Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 69 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning is in tremendous in a time of so we're gonna start off with here we have it on the board [Music] know [Music] so at least we we had some good news two people from Illinois were just released and should help that all other 2011 captiv should be released [Music] unharmed um one thing that we have to think about is that when we have a sorrow like this what are we doing what are we changing in our lives it could be something as small as saying one BR day with kavana just one to think about the words we say something small everybody should take upon themselves something small so I thought this is a very special email from Shalom fredman unique cab I'm one of the few guys who started cabala to not talk in at all on shabas morning as for the we try to get 40 guys together to be M for the pares of saer Braes less than a week we now have over 1,100 committed members on a WhatsApp group myself and Dr daber we made a bet years ago um unfortunately for Dr daber he lost the bet he says I he might have caught me but basically right Dr D get over here Dr D come come come you can come anyways uh he said Ellie I'll bet you a roof to your house that you can't stop talking during doing this is many how many years ago is that 20 years ago say and you don't bet me it wasn't a good thing anyway so I really didn't speak I don't think I spoke that year he says he saw me once speaking in the year for you still owe me roof the house keeps getting bigger not now I don't okay so anyways you got we got 1,100 people to commit we're not an organization or part of an organization but it's exploding and resonating with people we are P not looking to make money shows Across America are reporting after one that the ding was completely different members of the group came forward and made cards and we put on tails and shes the members pushed us to advertise in short we're being pushed to spread the message and increase this impact the group serves two purposes for people to get that they're doing this cabala along with thousands of other people weekly reminders on Friday with a short video from a rabic figure which we would love to also have you featured one week the first week was Rabbi speo this coming Friday will be RAB also once or twice weekly other related love it I I I think it's a great idea someone suggested we reach out to you rebell is something that he thinks you'd believe in and be willing to push on your platform yes I believe in it and I'm pushing it right now I don't think I'll push it again only because I'll probably forget but I think it's a beautiful thing and people should consider this please consider this seriously you obviously have a tremendous impact has vastly improved the C Bess the world thank you mman to bring all of Cl Isel to PR b h belly first and foremost I wanted to thank you for the amazing 3D dimensional interactive da the special flavor wi and humor short story story I almost intermarried 10 years ago to a non-jewish woman seeing clco from mons in New York brought me back to the sweetness of Judaism definitely share the same characteristics that he does we need more like you and him in order to be an active good Jew we cannot afford to be py only with love care and SIM can we be true Jews keep up your holy work Yuda Rosenberg unbelievable from H this is is Goldstein waiting for his client to arrive at theim doing the if you are to be at the shab of oh thank you Mar yes I forgot to put the picture up there you will see Goldstein and also Mark ashkanazi and many [Music] others the we we sold another I think 15 RS just today so the more you push it off the higher up in the hotel you're going to be the more flights of stairs I know you want to come there a lot of people that are told me they're coming I know they're coming just they're lazy to book don't be lazy because that laziness is going to cost you some serious exercise and shabas might might be a good thing after to eat all those meals and everything oh another very very important thing uh I want to tell talk to you about is that we are starting believe it or not in less than two weeks seems like uh it's like 12 12 days from now 12 do we haven't spoken about it because of the whole mat and everything else that's going on but bab is coming and the official sent me today a promotional video that he did himself I thought it was incredible he says I can't show it yet I think you're going to love it it has a lot of animation and a lot of stuff that it's and different ideas I thought it's very cool it's something that I really hoping in the future that sh going to look like that a lot of Animation a lot of Kaki stuff so anyways hope to show that but bring your friends to babak we're almost finished with starting it's a great time to start zik you know all right so another thing that gave me a lot of is that like I mentioned yesterday y k put out a video which B show maybe on Sunday just a short clip I didn't even see it yet so basically it's asking people to to to help other people come and a lot of people responded just today somebody who who's very close to mdy told me that he's giving $2,500 in addition to $10,000 that he already gave towards the shab he g 25 because I said yesterday that I want to give money to RAB and guys in K so he says I'm also adding $2500 another another words wants to sponsor another five R beautiful stuff like that which basically explains what mdy is it's about it's about giving to other people enabling other people to to benefit and what's he's a guy sitting there and he's anonymous from L that's who he is anous from L what what does he have that some no to give it's unbelievable so and we should all be and bring the the families living Jersey because the best worldwide Workman Coffee corner and beverages the last day that come from supporting from Chicago shabas KES people are in a rush it's almost shabas and we had a delay the usual Chicago delay before the year we'll get it going we are going to be starting the last final per of which is a lot of easier stuff I have a trick says how to make a and the trick is not just a trick it actually works and is like how do you do it person is so I'll tell you the last known case like this is a with Cutler there's a very top guy in hisa in Lakewood that they found out that he was a m coddler I guess the way to do it I'm thinking stop it loud here you go to a place that there's a lot of guses that want people that want to become g go to some bezin like the I don't know what you tell this gu listen you want to become Jewish so before you become Jewish go into the mikah instead of becoming a g become a sh why not come and I have a top guy in Lakewood that will marry you that's exactly what happened he took a Goa it's not just oh he went went on dine Avenue plucked a Goya and she was a that was interested in Judaism I'm going to buy you as a I'll give you $2 you're my sh then you marry the top guy Ina Lakewood who's a m and your children one by one as they're born you free them and they they koser children they go into yeshivas learn you don't have to tell anybody and the story did not that's what the Mish says and that actually works and it's a known it's a story that happened in our in our [Music] lifetime you have a m who marries the son that comes out of that is not a mser the son is the name his name is Mr E if you release him he becomes a free person meaning he becomes a full-fledged Jew and now you m you Mom have children that are Jewish rather than having children that are M they don't have a name of mser anymore there's no first of all I have a I have a question for you if a person marries I have another trick marry a go marry go and your children won't be yours they'll be hers there's no M by so they're and then them how come that doesn't work huh very good I can't advise somebody to marry a guy it's illegal it might work the kid might not be a mser but it's not something because we need to understand a Mamer is a Jew he has a weird he has to he's a Jew so we can't advise him to marry a just like you don't advise the Yesa guy to marry a go so you're not going to advise him but we're advising him to marry sh could we advise Yesa guy to marry sh it's probably a problem there's no way a Jew can marry sh the only way we could a Jew can marry sh is he's a evid but he's not an evid so what exactly is going on here let's continue [Music] I don't agree with your trick we don't pass we pass he's not he's not a the kid is considered Mr evid Mr M so says now that I asked you this question could you marry could guy marry a the answer is no so what about a just like you can't tell to marry so maybe you can't tell him to marry um so first of all I want to show you thisi it's important to remember this a m has no way out of it 10 Generations later M saysi 10 Generations from the sin of his great great great great great grandfather he his his his is Mr M so that's why we need to come up with an idea how to be how to get rid of that name says so here's the not so much brings you can't not can't do something terrible like marrying a god so the G's question is does this apply to this applies to a regular Jew but somebody who's already tainted with M maybe he could marry a so T saying I I tell the guy and I say and I advise him go marry which is before the fact M you could go ahead the says go marry like R told him go marry or maybe we don't tell him this idea but if he went and he was over the of marrying a you should know that the child is not a when it's a guy he could dress up pretend that he's a slave go to another neighborhood and do whatever he needs to do but how does this work for a female a girl would never do this she never pretend to be a girl that is going to dress up as if she's a slave and go to another neighborhood it's not something a girl does if this is okay what do you mean this is a good this is so you see from here that it's only should marri a slave and then what's going to happen her son is going to be slave and not a that doesn't work has no connection to his child doesn't have he doesn't have so the kid is not going to be called the what is the kid going to be called a m and it doesn't work when aerus marries an it only works when a m marries a sh it works when the male marries the female sh then it goes after her she gets the k she gets the and and then you you free them and become Jew landlord was had I known about your situation beforehand I had a trick for you now says must be me if he meant had I known you I would have advised you to do this great but if you mean that trick is only after the fact it's not it's not thing it's not you advise it so what do you mean to say perhaps he meant to say the you know a lot of people I heard like homeless people people they really down on their luck so some it pays for them to do some criminal activity maybe today doesn't work anymore I mean you have to steal more than $1,000 so you steal $1,100 from uh you know Target and then they put you in jail so at least he has a warm place and they give him a good meal and he gets a free shower everything's good so I would tell him go steal and of course you m your everything you have you have no and then bz is GNA take you and sell you as a slave and if they sell you as a slave then you can marry a sh but if you try to sell yourself as a Jewish slave which you could you can't can't get the sh you could only get the when they force you to to to become a slave now the big question that Rashi asks and all how could I advise somebody to steal you're telling me I can't advise him to marry sh that's awesome the Tyra it's also very awesome the to tell to steal so how I advis him to steal there's different answers for that rash's answer is but we have a better answer for that other want to say that you're all to steal for this very very important cause to to you know kids from be steal or something I was thinking I also saw is that you kind of like the guy's he knows that you need this if somebody told you listen I have a big problem he's a guy in ch listen I have a major problem I don't want my kids to be a m do me a favor can I steal from you tomorrow yeah I'll turn a blind ey steal from me and you won't have money to pay me back what's up so why not it cost me $10 and this guy isn't but how does it work exactly so I didn't like look into it but so it's not really stealing afterward but he stole you know you can't you can't just undo an a that he okay fine Rashi that maybe that's why rash doesn't go with this and rash just says we have a better answer what's the better answer again we're trying to figure out is it something I tell I advise a slave go ahead and and and and marry sh or it's after the fact Maybe it's after the fact and he was saying I could give you a I give you a special idea go steal wait a minute what kind of idea is this this is idea that doesn't exist by's anymore if there's no wasn't the so there's no slaves said listen I have a great for you Mrs go ahead and marry her you could do it you see that meant it seriously wasn't just oh if this m goes ahead and he marries a sh without our permission so it happens to be that the kids are not M no if you know of a m you callon Cutler he'll tell you exactly how to do it and there's a way to car him off you want to know how to get we'll figure it out exactly how to get it doesn't work over here the says okay fine whatever maybe it does work and says even though we passing he says no if he marries if M the kid is still an EV M he's not a Jew or so we had this this was um okay we'll show the next one here this no just I like this picture a lot it's if you live in this you see these people sitting around a lot over there now they're not in our neighborhoods right now little break from them I was just thinking I was telling uh I have an employee um a Mexican employee was asking me today about what's going on at stroll and that all the lies that he heard in the news so I said you know and it's p if you were to step into one of their neighborhoods you most likely won't won't come out alive but yet they come into our neighborhoods and at 5:30 in the morning they wake everybody up screaming and yelling and I've spoken to them many times ask to be quiet I said you're waking people up I Happ to be up so I go out there and try to nothing nothing I'm not about going to the neighbors and screaming I'm talking about just walking peacefully through the neighbors you'll die but they can come in with the that they have and scream next yeah so where are we so it says in the forget this this we're talking about it before that they don't have they're like fine we saw the before said you don't need the in there that's an extra word so says okay that according toar you you follow him and the father is he's a so it continues to the Next Generation we're talking about not a are marrying rather a regular is who marries and that it goes after him you think it goes after him the LA says that the kid is a m like the mother when a regular Isel marries M the kid is are like the mother the opposite that he becomes or it's not the opposite the L comes to undo and that he becomes he becomes a m like the father in this so over here also even though it says the word comes to undo it you can go back to this that a fetus in the mother's stomach that's one of the terrible terrible things that I I found out today because I try I I didn't see any movies any videos any Clips bad Clips because I don't want that to to scar me I really think it's something I'll never forget I don't want to see any like bad stuff but I was tempted to listen to this um the head of the the head of the of zaka and he was he was there talking for a long time and he broke down crying at one point I'm not going to tell you what he said then cuz I don't want it's it's too gruesome it's about children and how they treated the the children before they killed them insane things but one of the things that's very famous and I heard from other people so I'll just say they they actually tore open a mother's stomach and took out her the fetus while she was alive so no I'm just remember I wasn't even planing on saying it but just to know thear I'm just saying to show the aaras I didn't know this until today her V is considered that without with that we finish the third peric of kush starting the fourth and final per of kush the final peric in s all says the talking about their language starting that Ezra brought CL from B up to to build was built they brought them back to the mdash the few that remain in they rebuilt the and came and took them now when he came up to B from B he went up he made alah alah to ter from B so he brought with him 10 groups of people so let's see what we have here here so Yoshi did a beautiful job here to show this three groups anything within the bracket they can marry each other the like we have today we can marry each other the next bracket is that that that's one category these are that married so the children are are and and slaves that are freed here there's a picture of a slave that's freed the next category could also marry each other from 5 to 10 these are so Ezra brought all these people up with him all different types he needed he need he so why did he bring all these questionable people these M why does he have to bring M with them because he didn't want them to stay in BB because if all the are coming up with him nobody's going to care about them nobody's going to pay attention to them and then they could taint all of Cl isel's so he had to keep a good eye on them come with me everybody I need you to come how did he get them to come either he made it so uncomfortable for them that they had to come or he literally forced them to come but he knew exactly where the are and where these people are and he took them so that's the whole Mish basically says 10 types of came up from these are so again that's a who marries a or marries in Alman the child is called G these are slaves that are free so now they're Jewish to every let's say has a kid that we know are one of the part of the we were instructed to kill them so they tricked us they pretended that they came from a far away place and Yeshua swore to them that he's not going to kill them and then they when they found out the mistake so he kept his promise and he made them into and what water carriers and the tree Choppers so miss is going to explain what that is in a second so category one as you see over here in the blue they can marry each other now you take the out of this so Steve is out of this one a is not part of this because a cannot marry the the G the the ETC he's not in this category the next category if you can marry one another what's a person who knows who mothers here in America we're very familiar with this kind of situation then yourself when the child says he just runs over to a random man he says Daddy and the mother says sh be quiet she shuts him up says Rashi she tells him be quiet that's not your father what are you haing in China so that's auki he keeps him getting shut up by his mother he wants to find his father he doesn't know who it is that's why I want to say I want to ask Steve to come here I don't know if he'll be him but he witnessed this with me it was night I say this all the time knock on the door during the SED after the SED was kind of over most of my family was gone knocking the door I thought I heard a knock I didn't ignored it then I heard a knock again so I went to the door I looked around I didn't see anybody but then right before I was about to slam the door shut I looked down and I saw a b basket and in the basket was a blond baby with blue eyes staring at me so first I thought I was dreaming but then it started winking its eyes it was actually moving and looking to different directions what's the name of that kid Steve Davey Dave Davey is Steve's kid and uh his older kid Alex put Davey in a basket by my door on L PES just for the stick to get me going and here I am thinking to myself here I have an AI I don't know where the father is I don't know where the mother is do I go to the police station now but it's like 1: in the morning what do I do okay I'll take him in why they drop him me they saw through the windows that were still up and it was a decent looking house and maybe we could take care of this kid we have another kid now all these and then all Alex jumps out from behind the bush and he goes hey I got you all that is 20 seconds yeah what else are you going to think have have you ever been in that situation seeing a basket it was literally like a basket with a wrapped up baby okay anyway Steve anybody wants Steve is working on an index sh index every sh he sits with his computer and writes down all the in there it's right oh he wouldn't call that category call that we check him out says it's more like 10 categories came up from why does it say that they went up from Bubble they should just say they went there to teach you another thing on the side we say till he made out what does he went upwards he made a left when you have go up to is the highest country in the world so they're done on it the moral talks about it since the the the world is a ball as a circle so there's no high and low so it's referring to the highest play place in the place that you go you go to such a thing not on a physical they talk about it I just wanted to point out the the famous from Matas I always quote him because he's a very very funny man so he says that since his Yesa is and is the highest place the high is the highest country in the world is the highest city in the country we know the and is the highest neighborhood in the highest city and his yamaka as you can see is the so The Spits of his yamaka is the tallest and highest thing in the world that's what he says okay just thought I would throw that in there it's not a very flattering picture of him you should haveo but it's a very very very good picture of Zam so I thought I'll throw that in you guys could see it okay great you go to how do you know is the highest of all Nations don't swear in the name that he brought he brought them up they went from upwards all the nations show is the highest by the way I want to remind again B is starting very soon just like you did an unbelievable job in K we many I don't remember how many thousands joined over 2,000 people joined K it's a great opportunity to tell your friends about especially now in these days where we need extra extra each and every one of us individually on their own level so it's a great time to bring more people to if we're talking about making so what do you say even today's language I'm making where you say no I'm making alah from Chicago that's not how we really speak we say we're going to we are moving to that's the that's the point not from where we came nobody cares where you came [Music] from why is B mentioned because it comes to say another thing that the idea that Ezra wanted to do here we're trying to make make a a statement says Ezra was trying to clean out B that's what he was trying to do the point is not as much as it is B that's the point what happened to B Ezra cleaned it out from all the riffraff all the MIM all the other stuff that was flying around there CLE them right out right now B is pure as pure to very fine flower then he went up that's the point that's why it says so here did Ezra make them come says no they went by themselves says no he had to force them yeah a person is a mser he's sitting nicely in bille in America has a big Mansion why would he want to come up with says he forced them they no choice says no they came by themselves going explain how they come why would they come by themselves because they're arguing in this that we just said Ezra's idea and whole purpose was to make sure that there's nothing left and those kind of categories left in B why because nobody's going to watch them and nobody's going to watch them they're going to inter marry into CL there going to be a disaster it's going to be all over the place if a person is in a is a in a his own little neighborhood they know and like they have over here the the list I don't want to say what they're called you know certain list certain Predators whatever they're in certain lists so okay he lives in this place so you know not to not to go next to him don't make sh with this guy but if he's back in bubble and no are watching him he'll do whatever he wants he'll marry into into so perhaps doesn't agree that with that's what try to do and in fact a lot of M stayed in B brother says no no stay in B so if no must be that he forced them to come or you could say no everybody that that that Ezra forced that Ezra didn't force he took with him every single last mser ailable so he made such a fuss he went with a microphone around all the neighbors he says okay this house the green house right over there is Mr mser the purple house over there is another mser they were so embarrassed and so conscious of their state that they ran T Ro when we had a terrible story m a few years ago what happened to the guy the guy picked himself up and ran away is RO that's what people do people that are caught and doing terrible things they run the B CH usually we have a we have a whole slew of interesting people floating around over there that's what they do in today's day and age so today's day and age it's a little different because this internet and people find out immediately what where the guy went but if you're a normal guy and you're embarrassed of what you did and that people know they caught you red-handed the best thing for you to do is run so Ezra let everybody know what this individual did he's and this guy's and they all ran away he didn't make any announcements he grabbed them he said listen you're not going to come we'll beat you up we'll take care of you so they all came if you say says they went on their own all the countries are like do compared to and is like in other words D is a but is a recipe you put in yeast and flour and water and this and that R says he's sticking a little barley sticking different things so D is not so pure all the so in other words it goes like this bubble is the purest ER second the pures and then the rest of the countries are below so if you tell me that they decided to go by themselves and some some okay all the countries are is in other words all the're in today then so it's not as pure as b b is the purest doesn't have any he rid B of all [Music] the but if he forced them to come up so then why is considered not pure yes all but we know exactly where they live and who they are you're right that generation everybody knew we're talking about future Generations yes you could control the situation for one generation but the next generation is already too late it already gets out of hand and people won't know so so since they had a bunch of generation one they knew exactly what neighborhoods and where they live generation two it's too late too many of [Music] them I'll gather [Music] them says I'm gonna take everybody and when we get to we'll stay there for three days I'm G to look into the entire nation and from I didn't find a single lady look at the Mish ask rash question says the who came what isra say in this we're here 3 days I looked into the nation I didn't find any how's it possible that from all the people that went up asash from Ezra says I don't find any Le and in fact the M says leim did come up so what's going on here so I thought it it was a kiss from hasem for me even though it's like not really a the the proper thing but listening to this unbelievable guy from zaka he was he was composed and speaking on the Israeli TV and then we got to this part not the this part I'm not there's one part that he broke down cry you would think a human being like that who seen everything doesn't cry he cried real tears not like uh because it took him 20 minutes to get there but one of the things he said that I didn't know and I'm sure maybe some of you know and if you don't want to hear this maybe shut down the volume for a minute but I couldn't believe it because I I saw it this morning before I started learning unfortunately and then I learned this and I was like shocked one of the things they did to people before they killed them is they chopped off the fingers to torture them St for fun the they didn't St want to kill they wanted to torture and then kill chapped off the fingers so says Rashi these Le from I think for me these leim they didn't want to play the instruments brings rash the famous how how can we play the instruments the told the You're such great players play me a song so they bit off their thumbs they bit off their own fingers leim but that made them pule to Le says Ezra I counted all the leim I don't see anyim yes there's a lot of leim in terms of marriage they're good leim that's what the mishna says came up but as we saying I don't have any that play instruments in the they not for they bit their fingers off every single last one of the leev doesn't have a finger the [Music] pule and then says Rashi something very sad it could hit home here in Chicago he says and what about the rest of L that didn't bite off the fingers so a lot of them we're so comfortable in B we can relate it's beautiful houses and the cars and so cheap over here we pay for a Whoever has a Sienna minivan INR is a millioner you know that a Sienna minivan cost over $100,000 in a St every KY guy has a Sienna minivan over here so you live this that that's rash says this he says the comfort in in comfortable I don't need to go up there to should I go up there to with you says I'm not talking about the uh M right now Tom's River in Lakewood people have convertible rolls-royces that's what they're driving now that's the the latest stick to get to their private jets they come in their convertible rolls Roes anyway fine not talking about that talking about St the typical t in America so says [Music] the but if Ezra brought them up they would be very careful from them he knew exactly who where when he he was careful more with the theim and that sort but not not not with nothing to be careful from them you don't think so how do you know that e was able who told you in the mishna that he brought up sing and those who who did the gates okay so you see went up how do you know that they went [Music] up is an amazing thing he says why what's what's if a person says that he's aen it's known that he's a we have a so it's interesting says that came and he told if you go around with 300 is gonna come right away so it took of course said they took 300 they went around didn't come right he didn't come in came down he says you know from the 300 that you went around only one was a only one out 300 you hear this step only one out 3 back then so but if you have a kazaka you have a kazaka three over the sons of I think I said this before but think about this there in the they want to know if somebody's a he cla a says how do you know so they said tell us something about your childhood when you're a child tell us something special so he said that every y his mother would buy his father Pi socks he said oh that's a good Riot that he's a you ever heard of such thing did your wife ever buy your you Pi socks yourself the what know from but he was a doctor ofto so he survived because he so he flipped from he became Zionist from you s family Steve that's right I saw the name on the you have a very one of your Bubbies has a very Jewish yish name no what's her name no funny like one of these you know one of these interesting names no you're on the the sign on the don't you have like great grand Dr this we said he didn't have his own he took his wife's family his name he needed they wanted to take to prove their genealogy and they couldn't find it by they were thrown out of with they thrown out of who's says we have another called he's called because he was in charge of the wine of the king and the king would want to see this poison in the wine so you tell him you have to take aook every time you drink from from every time you give me you a cup you have to take some for yourself first if you die but it's so you had to get a to drink the wine that's why it's called Anyway said so let's see what we have here is this well not really but just the you have the that the um the wears if you look very closely so you put like a a piece of parchment that says in it obviously we didn't write it put it inside the the you ask a question and then it lights up so if you look very very closely here to what's lit up so I'll just read it out for you and maybe you can figure it out yourself and the word of Yehuda it's the D is lit up the word of the pay is lit up the word of God shin uh it shave it how do you read it over here there's extra things here is lit up and then the is lit up and then the me is lit up over there that's what Yi did F you ask him a question and it answers to you the problem is that there's no in the second this is in the second BD in other words he's telling them you cannot eat from the us you three families who don't have until until the the third B should come and won't know any they'll be you'll be able to ask right now unfortunately you're not getting any that's what he said that's what he's saying you have you can't what did you eat when you were in bubble you eating Trum you can't eat but will let you eat we have a problem according to says you look at a person you see him eat Trum So you know that he's he's a so maybe since they're able to eat truma people are going to say look the real and they're marry to them or whatever they'll do these specifically these three families everybody knew that they have a problem with the and therefore just because they e he's gonna marry them as so then what did the do for them they were eating no Trum only what else is what else is true anything that's what exactly even more than Yas what else apples oranges anything that's not a grape an olive or wheat is true the but yeah that's the first thing that comes to mind is so so what did K do Kaza did that they're able to jump up and not only eat Trum like like like vegetables but they're able to eat Trum meaning fruit from or grapes from no it could be that we never let them eat the real truma but you're asking me but people are going to make a mistake and say look the guy's eating truma he's eating vegetables from truma the the the the restaurants take 25 pounds a day of of vegetables and they give it to this specific guy oh you you see that he's a nobody nobody's going to make him a real based on him eating a few vegetables that are what did it accomplish and because we're not gonna say oh he might come to eat just let him eat whatever he's e at the end he said might be that come to eat so when it came to he's able to eat not it seems like there were only not able to eat but they were able to eat what it seems the only thing they weren't able to eat is the highest of the high meaning carbas but one level below that which is real truma Trum the seemed like they were able to eat these families no they able to eat they weren't able to they're not able consider this is interesting now what that uh this is very interesting I don't know if I knew this before that a woman her father's a she marries is so we know that after her husband dies or divorces her that she doesn't have any kids from him she go and eat truma but she can never eat the the carbas you can't eat the the the the that you give from a carb that you can never eat that's what it says in the this is the that she's not allowed to eat have a wonderful day a great chabas M at 9 o'