Daf Yomi Nazir Daf 13 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Applause] beautiful beautiful still in Los Angeles thank you for having me in the kylo the link thank you so much so it was a wonderful Shabbos wonderful people wonderful atmosphere here no wonder so many people want to live in Los Angeles tomorrow I'll still be here and then Monday I'm off thirds Israel through Chicago for a few hours so you should go for coming out I apologize for the delay I just want to show you a few pictures and some emails so here we have let me see if this works oh it doesn't work this is in Los Angeles the mishma program which I thought it was a beautiful thing and that other people should learn from this let's ever get together and you see on the table this is a great singing and sometimes they're bringing in interesting speakers as you can see this picture this is the sheer on Thursday night I don't know somebody told me there was over 200 people is that possible yes yes okay well it's beautiful and tonight is even more yeah newsletter they showed this picture and they spoke about me there and I'm the only guy in the picture that's wearing a tie and I thought it was appropriate for tonight the Thai night even though this is a Sunday uh Sunday morning sheer but it's really much a Shabbos in Los Angeles it's actually Sunday morning right now I think it might be like six it's already seven o'clock I never just roll so it's almost lifetime for Sunday morning cheer um I can't speak to my mother about this I always had Titus why should let me go to school like this with the pace flying the Thai whatever the whole thing but different type of shoes this from Jonah light here in Los Angeles where's he's here somewhere so we're having in Los Angeles last night's shared link and then having you join mishmo is really awesome my good friend Steve Bernstein introduce me to mdy at the very beginning of your bum is and now I'm hooked been learning a lot with you every day here's a picture of me doing Hazara on the run and here are some pictures from last night too so I'm not exactly sure there's 3.2 miles and 36 minutes Pace 11 21. get valid what's your conspiracy sitting right here I'm not wearing your suit I actually brought your suit I'm not wearing it tonight I was disappointed that I couldn't make it to the CM in Miami but glad that I got to go ski with my kids finish the door and start another while on vacation there's no vacation from learning enjoy your time in Los Angeles and my voice I here goes I think there's value in here basically say good morning your voice let's do it again I did all right and I even read your email oh yeah I was tired all right and this guy's asking me Cassius and gemara from Friday I can't even remember email from Friday terrible erase you also erased I hope I didn't read this one on my recent trip this morning to New York for Manchester straw I saw someone boarding that looked like Jesse Clyde I thought to myself it can't be I just saw you playing with this place in Miami then during the flight when I went to the back of the plane I see him learning at the exit Cedar Park of course we started schmoozing never saw some trombones such I was partially Blown Away enough he tells me I called shallow everything's my wife so I went and told her what kind of school she has even though I don't usually talk to women [Music] so after that I went back to my seat and kept on learning till the end of the long flight I just lose my face check to sleep anyways I've always said today the coil sponsored by Anonymous from like with ten thousand dollars and a second special another ten thousand dollars make support entire strength and I would be talking because all the money actually goes into one big part the messeth is sponsored by Miser the second is sponsor of the month second Spanish for the months princeine Island gross the English mass the origin of our fathers of Isaac and Beyond is even to be herself third response of the month the only white Family Insurance to refresh your memory here it is here's the two-year-old he had some sort of accent I don't I don't know the exact story and he was in a coma for a while and his father made sure that the sheer plate as you see in the background they sent us emails Etc and unfortunately the kid was lifter so the clever from mdy got together and sponsored the the month entire month for him another remote to iron off the best rib in Los Angeles where is he that's usually what divided the art people loving out there what do you teach early out my brother was uh was a rebbe here in YULA for a few years we're false defense yeah remember him the art sponsor for completely before foreign here we go I'll tell you because um a guest by alzarian I'm in hotel but I'm still his guest and he loves this Rashi and I gotta tell you this Rashi if you haven't noticed it it's a beautiful ratchet Rashi says on the puzzle that because incense of man and put it away she says that where was it in the Neil Young later on when clay strolled they had doubts about harnessa so Uriah took out that's incense model and showed it to them and said has his ways if you learn Torah parnassa will come it's an unbelievable you say people think that at the work 14 16 hours a day to earn a living if you learn part of you spend time doing the DAP spend time on Tyra don't worry about it Hashem has his ways you can even invent something like the mug that's why that's why coach Robert said put this insanus put this little jar away you might need it one day all right the mishna sponsor leadership foreign a person makes a nether of the zeros that if he has a son now I want to ask you before we even start these are very uncomfortable questions I don't expect anybody to answer this but it's a question to be asked if somebody says I'll become another I'm conditioned I have a son and unfortunately or some people say fortunately he has uh handicaps on is that a son without being politically correct is that what he meant and what if I know it's an uncomfortable question what if he has a daughter not a son is that what he meant that's that really is depends if you're smarty or Ashkenazi so this individual set you just got it now [Applause] that's what took him that he already knows Alexa so this is the only thing that Yoshi did for today check it out okay fine sort of tournament over here the nose is a real life nozzer he had a son foreign okay it's another because the condition happened now there's zero hits in this right obviously if something happens you said I'll be another if something happens in the habit great it's like Mario's gonna explain you're right there's no share but it's for this line over here none of the Lloyd bats but what if he had a daughter now pay attention his his lotion was Ben is a son to exclude a daughter he didn't say yelled he said big Bane is a very strong language of Assad it happens to be that Arabs for instance when they have a son they change their name but let's see they have a son the son is named Ahmad they become Abu Ahmad something uh Netanyahu when he went to convince the the uh what are they those the guys that live on the Bedouins so he called himself I think it was Abu yair because he has a kid yair I think because if you don't have a son you're you're garnish you're nothing I have a son I'm not Nathaniel I'm a blue yair anyway vanilla better raising us but if he had a daughter or tongtong is one who you can't determine whether they're zofran and Keva van dragnos is that they're both zakras and nachos that's not what he meant when he made his nazirus is not nether was that if he has a son not if he has a daughter or something and Dragons and used a different lotion he didn't say Ben they said Vlad a child a feeling then even if you have a daughter a pumpkin okay so this is very simple easy to understand so if you give 11 hours here so there's different ways let me let me minimize this right away according to the way we're learning the gamara there's different this tices this Rush if a child is born still bored dead then it's not a child that's not what he meant and it's nether so it's green he's not a net he's not a nozzer green If the child was born of barakayama healthy baby in the ninth month everything's good then he's an author what happens later the kid died whatever it's it's still another the only mahogics we have is in the third case where the kid was born and the kid passed away within 30 days we don't know if the kid was a viable child or not a viable child it's a big difference a kid that's not a viable kid or child so you don't even say Shiva you know it's not it's not a viable child it's not it's not considered a kid happens to me I just want to give a lot of people including myself went through many people because there's like 20 percent of pregnancy I forgot the number it's a very high percentage go through this tsar of of of losing a pregnancy so as a result says that the machine is not going to come is a is a place it's not the body it's a place in Sherman that has the shamas and what organ is come down to earth then she says that when a summer goes when a woman is pregnant it doesn't matter when what point the pregnancy the nashama goes into the into that baby so even if she loses the baby but she was Makai of the Gullah he says because sheth can't come before all themselves come down and she brought down another in hashama nightmare so the mission says not another one because we have a Suffolk over here we have a Suffolk if this kid was going to be viable and not viable so on a selfie it doesn't become a nozzle nightmare on a suffix you should become another we have a major problem what's the power of body side and this is again because it's a thing even one of my children has a thing I didn't speak to me yet I hope he listens to share is it from kit but some people don't really know that Allah there are two problems when a person thinks he's another and goes through the procedure of finishing his nazirus and he's not a nozzle what are the two problems huh bringing carbon bazaro if you don't have to bring these carbonas you think you're a Nazir and you're not so you bring it right so what else is the problem we're bashing shaving your head another must shave his head zero zero shave your head zero zero like Michael Jordan I hope there's nobody here it's okay man this guy has to be another but he can't be another maybe the kid is not maybe the kid is viable maybe he's not viable what should he do if the kid is not viable he's not an awesome if the kid is viable we don't know what the kid was he died like I believe I remember learning this like back in the day when we're learning in the need or whatever if there's an ultrasound like we have today and we know that the kid is a full term baby it's already full term and then the kid is born that's a viable kid I'm not passing you now at all just based on my very weak memory but in those days they didn't know it was nine seven nine eight months so it could be the kid is not viable so what do you do has a tricked but he makes a stipulation he says if I'm a real full-fledged nozzle because I had a real son and the sun was nifter I'm a regular nozzer them live and if my son wasn't viable I really knows so then I'm just gonna be calm a full-fledged nozzer but not because of my net there but because I want to become a another so he is going to become another has to make a stipulation this will be although Again by the way if you look at the base of an olive on the last choices I want to point it out there but Tyson says two lines in the tices the same idea that we had in the Durham Nazir I saw it a few times and never shine him Nazir is different mishona weird different whatever you want to call it the Russian is not your typical language of shots you can have both and therefore also because we don't have Rashi so you have a lot of issues between tices and the rush and if we were showing them what the shot is that happens to be that the English art scroll goes always with the rush the Hebrew article goes always with Tysons it's a mess I'm serious I always thought that the English and the Hebrew are going to be and sing they're not at all so if you have different shot them here in the in the the sugya just know that different different ones learn differently and the massive sometimes goes this way that way it's great I could bottom tices over here learns that it's a different pregnancy the rush learns that they're twins the bottom line is she had another baby she has another baby if it's their twins so the issue now becomes like okay so the twin could tell us if the kid the kid that died is viable look you look at the twin the kid the kid is living so it's a viable child what it is Twin die so a viable child died so you should be a nausea or no then there's a whole discussion maybe it's possible that two the twins grow at different Paces one is viable one is not viable okay she had another child I raise another recording that he's not a northern because the first child was a Suffolk viable or not so now that she had a second child in survival of the regular but what does Shipment do Shaman already had a whole trick and he made this guy become another on a suffix so now what does he do now he has the Suffic again if the first one was viable then the second one doesn't make a difference if the first one was not viable then he has to become another from the second one so again he has to go through the whole process that represented before so he has to become another again but he can't shave his head because it's it's the right shave your head and he can't bring carbonics so what does he do he says I'm going to become a full-fledged nozzer and I'm going to make a stipulation if I need to be a full-fledged knowledge because of my nether about having a son so that I'm being behind another and if I don't have to be my kind of nether so I'm gonna be another anyway because I feel like it is what does the mission I have to tell us that if a person says if he has a son he's going to become a Nazir and he had a son he should become another okay so tomorrow you're right mission Safe there's no condition that at all it's just the way the Mr speaks starts off slow and gets into the tradition here's the Apostle by typing in here to take take my my um I will build up myself so sometimes the person uses the Russian Ben he says I'm gonna have a son I'm gonna come another doesn't mean a son something that I'll build myself up I have a daughter whatever it is foreign right so instead of saying that he's gonna have a son he said I'm gonna have a kid no so of course he should be another Mao the same I'll listen to this I I know that this is like the wrong City to say this line but we gotta say it foreign [Music] azzi who won his wife that if she comes home with another girl because she already had five it's all over and he sent her on her Merry way to the hospital without even going with her and the doctors noticed after she gave birth that she was she was in terrible mood so what's going on she said my husband said you know it's gonna be over I said don't worry about I'll take care of it called up the house he says listen you had a son that was ecstatic he says listen but I gotta speak to you come to my office immediately there's no office so listen the child was born never without without legs I'm down in the hotel where I'm at they have a maybe 100 people without with those legs that the the Springs yeah but the new ones the ones that they they can run quicker than yeah the bionic ones but that's not the real problem he says the real problem is uh kid can't really see and um it doesn't make a difference because he's also deaf so the guys you know when he saw that he's he's crying and everything he says now that I'm messing with you not a healthy baby girl you're like oh about a ship okay the banish guy says even even looked to both directions I don't know if this like uh like it was like poem he says he saw that he doesn't have an ish that they don't have they don't have sons they don't have daughters I was laughing when I read it and he buried him in the sand he says no when he made a Kiddush for the daughter that that he had he did it in a weekday that nobody should find out he's so embarrassed that he had a girl that's what he says foreign in this week's pirate show it says so the famous vote What did the what did the horses do to deserve the drill so they explained that they didn't they didn't know that they're going after Clydesdale but they were part of it when you're a partner to to something that's wrong you suffer the consequence and the famous gamara that asks foreign because they encourage their husbands they encourage their children and that's their sauce because that's what they explain explain because why is a person want a son they want a son because the Sun learns toy rods what kind of Mitzvahs we say every morning so at the end of the day when I was learning the sugya I gotta tell you people are going to be upset at me but my main nachas comes from my daughter and I wish I had another daughter so each to their own basically I'm gonna have a lot of that for my sons but right now she's the most established she has two children two two grandchildren she's uh she's like the most successful um hairstylist in there as well probably here by Lisa here by Lisa anyway no she's never anytime I went to the to the parent teacher conference they said get out of here you don't need to be here she's perfect hundreds hundreds no just not has nothing sometimes you're not from the girls also all right in another somebody this guy Jaco Freeman wrote me an email he was I love the LA crowd I guess he's not in L.A because they're laughing they're clapping they're intense we're in different I don't want to mention cities say drugs like um not Manchester they'd rather laugh nicely over there okay his wife again this this tube shot him what a pillar is but according to how we're learning epila means not that she gave birth to stillborn but she gave birth to a baby that died within 30 days [Music] if you remember said a fascinating Allah if there's a pile of let's say fruit and the guy says I'll become another if there's a hundred of them here by the time he got to the pile somebody stole the pile God now there's no way to determine whether they were 100 or not so what does he do so this is my number that says he's not another because nobody puts himself in a position of the zeros that's reviewed it's my daughter that says no he's an author so the reason why he's not a nozzer is because he's in a position of doubt he when he said he's going to become another he never intended intended to put himself in doubt why would he put himself in a position I don't know I do know I should be a half another yes another uh do two zeros become another make no no you're not another you need to know for sure that you're not um you should become another on the doubt on the soffit but he should stipulate if I really need to be another I should be my kind of another if not I'm doing it on my own a rainy nozzer we can Shirley Ben foreign we have a few questions today and they're they're strong questions now we don't have answers to them person says I want to become another when I'll have a son and his wife miscarried vegetarian and he decided that he's another and he designated a car and then she gave birth now someone says wait a minute what do you mean Mao pens I'll leave them out yeah I'll leave the room it's not a question according to shipment represent holds that even on the sofa you become a nozzer so there's no question we had a suffer gear the guy should become another he designated animals fizzing the zeros they're full-fledged carbonics [Music] or not you can't use it you can't ride it you can't share its wool it's awesome take okay we don't know boy money then bye so there's a gobble his name was brewing my ghost happens to be a Miss rocket I'm Adams Rock Lake but he happens everyone but I say this is a girl because he's a real-time hakam used to wear blue shirts blue shirts shorts a real but he wrote a safer and in there he writes that there was surname that their name was based on a question in chess they're not brought many times but their entire name is based on their question Le Marshall because he asked the question what if you find uh a margula of no sorry McDonald's which is a um a tower and what if you find a uh something in the shape of a tower so they call the McDonald's she says also this person right over here been rehumi is based on the question that he says that he that he asks over here the person loves his friend or not the word and you never have him again in shots boys you asked the question I really knows they're like Shirley Ben I want to become another when I have a son um see right over here Robert turjuan says I really lovely Ben and the guy that's lit says well I now look what happens here are we doing as a son now the question is does Mr lit mean I want to be exactly like right towards me meaning I want to have my own son or he means of a life when Tor German has a son then I'll become another what did he mean here there's one more this I did mustachaba so excuse me does it mean that Lit had a son nobody liked it okay either way he's not a real guy he could have a potato head he can have anything you want as a son fine oh sorry as he's referring olai meaning or whatever his friend said I want exactly that the first guy's words oh yeah he's talking about himself I also would like a son and when I have a son I'm gonna become an awesome doesn't stop if you say that he's talking about himself Omar already another looking she really been sure here wow this is slow sorry oh he didn't save a lie he said Vani Arabic [Music] see that's why his name is maybe I love you like myself like yeah what's up I love you infants you see filet Musa you give him a base Maybe when a guy says I think about it a guy doesn't have children for five years he's going to doctors doing the whole thing going through about him and he says you know if I have a child I have a son I'm going to become an awesome so it's not very appropriate for his friend to say oh you know I also don't have children I'm still running around the doctors it's embarrassing to say that in front of the guy what's more appropriate is to say you know I feel for you so let me be mistative in your tire you you wanna you wanna son I feel for you I I want to become another if you have a son you know trying to we're going to give the dog I'm gonna say to healing for you that you should have a son I'm gonna become another day you should have a son nobody want to say oh yeah you think your your disease is a problem you know what I have that's it that's not nice I've been married for for seven years and I have kids doesn't work see Philadelphia it's embarrassing Omar pointy band but what if you said I'll become another when so and so a third guy has a son I it was I think we could learn a lot from this Gamora because how many of us here know people don't have children no people don't have jobs no people that have I don't know the different diseases Lamar teaches us how to do it the way to do it is you take upon yourself something for your friend you say Hashem I want my friend to have a child and if he has a child I'm going to give x amount of the stock I'm going to learn next about the tire in this case I'm going to become a nozzer it's a way to like force hashem's head it's an unbelievable thing not very many people do it I don't think the promise Hashem something or a rookies thing unconditioned that Hashem does XYZ for my friend Omarion is Ben if he has a son I want to become an awesome and now lit guy says okay I also want to jump into this Mao this is your homie keep on going look you didn't he's not embarrassed now because the guy that doesn't have a child is not there he doesn't even know about this so maybe he's talking maybe when he says Vani he's talking about himself I also have the same sorrow so I think it's a great idea if I have a child assault I'm going to become a dilman okay give us off I love that third guy that other guy now it's not here that doesn't happen like myself the boy again lotion is meaning we don't have an answer this huh yeah no only if he has a child when that guy has a child maybe he's counting on him never having a child he's already married for 20 years what the guy who shows us had a child after 34 years what was it 34. you got my neighborhood 21 years yes of course he came to share the whole thing is I see the child this guy is like 30 years no you didn't hear about it just like this month only then he becomes a nozzle the turn of the page encourages us to finish us and let's love her the monkey cheer the members of the HBA group and their families amazing also sponsored especially you see what's going on it's crazy amount of sponsorships you gotta stop this delicious I really knows you know it's really bad I'm becoming an author and I I'm taking upon myself a second in the zeros when I have a son so there's two two nazirus going on here I read the first one no charts I wanted to do the chart for this very it's simple so we don't really need it we'll just use my fist this is the regular zeros that's a 30-day term and there's another term that he added to that if he ever has his son he wants to do another one what came first the regular term inal he started counting his the right hand or to you guys left the regular zeros are bad and then he had a sonoy he should first finish off the first 30 days that he started what came first the regular 30 days the regular one came first the sun came second he started the regular finished the regular yes he had a son on day 15. finish it anyway in his words the the nazirus for the sun came second so it's not a problem what's very interesting is does he bring a carbo when he finishes the first 30 days does he shave his head the answer is yes he finishes any person that says I want to become another I want to become another so he does 30 days shaves his head buys the three chord bottles goes to the face and make those finishes then he starts all over again so that's what he does here I'm gonna see that's not so simple in the next case now he reverses it the first in the zeros is when I have a son and he adds vinazir and I'll become another again another term so sun is one third and zeros is two but he started the second term first then his son was born smack in middle of his regular term which is the second term he started the second term before the first term but then it became Hive in the first term why because he had a son so he stops doing his first nazirus which is the second one the second term um he starts this the Sun if you notice over here the mission doesn't use the Lush and mashlim before it said he should be Muslim he should finish the first term and start the second term Marshall means finishing it going to the base I mean he's record buttons and shaving the head oh bear doesn't say that this is Mania put it on the side um do the term that you promised first if you have a son and then you do the ashlama on the second term meaning what when do you shave when do you bring her Banas all the way at the end after you did both terms together it's because if you promise two terms you should bring Coronas in between each one but over here you had to start the second term in middle of the first term and you only finish the first term after the second one so do everything at the end bring her bonus and bring and shave your head one time all the way at the end you don't break the words we're gonna let him ask more questions because he never comes to the it's fine yeah what you don't drink so but it's when you started the second in the middle nope what are you gonna bring your carbon then think about it let's think about it together the guy started a term of the zeros he went 15 days into it Mazel Tov his wife had a baby boy he can't bring a carbon then he's not finished he then finishes 30 days 50 nights and now he starts his baby boy in his Heroes the second one starts finishes that you think you should bring a carbon then nope he doesn't bring them he brings all the way at the end when he finishes up the first one body rub we're just going to do the questionnaire maybe a little bit of the turrets and then the rest will do tomorrow foreign one term is gonna start 20 days from now um and I'm not gonna wait 20 days I can start whenever I want me actually doesn't mean this minute it just means I could go for this minute I could go tomorrow but I'm not gonna wait I don't have to wait 20 days Mao what's the question Kevin darling could you even start the hundred day term because what's the problem I promised first that I'm gonna do in a zeros in 20 days from now so from 20 days from now and 30 days after that I'm already taken I'm already spoken for I'm gonna be another in 20 days from now for 30 days in other words up from today until 50 days from now I'm not going to be done with the zeros I have no business starting on the zeros that can't finish beforehand it's 100 days long foreign so it's not gonna it's not it's not even gonna start keeping this is highly so the issue here is also if you terminate on a zero so you make him start you have to have enough here to cut off enough here is minimum 30 days so over here because we have a 100 day period so even if we stop him we say okay let's start it's 20 days now let's start in the zeros by the end of the Hundred Days he's gonna have plenty of hair to cut off so maybe it should work like that so we'll continue visiting tomorrow it continues why did Rob asks the question like this so we're gonna ask a different way but boys I have a wonderful day a wonderful week