Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 81 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good [Music] morning we say cap in of the safe return of all those on the front line and all the captured and all the injured all the and all the Nas and you know what all the families that are going through such s now the unknown the unknown say what did we say yesterday we said yesterday okay so [Music] the [Music] for [Music] today is and I want to remind the many people were talking about the the is open and everybody that wants to come to the should please RSVP online it's MD mdy shascom if you're not going to come for the shabas I'll tell you a little bit about the shabas for a second just we'll do Kazar the shabas is not about having fun although it might you know coming to she is also not about having fun but people have fun it's not awesome to have fun but the point of the shabas is that the M gets together the of so many different types of people of s and and as and we have a speaker that learned it's just of all together and celebrating a tremendous Monumental time we finished half of Shas half of Shas we finished the entire and we're finishing now which we're finishing tomorrow B is our final day day that's what we're coming to celebrate and all the speeches are going to be talking about the mat that we're in right now and the AK and toyra and it's just going to be a time to to be uplifted and uplift each other and be that we got from not only that we should we could do it but you should do it it's a time to celebrate it's not a time to be depressed at home and and sit there by yourself and be all depressed it's a Time to come out and celebrate Tyra there's nothing wrong with it whoever thinks something's wrong with it is going against D Tyra so please come for shabas be everybody that's there you will beaz them and if you can't come for shabas come for M shabas I don't want to talk about it now but there might be an an amazing surprise maybe maybe just say so with that being said we'll talk about oh they asked me to say that what check in on Friday is 10000 p.m. so all those who like to come early you come early and hang out in the lobby for 3 4 hours but checking is at 1 M or and Thursday those who are coming Thursday because there was an option to come Thursday I think checking is 3:00 3:00 okay M shabas there's going to be a sheer shab two hours after the that's the shear and then afterwards starts and the celebration of half Friday there is a Shear Friday that's the first da of bakama there will be a Shear live at the hotel I believe it's like 3:30 uh something like that I don't remember the exact time it's later on in the afternoon um and absolutely but you're not coming right so it doesn't really matter yeah of course it's extra charge every everything's extra charge but chabas includes M shabas if you're coming I believe m shabas is $99 something like that um what else that's it bring yourself bring your wife we're going to be celebrating the wives of mdy give them um dear reelly I have a group of guys on an incredible path to frite that are actually loving the daily share even though they don't know Hebrew well they still gain a lot and learning a lot of important Concepts through this year thank you so much for that show you for that with a good morning with the guys wishing much on impacting Boston ncsy unfortunately I couldn't get his video came in a funny format I didn't get it f please update me if the shabas for the of at the Armon Hotel will take into account the current warrant what will the mood be at and David So based on what told us we are going to take out some of the very gaka songs the you know the it's going to be more of AUM style kind of singing B for the uh for the but in terms of the mood there's no again there's no Mitzvah to be depressed there a Mitzvah to to feel the pain and with that be uplifted with Ryan Kesler this moved me a little bit I have a story to share I booked two tickets to the for this I really didn't have the money for this but I said I'll figure it out later so I guess two tickets is $200 with my transfer from the night shift to day shift I had an extra twool box I really didn't need anymore my work partner has mentioned he wanted to buy it from me he zeld me $200 at a partial payment that cover the CM tickets people are going all out can't afford it does it anyway if you can't afford it you should come for shabas anyway we'll figure it out later one year ago my wife and I were struggling to get pregnant since my brother had recently started doing the I suggest I give it a sh with the hes that would answer of my learning th the with your help and support of the entire she been able to stick with it for an entire year I'm about to make the fifth scene with everyone and of course the best news of all are now expecting our first child and cannot wait to welcome another MD wire into the fold thank you for all that you do for us looking forward to many more to come Perry fox b Fair New Jersey you know T's coming to the shabas T Po and his wife we'll throw it in the book even though it's not nine months good morning rebelli we got to go because I got complain yesterday we went a little bit over you mention a kiss from has in the certain day or Su jbam thought I had to share this kiss from I joined the MD family and so with the whole MD family is coming Friday of all the days that the SE could have fallen it's none other than my birthday the 9th of I have no doubt that it's A's way of telling me how precious the limit of that is for him it's just unbelievable to think about it there are months at a time when no se takes place and that does it always a good opportunity say thank you to the entire MD family keep all this connected to may we see many kisses from H in these trying times best regards gulan Montreal Canada and here it is for one of the final times our very first it's it's big the first time that we're doing this B more to come the first time people have been talking about it for years we got to do a shabas together it be an amazing thing okay the sponsor by families New Jersey because are the best is for the the unity [Music] of and tremendous success in all my endeavors thank you for bringing us back and bringing us forward the of the month from and don't forget the RSVP for the this coming special surprise B okay I'll let you guys know what it is is but who just told me oh Steve Steve jabowski is coming for shabas where is he is he here today it's very special m is special okay you could do it also if you really wanted to you could I don't want to put any pressure on in front of everybody we talk later re I have a question for you I think the answer is a known answer but it's good I think about it for a second if a woman decides she wants to become in a zero she says she's not going to drink any wine and without her knowing her husband finds out about it and he has the right to anull her nether her neros and it's nothing she doesn't know that he did it she goes to the bar that night and she drinks a ton of wine well she over is or was she not over is her husband got rid of the zerus 100% she doesn't know about it is she over yes or NOA yes or no no that's the answer but nice nice good I was worried that you're going to know it good if you don't know it maybe other people won't know it either it's great that was a great question no what do you say guest what do you say I or not over not over okay so guy goes into McDonald's he says you know what I want to go off to D today that's it I'm done I want to eat trfe he goes in and his friend sees that he went into the McDonald's and he slips him a a great Chicago Burger under the table and the guy doesn't no he say he sits there he eats he freshes the McDonald's he thinks he's just say a McDonald burger but is 100% kosher over or not over over you say over and you say the first one also over by the Aero both over over first one not second one yet okay they are they are the same exact case and we're going to see that a person is over he's over just by thinking that he does an a he thinks he's doing a because think about it what you're doing right now it's not a you're doing something something against hashem's will you think that you're doing something against hm's will that itself is a Hashem told you not to do you think that what you're doing is against hm you don't care about hem you're showing that you don't care about hem it's a different a correct do you get malus no it's an a that you need to do chuv it's different it's not it's not a of TR it's a a of making of not caring about hem it's a different type of an a Mas him well that okay but it's it's a serious a a they have to do let's say let's say a person thinks that a certain thing that he does is a big Mitzvah it's it's far from being a Mitzvah get up to sh to laugh at him he thought it's a Mitzvah it's a it's it's a Mitzvah it's a real it's a a Mitzvah like on in par within so probably I I don't know I'm I'm not up there but I think you're right you probably get some sort of Mitzvah because you think you're doing you made up your own Mitzvah it's probably not in the same level as a real mitvah but you get something yeah I'm asking huh and but you you get a Mitzvah a little bit but not filling it's called it's called on your head but it's not filling it's something else correct that's something else that's kind of thing top of 80 literally 80 into tremendous achievement this we learned that one woman could have with two men that's only inside the city if you're outside on the way you need a least three or the side it says says in another basically a person has to relieve himself I can tell you from my own experience I I went on a number of safaris I love it now in my old age I can't play ball anymore so I have to I need another Outlet so you're in middle of nowhere you're out in on this Jeep for three hours and all of a sudden you know Nature Calls you have to you have to go but there's lines here there's there's elephants over there so you have to find a place and you go far away from everybody in the Jeep you have to go go so that's literally what it says here because because of you have to get away from the people that are with you from the from the group so now you go now they have time to do na so therefore you have to leave behind two people it's to be one woman two men if you leave behind one man something could happen oh I didn't put it in but we saw it yesterday that the sa is brought to the with her husband in the car we had the whole thing this two8 in the car so that on the way the husband is not with her because if he's with her then he doesn't have and the water only works on a husband that's that's clean that didn't do any a it won't work on her so it [Music] says if you can the two a plus the husband is a total of three so we're not concerned there's always going to be somebody there so says the it's not true what we need over there is a because here take a look this is just from this is just to see to see this again to remember and it goes like this this right over here is the K and the way it works is you take a CLE and you fill up water from the K with pure Tire water now he goes into the here he's going into the where the is this B will get better there's a there's a hole in the floor that you could pull up one of the tiles you take dirt you put it into the water now this is what we're talking about over here take the dirt put it in the water and the K writes on a piece of parchment the whole para of here it is right here and you take that P you put it in the water and what happens is hm's name gets erased into the water and then she drinks that water the concern is that if they had then you're raising aem's name for no reason so I need a to testify and say no don't do the whole procedure we don't we're not going to raise hashem's name in vain says theor by the way if you haven't noticed today a lot of the famous first that ever existed and his famous that always quotes they're walking away it happens a lot there's a woman right in front of them walking let's hurry up and let's get away so we don't find ourselves in she could cause us to sin what are you talking about we just said that one woman with two men is okay that the two koser don't you think me and you are Kosher you're not going to believe what he says here what are you saying yeah real not not like us the greatest am ra not not me I'm not talking about me talking about previous generations those kind of CH they're okay with the woman it's like uh if they're like this then and if we're I don't know what so whoer so we had these stories right here on all the way in the bottom it says over here that no not this one herey literally two lines from the bottom a woman invited him to come in and then he said he said a certain you know cabala thing and he he got so she said herish on him and it went away so he jumped into the bathroom it was very dangerous a whole story and then it says another story over here this is also one of the Rashi brings also the over here that a lady tried to persuade him and so she he said I'm very weak and she says okay I'll give you uh I'll give you this says whoever could eat whoever could do this could eat it's the same thing and then he jumps into the oven over there she says what are you doing says she said if I would have known that you're going to jump in the oven and commit suicide I wouldn't have been Tire you okay so those those are the people who else do we have here he jumped off the roof came and caught him over here remember that story he jumped off cuz you allow to kill yourself in order not to be to be like the brisk in the elevator so then Y at him you made me come 400 P okay says the G if you see a woman a man going into a room together you give them malus but if a married woman goes into a room with another man she's m even let's say a minute and a half whatever the shear is you don't tell her that she's also her husband yes yes or no that's referring to what came up with people are GNA say look she's she was you know why they gave her malus because you don't give today we don't have capital punishment so they gave her malus in other words people are going to say that her kids she so in order for people not to be we say not even it's very inter on the lesser of unmarried woman malus on a married woman because of the problem of her kids we're not going to give her say it's not a problem I'm gonna give and I'm going to announce she is getting not because she was because she broke giving her how come you don't do this trick give malus an announce people going to say oh you heard that woman screaming it was unbelievable you can't even imagine her cries or screaming and they're not going to hear the second part where the announcement was that she's not she was only that they'll forget if somebody if there's a rumor about somebody that he's not doing good things he's being give him Al here's the says there's bad rumors about you my sons and he uses ation of Al Al is ation of a Raj says it's a it's like a so if you you get a you get malus just on a on a rumor it's a bad rumor I hear about you malus this ISO how do you say it in English no who the bid is a m the whole the whole part here and then here's the Yoshi did this he he gave him he tied him to the to the beam to malus and he put the on his shoulder one one shot is he hit him with it the other just put it on him and then he would read him the Alon if a woman's husband is in the city you don't have to be concerned about why because the husband would step in at any given moment now one of the that I saw is that it's only if aaspa if he doesn't know her very well and they say what does it mean what's the sheer of aaspa if a person is so comfortable that he could just go open up a refrigerator without permission that's leave a gas that he has enough he's comfortable enough and then the husband doesn't work even though he's in the city that's what a lot of people do they leave the door open a little bit and then you don't have to be worried about Story Time R was a guest by r b the so RBI was on they were eating here here's like a St part of a drawing that Yoshi did for the next story so the way it used to work is they had like a a second floor an attic and they would climb up the the stairs to get into the attic so they're sitting in the second floor eating bread after they had a meal so R and his wife went down the stairs and R had to go D let's say he's leaving all my so he tells his people please remove the ladder so RI is stuck upstairs and he won't be able to come downstairs to be with my wife it's in two separate floors went outside he stepped outside but he's in the city say we have it today that you're very close to a certain woman let's say she's your cousin whatever it is you know her you know you went to school to whatever it is you work with her so Le in other words you're familiar with her that's on a different level that's more of a so even if the husband is in the city doesn't work I said before refrigerator so this is just my little drawing it's not the best in the world but kind of explains what's going on here there are two rooms this Pim you see in green Pim is the inner one the only way to get to the inner one is to go through the outer one so in our days let's say a there's a bedroom in the back and there's a living room in the front and there's a front door where the red arrow is that's the front door so you come from the front door you have to go through the front room and you get to the back room so thear says two far as you look at it both ways if the men are in the outer room and the women are in the Inner Room what's the problem that perhaps a woman will come out of the bedroom and walk through the men is that a problem no because one woman and many men is not a problem the issue is if one man goes into the back room but what is he doing in the back room he has no reason to be there there's no excuse he can't say oh I'm going to I'm looking for the for the door no you know where the it's over there so we're not worried that a man will go into the back room that's one way to look at it but if it's the reverse the men are in the inner one and the women are in the outer one now we have a problem because I'm not concerned so much that the woman I'm concerned that a man is going to want to go outside if he goes outside he's going to be one man and some women some say it's only two women in that room because more than women more than two women is not a problem okay 30 seconds to walk through out I don't know how long it's going to take it maybe it'll be there for 25 minutes that's the whole point if he walks in there he might decide to stay the thing is do you make a party like that are you permitted to make a party where men are forced to go through the women or women are forced to go through the men that's is it against or not so in the BR it says the exact opposite that what that if we're concerned in this case we're concerned this one the case that you said you're not concerned that the women are in the back room and what's the worst that's going to happen they're going to come through the men the problem is that what if a man decides to go into the woman that's the problem or you're telling me this is not a problem that if the men are inside it's not a problem it is a problem you know why because perhaps no so here we said that it's a the first time we said it's a problem and they're saying it's not a problem you know why because if the men are in the Inner Room nobody you said 30 seconds but nobody in the right mind is going to stay there for more than whatever it is because what if his friend decides to leave also he'll get caught so men in the inside and women in the outside is not a problem according to the we can look at it in two different ways since we each way could be a problem according to one let's just not do things like that let each one have their own entrance and exit and it won't be an issue say when here's an interesting thing has anybody ever been to where there was a i I've never been to one I've done many manyas in my life hundreds I've never seen one I've been to manyi weddings weddings all never seen a why I don't know don't know I've never seen a like that but Rashi says that we're talking about a over here a speech and a that AB would put jugs between the men and the women in case a man or a woman would cross over make noise he put reads also the idea of making noise interesting so I don't know if he means a wedding it says the worst time of the year is y that's when everybody gets dressed up and there's a lot of mingling going on in speeches it's very bad for cl Isel in fact says over here that's what we have today I don't know if you so familiar bab talks about bab over here that right after y that the last line uh fasting because it's a time of acting whatever it is the there's more of a chance that things happen and therefore they fast that says crazy story and just goes from one thing to the other says there two women that were captured it was those days they would just capture woman demand money his name was you imagine he was the one that said let's pay the money let's get them out so they said okay great let's bring them to R's house so they bring him to the house he puts them up in the attic they took away the steers so there's no problem one of the women passed by the entrance here you see right over here there's the hole in the the Skylight in the in the in the ceiling pum it lit up she was so beautiful like K lit up the the room grabbed the the stair which was heavier than something that 10 men 10 men had to carry it's very very heavy he had so much adrenaline so much they lifted it up and he ran he brought it by himself Sol and he put it up there he gets up he gets halfway up the stairs he has he's like what am I going to do what am I doing I'm a God I'm going to I'm going to sin out but he couldn't he couldn't control himself Hiser and his body his mind his his heart and he put his feet in and way like he stopped for a second a moment and he started screaming fire fire what happens when you scream fire so the Neighbors come with pales of water so they come and they see there's no fire they see the rebi on his way up to sin he's on a on a staircase where you going everybody knows that there's two women in there so they told him you're embarrassing us this is our rebi it's better that you should be embarrassed for me in this world it's better that I that you came now and you saved me from a from a than to be embarrassed say this thisy re this is the guy that Tau you all the T the mar says that he didn't lie when he scream fire fire I don't know why the so he lied save himself says no because he actually meant the the fire the is here come get him so he made he swore the should leave him and in fact he left him here Yoshi did a thing here I think it's over here this is the that he did in back in the day from the the Netflix so he left him like a like a beam of light like a fire beam of fire so he said look you're fire flesh and blood and I'm better than you says over here incredible stories M incredible stories that could give us and the point I think is maybe at the end of the day you see that also struggle with tremendous and even after the they remain don't look down on yourself when you struggle and you had a situation in your life even made fun poked fun at people that that committed a varus why can't you control yourselves one day the dressed up like a woman on the other side of the river they have there's no boats I have a picture here this is what Raj says plank of wood and they put a rope you hold on to the rope and you go over the the the water and once he reached halfway across the river theara disappeared here's remor REM all the n m he's running after a woman on the other side side of the river and all of a sudden okay goes away and said if not for they they scream out in heaven about you may be careful mayor i' make you worth too much if you think about it how much is a human body worth after it's dead dead dead body I once saw that he say it's worth about $3 in terms of what can you make out of it a little soap a little this three bucks that's it or if you use organs millions millions correct use this that the heart fine can make some money over there I don't know if anybody wants a a terrist heart but whatever okay there money to be made I could I could have made you worth to more nothing says the greatest T the greatest of the great maybe the greatest human being that ever lived again the point is lot of times you're not familiar with addictions you don't know what it feels like to to to use drugs or to to be addicted to a certain thing you could you look at the side say this guy's M look what he's doing he's stealing from his parents addiction this it's not feir to judge other people when when you don't have that thing and that's what's going on here maybe made fun of them what you can't control your same story The dressed up like a woman get on top of a palm tree himself climbs up the palm tree to get the woman when he got the halfway up it's hard let him [Music] alone unbelievable the bottom line is don't look down on other people and don't look down on yourself cuz if you're even wanted to S even May wanted to say here's the picture I once used in in Suka You' say an arrow in the eye of the curse the every day so the dressed up like a poor person also he knock on the door they a piece of bread a day like today everybody is to eat and though everybody has a sud You're Gonna Leave me outside why don't you invite me inside so they brought him inside well you're all sitting by tables I'm going to sit by myself let sit by the table so he could do whatever he want he made himself full of boils and disgusting he's acting disgustingly he's popping his his pimples and then mucus is coming out all the stuff and he's like eating it and gross so they tell him sit like a mench what are you doing what are you making us gross out give me a cup of wine he takes it he spits into it he does this whole thing gets his FL going gr gross poof right into the cup so they yeld at him it just reminds me real quickly I know we're running out of time here but there's a gal in this neighborhood I'll tell you his name is Dr Michael Freeman and his wife suie with my own eyes came out every shabas not anymore but there's always this guy that nobody wanted to take in no and there's two people two people other sadik him in the neighborhood Dr Marty daber would take him in a lot and this other guy he literally he would with his fleem and he would eat with his fingers he was not well he's not uh he was straight out of the whatever out of the hospital come grow every single shabas and people the family didn't want to eat there to the point that it was hard to eat there to watch him but I'm telling you you're here in this neighborhood so he pretended that he was dead it's like reminds me those rum over there in Harvard that did that uh the what is it g they just recently last week they all laid down and pretended that they were dead they did a protest dead a dying it's called dying I mean if you look over there they probably all on the phones and dying you know like you canot for one minute to go with that a phone dying he did a dying and then he goes out he makes noises do all this funny stuff he he he brings a whole bunch people from outside screaming the one who brought him in and gave him Bread and Wine killed somebody called so play runs away he goes into the bathroom like outside you know the the out house that was far away in the the fire somewhere comes Falls in front of him when he saw that play is very sad that he killed somebody he revealed himself to him you see has feelings don't hurt my feelings you said it bothers me that you say why do you say that I'm trying to I'm trying to to avoid you I'm asking hasem to save me from you what should I say should rebuke the take him away you know we always say but you see from here that there is an for yes it's in your hands and not in hm's hands so to speak but you can ask hasem for help that's what you're saying here how do I get out of the DAV but in a proper way don't don't put don't poke fun of me don't curse me say oh a arrow in my eye I don't like that but there's amazing Marsha here says that this whole story is exactly what and how the acts first he knocks on the door there's a man knock in a little bit yes can I help you I just want a little piece of bread a little pie you could I come in could I have a table could I have could have some wine then he starts acting crazy and gross starts popping pimples this is the the with went to the reab and tell the reab Reb I have a lot of her what should I do reab says go far away there's a city over there and there's a Reb over there he'll take care of you so he goes he see SE the light on the house and he starts knocking the door nobody opens the door there for hours finally in the morning the Reb opens up he says why don't you open I'm here all night he says this is my house I'm in control I'll open up the door whenever I want to open up the door so the oh that's the answer I was looking for he went back in other words if you don't open up the door the the big problem is opening up the door that's how he does it a little bit just a little bit once he opens up the door it's it's very difficult you have to prevent preventive to we saw and those three things prevent them from coming in a lot of aot of you have to go go it's not a problem you just see it afterwards on YouTube today it's in style not to say there a bris we don't have to say it and this and this guy's y that guy is one of the most important FAS and they used to like add own things used to add save from the referring to and that kind of thing his wife passes by she hears him saying it whoa my husband hasn't been with me in years now how's it how can you say such a thing so Rashi says that he he was a Zak he was old man you're saying he's so old was he so worried about the he learning in his garden dressed up what does she dress up she put a lot of perfume on she walked by him who are you I'm this famous my name is I just came back from traveling so propositioned her I know you're old man but you see that pomegranate on top of the tree bring that to me and then everything will be okay he jumped the old man jump and he brought her I'll tell you real quickly because just this week they say his story I don't know if it's true it's for the for the joke he was trying to wake up his b they came back from a late wedding nobody's getting up and then he sees a cat walking through the the dormatory she starts screaming what's wrong with you a girl in dormatory and the way you're dressed how dare you so the came to see what's going by the way should come for now okay anyway fine classic so story he comes back home his wife is lighting the the the oven he jumps into the oven to commit suicide excuse me what what are you trying to do I'll tell you the story this and this happen it wasn't wasn't was your wife he didn't believe her she probably she probably doesn't want him to come Sude to make up a story so there a rash here very interesting I just thought my own little here I think it's I hope it's right says she got all dressed up how does she know that she put on perfume what's this thing I just thinking that didn't look at her you see that he didn't look at her because if he looked at her he know it's his wife so the what she did was she put on perfume that's my own little thing I could be completely wrong maybe he never saw in his life but I doubt it okay now my so that's the the question I asked you all in the beginning he thought he's with a and and he thought he with her you're right it was his wife was 100% koser and M but his kavana was wrong say he he fasted with and he actually died from fasting that's how much he fasted explains means the husband is going to be May the here this is also from uh naer there a basically the show Yoshi did this to show that the husband has the right to destroy literally to knock down the idea of uh NE that a woman does it's gone it's finished so if it's gone and finished why does the say is going to forgive her there zero a she did she did something she thought it's an A but it wasn't a because the husband got rid of the the neros of the nether talking about she says she's gonna refrain from drinking wine the husband heard about it and he made for right away but she didn't know she went to a few funerals and she drank wine and she needs a k for that it's an AA it's not that she's in a Zer to drink wine not that AA but a of poking fun and say I don't care about you you said not to do it I don't care when if a person wanted to eat but it turned out to be you need a real and if you wanted to eat was actually how much more he doesn't know and he's he's guilty he has a sin he thought he's eatinger but it turned out to be certainly if you had a mind to do a wrong thing and it is wrong certainly that's what you have to cry in the true for a person is leted have with his own mother so on Rashi says over here but not for a long time in and out yes but not not for like 30 days like we said the other day next week's par it says that told that this is my sister her of art it says over there it was a long time and then tells him based on this based on this it's you're allowed to be with your sister for a little time but once it's a long time that you're not allow to do that's what he said okay fine not asking that one okay next okay next he's allowed to live long term with his mother and his daughter argues with your mother and your daughter even with an animal does to be with an animal with it we'll see in a second it says say all to with your mother and your daughter now rash brings over here very interesting that we should have less of a for our mothers and our daughters imagine there was a time in in where people real Tas the same kind of you have for another one you have for your own daughter it's a that we don't have it was it was a and you could sleep skin to skin with your own daughter mother says your own sister you need it says your sister you need so must be that this interesting after was making fun of almost now he says be careful make sure that I don't have a problem with my daughter that's the r the r is from the daughter reti isii is a problem for everybody be careful make sure that I don't have a problem with her and a certain made fun of a little while later don't make fun don't fun at and he himself ended up being with his own mother-in-law just a sh interesting shil here what does say a g who becomes a new person so how does he treat his own daughter does he have the same as a daughter she have it's my daughter it's not your daughter you're a new person and she became a gus with him let's say what do he say like a daughter why says that yes but the nature doesn't change and this nature that human beings don't have such Ty for their daughters and mothers that doesn't change even though it's exactly that's what he so it says over here in the even with an animal because of he' empty out the entire field from animals he didn't want to be together with an animal another is that he told the the shepher okay he cross him over the bridge so let's see for a second it's very important says this we're not concerned the being and therefore you don't have to chase your animals away he was learning and there's an animal standing right there what about a dog what about these things we not for these things how could you learn there's an animal here you're right you are right I just didn't notice that there's an animal I so involved in learning so this people that hate each other two women hate each other two are two sister-in-laws that each one could potentially fall and be a co-wife and because of that they hate each other already and two co-wives woman and her mother-in-law they hate each other they have different problems with each other so they're going to snitch on each other if there's a problem if if somebody's with one of them the other one will go screaming with a woman and her own stepdaughter daughter hates her you could be with a woman who you not be one man two women is not is not okay because d kalis right that we said yesterday but if one of the woman is never going to allow herself to be Nal she's just not into the P but she understands it so much so if something happens in front of her she'll go running to to her parents and tell her parents what she saw she a good she's a good Cher but we don't have to be that she'll be involved in the act because she's not she's too young for that but with enough to know what she's seen so if that's the age then she's a good Cher they get older so he said younger that you could sleep together skin to skin but old or not what's the age up until n years old a boy until 12 with his mother a girl [Music] until boy until his they have to have but the question is on a 9-year-old are they considered so says yes so that's it you can't you can't be with her the other one says no and the the real age of a girl is 12 she's not embarrassed to stand without clothing if a girl is embarrassed to stand without clothing that means that she already has interesting story comes to son he takes his granddaughter had a granddaughter in other words daughter and according to the place Z over you look over here it says that was B he went to sleep with his granddaughter skin to skin another says he put her on his lap tells didn't you hear the news she's engaged all these stories I don't think we can relate to most of these stories well grandfather didn't know that she's engaged he comes in the house he say oh no after he went to sleep and she was in his bed oh by the way she's a Kala what are you doing it can't be she's engaged because says engaged she has to say I want this in this person so I asked he wasn't so sure that this is the ra the famous ra because if it is I asked him the who who Who's R's daughter who did she get married to is a famous gar that they asked her who do you want to marry ra or and ra said oh I want to be second because he knew that Sheed he died and and he married her afterwards you see over here that it says she has to be able to say okay fine maybe he's a different kid maybe he's different I don't know exactly so he says tells okay I use a woman at all if I don't have any at all I'm just doing it in order so that my daughter should see that I love her kid and I'm a great Z then it's 100% M says say is one line how can we use women how could we I don't know so some say cleaning houses is different that you're L but St How could a woman do you a favor or anything because if it's 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