Daf Yomi Moed Katan Daf 28 by R’ Eli Stefansky

my grandmother today is the yard side hi bryndel bass joseph the other day we were talking about stitching in the jacket and i pulled out this jacket that i received from greystone donnie rosenberg from greystone donated 25 000 to this year nah we're partners but i dan rubinoff went to him and said hey then ruben if i also showed his picture that day whatever the whole beautiful vaser hashem we're partners in real estate we're partners now on this and basically we're going to be partners he's going to start doing the daf visa hashem gotta get him through the duff free jackets for everyone in the if he does the daf the opposite you have to give him so he doesn't want to do it the let's read uh an email here here's another person that's stepping it up we have a belsky thank you thank you i've been learning the doc with you and you make it feel like a one-on-one basis watching on youtube with all the extras posters that you use and make learning so easy it's been decades since i made a semanta i love your positive energy every day you're making it flow so easy i wish you take a little bit more time in that base i've been hooked since i started sacrificing i've replayed the story about your son many many times i guess he's talking about the first day of tightness the first few minutes of miscellaneous it really hit home i sent it to many people my son was also otd and then at age 32 he did not wake up from sleep on yantev of sukis but he was a big sadiq he said many times in sheer it's what's inside the accounts he did a lot of kesset every day and this is why we sponsor him in his memory so here's a belski he sponsored ten and a half thousand dollars it doesn't ding me donnie rosenberg dinged me 25 grand i'm very happy about it hopefully his 25 grand i have to give 25 grand the 18 grand not this is for hagie i'm potter but i really hope uh i get all the way up to that hundred ah but no no he gave it already it was before i announced it uh my parents are survivors my father's automatically bear and of course it's important only to be tired to him always will learn in america so i want i want to be your ambassador for mdy and helping you do your amazing job and getting people to learn uh yeah something like that but basically a belsky is sponsoring all the gemara's uh now at gourmet glide and cedarhurst so check out gourmet glad in cedarhurst and grab your free gamora messages high giga is starting this friday that's it it's you know we had all these pharmaceuticals yuma sucker titus mcgill my cotton what else rosh hashanah [Music] 26 days only don't tell anybody about the end of the september the whole beginning receptor is easy fun short tapping i got the whole thing can make him make a seal in 26 days get your friend don't and also ding me oh by the way if somebody wants to donate be like a bell skinner you don't have to do that amount but any amount you can do it in different in payments you can do it a credit card we'll take it over the year you want to get five grand 10 grand over the year over five years contact us and we'll put your name in the cephasy obamacare we can still stick it in himself it's going it's going to go today's the last last last day that we have to give them the final names and everything by the way i need some of your names some some of the guys from the 10 i think we're missing so okay we'll talk afterwards i want to put them you don't know where they are this is from my almost brother yasi irman and his sons on the way to i don't know what country but he said they're going to the what where romania they went to ski in romania the country of lloyd laura she says because you know anything that's dude skiing disturbs me slightly but it's great stuff let me just read this real quickly i like this email a lot it's from mindy ohman i want to let you know that mdy has hit new haven and is expanding full for force in the kabbalah community i mean germany and quebecois not only have i been inspired by the shirt to learn that myself but i made it my shlikhos to get everyone in new haven to join me i'm going to order a bulk box from mdy order your boxes both especially here in edge stroll we've got a lot of extra boxes i think we're making a campaign to get everyone hooked onto your amazing shirt if anybody knows of a yeshiva that wants to hear about that you let me know here and there's a troll do it we'll knock it out brisk mirror anything one of the major hurdles i've heard from many carbonics have with affiom is that the rebbe already said daily sure versus and rambam so one can argue if we already struggle with keeping up with those urine which are a must for us how could we voluntarily take in another commitment which also probably causes slack off of this europe all i can say to all my fellow hacienda is as follows do nidaf has not only been so enjoyable in its own right and has added a great deal to my life it has actually helped me in solidifying my other sheer commitments without any compromise a hundred percent when you do that for me it teaches you the consistency in every part of life you start working out better you start many things schneidermaker i say it all the time i don't believe for one second the rebbe the rebel would tell someone not to learn more torah especially in the manner that rebellion does with at with actus camaraderie and simcha wishing much of you and your sacramento for your contingencies glad you struggled all the best and then the ultimate if you could get in touch with waterbury we'd love to join them for the seam i might call that i guess the next water battery see picture one of the coils however doing the daf here it is and now we could go to today's dav what we do have to do the sponsors don't forget mdysum.com for all your local assuming i think there's 10 there right now maybe more i didn't check the coil is sponsored this month by mr anonymous lil nishmas hayao bass joseph mercedes made cotton oh is that my grandmother 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today's oh but one last picture without any story this is from israel goldstein a picture in the airport at five o'clock in the morning somebody's doing the daf an artistic view beautiful okay today is daf coffress and we have this house of starting today's daf on that [Music] we're talking about what used to happen and what they instituted instead the wealthier people would come out on a special rn on the dirgosh like we had whether it's leather not the anime bays for woody chewie and the kale twins and sponsored in honor of myself wishing myself in all my self's endeavors both in gashmi's and rochnias well your name is by shame it wasn't nice why did they come out with such a silly bed that's why everybody gets a beer with nick voyage someone who died from intestinal disease they would put um not deodorant they would put like some sort of good smelling incense okay fine whatever you want to call it that spray stuff that you put in the bathroom those who had intestinal disease realize they're still going to die and they're going to soon put it underneath them and eventually if a woman died when she was anita so everything she touched beforehand was tommy so it's very embarrassing about unido is highest miss baychoice it's interesting but nevertheless they felt that there was a special category for the nida and they felt that abusha is so any woman who died there would be title all the caleb for tuma as if everybody had a too much needle where you should know that is amazing to begin to start off with everybody i had a ziva uh a certain flow that comes from a disease again the same idea they felt that they're in another category they're just regular people that have too much it's going to go away no the funeral is a whole different procession we have to take all the caleb and then be table it was so expensive cost prohibitive to to bury somebody that tahrir was super expensive that it was more painful than the actual death so to speak actually they would take the body as is drop it and run and let the let the let the community deal with it [Music] he treat himself lightly not somebody like leo would be buried in beautiful tahrir and what's the idea of being buried with beautiful takarikim to show that you believe in mason you put a lot of money into a nice suit you're going to oil ms you're going to be up soon so everybody you went with the cheapest impossible like we did today vinogua macro of and everybody saw and took his advice lots of like piston and they all started burying themselves with piston forget it it's like takanas like instead of doing a big talker than i am instead of doing these fancy hassanas everybody does takanakasana and everybody feels the wealthy and the poor they're all they all have the same class and everything is good and everybody saves money it says waste of money omar papa but sardo sarashi says convoys canvas it's the cheapest of the cheap that only causes those they say that usually the the takarika would cost a thousand those and now it's one thousand you hear you hear judah yeah it's a wanzas one's judah thanks and put it in the middle of the street first pay them over however at the end of the day when it comes to the diamond coffin we have to give a spade even a halamite the host and certainly are hanukkah and purim why because khan and kanpur are there are bonds they don't have the same oh we're on the last half of my cotton so let's remember if one thing came out of the homo sapta what are we going to take out of the homo sakta we don't work on halamite work only in very very extreme situations is on hanukkah could work so right there you see the difference between purim and khalam but in our days they say we don't really have the truth of the time of the gemara so there's no espana whether or not there's availability on purim omar papa you don't go out and do some sort of aceres and gather people like a lot of times we have here in this community when a big time column is lifters they gather people by the shelter you don't do that if he's not in front of you ask the kimora love in a different place he wasn't there or a papi they would do a spay them in different cities because they couldn't get there they would do a husband the day of the terror they went away for installation right then and there so on halloween on the day of when a person when it says the word hesped it's referring to they used to go like this they used to make a lot of noise you see sometimes at the hotel they go you know different things so hesped is banging on the heart what does the pu mean clapping like making sounds like that kilos the word kilos is referring borrego you're banging on the floor toner abandoned sandal if you're wearing a sandal this uh a lot of uh zionistic people that have sandals have to listen to this like how does this sound a little up in the middle it's very dangerous to bang your foot with the sandal on the floor we haven't asked it could like basically it's like it's like a slipper you try to go real hard on the floor and as you hit the floor the slipper shoots out your foot hits the ground what happens you break a bone it's dangerous he goes like this the ship is kind of over but the way i understand it is as people are talking and the guy had enough of this guy the clown in front of him is just yapping away so he goes like this because he can't say okay have a great day because he's also he does with his head a little bit and that's the sign get up and go the uh i said this before but i have to say it now one of my favorite videos of all time and that's only because i sat shiva is called shtik yeshivish people do at shiva or say shtake people say achiva and i gotta tell you some of the lines they have there one of them is can i nahara i mean how many people had a whole daring i mean he was very heavy when he was alive so you can imagine and one of them was did he what bus was it the 17 ah the 70. oh so he's jay walking okay but at least you could say that he met a coach by accident the point is iron chum there's a lot of a lot of stuff oh another one i just came from a shiva house so so you're looking for and it's not even far from the truth the reason i thought it's so funny is because people say the most ridiculous things that ship i don't know what it is they come and they say silence they don't like silence and they're uncomfortable so they just come up with stuff and some of the stuff is near volume i can tell you from experience they'll they'll ask if you if the house is for sale i heard you drove a nice car so they yeah the boys side chill and and and i'll say this again one of the most powerful things i read was about ravi palm there's a couple that la elena lost the young child and they said that the biggest nicoma villain they had during shiva was rabbi pam he walked in didn't say a word he burst out in tears cried and cried he got up and walked out that's the biggest thing from avalon so i ain't in that video it's not a joke it's funny and i don't like the the title so much sheevish whatever the whole thing but there's a lot of ms in that video oh did you check the tahrikan that they don't have shatnas no no no it's not a joke it's not a joke my cousin they had to unbury him to get rid of the takarikin it's not even i'm not okay anyway you get the point those guys were good this is 10 years old you know half the people they watch is like so i don't get the joke no it's so close to ms that it's funny so royce you were talking about russia going like this it's a sign stop talking the one in charge of all of chrysler walks in everybody stands up besides the oval themselves there's no cover of the avail doesn't get covered yet that's what i was saying yesterday that's why when khame kanewski came in i wasn't behaving to stand up but if you do stand up it's okay so one of the shot him and the famous thing is you don't tell ava to sit down it seems like you're saying to him you know i said sits it and he's like oh good it's good that you're in a veil so you don't say that um available on the first name this is we had cannot eat his own food is referring to the meal the sodas have raw how do we learn it is as we know everything he said where it's villain you don't wear twilight he said do this you don't everything that's because it was definitely high school and everybody else is the opposite so he tells you high school don't eat other people's food in other words we are omahyev to eat other people's food by the sudasavra rabba virav yosef when they were available if rabbit was a oval he would take food from raviosev and when revision was available he would take food from rabb rabiudomarav and then a miracle or combination everybody has to do has to stop working says tyson's over here that a person who's learning has a header so as we're going to see in a second if there's a hyper kadisha that takes care of the dead then you don't have to stop working but if there's nobody taking care of the debt everybody's monthly to take care of this dead person so everybody stops working besides those who are learning the dream i saw this whatever you want to call it he went to this if you're ashkenazi say dramaissa if you're in bubble you say dramata shama called shipura he heard it was a sound there's a there's a siren oh somebody died so either means the different types of people this hasidim this lit facts this inspired them they all take care of their own don't worry about it or there's a real clever kadisha there's a company that takes care of it so we can continue working this is a very serious line here if a person cries too much on the dead in other words he goes past the lot of time and we're going to see what that is it's not that long [Music] a terrible tragedy could occur to him why because it looks like he has a taina on the din we don't know we'll never know but a person has a titan and i i i said this and i i don't know if it's nice but i it was a terrible tragedy community i remember people that i i thought were my meaning and i'd be talking there's like i don't understand hashem how could a ship do such a thing these are words that are very dangerous you have to understand that we don't we tackled on a stamp we can't have a taina very scary story it needs a lot of understanding there was a woman who lived next to ravuna have a little shiva bunny she had seven sons mishadmini one of them died i was she cried too much over him said it's not it's not a good idea what you're doing it's not the right thing like she didn't listen to him obviously it's hard to tell somebody oh it's not funny don't laugh it's not sad don't cry but a person sometimes has to you see like uh there's a mason chavez that says you don't cry but i'm sad sometimes you have to overcome that okay it depends what you do depends why you're crying if you miss the person you missed yeah i don't know different things different places that's why i said you have this is not at face value services go start make getting buy takrikan for your next son luchara it wasn't a curse he's giving her good advice you're not doing the right thing i'm telling you stop right now it's not going to work out for you says don't cry for a mace and don't shake your head amaze yo it says apostle don't cry too much about the noodles this is sheer okay what's this here yeah the biggest part of that veil of shiva the husband and seven first paid them to give till the spires then take it down the level it's 30 days you can't press the clothing can't take a haircut what you think i don't know you think i don't care about it nobody cares about human beings more than coach barco and i know what i'm doing it says in the past we just saw the apostle what does it say a second later in the same passage go cry what's going on here so because of this problem the gemara has a shot that is a special situation a person who dies without children somebody like that you should cry for because he has no continuation review if somebody died without children then he would go the sieve series he doesn't have continuation he won't see the future so he learns is we're talking about truva when a person dies without doing chuva that's a terrible thing for him you have to cry never he's not going to make it to where he needs to go he needs to go to gane then and he can't get there how's he going to get there thank you there's no buzzer rav [Music] so if a person repeats that over and over and he didn't do true but it's a terrible thing infirmity should cry ravuna tame because ravuna goes according to his own cheat of the famous gemara dom ravuna or kevin shaw of our adam shanaba if a person does anavera and he repeats it who will i it becomes mutated to him so that what it really becomes it's as if once a person gets used to doing an aveda he thinks there's no issue and a person like that doesn't do chuva he doesn't do chuba you must cry for him oh mary bellavi here is [Music] between his legs very sensitive area or between his shoulders does the gear see here so tyson says um when i see it here it says the xiaomi oh echoed the last last words entices on the page there's a concept when somebody dies and tyson says right before that it's like a pile of stones your family is a pile of stones you remove one from the bottom everything starts shifting and therefore everybody in the family should start worrying you have to be careful with everything you do and start doing chuva because there's like a sword that's right there ready to get you mishlocheva from three to seven days kilometers like connect connected karen's office so it's not by your neck it's not by your legs it's in the corner looking at you staring at you wanting to harm you mccann what's my comeback kilo a versus connected it's like going in the marketplace this ties this 12 months then the muki is here says the famous thing at zachar then it's it's even before 12 months if there's a male boy the male child uh that gives uh some some rev to the whole family says the mother of allah covered you don't put women in the street because of their dignity and honor omri nardot they said we're talking about a woman who just gave birth and there's a lot of damn sharing it's not a problem to put a regular woman says who is not giving birth they bury her immediately sama miso vura [Music] so the thais gender says they're very interesting that it seems like there's a possible but thomas shop miriam the governorship she says actually is it the right the gemara the mishnah says it's covered it's time for the christ says interesting iron shame in other words it's it's more than just the minogue it's more of a issue of allah so there are six people let me see if i have it oh these are the six very easy to remember these are the six people that died misas nishiko kissed them to death so to speak avraham yakov and now we're going to ask where do we know miriam my mother says by the way yesterday we missed it a little bit yesterday we made an announcement we here here's my banana run this stuff sponsor the whole thing why doesn't say that miriam got up hashem it's not proper to say hashem kissed her um why does pirate show the the the sugi of para is that when somebody touches a dead person he's taught me the only way to come tired is by having a para duma shafting it burning it taking the ashes and sprinkling it on the person that becomes calm hey my paradise thank you what's his name he's going to take that and play it in his house over and over harry shalom yeah fine let's take that it's outside it's outdoors here's zaison yet without a paradium we have nothing we can't we can't go into the basement we're all tommy walt may mason so you need the para duma that's why paradium is next to miriam miriam even though she never made it into the base of madrid so to speak without the women we have nothing this is for the three women that watch this year zak digging mario tonight who and ricky the two-year-old yeah why in the world as soon as aaron died there was a tv take off the clothing put on the clothing he's dead let's wait a little bit no big day the big kuna we learned and yuma where do we learn it that the the bells on the bottom and that's this week's parachute the big day cool now this is this week's power show i forgot to mention yesterday when i was showing the picture upside down inside out that that's from this week's parachute buy that art scroll saver it's beautiful so in this week's parachute the all the gotham house done fine plug for them uh no across the type they let me use the safer of course it's very good stuff so the the what makes noise la shanhara is a noisy aveda it's so the the bells of the of the kangaroos who got them they are copper on lotion etc etc we're talking about chorus now carres as we're going to see is from the age somebody dies from the age of 50 to 60s paris but there's more if a person dies from the age of 60 to 80 let's say but suddenly that's also chiras may spit time suddenly zui miso hatufa or art squirrel translates it abrupt hollywood let's say he was sick for only one day zooey miso de roofa hasten now you can ask him what the difference is between katufa and the hoofa i don't know you know who else doesn't know poisonous i don't know no but what is the difference in the translation what is the difference a guy died immediately and a guy died a day later what is the difference between the two in terms of how you view them they're both hastened you want to call it hasty it's just another word in the dictionary the hoover means to push and there's a little bit time to push like to grab okay there's always a question it's not a really to me it's not such a question but there's a question what's better for somebody to to get killed in a car crash or to die from cancer over a month or two what's better the cancer is very very painful and slow what i was asking the shiva and that's why i'm asking the question here thank you very much so did you appreciate the fact that your mother died from a slow death but i think the answer is slow even though it's painful at least you have time to do chuva you have time to do things and take care of business that's my that's my answer if somebody has a different way to i know in terms of pain boom great but we're not here for pain and painless it's about fixing what we need to fix these are all terrible stuff hatufa the huffa it's karis it's it's death untimely death not true one day is more of a plague we're talking about again he told them she's testing you so he said i'm going to take your wife what happened i'm going to take her into mageifa she was gone within a day so you see that's mrs magefa mma is a person who was sick for two days it's it's a hurried one but you have more of a more time it's pushed off it's it's musa rebuke arba mizifa to get scorned it's normal to be sick for five days and then pass away or micro revise i know it's hard sook is still here and hard sugars to learn but it's part of torah and this is what we do and like i said when we started the sugar basil if we learn this and we learn it well we should be sorry for not to die from careers be able to do a lot of people are javi carlos bismaneno there's different availability of karas but you can do chuva this is true but no problem everything has chuva hey corvo yomerca know we have a big connection to greek when it came to the super tire and everything from 50 and as the gemara is going to say it then let's just say it now from 50th to 60 is karus the gemara says 50 to be nice and not there shouldn't be any rumors on shmuel commission where did we learn about shmuel not wanting to die at his age and even dying earlier not to not to see his talmud shall die which will sacrifice very good highness no nobody's taking tests there uh zukuru what does zikr say okay zooey misa okay misa with a shamayim somebody dies at the age of 60 is misawa mike misa nationwide is very similar to carus oh my gosh we gotta we gotta move here wow i'm gonna finish themselves tomorrow my visibility might be similar to cars cars however is a little worse it takes away children and other things what do you get musically they should mind for if you look at sharing truth a whole list of things well one of them that that really struck me is stealing from manani still very poor person he's still from a poor person not literally going over and stealing from him by not giving him zucco when he's your relative or somebody that you have to give it to is stealing from ani omar sutra micro lay kever you should die at a mature age late come come to the grave that's 16. shivam saver when the person reaches 70 is old my name is you get strength you may [Music] so that's the end of the story from 50 to 60 or 59 and well the last day is cars by the halo so why does it only say 50 don't say sixty mission fighters i survived karis he made a birthday party who where do we see this idea of birthday party pyro question that means pirate was born he had a birthday party like pirate was god he was how could he be born what do you see from here that everybody celebrates birthdays even if it's against your hashkafa at the end of the day people die suddenly and even if you're 65 and you die suddenly that salsa cars okay so i made a party for half of it i got i got i was i'm done with the years the days we'll deal with ravuna ravuna died suddenly he was already over 80 years old have a good idea they said oh maybe he got caught us but if a person chica but it's aboligi beautiful death somebody's older oh over 80 and doesn't wake up in the morning beautiful omarov oh hi my name is sing the song supposed these three things to have a long life longevity to have sons kids and paranoisa is bimazzo now you have to understand the whole suggest the bottom line is even if we have the whole machines that we had if kleischroe has mazel doesn't have muzzle but even if you hold that it's that kaiser has mazel you can manipulate the mazel through filo and hasset doing the right thing nice and tight rather of his though says the gemara both of them he saw 60 weddings of his children and his grandchildren birabha and he had 60 funerals bay rafisdo smith midbay he had the best bread made out of the finest flower and he gave it to the dogs the dogs wouldn't even need it but the soil in shibuya he couldn't even find bread for human beings made out of barley that's how poor he was honey class miliba kame ishmael these are the three things i asked is robert from he says everything's a point you ask that hashem should help you the messiah in life even when it comes to but you have to do it yourself but you need a little help from asha he says there's a person around him and and uh there's another place that there's a story about him spelled with a sama the rava have yosev was dying so his brother came to visit him after him he saw that rob is about to die amelia lamellae married the lady tyrone robert tells his brother rafael please dive into me tell don't dive in talk right now to the malcolm office tell him don't give me tsar when he takes my shaman once we're at this point where it's all over i don't have i don't have that power anymore oh my layla i'll do it i'll talk to the to the malcolm office on one condition you come to me afterwards after death and tell me how it was it's hazel he came to him you have any pain or malay he ripped i have a picture here of riv de josilta arie simmons he sent the picture a long time ago of him letting blood actually donating blood and doing whatever he had to do but i thought it's a good picture because he's learning terry while he's doing it that's how painful death is for rava that is says gamora the same exact story but it happened with rava not rubble wasn't dying rubble was the talmud here robert doesn't come in there of nothing going to the next world um our boys i have a wonderful day 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