Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 77 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning because of the in we'll start off Shear instead of emails tonight because I didn't have time anyway with For What and everything else go straight into we could say it together for [Music] for just the second for the first time meant a whole new meaning from the tunnels which are dark like who could imagine living in such conditions for three weeks I mean that's not the literal meaning but over here it's literal you should hear the those who are captured to be free those who are injured should be healed and old have Al the families that are waiting to hear are loved ones alive not alive those who lost loved ones should have because it's a it's a late month of shabas longer da so and it's very difficult to get here on time so no emails I just want to talk about the fact that we're starting a brand new seder sik it's a great opportunity to to bring someone that you know that's not learning t or not learning enough T to learn T it's a great opportunity we might have a surprise we're working on something special for the entire something different B will come to fruition um in terms of the shabat shabas of just right now a big for me it's a big big surprise I hope it works out my Hal father said he's going to be M so if anybody wants to meet him in person he's going to be there b just spoke to him now right before the shear and uh I'm very much looking forward haven't spent the shabas with him in years last time he used to come to us in ra then it got harder for him so to spend the shabas is going to be unbelievable and I think the will have enough from him um that being said people were concerned about the security there so we have four armed guards by the entrance and three through the um throughout the the shops there going to be plenty of our people that are carrying weapons and that sort of thing and we have a whole list of people so the theist that we could do what else are people concerned about whatever I'm sure there's many concerns there's still uh options to do the raffle by the way the raffle talk about the raffle so I think there's about a 100 people that bought tickets for $79 100 people but if you think about it the odds are tremendous it's three rooms out of 100 so one in 33 wins maybe something like that is that that's how it works M but not anymore because I just said it so now all right say we could jump right into it we're starting a brand new brand new oh you know no no no before we go into that so I haven't done this uh been a little bit lazy because of the war and everything but let's do the just the just a few of them we don't have that many little bit of is when a person could make it is for himself create is say this for me I think it's n so for him it's AER these are all that we're we're familiar with but it's to repeat the that when it comes to you need at least two people when it comes to to testify had a whole is the congregation of G considered AAL or not if you hold not and that's how we pass so they are permitted to marry mishop the idea of mishara means that a person who doesn't keep his word is gonna take revenge and it's it's a sort of curse all right and the by familyes lak New Jersey because the best the second sponsor came in late into the I don't know what he's what ysf has for him because he just came in what a week ago he spent $9,000 to sponsor himself for the unity of last day worldwide Natalie Victor in honor of in the art of the month that come from supporting Li says the Mish what's a a is a person who's born from aen marrying somebody he's not supposed to marry so let's say marries a divor so the child is a all the Mna is saying is that this and the son of a and the son of a son of a forever they remain and therefore if any one of these Sons a son her Ben has a daughter that daughter is also to marry a Cen but if it's a girl a girl who has a kid a girl who has a daughter is not that's all the Mish is saying means forever a but if the person who's a is a female and married so distinction between and the Z keeps his name forever but loses it it's like aik the she marries is her kids become and now we repeated but if he's a it's a reputation same again okay says that if there's a g who's a z and they have a he has a child a daughter so in other words the child of a G not a gus a g has a to him he's his da the daughter is she can't marry intoa so we have this if you want to see this is what Yoshi did surprised me threw this on my computer I did something a little different just the this is mine the threeway M according to rud a g who marries a Isis a their daughter is possible according to if the one of them even if the father is Jewish then the kid is koser and is on the opposite extreme any time you have a three usually you have somebody who says everything is POS you have somebody says everything is ker you have somebody in between saysi even if two G marry each other G and G marry each other the child the bass is where Yehuda says that even if the mar is says you have to have at least one parent to be Aid Jew is and then it's K so let's inside if the father's a g even if the mother is is is if the mother is Jewish then it's fine as long as one of the parents is a Jew then even if the it doesn't matter as long as one of the parents is is a then even if one of the even if the father is a g the kid is the daughter that if both parents [Music] are if two G marry each other and they have a daughter right she's according to and she marries another G and they keep on going generation after generation G marries G marries G they're all in one community and they marry each other they're always possible 10 10 Generations later you have to have a mother that's from who know he's on the Other Extreme he say doesn't matter a G's child is always ker even if a g marries a g the daughter is says all the way in the beginning of the Miss we had first line if you have a son a and that has a son and that son has another son in other words it doesn't matter how if the marries Israelis and they have a child son and that son marries Israelis and have another child it the child constantly remains a just like we have the son after son from this and this Reb so you have the son after son after son from this and remains in the family forever what's what's the [Music] B it stops stops a big that by goes on forever by a we said it goes on forever even a we said that after 10 Generations they shouldn't act like but or g g shouldn't act like G after 10 gener but I would think that why why should a be worse off than a MIT a a MIT an Egyptian after three generations enough so you think that a after three generations also no he remains a if marri then it goes off no they don't have a child that's AAL their daughter is if again it's only when a marries then keeps on going down from generation but a woman doesn't carry the how do we know we have a little bit of a I'm just going to skip these I didn't I didn't connect to them I didn't speak to Yoshi about it he put it on my computer and um unfortunately I know he went to sleep late at one in the morning here we'll see says okay straight out this he did for me it says this is the of now it's not just the that is let me ask you a question to his wife yes go to funeral of his wife yes so why it says because we're talking about a who's married to somebody that what some that's makes since both have the word in purple so we have we can learn one from the other just by T T applies only to the men a woman could be whoever she wants even though she's a so two when it comes to only gives off generation the the men the not the ask that's the cas you're telling me that doesn't go to the Next Generation so if so a who married an Al the daughter should be okay and we know she's not says that's different because special word in the Z means Offspring any Offspring doesn't the friendship between anyone even a girl if so fine Z means his offspring but the Next Generation should be okay there's a heage between him and his offspring so okay there's a new Li there's a few things that we're learning here first of all Zar we learn Zar Means Girls as well and also Zar just like he his daughter's posle so his zaro his his daughter's also POs to Z in other words we learn that uh grandchild is also POS as the if so if you're learning just like him his kid is pel so therefore also his grandchild as possible but what about his grandchild girl no that much we have that the is so what what good is the in what case is in mother must be the one case of a granddaughter his own daughter is also because it's AAR his Grand grandson is also because of in Zar but his granddaughter we havea we're learning something we're learning from T and just like by T there's no girls involved so to doesn't apply to a what to granddaughter next if this was too difficult we go vter if marries again marries the the the keeps on going it goes from generation to generation as why did the repeat itself simple answer it says okay it's just it flows better it Rhymes better it goes well with the words we repeated it but no no we have just like marries regular that's their children are not that's exactly the opposite of what says says that remains a forever and over here that if a marries a the child is not a and our mission says he is a my's so if you go back to this chart I just stuck in a green L over there because it could have said in the and the double we had this already before the double lamid over here teaches us well sorry maybe that's not the says it should have says it should have said the it should have said I would think if they're both the story holds both parents have to be from the same nation in his Nation one type of nation in other words both of them are but if you mix with with or is then they're because it's not it's not within the same Nation how do you know and this is was to some people here that you don't have to be born into is not somebody that's born a certain way it's not only when a marries a divorce if a Cen has a relationship with someone that's AER them she becomes a he create a kalal after birth now Rashi has a question here look at what does Rashi want over here Rashia is bothered wait talking about a woman who's a grusa she's a divorce so if she's divorce she's already AER in every kind in the world so what difference does it make if you call her AAL okay so he added something to her she's AAL great she can't marry anyway soash number of interesting things here number one if she could eat truma because she is aan this be will create her she'll become a Kal and she'd be user to eat truma that's number one so it's possible that a woman is a is an Al and she becomes a and what what's the problem now now she can't eat she can't marry that's another thing because she's now she can't marry a even though she's an Al she can usually marry a regular K now she cannot because she's another thing says rash he's going to getus for the that's another s we're going to see soon you get malus for get malus plus malus foral says the the shouldn't create a to his offspring what about her herself does she become the child I was here what was his name Aber remember Aber he used to live here in Chicago y I think so yob his father had like uh stuff downtown so he was he was M um you know people that college students whatever so remember he he said he said come I want to show you what I do so he had a conference room there and he had all these colle sushi so one of the big questions that one of these college students had is why is a kid a m what did the kid do wrong why should the kid be a m because his parents is so he has to suffer the consequences now you see it in the gor similar thing what did the kid do wrong he didn't do anything wrong Miss never nevertheless he's called a he this woman who's Al let's say or whatever she is she shouldn't have married the she should have married a and so what's the ob's question on that so certainly she become BB question who asked me what about the he himself did a major a he married AA nothing happens to him zero so he never has even if he's with a even if he's with a nothing ever happens to him if she has relations with's so she should be with if you have a good answer to the then I'll tell you is second to say what the question can be but before that that's what I put on the chart over here you see because it's extra the what the is saying a beautiful thing here what does mean you have something that exists and you're I think the the AR uses a lotion of profane if you have a shabas you canabas if you have a kid that's born a Mamer he's born a Mamer is he a he's not a he's born a certain way if you have a woman who's K right now she can marry anybody she want and she went and she did something she married a Cen that she shouldn't have she becomes it's taking something that was kosher beforehand and making it making says the that's why it makes sense the is a good that applies to a woman who's already who's ker and she becomes she becomes profane yes is that the Lo in the now the goes back what question did you have on your that you said but by the way we have another PK that's going to get us out of the problem what are you proving the is if this kid he didn't do he's she who did in a certainly she should be a but he was created in a that's why he's a he comes from a union that's AER the Torah said these two should not be together they got together and they had a kid so he's a what's the what what is like saying for instance I'm throwing out a marsh now you just thought about now if a woman has a relationship with she's a married woman she has a relationship and her kid is a mser does that make her a mser she no she had a is Union that created a m but it doesn't apply to her saying he this kid was created is so he's a the fact that she was doesn't make says [Music] applies to somebody waser and was not somebody was born I learned from there that the woman herself becomes ah you asked me and what about him he should also no you don't see anywhere in the T that a becomes by what creates seems to be saying that even is who he's going to create a kid that's doesn't really make sense let's say he shouldn't have a certain relationship for instance is who cannot marry his ex after she got married she's POS but the kids are the if you want to see the it's a Abomination to to to take to take the take the wife back but it doesn't create a in the kid she's not the children so cannot be talking about is who did something wrong he cannot create a child that was born from a like from divor thatat well it seems like only born she herself as we established before she was she wasn't born like that we're going to see in a second it means Who Never Was ker for a second how do you have a situation and we're going to S here let's just explain so look at this says in the then says but what's a simple in the simple what's when you read the the first time in your life did you think for a second it's talking about a woman who had a relationship with a that was no you thought a me a kid that was born the whole way we know that that a woman who marries a Cen when she shouldn't marry him she turns into kalal is our that taught it us through it's not the simple in in the simple in the is a kid that's born a girl that's born that's what the is saying what is that's that's the simple in the and we don't have to come on to you should know it only occurs when a marries a when marries that's the only way it could happen one of these things that are but now when is or something like that now we have sort of if you're sleeping until now time to wake up so we have to explain what this means if a is he's only one one no what do you think it means three different women no way can't be what could it possibly mean the same woman was ala three times so why should I why would I think that is that he's three who cares she got divorced three times so he's three times what each time she became more a divorce more and more that makes no [Music] sense first she's then she gets remarried she becomes a then she becomes then she becomes a z there if it goes in that order not that she got divorced and then she lost her husband she lost her husband got divorced a situation where a person be the likes to do it you know sometimes how is it possible person six seven we had all all these suas it's cool however if you reverse it let's say [Music] only what's going on on he he had three different relationships with three different women it makes no sense of course only three times separate women separate a oh yeah three relations with one what's the case you can only get if so no if there's no he doesn't even get one malus certainly not three no was so why is he only think I have a picture oh this is if you waren here by nozer so I interviewed a real life nozer T Jan happens to be that it's I think the most watched video that we've ever done there like 40,000 views or something lot more than a regular sheare and on YouTube I'm talking about just YouTube and then our artist Yoshi he created the character on the right this is a a drawing it's not a it's not a photo and then the whole nozer we had him as our nozer and it came live to the Sheep is the whole thing okay not who says he makes he says he's not going to have anything to do with wine or with with the with the peels of the grapes and the the whole thing and he drinks battle after battle he want if they keep on warning him they give him the whole thing and if you drink you're going to get malus don't drink it if you drink you're don't drink each time they tell another so over here also it's three different women three different I'm sorry one woman three times on each one it's like drinking three cups for one battle on each one is that it's the ALU who was also before of which was I would think for a second that maybe she comes from different men different so should be now based on the that we're gonna have in a second there's a big over here why would I think something like that okay so let's see the over here it's very simple it's not this hard where we learned now it's going to be simpler Al you have a woman who has four to her first of all she's an Al she's a and she goes a head and she marries a after she so the classic example we're going to see soon a person eats a cheeseburger on Kipper Kipper could you add the is ofer on top of the cheeseburger that that existed before Kipper you have this piece meat is also for you it's NAA so I'm going to take a bite out of this NAA for that I get malus does the chus of the iser apply itself on top could you put two into one one one thing so here you have one woman could you add to her she's already how you going to add how you going to add more stuff if you hold that you could apply one type of another so if it's in the reverse order also if she's should also be if you can't apply one is on top of another so then what if you if you hold you can't put one one of another is so then how could you be you're right he holds he cannot add one is top of another very very simple any time the second is you have one iser anytime you add another iser to it and that iser applies to somebody else or something else so it's wider and you're for that extra width so by is very simple and Al is only to then you be becomes a divorce now she's user to all the so now you just add it it just became wider her is became much to many more people before she was only user to one person in the world now she's user to all the in the world so any kind that marries her is or the K I should say marries her he's H for the is of Al because he's a k but also because of the ISA which applies to all the other people it's just wider so let's see inside [Music] everybody and then she becomes now she be to all the in the world so now the is also going to suffer that is that applies to all the in the world she still Trum but once you added now we're not even talking about the people we're just saying we added to her she's not allowed to e anymore so now the is with her now he's on the fact that she's a Kal because the it didn't just it's not a box on top of a box now it's a wider box now she's also to eat Trum for that what's what's so here we need to understand this explains Rashi that a a woman a regular woman is is married to is she goes ahead and she's she's so she becomes a now her husband is her to be with her so since we're not even talking about that we're talking about a woman who's with somebody that's user to her let's say she she had a relation with her own brother so she becomes a z so because theem makes her also Isel if she was married is and she became a he would have to divorce her has to divorce so this also gonna have to suffer for that and he has to pay for it so says let's see the the POS here yeah he should marry then only then in other words any woman that he can marry excluding his own sister that woman you could apply to her she become a but a sister who cannot marry she's not so he can't apply the so let's say he's with his own sister and she happens to be a divorce he's only o only he's o on being with the sister but not a there is how many how many this how many that told you this once she's your sister she can't apply another of oh here we [Music] go I love this there's a guy that comes to the RO he says please I need a kapar what happen he says I didn't wash my M you didn't wash my why didn't you wash my what's wrong with you says cuz I didn't wash my hands for the mighty says why don't you wash your hands for Mighty I'm going to wash my hands on a mighty when there kazer in there looking he says why you need kazer he says cuz keeper all the stores are closed I couldn't find I couldn't find the store that was open so I iaz so what's the what's the that's what's going on what's the N no cuz a lot of times I think we're all guilty with this we're looking around we said like o why did this war happen could be the war happened because I once dropped the S on the floor and I forgot to kiss it when I picked it up no because we did an a we we we're over on certain Aus and we have to do chuva a lot of times like we take it easy on ourselves this is this is because I I didn't noer that's what you did okay fine this guy he's doing two things he's also by the way when he was uh when he's very sick at the end of his life the the doctor said you have to eat he was worried about eating a half a she the whole thing so he came with a I don't even know the whole basically he made a he's not going to eat so when you make a the the the before so existed before soer cannot apply itself to on top of the and in a there's no no so he got away from the but there's no and happened before and couldn't apply itself to okay fine next it's to beon sometimes so this guy is always before Kipper why because if the animal was shot the head before so it's a before and if Thea was this animal is alive and Weller then so the is always before says I cannot apply one on top of another be both when could one be appli on another one when you have a a a big a on top of a small a there's a whole thing here again I didn't have I didn't understand exactly I don't know okay whatever I'm not even going to show it I didn't understand it so I'm not showing it fine sorry I I apologize to uh to Yoshi I'm sure you worked hard on this and I have no idea what this is next it's just it's not [Music] him usually I with him and we have whole thing because of where I am and because of he was working on the K book and things the the is you have n n is is alive there malus on the is of yipper that he says then then even them even will Gree that one is another do you need AAL say doesn't you don't add onto she doesn't add on top of a sister right you have a with a sister she's not you need this special POs to say that she's not an Al she's only a sister why because Raab typically say that one is goes on top of another it can't be because says in no case does go on another is even small on top of small says right because you havea on top of a sister sister is I say no maybe this you know always have special mitv we add stuff to them so I think they're different and it should one is should be on top of no if is has relations with his own sister Z that's 100% certain that she becomes a z yeah any woman that has and that's a typical classic case brother and a sister she becomes does she become or [Music] not if marries a divorce she herself becomes so certainly she should become because she's not just no that's only when a marri divorce not a brother and a sister and the fact is a brother and sister doesn't create two more minutes how do I know this here so where's theim let's see if I can find them okay here and then it says right first is talking about regular then it says another POS by by why don't need why didn't tell you that that is no different than a he is a a regular can't Mar thank you teach us that you get a different a foraa if you look at the p over here let's look at the PA again it says period can't take then it says a new it's a separate doesn't say it's a whole another mat to tell us that you get in addition to the first part of the you also on say why do I need to tell tell you that why should a what do you think because he becomes a he lost his PIR if a cannot marry AA and if he marries a he gets two a so certainly that you get another in addition to the that we said before that he gets four AAS or at least two and the why does the repeat which is already said by I don't it's obvious that the here it says by why do I need it I know that a coin head you can't be with so certainly not a say truth is should we stop here we do one more line let's see that his kids become says very interesting you have a who has relations with his own sister so automatically anybody that has relation with the sister that sister becomes a z that's the of which she becomes even though why why does a think about it we said we said before that the only way to become a is to have becomes a sister does not become a because it's not it's not a special that he can't marry his sister it's a one thing he he accomplished is he made her but not but here's the catch now she's a now a is so now he's also there as a z not as a sister now she becomes in addition to the Z she becomes a because on the second B she was already us as a not as a sister have a wonderful day wonderful week B tomorrow here at 8:00 sharp