Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 71 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning do this again good morning oh oh much better much better which reminds me actually we have a video go straight to this video oh here this mamish works out great it wasn't the plan I had go see Klein's video first but here oh hold on hold on oh here we [Music] go this is not an ordinary V it's a caseri that we're coming up so must be much stronger ah I'm so excited and look okay so this is even though we're trying to fill up our hotel I'm promoting his so boy say a weak iner ker okay so but you got the you got the down yeah okay good with that being said once we got that out of the way we have to say cap it's the more I hear about it somebody was very upset that I spoke about the woman and this I hear no he's probably right but I wanted to bring out I don't know if has enough we have to have even more we have to be m i could just tell you from here in Chicago there was a rally a pro-israel rally that uh people in my family went to I didn't go and um as people were going to this rally there were uh people dressed in the whole Kamas gear the whole thing assaulting them yelling at them uh threatening them cursing them there was shots fired there's we don't even know the whole story yet there was uh some some Yesa guy got beat up or something I don't know kiter it's not you're not safe anywhere 100,000 people in London like [Music] this [Music] for [Music] Klein who's heading the entire shop as he started from beginning to end he has a message for the here he goes oh my name is y Klein and I have a message to tell you after this terrible and painful news that was coming fromel a lot of people came over to me and asking me whether are we gonna do the shabas I went to Gar and they all came back with the same answer that this is the time that we need and we need we have to enforce that on shabas we going to say we're going to try everybody take on a blur maybe finish and maybe finish the half that we learned till now and this will bring the shal also people were asking since there's a lot of people who cannot afford the shabas in order to make this moreas a few Anonymous don't owners said they're going to give $500 in total we have for 20 people already sponsors going out based on first come first serve and I'm looking for more sponsors we have already 40 besides that 20 on standby and I'm sure it's going to be more whoever can give at least $500 to a person to make this more Unity for people who cannot afford should come up and call me and I'll take their donation and give it out to the people who are waiting let's make the sh for all types of people we'll sing together thank you and hope to see you there shabas of the I think it was it was in the Army this week the M it's uh we're celebrating half half a it's not a joke it's a big big thing s we going have a big sh those who can't come for shabas big Shas open for everybody um okay hope to see everybody there another very very important thing is that we're starting bakama you hear this Simi starting bakama in like 11 12 days got to bring friends we've been a little on the recruitment because of the whole War mat but we have to step it up toyra is the best Gula what else do we have here um H Bell just wanted to send you a short note to let you know that mdy family is indeed one team last Thursday a package containing a bottle of wine a homemade potato coule and some candy was delivered to my home to say thank you and give me my family I thank you to my son T Greenwald who's on the front line in Gaz along with his unit who for the first three days of the war fought off many MIM terrorists and eliminated many of them despite being shot at multiple times they all walked out okay but saw the most horrific things you can imagine talking about 18y olds here mdy is so proud of him and the whole IDF this was sent to us by a fellow MD wi who feels our pain who feels our stress and understands what we're going through being a parent of a soldier that shows Family Care and feelings of love we are so touched by this kod looking forward to seeing back at the ranch and you giving Shear where you sit right next to me my Greenwald bet yeah all the come back I know a bunch of on the front lines including my own nephew and guys that come to the shear every single day so we wish them all and they should come back in one piece and everything because some of these images that they see are things that you can't get out for the rest of your life so and somebody sponsored a m which is $9,000 but I'm not exactly sure because we Haven a sponsor the maybe he's sponsoring Bama I don't know Lo families L New Jersey they sponsored the because and are the best SCH I'll put it over here the oh it's here okay the is sponsored by Anonymous for the unity of all again oh you see this is I didn't see this this is the theme for today the we say it over it's like becomes like cliche but where do you see in so many different types of peopleim and and LX and modern Orthodox and Zionist and non Zionist and balich Chua GM all sorts of people sitting in the same room watching the same she it's an unbelievable show of the worldwide by Benny Weinstein Lakewood New Jersey mdy biggest so they claim come from somebody can remind me after she actually I want to record a quick video of somebody I don't like doing it I keep on pushing it off but today the day say you're not going to believe it you know who your said it is today May mayor shap your side is today what one person accomplished one person accomplished says last last words on again got type of0 unbelievable we're almost done with n and there you go you go the buas yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah of course alone is 172 no 175 what's your name I don't I forgot that that what's your name Steinberg all [Music] right he's going to go through the and see who who who again means pure no no no first he's gonna go [Music] through people that they they um purify the silver so I I once heard but I don't remember the F if you know the F you can tell me said that when he was learning this P he went to see how they purify silver and he asked the guy like what when do you know to stop how do you know that you purified and the guy said when it becomes so pure like it's like a mirror you see your own reflection that's how you know it's p he said oh it's a it's a muscle too you come the right now F the I don't remember what it was okay I think it's a great line he use it on you know what I'm talking about a guy in like Yeshiva like you don't want to accept him but with enough money sometimes and then the people that are annoyed they could say you know it's not a joke I mean I forgot somebody told me like it's not fair like somebody literally said my kid is like a top top kid and we can't get him into Yeshiva and then this kid is a very weak kid because he has a lot of money so he's goingon to get this great Yeshiva and then he's going to go that Yesa he's gonna it's gonna give him a good Head Start in another place and then he's going to get a better sh the whole thing is just what VES around money says yeah in a way yes k a person has a lot of money and he works his way into some sort of and then people forget about it with once they get swallowed in then we're not going to look for them anymore it's a very interesting thing a m with a lot of money a lot of pull he gets he marries in he forces his way in and then is just gonna turn a blind item so said that is pure compared to the rest of the world but you should know that is like do compared to B meaning the purest is B under that is there is like do do means it has a lot of ingredients it's it's a little bit of a mixture has a couple mum in there a couple this couple of that but it's definitely better than says they wanted to say that is more pure than bble not the not like we say now the bubble is more pure than again let's go back to the beginning of the ezrael took the worst all the he forced them or they came with him whatever he took them out of B and he brought themel so B is more pure thanel so they try to do the reverse they try to say no later on later generations hundreds of years later the time of re it's already the end of the T right before try to make pure you're putting thorns in my eyes so it goes like this if you look at this chart over here who's who's rebi is the descendant of H Ben G after G after G after G all the way to to toi to Reb Rabbi is he comes from B his is B so he wasn't happy he says you want to you want to take away myos it's not me I might be biased you know what no is pure don't try to ruin it says they try to do it again they tried to make it's a very interesting story tells the slaves I'm going to be on a stretcher or there be a stretcher next to me I'm going to say these things you throw me into the wheelchair you throw thing you start running with me get me out of there quick I'm going to drop a bomb and right before it explodes you take me out there quickly so first he throws them off he says know that a chicken doesn't really need you could chew it in the head and you could eat it so the the went crazy they start looking who what is he talking about really we never paid attention to this why do we sh a chicken adjust it what way a bit too it's a little bit my head okay okay so they're looking up in the whatever they had in those days and they're looking up this sa for that safe in the how do you know that you have to shut the chicken you is he right and then as they're thinking about it he drops the bomb he says has worse happens to be like today in when you come from so you have to bring a letter from a rabbi that you're Jewish that you have something so REM Felman from Atlanta when he came ter he said you need to give us a letter she said you know how many dozens of letters I wrote myself I'll just I write my own letter no no no you every single person even if you wrote letters you have to write you have to get a letter from another of to testify about you okay fine so is doesn't have the best so threw them into the stretcher and they started running I'm just thinking now you know where you see people running with stretchers those over there I don't know what they're always running running with stretchers and when they get into the hospital they're running in the hospital it's like a whole B it's like not M like something's it's chaos over there always I don't know maybe it's just like a Hollywood I think just like a actors kind of thing so they try to chase him down what do you you you're making us into they started looking into it and they realize some of these bad families these these tough guys they're actually it makes a lot of sense the way you act shows about have a lot of out of this they started looking into it and then they started finding things they didn't want to find this means says rash of we have the ability to to to to realize who's pule and who's not if I want I could sit down right now and figure out that this and this family are bunch of we have that came out of these families and it's too too complicated once it got mixed into that's it we let it stay as is and we go V so this he he had he was a tough person he but he tough and he distanced this family said this family is no good then says this is good say again any family that's distanced or brought in with Force he going to come and say the a family that's known that these are just forcefully they forced into the system and whatever is going to come in and say out but a family that got mixed in and now it's already unknown exactly they had money and whatever they did they did so it's a gift from so many families got mixed into it over the generations that is just going to turn a blind eye and say okay they're accepting the there's another family that was mixed into knew about it but they didn't want to reveal every seven years the gathered and said listen this family whatever the name is stay away from them we should not marry them we know that they stay away from them sounds like how how often do you check twice in seven years or once in seven years what you see but anyways it's similar to this whatever it is twice in seven years some people once in every 20 years by some people I mean myself I think it's time to to buy new maybe makes sense it's not twice every seven years once every seven years it says a person makes a this don't tell anybody I want to write this down as a question I want to ask uh I shouldn't say Well they're not watching anyways but maybe uh the head will this this could be a question for the where in sh is there or a statement about the zeros that's not brought him here if I don't reveal the families of I'm a even though to be AER yeah that's the whole the whole when we learn ner it's also to be it's not a good thing wants you to benefit from from the beauty of of of his world and to drink wine and all the things not supposed to take on yourself extra nevertheless you should not Beal the families totally the name the famous name is Shem so teach theas what it means the not oh by the way I tell you secret there's a name called that we know but what's the meaning behind it there's a famous story I couldn't find it today but there's a story about like Somey r that lived like 3 400 years ago I forget who it is if you remember who it is let me know the um there's a a she you know the top Arab guy Muslim guy who he knew who who you come to him and say that this guy's a goner he's going to die this guy is going to live and he's very accurate so he wanted to know what what's so he went he befriended him and he begged him so the guy said okay come it's a whole long story but basically went into some tunnel after the tunnel and then he said okay now you have to bow so he bowed with hasem and he got in and then he took a he revealed something on the wall he says this he looks the guy could the r couldn't believe it it said y says anytime he davens there if it's like light and he knows the guy's gonna live dark he's gonna this we going to see that if you know how to say it and you know what to do you could you could kill people you could you could do certain M with it so they would give over the kavas to The Tam once every seven years twice every seven years sense once this is my name forever but if you look in the T it doesn't say with a V supposed to keep it quiet wanted to reveal the secrets in the she you're supposed to keep it quiet you're not supposed to reveal has a contradiction this is my name this is my mention and Rashi says it doesn't say it says it's like two separate things that it's two different things why is it two different things I'm written I'm written and the way way we do it today there was a About Cha guy not so he like coming about cha and he I told him say tell him Israeli guy and he was saying the I didn't realize I took it for granted we say whatever we know it automatically he didn't know and he starts reading no no he not say like that he saying youth came like he's reading it like that so it says say this a name and there's a mention how you say it we say it out of there's a name of hem that had 12 letters and everybody knew it people took advantage of it they would do different things with it so this is the story I set it over I can say it again there was a guy in I think it was that this one okay that people were saying rumors that he he has some big like a so my father kept on like telling me we have to figure out who this guy is what's his deal and I learned with my father this is like 20 something years ago when I lived Str we didn't I think I had my my my 27y old today he maybe a year old then kid 25 years ago so he said we yo we have to figure this guy out so anyway we one day that said he had enough so we're going toah said you know where you going no we're just going to go we find them so get a taxi me my father my uncle we get a taxi we go to Heria we get there tah the the driver says where he says roll down the windows he says where does the M live the guy says I don't know what you're talking about the next guy finally guy say go over here we got there we get there we get to the block they point us to the building get to the building he's like on the 11th floor look at 11th floor how's a from guy live on the 11th floor you know back in the day without the shab okay K we get get up there we knock on the guy's door guy opens up the door did not look like a mble shaved guy undershirt jeans he said you the M okay again come inside come inside we come inside and uh he looks at my Uncle my uncle he says um you have a bruise right here on your foot k no you don't have I don't have bruise he says okay take off your pants prove it so my uncle rolls up his pant and he had a bruise right where he pointed and he started doing stuff like that one after another and he told my father something my father didn't went out of his mind and basically this guy was saying Shem he saying straight out that's that was his thing said and when we finally heard it my father said oh you sing sh we gotta run and we he said come we ran out of there and that was that but the guy said things that was insane he described my uncle's my my aunt he he he said some very interesting things that's m a person that's not not on a level and he uses the for the wrong thing they only gave over this 12 letter name to the to those who are there's a whole thing if should sing while they they don't sing while they were saying it in a pleasant way theem hasem when a regular was saying the four letter Shem hasem they were saying the 12 letter Shem hasem re in a way that nobody could understand it it would say like they would Mumble it who himself was a I went with my uncle I made sure I'm right there by the I heard him saying the as all the other were saying he threw out the long name of there's a b b who really wanted to to get the kiss's head and the gab said no no no way but I need to I need to kiss his head no he noticed that by ding after ding all the would go right by ra and they would get to kiss his head so by m he went up there and he dued he went up and he duen and he uh as he finished he went down he kissed his hand so said I'm serious said that it's okay what he did it wasn't because if would know how much this bucker really wanted to to to kiss his hand he would he' be okay with it and that that has to do with another mice I want to say baz so says the the 42 letter one you have to be and a humble person you have to be half your half your life in other words 35 years old because people usually live to 70 so 35 he doesn't get upset you can't put yourself in a position where you're going to blurt out the name you're gonna get mad at somebody and imagine if if I was there and I had a weapon on me and this guy got in my face like that I wouldn't be here right now you can't you can't have hotheaded people with with with weapons it's dangerous some people never grow up I'm serious well let this guy my my the guy got into my son's he wasn't doing anything he goes into his nose and he's holding like a stick in his hand in the hole like and they don't show their face just scared today in Chicago today in New York in Brooklyn yesterday you can't get drug also you be sh and he knows had a had a give in so says says this is the famous says we have here sh the says he says the the is also like if somebody steals from him whatever he doesn't go crazy on him those are the people that you can give the to if you know the the name and you careful with it and you go to the mikah before you use it and people will be fearful of him name a person that comes a family that comes from so as we said is is pure as purified it didn't leave until so if a person comes from there we have no reason to believe that something's wrong with him he's good most other countries a person comes from there we can't know that's why you need that letter you know from the say that here's the problem if have okay so says but this is a contradic why the famous when I tell you that if somebody has a and only then he's P that means if he's par then he's ker and if you go on the flip side a person what [Music] about which one is it a person who P we don't know if he has to good or bad it comes out of contradiction from the the not a if you want to marry you have to check but if a person already's married to break up a marriage based on a par then you don't you don't break up a marriage on that if you have a p person and you try to marry off your daughter it's not good enough you have to check is this PIR of person C or not but if you find that your son-in-law is a is a pirate person you're not going to go force him to get divorced because he's pirate all when he talks his accent is like that of a person that comes from Iran yeah I just thinking about the guy from Great Chicago ran he has that accent he's here for how many years at least bani he at least I remember he's at least 30 years but you can know in the second's h no we don't have sponsors we have a new a new sponsor for the $9,000 when you see that he's pure he's Iranian no problem but today this is I guess this is the Rami we have a faker has jeans underneath his suit over there faker so we have to can't a guy you go to special school you get those apps and you start putting on a a fake Iranian accent it's not oh which reminds me that no story what was it a year ago maybe two years ago the guy got married in in New York they found out he's Palestinian no what was he no guy came into the rally today we TI m and they escorted him out guy got in started yelling and shouting and S hanging out he was yelling and screaming he just he made a few comments and then he was escorted out he left peacefully but it was uh gu dressed up as a Jew to get inside or checking ID because of that they they dress up with it it's not not easy times meanwhile is more dangerous [Music] than says listen to this real interesting story was a and he was avoiding him he comes to is very up front with him he says listen I need you to marry my daughter says the they got body of water grabs puts him on his shoulder and he crosses I think by it's a big it's a little bit of a problem put somebody in the shoulders is stickle on it no a whole there's need about it shouldn't be that big of a deal but especially a RAV and a tal and going across okay so now he has him he's riding his shoulder on M where he asking sh you're showing me the that you're my tal by you Lifting me up you're my talet so my my tire is good for you like sh what video animation yeah let's see ah good you see was on top of things here has a fake y ah fake pis that's what it is you see that is payis are are like a with elastic the whole thing is fake over there I got it okay give all the oh it goes even more the whole beer comes off uhuh it's a real not bad oh the Kang of whe it's really okay okay it's very interesting because if you know everybody knows lost all his sons 10 Sons were died and he used to walk around with tooth they beer whatever I guess he had a daughter one daughter and he wanted his daughter to marry the top guy there's nobody says he came to and he's looking for for for his daughter he says listen anybody could answer this question get to marry my daughter so he asked the question and this guy answer that nobody so he left he couldn't find is you know a few hundred feet away froma all sudden a bucker starts running after him he says well what do you want says you have a terret you have aat he says no what are you running here I want to know what the answer is she says the answer is that I want a guy like you I want someone that's going to run after and and work to to not just the guy that's smart someone that's going to to define the and he actually became the and he took over afterwards I think in SL was I think that the over there in afterwards so what do you what do you think you think that b is so pure because it says well you think that every went up bu also has and you don't want to marry right was in so you worried to I think it's unbelievable story The God he has a daughter and zir doesn't want to marry her why because is not so good he has I'm looking for B it's unbelievable no no games EMS this is EMS he could be the go he could be everything but I need to marry wants me to marry so says what what do you think we have worse than you in B you think didn't stay in B says yes he made a mistake he forgot as we learned the other day that Ezra cleaned out every single last M there are no M so Z's point was that bu does have better he noticed son that was older and didn't get married how come you don't marry off your son I don't know where I don't know where the is do we know where we came from maybe it's from these people maybe he'll say that the end of the day a and a slave who had relationship with the Jew okay but other [Music] people maybe we come from these terrible people these people they go to the bathroom in front of their [Music] bed terrible that's not because a person relieves himself in front of his bed so that's why to no what I'm trying to get to is terrible people people that eat and dream couples together and they put their beds together and they switch wives and their beds are full of that's not their what should I do tell you I'll give you a a beautiful Simmon of whose the right go after those who are quiet when two people have a fight see which one is quiet first this person has unbelievable we say it again when there's two people fighting see which one is the one that's quiet first and then you know that person has that's how you get a I'll say this one of the things that made me go for my son-in-law mayor Jacobs is that the sh said a story that he was in a restaurant and the waiter uh tripped and Spilled a h bowl of soup on my son-in-law and he didn't say a word he was quiet it happens to be that he's extremely mck in lanara is he has he's very good control on his mouth I never ever heard him speak lanar so that that gave me a oh a quiet when the just I just realized now I wasn't preparing to say this as I'm saying it now you look after that's that's the way to look a as thear went he went to find who's The Quiet One he didn't care about the because it's hard you go you go you look for the who's who's the one that's quiet if you see two people fighting makes a if you see two people fighting they're not going to get married to each other because hasm doesn't want them to get married to each other because one of them has a little m in him so hm makes them fight so they don't like each other and they stay away from each other he argues a little bit it's not that two people a lot of times two people fight you see two families fighting that's rare that's now people say oh you know I fight with that family there a bunch of I need to stay wants me to stay away from doesn't want you to go next to them so makes you fight with them oh so we have a nice uh a nice thing here check this out you see Yoshi did uh there's four there's four cities here so I'm going to read it you can look at the chart while I read it b b is healthy here's the nice healthy EXA guy meaning they're CER M the dead is a sick person he's half cut off he's on a stretcher he came in on a stretcher here screen uh I see it over here in this screen I see the small screen I don't see basically he's a Gus he's he's one foot in the Cav what's the difference most sick people they go to life in other words theer is is basic [Music] go so it goes like this okay so here's the map of Buble as you see bubble has two major rivers you have the and PR the Tigris and the Euphrates right so on the top part says talking about the the top part of mus here is on top here listen uh I don't want like this a pro this probably some guy that studied these Maps his entire life and he's going to write in tomorrow that no mush is a little bit to the east okay whatever it's just for illustrative purposes only mush is not part of B in other words B is so pure if you take a from you should know that might be over there says [Music] because that's where most was we just said comes from is like B it's like like you're right is part of B so when you go to the bottom of the Tigress where does it go hello next so I do this oh oh now the bottom the bottom there's two one upper one one is one is not if you look in this chart he did one green one red one is K one is POS there's one measurement call it a mile between the two and the very careful the ones that are ker have nothing to do with other ones you have a light you have a light no I'm sorry can't give you a light nothing remember you remember when we had a m are dead m means so when they speak they speak the language of M is a bad Simon it's a now we keep on going the top ofas Euphrates where so if you look on the top left corner of this chart there's three sheas here says Gish the pr the it's getting late the the bridge of PR RAV says G is the furthest one away the top top ra is in the middle is in the bottom in other words is very M says even high up which pass bubble is still considered bubble so cursed did not like where is R look at r r is in yellow he's in the middle he's too far away from B but's further away why would he curse out of course even R he wasn't happy with but certainly it's further up he didn't curse why this chart is not good says the is not on top yes you write today there's a bridge over there but in the time of the T there's no bridge over there sh's Bridge was way down like even where is or even closer and it's only now now that the bridge changed let's see oh you see he did change it Sho is now closer down to R is the top one we just switch positions because the the bridge in those days was lowered down rabai have a wonderful day should be safe everybody stay safe have a wonderful day that