Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 74 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good [Music] morning once again the shear is dedicated to all those on the front line all the the injured the kidnapped and theas of those who lost their lives for being a Jew we say for [Music] for so we're on the final stretch of the big shabbaton first time ever and it's a shabas of and we all need and and of course we have one of the world's greatest speakers if not the greatest why and the second world's greatest speaker RAB B shushan and we have what's the woman famous lady speaker for the ladies um Pon I forgot her first name anybody you guys are not ladies you don't listen okay Jackie Jackie Bon thank you thank you Jackie and uh a whole program for women Etc ET Etc so uh without further Ado I want to introduce you to Ben Schwarz here the famous Ben Schwarz and here's what he has to say hi my name is B Schwarz and I'm planning on attending the mdy shabbaton and so should you and let me tell you my two reasons why first reason is as a thank you a thank you to rebelli he puts so much work time and effort into preparing daf yomi it's only right of us to show up and be there for him to give him some so that way he continues to give us the Dai for many many years to come and the second reason is as a thank you for my wife that way she has a shabas office she doesn't have to prepare anything she doesn't have to cook anything she just relax and be pampered so for two thank yous it's a great reason to attend I'll be there and I look forward to seeing you as well bye Ben uh dedicated to M Bron amitz it's the the license PL with the one in the middle who happens to be a devoted MD fan an amazing father husband mechanic bus driver driver story tell a history lover never ending giv her much more in honor of his birthday happy birthday thank you MD for being a part of our life happy birthday M good evening reelly my wife and I are considering participating were considering participating in the Shas this say all these Side Stories what gives me a lot of but next Friday our son is having surgery and we need to be home for shabas he should have instead we chose as you suggested to help sponsor two people believe NE unbelievable okay this better go back in here okay oh this is a huge long email let me see if I can't read it off my thing but uh it's a very interesting story so I'll read it as fast as I can and maybe skip around a little bit I want to share with you a story which hopefully will give you as much as gave me saw thinking that I'd be getting a brand speaking new artar for that and each subsequent volume from there on out and only have to listen to an eight minute she and return When I learned I was wrong about everything I went o and now she every day but I taken the art SC I started listen the shear most my amazement was immediately hooked very quickly became part of my life the only day I nearly missed was yesterday Monday October 23rd the reason being that both my sons are now on the front lines here in Israel in active combat my all son's wedding was scheduled for Wednesday October 25th but that simply wasn't going to be possible he's a commander with men under him and just doesn't think he'll be home for months his Kal also an active duty was besid himself D sty up beyond belief so when someone's able to somehow arrange somehow have a wedding in the field as it turned out literally it was honestly the most beautiful I've ever seen we had to be total total secrecy because he goes on to say that they gave him a GPS location and then they went to there and from there they picked him up and he's on the Lebanese border and they saw fls of smoke thankfully briefing wasn't necessary he thought that they would have to go to mad as my son stepped on the glass and the I remember me doing the same thing 27 years earlier at my not imagining for a second this is where we be L to thought my parents blah blah my youngest son who was able to get a day off from his unit to join us on his own himself breaking the glass under his his honestly I don't think so we live in his that is what yesterday showed us showed me in the page attorney I don't know what will be with us my son and for that matter his new wife are back on active duty as the next morning for my son that means sleeping in the field next to his tank they won't spend the week having Shas and they don't even know when they'll see each other again or even if they will none of us do these are troubling times full of uncertainty but we do know now how the story will end one day G will come I can only hope I feel it's on the back of my neck the only way I can think think my younger son can even come close to competing with the sheer beauty of this wedding is by having the b mikd in the background and having no need to stamp on a glass to REM destruction and we're so close every peric every da every every word every letter brings us one step closer so keep stagging away and together we will turn this fear doubt Terror confusion into only Sim and we will soon dance at the new BD speedly in our day Bo say one more message from my dear dear what's going on here hi hey how's it I was just gonna film your sh okay whatever you want for who is it what is it small jewi Channel okay and uh very special all right go ahead hi this is n fix I'm reaching out to you for merit not knowing if I'll be able to attend or not attend the grand of s the says every generation we have those that want to destroy us and we're feeling it now more than ever and what's the answer of what does that mean the ultimate expression of theah is through Torah is the of Torah and is together is the the ultimate of what we can do everybody's asking what can I do what can I do what can I do R this is the golden ticket this is the opportunity of a lifetime sign up for a shabus of recommitment sign up for a shabus of let's put our money where our mouth is you want to know what you can do come in ch in Torah in a Oneness together if they started the war with then we can finish it so many of us are P pushing ourselves out of our comfort zones here in so many areas push yourself out of your comfort zone also sign up join the shab of Fallen Soldiers of those who are sick for the quick return of the hostages for the p and this shabas maybe can be the beginning of heralding the and I really hope I get to see you there I hope to see you on chabas yeah so no has a him and his wife and they have a room booked everything and we'll see what the m is going to hold out there's a lot of people in his same predicament we have ai kamansi have Donnie fine Benny um even the staff I know there are people like a Remy K who said 100% is going to be there to is going to be there Gary's up in the air children and this that what happens when a siren goes off and the parents aren't there the fear that the children have without the parents how do you do that to your children so it's things that they need to consider and we'll see what happens maybe things will turn around um oh real quickly this is aad from Lakewood Mo he did the the raffle so listen to this very interesting I want I I couldn't believe this I thought he's going to sell 10 Raffles $79 a raffle ticket how many did he sell or the mdy I wanted to let you know that from the 80 raffle tickets 80 he sold 80 that have been sold over the last day or so over 26 garas have been donated as well people went online to raise itmd and you see it here on the on the screen and they donated Gars that includes One S they didn't even buy a raffle but donated five Gars for those in let's keep the G's coming raise. itmd why uh three rooms are being raffled off and I told him if just these 80 tickets were sold and nothing else it's already K because three people will get uh I mean six people three full rooms so it's unbelievable okay I don't know how these things work I told him don't do it it's not going to work but see 80 people so here it is the shaton and sponsor by lock and love families Lake New Jersey because sponsor for the unity of worldwide work Victor CR in honor of gal Ben Gustavo fman father my great grandmother for my sister America sponsoring for the on S www. the.org Sunday at bellworks okay if you're already there in New York go to bellworks Esther Braun dedicated to an amazing moitz in honor of his birthday that we read the email before in the AR of the month for all the that come from supporting here we go we are in the bottom and I have a little bit of a riddle for the it's not that difficult I think we could figure it out what daughter of a particular person could get married to a Cen and at the same time get married to a Mamer anybody want to take a stab at it there's a daughter who she can marry a Cen she's kosher enough to marry k at the same time she can marry a who said Gary you said he said Gary yeah so yeah you're on to something has to do with uh yours we'll see in the gamar later on that you can marry a and also marry says the G three lies from the bottom I give we're talking about typically speaking when it comes to monetary things you need two witnesses comes to most things you need two witnesses A store owner could say I sold it to him he's the buyer not this person as a special name on us and says the what is this talking about that's when the store owner is still holding on to the merchandise then you're ready to them he has a special NE we believe him when the product is still in his hand the the merchandise is still his hand he can say listen I took the money from him not from me why so check this out for a second there's a concept in Chas called mishap mishap Mish just in in short it's mishap it's a mishna the first Miss and it says in the the one in other words who took revenge of the our parach now he will take revenge for the person who doesn't keep his word in other words sometimes there's no Ken there's no this but you you gave a word your word is a word and when you take back your word something that we have to remember in business business especially dealing with others and then and our brothers dealing with business you take back your word there's a big it's a CLA it's a curse M so this store owner is worried about a mishop if he's gonna he took money from this guy and gave the thing to that he's he's worried about a Misha par but once it leaves his his R his domain then it's not it's not his problem anymore says on top of what's the problem can't can can we just see who gave the money now even if it's not in the seller's hand he remembers who he got the money from says he took money from two people yeah the the story I know the story in a guy sold his house to four people at the same time true story he took money from four different people conards just told me yeah my house is for sale and until it went through and everything he he managed to sell to four different people this guy took money from two people now and he says only one of them I really tried to receive the money the other one forced it into me he said take it take it put it in my pocket you know how people like try to shove money in your pocket they do your favor you try to give them money took the take the money okay he's claiming I don't know you're you're asking him who gave you the money you always remember who opens his W and gives you money in this case I don't remember because I received money from TW from two people says simar of a special we break the rules here and we say that a judge is believed typically you need two people but a judge is believed to say I passing like this guy not like this guy when everybody standing in front of him so he could say he could say now he could say he said it before he says it now but if they're not there they already left he has no say there's a document that the bezan gives out the ban says it says in the in the document you the bz says ruen has to give shim $500 so just look at the document now I know a person I'm very very close to this person maybe closer to to anybody else in this world I'm not going to see who he is he he was a big real estate guy back in the day then he went off on his merry way to do not going to go into any names now but this guy when he was in real estate he hired a guy he hired a guy his partner said you got to take this this guy said but the guy's a criminal record he's not a good guy just came out of prison the whole thing no no trust me Will's a good guy that's what he said serious Will's a good guy she say okay take Willie then turns out that this Willie guy was was selling Dr drugs on the on a property and the the cops came and was they made a whole holes so they fired this guy so willly went then sued sued the the guy the guy that I know really well Su him just you uh you fired him for no reason you can't prove that he sold drugs just because the cops arrested him and I put him in jail for a few days doesn't mean he sold drugs he has to can't just fire somebody like that so the guy he went they sued and eventually um Sly shows up and he says look look I got the letter from the judge so it says it says in the letter we would ever find in the favor of the plaintiff so the guy told the guy said so why show me the letter he found in favor of me not you say plaintiff that's me so he goes oh so what should I do so he says I'll give you $100 and you have to release the claim so that was it so sometimes even the even a document we don't know how to read it it says some people read plaintiff as the the the boss he's the he didn't who the plaintiff is who not the plaintiff okay anyways I'm not going to tell you the guy is it's not a nice story look look at the document it says document he he owes him so why can't you just look in the say was ripped up ripped up I have another galic M this is a really good M seriously this is a nice story I know this guy uh the guy who's in The Diamond business and diamonds you know you do business with just you know a handshake whatever but what they do is like sometimes you sell expensive diamond so you write it down a little piece of paper you give it so we talking about two from people guy comes he says listen I lost I lost my document I you remember you bought a diamond for me yeah just over $20,000 I lost I lost the the piece of paper so she says okay I remember I owe you the money here's $20,000 gave $20,000 two months later the guy that received the $20,000 shows up with a piece of paper he says you owe me $20,000 here says in the piece of paper I $20,000 so without thinking he says really let me see he shows him he goes here you could have it back he ripped it up into three shreds the guy was trying to steal from him $20,000 with a piece of she oh you're going to be a g to me ried it up into the three St here take it back now it's worthless says gar the it was ripped couldn't read it two wonderful stories okay what's the you don't know if you passing like ruim redo the whole case the same way you came up with that Ruben oim money you'll come up again say maybe I should have made this a there's something called famous all over rash says means that it's not that it goes like this guy just what it's more that he uses his common sense and he says to himself who would he want to give the money to if I was if I put myself in his shoes I probably look that guy's a nicer guy he probably wanted to give it to him this guy's is a bad guy but it's not based on so he's concerned that if he has to redo everything then he might not come to the same conclusion says what do you mean if you're using common sense you use the same Common Sense again so therefore says throughout CH d means that he could just dying could pick and choose anything he wants he just takes out of a hat he does a little okay you get it nothing to do with common sense and that was the fear the fear is that if you redo it then Comm the his luck might run out because it's not based on common sense says the there are three people in this world that are believed to say that a newborn is the let's say you have twins identical twins and you could say this one is the firstborn and therefore he gets a double portion in inheritance or you have to do a etc these are the three the Midwife of the father and the mother alter we said yesterday the Midwife could be she can't even turn her head if she turns her head it's over or it has to be immediately then that's when she has the call a mother hasus only for the first seven days of now the question is the father it seems like R says the father does not have any neon in the first the first week the reason is perhaps the mother knows the child the mother bonds with the child immediately because the mother gave so much to the child mother gave deny months and the the birth and everything so the mother like the famous story with somebody came to him said listen I I don't like my neighbor so much what should I do so said listen go to the store and see what his bill is you pay off the bill and the idea behind it is that the more you give somebody the more you you you you take interest in them so the father has no connection really it didn't do much for the last nine months to connect and bond with the baby so he doesn't really know the baby that much the mother does it's exer will see that the father well it's not fair this is uh bias to the man no it's a it's a in the special that the father has okay fine if anybody has any personal issues with me also you can go ahead and donate to MD and uh Your Love Will will grow immediately says the uh you learned so here is the the famous over there had it the other day if person has two wives the and the said How's it possible how could AEM love somebody not love the point is it was it was not a good K is the son of a somebody shouldn't have married that's what we said but the T says Yak he recognizes and he'll remember who his kid is it's on the father oh I didn't show it he has the ability to tell other people about his son he's trusted to say this is my just as a father has say this is my elest so it's interesting you think for a second I had a little bit of a problem here understanding it that a fathers beli to say I had a relation with a even though I'm a and I shouldn't have married her he's APLE isn't that say he's not believed so Rashi says points out immediately what do you mean he's not believed not that a father's not believed agree with this right they agree with it that's on a say he loses his when it comes to say that I have a a son that's not a proper son that he doesn't that he's not believed would call let's check him out says what does mean we check the mother we check the mother and she says I was n to somebody was ker and she's believed so this is what you're telling me that we that is you don't know who the father is and we trust the mother that the father is a koshery we learned it already once she was pregnant she shows up she never got married and she's pregnant who's the father he's a great guy he's kosher just means he's a kosher person she's completely belied we don't trust her words so we already had this like we already said even that she's believed so what is AB adding over here that you have a son that doesn't know who his father is we can trust the mother that he's kosher that saider came to say that she herself didn't become pule with that she's m to truma us is coming to another the daughter [Music] is what do we do according to if I know that the mother's kosher than the daughter's kosher ring said you told me came to say that she's kosher but if she's kosher then automatically daughter's kosher so why do have to say oh by the way the daughter's kosher that's automatic according TOS let's say's case is talking about a a unmarried girl so most of the world is ker most of the world doesn't make her posle says rash in a case let's say by us it's a case that she's engaged she's an she's so the whole world every single man in the world is also to her forget about most every man besides maybe she's not believed that's why I need and at the end of the day daughter is says anybody that not marry into the congregation into the Cal could marry each other so let's say you have a Mamer and auki they can marry each other they can't come they can't marry that we learned the first M they cannot marry into the call you can't marry AER you can't marry Shuki but they can marry each other it's a big right becausei think about ituki regular rabbitson walking down the street she just doesn't know where her husband is it doesn't mean that the kid is a mom's maybe the kid is 100% but this kid who cannot marry into can marry say that PRI M oh very good we did say it and that's what the gar is all about that's why I have gar imagine you only have mishas it be a little bit of a problem yeah actually I'll show you this just to confuse you a little bit we already had mishna one mishna one says very good Gordon asked a beautiful question what did Mish add it says so that's what we're going to be dealing with all day today what does it add something different says no they can't marry each other say says but even and that are two people that 100% you can't get married to M they are however we have to remember this because this is also a question what the riew to add to let's say the only difference is the male and the female let's say a m man can marry auki a m a woman who's a that's what it means what's the when the man is I'm sorry let me ask you a question if auki cannot marry auki cuz he's a suff and she's AA so who in the world does he marry you going to tell this guy can never get married forever the Mish says two Spas cannot get married what's a suff somebody who's auki who doesn't know who his father is he know his mother is he doesn't know his father so he cannot marry into K but he can't even marry another he can't marry a girl who doesn't know his father who's who father is so who who are they supposed to marry they can marry G that they could marry who are the okay says what does it what does it mean what does our Mna mean all those who cannot come into the nation they're let to marry each [Music] other so let's go back to the Chart if you say literally let's I'll click it again here let's say it's the the yellow on the m mishna 2 you go to m two it says in yellow in Gold what's the problem that's identical to Mish number one ask second question says that's what is he referring to he's talking about himself in says that a in a is he must argue on that so he's saying that it's m not awesome yeah when re in M says that somebody who's A in other words with AI is and AR so must say that that's but says what is Heering something that rear oyers no he's arguing so what is he saying exactly that we learned yesterday holds that a is not a mar is of the opinion that a g is called kahal he's part 100% part of the congregation the original congregation he's not his own group he's not Jewish his own group he's part of the original group The kahal and therefore if he's part of the original group just like a Jew cannot marry aamer so G could also not marryam that's what he own so if he telling you that that's what is saying over here where in the M do you see any words about a doesn't talk about a g doesn't talk about it says those who are user to to come into the the congregation to marry each other but it doesn't mention [Music] all let's see if I can get here hold on I want to show you something cuz people that don't watch emails might might have missed this I think it's very important to see what could be done with uh 3D [Music] technology ready you oh you know who should be high him him com coming up put a crazy amount of effort into this crazy money effort all thing bem I'm telling you this is my my my dream my goal and we'll reach it very soon that we'll have Shas animated in 3D not 2D 3D better than this that's my thing okay not that being said we could go back where are we holding okay says the so we can go over here this is what we're trying to say anybody that cannot marry a Cen could marry each other you hear this all those people that are on the list that cannot marry they can marry each other even a even it means even not only even Aus that's less than three years old in one day the what so it goes like this the way rash explains it is no is talking about a right we said before maybe something about a says no it can't be a where doesn't mention anything in the mishna yeah that is our mishna the mishna is talking about in other words a can married into the kuna but only a specific G even a even a g Less Than 3 years old and I explain a second why because about a a Aus that's less than three years old the Shila is is the reason why Aus until I get to the P it's very hard for me to maneuver here because I don't have my I have to go through each one with a click so forget it when we get there we get there but the question is is the reason why a girl less than three years old since her be is not beia so it's nothing or she's not a is she a z or not a that's the question so in terms of zos she not zos she's less than three years old but in terms of and should I go through it let me see if I can find it real quickly because there a in brings it here here that they have to be for every kind she has to be not just a kind so that's so the side is whether a is less than three years old is um huh right so yeah what's your point regular what that they are allowed to marry each other see yes so it's the same ter as we said before we're talk the mishna is talking about a g with a M they're allowed to marry each other and the mission is talking about it's giving us a rule all those who cannot marry K can marry each other okay would the Lo and this doesn't go like that says so these all these people it's just period we go back that all these people that cannot marry they can marry each other in other words a m can marry [Music] a okay so again according less than three years old her be is not a be so she's not a z what she's not a Gus she's not she's she's a whole different paral she's like a newborn baby but according to a three-year-old Gus has another problem we have to assume that maybe she's not AB she AB she's also nothing to do with says thing now says why you have to say that she's less than three years old say she's three years old also say that she's a problematic person for a she's a and she's also in the says no I can't talk about that's more than 3 years old I have to say she's less than three years why then I have the slug up right there and then then I would be able to ask immediate question that what you're telling me it's talking about that's more than three years old so from that I'll infer that since she's less than three years old she's and she's a marry into Thea you would think because you said talking about one that's above three meaning less than three she is she can't marry be this is the question which she's and she is M to marry into anyway the so that's says now oh and that's I think maybe you this is what you were asking you tell me a rule anybody that cannot marry like a she's allowed to marry a wait a minute there are other people that cannot marry four different people that they cannot marry k a divorce to right well just because a woman got divorced a regular Jewish woman who got divorced she cannot marry a k that means she's allowed to marry a m so your whole rule is off you told me anybody who cannot marry K could Marry m it's wrong your rule so you learn fur from that if a person could marry a Cen then automatically they become user oh that's also a problem what about a marry a and he can marry M so your whole rule is off one thing has nothing to do with the other if you're M doesn't mean that you're I have a case that and if you're in a doesn't mean that you're M because I have people that cannot marry because they're divorces but they can't Marry m so what's rule okay I have another this what he oh we're not talking about the the the first generation we're talking about the second generation we're talking about if a cannot marry your daughter let's say one G married another G a married and they had a child then a cannot marry that daughter that daughter could marry a again another question you telling me that any who cannot marry the person's daughter that daughter can marry when a when a is a who came from aen who married a divorce they had a kid called who married a regular is Cann marry his daughter that daughter cannot marry that's not a good cash why because says that the daughter of is so you still now you don't have a case where somebody is that we don't have because according to the daughter of is okay what about if the two parents are both again is fromer Union of a who shouldn't be marrying a divorce if they have a kid that kid is a so what if that kid married a the the is the that daughter of the that Union of is also they [Music] it's it's if you could marry then you should be also in a m oh and this is the riddle if any marries a regular Jewish woman what's that daughter can marry a Cen you hear this a g who marries a Jewish girl their child is pure enough to marry a at the same time that daughter she's allowed to Marry m it's unbelievable not a according to because if you say so this this this works she it's interesting she can marry Cen and she can marry to M the same person the same daughter again it comes from a marriage of a they had a kid that kid can marry a and can marry M it's almost like telling a g don't look down at it don't just because you can marry a mser doesn't mean that something's wrong with you you can marry aen you're pure enough you're good enough to marry Cen you can marry a but you can marry M it's for different reason is because you're not in the original congregation you're not in the kahal you're you're your own Jewish group but that own Jewish group says so hear the riddle you go and ask somebody how is it possible that a Jewish girl Mar and also Mar m I don't know if anybody know the answer we've been learning about G and this and that so we know the answer it's a a g who marries a Jewish woman their daughter can marry both a and according to this well and what's the reverse the the the she's Aus and he's a yeah um it's a trick question why because if she's a I'm gonna say yes I don't know the reason I'm saying I'm saying not not yes no it's only this way be the kid would be I don't know I hear I have to think about it it's a trick it's simple so I have to say what's what's our mission talking about that was y's question at the beginning what is going on with Arna why is it different than oh I'm supposed to push these buttons at some [Music] point wait I I messed up here I should have done this a long time ago look at that all the stick with the words boom boom boom oh you don't do you see it or you don't see it see um where are we we're holding here oh don't tell Yosi use it okay says Gaber flies somewhere goes around also the Red Dot on top is is a question and the green is an answer oh we're holding somewhere around here we went a little a little bit further than this that what that the Miss is talking about a is less than three years old and says that a is less than three years old is a okay no years old or what less than three years old or more than less than three years old did I say more years old okay fine this is going to bother people but this is the answer in the gar you know what I'll ask you a sh we'll start off with a St question interesting we'll make it into riddle if you're a g and we hold we that a g can marry AER and they offer him two two great girls one's a m because a married woman went ahead and had a relationship with another man and out came a m and another one is a m because a brother had a relationship with a sister and now came a kid which one is better for the G which one is uh less of a Mamer if there's such a thing which the both of them there the first one is better you all say the first one right the second one is better why is the second one better it just you just want to say the opposite of them well he's right he's right it's the second one I'll explain to you why also the first one is a married woman who has a relationship with another man what's her punishment death death by bz that's the worst of the worst so that kid is a mser but not just a mser it's a mser of the death penalty mser a brother unfortunately I mean we're not going to go into hashem's reasonings and everything it sounds disgusting and terrible but a brother and a sister there's no capital punishment for that you get car so if he came to Bez and as he asked sh by Rabbi says who should I marry they give me they most likely will say marry the the one from the brother and the sister throwing it out there it might not be good good jeans genetically might be some messed up jees there but uh in terms of of so let's see inside what does it have to do with us the problem here the question in the mishna is it's a m that came from a sister a brother and a sister versus a m from and they want to marry each other they themselves have you have you have you have that deal with very interesting cases right people that had diseases and the that specializes in laugh I bet you there somebody out there that does it yeah right but you have to have for the g g can marry anybody they're they can marry from a Cen all the way down they could marry anybody they have no issues so the uh you hear you hear the sh is unbelievable could I'm asking you a question could guy that was born from as is marry a woman who born from a brother and a sister that's the they can't because the different type of M one is a heavy duty m one is a light duty M and they can't marry each other that's the says but you right you see that you're right you have good intuition was a m the truth is I didn't say the question right because the kid from a brother and sister is not even called a mser according to him the because when you don't have capital punishment that's not considered a m Hashem will kill him Hashem will take care of him that's that's something else so therefore he cannot marry this product from a brother and sister cannot marry a product of a the're two different levels and they don't marry each other says but why do we need a special mission for that so you tell me the whole m is just talking about this one case we already learned this somewhere else the famous what what even constitutes a the famous we had him in this no what makes a says forget about capital punishment forget about even just a la something that's the lowest in terms of is very low just hasem said don't do it like don't marry divorce that that creates a man no it has to be at least one step up take that makes that creates that's how pass has to be the worst the worst so we already learned com the same thing that we had this question before in whatever it is [Music] says talking about another question the question here is you have a convert that came from the nation of what do the say about even the 10th Generation they can never become Converse they can never [Music] become since they cannot become part of they can marry each other so what is getting involved there they can't get they can't become gayri and they want to marry each other says the no they can't why not even though Rea says that a g is considered a full-fledged Jew and kahal and everything and if he's a full-fledged kahal he cannot marry that's only one that's from all the other nations who could be part of in other words there's no in the at all is not arguing anybody he's just saying he's just telling you a fact he's saying anybody who could become a girl cannot marry AER but those guys who cannot become G anyways their GIS is fake because even after 10 Generations they can't become go they can marry whatever they want have a wonderful day [Music] hey