Daf Yomi Megillah Daf 32 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning the final for many it's their first seeum it's unbelievable so so because it's a short D we're going to do about 20 to 30 minutes of emails nah we'll do the regular this is one from Matthew Sounders thank you for providing suchal user friendly easy to access I've never done da until approached by Glenn arriman one of the many people who listen to yesir from West Hemstead he hand me a copy of M and told me about yesir so he's been watching ever since here he is learning the da while waiting in the pharmacy after getting my co booster can't waste any time new habits new habits learning on the way here we have oh man I forgot to put his name in here I'm going to get killed what's his name mark tell me this guy's name while I read it I'm very bad with names sorry here he is that David glone oh David Glon that's it oh David sh I'd like to say thank you for all you do now that is open I've come to the country to visit my children in Yeshiva today was my first morning in I DAV at the Cel now look it's okay if mdy is closed it's okay but had mdy you first come to mdy that's the that's the minic I don't know I'm not I'm not passing here it's probably the wrong thing to do no you go to you go to the K first attaches a picture I'm sitting the little Al ear off to the side the D at the beauty um I'm going to skip through this this is from yane Weiss and I had a situation the other night where I was deeply upset about something I was so distressed I felt like I was going to lose it I couldn't get myself to calm down after a while I heard my brain say you know what you need you need the da I sat down at the table for the next 1550 minutes there's nothing else in my mind it was just me my G and your amazing sh thank you so much for everything you really are changing my life for the better I've not felt this good in years yane Weiss here's if you come to MD the he's about 14 years old his father tells me if he misses the da in the morning he could break out in in in pain in crying I don't know what here he is on a trip to a lot you could see the pool in the background here he is learning toyra on vacation this is from RE Mo F and he says like this this is very interesting for the last two years I spent an hour and a half night in a night Co where I covered around 50 blot with rashing I was barely half of them some days I felt discouraged when I stopped to think that it took me two years to learn half of a that's the problem sometimes in Yesa and other places is that b become discouraged they they they put in so much time and effort and they have very little to show like you learned that half a in six years it's that's part of the problem and perhaps it would take me three to three and a half years to finish the entire how in the world would I ever have a chance to finish many moreas now with your life I've been able to finish this guy is he sends me good stuff one of his questions and I got mail many emails thear says that there's one that's less than 21 in fact there's many more yes there are many more I think the is bringing an example it's not D I think in said only one mistake now emails and comments I he doesn't simply watch the 40 he's a has a pause button he reads almost every comment in the art scroll sometimes it takes him two to three hours look I don't 100% recommend it it's great but don't force yourself to do it because you can get burnt out like that it's not easy for me he says I'm not sure if I can keep this up then don't go just do the da make sure you do the da begin with some D then 20 out of 30 in tightness and finally we make him see him on Milla it says like this he starts out tonight as he stand my first see him in close to 15 years I spoke at Yeshiva yesterday and I told the Riva that I get these emails every day I told him there's 30 40 emails I unfortun I read every one I don't I can't really read them and share all of them I said every day I get at least one or two emails saying this is my first see them in 15 years or this has changed my life so after my little spel over there he says let let me see your emails he wanted he was checking me so I gave my phone and he found two two that say the same thing this my first see him in 15 years it's changed my life so he saw I wasn't lying to him it was in there two yesterday it's my first see in 15 years so I'm tough on you Perfection you know who yob linger is he's a very funny he has this thing y with a sign and he just did a whole um he tried out he has a new podcast he tried out 10 we're one of them but the with the sign somebody sent me this it says here there's no way you said every word based on yesterday's yesterday's sugya the guy mumbling fumbling there's no way you said every word here we have it's getting late B Shaw he's 32 he's from Philly he signed up at the end of B have a Mr D and I've signed up two people give him back talking about giving back today tomorrow is the new so if you put didn't put on your status put on your status let's do something positive let's get let's a final push get these guys in there look at it changing this guy's life changing this guy's life you don't want to change your friend's life last last day get bulk get a get a box of gars go somewhere ooh tell me I didn't I didn't print that picture oh that's a that's a Shanda nsk's children they put up a sign where do they put it up I forgot where and they're giving AAR they signed up a bunch of people his two sons were wearing the mdy Caps little kids seveny olds I have much appreciation for your effort in bring toilet to my life I've attached a picture of my brothers listening to the shear around the fire they're chilling you could see in the picture what they're drinking they my brother's birthday m shabas I'm not in it because I took the picture the brother with the gamar signed up the other needs convincing Electric electrical services where they are by the fire the brother with the gamarra is already signed up learning to say here it is flat push see him already like Australia they already brought in the newa Strauss Bakery look at these cookies R Bo say ah unbelievable don't be an amarit do the da love it where's my license plate amar's license plate okay mdy 8 Minute look at this Cleveland Ohio this is the way to do it you want to bring the you bring the best speaker one of the best speakers in our generation look who's speaking here ri benan love this guy love him that's what we need in Chicago got a bring R the the two benam brothers in there maybe we'll have a half decent over there what is this okay we'll have to do this a different time now there's only a few sponsors today because it's the final D for the and we got to go there's the and today I'm very excited we have a sponsor for the day beautiful sponsor for the Day family peier p e k i e r spell it pronounce it any way you want also there's ups and there's Downs got a message yesterday that we need to say to immediately by the Davis and 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honor of sh Goldberg in honor of SZ suitz welcome to the world onor kid chabas everyone is invited 11:30 at 1912 New York Avenue Brooklyn New York 11210 come hungry and make what a way we don't really uh do advertisements but and my brother-in-law trly singer the last one a member of the year and the birth of a girl to the MIM all the M including r88 and 97 from 3202 boyai here there we go wow that was a long one 13 minutes but started not 13 maybe like 10 okay 13 lines from the bottom we are holding uh is 13 lines from the bottom no that doesn't make sense where are we holding oh yeah 13 lines from the Bottom t Tanya you have it the famous one who basically instituted a lot of the when it comes to so he instituted as we discussed yesterday there's two two claws in the one is the one that said another one said in the name of so you have to say it before right before right before in our days we separate it's not that close to R we put one week we insert a week in between insert a week before what's the reason you end out the year it let's finish up with these curses enough done with the curses it's the end of the year we're done with the curses said a while agoin somebody came to him and said and should start the new year with the BR so yelled at him I think he said you're saying that let's finish this this year of curses you you married off two daughters and it's a year of curses where's so we have to we have to take that in yeah things are rough here things are rough there but let's look at the at the picture look at the beautiful things that happened this here the says we we say we're saying a general thing not our clet the year has its bad things let them finish let them finish off so that's why we say the par of the CL all the way at the end right before and right before says I understand that before that's the one we read right before that's the end of the year is the beginning of the year why why why before what does have to do with rash says the in yes is considered why the fruit our food is being whether or not we're going to eat properly or not that happens what about in a few days we have Tu coming up what's that oh so is in regard to when the year starts in regard to in regard to certain different things that's when the year starts but when is the when is the the when does Side a lot a few that's on listen to this this is a very important if the elders the ones that have the experience they tell you chop it down which seems like not such a good thing break it down I want you to to destroy but the children the youngsters they say build start Val don't listen to the people people without experience don't listen to the youngsters even though it seems it seems like they're saying the right thing build supposed to build don't listen to them break it down why has because when they tell you to destroy it's actually building and when the youngsters tell you to build they're really destroying Sim and if you want to remember this idea the son of he inherited the kingdom and they came to the the new king they said you know your father was very tough on us and there's a lot of high taxes lower the taxes different things so he asked the skum he asked the elders what should we do should we show them a tough that we're tough the new king is no no mapin he's no he knows what he's doing he's going to take charge or should we give in you know what the elders told them give in lower the taxes buy the people make them yours then we'll worry about it but now give in he asks his friends and his friend said no way you got to come in there and show them who boss like a rebi the first day of school you know the some of these R they have a a the first day they kick out half the class and then they're able to rule with an iron fist so that's what he did he listened to his friends and the what happened was they kicked him out they rebelled K Ro re Reb against they kicked him out so I was thinking when I saw this so they get to the do the elders those with experience will tell you the greatest trick in the history of Da and that is if you miss a DA you destroy it you wipe it away you jump to the next do so somebody's going to say but the Elder doesn't know what he's talking talking about he's destroying you're not learning let's build let's build let's learn the other da and then we'll do the new DA the young guys they're the builders and what happens is when you try to build you try to go back to the other do and then the five dopping you miss missed and the 10 dopping you missed it ends up to be a destruction you fall off the bandwagon of sh that is the biggest I think that we have in that's why so many people are sticking with it because they take this idea the most the simplest idea and my son-in-law just I didn't even tell him this idea that I thought about yesterday I happened to be with the yeshivas and everything so I stopped there and My Gal son-in-law remor Jacobs who's a top guy in the Jerusalem Kyo which is a very tough KY gets very high scores gal guy so he happened to tell me he says listen Daddy I have a have a r to your side no great R he says if a person Miss let's say he's D he forgets he didn't D in what do you do you make it up in But first you must then you make it up the making up always comes after the original first you do today's da first you do today's then if you have time you do Shak also I thought it was a beautiful r i mean we have some time here so I'll tell you the famous story in my family and I said it a few months ago but for the new guys and that is that the stansky they come from Switzerland and my grandfather inherited a yusha from his father so he went to The KES and he asked The KES what should I do with the money and the Kish said well this the upand cominging benra buy a few plots of land here it's cheap buy a few of these Orchards so oh okay then he talks to his Kusa and his Kusa tells him what is the K know about business he's a learner what you need to do is buy a incubator and buy a bunch of eggs and the eggs will hatch into little chicks and then you'll have a lot of chickens and the a lot of chickens will hatch a lot of eggs and then you'll make a huge amount of money from your incubator so he went and he listened to the scum said destroy Bo buy over here the said buy this he didn't listen to the to the to the skim to the he listened to the to the kuso he bought an incubator and then a missile came in from Jordan and hit the incubator and blew it up and he had zero zero from his entire inheritance and 5et in benra today is worth a million dollars the Stan could have been wealthy back then okay so you you don't listen to theum you listen to the skum so here's another view that when you Lane you stop so let's say you finish Paras you st Ling that's what we do right however where do you finish by the next so on Monday you start from sh not from the beginning of and you do up until what do you do on Thursday you don't go back to the beginning of you lay and where do you start on chabas we get a shortcut here we start on r on chabas he did one alyah Monday he did the second Aliyah on Thursday he did the third Aliyah now on CH he start from R but we don't like him you go back to the beginning of you go back every single time like we do today and the next week on chabas you start in the morning from the beginning of the look how many words what's 11 words all you need to do is hey apostrophe Ruda or if you want three words says of heart there are some people that learn is and isud this confusion so in order that there shouldn't be any confusion I'm going to spell it out every single time you Lan Monday Thursday we always go back to the beginning of the parha and chabas morning we go to the beginning of the par [Music] have a here the B opens this up you look inside and you make a sorry look he shows you we're going to start from this P right over here okay now he makes a he sorry he looks shows him over here he rolls it back up then he opens it up again and he reads so when he's making the BR according to it's closed [Music] this is he leaves it open and he reads what's the issue over here the issue is that people are going to think that perhaps the bras are written inside the Tyra and if they're written inside the T it's possible can't have on the margin in the cheater cheat words and stuff like that can't have anything there so the that when it comes to the first bra and that's like Ruda you don't have to close it why but people are going to think you're right people might think but it's too much of a to close it then open it you know it brings to mind like uh a bar mitz boy right reading for the very first time in his life he thinks that the is part of the laning so everybody says amen [Applause] fine the is over here but what's the six seconds in between he's looking for the place those six seconds are is a know you don't want everybody waiting for 6 seconds so you leave it open and he points in oh we're going to read from over here and he keeps his eye on it and when the guy's finished Al you can do all man and go but if you close it up and happens all the time they close it up then they open it and it's like where is it where is it and then the am is laid and then the the laning is laid no good so a few that are important stop we should know how to do an alah A lot of people don't really know how 100% first of all when you make the braa you're supposed to be holding both of these a lot of people hold only the one on the right because the one on the left is for the B but not for when you're saying the bras when you say the bras hold on to both when you're done with the BR let go otherwise the might whack you in the hand and take it away from you so you let go now because of this problem that people are going to think I'm going to talk about it in a second why are people going to think this but because of the problem that people are going to think that the bras are inside so the Rama says you should look to the side turn your head to the left because on the right turn your to the left but the Mish says the best way to do it is you close your eyes so if you ever notice people that know what they're doing you can see by the Ali if they know what they're doing or not if they went to m y or not you close your eyes and you make the looking at the toyra but with your eyes closed because if you look to the side says it looks like you're saying a br on something else you're making the BR on the on the's watch or something I don't know what but if the the t is in front of you you look straight ahead and you close your eyes make the BR so doesn't look so then nobody's going to think that the bras are inside the Ty now the last BR that he should close up because now I don't have anymore I'm not worried about the and you don't want people to think that the are inside the so you roll it up then you make the okay those are a few of theas and I'll point out another Al that I mentioned just a week or two ago and I got yelled at by the guy I gave mus to not yelled he said I hope I didn't do that I know the and that is to say the words of the T with the okay now more my time of the mayor why does reor say that you should close the before you make a the first you shouldn't help the one saying the just like you're not supposed to help the translator guy people might think that the BR are in the says he can leave it open because many words so so it's going on it's so beautiful in those days not everybody got on aiyah in our days the question is who's going to think this BR in the well you never get an alyah you don't know what the T looks like well guess what in those days the person getting an Aliyah had to read and if you don't know how to read your amarit then you might think double first you don't know how to read and because you don't know how to read you never get Aliyah because you have to be you don't know it just like we if we got we had a read we' never get on Le cuz we don't know it you don't know it so you're always sitting in the back of the sh and all going to start thinking wait oh how does he know so much tar by heart how does he know this it must be written inside there somewhere you'll make a mistake everybody knows that the BR are not written inside even so once again very interesting two the same exact thing happened that there's a big AR a lengthy discussion what is he opens it up looks where it is he reads it he he makes the he reads just say you're allow to leave the open the first in other words just say we know what he means because there are people that flip the two they say the platform for the king would stand on doesn't have what's aash says I don't know then he says perhaps it's something to do with it's on top of the it's the the cover of the safe or something doesn't have okay who's only brought down in ch right here he has a number ofas says in the name so I think a lot of people I know y you didn't yell at me I'm hoing and CH you're saying you said that it's impossible you don't know the of course you know the but you thought that you said the words okay fine you didn't y this is the you know where the two pieces of CLA come together so when you roll the T make sure that it's in them Center you'll always see that s come running up you guys to be here now why because if it rips it should rip on the teer if you're pulling too tight it should be over here so you make sure so it's not like like wow if you don't do this you're over all these in the world it's a good idea I think so let's say you're doing this job by yourself you're trying to get to par bous you're going like this back and forth so you have the outer one you have this guy you have this guy what happens if you leave go of this guy it's going to fall the T will fall so the is giving you a good advice if this is okay so let's say I don't know if I could do this here live demonstration by myself let's see let's say the tire is on your lap my elbow is my lap okay you want to be holding on to the further this one that I'm holding on to not this one because if you hold on to this one the toy will fall off okay try to do it as best I can you have the further one and you have the inner one so just common sense you don't want this to roll off your lap and then the whole sh has to fast then the gamar says but when you're finally done you're doing you're doing hag you did hgba and now you're just going like this you're doing the last part there's a mitzvah for everybody to see the words in the Tyra so if you reach over you go like this to roll it people are not going to see the words so try to roll it from the inner one go like this inside that it rolls okay says the gamar also the name you have a million of people that are ling in other words one guy Ling there's a milon of people that gathered because you need 10 people for the T and this is a shocker I think we know this we say it very often I don't think we care about this I don't know if we think it's serious but it seems like it is what's the what's the biggest Al what's the biggest ke you could dopper how much does H sell for versus how much do for versus m we learned that Ma is the weakest Al it's not even supposed to be there it's just there to compensate the guy that gets yet M goes for $1,000 hgba goes for 200 the gar tells you that's the opposite the guy that does hgba which includes Gila really in the gamar because he he lifts it up and he rolls it he is the most important you give that to the GLE you give that to the r to the re to the you give him the greatest one of them he should do meaning say means in this case especially by the I love how they have it they have this that stands up it's beautiful and one guy picks it up and one guy the same guy does g all the same same so that's what go means he lifts up the T and then he goes like this that's go so yeah kid helps him and goes like that but he's the main guy that's the main Mitzvah you want you want to give somebody honor give him HBA Unfortunately today we don't look at it like that so if you give a HBA he might get insulted and thear continues and this the one who does gets everybody the guy that does gets everybody ask the if ruven gets 100 points shim gets 100 Le gets 100 then comes the guy with hagwa he's going to take everybody's points and they go up to sh they don't have anything to show for it says canect no Ruben gets his 100 shim gets his 100 but the guy at the end gets his 800 he gets enough mitzvas however it works in numbers or whatever equal to everybody put together got to start a new thing hgba should be sold for the most moneyer Etc how do you know they listen to Heavenly voice so if a person has a question should I move to and suddenly he hears yes yes or no no you listen to the Bas there's a famous gar with they asked the Bas and they said to is not in the sh fine but when you have a indiv a personal question you don't know what to do should I buy this house should I take another job and suddenly you hear that a a literal sound a voice like a echo you listen to it there's once a woman who who was about to step on a plane and she heard a bass call said don't do it don't do it so she listens she didn't go on the plane few months later she's about to step on the train now I forgot to tell you obviously a few hours later the plane went down and everybody died so she was very happy she listened to the bicycle a few months later she's about to step on a train and she hears a bass call don't get on don't get on so of course she listened to the bass call because it saved her life the first time but she scram out she says who are you what what are you so the the basal said I'm I'm an angel I'm here to protect you when you're about to take the wrong step I'm here to make sure that nothing happens so she said where in the world were you the day I got mad married oh I have another one you that the Joker said about a man going on a plane but I got to be politically correct you know I don't want to get those emails tomorrow my mother used to say a different one not as funny she loved this one so I got to say it there's a guy that wanted to be the Kipper his entire life he dreamt about being the Kaz now of course he didn't have that good of a voice he paid big bucks finally they let him be the Kaz for he's all excited he gets up there and he's about to start and all of a sudden he draws a blank he P draws a blank he doesn't know what to do all of a sudden a Bas comes out of the EZ behind the m if you don't know if you have a terrible voice don't try to be a she used to say it inish okay fine we have all the time in the world for all the all the jokes when does the Bas work when it's Unique it's different I'm sorry when it's yeah if you hear something you hear a woman's voice in in the field women are not out plowing the field so that means it's it's it's it's legit it's a real bascle if you hear a man's voice in the city he shouldn't he should be at work whatever that means exactly then you know it's real the Bas has to say specifically a double A yes yes not just yes it answers the question if you read the T without the you don't say you just whatever you know sometimes you go into you hear something like I don't know what it is F that wasn't good that was like a l trying to be I know how to do it somebody sent me this uh name a as something like that here's a mishna with the cations with the Trum I put those arrows in there to show you where the Trum is beautiful for the picture I like when people send me the pictures before we learn not the day after which most people oh by the way here's the I show it it's like an esus what are we going to do with it so a nice niggan so in those days they used to read the mishna with a nigan by the way the Bel his son I told you I think I might have mentioned this or that's after this year okay at the end of this year I think he was 5 years old he came in and I asked him what comes after Milla or something like that and the second 5-year-old M but recently I asked him what's the trick he said he taught his kid a song you do a whole niggan with all the that's how he knows it or like's family they know all the Mitzvah of the T all 16 613 Mitzvah in the ram they can tell you exactly what's saer they say all 10613 Mitzvah every shabas in a song so you put anything in a song the par of the you can teach your kids a lot of stuff through songs so it says you don't live because he has a bad voice you deserve such a punishment that's what you're going to call if you have two that don't get along when it comes to they argue too much it's great to argue and learning but as long as you have uh a way to to to age upon things afterwards during your your is great but afterwards you can't be in a fight all day long you have to have you can't there's the famous story with the V that a mother sent her child with a chicken to ask the Rob if it's tra or not and for some reason they asked the V and the vill said it's trafe and the r in the city said it's ker and when the r found out that the villo the mother didn't know what to do the villo said it's TR you can't eat it so they went back to the r but the villo said it's trfe the r says don't worry about it he went to the vill and said V you're you're coming with me on chabas and we're going to eat the meal by this lady's house and the villain gu said okay because when the r paskins the city needs to know he's the he's the r the vill wasn't the rabbi of villa and the vill like this gar over here he was he didn't fight with him he said okay let's go to show that the meat is ker even though the vill knew his TR but he's allowed to eat it because the said it's K and what happened was that the candle dripped on that meat on the chicken and the candle is made out of out of fat of an animal and they couldn't eat it and the r said oh they showed you me that the vill was right and the vill said no they didn't want me to eat it because they knew that I was bothered by it but no it's not because I was right or wrong but that's that's the idea of the r of RAB getting along together if a person holds the the actual cloth he goes like this that's why in you know they use the Talis they go like this they don't touch it with the hand you touch it with your hand you're buried without clothing as without literally you're gonna bury you can't bury somebody like that he's going to be buried naked without because a guy touched the CL so he you erase all the mitah he brought 300 people to MD y he gets zero cuz he touched the CL no he loses that mitvah that that whatever he did at that moment that he loses the son of the Elder the great one last that's it for today you wrap like we do you take where is it you take this you wrap it around the Tyra but you don't take the Tyra put it down and start flipping the Tyra over until it's wrapped up that's biz for the T you don't flip over ma ma if it's your first see a tremendous ma if it's your 20th C another mab have a wonderful day I I'm leaving I'm leaving the few lines three lines that we already learned in this m so that everybody can make their own SE wherever they are those are the three lines that we're leaving for the actual of the so we can make the and say the kades on these three lines have a wonderful day