Daf Yomi Nazir Daf 29 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Gary ready okay good morning [Music] Javi really take your riddle Gary what's with the screen okay all right where's the button um we have a lot of hush for guests today where are our guests today anyone no question but guess um you're not a guy Steve Ice I saw your bill works now don't try and don't try and trick me I saw you um I feel I don't know why but today feels like I haven't been in the seat in a while I don't know what Mike's two of them a little rusty enough on you good wow who's running the show me or you here [Music] um I'm glad you're in the guest seat and welcome but remember do not come into my space okay it's bad enough we have someone chuckling into my space the whole time everyone wants to see 100 of me it's about me here okay so please Slide Away today we have a very Avi that match today we have a very special event but before we get there I have one email that really hit home it felt so personal when I read it I couldn't pass it up any more praise just the tracks from how awesome you are is warm by the way I'll be let's be on the side um I know you get all these letters saying how much the doff changes people's lives but this one is really so true I mean it sounds like it couldn't be true but it's 100 Ms it hasn't been easy being married to my husband he's gone through a lot of phases in his life speaking of marriages it reminds me of a joke did I say this joke yet by whatever for the first the new guys will be the first time of the year marriage is like a workshop the husband works and the wife shops right thank you nothing it's not easy where was I oh yeah the email okay my husband was a bit of a child prodigy the rumor is that he gave himself a bris at eight days ago he walked at six months old but he also had to shickle add his parents moved him around a lot and he had a rough childhood fitting in he'd get into street fights thank God he could beat six gallium at once he even got caught up with the mafia once I hope things would calm down a bit once we got married and settle down but things kept spiraling out of control he was constantly changing jobs electrician he worked in me he owned a sleep lab he was a caterer it got so bad he was always chasing the big dream borrowing money from friends family and even plain strangers he was always pushing the envelope snowboarding Swimming with Sharks flying private planes wrestling with lions he even woke up one day and moved our entire family across the world moving from 25 000 square feet by the way that was on MTV Cribs in case you haven't seen that one and moved us to a 1500 square foot house you know once I show this guy give a sheer and there's something on his face and I do this all the time um but then he started it off and everything changed he was never so focused committing to a day after day it was almost like he was compulsive he stopped exercising he stopped playing basketball he was almost as good as Rob kardenski the only rugby was actually good at basketball but the dove changed his whole life he learned to open his heart he even learned to love our four-legged integral and now everything he says is like or loser been yaakov shots cotton alert robots is kavanaki everything he says we follow him 102 times I counted it says his name he reviewed Bubba basser 20 times but he still doesn't remember anything he really doesn't have a great memory they say he's a real bomb office now nine months after you meet him people visit him before the Hotel he Graces the cover of every major Jewish magazine they create devices for Yeshiva Boys that only show videos of him for all those thinking I'm only tooting a thorn it's a hundred percent Le shame shamayan it's all the makhazek the Islam that's all it is but above all he stayed incredibly humble you have no idea what it's like to be married to him and it's not just him okay there buddy it's not and it's not just him who's changed the world he's even got my father a world-renowned ENT surgeon into mdy okay are you ready hang on a second uh hang on all right there we go are you ready no there we go good morning Rob boys one more time louder good morning Rob boys a movie of it that's a good one so um thank you so much to mdy in the doth for really changing my life and my husband fagi s um I told you we have a very special event today but it looks like the up sharing boy is here so uh we have a quick upshare beforehand you ready yeah do you want some candy okay it's okay it's okay it's okay you ready to get your hair cut should we cut your hair what Jimmy you ready shimmy okay hold on one second don't worry should be ready yeah your mother would kill me otherwise do you want some candy by the way one second we don't do Olive face should we should be we don't we don't do alafazio by the way let me tell you what we do for sure you know we do you know we do for upshants here ready you're gonna help me good morning Rabbi Sai you got it you ready one more time you want some candy good morning rabbi all right it's okay it's okay it's okay you want some candy yeah here we go take that home a little overwhelmed it's okay he's just a fansky okay anyways I told you we have a very special event Tomar you want to uh introduce us please good morning everyone we'd like to introduce you to uh mdy Eden led by our esteemed Rob gone tadiq humble Gary ready so uh you know anybody could be a shot get it right all right it's so hard the question is who really knows mdy this is really the big question and we've had a tremendous has comma here let me just read this to you why is that working there all who support MD yiddin will Merit require great Torah and great wealth that's sort of kanyevsky you said that about uh mvya so you ready feel free to jump in and answer questions it's going to start a little easy and then we're gonna get progressively harder and I want to see who's the real my and mdy we ate here tonight you ready here we go it's a very uh hush of event here guaranteed to become better at personal husband father what's this about yeah here we go there you go screen out by the way here we go don't feel free this is a very easy one everyone should get this in the room if you're an mdy8 yeah more specifically yeah very good all right very good very good all right how about this one all right good very good okay how about this yeah it's Jared I'm saying the lizard only the lizard is the real one yeah they said that all right who's that was it but this one this is a very famous One all right now I get a little bit harder a little bit harder all right good but where where Krueger very good very good okay how about this one yeah very good no but when or where we go very good very good okay I know this one the last one's gonna be a little tough let's see if we got this wow we're gonna I guess we're gonna lose some more guys in uh in gateshead on this one anyone no one knows what this is very good very good hobby Factor really is the mdy unit of here by the way subscribe that by the way guys it's impressive your knowledge of the sheer very impressive by the way I know it's super late um but shabbos's office almost nothing and we'll catch up multi Shabbos uh we have a couple of sponsors our first sponsor is truma I love it so simple one word the lock in label book families because Torah is the best very good Paradigm Levine is sponsoring in honor of Rafal the barber between these guys they have over 5 000 guys that they sign up for this year no you can sell a strong and you can't bring me one guy to this year one Mordechai saposnik he has the highest volume of donations in case you didn't know in honor of the lesser-known heroes of this year Mandy Orbach I don't know if you know this but uh he gave up diamonds just to learn and call it see him there shop cycle and the rosh Colwell um Avi gargier she wouldn't be without you [Applause] Benny The Butcher the Seltzer boys not related to Malcolm yeah all right and uh we have a very very special sponsor now and I don't remember thank you whatever happened to that solo they used to sponsor all the time we have a brand new sponsor and I'm very excited about it k45 is sponsoring all of seder Nation it's a real bargain only five hundred thousand dollars but it's just a tiny part of our annual budget we have so many costs the video editors and staff the coffee artists like Yoshi safaris if we can only raise more money we could do more animations and really take things to the next level we're so late I know but I just have one very very important thing to finish with we lost a lot of people in your vomus and I really I think I owe the old woman apology and I really thought it was givalka stuff all the bye-byes and the Baldwin brothers but it really wasn't so nice and I want to apologize Avi no um Avi can you get up here please so come here get over here get over here guys get over here Batman Bobby don't be shy all right so this is uh this is also thematically in line with what we learned nuzzy yesterday and we learned about about a Paya yesterday about wearing a wig and I I learned if I have any guy at all if I have any it's probably because of my great hair you guys didn't notice this probably but I'm wearing a wig today which was done by Elisa Jacobs if you're looking for a great hair stylist for simcos I can't recommend her enough but to truly apologize to you guys really and from the bottom of my heart I shaved my head in solidarity with you guys and hopefully let me become an official baldman brother hopefully hopefully you guys apologize thank you [Applause] a trip to Turkey yeah it's coming have a wonderful day [Applause] I would take it with me oh wow oh what do we start Where Do We Begin [Music] boys you worked all year on this it was great it was great he came up with another way to literally stuck me unbelievable unbelievable the truth is Jonathan's of the opinion that you know we're dealing with a big black guy over here and I want to take this opportunity to to prove to the Islam that even though I might have ruach might I don't always use it and when necessary go go to the screen for a second when necessary I I couldn't voke it if I want but I will show you obviously Jonathan didn't tell me what's going on that's Pasha everybody knows that not only that Jonathan's wife didn't tell me so if I anticipated every joke that he said and in the right order including the up sharing kid what would you guys say magic so let me show you what I got here for dummies you guys ready Jonathan keep your keeper on how would I know that your people kept on falling Avi take your Ritalin [Laughter] my MD wired husband is now a gun email from my wife the up sharing boy huh how did I know that was amazing nope candy um Eden I'm a Ritz Spotsylvania A45 45 000 Safari tioshi Yoshi Avi get over here don't be shy k45 my great hair the Guyver what huh what it's not Rockets what is it and now who shaved his head right by his side that's all at the end the voice said Round of Applause [Applause] so don't say I don't anticipate I don't understand it's all it's all a novel when I don't use it and at certain times when necessary let me just show you this real quickly everybody said you're shocked huh listen it is his fourth time doing it I already know how his mind operates but in the order in the right let's do it again hold on let's show me the screen Jonathan keep your keep on Avi take your Ritalin in that order mdy husband up Sharon boy Candy Philadelphia sponsored by norms and strogan I I messed up the K in the a you're right maybe I don't have broken try this Avi get over here don't be shy my great hair and finally the final final thing okay just just want to put it out there look how it was sponsored by anonymous you know what let's just do this real quickly it's a 20-second thing it is it has to do with Tyra so I'm just it's one email phenomenal recruitment video for the new volume because we are starting another roomy draft sends his message from 12 000 feet here goes here I am 12 000 feet skiing think about it doing the dab and going skiing is very similar I'm sure you're wondering why the reason being you know what we don't have time for that I was going to show I will show tomorrow is shaving your entire head also oh where are we I'm in the wrong thing here we go sponsored Anonymous from Lakewood May supporting players strength and Nairobi talking the Messiah sponsored by truma and my sir laser [Music] Jay lazarius in honor of Arizona's birthday please fix that weak thing Igor Silverman and by Dr Mark Brooks in the honor of my son Natan on the occasion of his eighth birthday by Glenn black mazdov Tamir and Ariel Blumenthal on the occasion of their wedding today mazel tov uh who are our guest today your name Abby cloak your name from both northward wow the Northwest right yeah yeah who else was the what's your oh yeah yeah okay who else that's it okay evolved it um the art of the month is sponsored for completely reformed Ben Leia uh let's just go through these real quickly because you're just out of control it's hard to have broken this and control it all right we're all in my emotional the halogen mishna is sponsored I forgot already oh Mordecai surpassing music foreign [Music] again she said and he says you can't do that you're the wife he said yes there okay foreign a mother said that when she gave birth she was having a lot of problems during labor she said if she has a son she'll be mad at him that he should learn Torah could that work or not and the father was masking he saw that she was in tremendous sorrow so at the end of the day what happened in that story was that the father supported him in KOLO for a bunch of years and then he decided to go work and he came past the Shiloh if he's able to get out of it because at the end of the day he was macabo sort of on himself this Kabob because he learned in color but wasn't passing and since most people anyways learn called parents don't have the right to do that to their kid I just thought it was interesting a mother cannot be mother her son and make him another a father as a special Allah that he could take his son and make him another he cannot do it to his daughter only to the Son and the mother cannot do it I just want to show you these questions real quickly uh maybe is it too late yeah they're all the way here Shiloh is shaving your entire head if you're bald is it awesome the entire head not just where the pace are anybody the entire head is officer sir so the answer is according to everybody it's awesome the question is if it's directed The rabbana here's a here's a big Shiloh that you might not know is a mother is a mother is a father his own daughter and then also in what way is a 12 year old different than 11 year old in Allah [Music] okay fighter says the mishna [Music] so the father made him another and he decided on his own to take a haircut machine and give himself a haircut or his relatives decide to step in what do the relatives have to do with anything they have to do with everything they have the right to stop it so there's one step of saying I am not happy with being an azer how does it become another you are a Nazarene doesn't even know about it or his father tells him except upon yourself to the zeros but if he says I don't want to become an author that's enough what if he takes a haircut machine and gives himself a haircut is that better or worse than saying I don't want to be another it's much better it's he's taking action he's making a mice at the show he doesn't want to be another so the Craven have like the right to veto here it's very interesting the close cry uncles they have the right what do we find that in Allah he's not a nozzle your father decided I say he's not another um he set aside animals thank you he set aside and he was this is Thomas we know all these Allah has no way out of this why because the sun is no longer another so you can't bring akhatas on somebody that's not another says if he died and Islam also can come voluntarily so you bring them I'd like to show you the this chart that we had already just to remember it it should seep into our bones regular slumming you eat it for two days in a night but there's no bread that comes with it and the Israel the four leg goes to the Cayenne the xiaomi knows that we're discussing is eaten only for one day and a night and you do bring bread and Israel goes only to the Cayenne to this route so since there's no nuzzer anymore we take a little bit from the slum the regular Islam and we say there's no bread we take the humra of the charmination we say it's only eaten for one day and one night oh that the return of discuss so that's why it really shouldn't be in the list here so I don't know okay what right very good I but I think it's my I think it's like I'm not sure sorry he set aside money for his son that was saw some it was an undesignated money so we learned until now that even though there's money that's got us money hottest money should go to yamam but since there's other money there and we have a goes to the nadava I will show you this thing that I had in Rosh Hashanah from the what's in the name rabbit Nathan Farber from the five towns Northwood mayor you guys know him ah it's northward midday so he was very active in the beginning he got on and off I don't know where he's right now but over here he showed that there's I think 13 shy for us six in the davas if you look all the way in the left bottom corner it says time six so the six strifers like that is I don't know if that's the exact shape but uh it's wide on the top now on the bottom you can throw in your money in there and the six places in the place I mean this is where you could do that you and that money goes towards nadava when there's a low time in the Miss bayachi buy an oil with the money from those six drivers mice before Russia and there's others they could buy not taking Keenan all that stuff fine well for Russian however if you designate the money so this goes to this now we know what to do with this money yeah you should not benefit from the money however if you did benefit United foreign or 25 percent milgav ish the money that God was designated you could only eat it for one day and you don't bring bread like a regular slumen says a wife a mother cannot make her son a Nazir my time there are no questions you don't ask questions you just did so I want to show you this uh real quickly this is 30 lines of gemara in one chart the gemara says we learned that it's not such a Mitzvah because you're refraining from something because you broke who gave you but on the flip side as as the rush points out that it's a siagra precious it teaches you how to be careful and contain yourself and refrain from doing things so there is a sad Mitzvah here and the father wants to be hanukkah's son in that beautiful idea of refrain e says this whole list makes a lot of sense seven things nigamara says because Allah it doesn't need to make sense so if I tell you that this doesn't apply to his daughter I have no questions I don't need a deal gonna puzzle no daughter a mother can't do it this only applies to the zeros not to regularly that a relative could come in veto Allah that I'm allowed to shave the boy's head even though shaving your head is foreign that the fact that the coin takes his finger and puts it right through the neck of of the bird and he renders it a novella if it's not a real carbon and we're talking about a cotton here bringing it when it becomes Tommy so in eating an available so these seven things are recording says that I want to be my kind of my son of his son and you're going to eat in a Vela one of you kind of his son so why not your daughter you know for your daughter why not why not the wife so this whole list makes great sense let's see it inside foreign by the way I want to say yesterday I'll say today what I said it but I'll say it again there's 10 minutes nothing then the guy's gonna complain that we have more of the sunnis than the death today it's Emmas Jonathan he's still trying to figure out how I anticipated I really didn't get it from anybody not a single person it's all the same but okay fighter how did you do that it's not ours so keep to it keep to it tell us how you do it we'll tell you later we'll tell you later okay so you get the show The Real Thing This is the real deal right here I'll go about him oh there was a beautiful story and he asked for a particular dessert so the guy Brothers I said no no not that one the other one okay so he brought down dessert and the guy didn't touch it and so after the simply went over to him and said I understand you made the game of sugar you made him go back twice three times and then then you didn't need it he says no I want to be mikaimed the the kindness of the rivaled because you have a piece of cake but I wanted something that really I had an appetite for I only had an appetite for the for the one with the cherries took that put it in front of me and I refrained from eating it it's a music of refraining there's a very interesting tices over here on the and we have plenty of time with base if we don't have time we'll learn it how much is when you're not here that's why you're going crazy everybody else is going to get to the death don't worry about it so but you need to know the spices that's a question when a when a cotton eats navela business to say get away from it she makes a distinction he says for the positives but you don't have to teach them my various it's very interesting toys for us and then Tyson goes on to say and this reminded me a story we have plenty of time when I lived in Ramadan I was making Trouble on My River I said this myself once I was making trouble in the show and remember of pace of Knight in the Ezra's nation and there was a married guy there and he didn't like that I was you know chatting other kids he came over and he gave me a smack in the face it was a big mistake on his part because I ripped his brand new suit in half I ripped from the behind and I took his cat I smushed it through it out the window and then my father went over them after Seoul I go ah like the screen the whole show ran and included was everything they want they thought it was a terrorist attack fine after show's over my father says what happened he goes I smacked your kid he's making you smacked my kid yeah why'd you smack my kid because I have the sheet of so my father says so smack your own kid dude use your own cheat on your own he's not a mine you don't think Yoshi didn't use it on my kid that's what Tyson says over here from a kid but you you do have you do have okay fine next what's going on here what's all the moving so fine next tsunami so then the question is why can't his wife be Mazer his son if it's only hinook because a wife is her own son foreign [Music] if the husband is not there by the way I saw an amazing slaw yesterday I forgot to write down but a good thing I remembered as you know the whole argument in this generation the old generation is of the opinion that you should at least keep in Your Arsenal the idea of of hitting and nothing but be a little bit more tough today it's all love and time in instead of time out the whole thing so the Schloss says I don't want to say is the hands of the compassionate women they cooked their kids by being compassionate and not giving the proper not being stirred you have to use people sometimes business I understand why a father doesn't have a key of uh he cannot put the zeros on his daughter Elder response that says the Indian of you don't have to teach your daughter you don't have to teach her how to refrain from things Etc he's gonna hold that unbelievable okay it's possible I was just thinking that maybe when it comes to uh you want to set a personal example and this is going on before a wife don't tell your son not to smoke when you yourself smoke kind of thing okay [Music] when the father doesn't tell the son listen if you don't go to you to school uh you're gonna be on uh I'm being mad at you from eating chocolate I'm not gonna you can't eat the ice cream anymore another so you should have been kind of Mitzvah why is it only in the zeros according to reveal kind of makes sense because it doesn't have to make sense Allah 's gonna say life but I mean the daughter in the last thing evil of course the father can make a kid a nether series we said yesterday the word evil means you're framing from wine he can't go to levia that a relative has veto power why even though it doesn't make sense what a relative could say I don't want my nephew to do a Mitzvah and how to refrain himself where does what does a relative come in here because so if I listen to this episode embarrassing a kid you can't do so if he's embarrassed by his relatives so then he might answer your question what relatives your uncle's aunts maybe I don't know anything what what how far so for sure mother should be able to do that okay no she could of course she could be Mayfair Mayfair mafer no no no we're not talking about we're talking about taking away a bazillion of Kenneth here's a kid that has very long hairs going to school and he's embarrassed so comes the uncle and says I don't want him to be embarrassed just remind me real quickly there was a guy sitting here on this table the middle chair he smacked up his kid he's going like this and two minutes late again so I told Abby I said could you please tell him to stop so Abby got up walked on him says we asked you should stop she smacked out in the face smack your kid let's say don't do it in public don't take him over your knees this is what another thing I was thinking like I hold you should wear trailers but I'm not gonna tell my kid to where it says he's going to be embarrassed in school to certain things the way you dress the way that don't force it on your kids when it comes to kind of Biggie Sawyer I can understand why a person will be Oliver is the Riser of a coffer why because that's what the target that's Allah but if the whole point is the the avines was walking with his father and his father said did you make Kiddush before you ate today today was even Kipper no you may kill the shame keeper or kid he says no the whole point of making kids is this is what the kid told his father so when I get older I should know how to make kiddish I am keeper I'm not gonna make it when I'm older so today but what okay no oh okay I heard I heard about Davidson great so how could you take your kid and and give him a zero zero haircut when it's there I saw says when the Taurus says if when the Torah says listen if you pass so that is only when you do this part right over here but I would think he says and there are a lot of people that think that that if you I think it was that it's from people that think that if you shave your whole head you're not over no you're not over there right so be over there are born on according to your slokas but how do we paskin we pass again right here I just brought this out because we have plenty of time from here up is what's officer to make your your Sideburn a little on a point is is Usher with the rice if you do it zero zero and you have to go past the bone fine and above the red line on the right is where I don't know if you see the red line so well but that's where it's also to well yeah so here's the the rambam real quickly um if you shave your entire Edge Markov is you shouldn't says to be like the guy but if I shave everything it was a demon American guy um two times Marcus fine next is that is what what is how I don't know the length I'm not passing on the lens how much you have to leave in order not to be over because I'm gonna registered sorry oh okay so you have uh against the robotics to shave your head then tie your head also only there are only durability it's so powerful to train your kids the right way that you could be over through abundance in this case business so I understand when when he finishes is the process he brings kurbanas because it's Allah how could you bring a carbon to the person when he doesn't have to that's the Issa The Horizon Zara I love the rising because he holds it's only the rabbana once again the the again this unbelievable idea how's my kid even though it's going to take a hit you're on a higher level you take a hit different things diving with the kill whatever it is sometimes you take a hit if you can take a hit and do the right buttons certainly if it's not in the business [Music] so here's an interesting Shiloh if a guy is sick and he has the option to eat he needs protein doctor says you have to eat protein but it's not so much what should he eat chicken or meat he doesn't he doesn't care if it is are bad guys but he has chicken or meat what's the less of it is Sir to eat chicken or meat why oh this is why they even have to Chef a chicken so forget yeah when it becomes Tommy we said he has to bring the two birds and look he does a Malika he puts his his nail his thumb right through the vertebrae so you're allowed to do that that's the way you do it in the basement that's how you do shrita and it's not considered an available yeah how could you eat it it's navela because he must hold that it's only the rapunan and Mike trumps this the rambara as the guimara of the human body right so is a period who must I have uh that even has a period live the rise great the sovereign foreign Shannon and fellas how do you know that you bring it but you don't eat it I have a simple chart here seven step chart first we do a heck is between a soccer and okay we say whatever the Zucker does in the cave it does then we say azakar brings a behema when he doesn't have Vera on Shabbos he should bring in an animal uh like a sheep a woman should also bring a sheep okay that's step three step four when a zahat makes a mistake uh he's not sure if he did an Aveda or not he's a Suffolk he should bring awesome so step five on the cable also a woman should also step six is six that if the Zohar brings a behemo it should be it should be Bahama not a life when he does a Suffolk he should do it exactly like when he does a regular Avera regular Shabbos he brings a sheep so when he has a suffix you bring a sheep so a woman who has a soffit on her later if she was a regularly like this she brings a bird so remember when she has a Suffolk later she should bring a bird in that category now not when she doesn't have Aaron Chavez she doesn't lay though so it's seven steps to get there but we get there says very simple math so that's how you know that this is when he doesn't know if he did that there I'm thinking she should bring uh on the soffit um the woman's uh carbon that she brings she should also it should also be eating the country from it famous Loi yeah when he brings uh the so this this and this often the the zakhar brings to the a animal to the base of mcdosh what is that called if he did it wasn't over is sir it's called over here we have two history what Malika in addition to that in addition to the home Bazaar we have this in the Vela isn't available you're telling me in the forest that he holds that this is the Eraser to eat to not Chuck the bird how could you tell me it's only the red bottom everything you said before we said is oh it's there about you're going to say this is he says it's right now I'll explain to you imagine soon no the reason why Korean doesn't eat from it is only because it looks like it's adorable it is we're talking about there are buttons there not the rights don't prove for me from here that he holds us the right so no it's only the right Bonnet sponsored by the fight is the HBA group and their families of Maine have a wonderful day foreign [Music]