Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 82 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning it's so good to be back in B she ah unbelievable what are you laughing about live from the Armon hotel in Connecticut it's unbeliev look at this background it's unbelievable literally like the mothership in raes so much detail so many we're very much looking forward to unbelievable shavas you could still join us I think there's a couple of rooms left B and if not if there's nothing left we'll take some of the waiters and ship them out right we'll make some room as we've been doing for the last few weeks we start off with the cap with a Bren we'll say together Capal kid and this this is for the that the soldiers on the front line should come home safe together with all those who are in captivity over 200 yiden some of them are only a few months old and all those who are injured thousands who are injured and also for the mishas who are grieving and then Shas everybody together [Music] know [Music] for [Music] so we'll start off with a few emails the first one is a picture of the a lot of them came from some of them are from Lakewoods from all over MD Y at the cookie Corner Yak who flew in Cohen who flew in Yan ysf cron AB Renard Jakob siton who flew in where are you you're not in there snow is not in this picture [Music] Haron beautiful picture belly as we finishing I'm excited and looking forward to join the upcoming shabas with family join this year live and was big push for me to keep up with the she over while traveling home after with everything that was unfortunately going on while we left as they join the sh few into I catched up in the last few days a few that I skipped watching humor is something that I miss what he's saying is that the humor is not back yet unfortunately I don't believe it hope will come back very soon and the hor and the is should come to an end looking for forward a hovitz Monroe New York looking forward mayor hovitz deell when the notice came around about I was on high with you daily is the day this for I put it in for you again trous amount of inspiration for your daily she I'm that is a sta supporter of mdy official explain them what staunch means I didn't send the message until now be I was hoping that my finances yeah that word okay will allow me to attend the shabbaton I even bought the raffle ticket hoping that I'll win now that we're so close to shabas my only hope is what I'm trying to say a couple from B Park May heritz okay you deal with him he says he's so first he's i'll take care you take let's see what we we could do we got to get him here a Vian I walked into my school in Boston library to get a safer and I saw this written on the Whiteboard look Raba look how beautiful somebody wrote this on the on the board good morning RAB join today go for free gamar joined that talking about free garas we have official here last night he wrote to me that over 90 people he got to join in Baltimore how many are today 110 re Bo say 110 people what's the initiative to do some uh things in the you get $1,000 a per $110,000 a per what you do over there finances finances okay don't tell don't let's not save a ra because people are going to want it everywhere we get people just for free gar you have to pay big time huh both of one is different 110 people wow it's unbelievable can't wait for B it's going to be very interesting thank you for everything I love you sh have a great time oh S I skipped at first I thought I was the only person in my school who lives amazing sh but now after I track down the kid who wrote this I found that there are like four other people the student who wrote this on the Whiteboard is only in sixth grade sixth grader going around the whole school trying to recruit everyone for to join the new and get a fre Mar this is from ABI Berg um oh I forgot to write put in what he wrote but he wrote that what n and it's a of you see this black Hatters and this and a guy with a flute from B all sorts of people galic massive SE on your credit tomorrow 11th grader at ha NC high school Hebrew Academy of NASA county is making a tomorrow i' love for you to zoom in before either at 8:40 you're available how can you arrange this probably not available I would love to there's other things going on here no anyway get the last room there's only two rooms right before do you what's going on here maybe you could zoom out can you zoom out a little bit I want to show the stender that doesn't look so great this stender is made out of solid wood built as an imitation to the stender in mdy they went all out here The shabas All Out you hear that solid wood like the same basically it's the same size the same kind of everything as mdy only mdy is Walnut and this is uh probably Birch where's that guy that built it he was here a minute ago okay kimat very good what else do we have is sponsored by no one the the last day lck and is he he coming coming for shabas better be coming lack Ling families L New Jersey because are the bestor for the unity of worldwide come from supporting the final final of it's really for me to be here and have so from here as well at home says the all the way on top of again easier gas we're dealing with a single man should not teach children either your initial thought would be because there's a of relations yes but not with the children relations with the mothers of the children that come and also a woman should not teach children the same reason the fathers come drop off their kids in you see here the idea of that uh the fir community so into separate School separate weddings and where does it come from here here's some of the suas that explain to us these ideas so this seems to repeat itself it says a person who doesn't have a wife a single man should not teach children then it says even a man that doesn't have a wife shouldn't teach children what's the difference theor will explain a single man should not be a Shepherd as we going to see that's it's not an issue really today and two single men should not be under one blanket say it's not an issue people for being with an animal and M says the what's the reason why a single man should not teach children is the concern that the re will do something bad to the children we have a CLA yes it happens we're not saying it doesn't happen it does but a typical man in clol doesn't have that were concerned that when the the the mothers Dr off the children in school like they always do till it's very day we're just concerned that the mothers will bring the kids into school develop a relationship and it could lead to the things that are not so [Music] good what does it mean even a person who doesn't have a wife doesn't mean he doesn't have a wife at all doesn't mean that he's a widower he's a Alman he doesn't have a wife because he used to have a wife in other words the difference between the Raa and would be a person who never got married at all as opposed to somebody that was married once upon a time and he lost his wife or theot is he's married right now just he's not there in a different city this is a big he sort of almost Haso he understands the idea he does he's not that desperate he has a wife she's just not here somebody like that should not teach children it seems like and we see from the mishna people weren't Ming on this at all because it used to be like a reie would go far away stay for months at a time so his wife is not with him and then they used to send back to the parosa that's how it was says that a single man should not be a Shepherd what about what about what about it's not just that they were they were allowed to the greatest that ever lived and were shepherds there's something special about it there's also something that could go wrong but we not which obviously is says the mishna very long mishna maybe it's the longest Mish in K it's a very long mishna but also like an kind of M A person who deals with women that's his job he's not allowed to have with women let me ask you a question could a single man whose job is not with women his job is with men is he allowed to have with women answer is no a man cannot beak with two women so what's the what's the what's the M saying if you deal with women you shouldn't have with women no no one is allowed to have with women says Rashi incredible and I was hting to yesterday yest were learning the Su of a room within a room I mentioned that it's possible it's only two women over here says rash the that a regular man has is only with two women once it's four five women three four five women there's no nobody's going to be crazy and be with 10 women or three four women but this guy that deals with women let's say he's a jeweler and he sells jewelry to women he's not allow to be even with three four women a regular man could be with three four women not a jeweler for a father to teach a son a profession so don't teach him don't go teach him something that he has to deal with women we going to see exactly what that means uh easy clean profession like the schar that took a son on a Father's Day to work what is it called when you bring your kid to work take your son to work take your son to workday and they said what are you doing he says it says in the Mish that you have to take your kid and teach him uh that's and I don't want my kid to have to come on to other people I brought him here okay nobody got the J it's not funny it's true a person should D in to the one that's in charge of this we have to see rash says is gonna explain it really well a person shouldn't say I'm in the wrong profession as we're going to see over and over there is no such thing as a profession that earns a lot of money and a profession doesn't earn money you can make money in in any profession any profession if you have the right masle the right then you earn more you don't l so you could through change your salary where the amount of money supposed to every profession you could be a nursing homeowner and lose all your money or you could be very wealthy you don't become poor because of the profession you chose everything is dependent on your says means mle others like the mar explain literally that a person is born with a certain amount of certain amount of par as he's born says you are going to earn you're going to be you're going to be but you could change it with if you change who you are and you change what you do you could actually change what decreed the day you were born and you could increase your [Music] par have you ever seen an an animal a lion that has a job no every single animal in this world every bird in this world world has par has enough to eat they survive calls it doesn't take much effort for them whatever it is they go hunting and there's enough for everything if you ever went to the safari very much recommended the there's enough uh let's call it Buffalo for the lion there's enough Impala for the leopard you know there's hundreds of thousands of Impalas why because they get killed a lot quicker and easier and there's a lot more leopards and and that sort of thing that kill them but the larger ones there's a little less but you don't need that many because it's enough for who's calling oh my no it's my father he'll be here in a minute if he if he calls he just pick up the point is there's always enough and the right amount and you should know the the lion doesn't like Impala and this one can't even kill a buffalo it it's it's exact it's perfect everything is perfect so which reminds me another thing I wasn't going to tell you but we went to this place that they decided it's in South Africa I forgot what is it called again skip my mind it's like D from South Africa knows who's from South Africa here he's not here now he's very busy ker uh it's it's next to the casinos over there they basically took a bunch of land and decided to make their own Safari so they this bunch of lions this that what happens if it's not natural so there's way too many lions who killed way too many of the grazing animals and they didn't have enough grazers so they have to go and they had to kill a bunch of lions if it you know it wasn't done by K it's like manmade so it's very hard to get that perfect balance they don't have an issue with with all these animals are only there for men for me to eat them to do whatever I need for them I was created to serve so how come I have and I'm thinking about all the [Music] time the problem is me I ruined it for myself I ruined my own par you think about is in the cave for 13 years the food comes to him if you do your the right thing you do your thing there's a few stories in gamar like that forgot it was uh whatever one of these sik that the a bag of money would come to his house he didn't have to do anything in a cave 13 years he had his has a little boxer he had water that's all he needed comes to him why are we different because we do have varas our have VAR is what creat a problem for us and then we struggle with peros a person these are things you shouldn't teach your son to be don't teach him to be a taxi driver to be a donkey driver G camel driver saffon Roya uh a a wagon driver safon is a a ship don't captain on a ship Roya don't teach him to be a Shepherd ven what's the problem with theen Ken the problem is he he has a store yeah what does the guy do he sells a lot of wine he sells wheat so in the store he's constantly cheating he adds a little water to the wine has a couple of stones to the wheat cheater Rashi says that's what they like to do don't teach him the stuff it's natural for them to do it a guy comes to he says re what should I do milk spilled into my CH you know I don't have money to make another CH what should I do so he said where did you get the milk he said I got it from the the Milkman he says okay let's call the Milkman call the Milkman he says Milkman I need to hear the truth how much water do you put into the milk no I don't I don't put any water to the milk it's milk he says I need to know how much water you put in the milk it's very very important to me I'm not going to tell anybody just tell me 50% water that's what he told he said 50% water okay the CH is ker based on the amount of milk that fell into the CH and the amount of water that was in the milk caution point is that it's it's a unfortunately you chose a profession that people cheat over there the Milkman cheats The Wine Guy cheats this is what they do I'm not saying you should this what they do don't teach it to your [Music] kids I don't know does anybody here have a very good story with a mon in Israel no nobody anybody want to sheare no okay I have plenty not for now know one time I was coming from the airport I was going to to uh Rao and the guy made a wrong turn and he ended up in uh y basically he went all the way say you can't turn around you know you know that when you go after just go and go all I don't know what is it called before y over there no like what was it called something else whatever until he's able to make a U-turn and then when he gets back to he tries to charge me for the meter for the whole I said it's your mistake I didn't tell you where to go no no he said I'm not giving you your suitcases until you pay me the full thing gets are mice is like that all the time another thing says Rashi over here that when people they they have a wagon they they steal from the way they they they see an apple tree they grab an apple they do it this there's a famous he in a wagon and the guy stops in the middle he says listen if you see the owner of the orchard coming scream I'm going to grab some fruit so he went out and the started screaming he sees you so he ran back and he zoomed off then he looked in the rear viw miror and he sees there's nobody there he says what are you doing he says sees you ah okay says in the name ofan the camel Riders most of them are a camel driver has to be in the desert and that gives him when you're in fear you see now people and fear I'll say this thing because I saw one of the knesset members saying an unbelievable speech of auna based on that lady gash whatever her name is that her daughter came out of captivity and she did somebody said it was the first time in her life I don't know if that's true or not but one thing I'll tell you that I heard her say and this is what this person in theet said in front of the whole speech for five minutes to listen if you know Hebrew beautiful speech and that this lady said she was screaming in Middle she stopped her she started screaming to Hashem just spontaneously and she said Hashem please save my daughter please please and then she said I love you and this person in the KET said hm I love you I love now you love Hashem when your daughter is in a whole hundreds of feet under the ground together with these I love you he says yes I love you that a mother this woman who I don't know how Affiliated she is she was able to say in a raw way I love you asem even in this terrible mat hem knows what what's best and hasem has a for everything aamo he's in a mat of danger he's he's sitting there in the desert the middle there's nothing there and this bad gu here and this is here and there's no water so your heart is with Hashem the they're in the city they think everything is is good can you imagine those days I don't know what the what the rate was to go down but I don't think it was very good to survive like you go on one of these Wooden Ships cross the ocean and then a 40 foot wave hits you and I don't know what the story is so if you're a safon you're a a captain on a boat on a ship this is a higher level you're you're constantly ding to and talking to hem and this say one of the most F famous lines in ch the best of the doctors goes to gam why because because the best of the doctors is in himself he thinks that he could do it he's the one that's healing people he doesn't have auna Rangel galinski every time he went to the doctor he had another line but one of the lines that a doctor came over he say rebi is it true that he said you you don't have to worry about it I come upon him Rashi brings here another what a you wna over here it's like there's no business for you you know what I'm saying if you're going to put out a if you're going to put out a sign these are people these are staunch supporters of mdy so r sticks in here a line and we'll talk about it later as well that a doctor when a poor person comes to him and he doesn't give him service because he doesn't have insurance and he doesn't have money he's a Russia you have to take these things into consideration not just I said this about Dr Geller from Frack I'll say it again I said it a long time ago I said again I don't think he practices anymore but I think his son does in in the five down I got my teeth done as a kid because my father was he didn't even have aell he wasn't even KY my father he never took aella and he always learned at home and uh so he had a day every single week that he would give to the to the poor to the town to the r in town to the poor and that that's a of a person that's a guy that's a person that doesn't go to G that's a person that that goes to Ganan he understands and this I'm going I'm going to read to you soon the best of the those who sell meat so this is you know people that are in the business now I was in catering a lot and also I had a a meat business unfortunately and one thing I can tell you that it's very very difficult when you sh an animal that cost $2,000 and you open it up and you find out it's trfe it's a tremendous loss tremendous what do you do so the way out of it is if you're if you know what you're doing you get a sh of a guy and you give it to the guy and uh but it still comes with a loss every time there's one at you try to do anything you could and if the r is a little bit M you whack him over the head when he's not looking and you know you try you fire him you get another guy it's a big problem you don't want any of these trist he this guy tra tra tra tra 2,000 2,000 it's a whole it's a big I heard once a that if you're you have then it's a then you don't have to worry about being or something that's strafe because you have a but why does it sayik okay it's just a it's a nice says I think I once heard I should have looked it up that is but don't quote me on that I'll have to find out maybe my father will when he comes in are you sure okay because he is in here no isn't remor here yeah [Music] right that's that's a to say yes you have to teach your kid a profession I'm gonna teach my kid obviously you get a little bit in this world and most of it last for any other profession is not like that if a person is sick old you him and he can't work that's it he's done the itself will help you not when he's young and gives you longevity and hope when you're [Music] older famous line this week's this week's you're right huh correct people don't know that sometimes they read it yeah a very famous saying that kept entire he listened to my voice kept what's that that kept even even something like says he kept it all things that didn't exist yet there in the future came up with and he kept them also somebody that deals with women he's like a jeweler person that fixes women's clothes he cleans out the Mills the the machines that the women use to to grind weed and pedlers that are always dealing with women and weav Barbers shouldn't be Barber why because when you're a barber the women come to bring the children to the barber shop launders blood letters oh we're going to see a whole thing a whole list 10 things about the blood letters so I just want to point huh good things ref fall is not here so I just want to read this gamor real quickly because it's not so p in other words most blood letters have issues you know what let's let's let's see it inside what the issues are and then we'll go to this gar something says like this and a guy that works in the bath housei and a guy that that's a Tanner he makes shoes leather you hear this raal the barber should not be a king and he should not be be a in other words it's a nice profession maybe even Plumbing is a good profession but but do you want your king to be an ex Barber not because they're something's wrong with them because it's a it's a degrading kind of profession now could be today it's different it's very possible that a biki guy Tanner that owns a a leather shop is is a multi- gazillionaire and it's not this and it could be a plumber the top of the world which they are fine turn I want to tell you 10 things that are wrong with this blood Letter guy right in those days it was a big thing people didn't feel well remove a little blood he has too much blood in his system we got to get it out together with the bed the way he walks is with htin he leans in his chair like this he constantly eats meals at his patients houses so he doesn't he's a stingy guy he never spends money on food and he's has a terrible eye for people in other words he's constantly thinking oh I wish that guy get sick so he comes to me as a patient he's constantly praying that people should almost drop dead so to speak a guy comes to kki and this is Mage for you R comes to kki and he says I'm a plumber so says you're a plumber so what are you diving for you ding that people's toilet should get clogged what are you daing for you I didn't know like it's not nice to say yes you know the truth now you ding that people should build homes and and buildings I understand so he told him a beautiful thing he told him you should D in that all your sorus should fall on plumbing problems a person has to break his leg so instead of breaking his leg have a massive uh flood backup whatever and he has to call yiim the plum that's what you should D not that people should St need blood leting and the S I guess you could also down for that if you're blood instead of him dying you should need a little blood leting eats a lot in these people's homes when he goes to the bathroom it's very little interesting because Rashi says something calleda you make a special suda right before blood letting and it's healthy stuff you know you're eating healthy little rice white bread Rashi says good stuff that doesn't cause you to go to the bathroom okay he's dealing with a lot of women so there's a for and and he's stealing so this is very super interesting why is he stealing he's stealing from the husbands the wives come and they say they need blood liting they C money from their husbands without telling them they use the credit card they swipe it without telling the husbands gva you're involved in Geva sometimes they take a little bit too much blood without without being careful kill the guy why you kill the guy so you're looking at this and you're saying okay a blood Letter is a terrible terrible profession none of us are blood letters so we don't really care but what if the gar said the same thing about a plumber plumber is a terrible guy he's a he's a g this or that he's with women all these so I want to read to you this gamar which is an amazing gamar it opened my eyes remember this gar from you all remember this which reminds me I'm going to tell you I'm going to show you a video but barem Benny is coming the guy Benny from The the butcher talking about a butcher he's coming and he sent me a video and I'm going to show it bem on Sunday maybe of him packing what you'll from the video you'll see he packed he's goingon to be learning on the plane we'll find out because ofy over here so it says like this is this the you you learned on the plane says like this I I'll read it real quick it's a very long story beautiful story the blood Letter send every single day only imagine once a year the blood Letter every single day ab was jealous what's going on here how does he get it every day every single day says him so tell me them said you're not going to be able to imitate him you know what I'll just I'll just say it B he was very careful that men and women should be in separate rooms my point of the story is that you can take any profession you have and make it the worst profession in the world just brought 10 things the guy's a terrible terrible guy and you flip it you take the same terrible profession that this 10 terrible things any even when he goes to the bathroom it's terrible it's little you can take it and M bring it up to to that you're greater than it's unbelievable story he was very mocked with the men and women should be in separate rooms and he had a special robe that a tiny little hole you give it to the women and he didn't see them at all he just put the needle right through that little tiny hole and then he had a special he had a special box you wanted to pay him you paid him you didn't want to pay him you didn't pay him nobody he didn't know who paid him who didn't pay him so they weren't embarrassed and then he would give special things to the and then he had guests there and the guest stole his blankets and these because they were trying to test and so they meet him in the street and they say you see these blankets how much are they were and he recognized that they were his instead of saying gav him you stole my blankets he said they wereth 10 $20 he and they said how do you know because they're mine so then why you not upset at us I thought you needed a fora buter this guy was a very very very holy Jew and therefore gave him Shalom every single day the bottom line [Music] is we could take any profession even the worst of the wor the blood Letter and not let it get to our head not be about and not and be M on and and everything else and then so happy with him sends him more than [Music] you should teach his son a clean easy how much time they have left it's not enough time I'll tell you why because I plan on doing all let's [Music] go teach your son had a so profession in a beautiful way some sort of embroidery no profession ever leaves the world it's to see your parents doing the great thing or your children parents and children and to the person that sees his parents or his children with a terrible profession church when he became prime minister in England it was known that his father was a shoem maker so a guy came over to him to him and said hey you see this pair of shoes could you please give it to your father to fix so without blinking for a second he said you know you remind me my father he works with his hands he earns an honest living and he taught me through his profession that whatever you do you do it 110% you do it the best you possibly can and that's why my father's the best Sho maker in England you know whole speech he didn't but there such a thing that a kid is embarrassed by his father's profession and as the person but you again you can take the same profession any profession and make it into anything you want say the world needs perfume and it needs Tanners which they they don't smell very good the person that has to be I think was a I think the says one of probably even more the world needs males and females that's why I kicked those women out so they shouldn't hear this the person that has I have four and only one kind gar so of course if you go to the art scroll they're very politically correct because you're very worried about your daughter and she they have a whole Dr galic I once heard aot that when you call up your daughter's school you say how's my daughter doing so the principal says oh she has so many friends and she says such good you call up your Sona say how's my son doing oh he's stagging away like crazy can you imagine if you call up your son's and the guy says oh he has a lot of friends that's good you know you're they tell you like a they don't tell it like in a okay you hear this got to remember this you don't become poor because of the profession that you chose oh it's not because oh you're in real estate you're in this and that's why you're so wealthy you could be a caterer and all of a sudden the government gives you a big thing you could be a this and you can that you can make money in any profession you are so we actually have some art today Believe It or Not took a long time to generate this there I never saw a deer that his profession is to dry out figs VAR sa I never saw a lion who's a porter who sleps suitcases and says shabas somebody wind the background G these are all original seriously you know you can't find this online serious this is AI but original and I never saw a fox who's a store shopkeeper the there's parosa without anything I said you one thing I got to tell you about the it struck me I was in the Safari a few times do you know that elephants eat close to 23 hours a day through the night you could hear them just chewing into what a life TW all day and all night year after year month they're just eating eating and eating and eating and they have a mish and they go with the m and they eat more and more and more and just eat that's their life it's unbelievable but I got to tell you this it's very important says this that there's many professions in this world and believe it or not there's people that love certain things people love photography people love Plumbing people love catering people love food people love dead people people that everything you you need you need people that work in funeral poers right you need you need people that enjoy it they like to do whatever it is people like whatever every there's a so you're supposed to take the profession that you're drawn to he says what what you like because it's not going to make a difference if you're going to be selling diamonds or you're selling toilet paper you're going to make the same exact money no matter what so just pick the thing that you enjoy the most so all these animals they're able to make it without any said this they are there to serve me and I'm here to serve just like they have so I shouldn't have to work at all I should have like M by my doorstep it's my fault I ruined it with [Music] my and now let's try to fly through this is fast as possible I would recommend that you look at this as I'm saying and try to see if you remember it yourself how many of these 90 you saw this in do you remember a lot of them are very very simple and here goes is we learn that a woman is means a person that has an admission and one two three becomes t for seven days even is a throwback to that when you get divorced in you Aid them have to testify that was written in front of them and signed in front of them what does K mean it means it's one of the we talk about more means that if a woman makes a her husband could be Mayer it N is a EV who wants to stay longer than the six years and he becomes a n and if you remember this this is very cool to remember I don't know if people do is somebody who works less than six years and right the says somebody who works to the in other words and the concept something that could you could even learn from the goes out of its way and writes it the concept of zik zik is when a woman falls she has a bond to the Y the famous maybe the the most wellknown concept called and if you find this here you do the same thing there it's not based on words just and that one you could just slug up with a is the idea that if you if let's say a nozer says one word har so it's not clear what he wanted to say that he he wants to be nozer he's going to be a basketball player what exactly so it's it's a hand that's not so clear the word means a if a person gives let's say a loan to a woman so he can't be M her with that that loan that he gave her yesterday because it's there for her to spend and it's not there now k a means that there's a I'm making a key on one thing and I that in addition to that I'm going to make a key on something else I buy a house I'm kind of the couch in the house is that you can't charge more than a sixth if it's exactly six give back the money more than six it's bottle Al a person makes a on condition this and this and that it's as if he said I wanted to start now I just have to fulfill the condition the concept of that's something that probably people forgot already it's a hard one maybe it won't come up that many times in sh it just means that somebody wrote AAR like the father of the right in I'm G to give XYZ like by the the idea the word simp means something that cancels like a sale if there's a m or something like that the you swear when you admit a partial admission that you owe a little bit so then he could invoke a this idea that if you charge more than the six it's B doesn't apply to does anybody remember what g k is very good the deduction of money from when she wants to go out so let's say she was bought for 600 for six years so he he gives 100 a year she gives back 100 a year when it comes to you need at least two get remember that one a force get thank you say is I say when I the only way I learned that this iser is because the Torah says you should do this and I infer from that that you don't do that so it has the same strength as in I owe something to if I have to do it it's the famous thing if ruin owes money to shim and shim owes money to Ley so Ley should pay ruin directly to a CL all that don't don't try to grab too much more than you could always say that that the day that he's becomes a g it's like he's a brand new person just yesterday we spoke about it the said that he doesn't have to he doesn't have a problem of with his children thank you see paying attention whether grabs in a woman that or not let's say you tell your wife you're not going to give it doesn't work it's against the whatever the slave acquires goes immediately to his master but you could give a slave something on condition that your master doesn't have anything that we're going to have just in a day or two that's knock walking and he steps on a pebble and it shoots and breaks a glass does he have to pay full amount or not grub him in his ug po just a CA to who remembers this one when it comes to a bird huh it doesn't make a difference on a chicken if it's a z in a the B well there's no chicken if it's a pigeon doesn't matter Z in a it doesn't matter if it's whole or if has a or not is one of the most famous Concepts in that if I could do a certain action I don't have to do it but if I cannot physically do it then it makes it makes a difference what's this oh these are the different um you can't you don't swear on a and the idea is the idea that you're not because the seller if it's in his house he won't take care of your stuff he say oh it got burned it got ruin that so that he should care about your stuff you you you have to take it from him m means AAR that's um out of the one date is an earlier date than when it actually happened Gil is if I already invoke one I could Roll Another into it doesn't mean that you can learn the same to when I go in and I go like this they do with like a yamaka some napkin but not with money the famous idea oh this I just threw in right because it was if you break your Say No Greater Mitzvah than that don't forget that the car P have to be registered in order to eat it you have to be fun of the right the saying these are easy we know these so that just means that you learned well you know all these two years ago fun of if you find something you could acquire it for your friend if it's a good thing this we said already means that it's AER to use an an animal or an object that's that belongs to heges in this we had many many when the Torah says the same twice you can't learn something else out of it because the Torah is saying only these two places and nowhere else that I didn't use something means that the guy says to his workers go to the shop and buy whatever you want there take lunch the owner of the store says I gave them the food the worker said we never got anything so the owner has to pay both he has to pay the the shop owner and he has to pay his employees is K that that it only workson ziko we said already is when a young girl is married off by her brother or sister not by her father so it's only the Ron she could refuse the marriage pigle is when you have a carbon and the thinks himself that he's gonna use he's gonna eat it is something else also this is not so familiar but we know what it is it means that whether when a person works on something to build the stender does he earn his profit is is the whatc in increments does he earn it in increments a at a time or at the last last moment he gets it all together okay we could skip that it's when she's just saying I want her from there I want her from this field is in the head whatever that means it's in the head um you can't say oh I meant this I was I was moving and that's if you didn't say it you didn't say it but sometimes we have a concept called it's so obvious that had a person known that he has a son he wouldn't give away all to his friend or when I'm giving your my e to you to to shake obviously I want it back you cannot say oh so and so told me to kill someone there no such thing you can't do something one after another then you can't do it together is a that let's say you don't know who the woman is so it does it doesn't grab remember that one if I say I'm giving my belongings to you and a donkey to you and an unborn baby so just like the unborn baby can't be cant just like the donkey can't be cant so you can't either because I was joking around with you I meant I meant to put you and a donkey in the same category so it doesn't work the of somebody that left a somebody we said threw it in there we had it then it's that don't worry we're almost done that the they wouldn't take from even though it's such a but they would they would stay away from it because there too much PR people they were fighting stayed away from it this is when a car has the highest love of like means it's only for its monetary value and you can redeem it and take it out of it BOS was the idea that in the midbar kerol couldn't eat meat if it was Ro for a carbon if I could bring this animal as a carbon you can't eat it if it was a BAL let's say then you could eat it be is the idea does anybody remember what beer is beer is in the the year of shmita so you have to destroy the fruit once the time of beer comes each fruit depending if it's uh color from you know there's no more in the field stopped eating it is this is an interesting one it's brought down many times in sh the idea that a person could say I could have given this amount of truma to my friend the K and I could pay him or whatever the the guy giving the truma he has a little bit of benefit in it he gives it to he he can make a little money money on it when you have it wasn't but it's as if we could consider as if it was given already this we said already couple few more than a couple three four already that are doubles we said about if a can marry the daughter then he can marry the mother said we had a whole whether or not a g is his own uh if he's not considered part of the community and therefore Mar m the idea of mish is a curse if you don't keep your word get a curse called could you acquire something that's not in the world yet doesn't inherit two parts on something that doesn't exist at his father's if the father's belongings made a lot of money after he died the only takes the regular amount not double is always for the like he doesn't want a to do because he might turn out to be Aus that is all we have have a wonderful day for being here and if you're not signed up yet we could find the room for you B have a wonderful day