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Daf Yomi Megillah Daf 29 by Rโ€™ Eli Stefansky

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good morning feeling much better thank you we have some gavalica stuff today when i saw this picture i was very impressed i printed it right away without reading it but then i read it it really got me this is crazy says john look at my 14 year old teenage son knight in a hearted by himself on his own he watched me pick up a gemara tightness and make us see him our kids are watching us he decided he wants this for himself he's been pounding stephen's mcgill every day 100 on his own inspiration here he is at 12 39 a.m mate chabas teenager on a saturday night staging this decision to do daf yoyomi doesn't just affect our own life it's all our children's lives thank you john chatrite it's a beautiful beautiful thing 12 39 a.m instead of doing who knows what teenagers do at that time here he is boys i we have a mazel tov very interesting things going on here perez heim levin his daughter got engaged yesterday as we know and we have pictures today from yeshua grossman i used this opportunity to try to recruit more members 10dy family i already got close to 10 people at the vert you might you wonder why i'm using a family simcha to do this people might wonder suga set up try to convert people to torah at a vart i personally wouldn't do it firstly as you always stated mdy is one big family but not only that let me explain to you how this word is related to my connection to mdy i first started listening watching shiro from the beginning of saturday this was long after the attempt to try to get back on the death yummy bandwagon after falling off due to covet i was captivated after a while i made up my mind to try to give back as an expression of akara satov to you i decided to sponsor a sheer on the day of my great grandmother's your side the date was october 31st 25 of hejven i have two daughters in shidduchim and it has been very slow going on the day of the sponsorship i received a resume of a booker who just said yes to go out with my younger daughter i for you the emails that you can verify the veracity of this statement is that you say the word that particular bachelor became my daughter's haasen the vart which we celebrated tonight interesting they became engaged in the mother sponsoring turned to daff i believe he sponsored turning the deaf interested they became engaged during that month i believe that helping to support you is a big horse you're always saying what is the president you can give me more members to mdy family thank you it's true that's why i volunteered at the good the convention and went around to local shows to recruit more members what better way to celebrate my daughter's var than to again try to recruit new members thank you thank you thank you repairskain levine recently i saw a video of shasia then the kitzer by the way the the bells of khasid in our kylo in the morning goes is in shots in the afternoon and he says he's very impressed by that and he thinks it has something to do with mdy i'm not going to go into his tire over here but yoshikoya repair it's kind of in here's one picture during the vart and you can see right over here the ad for mdy and did you have your freaking there's another picture i'll show it to you in a second here this is repaired levine and nothing mustafsky look at this all geared out in the new mdy sweatshirt i don't know how to get it so don't email me how do i get a sweatshirt there's going to be a website soon with socks sweatshirts shot glasses to start off with caps maybe i don't know okay what else do we have here joseph goldberger from jessica goldberg he says jonkin and chef from houston so this is in texas right by side texas highway you can see it in the background you're going to check from you still watching the daf while driving to baton rouge to check out a new property i i just added some arrows so you cop what's going on here in this picture first of all background is texas look at the amount of screens going on here but then if you look right over here in the corner the guy taking the picture didn't realize he himself has a gemara open for the youtube guys huh huh yeah right over there here okay so that's how they're traveling do we have time for one more oh we have here daniel rubinoff a good vault please see the attached picture with my next door neighbor brent baer learning the daf at the new york rangers game last week brent just recently joined mdy you can see the zombrano what is it called the guy in the back over here doing the ice so it was actually during a time out during the the the what is it called over there not half time whatever they call it in hockey so he's using his time wisely and finally uh this is from zessy because we're talking about burying severe torah so here's zezi this is a victor's brother a victor falls we're all familiar from zoom so zezi also does the daft he has a long email here i don't have time to read it now his his mother's brother's mother used to do the daft to make sure that his father does it i thought it was amazing and all the 8 o'clock are doing it now and he said this is one of the most emotional times ever burying 12 to 15 secretariat by uh katrina okay but if you notice it's in uh like we learned yesterday in uh cliches and uh whatever they do over there okay maybe we'll get a different time we'll be able to go back uh i have to figure out when it's over maybe haim could tell me i didn't have time to go back i think it's already two months we have to go on to the next plans we have two sponsors waiting in line with when i feel that cough about to happen i gotta drink something hot otherwise we'll be here all day i shouldn't have said anything but i've run much of paris there you are i've rumi and sprinsey gross the member of the officer our father isaac's by benny rudnick everybody knows benny's meet here in bachemesh he's a new member of the shire he just started this miser and he's loving it he sent me a picture of him and his baby but he wasn't learning so i didn't print it in memory of the yard say he doesn't know the rules you have to learn you have to have a safer open kilo you're learning remember the art side of her father no sorry benny rodnick listen to this her boy's side benny really in honor of the birth of our daughter yesterday morning mazel tov and he wrote to me this is the only thing that i'll miss that for haim weingarten an appreciation of the sheer thank you today is daffroff test and we are holding the last two words on some of the basis of we learned that godot torah more than makes only a mace mitzvah so that guda really says here and i'm not saying this is the the simple shot but he says maybe to answer that question that tomato is the greatest he says that we're concerned that people won't show up and deal with the mace so you have here to go you go but if there's a solid heavy kadisha in place then you don't have a kiov let's see if it fits into the gemara well to walk the kaala to to walk into the and for lava um is the famous the classic rib yehuda so anytime the mishra says remembering he would do that he would go even though it's um that that was his profession learning and when you your profession is learning you don't even have to dive in you don't do anything you just learn but he would go out for these two things called sarcoid when there's not enough people at the funeral aviation called tsarko hey batman by the way we have a lot of words to read today so we have to really move so don't look around too much put your finger in place and we're going to move the common called soccer what does it mean there's enough people out of omaha in your schmidt trace alpha guyver 12th if 12 000 people showed up you don't have to come more than that vershita official pirate 6 000 on the trumpets twelve thousand human the kids are eighteen thousand people it's not a simple avaya so it's it's not easy to get out of a funeral like that by any law trace alpha government um maybe it's twelve thousand six out of the twelve so see the twelve or eighteen although i'm like you're going to see me explains rashim ebula means from the city limit from the the gate of the city till the graves you have enough people to go off from the city to the cemetery it's like mata torah how many people were at matantora adults from 20 to 60 we have 600 000 so when the tire leaves the body the tire leaves this world so to speak when the time has left there you need six hundred thousand people until y'all in other words the only leviah was at that size was maran rabbav yosef they say there was a million people at the so what are you going to say so you don't have to go to re rib revo value yourself because there's 600 000 people plus no that's not what's happening just like when the torah was given to six hundred thousand people have nitila shishmari by six hundred thousand people says the gemara that's great somebody that learns mishnah learns torah [Music] hold on emergency here so what happens when you learn at home my wife's going to tel aviv to get some passports at this early hour of the day to get an appointment for a passport place takes months today's the day and i had to be there i would have to go and there's no such thing as being without those here so you get a notary i'm just telling you this rabbi say even though we have a lot get a notary in there to stroll it's not the five dollar notary that every guy in the world stands and it costs one buck in america over here it costs 200 shekel what is that like 70 dollars to get a notary because they put wax and they put a thing in a ribbon it's unbelievable anyway so i don't have to go bar hashana says but somebody who teaches torah rabbi yosef you can't say the six hundred thousand people i'm not going to the levia there's no limit you have to go to tomball tanya the famous israeli actor the number one actor in artistro he told me himself he had the the most beautiful home and there to stroll on the water and why am i saying this because i was in his house i schmoozed with him and i think if anybody comes there to stroll the first stop before you go to the castle go to urizar why he was the most successful person in this role the greatest actor in in his time very wealthy lived in a gorgeous mansion on the beach and today he lives in yerushalayim he bought a home an apartment he gave the apartment to his kid and he lives in the storage of his home in other words in a 10 by 10 or something crazy from going from up here to there to to to to to be over hashem it's a lesson in in in in in him all right my wife is not here so we're going to hear the aniko the four-legged a nikon says the gemara so urizar he's on he's just becoming a balchuva and he's riding his motorcycle with his friend and he notices a cop behind him and the cop is following him following and so they make sure they there's no infractions they go the speed limit finally the cop pulls them over after 20 minutes and the cop says you know i've never had this usually when i follow somebody i'm able to find something you switch a lane you do this you do that i don't understand i can't catch you on anything so urizar says you know i just became about true he says hashem is with us so the cop says oh so there's three people on the motorcycle that's a ticket so gemara akushborg who's with us everywhere we are everywhere we go likurizar myself went to bubble waffles and in the future who's going to be with us who's going to return us vishav hashem is going to return allah is says where does hashem show himself more because what was in every place everywhere this table was everywhere but where does he where is he more where could you see more like in the migdash you see he's present whatever that means um he's in the sholen hotel and uh shaft means it was destroyed the oscillator was rebuilt in our dog so rashi says brought stones and dirt from mary to israel i once was saying and somebody argued with me and then he agreed with me that the dirt itself dirt over itself doesn't have any dusa but it seems over here from this gemara that there was something to it he brought the stones maybe from a shoal something he brought stones and dirt to bubble knowing that they're going into galas they brought the the stones and they built a shull over there and that show had special presence of the shrine don't say that the shrina is in both places at the same time in hudson and is shaft whatever that means again we don't understand these things i don't pretend to understand it i'm just reading it there's a simple meaning and there's a much deeper meaning on my validation i should i'm very far away from that show i don't know about selena awesome i go out of my way to dive in that special show that has special to do show says father they heard a commotion going on they heard something going on in the show kamuvanafko they jumped up and ran out of there says sheisha is have a yosef now we know rav joseph and rafshaysha is throughout chat they were both blind we went through it they asked us to make them blind after the reviews lifter surf says and it's important rashi points it out right away ravshashis was blind it has to do with the story he is initial the one that was built by eukaryotic stones for marriage israel he didn't run away [Music] i'm a downtrodden trout in person i'm blind so who should go should i go or should you malachim he says let him be here with me says i will be for them for a small base amigdas what does that mean number of islam but they can see us about the relationship with bhava the shoals in the baton madrish in hudsolarts are going to be on mikdashma we say we talk about this all the time you have to treat the shoal the base measures with respect because it's a it's a minor base amigos omar zeb base rabbit ship above all rabbenu is rav the goliath daughter in in bavar it's referring to this home hashem you're going to be a home for us so rava brings down to the to start out my life i used to learn at home for davening i would go to show given the shamans now that i understand i i paid attention to the shot in the intel of course i buy a new helium better than anyone we know so you know this is possible however he understood shot now based maybe on rava hashem now i know means the show have a garish number so the show has big i'm going to i'm going to learn in the show below so eventually lost a lovely there's gonna be a guy he's gonna be in show and his wife is gonna try to contact him on whatsapp or whatever and he's not going to pay attention he's going to get upset and finally he's going to when he when he gets uh when he gets his line back up he's going to say i'm i'm an editor's troll i was in show and the whole thing got picked up was brought their stroke i'll see you on the next flight she's gonna happen ala whatever come with me but the whole show is gonna pick itself up according to one shot some say it's the douche of the show okay just like the mountain tower and caramel they were able to move and go to sinai today they're in you see that mountains are able to move so i'm going to pick up what was saying that that the vulcanetsa is going to destroy mitzrayim it's not a problem especially today when we understand it you have planes you have bombers you could go from here to there no problem ashram is saying in marshall you see that i was able to pick up these mountains and bring them to cena says caramel fish these two mountains showed up for a few hours to learn tyre and haracina big bombards israel yet who replaces them inaudible when you have a shoal that's full of torah and a base madrid shikori mumabitim entoiro i in aleph so certainly certainly a show if a mountain that was at harcina the samsung asked a question but we know that i think somebody was just asking based on the tysons maybe i just flipped through the screen maybe he's asking this because i was also wondering about it because yesterday tyson's says that only the shoals in energy stroll you can't make a tie in a shoulder because it stays there but the shoulder the shoulders you could make it tonight right that's maybe that's what the person was asking just saw it on the zoom screen for a second 134 people on zoom show him away from all zoomers so i don't know dante is butch how you doing excuse me so you know yesterday i wasn't feeling as good as i'm feeling today it was much worse yesterday much much worse was the shop sweating away but i wasn't coughing i was maybe because the heat was on now it's only 75 degrees in here that's the problem okay no but the question is tyson says that the the shoal doesn't go from hotel it starts to swell that's why you can make it deny and make it do whatever you want so maybe the shot is it's those shows that are there not every show goes towards a stroll a shull that's that's that's operating right now gets up but so from 500 years ago maybe it doesn't maybe asks and i think it's important to us this question and answer we we said that a base measures where you learned tired has a lot of kaducha and therefore it makes sense that this madrish gets picked up and brought to territorial but as show has less douche so what's the kawahi me here that if they learned torah the mountain that learned tara so certainly a shoal would have shown an entire at two different things we sat tires up here fellas down here let's say what's more important the base measure is more important than the show so then what's the gemara bring a raya from the mountain that hurt toro and our sinai to a show that you dive in in bubble they're not connected says the kamsa very beautiful it has to do with us that the shoal you dive in every day and that should be a lot more humor than a place that learned player for just a few hours torah all day showed all day tire winds but a mountain that only retired for a few hours is not as strong as the show you dive in every day and that's the daffy mirror the learning entire every day we have that kind of climber so a person that learns tire every day certainly should be a lot more important than a mountain that's made out of stone that only learned for one a few hours that's my own calvelheimer i hope it's a good one doors back up to rats why you why are these mountains like dancing up high why are you fighting with sinai cool you're nothing appeared to senate you have blemishes if he has a cataract in his eye or long eyelashes that that's a mum so the word giben is a mom so mela all those mountains have blemishes what is the blemish somebody who is hoary an ex big ivor that's about mum so i saw the roy joseph he lived like 400 years ago i think i think also that he was the rebbe of shopsite suite not that it's a milo but just in perspective when he lived i saw himself i started laughing he was serious i i just thought the way he said it was funny that somebody everybody has to realize that who are we we're nothing we're going to be buried and we're going to be the worms are going to eat our body we're offered verima we're nothing nothing should be nothing so a person a person that has guyva he says doesn't have a brain how can you have guyva oh if you don't have a brain that's a terrible mum that's what he says brainless human being is a big moment it's a lot worse than not having a hand anyways i thought it was funny hey nice to meet you capandria you can't make a shoulder shortcut my compandry or marava compatriot shortcut mikey schwab wasn't me commander omar so it's also based on two words means the circle until i'll circle around go the long way let me go out dory in order to get to the houses to the rows of houses elbow let me go right through it's amazing i just thought about it the show that we're diving in the way you know it's strong there's mountains and everything so we the the banaya shiva's the smaller show there's a door in the front and a lot of the neighbors they open up the door in the front right in the middle of the avenue they walk right through our shoal in order to go lower down i mean it's mama shakapandria it's user so i'm i'm sure most of them like sit down and say ashrae but it's when you live in their stroll you could see this a lot more that somebody would use a show as a shortcut um imagine if there was a maybe that's with the tiding all these people they used to walk from up here down here somebody built this building right there maybe that's what happened they have no right to build a building in the middle of my pathway you want to build a building i'm going to use your shoal as a pathway i'm continuing to walk what about the women i don't know shortcut now you can walk out the other door if you go to show the dive in you're allowed to make it into companion the village on the side over here he's guys instead of mother mitzvah it's a heels why because of this coming line up when you go to the base how about their suffering you go to the basement to show your appreciation of your seminars you walk right through through and through you go from the north you exit the south says the ville nagoyan then it's not mutter then it's a good thing to go in one door and walk out the other door because you're mimicking what we do in the basement he bases it under his shoulder sorry you're not supposed to cut the grass so that you feel bad that the shoulder is destroyed but on your inaudible it says you shouldn't cut the grass and feed it to your animal but it seems like avocados you could cut the grass and just leave it says this in yeah that's what the mishnah meant i was only saying that it's officer to cut the grass and feed it to your animal but you let it cut the grass basically i don't know how that fits with the resi exhibit state they know how to cut the weeds that grow out of the cocktail from here it seems like you could you just can't feed it to your animal basic virus i know your mm-hm so you have to treat a cemetery with dignity you can't just make a party in the cemetery you can't bring your animals to grace there may be life and don't bring your piping through the base of the base of ours and you shouldn't you shouldn't cut the grass them leakage suffer from kaimun over here you don't just leave it or you have to burn it quite amazing because of the honor we have to give the dead so what does mabneck vaidamesa mahaya just in case you're not looking inside i made a a chart it says over here tara bonham basic foreign you have to treat it with dignity a few locus a mire in ben behemo you don't let that animal graze and molecular mass of him and if you do you have to burn the grass and then it says in the bottom myth naked fighter mason so is freda mason going on this last line they have to burn the grass because of the honor of the dead what does one thing have to do with the other and the gemara is going to say no the red goes with the red it starts ain't getting better i'm callous crush you cannot treat a cemetery by sacharis without dignity why you jump all the way it gives you the alas what you shouldn't do and the reason which is connected to the beginning is myth nay void mason you don't treat it without dignity because of the honor that we give the dead ahayo elaine massey for giving yourself a requirement might come with mason who cares if you burn grass you think the dead people care if you burn it or you don't burn it li ratio says the helium mishna sponsored the official mishna i here are the four parachutes that we read in the month of other scholam is corresponding to the master shekel that was supposed to give we remind everybody in the beginning of the month that in one month from now in 30 days that's when we're going to start taking the new money to buy the curb bonus for the base i make this where we're going to get the thomas from from the money that people give have a shekel but we have to remind people a month earlier you start reminding that has everything to do with purim purim is haman amalek so we read it right before purim para is the frappara we burn apart duma and we take the ashes and we make a person tired with it we have to get ready for pesach pesach is coming up we all want to be tar so we can bring a carbon pesach and finally parish is a khai desh which has everything to do with rish khoi so that chavis you read the first of the four parshiots over so if rich kaidish is before like over here in this calendar right over here here's rosh so parish column in blue comes before that chavez it's up here then when do you read the the next partition line parasha's zachar you read it not immediately the first shabbos you skip one x you go to the next shabbos why because it needs to be right before purim here's purim and here's zahar so one two three four days before purim everything's beautiful khalid by the way is what we just read this the shabbos so what is that two days ago we're still partisanship it's not tuesday yet we're actually going to discuss it based on today if we get there that the fifth week we go back go back to what so this is my collection tomorrow what it means go back to regular reading go back to the aphtirus when something comes up we we know this already because we go to show we start laning whatever has to do with that day if it's a monday thursday we learn instead of monday thursday if it's a shabbos we averaged because we also read the laning of yum kippur whereas let's say pesach two things you have to tell people be careful from planting vegetables different types of vegetables or seeds together with wheat together with grapes clyde that's when it starts growing you have to get rid of it we just turned to somebody sponsored by malaysia horn and woody wyman as his host for morty motskowitz and in honor of rebellion for all that he does i think that's kind person to live in yeah anonymous high in paris living so no we mentioned sponsoring and his daughter got engaged in that month of the sponsorship so bar hashem says that's when it starts coming out you got to you got to make sure you don't benefit from it where does it say anything about they have the master says so this is we're going to go back to a number of times today what does riptavi say on review in the powershell of tomet we're supposed to say it every day if nobody says if you don't say eyes at least you say the parachute of thomas that's the most important one out of all of them what do we say i'm retired the tire is telling us you have to bring from the new the new money you have a lot of money in the way dash you don't take from that money new money every year we take from the new money on nissan nissan buying so we need a because this happens 30 days later we have to we have to read the partition over here so that when it comes down over here teresh nissan we're ready we have the money in place so again what does rav tavi say from this parsha of tamid i learn skalim he's able to connect it commander it doesn't go contribution with the famous the famous concept when do we start talking about pesach he holds only two weeks so talking about scholarly should also be only two weeks why 30 days before this is 30 days before that's when the money changers pull out their table they start changing money for people to bring them access shackle when on the 15th purim in the english line so you have to start two weeks before that he's he's what she does everything is two weeks before but not two weeks before you take the money two weeks before the changers already get into a position you have to tell people hey in two weeks from now there's going to be a money changer you shall i aim start getting your money ready and on the 25th of other they already moved their tables to the mikdash h does that ring a bell to anybody is that what we read by piracy that that rings a bell that's what we do today that's right we just discussed the other day the wrath was much greater than shmuel and raf gave all the honor to shmuel because rav because he cursed him and didn't have sons but here we know that dallas is like these things now shmo makes a lot of sense because in particular it talks about the master bush awesome so the more is going to ask four or five questions on rav here's one of them where's the mention of shkalim in parish's thomas it talks about bringing a carbon every day to the base of english it doesn't mention a word about a half a shekel in time and mike they're tavi ah so let's go back to two lines from the top of the almond omer vitavi tovi says i see the idea of skalim in the parsha of tommen how through xavier chavez and everything but that's it so yeah it has everything to do with it okay another question what's happening is awesome so it goes like this the powershell of kisisa is a question this is the mishkan instead of base amigos we had this in the mid bar now you see this box over here look what it looks like close up from the new art scroll here's the inside picture this is what it looks inside this is the outside of the box you see this nice fabric fabric on top this is wood covered with gold what's on the bottom adonim let me show you a beautiful close-up picture here's the wood goes right into the into the silver this is super expensive you can imagine so they had to make a special a special collection for the silver now ask the gemara deposit is talking about the silver for adonai to hold the michigan together what's the connection to a half a shackle that we collect for a carbon atomic of every day it's two different things there's collecting money for the silver collecting money for carbon now it's a good question says the gemaran answer here's the answer real quickly this three times it's mentioned in the same parachute here these three collections you're right three different collections and the silver for the silver so by the cabbages the upkeep of the race i make dodge is better goodbyes and rashi points out better capacity doesn't have a master shackle medical buys however however much you want to donate as your heart desires so another question hi mrs johnny where was it um over here somewhere [Music] what's what's so special about this week right over here if rich was if you're reading the partial that you read on rich heidesh then there's no difference it's the same thing says marino shawnee that's what we did today right when you have a restriction chavez so we read the passages of six alias and at the end we talk about this other falls out on chavez right over here i don't have a good calendar for that so i didn't print it but it let's pretend that this is right over here is rich with the x's so it'd be different than a regular desk the entire laning is a special lining of honey so as we mentioned at the end of the mishnah it says that after the fifth week you reach call them zach then you go back you go back to what so according to ami all these four parties is only about those things we don't read the purchases of so that's what the mission means when i go back i go back to regular laning of pirates of civil so mamela rosh haidash comes out beautiful rosh is all seven aliyah's is all about reshadish [Music] but if it means on the fifth week you just go back to the regular math there you don't give anybody para and skalim and all that like we do today opera actually you have a korean on but we always lane the parishes are shavua mai shani so what is the difference between this side dish and that and the regular one says gimbal on a regular dish that falls out of this we have six alias of purchases of it's three and four talking about massachusetts so fits right in to kiso madame but if you're lating about carbonis tamid mean dummy then what's the connection we didn't have tyra and the parish of java and what's the obvious answer to rooftopia says yes it says a carbon but it means max shackle it is the same way so here i have a calendar look what's very interesting it's hard to see especially on zoom i don't know if you're going to see and i don't have gary here but look at these parshis in in this is this year this year calendar i pulled off the internet here's parsha's kisiso right over here this year and the following week is parishes of a yacht is parachute you see you're laning this powershell again in other words past kisiso always falls out right around shkalim and if you're laning if you hold like the mandala that says that the partial column is kisisa then all this makes sense why because we're talking about what do you do do you lay in the parachute twice do you skip it what do you do um what happens if he sees saw so now a year he sees says lefonel this is right before here's shkolim and hereski siso so we have a problem so what do you do carry united stuff not a problem you read kisi so one week next week repeat bakari has the easy job for a little bit because he just read it last week bismillah if you say that the what we read in parishes column is from parish then it's possible to read the two paragraphs one after another no matter where is that partial impartials pinchas when do we lay in parishes pilgrims in the summer what does the parachute say of the summer have to do with purim they'll never come out together elementary school bonnie means trying about never happens this rabbi said if you just listen to the sheer to this one line this is going to shock you ninety percent of the people in our generation don't know this line in the name of inertia they used to lane the entire torah in three years took them three years to lane three and a half some say in other words you could do shas in seven years and you do the whole kamishikum iron three two times the tire one time shots in those days is a little different they probably did shas every month and the toyota every three and a half years whatever i mean people would love it nowadays you go to show krista tyre is 20 sookie you're done out of here so nerds israel because you read the torah it takes you three and a half years it's possible that parachute spin close one year falls out right by purim time and you're reading the pinhos together with shkolim i'm saying pinchas not yeah pinchas together with pinchas because it is according to this mandolin savage and that's what we do today um have a wonderful day you