbon tiger and then the Cayenne you go and take four Breads and give the communicated when does that step three typically happen step three typically happens in step three after zarika now it could technically happen before zrico but there's no use for it because the coin could only get to eat it after this Rico so why should a person waste his time we're going to get into that soon but 99 of the time after this recall occurs and you have the breast in front of you you take four and give to the client uh and you see the meat curry comatose you're going backwards why because you're saying that if he says I want my loaf of bread to be like this truma of it's a good nether it's author but when does he do it he does it after this Rico which is mutter the coin can read it then so obviously he's not talking about in the time that it's motor he's going to step one when it's Usher let's go backwards so you see that person goes backwards in his net there says again also your whole you inferred something wrong not true what you infer as not we said there's two things that are motor that are not a good nether Hollow and truma and you want the verb but truma of of is a good nether no what you can infer from it is that truma from Truman salishka is a good truma remember everybody gives a half a shekel and three times a year they take from this half a shotgun they put in the box and that's how they buy the curve buttons for them as bad if somebody went from that box and and or you said my love of bread should be like that back so like the money in the pile that's money that's awesome through and through and it's money that was another people said okay let's have a shackle should be for the base of English it's a nether I did it with my mouth and that money is always awesome so that's what it means if somebody's mattress his loaf of bread to that pile of money it becomes awesome not if somebody takes his lover bread and is matvisit to the breads of a tiger doesn't mention to either so now I could I could put anything I want in there however so you're admitting to me that if a person is mattress he takes his loaf of bread and says my lover bread should be like the tiger bread mutter it's not a good nether so it's not a good night there why in the world did I only give you two examples I gave you an example of something that's smoother it's not a good nether Hollow and truma on fruit I could also say truma what did I say I should put a third thing in the list the same category it's not a good nether if I take my my love of bread and say it should be like one of these three things like khala truma and truma of it's not a good nether listening take a look very simple you should just know that the lakhim of the title is like chuma it's the same category that's the I don't have to say though and that whole child all the trumas in my it's all the same thing it's something that goes to the car hey boys it's possible like we said to start off with when do you give the truma on the computer typically you're right typically speaking you give it after zuriko but since it's possible to do it before zrica I could do it over here in Step One before I even have breads before I bake the breads I take the tumor off the dough so my Melo I took off the bread militia when it's it's still it's still Brett so again I'm not because music is dumb before this week what if you baked instead of 40 breads he baked four one bread for each type you took ten pieces of dough you made them one made one bread the best way to do it is to make 40 breads you only made four one from each type of truma so how does he take the truma exactly let's say he takes one bread from all of it was you can't take one out of 40 out of the four in other words each pile of dough you have four piles of dough one for each type of bread you have to take truma from each pile from each though so now you have and you're gonna grab a piece of dough or no we're talking about now that it's it's in the dough stage hold on yeah oh how did it become bread hold on um okay yes talk about bread let's go back he's right not him is right he baked the bread and but he breaked it in four breads four breads instead of 40. so these guys you have to do 40 Le Mitzvah that's the best way to do it but how did he take Truman out of it let's say it takes one bread for all four but not enough one bread for all types you have to take from each time unless they took one slice from each one of the four breads you can't take a slice you have to have a whole bread Daddy he took the khala when it was still though interesting that the Rand says over here that he he made a shape of ten khalas times four he has 40 cows and from each ten he took one at in the beginning I didn't understand so well why why can't he just have the amount of dough for 10 Halas and take a part of the dough no maybe because it's not doesn't fit into the word it has to be one whole one so you make ten pieces of dough you take one you grab one from there MMA law you see that you're able to take challah from the taida before this recall a mill that's maybe that's what it's talking about says should we go right there a little bit let's go live let's go fighter how much time do we have huh but it goes It goes deep in let me get that noise let's see how much we do now what is bukhar is a firstborn is it a double hand another does it happen with your mouth or it's born that's the simple thing but believe it or not there's a we're going to entertain the possibility that since there's a Mitzvah to say this is you're right it's born what are you supposed to say with your mouth so perhaps it's over another it happens with your mouth so if a person takes his love of President says it should be like my first born animal reactivity says it's a good nether review the matter it's not a good enough if this is referring to before they checked this heart and became able to eat my time at the mandashari now do you want to understand that govern another he said it with his mouth he said that this should be a Bahar so if he said this should be a Bahar why is it mother Milan is dumb him my time is Sir and if it's afterwards why is it considered a good net there it's already multiply to eat and alive he has two pieces of meat this is this piece of meat or this loaf of bread should be like this piece of meat is a part we didn't say anything this should be like this foreign [Music]