Daf Yomi Menachos Daf 13 by R' Eli Stefansky

live from a hotel room in Connecticut. My brother and sister-in-law are making for my niece Nero and the Liyahu Bronstein. Um, it is an hour and a few minutes before Shabas. So, here we go. Try to limit the Well, I don't know if we could limit the uh emails. I want to show you yesterday was amazing. You saw I said it, but to think about it afterwards and to say, "Wow, a liter guy without a beard goes into Monroe and people came and and they were walking. They had to walk far. There's not enough parking spots and they were they parked in a in a in a mall and they had to walk and uh it looked like this. It just place was pretty packed. They sang beautifully. Look at this. Mom is beautiful. And they came afterwards and but I had to say hello to everybody. So five seconds a person and and it's one story after the other. I mean the amount of people in one place that told me the same story. I haven't opened up a gar in 101 15 years. I haven't opened up a gumar in 20 years with the beard and p with a leather yamaka. He's going out to he's going to send us pictures from every talking like a real but a leather yamaka. I haven't opened up a in who knows how long. And this guy and that guy. And then of course the emotional email from the from the guy and he came afterwards and he said hello to me after the sh was over. Um that the the said so what if you're thinking I'm going to have on you etc etc. But it was just super emotional. Um I was to go afterwards never been to certainly not to the cam which I I I speak about in cheer. I mention him often. Um, here's just a thing. Oh, they sent in a picture of what I would look like right after uh the Monroe. It's interesting that uh I don't I don't know if we have a picture of it, but there is a picture of me pointing at the takas and the takana number one of the takana says uh can you please close that door over there? Thank you. The kind of number one is to make sure that you don't shave your beard or uh mess around with the beard. That's tak number one of curious. There's also a lot of takonas about contractors, you know, a lot of non-Jewish workers working in your building an hour before Shabas and so that the people are not like just rolling out the tools and the cars coming out of the place when Shabas is not all but number one no beard. So God comes over to me and he start lecturing me that you have such an you have 40,000. So a guy like you has a you should have a beard. I said, "You know why I have 40,000 tidy? They don't have a beer." Got so upset. He turned around and he said something to me. I don't even know what. And he ran away. Stuff. Anyway, I had a blast. They took me into the cave. It was like like literally with lights and sirens. They opened up the the gate. It was I got to see the yeshiva, the whole thing. Um, okay, fine. 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Anonymous in memory anonymous that is good and open and revealed way as for everyone in need of anonymous for the merit of success and blessing in all areas of life anonymous for the merit of centers.com helping with Papa anywhere worldwide. Daily sponsors for the month. I see that the the dedication is off. I'm very happy. hopefully takes the $1,000 or whatever money here. The takonas and the tak number one I was so excited to see is that you cannot shave your beard if you want to be in my holding by a brand new mission. Try to do a quicker shear than usual. We're talking about people. We're talking about a person who as he's doing the he has a thought that could ruin or not ruin in some cases this his thought. Let's talk about this. This is the large amount of flour. This is what's left over after the puts his hand in takes three fingers worth puts it in a cle let's say he puts it right over here. Small amount flour. This goes on. This over here, see the two amounts? The small amount is the goes on. The large amount is the If I had a nice pen, I couldn't find one. Goes up. Let's write over here. Nice big letters. [snorts] Okay. See, I don't know if you could read it. Boom. Good. Shir of the of the This is There's no way to write here. So, this is the kim large small. So, the guy says, "I'm going to take if if he said, I'm going to take a full kaz of this and eat it. Make a bread out of it. Make a donut out of it tomorrow. That's full-fledged pagle. You ruined the why? Because he said tomorrow. You're only allowed to eat it today. And it's the full amount. The full kaz. And if he says, I'm going to take this a full kaz of this and put this. Where do I put on the mbah? I'm not going to eat it. It's not it's not for human consumption. This goes on the it's a certain eating of the misb eats it. It consumes it. There's an of the what happens if he says I'm going to take a half a of what's supposed to go on the not a full and a half of what I'm supposed to be eating a donut. I'm going to make a half a donut together. I have a whole why is it? You're right. I have a total of one. But since there are two types of eating, one is a human consumption and it's only a half a she. It's half. The other one is consumption. It's half a she. They don't combine together. Did a a very simple chart here. Actually, I didn't do it. I sent it to Yoshi and he tells me it's 40 minutes before this man. Um, but I'm going to do it for you. You asked me to do it. I'm going to do it. So, I do appreciate it. I said, "Oh, wow. I didn't realize that it's so close to." But I wasn't going to tell him, "Don't do it. We need it. Needs it." So, here you go. I hope it's worth it. It says in the to eat and to put in. You could infer and be that this doesn't work. But what does work if it's a half a zas of half a of to eat? What if I said instead of saying I'm going to put half a kaz on this of this I'm actually going to use it for my donut. I'm going to consume it physically like a human being consumes. Now it's not really meant for human consumption. It's meant for his bath consumption. But I'm going to use that half a kazayas from the and combine it with the half a of the and together have a whole and from the Mishna that that would be a good piggle. It's only not a piggle the top two but the bottom two you could infer that it is otherwise the would have said it is going to say what you're saying is beautiful. It's a great inference and it's a good deal. But let's be something else. So let's see inside. Oh, if I'm going to eat the as food, then it would combine to make a full and make that it's not if you look at the says, you're right. We have a little bit of mant who's our that says that to take a that of something that's supposed to go on and actually eat it as a donut. It would combine with another that you're allowed to eat the and make it a full to make it legal. Who's that? That's the doesn't matter if it's meant for consumption. A human being can consume it. Doesn't matter if it's a human being consumption consume it. You could combine the two. And as we learned in that's what we're talking about that's not the to I'm sorry. Yeah. to take the and put it on his is also not something that is that that's done but you did it and we could see this if a person says I'm going to do pigle of I'm Sorry. And a or reverse aaz. He starts off saying, "I'm going to do one. I'm going to eat it tomorrow." Which is and I'm going to do also. And then it says you're gonna take a half two halves of one half of is one half is combined into two. It doesn't matter how you started off which one started first. So we already have this that it's why I need it twice. If I'm going to tell you that I'm taking something that's edible and something that's not the way to eat it. In other words, it go it fits on the but I put it together. I would say that it's that I can't say. Why? Because I already learned in the way we skip these two lines. If I'm going to tell you that something that's like our something that's for for human consumption something that's from put together are then I keep him dying from the if you if I if I want to take two things to eat a half of his eyes and half of his eyes of something that's edible and something that's not edible. they don't combine. So certainly if it's something that's to eat and something that I want to put it on them, they shouldn't combine. If I want to eat the two of them, eat consume it. But one is edible, one is not edible. They don't combine. So certainly if I don't want to consume it, I just want to half of it I want to consume and the other half I want to put his back. Well, how could it combine? Says, "No, there's more of as far as to say that does combine." Why? I do need that. If you do something unnatural, in other words, I'm taking something like this bag. This is belongs. And I said, I'm going to eat it. That's not a natural thing. That's against. So, okay. No. That's why it's not. That's why it doesn't make sense that it combined. But But when I did the right thing this I said half of his eyes from here that which is edible I'm going to eat and half his eyes from here which goes on I said I'm going to put on this. So I'm doing the right thing. Maybe it should combine that it's not maybe you could say over here is is like a it's like a for us that we finished all of what does that mean? Many of us especially the new guys they look at the they go wow it's 20. That's four months. That's a lot. Besides, I don't know a thing or two about what is a I don't know. Is it what is going on here? You know what? We finished the first par. We finish the first chapter in the in other words chapter not in as in per but as in a chapter as a we went through 12 and we finished. So that we finished the first perk and it wasn't that bad is just going to get easier and easier and we're going to finish the entire together and it's not a big deal says the first of the second par this is a classic case of he does and he says I'm going to eat the leftovers tomorrow or he says I'm going to take the and I'm going to put it on tomorrow. It's two types of consumptions of eating. Everybody agrees that that's you ruined it. It's actually you get for it. Now the question that is going to ask is why would I say that doesn't say that? Because continues and he says on this he does argue. Oh, you don't understand. I ordered a brand new bag of frankincense. It's beautiful. It looked very nice in the picture. I thought it'd be perfect. Nice chunky pieces of Levina. And it says it's coming today by between 4:00 and 7:00 a.m. So at 5:00 in the morning, go to the door. It's not there. 6:00 not there. 7:00 not there. 8:00 not there. 9:00, 10:00, 11:00, and then I had to leave to the hotel and it wasn't there. And it says it's arriving today. You know, it probably arrived 1 minute after I left. Okay. I really wanted it. I thought it would be to hold it in my hand as I speak about it, not just a bag of flour. That's not so. But that's what the Basher wanted. So we'll have it other but it's very today as we're going to see there's two parts that go onto the m they have to burn part number one is this baggie part number two is in the Amazon bag the frankincense must go on the as we're going to see they're both very essential to go on and they both comprise 50% of what goes on So if a person has a mind that he's going to burn the levina, the frankincense tomorrow, that's also just like when he thinks that he's going to burn this flower tomorrow, listen is just like the flower. What's the difference? that if you have a thought about the that you're going to eat it or you're going to consume the is going to consume it not that you're going to eat it but the is going to consume it tomorrow which is not the right time it's after the allotted time the allotted time is up to today you have to put it on not tomorrow say if you think that and then you go ahead and eat the the cars and says no no no that applies to the only to the flower but not to the lev you're right if you think that you're going to ruin the carbon but you're not going to get cars for that chops down a person's life short that's reserved only for the flower and they try to prove it to him. You're probably thinking that the is separate of the flower. But guess what? The levina is very similar to the im to the to the to the body parts that we put onto the misb the kidneys the skirt steak the fats and yet if you think in your mind as you're doing you're going to put those parts the imamim you should have put the picture of imam here you thought to yourself they're going to put those parts onto this tomorrow that's real pigle you have cars for that how come how come is different answers very nicely look they all come from the same animal the kidneys where do they come from they come from from a different they come from this animal but when you referring to the frankincense that's a different that comes in a different bag that comes from Amazon from a different place says what is the point of the beginning of the mishna we all know what pig is is when a person has a thought that he's going to eat consume this part of the tomorrow. So what's the point of you telling me oh also agrees to it? There's no one in the world that disagrees with that. Says in the second part of the says, "But if you thought about putting the frankincense on tomorrow, there's no says there is no gonna have a beautiful piece. It's not a it's not a complicated piece at all. A very simple piece. Think about it. When can the cayenne benefit from this flower and eat this flower? Make give it to make donuts out of this. When only when this goes onto the when this goes onto the fire at that moment this becomes. So this becomes a m it allows you this flower allows you to eat this. But wait a minute. There's one more thing that it must go in the mak. It's called Levo. You see this bag that I just got from Amazon? This this this bag right over here in my hand full of these beautiful crystal yellow pieces of Levo. This also must go onto the misb. So these two, you see these two bags, they must go in the misb. And if I only put one bag, so I got 50% of the m. I put another bag, I got the 100% of the m. Each one is 50%. Oh, so says I would think the whole that I cannot do pigle with only half. The flower represents 50% of what allows me to eat the it's a half of the pigle. It's a half of the m sorry half of the m. So maybe you cannot do pagle on a half on 50%. You could do pigle 100%. If you think while you're doing the flower, you think to yourself, I am going to eat this uh I'm going to put this flower onto tomorrow. That's enough to be think that that applies even in the case of flower in the ratio. I do kamit and I'm think to myself that I'm going to put this on the misb tomorrow. I would think oh but putting this on his behalf tomorrow is only 50% of the matter so it shouldn't be pigle no it is pigle he says no it's a full pigle for everything turning of the global your one-stop shop for all your financial needs castle in honor of all my daffers in South Florida we should all be you should know this Isaac Castle is a sadic because I mispronounced his name for over a week. I called him Castell. Castell. I wasn't joking around. I thought that's what it was. Castell. For some reason, somebody said, "Oh, it's like the word like this word. It's pronounced like this word." Now, that word to me means Castell. That's how Castell wine. I believe that's how they pronounce it. So, Castell. Now, obviously, it's castle. But he didn't say a word until his friend wrote in. So, whoa, my friend's name is Castle, not Castell. What are you doing? should all be synonymous in memory bin first. It's castle like cast. I know it's not part of but you're turning is our friend the neighbor here in North Miami Isaac Castle. His last name is pronounced the same way you'd refer to a building where a king lives a castle. Since you did the pronunciation all week, I thought it'd be worth a quick minute to clarify to you for all you do and Isaac for the sponsorship signed. Hashte rap is okay. #team daft down the slopes all day. Perry. [laughter] Okay, for the humor. Let's see what we got here. Okay. If a person says we have he takes you see this bag of I'm holding in my hand from Amazon he takes this and oh it's not a joke that I'm doing this the editors could easily put a bunch of leav in my hand and it'll be full of leava I gave them a job to said, listen to this. When I am holding this, I'm doing I cannot think. I don't have the right to think about the leva going on tomorrow. And when I'm doing levina, I don't have the right to think about my flower. One has nothing to do with the other. I can have I cannot have bad thoughts about another thing where it just triggered me. It's all about triggers as as a vert to this to the sat of my my new friend that I met uh last night with the emotional email when I read it. I choked up. I think many people choked up. Somebody came over to me to tell me he choked up. So I know there are others in the room. The guy that the rebi tells him so what if you're a yasim boy I'm saying like do you not believe in the what the says you have to be careful the yum is I have to teach him I have to teach him and this is the way to teach him okay very good great job so not only you going to get punished for shapening a but also punished for ruining a kid's life great good job rebi but maybe there's a underlying here that the gar says that one m cannot bele another matter. One person cannot ruin another person. Yes, we see that they do if we allow them to. One individual should not be able to get into our heads and tell us what we should be and not be if this rebi would know what this person turned out to be. He's a father and he has children, he has successful business and everything. He wouldn't he wouldn't speak like that. So the person has no right to go into another person's head and tell things. Now if they do it, the person that receives it has the right to reject it. You could also take it in and and and and let it traumatize him. So that's all part of trauma. And I'm not telling people don't get traumatized and there's no such thing as trauma. I'm not saying that. But we as human beings, we have the ability to block it and say you cannot be mefagle me. I'm different than you. I can fagle myself. I can ruin myself. I have the ability to ruin myself. That yes, but I don't have the ability. I shouldn't have the ability to somebody else. At least with these kind of words and stuff maybe is when you have a certain amount of flour and a certain amount of frankincense. So one can't the other because they're different. Oh, here it is. When you have two spoonfuls of fragrances like on the same men, I would say that perhaps they should be that they're not even if it's the same men. So the the says over here, I think it's his yard. I didn't have a chance to check. Somebody told me yesterday that it's his yard. I don't know. That's what he said. It's right around his yard. I know it's right around here, but I I thought it was a very nice that he says, "Why would I think that the two different the two spoonfuls of frankincense that are that we have with upon him? Why would I think that one has the the ability to to if it's not in the same clay as we're going to see soon, it has to be one cle. But I'm saying it over here because now this is where we we said it. Oh, we're going to find out in a second if it's his yard site themsel. Why would two spoons be one? Because they're both sitting on one chan. grabs them and makes them one. If I understood him correctly, are you able to tell me? Are you able to look me in the eye and tell me that he's not talking about because it's one it's one item versus two. Yes. Today is is your should have an ali and and flower different than a skirt steak and the rest of an animal. So what does he answer them? What do you mean the skirt steak and the and the kidneys come from that same animal? But fragrances is not the same item as the flowers. You see that he is talking about it being one and two different things. You didn't understand. He's not referring to whether it's one or two items. He's saying that one doesn't prevent the other one from happening. What does that mean? It's not like The way it works is if I want to eat the shir the leftover, I have to put the kim on the misb. As long as I don't put this on the I cannot eat this. So one prevents the other. But that's not the case with frankincense. In other words, I could put the fragrances on the even though I didn't put the on the and I could put the on the even though the fragrances is not on. In other words, one does not prevent the other from happening. It's not similar to the as long as the is not because as long as they don't put the he can't eat the give the I would think that the can prevent the but no whichever one of the two I want to put on his back first whether it's the frankincense first or the flower first I can put on first so we So on you're supposed to bring two breads. Two breads and two sheep. Two schlam each schlum can you cannot be from one to the other. In other words, if I have if I'ming schlam number one on the right and I think to myself that number two on the left, I'm going to eat that one in three days from now. That's not why because A has nothing to do with B. Why does A have nothing to do with B? Because they're not they were never put together in one vessel. But when you put the two things together in one vessel like So you have the Levo, you see the Lev on the left, those those little rock looking things. I have the together on top of the flour on top of the dough. So they were both in the same vessel. Then it should be as if it's one. Great. Take a look at this. doing so removing the the levina from the large bowl and putting it on the misbeh if he does it. If a is moves it from vessel A to vessel B, you have to start all over. It's possible. You can't add another amount of and let let the do it. It's too late. Once he did it, it's possible. Why? It's because this is like walking. Cuz walking without your feet with your hands is also walking. In other words, when I take the lev from right over here and I move it to right over here, I just walk. Not with my feet, with my hand. I just moved it from area A to area B. You saw that's what he did over here as well. Not this one. This one. He's moving it from the left of the screen to the right of the screen. That's walking. I moved it closer [snorts] to the misb. Now it's easier and closer to get to the misb. So I moved it. Now sometimes you move something with your feet. You move it with your hand. You have to hold that moving without your feet is also considered a walking and therefore walking is one of the four avoid. What are the four walking to the and being? So you just the Israel just did one of the four and that makes it possible. Now Schlommo took this idea of Walking without your feet is considered walking. I made a video out of it. Let me see if I can get to it. >> Bombach is our big canoy guy that always has something to do with videos. >> It can't be. No. Gabald, what are you doing? Why are you sliding on the ice while you're learning Torah? >> The doctor told me that my medical condition requires me to go for a 30inut walk every day. >> You call that walking? According to there are clear for what defines. You're not moving your leg. >> You didn't learn the dyomi. You didn't learn the gumar. Look, Rebai says it. I can't keep up. [snorts] All right. Listen, I I have a feeling last somebody said something about cigarettes. So the whole we got a bunch of cigarettes with the cigarette with the cigarette. This you're just going to get a bunch of snowboards. Okay. I just hope they don't have sticks. Poles. I have to tell Slowmo because Israelis don't know. Poles are reserves for skiers on snowboards. We don't do poles. Okay. We also learned this, right? A lot of skiers don't use poles, especially beginners and really advanced. Everybody in between does. Well, I don't know. Yeah, there's a that came in in Stan says, "I'll do the DA if you could beat me in a ski race." And then he tells me, "I don't use poles." Here are the four and so let's it's thear is going to say all four right now. This is the cl if you have a of while you do or putting into the vessel and doing as you can see in this chart on the right has resembles and the third one to bring it towards them. No, you bring it towards it's exact and throwing the the carbon onto the fire. I'm the on the fire. It's similar to throwing the blood onto the butting the number two from the right, the purple, putting the into a vessel. Why is that similar to blood? Because you can say similar. It's not similar at all. blood goes squirting out of the carbon's neck. All you need to do is put a vessel there and it fills it up with and the vessel fills up by itself. But over here you physically have to take the and put it in. So it's very different you must do this and if you don't do this how are you going to get it to the to the so since you have to put it in a vessel to get in. So it's considered a significant and therefore you could be during that. So it's similar to doing if you don't gather it. So you won't be able to bring it to them. So therefore becomes it's an important. So therefore I make it as if it's no it is similar to it's similar to what was the question we have but happens by itself. You don't have to put the blood into the vessel squirts out by itself or you have to put the the into the vessel. No, at the end of the day, let's look at it differently. You have the it's a this golden vessel has inherent and therefore what? Therefore, it's the the cle that that infuses into the So, who cares if it happened by itself or I'm sorry. Yeah, who cares if the blood went in by itself or that you put it in? The the bottom line is what happens afterwards once it once it's in the clay, it becomes a shabas. Have a wonderful day. Thank you so much. >> Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a shir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdyd.com.