Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 10 by R’ Eli Stefansky

go good morning Rob boys was Mordechai it's unbelievable to be back but it's more unbelievable to be in London and in Manchester it was AI it was a trip of a lifetime I went here in one one sentence I went to the doylem and instead I became a music and anybody that went there was muhuzuk we had over 20 people I think that flew in from Arizona it was an amazing amazing experience so uh here's a picture of wow what is this this is Manchester let me show you London London first this is the first one over 500 people showed up to the London see him it was an amazing amazing event unbelievable food unbelievable music great speeches the whole thing now Manchester even the guys from Manchester make fun of themselves it's the thing about managers they make fun of where they live and how terrible it is and it rains every day and now you're never going to want to come back here so I had expectations you know there's gonna be a piece of schnitzel on the plate and you know was unbelievable and I want to tell you something else the the caterer in London basically gave in Manchester gave it to them almost for free for cost came over to me and he made me say hello to his wife they told me that they had like a 15 16 year old who for two years already has never gone to sleep without finishing the Duff he's and and basically decided just to give it almost at cost like less than call much less than costs like pennies so it's unbelievable a guy made up a the guy was in the hospital he was dying from Corona or something he made up a million about mdy it was a beautiful song by the way not when they played your song in both all the kids know it it's a whole thing in London anyway so no I I felt I got to meet leiby's father there I met him many many times but I got to meet him and the first five guys that ever had a khaburra together leiby's father always told me oh there's five guys that we do and I said yes send me a picture and I'll believe you you never sent a picture but I saw them 84 year old this Mama's like hush of it guys the beers the whole thing is unbelievable huh here a boy's eye as I came this is in London a guy has this on his car only for mdy and he actually gave me an original also that screen is not working obviously maybe you can help him out this is your nephew you know the funny thing is he didn't put it on his car he puts it on his wife's car he's like so it's just this is what they gave me from the city I don't know what it means exactly just take it yeah okay oh so a couple just to tell you what's going on there a guy wrote me a beautiful beautiful email which I can't read get really Emmanuel on one of the beautiful just to describe the whole evening but a lot a lot of private details about people and who I shook hands with so I'm not going to read that one but here's a whole book with over a hundred letters that the guys in London put together they got a hundred letters huh right now at the end of share stick around for six hours so it was just an amazing amazing uh thing I want to tell you this I would read a couple I have 150 emails that I showed him also somebody chapsico and he flew in all the way special just for Manchester a bunch of people flew in just the matches there David bediel Silverstone um who else shop say coin Okay gevaldik so I have to catch up on emails and I'm only going to read a few of the 150 that I haven't read I read them all but I didn't here's a very nice one I got last night my name is Zaman lovi last summer I was on my way to Israel with my parents connecting flight in Poland where I met Avi kamianski he had missed his flight the kisser he saw Avi saw that he has a bike for high briefcase he said that he himself does bike he asked me if he's a if this guy that's writing the email as a writer I said no I'm a volunteer the last few years I wanted to be a writer but I didn't get to raise five thousand dollars I didn't expect this to happen Avi told me that he's not going to ride this year and he's anyways giving five thousand dollars for bike so give it on my page but for this I have to give something back I start to wonder what can I give him back he introduced me to mdy why how amazing it is and how it works so here's the deal I have to finish Mr super still the end of the holy of vomis I was hard for me to give an answer at the airport he gave me his business card with his private number and said message me when you get home I got home I decided to start one Death at a time and I started start to watch it off every day then I messaged for Avi to the deal few minutes later if you know him this is him a few minutes later I see a credit on my page for five thousand dollars thank you so much to mdy and I've become introducing me to this amazing share changed my day obviously so I'm becoming honest he's going out there paying people five thousand dollars to join the share here he is here's a picture of the guy doing bike now I just want to say this real quickly just want to make sure this is from mayor Planko you're right just want to make sure that you're aware that Joshua Burke was from Montreal donated by the new system I'm saying this because it's a new system in place for Canadians because you know the English people have problems donating to us Canadians tax receipt 2600 Canadian dollars converted is one thousand nine hundred twenty five thousand sponsor 55 guitars Joshua Berkowitz for that sponsorship anybody in Canada Canal donate ask Mary Blanco do we have time you know what I'll say this real quickly W Cohen from in the mirror gateshead England he says between Chavez Roshan and Kipper he's in Chabad and Tel Aviv he led a davine and he wanted to go to show to learn the daf but the show was locked listen to this it's Friday night midnight 12 o'clock at night without a gemara you remember that he's once in a shoe in South Tel Aviv which was 40 minute walk so I walked to find the gemara 40 minutes okay he gets there he went upstairs with some edges he sat down to learn and guess what happens the second you sit down to learn the lights went off so it's 1am no lights I took the gamara the stender went out into the street and stood on the streetlight and started learning a few minutes later a bunch of people were coming back from a bar passed and one of them came over to me and said can I tell you something I came from from family I used to be in Shiva I used to learn Tire every day I left everything and you give me Chris look I want to come back I set him up with the guys in Yeshiva and he said he'd come and learn every day with him at 9 00 a.m David Cohen the mirror Jason is worth reading no I have another hundred of those with boys the coilo sponsored it's funny the first time I read it I didn't choke up nope how good it was the the sponsor hey Google you could see I was I was I was emotional this kid this 40 year old kid wrote a speech Every Word by himself I should play for you unbelievable speech yeah yeah right now Rabbi you'll hear the speech Jeff Rosner it was a leafman maybe leafman Jeff Verizon is including my recent young Tevis cars so in his car if I forgot to say yes and you have to say the the Allah because otherwise it's a major problem biosity of our family today is sponsored by TV King and loving memory of Daniel five-ish Danny King's 11th yard side last two words on tests on the base foreign and that means that if that she dies you don't have to bring another one another is a general thing I am going to bring a sheep and we said which one is more Russian if you weren't at the sheer because I know some of you didn't listen to that cheer I know exactly who you are you think that array or nether is much more crushive because you never you never get out of it because it's a general thing I'll always bring a carbon but Zoo if this carbon dies you don't have to do as you think that it's not not as harsh if the rounds is the opposite because you say zoo and you're putting yourself in the pla in in a spot in a tough spot so to speak you gotta you have to do it right now that's more caution than just the generalization I forgot to say to my guest what's your name from Maryland Rockville Maryland also what's your name Daniel from Paris wow what's your name so there's always were you at the Staten Island see him okay cool but you will be the base Hashem and you'll get David who else what's your name okay now we go right there oh so we have a problem the mission says it's different between the Nether and a Dava and it seems like maybe Huda says is always good to do and remember says bad to do never do another so but it doesn't go without remission the mission says good to do and another is not good but review either mayor Buda once says it's good one says it's bad but it's always good always bad Nether and another and our mission differentiates what do we do I feel today so yesterday let me show you this heart yesterday we had this that basically see three quarters of the options are good so yesterday you said it goes according to the mayor they're going to review the Netherlands love is always good according to her mayor even a nether did I do it wrong hmm should be the opposite and the double should be green okay nadava is good another not good we got to change it around should we do it now yeah why not we have plenty of time Levy you jealous next time just come with us and finished yeah here we go we're good what are you here we go all right I I did it before just pretending that I had to fix it okay so now we have one thing remember says it's not good but he didn't mean to double demand nether in the double when he says this one right here right now it's okay now we're switching it around we're gonna go this way that almost everything is no good because remember says everything is no good another review is also going to agree that a nether is no good the only time that it's good is anadava and that fits right into our mishna review the only said when is it good to donate something in a Davao not a nether um says both are good another it says neither or Nether Nether is good look at the chart says review that says the nether is no good X it says it's better the best thing is of course if you're not going to pay it it's a terrible thing deposit says but if you're going to pay it neither Makai I have to read you this email this is Sean reveley I took out his name even though he didn't ask me to love you share but I have to say that sometimes sensitivity should be considered when saying something that people might get hurt from a rich person will never have issues with paying their pledges but there are those who just can't and are paid by it to hear that's like eating hazard really not something someone wants to learn and then here's your Musser and gets turned off by what you say and decides not to learn the daf please don't take an insult exactly don't pledge it's not me I'm reading a gamara it's a posse in the tire at Sadiq it's not it's not muscle I'm saying over Apostle he's upset at me for saying apostle we're not saying rich not rich if you don't have the money then don't pledge all I'm saying is don't pledge and don't pay if you're gonna pledge pay if you're gonna pledge and not pay if you feel like you have to be one part of the show and one of the heaven Everest is a thousand dollars a thousand dollars you throw out a thousand dollars and you don't have the money don't do it I feel bad for you that you can't do it but don't do it it's a possum I don't know what he wants another guy wrote to me an email I got two of these yesterday yesterday guy writes to me why did I say I'm making fun of her see them because I said the gemara says that in order to to be matinee there you have to learn Gomorrah not mishnais I said if you learn because I see this all day you can't be about the nether you're making fun of Casitas the gamara says it the gamara says you can if you learn much nice all day I think Mr nice is nice all day yeah is not good enough the point is you have to learn more you have to know how long you have to know how to go back and forth because Jesus doesn't teach you that okay fine got insulted I'm reading a murderer but I don't know what he wants you can't win yeah I did I did I did I said they're Anonymous you know another thing Chicago my show they I said this message 10 times okay Jonathan don't make fun in Chicago the guy gets up and he the Robbie first came to our soul and he's doing a thing for the Chicago has a fund so so one guy goes five Dr Friedman five thousand dollars Dr Friedman's Brother David five thousand dollars and the guy's walking around the show so he goes over to this guy the guy every every day he takes twenty dollar bill puts him to pushka like this and nobody's looking everybody knows it's him he puts the 20. so the guy goes up with him he's swoosing it for a minute he walks to the front he goes five thousand dollars Anonymous the soldiers saw at the whole place so me the little uh I raise my hand I go 500 Anonymous and the whole place left and it was a it was known as the No No in Chicago you never bought anything because he couldn't no no thirty thousand dollars no no okay I did you were there you were there when I did myself yeah okay fine and deal guys going 20 000 fifty fifty thousand dollars and fifty thousand dollars so it said they gave me Alia what am I gonna do the whole place laughed okay this guy's laughing as if you never had the joke before this is saying I said this three times already yeah yeah okay fine nothing tomorrow by the way the sugar says like this the chocolate says an hour days one should not pledge anything anything no stalker no even I brought the ramen the other day that if a person is Zillow he has a freshing problem he drinks a lot he eats a lot of meat so Robin says you should make another to help yourself out of it says don't do it even for me this even for for that kind of don't do it so the remote just says so why do people pledge and show hey it's okay we're breaking some rules sometimes it's for the toyuk and then he says also that in the shoulder there's a guy that's going to call you and there's a secretary she's going to remind you so you most likely are not going to break your nether and then there's a little you mean because of the remark because of the remark that it gives duck in your head I hear the Monmouth says that if a person has a sick kid leilano says I'll give a sellout give money if you heal my son I'm gonna give it to the doctor that's okay he says kisses is something that argue with him but it's not so cautious great so another thing that I was thinking about when the guy wrote me that email that why are you saying it you're hurting me or people that can't afford it so the whole time uh he said that as tell me them to we have only a few minutes for the okay you send out as Tami them foreign so one time there's a lot of stories about it so one time I came back he says listen nobody nobody's accepting well tell them not to speak it doesn't doesn't make sense forever told him listen if there's one person out there that when he speaks lushan horror he feels a little bad even though he speaks lashinara then we accomplished so there's one person out there that pledges in Deal ninety thousand dollars and then he doesn't pay but he feels bad when he does it then we accomplished it okay right there why the guy in deal the guy pledged uh 70 million dollars in one year because he made a 700 million dollar deal or some say even more and as Rabbi said you have to pay within Charles he paid it off I told the Murad I said send them send some guy over there for for mdy no he paid it off already tells me okay Mario thank you so you have to say the problem is that it says that neither if you look at the chart again let's go back to the Chart where are we here we're all lost there in the chart it says that according to review the no they're not over it says nether is a good thing neither you should pledge um okay so you have to put in that it works with this chart the word is but we have to understand the logic imagine why should a person not pledge because you might forget it'll be over sorry I shouldn't say Let me let me skip the next line insulting those guys might be might be Oliver is but the same thing when you're doing the dove or you might come to forget what's the difference we had this yesterday a person should delay making his animal Cottage until the last very moment right before he enters the base I make Dash then immediately he leans on top of it yesterday we said it's okay so reviewed also I guess whatever it is but it's the same idea as the gamara so you delayed to the last second you're not going to forget once you're in the basement with a carbon and it has only if it's a five minutes from the time you walk into the door until the check that we're not concerned that's great if you bring your carbon you can check it immediately you know what the bottom line is he ran to the show and he paid his pledge and my pledge and then he told me yeah yeah whatever you pay me back but he aren't on immediately you're gonna pledge paid immediately so if a person is a nausea it's a 30 day thing a lot of things go wrong within 30 days if it's a two five minute thing okay great but you became another during the nazirios you're gonna break it you're gonna you're gonna you're gonna become Tommy so a lot of things go wrong reviews listen to this where they yearned to bring a carbohatas now how do you bring a carbohatas if a person is by mistake or many other are very Supreme Court happens they had a big dilemma they were never shop is my mistake somebody who's accosted and careful of every move that he makes is not Mikhail Chavez by mistake but he wants to bring a carbohatos it's a special thing just like you bring a carbon oil you bring a carbon you bring in the Dava I want to bring it I want to feel what it is it has each one has its own its own special thing is say 25 mices you all know the stories that this one and that one and the almost a trade in the last second the the the the the wax fell off the hit the kids heard all the stories somebody said that the the gra he touched Mooks if I mistake and he fainted because he says it's a lie never happened he didn't touch mostly by mistake oh sorry his animal didn't eat something food that didn't have nicer foreign here's the list this is what you have to bring if you are another you volunteer to be another you're not going to drink wine when the term is over you bring up he could do all year long we could do anytime he wants is only specific if you become a Nazir on purpose you bring it this is unbelievable those uh uh rabbit told us he says I'm not like you you want to eat an apple see the Apple no and then you make a broccoli I want to make a bracha so I mean I eat an apple you know what's coming up so my rep is bigger than your ever why because my red uh when he wants to make he wants to make a broadcast he eats he he drinks water so my rep is even bigger even when he's not thirsty he drinks water in order to make a broadcast he says you're not supposed to make a broccoli if you're not thirsty okay fine no you're stuck in uh aloha you know a guy came over to me in England he goes you saw a ghost thing so I noticed every single word that he said in England it's true so afterwards okay huh no yeah yeah is it's always yeah they won't be a taco yeah Dr Ran that if a person doesn't swim he wants to become he won't have the color that explains why beautiful yes I read the run on the plane it's a different type of limit it's like in and out of consciousness uh what should be okay yeah 13. so so Dr Ran that it won't be at that call the whole problem is that you're gonna maybe tell me no if you do this will help you that you will be near shall um the famous thing they asked Gary we talk about all the time what would you do if you are you find that you're a guy someone comes over if your mother's a guy he says I'll bring your oil could do that and then I'll become from to bring a car um in other words the third is saying by you saying that you're not drinking wine you are a sinner it's interesting if a person is there what should you do what do you do personally mistake happens a lot turn on the lights I don't know what what do you do I will if I tell you you have to be my climate yeah if I tell you you have to give the money time d y the amount that a carbon cost Bismarck how much does the carbon cost a couple hundred dollars all of you I want to see the money coming in right now and don't delay don't say to yourself I will do it right before Shabbos everybody put in I'm gonna see the accounts oh nobody had a tacola just in case there's a guy out there that's not calling you know the remote says your favorite line in the time of the way something though she had to bring a sheep and a sheep cost four hundred dollars today whatever it costs so today what you should be posted from 400 it doesn't mean that you don't have to bring a carbon when the machine comes you have to double pay but right now forty dollars tell me why because right now 100 times do the math I don't know I went to panovich 400 times 100 I don't know you're laughing pay it up right now oh my God by the way I know that we have no time this is I'm not joking because we have this remark Mitzvahs we'll get there we'll get there don't worry this remark Mitzvahs this people I have a lot of stuff I'm much more relaxed I'm telling you good stuff I did not sleep no okay you don't want to hear you don't hear you know you don't want anybody no can I mean solo no seriously there's a haburus Mitzvahs for racist to do all the misses in the tire because this is it's all everything's important exactly what you didn't want to hear it don't listen oh my God just pay off the pledge remember from yesterday said that there's a royal a big sad that saw his reflection and he cut off his hair he says that's the only person I'll touch his carbon any other nozzle or not in other words I hold becoming another is Usher if you're a Savage okay they're all the same thing it's a bad thing to become another salary like we said River Lord foreign but if a person for no reason says I'm not gonna benefit from his wine for no reason Russia who gave us wine to enjoy and you don't you're you're bad um if a person says I'm gonna fast I'm not gonna eat anything foreign there was an individual actually somebody in uh London just came over to me when I was there he says plainly the individual he's a he's a very jealous person don't worry about him he's doing it out of kinna it makes no sense they do the guy was right there for me for a long time why because I have to show you this uh Mrs charm sister charm says I read it one way I understood it this way the guys in the kailan still this way every rub I showed it to him so this guy in London understood differently and he wrote hand written letters against me and uh and he also says this Russia that he's gonna put a stand in front of her behind kanevsky's house to cover the watches how could you talk like that it's not everybody okay never another collector okay already says if you don't need it how do you realize you don't need it stay away from it the whole mushroom if a person needs it necessary amazing time she is says a guy likes wine that's what I said I have no idea what he says he learned it differently but the symptoms if you read it simple for whatever reason it's since he he needs it it will perish me Mano if he stays away read it any way you want I'm giving it to you like that that's how I understand it I'm about a bus I understood it like that you don't like it write letters to everybody in London do whatever you need to do anyway what no yeah yeah yeah I'll tell you 99 of the time when somebody's right of you it's out of jealousy you should just know jealousy jealousy that's what it is and you cannot you can't you can't fight jealousy a jealous person the guys the guy is willing to risk Asylum Abba he's willing to keep a guy away from Torah tell him I don't learn in this year don't learn Tire he's in Russia he understood the message do to a person all right next from a regular nozzler but this this isn't a guy that became Tommy maybe that's why he's overhead no it goes in both not in economy the Apostle is saying it when he's a heighter when he became Tommy but in fact it's also for regular nozzle as well now we have very easy sugar by side says the helium sponsored I don't know yes billiard will tell you kindness so we're talking about now Switching gears now the field we're done with the others also came with us we're into kinoyim we're into uh uh nicknames nicknames that's it the word in the Torah is carbon this I'm also on this loaf of bread like a carbon but instead of saying carbon he said the nickname of carbon which is coinum Heimer kainam or kaina or kainas that's a magnificent now the top on the green says this is a what it's a nickname nozik now instead of saying Nazir he says nozik a Jose the the third one in this list is the nickname of a nickname he says instead of nazik or he says instead of that's the gumar is going to talk about if he says instead of the word he says foreign we have three minutes to do a little bit of hair and all of them in base no problem we already had this what is a nickname is it a guy and we explain to the random that the Run explains the what's Lush not just English because if it's English why in the world would the Mish to tell us the mission is telling us English and and the Russian and this that's not the job of the mishnah the mission is telling us words in Hebrew in Russian that the gaim changed into their lotion it's Allah which is remember it's uh messed up what 0 .00 oh Jethro is that um I don't know maybe that's the way to say it Hanukkah okay fine bite there uh so it's a lot in um it's a made-up language made up language they have a lot of words they say between each other so nobody can understand what's going on I don't like it very much because my son-in-law sits at my table and starts saying to my to my my daughter tin and Zha I'm like what and we already figured out the loudest awesome okay fine foreign a person will drop dead die between the two words which is very nice he says maybe it means that I understand a little bit better but the passion says that I'll die middle he'll say hashem's name and he won't even continue so yeah so before you send me that email don't say that you know how to say oh my God I'm just saying over gamara said don't be upset at me I'm just saying oh you might say don't say hashem's name and even for carbon listen to this God bless you God bless you allowed to say and I'm saying it in cheer because you're also like saying and cheer to teach but that's already Abraham so it's not in vain it's not Hashem you're giving a person a brother but do you have to say bless you God because you might drop dead between the thing okay fine there's a whole huh that's why I said there's another chance verb shot is they'll die that's it there's a whole need and a person says it happens all the time person says hi I'm holding him in in my chakras you don't say it what do you do do you continue the pasta finish the past like but you're making a bigger half sick between Gula and Fila different things like that Adam yeah we're holding that base already oh no but the time Hashem first he's supposed to say first the word not the word and finish listen to this oh we're already past time but we'll finish in a minute um a person who's trying to do good he used hashem's name would together the carbon um don't say hashem's name first and then the word carbon it's the word carbon then Hashem the word god which ramasha Feinstein says don't write me emails about somebody wrote me it's not true God doesn't mean Hashem talks about g-o-d you're not supposed to say it let me get that noise so here in red is it's the nickname of a nickname the the icker is the nickname is herek the nickname of the nickname the nickname of the nickname is harakim because he holds that it's the guy he made it up so therefore I'm I'm making up it's a sling of a slang what's the difference slang or slang of a slang it's all the same but the Mandola says that you like to say the nickname of a nickname made up a specific language do not make up words on that made up language no everybody could agree that a quinoa your nickname is something that the game uses and the nickname of the nickname the guyim also used karakim that's normal for them we're so sorry um it's not true they don't use that and another shot is there the three because of the two the kingdom of the Kingdom will be so sorry Lord okay let's go back here so if you look at the chart it's very easy it starts off as carbon that's the main word the next word is kainam and then the word of the the nickname of the nickname is next chart the main words is the name of a person I forgot to look it up if he's how many times in shots him is the last one on the first one okay in other words okay what about if it sounds similar to menaskina or whatever similar the shyness sounds like cinnamon is he talking about uh another idea he's talking about cinnamon Karma all right he uses the lotion of Kino Kino means a coup sounds like it's like Academy swell Berg is the name of a person hello huh yeah here I have this nothing is fine and here's us I change it and says not the name of a person but to use that lotion foreign that is a good kinoy have a wonderful day bye side what time Mr Chavez what time is Mata Chavez 7 45. exactly