Daf Yomi Moed Katan Daf 27 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning boys let's see if i can get this one oh here we go this picture gave me chills literally 10 000 plus at the sheer no bigger revenge to the nazi machine group from manchester nagikats garcia rose yossi dahari and kai and griezmann watching your belly shear at auschwitz [Music] since you talked about the starting quarterback of your shalayim i thought it would be appropriate have you mentioned the starting quarterback rebels sv greenstone led by chemist to a 46-12 win in the first game he doesn't learn the fbi me but his father is a big fan of yours and it's the agave of the men coming in mdy david greenstone here he is that's you're right but the father is the gabbai of the men he also he's leaving says he's living you're right but i'll tell you why i showed it more important because somebody from this year actually was at the game here it is joshua perlowicz you sure person is wonderful learning the dive at the bench rebels foot get football game on monte chavez here it is that's why i showed it he's accepting he's accepting now i started learning that regularly since might caught them thanks to my son-in-law your presentation's very inspiring give me a great deal to think about as a classroom rebbe he's with his children manchester for shabbos the nachos i got from doing the top of my three grandsons aged 11 and a half and eight and a half joining was so heartwarming wishing you continued also i have to fix yesterday i noticed something interesting that rafale's the name he gave rafal heft sounded like his grandfather but unfortunately it was his own son a young kid that was nifty and he was the sponsor yesterday um he had a heart disease left heart syndrome hlhs raphael um rob ernst i still remember joining my father at metlife stadium in august as he's finishing his first cycle of daffodil me i saw the excitement and felt the energy and decided to give it a try in january 2020 i made my first sema shas and brought my son joseph with me little did i know that less than three years two years later he joined me on the daf yami train and i owe debt of gratitude to you during himself hashanah encourages to come and try it out little did i know they're not only making the scene with highness and my cotton now might caught them but he would set his alarm for 6 a.m to get to diving beforehand he told me a few short buses ago that he woke up with a fright that he slept through the sheer he loves that i mean learning torah and has brought in a number of guys over the past few months i'm so proud of him and thankful to you to you for creating such a special family we can all be part of rob ernest beautiful gentlemen you want to come here are you the guy your father's no that's jose who's your save the other one and how long are you doing it highness so you're also how come your dad didn't talk about you let's go back here let's let's insert your name here what's your name your name is beyond i still remember joining my father at midlife stadium in august finishing this first day i saw the excitement felt energy in january 2020 i made my first team of shots and brought my son joseph and been yelling with me did you go with him to the sema shots that's why you're not in here oh you're one year old then ah no it's two years later it says fine anyways binyamin you're a great kid and your dad has a lot of knacks from you as well what do we have to do here oh i rebelly finally arrived in the holy land where are you i don't know hopefully it'll come soon maybe he's here today and i don't know do you have any guests here oh uncle phil's here and mark ashkenazi get over here oh you're not guessed fine abby b wow finally got here because of all the covert and everything before going i made up that will be the first time i'll actually do korea because i thought it was the correct thing to do reminisce the brewer etc i mentioned a few my very serious and learning friends and they also different reasons for not doing it in the real way one said try only going there for shabbos sell to a friend you should lime is in the hands of eden does not apply today i decided i was going to do korean pack myself an old shirt i bought some londoner takai dish last night went to the closet for mayor with my korea gear try not to look at the dome saw somewhere there i did in korea then i watched incredible share and i have been following since baitsa and it was a beautiful sign from the holy one above about the korea decision thank you rebelli big shout out to my son ellie melo who gets up early before you shiv each morning to do the dab with mdy rebelli and matcha karsatov abby b here it is i don't want to be that person i'm showing his picture again i didn't look into it i'm not a rav i don't know that this is the right way to do korea korea should be like from over here from the buttons this way he did kami safa that we had that we had that gemara call yourself it's not a hundred i don't know again he might be doing it the right way don't learn from this no yeah most most people like this and then down and this is a nice tear this way this is from eating chumps kind of thing it's a good tip it's a nice tear yeah real quick okay this guy this this okay fine the boy's side today is that zion don't worry we we are going to be where we need to be we're holding in the middle of the bay's sponsor we're the old sponsors i hope i printed i think i printed them out somewhere in here [Music] you just scared nachman maybe it's his first time here since the buzzer but it scares you every time yes annoying okay i don't know what happened to the sponsors that's terrible okay we'll have to do it from here oh yeah yo you're a boy side sorry okay it's all over the place here the coilo sponsored by mr anonymous money cotton is dedicated by the kessinger david's family's refuge limo for miriam estabas verba karov michael and jamie melon memory of the voter figure aliyah by jonathan eltas the place that we're doing it on matsi chavez in ranana in honor of jonathan austin for introducing me to mdy jonathan austin is also the guy that got me on meaningful people etc etc antenativ rib david passner posner rev david posner from thornhill who now learns mishnah is because of mdy and of course the rebellion all that you do then the white family leadership challenge by mdy los angeles mother of the five little children was killed the other day in an accident from los angeles and for slimmer for her husband leo shmuel ben leia but his outer and kamiyanski families for reforest lama of abina bat khanna we also have a sponsor today's zion author lili nishmas moisturabeno [Music] what else oh we have two sponsors that came in very late and i thought it was very interesting these sponsors because one is akiva and lali sulkowitz in honor of his wife's father's first yard side rib shawn sveeb and maisha he's in the shadow i'm pretty sure that the second sponsor had no idea that the first plants were sponsored david zlatnick mazeltov today may you grow up to be an even bigger marbet's tired than ellie oh maine but here's what's very interesting dubbed zlatnick single-handedly changed mdy he's the one that took the initiative border gemara for akiva sulku it's the one that sponsored right before him and because he did that and a keeper soaked with me to see him invited all his friends and at that seal we know what happened 30 people signed up and today there's 333 people on two whatsapp groups of these guys and that all started three four months ago and that's why we have f245 and f94 and all right boys i have a question for you moving on david's laughing look what you did to me the boosters the daily booster that i get it's crazy you know what another daily booster here let me just go through my boosha i pulled out my tone the other day and i said if you flip through a two like this you have to take no wrong shot the misha brewer says specifically it has to be just this part that goes around the head if that's flipped this part is nice to have it right side up and black outside but the what the gemara means about fasting is when the peace over here so boucha i have a question for the alum almost 20 years ago i sat shiva at my mother allah she was only 49 years old she was the principal of bisiyaku rampo in munzee she was nifter in muncie and we came here to stroll the barrier and we were very fortunate to sit shiva in the house of the famous rebelliour finkel the magician the quran of the bracha of in the mir yeshiva from the fingal family and during shiva raphael kanyeski came to be menachem abel of course because he knew i was going to be a magician and rebel yashev this was 20 years ago it happened to be that my father was sitting next to me that might have a little to do with it and a bunch of other dilemmas came so the question is was i'm to stand up i have no idea what i did i probably did whatever my father did was i'm ahead to stand up for rebuy asheville who's the golador of khaim keniwski galadar and if the answer is no could i stand up if i wanted to anybody you say inaudible i and if i wanted to could i so live he learned to suggest yesterday and he says you can't he's so he's right to a point you don't have to well we'll see that if you want to hopefully we'll get there today if you want to you could at heihan korea you see this like on club on the bays where the lines get wide one or two lines down at korea when you tear kriya how far down must one go ad tiburo you go all the way to the navel you don't have to go that far you go to the heart affection right even though there's no exact position for the zeitgeist we have a hint in the torah shinema vikiru levatham over here a voice that doesn't mean on top of because it's not an iron it's owl meaning and not tear to your heart and not your clothing is a as a hint it's a nice ramez it's a rubbish a toilet kind of thing like don't tear your clothing any more than your heart once you reach the furthest part possible which is the navel and you want to rip again margaret boys i have a picture of that here's a guy that tore kriya one two three times right over here two times two times okay but you have to just distance one create from the other three finger breaths missmalin elephant of maxillarov if there's too many creos over here you just flip it around nismala milamalo too many creos over here you just flip it this way as you explained yesterday just open it up over here for your feet you poke a hole over here for your arms to poke out you you sew up the top you have a little neck and that's it what is this there's no shape or form to this it's basically like a a robe a dress there's no shape to it to begin with let's say i have a fancy thing that caught you know this was handmade so it might have cost ten thousand dollars to make one of these so you want to save it so you start you do a little korea down here matzah i don't know over here loyalto that's not a good creo ella she clean godot the gemara is telling us that a kangado who's not required is awesome to do a kriya he doesn't have to do kriya he should do a korea just a symbolic kriya because that creed is nothing the queen on the bottom is nothing so let him do a query on the bottom for cover of his father and his mother but not because he's muhoyev to the opposite if he would be much too then would be awesome to do please or whatever you get what i'm saying is they said it in the name of shmuel and levi khadomir called shiva what happens if a person rahman al-salaan is in the middle of shiva and he finds out there's another terror another mace called shiva korea the entire shiva he tears another tier a new one but if it the seven days already passed so now all he does is he takes the existing tear and we said yesterday allah you needed tears a little bit add a little bit more the khado markus all 30 days he must hear a brand new tier la christian myself and after 30 days the question is 7 days or 30 days after 30 days you add a little bit now in order to understand the next line we have to understand this if somebody does kriya on a shlila on one of these guys a unprofessional stitch is it yay to create or not to kriya so you could look on the top top line of the um it says [Music] okay so that's number one if you tear this since it's not a good stitch so tearing this is nothing tearing from uh if it was done professionally that is a tear another thing we just learned adding adding a little bit of a tear you have a five inch tier you made it six it's not knicker that you're doing it for the for the new nifter maybe you're doing it for the father that that you tore a few days ago you just you're upset now you tear a little bit more but what if you close it up beshlow you close it up a very rudimentary kind of closing and then your myself you do two things you close it and you add then it would be okay why because now you're showing that you're tearing specifically for the new mace how do i show because it's closed up yes it's not a perfect closing i'm not trying to use the closed up portion i'm trying to add together with the closed up the two things together oh so now that we know that those two things muscular zero manda omar called shiva korea if you say that i need a brand new tear and my delay nitinol perhaps it's because during the shiva this is not permissible i cannot stitch it up even rudimentarily uh yeah elohim we learned that a woman as her covet that she should be sneezed and covered at all times we allow her immediately to stitch it up like this so according to that a woman should be able to undo that stitching and be myself a little bit i heard that your son is doing great that he's learning to deaf after yeshiva beautiful ah i would miss him i didn't know why he's not here what's his name let's give him a shout out to finish us out there oh sorry okay so what that's okay if she tears it here's this part sewn and then adds a little bit you're going to tell me that's okay not okay it says nobody could deteriorate like that you have to make a brand new tier it says this sewed up thing is not a sewed up thing we don't view that logically as sewn up we view it as a sneeze precaution we allow her to to stitch it up a little bit so she should be it's not because it's stitched up her luckily now she's undoing it and you could tell that there's a new korea here for the mace same question again it's just this is the trickiest part of today's daf but it's not tricky at all mandoma yes it is sorry my constellation korea it actually is today's stuff i'll tell you why we had to change it around because you don't want to come here on a thursday and learn for two and a half minutes and go home that's not going to be so look at that you have to leave a little bit for the ceo you have to then there's only 10 lines so this we readjusted it oh you better uh gary do me a favor shut that timer this is a whole amid i get more time shot it you're going to scare people here man okay nakamura again oh man construction query the same question though the madness says it's 30 days then you you the entire 30 days you have to tear a new one this is the hardest part so i'm going slow why you cannot stitch it up beautifully not shallow beautifully i have a picture but not not important here let's see if we have it no okay so for a father and a mother we cannot stitch it up beautifully forever what so if you just add a little bit that's okay hassan says and that's why you could add a little bit at the end of the day for a father who you cannot do so why can't you just add a little bit that's for the father and mother's a special covenant for father and mother that's why he can be mice a guy shows up to a funeral with his special kriya shirt revlon kanewski puts on his frack that has he already tore from it 20 times when he went to the castle so what is he doing he's he's trying to fool the dead not reclaiming the other guy you're faking you're pretending that you care about the maze and look i even tore for you you didn't tear it's like we had a similar lakha it's a very interesting allah i wasn't aware of that luck until i learned that gemara like three four years ago that a lot of times a guest comes and you tell the guests oh you know for you you know what a bottle of wine i bought for you i bought the special castell we're going to pop it open but you do whatever shabbos anyways you're not doing it for him what is that called geneva's das your name is das so they are also similar you're stealing the dots of the maze you're lying to the mace and it's a terrible thing you asked me out from the other day yeah you cannot somebody asked me i don't remember wasn't you he's robbing me somebody he's not honored does living end is dead but there's also history i'm telling you this is from the mace and you and you can't give back to the maze okay good i'm telling you what i say so what let's see let's see let's see on hi reza goyzal as hamasim mason to steal from the dead it's even a bigger so they say because you cannot return it fine you're deceiving them thinks look at you you showed up what a nice guy you took a frack out of this closet no i did this seven years ago already he tells his friend he has a very sick father could i please have something i need i don't want to be embarrassed i need to go there on a trip and the guy that borrowed the garment comes and he finds his father dead we have a big dilemma here how could he possibly tear his friend's clothing the answer is because his friend lent him the garment so he shouldn't be embarrassed he shouldn't be embarrassed means that he has to be able to tear it and he tears it so if he hears it why does he have to sew it back you give him so no i only gave you permission not to be embarrassed i didn't tell you to that you could just destroy my garments forever so sew it back up okay over the basement he returns it as is but nicely right whatever the difference is now the it's not worth as much and if you didn't notify the lender that there's a problem the father is very sick no you can't do it now a lot of people learn from here some points can say you see from here that if you give your shirt to your friend you're making your shirt to your friend say oh you see the shirt i want you to i want you to have it now because i'm going to the castle but the guy knows that you're going to the castle and by the castle you can't be embarrassed not ripping so it doesn't help to sell your shirt to your friend the same thing over here if he knows you're borrowing a brand new suit from your friend you're allowed to tear it to do korea because he knows that you're going to have a situation that you might need to clear it so here also might not work selling your shirt when you go to the kaiser tara mace so we have this unfortunately we're familiar with this there's a very sick person who somebody died everybody didn't know the mace you don't let them know shema the tariff died to your love because the the sick person will get very upset and it'll be bad they make karma fun of and you don't do kriya in front of the maze um and you tell the women not to scream and and and and have a commotion there that somebody died or mccarthy agust and it was a very small child and we see this a lot at the bias this very small child we're gonna have to take away that uh he's having too much fun yeah disable him he's good he's good how do you disable a buzzer and not him figure it out if there's a small child well a three-year-old not even you you tear korea for the kid if the kid lost the parent so that other people should cry it invokes a lot of emotion and a person should hear for his own father-in-law mother-in-law to honor his own wife this is also unfortunately i learned this a lot myself i had young children at the time and they wanted to give me my children oh no you can't it brings too much simcha it's it's a little said hello look how cute and the kid laughs and this and that it ruins the whole shiva atmosphere do not hold a baby during shiva vibration we learned in the mishnah according to lottery china the mission was talking about khalamayid and it says that when you eat a meal you don't eat the meal on a upright bed that first meal if the person that's coming to be menachem marvel is best friends libregas he's best friends with davo yeah vroo i'll meet his four years he should sit down next to the avail on a upside down bed meet the fuyo here's amitakuya so as we're going to learn today and we're going to discuss this inland in depth there's a lot you have to flip the bed over this has nothing to do with sar and natsar it's part of the alakas of avelos you flip the bed over you want you can sit on the bed you want you sit on the floor but you have to flip the bed over so if you're a guest and you're coming to visit and he's eating immediately sit down with him on the bed them live if you're not great friends i'll make the school voice so you you wanna you wanna eat it's not so accepted i think today to eat but let's say you wanna eat a smacking meal there's a lot of food at the base of you eat on a regular cheer ravo says i want to point out again over and over as we saw a second ago the lotion of the gemara the gemara is always so careful to talk in a very clean and refined way brought up many times unfortunately in our generation people use i myself kind of used it but unintentionally when i was talking about that solid guys but they'll use real curse words in the from islam in the regular they the guys between themselves how much the gemara was careful to use different lashinis and to say ichabe milta you know what say oh rubble was sitting shiva something bad happened to him we had it yesterday also in the sugiya of calls it to bless hashem when in fact he's doing the exact reverse and think about it also what is the worst of vera the one of the worst divers in the world the key of skila is the biggest ionish there's no greater punishment than skila and the greatest the worst of the worst skila is mavaraka hashem and aveda zara what do you see the power of words you'll say i just said something no saying is everything learning torah is the reverse you just say something and with your mouth you don't take action you're being became the greatest mitzvah so the power of words says the gemaro ravi milton bad thing happened to him he's also known as abu banyam zakif rava flipped over the bed for him i remember at the coffee armatures flipped it back over this is like a fight rover did one of these says to sit down and he goes no no rub is on the floor i'm gonna flip it back over omar so it seems like rubber was his rebbe and he says these are one of the sharpest lines and shots one of these lines that makes you say wow how could a a moyra speak like that kama les pedeita look at this guy has no brains like superman abundance i'm going to clock him i'm a oval he says about himself he's a novel rob is an oval i sit on the floor upside down i'm putting the bed straight forward you're supposed to sit up on a chair what do you think you're my friend if you're lee boy gospel the swamp shot you're my best friend okay i'm trying to show you you're not my friend i'm flipping it over you sit normally and you you're telling me no i'm your best friend what's wrong with you and and now my aim to give muscle to the students like that was okay a person who's on a business trip that's going if he can do less business and he found out that his father mother was nifter only his father and mother because the other craving you're allowed to do some somewhere in somewhat of business over here he has to make he has to do less business if there's too much of a law so he can't do less you go iman he's with an entourage of people let it be nibla so to speak within their business when do you have to flip over the beds now this means all right when you take off your shoes the rush says we're not talking about shoes because some people don't have shoes so we we grabbed on one one allah when do you have to flip the bed upside down inside out over michigan's investor baser once that person leaves the house that's when you flip it div when the grave is covered when they cover the iron for good whatever that means but it's over mice and shames ripping them leo hazoken it says over here azakian they say on the side just want to point out there's a big difference you look over here this is the grandfather of udain asi hazakin is all the way over here he's the grandson of hiluazakin that's a different generation the proof is because rebel yezer wasn't he was a baby over here and they're quoting rebellious as a zakin rebel yeser was old so must be that reblazer is we're talking about in this generation it's remington lee i'll not ring him leela okay that's what it says on the side my sister are messing with but he's only two years old what do you mean really as i said so must be that it's talking about a hundred years later when ribeyezza was already dog everybody flipped the beds you know that stone that goes over um wakes up and he says i shouldn't say that says flip over the bed um what do you what do you mean tell us the flip we already did it rebellion told us when we left the house so you see the same mach like is between your belize when do you flip the bed back bearer of shabbos we know that on chavez you're not going to show any simone of availos we had all shiloh foreign for sure you can't you can't act by baseball so you need to turn the bed over me says i'm not sure is it which is five and a half hours before shikiya or minho katana which is two and a half hours before shaquille the bottom line is you have at least two and a half hours there's a lot of beds at home it takes time and effort it's not just taking off your shoes how long does that take 10 seconds you do it right before shopping over here you have to make sure that all the beds are upright however we won't have a bike shop we can't sit on it so what if the bed is right side up you can't sit on it um even though let's say he gets up from ship on sunday morning to flip the bed over you might have a half a minute let's say that fiesta meat is a one-time deal it's not a it's not a veilos maybe you just have to flip it over now that i flipped it right side up and i only have a little bit but if you show them say even more the roshanim say that i would think the mix is saying for cooler and i'm already about to shabbos and i read so maybe i don't have to flip the bed right upside down again commercial you have to flip the bed upside down you have to flip up all the beds in the house ten different places cool you have to flip them all again so you see this idea that flipping the bed is something that we might not understand percent it's not about maya veilos it's about flipping all the beds one brother out of the five brother dies cool and kaifen in five different homes all homes have to flip the beds if it's like the bed that i have in my house in the guest room you have the printer and the this on top of the bed and all sorts of stuff the laundry from six years ago not in my house ain't certainly so it's not a bed what is it it's a nice large shelf diary you put it on its side over here it's like fight means put on inside ribs so if you go to this picture if you undo these knots right over here so you have holes in the frame and you tie this leather you can see right over here you tie it over here see undo over here and whatever you want to call that the mattress or whatever this piece is falls to the floor and does the machines you shine them actually is this a kula or a homura does it mean they could get away with this or you also have to do that okay mai dargash arma oolo arsa very very interesting the rashi over here says that they had a bed that was called mazel tov bed mazel tov it's not a bed you sit on we'll see in a second even the king doesn't sit on it you don't have permission to sit on it it brings good luck says the ran and if you have mishna that's showing him on the side if you have a messified you could see it inside on the bottom on the left side how could it be it's mama you can't have a superstitious thing in your house so he says it's not superstitious what it is it's similar to rashi explains rashi maybe that they it's a show of thank you hashem for everything you give me i have an abundance i have so much i have extra bed here thank you i'm not complaining i i'm so happy with everything you give me and that brings ashrae that that sign of thanks to hashem brings more to the house and they call it a mazel tov but it's not a nikos aquaponic if you have a mazel tov bed you don't have to flip it on its you don't have to flip it over put it like this sideways you have to manage flip it it says that the king everybody sits on the floor when he's an oval crazy everybody's on the floor he's sitting on the darkness a king never says on the mazel tov it's not good he can't sit on it and all of a sudden now because he's going to let him sit on it says ravashi i don't understand your question i have a question on the question masculinity it's it's normal nobody ever fed the king you don't come in with with caucus cake and give it to the king he has his own chef he does his own thing hashtag but he's not allowed to eat his own food you have to feed him you put it right side up the gado a minute voiceover why does it why can't why don't you have to flip it basically i don't understand you have to flip everything in your house even the mazel tov says i don't understand what you don't understand what my um it's not a bed it's a mazel tov bed if you have a shelf bed that you have your printer on and all your other stuff on you don't have to flip that off we said that all you have to do is undo these knots and it falls down to the floor and if it's this iris of the gado it doesn't have carbide this individual was in the marketplace with the leather makers they sold their leather goods and he said he's very familiar with leather my dirgosh arso did slo is this it yeah they say this is this is a dire gush it's made out of leather it's a leather bed bag okay so you sleep on this as a normal bed but why where they make all the restraining explain so what's the difference if this is a regular bed then why don't you have to flip it over why do you put it on the side the answer is because look at the material it's leather if you flip it over this way you're going to destroy it it's not good for the leather so we allowed you just to do something nice put it right side up you can't sleep on it and it's not flipped over oh my review the guy takes out it the bindings are within the frame and mitosis if you look over here the bed the bindings go okay all you have to do is undo the karbitov and the thing falls down to the ground um you have another we had this in sukkah if you remember it's a bed that kills whether it has two posts four posts you put a sheet over it and it saves you from the mosquitoes what oh i just want to show what it looks like when it's like right side up and what you do is you do you go like this because obviously you can't flip it because it has these two poles how are you going to put how is it going to stand upside down it can't now some say if the poles come out then you have to flip it so what you do is you put it on its side so here we go with the halakha flipping over a bit it doesn't help to put yourself in a situation of tsar and and sleeping on a on a chair or on a rock or on the floor it doesn't help we had this earlier right yoshino you decide to to show your availables by sitting in a chair agave with yoni or on one of these guys a stone that covers a well or a mortar what the point is it's a stone it's very uncomfortable the worst the worst is if you're sleeping on the ground it's not about painting yourself it's about flipping the bed and if you flip the bed and you're yet by flipping the bed then you could go ahead and sleep on the floor if you wish the point is you must must be increasing there's so many turning rambans that we have to say that's on our abundance story there was a guy in the mirror yeshiva and all of a sudden is walking down the aisle so the bunker goes and says you know there's no tanner abandoned himself in the dharam so he told over the store to behind and he says but there is there is however the story still makes sense because you can't say the tunnel on that doesn't work it has to be tanner about it so okay it's a good story again i beat somebody you're allowed to sweep normally you let it beat people up normally i mean you're allowed to spray water people sprinkle water um and you do the dishes the kaisers with the tiny eyes base oval all the dishes the plates the the balls everything is visible some of this and don't bring good smelling uh spices you know it's a stickler problem people come in there a lot of people and you don't do that what what can you learn from this if you're a plastic what a lot would you learn from this that you can't smoke on tisha buff that's what they they try to prove from here that it's a it's it's good smelling thing and it's not it's not appropriate for the base oval it gives them too much timber anytime it says don't make a brockhamp it doesn't say anything about bringing some men i assume have seen it seems like you're allowed to bring it in just don't make it there's somebody starting to learn the base album means literally the dead person is there and he needs a lot of summon to overcome the order of the mace so that's okay and basically means when he's not there anymore but rashy here learns differently basovo means that the others by himself so you're not going to put him something there but when there's a lot of people coming to visit him then you could use basamine the official mishna is sponsored when you bring food you don't bring a nice board what is it called give him a thing and not a large bowl because you don't bring food in nice devices velocana not in a nice basket hell of a salad in like a little simple basket in a plastic bag nowadays you do stand in the two rows and everybody goes through and everybody screams well mr robin you tell everybody go home it's okay it's fine you don't leave the dead person in the middle of the street if he's to give him a husband why she'll have assassin so people shouldn't get thinking that you could do in the beginning they used to bring food to the office house ashirim because officials in the beginning they the the wealthy they would bring on golden silver platters vanilla saline and sorry the word the cheapest of the cheap foreign the poor would be embarrassed again the gemara is always very into not embarrassing people making sure everybody's on the same playing field is there's one everybody brought in the same type of clique tonight very shiny masculine sauvignon brussels the wealthy would use clear glass my name is and the poor would use dirty glass basin and they would be embarrassing so i don't remember i had this uh this thing and i felt kind of silly i thought it was cool that this is how the funeral looked in fact i was right in those days before they made a takana you were able to see the dead person's face the the the wealthier people danim not so much why because and the poor was embarrassed i got to tell you the story real quickly because it's 803 and with that we'll finish there was a person they say it's a true story a person got a call that his mother was nifter in the nursing home she went they made a hold of vayo and he sat shiva and after the shiva he gets a phone call from his mother you wrote it's in your book it's a msm isa you want to say the story please so tell me if i'm saying it correctly so ma i buried you i said no but he didn't say that he's smarter than i said what's going on so what do you mean what's going on where are you for a whole week what's wrong with you close up the nurse and go oh i'm so sorry we confused the two people similar name so they call up the real son and they say you know bad news and good news the bad news is your mom died good news is you don't have to pay for your funeral she's already buried in the base like far as everything's good and you don't even have to sit but somebody's sad for you so he's like i cannot believe it mom you won she had argued with him he said just cremate well i'm going to cremate you she said no i want to be buried like firstly sir no i'm not going to do it trust me you're going to die i'm going to burn you mom you want you got first see sora you swallow i hope you say that yeah knocking it to emerson myself beautiful have a wonderful day i just said it because you see the the dead you don't see the dead you