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who is it we have email here
if standing's very straight and wearing
shoes you could say i'm 5'3
robbie schuster i knew well and he was
over six feet tall
but it's about the 80th time i've been
asked if that's me ah
the early 90s in the old city were
geschmach
yehuda agreement
this is in fact you the agreement
somebody sits five feet away from me
every day what a crazy coincidence i had
no idea but he's not even here
it's old city it's the old city it goes
like this
what did you say it's not him
somebody sent me a picture of him and
his brother it's not him but boys it's
not him here he is in texas
watching this year
it's not eve this is how confucius
save the
what is that what's going on here
we have a we have a gift here
save the date
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okay real quickly i want to address this
somebody wrote
online
i've got the lotion exactly
does anybody know who the other side is
this is a proof that's him
i know
this is the picture somebody sent me
that's it finished and
that's it that's it it's the same guy
with the ponytail but okay you guys want
to argue
okay
and the debate continues
somebody wrote online he says it's very
nice that ellie obviously is a common
music he called me ellie ellie donated
100 000 but why does he have to announce
it to the world doesn't he understand
i guess it's a puzzle somewhere i'm not
familiar
so the answer is
i'm of the opinion that if it's
he's making a wedding right now
i don't drink before chakras i have a
problem i can't
you guys do
so
rabbi sai the reason why it's levitating
here today
i believe
i believe it's nothing to do with how
much it is
i believe that if
i could get one or two people
five people i'm a kazak i give
a lot of that debate you go anonymous
anonymous doesn't inspire anybody
anonymous
i'm telling you i'm giving x and in fact
somebody called me up yesterday and said
i'm giving 18 000 because of what you
said so just for that it was worth it
i anticipate that many more are going to
jump in on this your vomit is going to
cost us probably 200 000
when it comes to all the art and
everything so we need to we need to
to drum it up a little bit and let me
show you something i made this beautiful
chart
benefit of donating one gemara for 35
you give somebody the gift of torah
you change his life there's many many
more things i just threw it together at
five to seven
you change the person's family we see it
all the time and don't forget
in my opinion
nobody's ever shown
otherwise other rabbit write in what
others daca could you give 35
and you have this kind of return on
investment
35 you give somebody torah and it
changes his life time after time after
time avi you're in the
so
yes
you give 35 dollars you probably buy a
half a meal in a haul what are you gonna
get for the 35 you change your person's
life i'm not going to compare this
document to this daca i don't know of a
better stalker for me and that's why i
invested my money there i want other
people to be inspired if you have a
muscle somebody got a yerusha if
somebody donates now two million dollars
to mdy i will put every single dollar to
use to bring turret to the world every
single dollar
i will not match it and if i do that i
won't say
there's a possibility
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i'm not telling you
how much i really i'm donating a lot
more than a hundred thousand i'm just
the anova the hundred thousand
it was an amazing experience to visit
the share says morinez i forgot to
mention that my wife's cousin is london
we love the london shout out to his
brother my neighbor you so you also love
the londons you took london who learns
the daffodil mdy together the sons you
heal every night i can tell you
firsthand that there's a newfound
excitement of learning torah amongst the
london family beside when i visited with
my cousin i read everybody said you're
going to see a picture of me that you've
never saw before unbelievable flattering
picture i'm going to show it
the next day the next day we're seeing
oh me and uh and morty ness
the next day received at least three
messages from around the globe from
people saw him during the share one was
from his hometown of atlanta georgia
another from josh hyman from charleston
south carolina just to give you the
strength of the community
morty ness here's the picture love it
mamish love the picture
unreal
for the picture
um
well we don't have to go through all
these but real last one rough day
nothing like nothing spending time with
kids having
and getting in the daf all in one
solution to a long day out of the office
thank you for your efforts management
continue to give you the energy keep
going your talmud max
max
max keenan here he goes with his
daughter it looks like she really wants
to get off his lap i'm not sure she's in
that position like could you stop posing
here for the picture but no no it's good
stuff
perfect timing today's sheer
where's debbie is every here today
zoe's not here we'll talk about not
yours evie the other your friend
not interesting great story you told me
yesterday
uh to this month's call sponsor mr
anonymous
joseph i have a debate with this mr
anonymous all the time he's real
anonymous but i really believe that
telling people who it is behind that
donation especially we're not talking
about anime here the people getting the
gemaras don't know who it came from and
i don't know who gave who i'm giving to
so it could be
here i'm telling i'm trying to inspire
other people to give me someone's
marriage cotton is dedicated by the
question david's families refuse them
for mere messages
michael and jamie bemela in memory of
the various fake about shmuel and mendel
and when the shamans have an aliyah
i'm certain she's thrilled i found you a
special thank you again to jay spector
for the intro to rebellion at the
beginning of broadway
preston is with us from brachas
mordechai
karen caron karen you're side of my
parents sorry
and pesach
should have a leo rabbi sai we're a
little bit behind not too bad
we are and
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you know let's just take it from the
middle of the daf we'll go back a little
bit
because we have to catch up a little bit
okay so it goes like this mishloch
you have it we'll go quickly because we
did a lot of it
we're learning the halakhas of what you
could
say and what you could ask can you say
hello to somebody that's babalos could
he answer back
so he said there's enough community in
the first three days and afterwards the
first three days
he doesn't even answer somebody says how
are you doing you don't answer you say
unfortunately i had a loss etc
from three days to seven days he could
answer
after seven days
he could even
ask somebody how he's doing
but other people don't ask him the
menachem until 30 days
and then
what's that on the screen
yeah i'll wait it's fine
is it possible to remove that
thanks
so
aft
so other people don't ask
they just menachem until 30 days but
there's a difference between other
people and
for parents it's still 12 months not 30
days
after 30 days or 12 months for parents
or other craving
then you don't you're not menachem why
you're not menachem because you don't
want to bring up bad memories so you do
them
you do it
indirectly you say
you don't say
oh i love the mother
etc okay so now let's see inside
shiva we're holding this
could answer i'm doing fine but he
doesn't ask and how are you doing
um after the shiva what does it say
let's remember this he's permitted to
ask how are you doing after shiva
vera amino but is a contradiction i
might says
if somebody finds
you don't ask you don't ask how he's
doing
and after
seven we said you could ask an answer in
other words somebody could ask you
i'm
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don't talk about the parent or whatever
it is
so that's the question the question is
there's a contradiction could he ask
after shiva could he
my little shot in marriage 80 20
nobody cared about it nobody even wrote
to me it was good not good great at
least i didn't insult anybody there
there's a 80 20 don't focus on the 20
that's not so good
person's wife dies and he immediately
marries somebody else it's a little
suspicious how she died insurance she
had another woman right there waiting to
get married within the the shloish how
does it happen so he says he has young
kids he has to get married quickly and
shortly khan is the base of the devil
he doesn't go in there and start
praising his previous white that's not
nice in front of his new wife mitsoy
bashuk but if he finds him in the
marketplace
this is where we got to
so we have a contradiction
yes
interesting he could ask somebody how
are you doing because that person is
doing fine so you could ask him
but they cannot return the favor they
can't ask him how he's doing shu any
sharia bashar
he's in a bad mood
he just had a terrible loss what do you
ask him how he's doing
so yes the other could ask you but you
can ask him
but it says he can answer meaning
somebody asked him a question somebody
did ask him how he's doing
that's why he could answer
so we have a we have a it's a big
if somebody has no no clue it happens
all the time guy gets up from shiva not
everybody in the world knows what
happened then he goes to work and
somebody says how are you doing so he's
permitted to answer
the other way to do it is he could tell
him about his loss but look at this he
doesn't have to say about his loss he
could just say i'm doing great
by the three first days
wasn't the answer
if somebody didn't know somebody didn't
know so answer nicely would have just
say i'm doing great we have to go into a
whole tire what happened by the lava
the first three days in such terrible
veils no you shouldn't answer did you
just explain
you know over here he doesn't need to
explain he just could answer like a
normal human being sean is from wait if
you do know about is availos don't go
over to somebody that has an avedas and
say how are you doing even after shiva
meanwhile
if you found somebody that saw avail
within
12 months
what do we learn we learned that after
30 days
you're good to go there's no there's
nothing going on after 30 days you could
ask and no no problem here it says
you don't
if a guy finds a friend
and he had a loss 12 months earlier
so he says a terrible muscle
and this gives us understanding what's
going on here
is
a person broke his leg and it healed
mata raife
i'm gonna break it so i can show you my
nice new
device i have i know you don't need
casts anymore with the
i'm not going to put cement i have this
plastic thing let me show you
breaks his bone and puts it back
the person finally heals after 12 months
of a loss and you say oh what a
wonderful father unbeliever and then
he's going to start crying again not
good
by the way i don't know if you recycle
but i was lucky to be in many surgeries
to watch surgeries and uh they actually
do that if somebody gets a nose job and
schwerer was big into that still is
so they take a hammer literally a hammer
and just letting you know this is how it
goes take a hammer and uh like a chisel
and boom the sound is unbelievable just
goes at it bang bang the guy is
unconscious he has no idea his head is
going yeah
you can hear the the sound all the way
down the hall break the break the bone
physically with a hammer and a chisel
that's what if somebody wants to get a
nose job that's what it's like
but
you should just know that i have a great
device of healing
like asia so what is it could i could i
could i say hello to the guy after 30
days is it 12 months what's going on
here says mario okay the obvious answer
how about email you'll be craving
there's a difference between a father
and a mother father and mother lasts for
12 months other craving lasts 30 days
says good morning
what does it say
by the craving
he can't he can't talk to him at all
after 30 days don't bring waianae
let him be polite let him say i'm not
going to bump into somebody i lost a
child leilano or something whatever a
sister i don't know what
so why does he murder say you can't
don't mention it after 30 days don't
mention so apparent that's 12 months to
somebody 30 days why don't mention it
say it in a nice
indirect way
you don't have to bring up the child
that was killed in the accident but
be polite
you're right you should
it just means don't don't bring up the
whole thing all over again don't rehash
it
you could bring it up indirectly
zeb you want to come here for a second
yeah i want you to tell me the story
they told me yesterday
different time tomorrow tomorrow get
ready
i'm very soon
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perfect
timing
slicer oval slicer yummer's showing him
carve my name this happens our boys eye
all the time
especially people that are nifty or
hustlers and they want to be buried in
their stroll
so
part of the family goes with the aurenta
er swal zikra and many times they come
back
what happens to shiva
when do they start what are the people
of america start sitting shiva do they
wait until the kefura
and the person going with the nifter
when it comes back to america how many
days does he have to sit
all this alaka's right here
is showing him
if he just shows up
now this is not that he went and he's
dealing with the mace at all he lives
making carve one day worth away 40 mil
approximately 40 miles let's call it 40
miles just for argument's sake 40 miles
away
if he comes to two conditions if he
comes from a close place
and it's within the three first days
my name i'm
so he saves like two and a half three
days of shiva guy doesn't want to sit
seven days on the floor and then and see
all these people
he takes it easy doesn't show up to
where the sitting shiva for the first
three days he's good all he has to do is
sit here for four days
and if he lives three blocks away and he
shows up on day four now he has to count
now he has to sit seven full days rep
shimmy nightmare ramshim is makel and he
says
it doesn't matter if he sits down with
his family even for five minutes the
last five minutes of shiva
he's yay who are we passing like rabbi
why rips him in
because in novelis we go likula so we
always pass can like the mako
and the kumar is going to say that
straight out
oh my gosh jump right in welcome queer
with my name
the first three days you come from a
close place you sit down with the rest
of the family
when the baja is there now they're
trying to point out
every family has their heart
sometimes the bihar is not a true
bukhari doesn't act like a bacharach it
could be a woman there's sometimes
there's always that one person that that
that controls the family so to speak
whatever she decides he decides it goes
that's the god of bias the one that
makes decisions let's do it like this
so if that person is in that velo's
house then that veils goes by that
person
if the younger kids are in the house it
doesn't go by them at all it doesn't
count where they sit
top point and now we'll see that it
might change a little bit ebola
so there's a big allah as we're going to
see
that
in america in hutzlarz
unfortunately i've been to these many
times you go to kennedy airport i just
know america i don't know about london
and always go to kennedy airport to the
cargo
and you see the r off
that is when available starts for
everybody that stays in america
it's the the point that you say goodbye
to the rm
for two days
a day whatever it is
that's
typically available starts the steam is
going when you close the grave you put
the dirt on the on the iron that's it
that's when the available starts but
since
there's two parts here a lot of people
are staying behind for them this is
steven if you look in rashi
rashi says it's a little later down like
one third from the bottom it says
by them turning away from the orange
that's like closing up the grave for
these people availa starts there
but now and this
many times this happens right
the it's usually the older son
sons
they leave behind the mother elderly
people don't go
not everybody goes to the valley and
there's this row
they pick a few people they go with
aaron
so hollow god
the older one goes to the basic forest
what's the question
the younger ones are in america sitting
shiva
and they started shiva when they left
kennedy airport
so that shiva started could he be my
tariff with them but a second ago he
said that the guddall it goes by where
the goggle is
it doesn't go by tana
no or where it's different why because
over here before the goddard was just
doing his own thing he didn't feel like
coming to the tanner he was in his house
in muncie he didn't feel like going to
brooklyn
so it doesn't go by the time it goes by
the goddamn but over here the goggles
miss asic with the mace he's like a
shliyak i don't know i'm storing that
word and that's how i felt but it's
probably not the right shot he is
representing the tanam he's being isaac
bemace
so he is perhaps mistake with the
younger ones and he could join the
younger guy's shiva when he gets back
to basic foreign
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why should he count with them why should
he why should it go botania manila expo
we have a different price goggle goes by
himself wherever whenever he returns
whenever he sits down shiva that's when
it starts not when the the younger
brothers do shiver the younger family
if he can return
quick enough to be within the first
three days of the shiva then he's been
starving with them again he was
representing them he was isaac with the
mace yes their their shiva starts
when they turn around from the airport
i say airport i don't know i didn't like
looking at
but we're going to see in a second it
goes by the the entrance the city
to me you know kennedy's the end of the
city over there i don't know fine
if he returns day 7 day five whatever it
is then
he cannot be even starved with them
aloha rav levnay that's alpini
i've told the people it's alpine another
interesting night
doesn't matter over here it doesn't it
doesn't say who doesn't say it doesn't
say it's the god of the god though the
cotton anybody
that could get back to shiva within
three days he's good to go with you
ahead leave it on
if he doesn't get back within three days
he has to do his own shiva i'm a little
rubble of the name
so this is interesting
it's mamas like we have today it was a
minigame bubble to send the body turret
to throw everybody wants to be very nice
she comes the body jumps off doesn't
have to go through the ground
the lawyers lead the bosses
you guys are waiting over here by the
airport in boville you're not going to
go all the way tired to stroll
i don't even understand how they did it
it's like i mean they didn't have
refrigeration then it's like days upon
days carrying a body through the desert
okay they did it
so
madrid
so again that's the rashi that's where
rashi says it where i brought up before
hazaras
sorry
mister goyal
when you turn around and you walk away
that's like you covered over the grave
and mama that's where it starts in
bubble from when they take the body and
they start going to the desert is
and he says even if he comes from a very
close place but on the seventh day
so not even close is a heck it has to be
close you can't come from far close but
even on the seventh day
he doesn't have to do the whole shiva or
gandalf
arabic in the name of rebbe review
if you come a lot of times you come on
the seventh day shiva it's already over
finished done they're gone
you have to catch them like read by
chakras right so you have to make sure
there's people there
comforting them
if you see that they're like moving
around they're ready to get up and run
which
you'll have a live demonstration here at
eight o'clock eight one uh they start
moving that's ninaru
ninaru lamoid they want to get up and
run below we have the same exact
question by the way where life he knows
in
rosh hashanah
taku
fine
taku
there was a
there's a guy that came to our statement
every time i i don't know i probably
said the story 25 times but nobody
remembers this so it's great
a guy came
a guy came to rav stayman and said
amelia navi
so she says wow
i was waiting for you so long new what's
up shout in my cousin
what how do you explain it huh
okay
of zero
love
zero zero
the friend of rabb abba
heard from
her from him
who's verbal's friend rip zero or is the
reverse rib zera's friend who's rebecca
heard from him
right we said everybody knew that was
gonna be like shimon that if allah comes
even seven days into shiva and he's able
to catch him before they get up and
they're still not in them
he's
here i have a picture
this is
a bicycle tire
and there's a nail in there
and if you put a certain
uh sealer in there you put what is it
called
sealant he knows what it is so go right
through the hole and seal the whole the
same exact thing happens by an animal if
an animal has a hole in its intestines
it's strength but
as from vice fish send me i i asked him
like 12 o'clock in the morning if he has
pictures because i couldn't find my own
and he immediately sent me
this is a chicken's intestine and you
can see how it there's a big hole over
here and it sealed itself with
natural from within the body sealed
the hole if you want to see another one
of
this is
from a lung this lung has coming
dripping right out of it
causing the hole to self-seal
says
it down
the river
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sticky substance demayo from the
intestines
from the pressure the hole and this
pressure in there the whatever why is
the the animal tray for it as a whole
because it's going to leak well that
pressure of the leak
seals it off and it's kosher
and then how often
this to me is a sad story there's a guy
there and he says i want to know i want
to i love this
i want to hear from
himself or observe himself i want to
hear it with my own ears
he saw it he got there they're just
realizing
he found him
oh my my i love him shooting him a
little bit but trayvon is it true that
you said that luck was like
it was mixed up
so it's i don't know what to make of the
story it's like
he was he's dying to hear the allah from
him and instead of hearing that allah
remember he hears that everything was
messed up what you heard in bubbles not
correct
my okay okay fine
one out of two terrible what about the
other one that looks like your shim in
bavails that after seven days you don't
you don't sit you have a person doesn't
shiv at all he just he's there for five
minutes he's yay
that also i didn't say that loves like
him
we have two great ones that say that is
like that
says
we don't pass in that there's a hole and
it naturally seals it's a it's kosher
it's strafe
that says that one minute of a veil is
enough we go like that cheetah
aquaman of a person makes a very very
quick funeral
the person's nifter
it happens in their struggle it's a
little scary for me person's lift to 12
o'clock 12 30 is already in the ground
so if a person does that for regular
cardoif
it's a good thing
they're not making a spade them anyway
just to have the body layer around is
not covered in mace very quickly i love
alan nimoy when does he have to be
masked
intensely then harry's magoon is a
terrible thing to bury them quickly
however
i raised him in shoebox of course if
it's
you hurry it up
that is the covet of the father and
mother that you should do a quick leviah
i call it a mason coulomb
there was a quick mice i'll tell you
there was
padro
by the way the back over here says on
the side that
that if it rains
during a lavalier it's also covered for
the nifter just to hurry up the levaya
and very quickly sorry no i'm sure i'm
talking about it rideau padro was in
benebrach
he was the founder of arakayam seminary
in benebrach and as it happens and i'll
tell you what happened to me i saw this
with my own eyes
uh a car pulls into bane brock
and they start stoning the car
so
he on shabbos obviously in chalice so he
he runs over the car and he says what's
going on he says i'm here to pick up uh
my sister
father's lifter on chavez we got to do a
funeral quick funeral
so he told him he said listen
it's much more become a dick if we get a
whole bus
and your sister and all her friends will
come to levayo we'll make a whole
massive we'll get speakers this that
let's just push it off the once chavez
so i said fine and he got out of the car
and he came with them and that's how
he's able to defuse the situation think
about what would you do the guy's don't
call he has to make levi right now mama
come on come on base right now on
shabbos you got to bury so he he
explained to him that there's a bet i
could do even more coffee like that
i was wanting
my
but nothing to do with the sugiyo but
i was in the street
and a car in benebrach in benevolent
from the vermont where coca-cola is
today
a car comes in and they start pounding
this car with stones and it's dancing in
front of the whole thing and i was one
of the kids i don't know if i was
throwing stones i was just looking
watching and my father walked by
and my father walks over the car and the
guy rolls down the window and he starts
talking to me and he says i don't know
what's going on they want to kill me
what did i do
so my father says just park your car and
my father told everybody you know
so he parks his car
and he says uh
i came to visit my son he lives here in
neighborhood he's in colo
so he's like okay come to my house and
let's move so he came it turns out this
guy was iraq literally a rocket
scientist from nassau
and he came to visit his son
and he came and he's and he we had
childhoods i remember
he sat by shall sugar so we had the
whole suit of everything and from that
day on we used to get a box like every
month a box of nasa books
books and and like different um
what are they calling like models of
rockets and also the box every every
month okay we bumped into a rocket
scientist anyway
alcohol amazing coulomb rather might
biscoy
on other craven if a person wants to he
doesn't have to he could he could do a
little bit of business now there's this
challenge we're showing you what it
means that you're not out of work
someone's trying to say it's talking
about dover of it somebody shouldn't say
it's business business like uh you know
in the stock market you go you do a
couple of clicks on the phone that's not
the end of the world but my the little
bitcoin you know my
rotsa hmmi if he doesn't feel like it he
could do it
i love it valimo you might know when it
comes to a parent one should even that
stuff even just if you want to call a
business and even dover of it whatever
it is he should really take it easy when
it comes to that stuff that was very
sponsored by michael horn and woody
wyman as his clothes for morty moskowitz
what
moisture horn in honor of
chewy
chewy woody and kaley twins i i i don't
know how to read it you read it you tell
me what it says
that's how you say it okay
and out of myself wishing myself
in all my self's endeavors both in
gashamies and rookies
you know we're we're heading to yavamas
and there's a lot of khalita there this
is not khalid khalifa usually typically
means to
uncover
or take off a shoe over here halita
means to
reveal one shoulder
we don't have the minutic today but in
those days they would reveal a shoulder
if wanted and we see that's not it
wasn't maker had did it wasn't a hero
and that's why it doesn't apply today
for whatever reason
again a lot of the things don't apply
today because other the guy you make fun
and whatever
i love
but
on a father and mother one is obligated
to reveal his shoulder
the um was
his father
was a nifter and he wanted to reveal his
shoulder ubiquitous godzilla and there's
another god out there that came to the
funeral she my lackluster and he also
wanted to reveal his shoulder vinim
naval khalat it's amazing that you can
look into this and think about it this
goggle who had the obligation to reveal
the shoulder for his own father was
concerned about the covet of his friend
he didn't want this other goddaughter to
have to reveal his shoulders
for a goddess
so he didn't he refused to reveal his
own thinking about the other thing about
the zulus
to be considerate
says abaya i want to tell you the story
it's the famous rabbi rabi huda hanasi
gadola darshi
and you know who was with him rivaka
baracha again you see if you're not
anonymous
anonymous story no it's a great story
but now that you know names you see
people
it's a whole different story
if the guest was rebbie i didn't even
have a look i can understand why rubik's
barrack didn't do it
look at this chart you're probably
familiar with it if you're with the
sheer
but if you look over here you see
in the famous hill river shimon gamlio
don't confuse one is rip shim and one is
gam leo then you have rip shim in
bengham leo then you're robbing them leo
then you have raven shimmy gamaliel
rashbach the famous black and then you
finally have ruby you don't see all the
way down here who was rebbie rebbie's
father who was nifter if it was his
father's nifter the nasi
rabshima
there's a lot of people know this about
pet like it just comes natural rebbe's
father was the nussey so if a nazis
nifter everybody has to reveal the
shoulder so he couldn't be nice to him
anyway what does it mean
i'm not going to reveal my shoulder so
you don't have to reveal you have to
reveal the shoulder because the nasty
was just sniffed there the nastiest
nifty you have to reveal
right it makes sense he was the nasty at
the time shimming him it was the nasty
and as soon as he sniffed her thenesis
went to his son
the author of the mishnah
you're right that's a good question it
doesn't make sense that was rebbe's
father's nifty makes more sense
that we're very familiar
after a person sits shiva and then he
has slays him he could take a haircut i
love him at
it's interesting to a lot of things that
i took for granted somebody asked me in
kyle yesterday kylian command he said
what do you mean by this that you walk
around the block what's this walking
around the block i said what you no some
people are not familiar parkership
they're not familiar when people get up
from availas
in the morning the seventh day they get
up and they walk outside people walk
them down the street and back whatever
there's a thing
so
if somebody is
after distillation for a father mother
so and he looks nasty so you walk over
and says your beard looks terrible what
did the khak mikhael do oh i love you in
a beard love it it looks great the guy
goes for three years you'll see people
like this why because the the chevrolet
is supposed to make fun of him and not
giving compliments
achieve
they have to yell at him and say take a
haircut
you look you look terrible
alcohol amazing you'll see people
literally with the hair going over the
collar you know like people that doesn't
really like russia shiva's i've seen you
have to tell them people are embarrassed
to tell them so they don't they they
think the other guy said you have to
walk around you look nasty my friend oh
thank you yeah finally somebody finally
and for a father mother after 12 months
if you want to look at places real
quickly let's say i don't know seven
eight lines from the bottom
and he says
if this we see a lot somebody wants to
go to a wedding he needs to get to his
nephew's wedding he's gonna miss his
nephew's wedding his his sister is
making a costume not gonna go
so what do they do what's the trick they
turn they become waiters
and that's a legit way to go to
somebody's wedding as long as you're not
eating says tysus if you sit down with
the band members and the waiters on
their table that's not an excuse you're
not allowed to eat with them
if you walk in there without eating it's
okay then
in order for you
to rejoice with the simcha be part of it
you will sit down and eat without you
eating
you're not part of the simcha
it says
and we have that if you have
possibilities
it's eating a drink fine next
don't worry raboisei all the people that
are worried that we're not going to
catch up is there some tomorrow we're
going to catch up
hello
this that you're allowed to go
after 30 days
is only for simchas mirellos
meaning if your friend makes a barbecue
there's some sort of you know like a
little bit of a friendly a havershaft
kind of sudo you let it go but not a
real pseudo a real pseudo meaning like a
wedding you don't go to that that's
that's what we're saying
but it says them together you see that
there's no aftermath between a simcha
and a mariah so wedding and a bbq are
all on the same line
you're right
so here the difference is because now
he's saying after seven days immediately
after seven days it was raised
a person's about to get up right after
shiva and go to his friend's barbecue a
lot of these things by the way
there was a kid and it is not a joke a
kid
he
he's told his rebbe i wish my
grandmother dies his grandmother die
yeah why
because
last year when my grandfather died my
father didn't go to any casanas he
didn't go to any some soccers he he's
home the whole time he's get smacked
and when i was in avelos i really felt
that it should be a key of guddall for
me at least to go to every wedding and
every dinner because it was the greatest
excuse sorry i can't go okay i can't
donate now i can't go i'm not i can't
come to the dinner i can't go to el
hassana mama valdo you know what it
means not to go to some soccer i don't
have to get out of us unbelievable
but anyway there's a thing about
yeah
unfortunately if that's that that makes
the difference that kids
want their parents to be there that bad
then maybe people should make more time
talking to myself
okay
so
it says with sim constellation you have
another initialization
says like this there's a difference
a good marshall will be you know in
schools
depends where you live like in eric
stroll
all the kids get together and they put
money in a pot and every every permit so
the boy gets like a set of mr brewers in
los angeles is what a tesla or something
but it turns out
it turns out that
that that the father of this boy just
bought a son a mishabura that's what
happens
but what happens is that this kid he
gets his mission brewer and then he
skips he goes to the next school you
know that's that's what it's talking
about over here if they get together
everybody says okay the whole block the
whole building says let's just
why should my wife make dinner every
night and your wife might want to make
dinner for the whole building for a week
then you're a wife oh it depends if it's
the first night then he wants to come to
the studio israel you know
don't come but if he owes everybody the
meal
it's already his turn to pay back
then he he can't get out of it he can't
say oh i'm awful i can't cook now too
bad you you just ate for free for six
months now you're gonna use that
available as an excuse no you have to
you have to pay
just uh let's just do a few more lines
i'll call amazing coulomb korea
all the dead you have to rip whatever
but i love it i love it
you have to show your reveal your heart
auravav oh my crow what do you see this
when he found out that shaw shows his
enemy right but nevertheless was a
terrible tire for him that a king was
killed by the gaim
oklahoma
the losing in the war that was terrible
for him it didn't matter that he ripped
kriya right away
um yeah this is
uh
okay we'll stop here but tomorrow
basically we'll catch up a lot have a
wonderful
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